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I just love the video its a nice video it has some tips to be dealt with especially those with a complicated long distance relationship.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanks Jessica
Complacency is the cause of the break down of long distance relationships. Its hardwork! If u have to take the bus/plane to visit her/him on a regular basis, then just do it. Success is ZERO without sacrifice!
Complacency shouldn't be the issue if both are understanding while the relationships happen because it has happened,maybe school or work for the future purpose. That's why i agreed on what said about to know when the distance end in relationship.
In long distance, things turn out boring easily. No new Topics to talk on calls. It felt we were loosing each other. Accidently, one day I found these couple question games. Lovify being my personal favorite, helped to bring back the spark. Its so funny that a couple game actually saved my relationship. We used to play it a lot and got to know a lot about each other. When you really love your partner, you will find ways to make it work :)
@@Motivation4Actionn Things started to connect better after we played lovify, but most importantly we got to know what we were doing wrong and what we expect from each other. Now, yes somedays are going to be boring but we have accepted that. Hope you will also make it buddy :)
From experience A long distance relationship hack is being with someone that genuinely loves you , everything else will fall into place 😎 That’s when you’ll get to see the person you’re with 😌
My take is that one doesn’t need to go LDR for a reality check. There are couples that live in the same city who can’t even trust each other. I think it has more to do with shared values and commitment. That builds trust which is a requirement for any healthy relationship.
Even if you are confident about your relationship, if someone wants to break your heart, like they will and nothing we can do. Promises can be made but cannot be followed.
After almost 2 years of LDR, I’m finally with the love of my life and married. It was challenging but worth it ♥️ always have ears to those who needs some advice. Wish I had found this video earlier so if you’re here now, you’re lucky ♥️
@@ShengBelmonteOfficial it’s not bad, I just don’t know what to do when I miss her. I just feel lost. There’s a 14 hour time difference so when I’m up, she is sleeping and that seems to be driving me insane
With unlimited data most of the time we sleep with our phone on , sometimes we can hear each other snoring 😅😅😅sometimes we drink coffee together ♥️technology is really playing role in our relationship
I've been in a long-distance relationship for over a year, and with the advice from this video, I'm certain that we'll make it until our long-distance relationship's end date.
Currently in an LDR,, closing the distance soon.. She's in the US and I'm in Nairobi, Kenya. I can relate to everything u said. Its all true. Its hard but very fulfilling in the end, and yes!! It works.
They say the love between the couple is intensified and excalate day by day when it comes to long-distance relationship . I'm not sure of it . Maybe it's true . But , there's a tension attached to it bz it is based on trust and trust is what counts . Thank you for sharing your views on it .
Currently I'm in a long distance relationship. Been together for over 2yrs. Sometimes i don't really feel she's far away cox she's giving me that 100% attention i needed. Commitment and consistency is actually the key here.
Greetings, I'm 19 and in my first relationship(long distance).I feel hopeful and challenged in positive way.We have certain time periods were we communicate .we are about to meet for the first time and I'm escatic. Everyday we pray for each other God help us through and I trust him 100 percent because I know my value to him and vice versa .After all the guys I turned he is the first one and hopefully my last too🥺hope you reading my comment ,have an amazing blessed day💞whatever you facing isn't PERMANENT!!!
I really like the point about an end date as it provides both parties with some level of certainty, some goal to work towards and to put measures in place to make sure the goal is realizable. Also, that you do scenario planning which provides you with alternative plans if the initial one(s) do/does not work out. Great stuff Jess.
I'm glad to have watch this video. I have been in my relationship for 6yrs and it has been distance. We do some of the things as said, but we didn't do most too and some point we nearly quit and I believe it was because we didn't try those things. Thanks , I will inject these things to strengthen my relationship 😍
I said I would never again and that guy was only 8 hrs away. This guy isn't even in my country, AND IT'S BEEN THE GREATEST! Point being distance won't matter if it's meant to be!
Not in either category... we had a relationship for a year 20 years ago and reconnected in four days together. Now counting down to our first vacation together after four months. Videocalls really saved the day. Having that old foundation of love and friendship made this possible. He's planning to eventually move to my country.
Glad you did this video. Think I requested you do this type of video because I am currently doing myself a LDR with a girl that I love unconditionally. We only live 4hours apart from each other and I will see her in a few days time. Wish me luck!
Hi Adrian just saw your message, assuming you are much younger than me....I'm 38.the biggest key to success is placing an end date.four years is sufficient enough for the two of you to decide who should move to who? And what level of commitment should be certified.Men usually know within 3-6 months if they want to fully commit to a woman or not.Good luck and all the best.
Just finding your videos and you’re so spot on!! Have now started the second year of a long distance relationship, we live on different continents and have only seen each other once, second time is being planned.. we are both having very busy lives but we keep in touch throughout our entire day as much as possible through our work which is, very busy for both of us.. Time difference can sometimes be a big obstacle but we manage and move around 🥰 She makes my life richer in the most valuable ways, even without an end date to when the long distance will end.. We are both committed while being in opposite sides of the world, and of all the relationships I’ve been in, this is the most caring and nourished one I’ve been in.. And I have never fully understood the meaning of having someone truly love me for me, and not what I have.. until now
Dear Jessica I love your readings I love your English pronunciation and I love the practical things that you bring on table regarding big problems that can be solved specially between couples before hand and not wait for a final bad ending. I want to thank you hold heartedly for your beautiful readings and one day I will go to Accra Ghana which they all say it’s the most wonderful place to visit. Lots of love and blessings to you always! 🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I try long distance relationship before, it’s crazy Lady J, especially when I am always working overseas. ( relationship is a full time job) people should know what they want and stop hurting people feelings. “ love hurts especially when you ready love that person with your mind and soul.
I have never watched your weak videos every time and video I click on there’s word of encouragement and changing someone’s life, well am in a distance relationship it’s not easy but hey we are both trying I guess this will end well am pretty sure we both running 🏃♀️ on the same page it really hurts losing someone you love ❤️ thank you so much for this video Jessica
I'm 1yr and 5 months into a long distance relationship, he's in Florida and I'm in Louisiana which is our birth state. We see each other on Thanksgiving, Easter and 4th of July, I'm preparing to move there in January. We communicate alot by phone, video chat, texting and Facebook messenger. I've been through some awful things in my life and sometimes I do get a bit worried that something might happen to cause us to break up but we both made a promise to always talk about any problems we're having.... I love him and I know he loves me.... thank you for this advice🥰🥰
Thank you so much jessica for this beautiful video i am just a month in my LDR and i was already feeling like its never going to work out and my man has been putting more effort in our relationship than i am doing because i was so afraud of the distance thing but after watching your video i am pretty sure its going to work out as i will start practicing these traits... thank you so much
Thank you Jessica for putting some light on this matter. It's really tricky to live in long distance love relationship. I bear witness to that! In fact I am giving up. Taddeo from Durham, NC.
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We agree, we were together for a couple of months before we had to be apart for a couple of months. Technology is our biggest friend, we spend so much time video calling and texting. We make goals and we speak about the future so much. This definitely helps to stay committed and it gives you something to look forward to. Also make plans to go see each other and be very open in your communication and respect towards one another. You both as a couple need to have faith. We also had tough times but we also felt that there are lots of positive aspects of being in a long distance relationship. You form different ways to show love and be grateful for what you do have. Also you learn how to read each other’s facial expressions 😊. Great video, thank you so much
I am in a LDR. It’s been 2 years and now he has traveled even further to further his studies. I really hope this longer relationship work cus I really want it too
You are the best dating coach I have ever had. Guys listen up to this girl. I really don't think it matters but I'm a totally white guy. You're awesome lady !! I'm a sub and will be looking forward your next vid.
Your gift is precious Jessica. I don't know the difficulties and challenges you do face making these clips but I want to ask you to kindly keep it up. Lives are being helped. I wish you peaceful, joyous and prosperous life such as you which all your viewers. Thank you.
Thank you so much Jessica for these tips. Being that I feel my options on relationships are limited because of my disability, I have often been challenged on the validity of a LDR (long distance relationship). I have been in this kind of relationship before, but a lot of the times she was the one who ended up growing tired of it. Over the years we have been dating online, we have made plans on when is the best time to be together but always there was some reluctance on her part to cooperate and make the relationship work. As well as other diplomatic and political BS that kept getting in the way of her coming to my country. Through your video I see that there are chances that it can work, and I'm not insane for thinking so, but only if there is FULL WILLINGNESS AND COOPERATION on both sides.
I have been on a LDR for the 3rd year now, everything was fine first 2 years, we had dates online I have been many times to see him. Last 2 months things are changed. He doesn’t answer his phone like he used too, he is making excuses he was very busy at work and too tired to call me. He goes out and I don’t hear or can’t contact him for days. He denies seeing someone but when I said it’s a woman’s intuition, he asked me who is the culprit telling me. I have stopped the connection, now he is sending me messages of love but I totally ignore it. Thanks 🙏 for your videos so many things resonated with what I am going through. Love your videos 💐🌸🌹🙏😊💜
I have been in a long-distance relationship for 5️⃣ years. Everything you mentioned here we used to do, but when the lady decided to cheat on me, she started giving me excuses about all the things she used to do. So, we are on separation and I will not forgive her! Unfortunate portion for her she misses her chance to come over to me in less than a year.
Considering some of the key things u mentioned I am sorry😔 I will simply say long distance relationship cannot work especially when it goes on for too long.
Been in one since September, no doubt it’s work. Couple of keys 🔑 Communication Faith/Spirituality because love alone won’t cut it. A marker on the calendar when you’ll meet again Commitment to connect at specified times
My partner is actually going to another country for her university and I'm so scared that we myt fail our relationship but atlist this video gave me hope thanks Jessica❤️
Thanks for insights about long distance relationships . Facetime is important to keep relationship Alive . Commitment is important as well the end date . The problem Is neither of have wanted to live in the same geographical place . That wont work. I have not had long distance that worked out .
Constant communication matters actually ,it doesnt matter if its long ir short time, what matters is you both didnt fail to talk nd knows whats going with you both sides so you can support each other,making efforts both sides matters too,updating whats going on to each other is one of the best way to be strong against cheating ,trust ,respect nd understanding where the relationship is going on nd planning as well ,putting some goals for both of you by knowing each other where is the relationship going too..
This is setting a new standard. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and it was setting a new benchmark. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I have been waiting for this to hear your options on long distance relationship Thanks for bringing it up Hope there will be more of long distance relationships tips
You just be talking to me in each and every video you put out of late. Anyways this one is super cool as well though on a sad note I have just ended my long distance relationship with the lady I seemed to love so much but figured it out we were on different pages on our path of love. Much love from Uganda Jesse and be blessed as you share more tips on all life issues.
Your A👌ESOME!!! Love how u explained everything beautifully ❤ and YESSS its SUPER HARD 2b in a long distance relationship. But its workable if ur committed n put effort in it cos if u can survive one u can do anything like TOTALLY🥰. Im in one and we are doing all ur saying and added our own, in a 9hr time difference. Im so 🙌 and u have 2 remember its more than LOVE that keeps ya.Its HARD but OH so WORTH it,U have 2 apply TEAMWORK in all u do. And most of all be flexible n understanding don't give up. Thank u 4 ur input it helps a lot. He is a blessing and works so hard 2 do everything to make sure we r doing fine, he makes me feel so secure even from afar. As u can see I could go on n on .... GOD bless u 🙏 Much ❤ 🇳🇬Bella🇮🇹
Thank you for sharing this video, I never knew the structure of keeping relationship. And after seeing this makes me want to ask my partner levels of confidence in our relationship.
This is a great video. These types of videos are always appreciated. Thank you. I'm not trying to sound negative, but I had to give up a LDR for many reasons. The one main reason that was a major sign was because I was told by her, for lack of better words, it all depends on you and you better not disappoint me because I'm going to have to give up everything and everyone I've ever loved, known, grew up with to be there with you. First off, no one's asking anybody to give up anything. I really thought about it and asked advice and everyone said that it is a recipe for disaster. There's going to be a lot of resentfulness and anger if you two get together and it doesn't work out. I was told that she was putting me in a very bad position and that if anything went wrong, it's always going to be my fault and she's always going to throw it in my face that she had to give up everything. I had to make the hard decision, but for the better of both of us, I had to work on cutting it off emotionally and somewhat physically even though it was long distance. It wasn't easy, but I had to rip the Band-Aid off sooner than later. This isn't meant to disenourage anybody or put down long distance relationships as far as people who are involved in them and who have become successful with theirs. I'm very happy to hear about the success stories. Some people despite their best efforts can't make it work solely because it's long distance.
I've been watching your videos for a while now but this one really got me because we do must of the things you mentioned. Recently, I met her and the experience was amazing. Taking pictures with Snapchat and laughing at ourselves was a moment to remember. Thanks for this video.
I watched this video to the end ,Now I realize why my girlfriend kept telling me that I'm a 1,000 Yard Husband Material ...I knew it thou ,but I didn't want to brag that I'm a good boyfriend lolz ....I do all these that you have mentioned and even do more .....I be Husband material walahi
Thank you, Jessica. I found these tips quite useful, especially as my partner recently moved to another city for studies. Will try to add one more activities to our schedules. You’re an angel 🌹
Thank you Jessica for your time and all these powerful points it truth! God bless you abundantly. Love your advice’s! And thank you for the time you take to do your videos Beautiful videos!🙏💖😇
You just came at the right time with this vedio. Thank you for coming though once again miss jessica. Love from Nigeria
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I,am in one we on the same page,both devoted Christians loyal, faithful to eachother,Am want to move to keyna and live with my fiance,she his priceless not easy,but she waiting for me,I,am very lucky video calls, daily messages, fully committed to eachother can't wait to see her she means everything to me❤
This is beyond my expectations. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Been in LDR right from the day the internet revolution started 1999..... Every time I failed and never got one so far for a serious relationship..... There are situations I chatted for years but never met and ended.....LDR always sucks and it rarely works... Except you are lucky enough..... 🙄
Great vid Jess. I wish I had this video about a year ago it might have made a difference. But, it is what it is!! Take care Jess and you will always have a friend in Cincinnati, Ohio
Thank u so much this was so good I just recently started dating this guy long distance and I really do love him because I been in so many relationships but this one is really diff and he loves God just as much as I do or is willing to get there and even though he is coming to move where I am in like a couple months I don’t want to lose our spice but I’m really willlin to make it work fr fr for him my future 🥺👉🏾👈🏾
I have been in a long distance relationship it never worked all that was happening is arguments and my fellow partner was never committed when it comes to consistency communication… all he kept on saying is that am not that person who is good in communication.. sometimes u text but the person answers you after one hour and he is seen online.. It was so complicated but he kept on telling me he loves me but it wasn’t worthy it at all.. Sometimes he could answer you watever that comes to his mouth 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Its so hard dealing with a long distance relationship especially when it comes to a person who is not willing to sacrifice anything to that relationship I hard to suffer but at the end of the day we broke up (two yrs wasted on air) 😣😣
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I've started vlogging everyone! and i'm pretty excited about it! Check out my Vlog channel (Jessica OS Vlogs). If you want to watch my very first video, Check it out here. th-cam.com/video/oz5BusWnYMA/w-d-xo.html
My name is shanice and I'm dating someone we are living same place but far and we can't see each other because I have strict parents
We shall do that
I just love the video its a nice video it has some tips to be dealt with especially those with a complicated long distance relationship.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanks Jessica
@@gloryemmanuel165 We can also share our info,I like you dear
@@gloryemmanuel165 I am happy that you listen to this lady n I would really like to know you
Complacency is the cause of the break down of long distance relationships. Its hardwork! If u have to take the bus/plane to visit her/him on a regular basis, then just do it. Success is ZERO without sacrifice!
Good info.
@@stewoutdoors3020 Thanks.. Most people get comfortable with phone calls too easily.. visit in person..
It's hard when you literally can't 🥺 LDR from USA-> Japan and our plans to meet had to get cancelled multiple times.
Complacency shouldn't be the issue if both are understanding while the relationships happen because it has happened,maybe school or work for the future purpose. That's why i agreed on what said about to know when the distance end in relationship.
@@olawalejunaidolawalejunaid9496pls i don't understand what u re trying to say..
In long distance, things turn out boring easily. No new Topics to talk on calls. It felt we were loosing each other. Accidently, one day I found these couple question games. Lovify being my personal favorite, helped to bring back the spark. Its so funny that a couple game actually saved my relationship. We used to play it a lot and got to know a lot about each other. When you really love your partner, you will find ways to make it work :)
I have also played lovify, its really a fun game :)
im going through this currently, this game really helped you? Also, do you play everyday? If not how do you find things to talk about?
@@Motivation4Actionn Things started to connect better after we played lovify, but most importantly we got to know what we were doing wrong and what we expect from each other. Now, yes somedays are going to be boring but we have accepted that. Hope you will also make it buddy :)
Never had long distance relationships work out but I really do applaud those that make it happen.
I am a guy
From experience
A long distance relationship hack is being with someone that genuinely loves you , everything else will fall into place 😎
That’s when you’ll get to see the person you’re with 😌
Real love conquers everything
LDR is the most effective way to find out if you really love each other.
What is LDR?
@@debbiea_awurabena Long Distance Relationship
@@dennisforson2810 Thank you Soo much
@@debbiea_awurabena pls give me your email address ok
My take is that one doesn’t need to go LDR for a reality check. There are couples that live in the same city who can’t even trust each other. I think it has more to do with shared values and commitment. That builds trust which is a requirement for any healthy relationship.
Even if you are confident about your relationship, if someone wants to break your heart, like they will and nothing we can do. Promises can be made but cannot be followed.
After almost 2 years of LDR, I’m finally with the love of my life and married. It was challenging but worth it ♥️ always have ears to those who needs some advice. Wish I had found this video earlier so if you’re here now, you’re lucky ♥️
I need your advice please. Mine went to USA. She decided to give me the space.she went mute without informing me.earth is hard
Need some advice 😢
@@vansoham930 im so sorry to hear this and for not getting back. I just saw this cause someone else commented on this video and I was notified.
@@DearSunflower hey how’s it going?
@@ShengBelmonteOfficial it’s not bad, I just don’t know what to do when I miss her. I just feel lost. There’s a 14 hour time difference so when I’m up, she is sleeping and that seems to be driving me insane
With unlimited data most of the time we sleep with our phone on , sometimes we can hear each other snoring 😅😅😅sometimes we drink coffee together ♥️technology is really playing role in our relationship
I've been in a long-distance relationship for over a year, and with the advice from this video, I'm certain that we'll make it until our long-distance relationship's end date.
Cool bro .
Cool bro this motivates me I'm in a ldr too
Currently in an LDR,, closing the distance soon.. She's in the US and I'm in Nairobi, Kenya. I can relate to everything u said. Its all true. Its hard but very fulfilling in the end, and yes!! It works.
How many time you guys text in a day ?
Good luck Dennis
Me as well
Am in the US ,he in Kenya ,Nairobi Hope we seal it off soon🤞🏾🤞🏾-tough to be in such distance!
@@akaims1738 am passing the same she went to USA to study now she's telling me that she needs space
@@vansoham930 she belongs to the streets💩
@@vansoham930 I'm sorry
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This is deep.. guys let's share this video to help save some relationships.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
They say the love between the couple is intensified and excalate day by day when it comes to long-distance relationship . I'm not sure of it . Maybe it's true . But , there's a tension attached to it bz it is based on trust and trust is what counts . Thank you for sharing your views on it .
Thank you so much Jessica.
These are all I do with my girl because she is in Australia 🇦🇺and I'm schooling in Malaysia 🇲🇾.
Be blessed
Currently I'm in a long distance relationship. Been together for over 2yrs. Sometimes i don't really feel she's far away cox she's giving me that 100% attention i needed. Commitment and consistency is actually the key here.
Greetings, I'm 19 and in my first relationship(long distance).I feel hopeful and challenged in positive way.We have certain time periods were we communicate .we are about to meet for the first time and I'm escatic. Everyday we pray for each other God help us through and I trust him 100 percent because I know my value to him and vice versa .After all the guys I turned he is the first one and hopefully my last too🥺hope you reading my comment ,have an amazing blessed day💞whatever you facing isn't PERMANENT!!!
It's about commitment..been there done that but it can get expensive..someone will have to decide to make that move to be together..its not easy
Very expensive. Time, money, emotions. The feeling of "separation" after limited time together is emotionally exhausting.
I really like the point about an end date as it provides both parties with some level of certainty, some goal to work towards and to put measures in place to make sure the goal is realizable. Also, that you do scenario planning which provides you with alternative plans if the initial one(s) do/does not work out. Great stuff Jess.
It requires effort and commitment from both ends. Otherwise it's just a waste of time and money.
I'm glad to have watch this video. I have been in my relationship for 6yrs and it has been distance. We do some of the things as said, but we didn't do most too and some point we nearly quit and I believe it was because we didn't try those things. Thanks , I will inject these things to strengthen my relationship 😍
😂 six years?
I said I would never again and that guy was only 8 hrs away. This guy isn't even in my country, AND IT'S BEEN THE GREATEST! Point being distance won't matter if it's meant to be!
There is one thing I'm not doing in my LDR....playing games or watching movies with her...Will add that. Thanks Jessica 😊
We just did that tonight. It’s nice..
Not in either category... we had a relationship for a year 20 years ago and reconnected in four days together. Now counting down to our first vacation together after four months. Videocalls really saved the day. Having that old foundation of love and friendship made this possible. He's planning to eventually move to my country.
Glad you did this video. Think I requested you do this type of video because I am currently doing myself a LDR with a girl that I love unconditionally. We only live 4hours apart from each other and I will see her in a few days time. Wish me luck!
Hey, how's the relationship going thusfar
You're right about your tips, I have had an ongoing LDR for 4years.
Hi Adrian just saw your message, assuming you are much younger than me....I'm 38.the biggest key to success is placing an end date.four years is sufficient enough for the two of you to decide who should move to who? And what level of commitment should be certified.Men usually know within 3-6 months if they want to fully commit to a woman or not.Good luck and all the best.
Jessica you brought a cure to so many people’s puzzle
What if ur ldr partner is beginning to act distance?
Just finding your videos and you’re so spot on!! Have now started the second year of a long distance relationship, we live on different continents and have only seen each other once, second time is being planned.. we are both having very busy lives but we keep in touch throughout our entire day as much as possible through our work which is, very busy for both of us.. Time difference can sometimes be a big obstacle but we manage and move around 🥰 She makes my life richer in the most valuable ways, even without an end date to when the long distance will end.. We are both committed while being in opposite sides of the world, and of all the relationships I’ve been in, this is the most caring and nourished one I’ve been in.. And I have never fully understood the meaning of having someone truly love me for me, and not what I have.. until now
At learning this am ready for long distance relationship, wherever my better is know that am here for you
Dear Jessica I love your readings I love your English pronunciation and I love the practical things that you bring on table regarding big problems that can be solved specially between couples before hand and not wait for a final bad ending. I want to thank you hold heartedly for your beautiful readings and one day I will go to Accra Ghana which they all say it’s the most wonderful place to visit. Lots of love and blessings to you always!
🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wholeheartedly!
I try long distance relationship before, it’s crazy Lady J, especially when I am always working overseas. ( relationship is a full time job) people should know what they want and stop hurting people feelings. “ love hurts especially when you ready love that person with your mind and soul.
I relate,i got hurt by my ld partner i realized we didn't have the same goal
I appreciate the overtone of HOPE in this video opposed to others that I've come across.
I have never watched your weak videos every time and video I click on there’s word of encouragement and changing someone’s life, well am in a distance relationship it’s not easy but hey we are both trying I guess this will end well am pretty sure we both running 🏃♀️ on the same page it really hurts losing someone you love ❤️ thank you so much for this video Jessica
I'm 1yr and 5 months into a long distance relationship, he's in Florida and I'm in Louisiana which is our birth state. We see each other on Thanksgiving, Easter and 4th of July, I'm preparing to move there in January. We communicate alot by phone, video chat, texting and Facebook messenger. I've been through some awful things in my life and sometimes I do get a bit worried that something might happen to cause us to break up but we both made a promise to always talk about any problems we're having.... I love him and I know he loves me.... thank you for this advice🥰🥰
Thank you so much jessica for this beautiful video i am just a month in my LDR and i was already feeling like its never going to work out and my man has been putting more effort in our relationship than i am doing because i was so afraud of the distance thing but after watching your video i am pretty sure its going to work out as i will start practicing these traits... thank you so much
Hey how's it going now
Thank you Jessica for putting some light on this matter. It's really tricky to live in long distance love relationship. I bear witness to that! In fact I am giving up. Taddeo from Durham, NC.
Im in Durham to bro 😂
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We agree, we were together for a couple of months before we had to be apart for a couple of months. Technology is our biggest friend, we spend so much time video calling and texting. We make goals and we speak about the future so much. This definitely helps to stay committed and it gives you something to look forward to. Also make plans to go see each other and be very open in your communication and respect towards one another. You both as a couple need to have faith. We also had tough times but we also felt that there are lots of positive aspects of being in a long distance relationship. You form different ways to show love and be grateful for what you do have. Also you learn how to read each other’s facial expressions 😊.
Great video, thank you so much
I loved your perspective Jessica❤️! Refreshing 💫🥰
I just found out about Jessica..Since morning I have been watching her video..couldn’t even cook..so addicted and informative..love you Jess
I am in a LDR. It’s been 2 years and now he has traveled even further to further his studies. I really hope this longer relationship work cus I really want it too
I wish you all the best!
Update?
Experience is the best teacher as the saying goes. He who feels it knows it.
You are the best dating coach I have ever had. Guys listen up to this girl. I really don't think it matters but I'm a totally white guy. You're awesome lady !! I'm a sub and will be looking forward your next vid.
Thanks for the support 🙏🏾
Your gift is precious Jessica. I don't know the difficulties and challenges you do face making these clips but I want to ask you to kindly keep it up. Lives are being helped. I wish you peaceful, joyous and prosperous life such as you which all your viewers. Thank you.
Thank you so much Jessica for these tips. Being that I feel my options on relationships are limited because of my disability, I have often been challenged on the validity of a LDR (long distance relationship). I have been in this kind of relationship before, but a lot of the times she was the one who ended up growing tired of it. Over the years we have been dating online, we have made plans on when is the best time to be together but always there was some reluctance on her part to cooperate and make the relationship work. As well as other diplomatic and political BS that kept getting in the way of her coming to my country. Through your video I see that there are chances that it can work, and I'm not insane for thinking so, but only if there is FULL WILLINGNESS AND COOPERATION on both sides.
Thanks Jessica for sharing, you are amazing
The hassle is if one has to get a Visa to Visit a woman in another nation or Country.
I always get something from your talks about relationships .I'm learning about doing life with others on a daily basis
Than you
Kevin x
Can’t wait. Been longing for guidance on LDR
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I have been on a LDR for the 3rd year now, everything was fine first 2 years, we had dates online I have been many times to see him. Last 2 months things are changed.
He doesn’t answer his phone like he used too, he is making excuses he was very busy at work and too tired to call me. He goes out and I don’t hear or can’t contact him for days.
He denies seeing someone but when I said it’s a woman’s intuition, he asked me who is the culprit telling me.
I have stopped the connection, now he is sending me messages of love but I totally ignore it.
Thanks 🙏 for your videos so many things resonated with what I am going through. Love your videos 💐🌸🌹🙏😊💜
I have been in a long-distance relationship for 5️⃣ years. Everything you mentioned here we used to do, but when the lady decided to cheat on me, she started giving me excuses about all the things she used to do. So, we are on separation and I will not forgive her! Unfortunate portion for her she misses her chance to come over to me in less than a year.
Hit the gym my king
@@nsilayenja oh my God? 😂
I feel like you're talking to me.
Its tough sometimes you feel like jumping off the ship
Thanks for this video.
Your smile is infectious🌞🤞🏾
Considering some of the key things u mentioned I am sorry😔 I will simply say long distance relationship cannot work especially when it goes on for too long.
Been in one since September, no doubt it’s work. Couple of keys 🔑
Communication
Faith/Spirituality because love alone won’t cut it.
A marker on the calendar when you’ll meet again
Commitment to connect at specified times
Thanks so much for the conversation its exactly 2yrs since my husband left to the US, . it has not been easy for me .its helpful to hear from you
2:40😂 you're sounding like this was in the 80's😂😂
Great info... Thanks
I'm in a long distance relationship and I feel like quitting but this has given me hope
The piece of advice is absolutely precious.your of great help to the current generation.thumbs up gal!!
My partner is actually going to another country for her university and I'm so scared that we myt fail our relationship but atlist this video gave me hope thanks Jessica❤️
Same here
Same here
Thanks for insights about long distance relationships . Facetime is important to keep relationship
Alive . Commitment is important as well the end date . The problem
Is neither of have wanted to live in the same geographical place . That wont work. I have not had long distance that worked out .
Constant communication matters actually ,it doesnt matter if its long ir short time, what matters is you both didnt fail to talk nd knows whats going with you both sides so you can support each other,making efforts both sides matters too,updating whats going on to each other is one of the best way to be strong against cheating ,trust ,respect nd understanding where the relationship is going on nd planning as well ,putting some goals for both of you by knowing each other where is the relationship going too..
This is setting a new standard. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and it was setting a new benchmark. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Thats great
Especially which the boundaries setting.
Your videos are really amazing. I have tried some of the things and they work wonders. Wish to say I appreciate your efforts in making this.
Only listening to her for the 1st time today and l looooooove the way she speaks.
I have been waiting for this to hear your options on long distance relationship
Thanks for bringing it up
Hope there will be more of long distance relationships tips
You just be talking to me in each and every video you put out of late. Anyways this one is super cool as well though on a sad note I have just ended my long distance relationship with the lady I seemed to love so much but figured it out we were on different pages on our path of love. Much love from Uganda Jesse and be blessed as you share more tips on all life issues.
Your A👌ESOME!!! Love how u explained everything beautifully ❤ and YESSS its SUPER HARD 2b in a long distance relationship. But its workable if ur committed n put effort in it cos if u can survive one u can do anything like TOTALLY🥰. Im in one and we are doing all ur saying and added our own, in a 9hr time difference. Im so 🙌 and u have 2 remember its more than LOVE that keeps ya.Its HARD but OH so WORTH it,U have 2 apply TEAMWORK in all u do. And most of all be flexible n understanding don't give up. Thank u 4 ur input it helps a lot. He is a blessing and works so hard 2 do everything to make sure we r doing fine, he makes me feel so secure even from afar. As u can see I could go on n on .... GOD bless u 🙏
Much ❤ 🇳🇬Bella🇮🇹
Thank you for sharing this video, I never knew the structure of keeping relationship. And after seeing this makes me want to ask my partner levels of confidence in our relationship.
Another good one as always! And for the consistency, thank you, Miss.
@Shafiu Sani And which part of this comment makes you think so? 🤔
Wooow have been waiting for this. Because am currently on a long distance relationship.
Thank you, I think I made a good decision by subscribing 😊
This is a great video. These types of videos are always appreciated. Thank you. I'm not trying to sound negative, but I had to give up a LDR for many reasons. The one main reason that was a major sign was because I was told by her, for lack of better words, it all depends on you and you better not disappoint me because I'm going to have to give up everything and everyone I've ever loved, known, grew up with to be there with you. First off, no one's asking anybody to give up anything. I really thought about it and asked advice and everyone said that it is a recipe for disaster. There's going to be a lot of resentfulness and anger if you two get together and it doesn't work out. I was told that she was putting me in a very bad position and that if anything went wrong, it's always going to be my fault and she's always going to throw it in my face that she had to give up everything. I had to make the hard decision, but for the better of both of us, I had to work on cutting it off emotionally and somewhat physically even though it was long distance. It wasn't easy, but I had to rip the Band-Aid off sooner than later. This isn't meant to disenourage anybody or put down long distance relationships as far as people who are involved in them and who have become successful with theirs. I'm very happy to hear about the success stories. Some people despite their best efforts can't make it work solely because it's long distance.
OMG. Listening from Nairobi Kenya. Wonderful information.
I learn a lot every single time I listen to and watch your videos.
I've been watching your videos for a while now but this one really got me because we do must of the things you mentioned.
Recently, I met her and the experience was amazing.
Taking pictures with Snapchat and laughing at ourselves was a moment to remember.
Thanks for this video.
I watched this video to the end ,Now I realize why my girlfriend kept telling me that I'm a 1,000 Yard Husband Material ...I knew it thou ,but I didn't want to brag that I'm a good boyfriend lolz ....I do all these that you have mentioned and even do more .....I be Husband material walahi
Thank you, Jessica.
I found these tips quite useful, especially as my partner recently moved to another city for studies. Will try to add one more activities to our schedules. You’re an angel 🌹
Found this very informative. I am currently in a long distance relationship five months and hopefully counting.
Thank you so much for this. I found it helpful and I'm currently in one. I will correct myself in a few areas that are weak.
Thank you Jessica for your time and all these powerful points it truth! God bless you abundantly. Love your advice’s! And thank you for the time you take to do your videos Beautiful videos!🙏💖😇
Watching this after my break up. Yey.
You just came at the right time with this vedio. Thank you for coming though once again miss jessica.
Love from Nigeria
I,am in one we on the same page,both devoted Christians loyal, faithful to eachother,Am want to move to keyna and live with my fiance,she his priceless not easy,but she waiting for me,I,am very lucky video calls, daily messages, fully committed to eachother can't wait to see her she means everything to me❤
Is she a radio presentor too, gosh her voice is awesome
Love her look & voice
Awesome, it's really educative. I'm gonna add it to my life, when I get a partner.
This is beyond my expectations. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Am in a long distance relationship. Awesome 👍.
Long distance relationship re hard never try to put your heart in pain or trouble..
I have been in long distance relationship since 2013...Thank God & Technology ...so far so fine.
Been in LDR right from the day the internet revolution started 1999..... Every time I failed and never got one so far for a serious relationship..... There are situations I chatted for years but never met and ended.....LDR always sucks and it rarely works... Except you are lucky enough..... 🙄
Thanks Jess
Exactly what I needed since I have just entered one
thank you jessica for sharing. i have taken notes. am abt to go through a long distance relatioship and i have found your advice very helpful
Another great video. Jess you're a blessing. Thanks a thousand.
Thank you mum 💖 😘, God bless you mum Jessica ❤
Love you Jessica for all of your advice and intelligent mind.
Great vid Jess. I wish I had this video about a year ago it might have made a difference. But, it is what it is!! Take care Jess and you will always have a friend in Cincinnati, Ohio
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Hey wanna be your friend? Do you mind?
@@benjaminhammond1643 Jessica's friend ? I'm sure she doesn't mind!!.
@@bryanlinville8999 yes 🙌
Where can I find and talk to you
I needed to hear something like this. Thanks for the great concern and effort for sharing
❤❤ Thanks Jessica
This was so well presented. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank u so much this was so good I just recently started dating this guy long distance and I really do love him because I been in so many relationships but this one is really diff and he loves God just as much as I do or is willing to get there and even though he is coming to move where I am in like a couple months I don’t want to lose our spice but I’m really willlin to make it work fr fr for him my future 🥺👉🏾👈🏾
I have been in a long distance relationship it never worked all that was happening is arguments and my fellow partner was never committed when it comes to consistency communication… all he kept on saying is that am not that person who is good in communication.. sometimes u text but the person answers you after one hour and he is seen online..
It was so complicated but he kept on telling me he loves me but it wasn’t worthy it at all..
Sometimes he could answer you watever that comes to his mouth 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Its so hard dealing with a long distance relationship especially when it comes to a person who is not willing to sacrifice anything to that relationship
I hard to suffer but at the end of the day we broke up (two yrs wasted on air) 😣😣