Treat Yourself Like You Are Someone You Care About

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  • @DrJordanBPetersonClips
    @DrJordanBPetersonClips  2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

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  • @YoMateo.
    @YoMateo. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen

    • @davebeech236
      @davebeech236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right back at ya, bro!

    • @JSp4wN
      @JSp4wN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You too bud.

    • @Sam-zu5mr
      @Sam-zu5mr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Theres a nice caring think to say. So you too👍🙂💙

    • @tracystreet8338
      @tracystreet8338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen and you

    • @BigxFrost
      @BigxFrost ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks mate

  • @citizentuck
    @citizentuck 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Changed my life when I came to this conclusion for myself. Once you give yourself the kindness and love, you are able to give it back to people need it.

  • @alyupde9337
    @alyupde9337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Funny. A month ago I decided to stop saying to myself I hate myself and start telling myself that I loved myself. Then I decided I should treat myself like someone I loved. I started to say to myself if someone other than me was where I was how would I treat them. That made me treat myself like someone I cared about. It made me nice and understanding to myself. My whole life has transformed! I also started wearing heels again and stopped slouching. I was getting back pain really bad from years of hunching over in depression and sadness. Changing my wardrobe and posture helped me a lot! (That was something I felt unworthy to do but could’ve and should’ve done a long time ago especially because I like fashion and am young and not unattractive female) I’m also learning about ways I need to heal and things I must work on but I don’t hate or blame me for just things that are some that I feel for myself that I went through and came out with that outcome but I must change and adapt and learn and grow.

  • @hgfw9295
    @hgfw9295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is true with care for ownself. We used to have this very common practice here in Poland. Your child gets sick. You take it to the doctors. Then after a week you take the child to the doctors again to find out if all the flu etc.is gone. The doctor writes down: the child was sick but is healthy now can join school again. This was so soothing for children and the stay at home for a child meant all ppl at home took care of it. And guess what? Nobody does the whole procedure once they are adults! We keep doing it for kids and we forget about our selves!

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I caught myself today… I’m scheduling to possibly pay 1k to treat my dog but beating myself over the head about my basic human needs 😢 so I found this. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @chadcutshall4920
    @chadcutshall4920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The skills of knowledge you have is seriously impressive

  • @talmadhoun
    @talmadhoun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you Dr. Peterson ❤️
    O the Ever-Lasting, O the Sustainer and Protector of all that exists.
    I seek aid through Your Mercy; correct for me all my matters and do not entrust me to my own self even for the blink of an eye, ever.
    O God I hope for Your Mercy, do not entrust me to my own self even for the blink of an eye, correct for me all my matters, there is none worthy of worship except You.

  • @greatestcait
    @greatestcait 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If the golden rule is to treat others the way you would like to be treated, I propose we call this the silver rule.

  • @whiskeymonk4085
    @whiskeymonk4085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love yourself.
    An attitude of gratitude is a key component to success.
    *It's my opinion:*
    If you don't have gratitude for the things you have, which create join your life, the universe will basically say. "Okay, you're not really interested in that anymore, so I'll stop giving it." However, If you have great gratitude and actually *incantate it* to the universe, Great Spirit, God etc..., whatever fits your description of the unifying force that binds us all together, your desires will manifest with absolute perfection.
    "I have my fingers and toes and I'm grateful for those". I'll wager that you cherish them.
    Never ever give up while you are still able. To do so is planting a seed in the fertile soils of regret. It's the single worst human emotion.
    Start today. Do it every day. Thank the laws-that-be for your bountiful life.
    You ARE the creator of your reality.
    You'll see it when you believe it. I promise.

  • @iosif-danielbalau6530
    @iosif-danielbalau6530 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What if i tend to push away those who I care about and who care about me? I tend to isolate myselfand not talk to anyone for long periods of time.

  • @happylatter-daysaint3503
    @happylatter-daysaint3503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    2:28 - This is what Christ truly taught! Love thy neighbor as thyself! Dr. Peterson explained this wonderfully! 🙌🙏🏼

    • @happylatter-daysaint3503
      @happylatter-daysaint3503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Miguel Silva Well, that's a sad thought. God loves His children always! ❤️ Romans chapter 8 ...
      38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
      39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

  • @talmadhoun
    @talmadhoun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The guys putting their claws in the air 🦞🦞🦞🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @siddharthsenapati5465
    @siddharthsenapati5465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks from India 👍

  • @rules4life337
    @rules4life337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I admire your knowledge and insight. In many ways I'm so flawed Jordan Peterson.
    I wish you were my psychologist, you strive to push the boundaries of what we can be. I know you're going through hell right now, I see it in your eyes.
    But know this, you are truly amazing and important to everyone of us . You are a child of God. Love.

  • @madmaxthrax2964
    @madmaxthrax2964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Confront the world in a courageous manner" - JBP

  • @Ragdollmaster333
    @Ragdollmaster333 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can't understand why people don't like this guy.

    • @pwnership3292
      @pwnership3292 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly it just seems to me that they catch a little short of something they disagree with or hear someone else's version of what he is. Everyone who actually watches his videos (especially the lectures) seems to have nothing bad to say about the guy (and that includes me)

  • @ignorantmangg6139
    @ignorantmangg6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice 👏

  • @lamedame_ro1745
    @lamedame_ro1745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do no harm, take no shit.

  • @cog_in_the_machine4303
    @cog_in_the_machine4303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5:52 funny, my thoughts for most of my adulthood

  • @khairyfarhan
    @khairyfarhan หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:43 onwards is the chapter: Treat yourself like someone you cared about.

  • @zhanna6257
    @zhanna6257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you people, you are cool!

  • @mariagarced1013
    @mariagarced1013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much, Pescador de Hombres.

  • @papi5377
    @papi5377 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Naprawdę dobrze się czuję ze sobą
    Potrzebowałam nieco czasu by dotrzeć do brakujących informacji.

  • @giaatta9303
    @giaatta9303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many thanks

  • @quetailion6762
    @quetailion6762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bernard Schiff is right about you 🙂

  • @zenostrixster
    @zenostrixster ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah ill treat myself how i want my child to be treated.

  • @Tru12240
    @Tru12240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simple life wisdom.

  • @Milestonemonger
    @Milestonemonger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jordan Peterson: The number one lobster 🦞

  • @elinope4745
    @elinope4745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am nowhere close to as suspicious with veterinarians as I am towards the medical industry. Suggesting that these things are similar or should be is downright ignorant.

  • @DERRICKLEONIDAS365
    @DERRICKLEONIDAS365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WITH ALL THE SUBJECTS HE TOUCH ON, HOW DOES HE STAY IN HIS WRIGHT MIND OR IS HE LIKE DOC FROM BACK TO THE FUTURE?

  • @courtnayzeitler8564
    @courtnayzeitler8564 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wondering where the vest is.

  • @tahwsisiht
    @tahwsisiht 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don't mangle with abusive people and with those who are enabling. Who are ok with that behavior and the lack of dignity of those and their own.
    If you are in a toxic environment when your abuse has been excepted, you walk away.

  • @OM-qb9lm
    @OM-qb9lm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is meant by this?

  • @animalliberationCLBB
    @animalliberationCLBB หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always pit yourself first venture no one is going to help you

  • @Cinderella227
    @Cinderella227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ✝️❤️

  • @Jamy528
    @Jamy528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💝

  • @botsbass842
    @botsbass842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @darrenpenley9601
    @darrenpenley9601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st. I will take this to heart.

  • @talmadhoun
    @talmadhoun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who is better guided: he who walks grovelling on his face, or he who walks upright on a Straight Path? - Quran 67:22

  • @johncassuri2573
    @johncassuri2573 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to be lobster n1

  • @AntonioCostaAmaral
    @AntonioCostaAmaral 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #1 Lobster :)

  • @JakobusMaximus
    @JakobusMaximus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not someone I care about though.

    • @regularity2556
      @regularity2556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fake it till you make it

    • @maverickwilliams1937
      @maverickwilliams1937 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You gotta try to make amends with yourself.
      You're stuck with you forever. You have to make a choice to help you enjoy that time.

  • @fredapel6039
    @fredapel6039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 22 of begging you to read Berserk

  • @uinisefaustinafoochong7743
    @uinisefaustinafoochong7743 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The self-loathing is actually hereditary

  • @MrGobsmack
    @MrGobsmack 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Treat Yourself Like You Are Someone You Care About.....poor mr. p. that sounds totally schitzo. and he cannot stop fidgeting.

  • @everything...interesting
    @everything...interesting 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is not universal advice, Dr. Peterson. For some people (lots, in fact), this is terrible advice.

  • @mysecondrealemail
    @mysecondrealemail 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do too much agreeable shit to people I cared about