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That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
Discovering my partner's infidelity triggered a mix of emotions: sadness, anger, confusion, and a profound sense of betrayal. *Johnsonspy* stepped in to assist me remotely, providing spyware access to their social accounts
Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my BF and i gave him 2nd chance but my emotions for him is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with him bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Johnsonspy
Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
He got home from work I told him how I seen him randomly in his tow truck with a girl not woman lifting her head from his lap. He was profusely claiming that wasn’t him. After 21 years I’m more than sure I can. Recognize my husband and the next car over so cuz I wouldn’t pretent like always I believe him he put me in between bed and dresser choking me swear to god it’s true about seeing your life flash before your eyes I begged for my life for him to let go. That was last year since then I have on going nonstop anxiety. 3 days I threw him out I’m running never looking back. Thank you so much for your advice. Just confirmed from everything you said that I am definitely making the right choice because he fits every thing you have said. Your a amazing man *Johnsonspy* lucky woman your wife.
As an older man, if I could go back in time to my 20's, I'd immediately move out of the US and marry a women who wasn't American. Women from many other countries still value men.
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
They say we learn from our own mistakes kkkk The other one actually taught you how to be in a relationship you should thank her for that kkkkk just kidding
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You brought out some great points but married men and women only cheat when their routine changes. Married people don't have the time to cheat because they are trying to make what they have work so they have a routine. I'm not talking about boring things, I'm talking about the time couples spend with or away from each other. I don't mean to be lengthy but here is an example. A guy I know was paid to break up a married couple by the sister who didn't like the bride. He was paid $150 everytime he took this woman out on a date. Bit the husband and wife worked but their hours were different. She part-time real-estate usually get home before he did but it change when she met this guy. First she met him at the gym and they talked mind you pictures were taken of the two interacting. The routine never changed until he invited himself to one of her open houses. She was late getting home but she lied about why. Then they went out to lunch and she was late again, he decided to invite her to play basketball the next time they were at the gym. So she wore her sport bra and shorts and like all through their meeting pictures were taken of then hugging, him kissing her on her cheeks. The pictures were given to her husband again she was late and he asked her why. Yes she lied again. He showed her the pictures and her first words were "Let Me Explain". Her defense, were you spying on me? It was innocent but she lied because she knew what she was doing her husband might not approve. They never had sex but she was so comfortable with him she flirted back. They got a divorce after that even when he found out his sister set his wife up. He didn't marry the woman his sister wanted him to marry. Here's my point, people in relationships especially married people won't meet IG models unless they are setup too. They just don't have the time and when the routine is broken and excuses start, its a good chance they are with someone else.
If you don't want to get cheated on stay away from relationships, when you agreed to get involved getting cheated on is a big possibility ppl mind change like the weather, temptation is everywhere..
1 of the hardest characteristic to master is self-control. A person who is in tune with themselves emotionally, mentally & physically will know self-control and understand right from wrong when in a committed relationship. 🍷😊
I am 38yo divorcee. And I've never cheated on a single person in my entire life. But I've been cheated on in every relationship including my marriage. Looking back at it. Whenever I was a teen and young adult... I wasted a lot of time being committed to people who were loose with their loving. "For lack of a better term" And as I reflect... I had no business being serious and committed in any relationship. Should have been friends and played the field like everyone else. But instead I was mature and wanted a future with the women who I dated. Unfortunately they wanted to explore their options. And I was left holding the bag. Even in my marriage. I'm starting to lose hope with being with a woman as loyal as myself. Because look how well that worked out for me in my marriage. I was ready to settle down. But my ex wife just wanted a status. I've been cheated while I was dating my ex-wife... while I was engaged to my ex-wife... and during our entire marriage. Meanwhile I've never looked at another woman once. But hey... That's life. I'm doing better without a cheater dragging me down. I can focus on me and my career. One good thing that came out of our failed marriage is. We don't have any kids in common. So I don't have to deal with her whatsoever. So I consider myself blessed for not being tied down to someone who's into entertaining multiple males while being married to me. Dodge that bullet... And counting my blessings
I can't put in to words, how much of a Blessing you are! They say we don't realize how Blessed we are until the Blessing is gone! I hope my brothers and sisters see what I see! People like you only come along every century! Many Blessings my sister! REAL!
Love nowadays is scam. My woman has all of this category listed here and we are still trying to settle back once again but now i think am lucky to watch this video. May God bless you Jessica
Great video. Add to that list the woman with low self esteem, who later develops the absent wife syndrome. That's the woman who is married to a man who although tries to give her attention will be cheated on still because she is constantly daydreaming about her exs, office colleagues or any random guy who smiles at her. The issue is not that she lacks attention, the issue is no amount of attention can fill the void of low self esteem that is beneath her need for attention.
Yup I knew a woman like that. No amount of attention her husband gave was enough. She cheated on him with multiple men and he still stayed. They been married 10 years. Some guys have no self worth neither
I knew someone like this. ALWAYS wanted serious attention and tried to keep me over all the time, but what was significant to me was that she was very low self esteemed and very passive aggressive. Just blamed all other men (most specifically exes and her father) for all of her issues. And even just blamed others for all inconveniences. The need for attention is ridiculously strong and if I’m not in their sight, they go ghost to try to play us. Luckily, it’s best to just fight fire with fire until it’s all over. Also had a spending habit, used to party, airdrop pics at parties and just HU with many different men, but tries, till this day, to keep it secret and not talk about it, when you know the real colors of them.
@@techsprint4122 this the kick here. She came up with a story that she suffers from PTSD and her and her husband started going to therapy and now she is labeled as hypersexual. So now when she cheats her husband knows it's because of her "condition". Smh at that point u just got to blame the man for being stupid
I am that attention seeker woman. And that has caused me to emotionally cheat several times. Not proud of entertaining other men but like Jessica said, we need that reassurance. FELLAS just Becuz you got her doesn’t mean the work stops. We still want to feel wanted and appreciated just like the first time you laid eyes on us. ANYYWAYY God Bless y’all AMEN
I think “doesn’t mean the work stops” is the wrong choice of words. A relationship isn’t a job and if you have to try to hard you’re probably not right for each other. I get your overall point though.
I 50/50 agree because a man can do everything and still get cheated on it can be that one thing he doesn’t do like maybe not spend time with you because he has to work to pay the bills and we get upset and go emotionally cheat out of boredom or something 😢
Really enjoyed this video and many other video's you've done. I was raised in a Christian home and grew up with Christianity. All the girls I would date were from church. Everyone of those girls cheated on me. I decided to change my life and leave those girls alone. Since then, haven't been cheated on. Not saying every Christian is a cheater. Nor trying to start anything, but I feel like this should of been included with your list.
Lolol. I never dated dudes in church. It is not about being churchy. I find ppl who have a high sense of ethics/moral values better than churchy ppl. My parents are not religious but they are the most loyal couple I know. That is why when I dont even consider churchy ppl at all
@@aeiou0123 yes. I learned my lesson. Since I left that life and lifestyle. Things have been so much better for me. Not only that, they are more truthful than those so called Christian. Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone in my opinion on cheating Christian.
Ms. Jessica hit it on the nose with not bringing or inviting the man to public outings and still doing social media while so-called committed to U. I like the fact she did not mention intimacy as a factor at all and just pointed out certain characteristics that she might be creeping on U!
And again the woman who still maintain a great deal of closeness with her EXs even after you guys have started dating. Just a matter of time the Okafor's law will come into play.
They also like to spring the "we are just friends" nonsense as an excuse to have male friends. Hellooo: There is no "friendship" between a man and woman that will not ultimately lead to sex - unless the man is gay or a blood relation.
This is not true if you are better at what she was not getting from him. Which is attention. Validation. Same with a man that will stop cheating or being a ladies man. Wecwantvto be the Apple of each others eyes.
I love what you have to say about flirting!! It’s so dangerous! There is no such thing as “innocent flirting “ if you are married or in a committed relationship!! As Jessica said, “Why??” What’s the purpose or intension?? To what end?? Furthermore, what kind of message does it send to the person who you flirting with??To them it means “I might be available.” Then what happens when that person walks by and slips you a note with his/her phone number ?? Maybe you’re going through a tough time with your partner, and one day you pull that number out and dial it. I think we all know the rest of the story! If you’re totally single, flirt away! And oh, by the way, make sure the person that you flirt with is also totally single!!
Oh my, you learn something everyday. I learn to stand back, just watch her and don't be so forth coming of your asset's that you have. There are good and bad women out there, but don't be so into her that you neglect your self and the type of women you are looking for.
Welldone jessica. When something is true you just know. There is a saying. If someone show you who they are, Believe them. These are signs of a cheating spouse that people take for granted. When you don't take such signs for granted you are less likely to be burnt.
2021, Feb 26. I ended my relationship because my girlfriend was talking to many other guys, and i mean many. We had discussed it many times before and she told me im overreacting, im insecure, im controlling, but to scare me off from raising the issue again she told me that im abusive and she knew for sure ill take her very seriously if she said that, thats the day i knew for sure that my feelings dont matter to her, and that she can do or say anything to make her flirting tendencies seem right. It was hard for me to call it quits because i had fallen in love with her, but yes i had to do it and ever since i have seen myself happier than i was when i was still with her.
Sadly enough I am in that phase right now. My new girlfriend still communicates with her ex I believe ex husband and tells me she doesn't. But I just saw today that the dm back and forth. I had already asked her to please kill it, and there are still guys in her dm and her reaction to them as well. Really feel like that's not alot to ask someone to stop doing in a relationship.
She is only your wife when you are with her but becomes available to anyone when you are not with her. She will actually tell you that you do not own her. Wonder why they say you are too possessive or insecure or too much?
They married to flaunt the ring to their friends, not to be your wife. They have a dream guy in their mind and it's not you. It's unfortunate that they couldn't get the dream guy and you just tried to saved them in vain. They'll forever feel like they settled for less with you
I always advise don't beg a woman to marry you men think oooooo we are doing these people a favour am telling you.....don't kneel to propose stand and propose if she's not ok with it find another woman
What a very sensible lady. I think there is a lot of good advice here, and I do not think any apology is needed for such sensible and well balanced views
Every thing u said about in this video were bang on. One of the most well reaserched & facts about women cheating. So glad I found your channel. Keep posting such things.
Well, sold me on the 1st video,subscribed. It was actually really awesome to hear a woman speak on the subject and I took everything you said sincerely, I could tell that you had what you wanted to say in your head but you also took the time to think how to articulate certain things in a certain fashion, and your just genuine.
I watched this video and I agree you made some points worth reflecting on. I have particularly dealt with woman number 4. She didn't show me off and later broke up with me amongst other signs. I enjoyed the video. Weldone.
Man you are so correct! My last girlfriend had most of these very same traits you speak off. Writing was on the wall but I refused to acknowledge it. Love is always so blind.
That overly friendly flirting been there especially at work,with coworkers my last relationship ended this way when she finally got caught up so yeah all facts in my opinion!
I agree sis with eveythi you said. However, these traits also apply to both genders. It sucks to meet men and women of Intergrity and of moral values. In all of these, love exists and people of good heart do exist too.
Fantastic Jesse! Your delivery is amazing, however after all the pointers and the explanations, try to give the Summary pointers at the end of all said and done to assist your viewers and listeners to precisely remember the main points! God bless and good luck!
This is an invaluable advice to any man who want to get and maintain a durable and healthy relationship with a woman. One of the secrets to long life and prosperity.
🇯🇲 Any female with at least two of those tendencies should have as her medical care-giver, a Pediatrician & is worthy of a baby-sitter. She's better suited for the world of PG13 & parental consent. Many of us men assign our name of endearment "Baby" for the dual reasons of our protectorate role and the childlike temperments of some women, even beyond child-bearing.
This lady is well versed with women's character. She's excellent everything she said my gal ain't in the list but she craves attention and even complains I ain't giving her attention. I promise to up my game
Ah. Number 5 should have been worded differently. If she constantly needs attention, she is going to cheat because no amount of attention from you is going to be enough for her. So framing number 5 as a woman who "lacks attention" falls under the same female mentality that shifts the blame for their infidelity to a man by claiming she did not get up to a certain previously undefined threshold of attention from her man.
just happened to me... she constantly complained tt im not giving her enough attention, she just blamed me on cheating in order to get her way out ,,😂😂😂
I agree with you perfectly, except the fact that you should stop her from going on to the dating sites she may be visiting . My thing is where there is true love , there are no compulsions. It’s not good enough if u must resist her from doing what she wants to do . True love begins with real freedom .
Reagarding the dating app part , I straight up told the girl, look I know this is how we met , I see the app still on your phone, don´t delete the app, delete your account if you want to be exclusive, otherwise it won´t work for me. At the same time I showed her my phone and told her I would obviously do the same...NEVER ask for her to delete the app, but the account and all contacts related to it...If she becomes defensive, calls you controlling etc...walk away because you as a guy shouldn´t have to ask in the first place, but her coming to you for that.
😂😂😂 @ type #1 - very low loyalty. Jessica, I just started listening to you a few days ago and I am all ears. keep pouring our phenomenal wisdom. Blessings always.
This our generation ankasa mobile money, smart phones and the internet has spoilt things for us🤦🏿♂️ it’s sad. Cause I witnessed how our parents used to going about this things back in the days and it was nice..I like how you said attention😹
When your in a serious relationship you wake up every morning and say too yourself what can I do for this person too make her day better and she does the same thing what can she do too make your day better .Not what can I do to make My day better
Whatever you can give a woman, given your individual circumstances, she feels and it’s pretty accurate too the fact she can get that from a guy who makes 10x more or looks 10x better. Spending time, money, and intention on women is expensive. It could cost you your livelihood. If a better option happens by nature she will attach in some way to the option, or opportunity. Men can become so complacent in love. Women can still do numbers in love. Emotional cheating is more frequent than physical cheating. I’ve flirted with women that have emotional attachments elsewhere. Even though I didn’t get the draws the chemistry was unmatched. Those were and are enlightening situations. I discern times when my current gf has even put herself in a place to be flattered by another guy....
I think I gonna be your fan forever. I wish I had go through such content before I met my ex. I really wasted a lot of my time and energy on that daughter of jezebel
Yes, that table was properly shaking; but what about the type of men that WILL cheat? I'm a guy and think we all WOULD, from Captain to Cook, but is that true?
@@mannarmylie4195 "...well taken care of..." You've said it, and I fully agree. But this is why Jesssica's task is so needed in today's world, because women aren't properly taught how to take care of a man. Too many women's upbringing was impaired by the apparent need to teach them to maintain the miserable status quo of being life wrecker.
Even for the recognition *Johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
I was browsing through my TH-cam platform and accidentally got interested in one of the messages. You are amazing and like your cohesive talk, pronunciation of words. You are fantastic.
Jess,thanks for the Forensics on Relationships...! Unapologetically, I say,of course, you've heard it from so many persons,but this is my version... Jess, you're SMART, BEAUTIFUL AND JUST COOL...!
Sadly you have basically described 98% of the women out there, and pretty much how my last several relationships have gone sadly. This is the culture today, marrying, settling down, being loyal and being there for your S/O even in the worst times, and starting a family is as much a thing of the past as the 8-Tracks are, the fast partying life, in the clubs every weekend, and having multiple "options" to slide into the arms of (or slide something else into you) at the first argument or disagreement with your S/O is the now the flavor of times. If you're not on IG, FB, Tinder, Twitter, Snapchat, etc. tagging people, looking for the most likes, checking the timeline every 5 minutes so that you don't miss some earth shattering news, and posting a status about every minute of your day, then WTF is wrong with this person is how you'll be perceived. I would love to finally have a woman in my life that I can go on dates and spend quality time with just me and her, NOT me, her, and Facebook, but I'm not going to hold my breath waiting for that day since I'll die from asphyxiation first. I think most women are afraid to introduce a new man to her family/friends because more often than not jealousy ensues, especially if they see her so happy with the new guy. We all know misery loves company and there will almost always be those envious ones in her inner circle who can't bear to see her happier than they are, cock-blocking, gas-lighting, falsifications, and the old adages of "Girl, he ain't for you!", "I don't like him, you can do way better than him!". I can speak from personal experience of having a relationship ruined by friends like this, making up some lie to start a fight or create tension, something along the lines of this: "Girl, I heard your man talking to another b**ch on the phone while you walked away!". Some will flat out make it up, in my case yes I was on the phone with a woman, it was my sister calling me about a a medical procedure and needed me to take her to it because she would be sedated, well this idiot friend of hers told my lady that another woman wanted me to take her out! Perhaps everything I just mentioned here is my own personal experiences and horror stories, but I'm sure many can relate to it all.
No wonder men are so stressed and constantly trying to figure out how to keep women in a committed relationship. In my humble opinion it would be a lot better for everyone, if men could focus on themselves, their health and career rather than waste their time on women.
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That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
Discovering my partner's infidelity triggered a mix of emotions: sadness, anger, confusion, and a profound sense of betrayal. *Johnsonspy* stepped in to assist me remotely, providing spyware access to their social accounts
Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my BF and i gave him 2nd chance but my emotions for him is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with him bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Johnsonspy
Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
He got home from work I told him how I seen him randomly in his tow truck with a girl not woman lifting her head from his lap. He was profusely claiming that wasn’t him. After 21 years I’m more than sure I can. Recognize my husband and the next car over so cuz I wouldn’t pretent like always I believe him he put me in between bed and dresser choking me swear to god it’s true about seeing your life flash before your eyes I begged for my life for him to let go. That was last year since then I have on going nonstop anxiety. 3 days I threw him out I’m running never looking back. Thank you so much for your advice. Just confirmed from everything you said that I am definitely making the right choice because he fits every thing you have said. Your a amazing man *Johnsonspy* lucky woman your wife.
As an older man, if I could go back in time to my 20's, I'd immediately move out of the US and marry a women who wasn't American. Women from many other countries still value men.
Try a kenyan woman and you will cry and get depression those women are daughters of jezebel my friend risk and cry later
Filipina women are the best!
Take a Muslim woman. And you have loyalty
If you want to go with other culture. Be able to handle the culture. I Know. Have kids with 4 African women
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Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
My Ex is qualifying in all 5 categories, thank God the one i have now is nowhere among the 5, big up sis Jessica
You are still knowing each other, tell us next year kkkkk
@@SamuelMalo Hahaha nooo we are already in two years and she knows very well why i separated with my ex b'se she knows her
They say we learn from our own mistakes kkkk
The other one actually taught you how to be in a relationship you should thank her for that kkkkk just kidding
This comment cracks me up 😂😂😂
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You brought out some great points but married men and women only cheat when their routine changes. Married people don't have the time to cheat because they are trying to make what they have work so they have a routine. I'm not talking about boring things, I'm talking about the time couples spend with or away from each other. I don't mean to be lengthy but here is an example. A guy I know was paid to break up a married couple by the sister who didn't like the bride. He was paid $150 everytime he took this woman out on a date. Bit the husband and wife worked but their hours were different. She part-time real-estate usually get home before he did but it change when she met this guy. First she met him at the gym and they talked mind you pictures were taken of the two interacting. The routine never changed until he invited himself to one of her open houses. She was late getting home but she lied about why. Then they went out to lunch and she was late again, he decided to invite her to play basketball the next time they were at the gym. So she wore her sport bra and shorts and like all through their meeting pictures were taken of then hugging, him kissing her on her cheeks. The pictures were given to her husband again she was late and he asked her why. Yes she lied again. He showed her the pictures and her first words were "Let Me Explain". Her defense, were you spying on me? It was innocent but she lied because she knew what she was doing her husband might not approve. They never had sex but she was so comfortable with him she flirted back. They got a divorce after that even when he found out his sister set his wife up. He didn't marry the woman his sister wanted him to marry. Here's my point, people in relationships especially married people won't meet IG models unless they are setup too. They just don't have the time and when the routine is broken and excuses start, its a good chance they are with someone else.
Women with Father issues are prone to this as well.
Thank you Jessica but I am 21 and happy SINGLE - No Ex and no Next , It is always better to not Gamble when you don't know what the result will be
Love you program
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A woman who keeps it honest... You are one in a million Jessica... Thanks and GOD BLESS YOU...
Type 4 made me smile, it just makes it easier for one to detach if and when necessary.
Honestly lol number 4 I already knew she was a pick meshia with that one. I’m single until engagement period
Yoh... I’ve been cracking over the part U said, “... U are in deep trouble and no amount of praying can get U out.”
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@@JessicaOS u r wonderful sis. God bless u abundantly
If you don't want to get cheated on stay away from relationships, when you agreed to get involved getting cheated on is a big possibility ppl mind change like the weather, temptation is everywhere..
Good point 💯
1 of the hardest characteristic to master is self-control. A person who is in tune with themselves emotionally, mentally & physically will know self-control and understand right from wrong when in a committed relationship. 🍷😊
Ain’t that the truth
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Nah, you just gotta find a Chic that aint
a Smut🤨.
I am 38yo divorcee. And I've never cheated on a single person in my entire life. But I've been cheated on in every relationship including my marriage. Looking back at it. Whenever I was a teen and young adult... I wasted a lot of time being committed to people who were loose with their loving. "For lack of a better term" And as I reflect... I had no business being serious and committed in any relationship. Should have been friends and played the field like everyone else. But instead I was mature and wanted a future with the women who I dated. Unfortunately they wanted to explore their options. And I was left holding the bag. Even in my marriage. I'm starting to lose hope with being with a woman as loyal as myself. Because look how well that worked out for me in my marriage. I was ready to settle down. But my ex wife just wanted a status. I've been cheated while I was dating my ex-wife... while I was engaged to my ex-wife... and during our entire marriage. Meanwhile I've never looked at another woman once. But hey... That's life. I'm doing better without a cheater dragging me down. I can focus on me and my career. One good thing that came out of our failed marriage is. We don't have any kids in common. So I don't have to deal with her whatsoever. So I consider myself blessed for not being tied down to someone who's into entertaining multiple males while being married to me. Dodge that bullet... And counting my blessings
Traveled that same road my friend.
I can't put in to words, how much of a Blessing you are! They say we don't realize how Blessed we are until the Blessing is gone! I hope my brothers and sisters see what I see! People like you only come along every century! Many Blessings my sister! REAL!
Love nowadays is scam. My woman has all of this category listed here and we are still trying to settle back once again but now i think am lucky to watch this video. May God bless you Jessica
Guess i really find one woman thats stand out for the guys. You are that eye opener thumbs up .
Great video. Add to that list the woman with low self esteem, who later develops the absent wife syndrome. That's the woman who is married to a man who although tries to give her attention will be cheated on still because she is constantly daydreaming about her exs, office colleagues or any random guy who smiles at her.
The issue is not that she lacks attention, the issue is no amount of attention can fill the void of low self esteem that is beneath her need for attention.
You're saying something.
Yup I knew a woman like that. No amount of attention her husband gave was enough. She cheated on him with multiple men and he still stayed. They been married 10 years. Some guys have no self worth neither
I knew someone like this. ALWAYS wanted serious attention and tried to keep me over all the time, but what was significant to me was that she was very low self esteemed and very passive aggressive. Just blamed all other men (most specifically exes and her father) for all of her issues. And even just blamed others for all inconveniences. The need for attention is ridiculously strong and if I’m not in their sight, they go ghost to try to play us. Luckily, it’s best to just fight fire with fire until it’s all over.
Also had a spending habit, used to party, airdrop pics at parties and just HU with many different men, but tries, till this day, to keep it secret and not talk about it, when you know the real colors of them.
@@CookWithStephh She was probably good at hiding it. I ask myself why would they ever tell the truth.
@@techsprint4122 this the kick here. She came up with a story that she suffers from PTSD and her and her husband started going to therapy and now she is labeled as hypersexual. So now when she cheats her husband knows it's because of her "condition". Smh at that point u just got to blame the man for being stupid
My love for your content has really grown, madam intelligent and authentic. Kenya is represented.
I love kenya 🇰🇪😍
@@JessicaOS you're welcome anytime, remember to travel with your bike.
I am a jamaican and love kenyan people,big up
@@dwightclarke246 welcome anytime brother. We love you Caribbeans too, you'll always be our brothers of descent.
@@dwightclarke246 She's a Ghanaian, not a Kenyan
I am that attention seeker woman. And that has caused me to emotionally cheat several times. Not proud of entertaining other men but like Jessica said, we need that reassurance. FELLAS just Becuz you got her doesn’t mean the work stops. We still want to feel wanted and appreciated just like the first time you laid eyes on us. ANYYWAYY God Bless y’all AMEN
Once I get a woman undressed....no attention you will ever get afterwards. That's how it works for most men.
I think “doesn’t mean the work stops” is the wrong choice of words. A relationship isn’t a job and if you have to try to hard you’re probably not right for each other. I get your overall point though.
And what attention do you give for your guy?
Excuses 😑 if I gotta work that hard then you not the 1 for me respectfully
I 50/50 agree because a man can do everything and still get cheated on it can be that one thing he doesn’t do like maybe not spend time with you because he has to work to pay the bills and we get upset and go emotionally cheat out of boredom or something 😢
Jessica, Jessica, has anyone told you that your voice is powerful!! No forced accent, just pure eloquency and command!!!
I wish that I had found that type of woman on the first go. A virtuous woman is good to find.
Really enjoyed this video and many other video's you've done. I was raised in a Christian home and grew up with Christianity. All the girls I would date were from church. Everyone of those girls cheated on me. I decided to change my life and leave those girls alone. Since then, haven't been cheated on. Not saying every Christian is a cheater. Nor trying to start anything, but I feel like this should of been included with your list.
Lolol. I never dated dudes in church. It is not about being churchy. I find ppl who have a high sense of ethics/moral values better than churchy ppl. My parents are not religious but they are the most loyal couple I know. That is why when I dont even consider churchy ppl at all
@@aeiou0123 yes. I learned my lesson. Since I left that life and lifestyle. Things have been so much better for me. Not only that, they are more truthful than those so called Christian. Thank you for making me feel that I'm not alone in my opinion on cheating Christian.
Ms. Jessica hit it on the nose with not bringing or inviting the man to public outings and still doing social media while so-called committed to U.
I like the fact she did not mention intimacy as a factor at all and just pointed out certain characteristics that she might be creeping on U!
And again the woman who still maintain a great deal of closeness with her EXs even after you guys have started dating. Just a matter of time the Okafor's law will come into play.
They also like to spring the "we are just friends" nonsense as an excuse to have male friends. Hellooo: There is no "friendship" between a man and woman that will not ultimately lead to sex - unless the man is gay or a blood relation.
Yes bro I had the same experience
This is not true if you are better at what she was not getting from him. Which is attention. Validation. Same with a man that will stop cheating or being a ladies man. Wecwantvto be the Apple of each others eyes.
@Chizoba Ani 😆😆😆😆😆
Oya come and explain Okafors law
I love what you have to say about flirting!! It’s so dangerous! There is no such thing as “innocent flirting “ if you are married or in a committed relationship!! As Jessica said, “Why??” What’s the purpose or intension?? To what end?? Furthermore, what kind of message does it send to the person who you flirting with??To them it means “I might be available.” Then what happens when that person walks by and slips you a note with his/her phone number ?? Maybe you’re going through a tough time with your partner, and one day you pull that number out and dial it. I think we all know the rest of the story! If you’re totally single, flirt away! And oh, by the way, make sure the person that you flirt with is also totally single!!
Nice one...we love you Jessica..from Kenya East Africa
Same here
repping the 254 too
I would call her the female version of Amerix
@@evansmboya1210 on some things.sometimes her biology kicks in.kumbe Hii mbogii ya Kenya tuko Kila mahali .
254 yoooh
Well said, I have to say this is very accurate. Use your instincts and read between the lines. Another name for woman #1 would be....The Gold Digger!
This presenter is spot on. Well outlined Nubian Princess.
she is the Queen
She is one of the best and famous presenters in Ghana
@@agyapongdaniel nice to know
@@agyapongdaniel oh thanks..it's first time listening to her and I wanted to know where she comes from.
Oh my, you learn something everyday. I learn to stand back, just watch her and don't be so forth coming of your asset's that you have. There are good and bad women out there, but don't be so into her that you neglect your self and the type of women you are looking for.
Welldone jessica. When something is true you just know. There is a saying. If someone show you who they are, Believe them. These are signs of a cheating spouse that people take for granted. When you don't take such signs for granted you are less likely to be burnt.
7:26 No amount of prayers? That got me!😂😂😂
Best part of the video
😆 🤣 😂 BARS
Unfortunately it's extremely difficult to find the right person these days
Pretty much
Very true. There's a saying that if you hear a whisper and you don't pay attention to it. Sooner or later you're going to hear a scream.
2021, Feb 26. I ended my relationship because my girlfriend was talking to many other guys, and i mean many. We had discussed it many times before and she told me im overreacting, im insecure, im controlling, but to scare me off from raising the issue again she told me that im abusive and she knew for sure ill take her very seriously if she said that, thats the day i knew for sure that my feelings dont matter to her, and that she can do or say anything to make her flirting tendencies seem right. It was hard for me to call it quits because i had fallen in love with her, but yes i had to do it and ever since i have seen myself happier than i was when i was still with her.
Sadly enough I am in that phase right now. My new girlfriend still communicates with her ex I believe ex husband and tells me she doesn't. But I just saw today that the dm back and forth. I had already asked her to please kill it, and there are still guys in her dm and her reaction to them as well. Really feel like that's not alot to ask someone to stop doing in a relationship.
And the table really got shook........ 👌🏾
She is only your wife when you are with her but becomes available to anyone when you are not with her. She will actually tell you that you do not own her. Wonder why they say you are too possessive or insecure or too much?
Lol those one's too. They change after marriage though they usually shows you signs of you're quick enough to pick.
Hahaha, I can relate to this 😂
Huh??
They married to flaunt the ring to their friends, not to be your wife. They have a dream guy in their mind and it's not you. It's unfortunate that they couldn't get the dream guy and you just tried to saved them in vain. They'll forever feel like they settled for less with you
I always advise don't beg a woman to marry you men think oooooo we are doing these people a favour am telling you.....don't kneel to propose stand and propose if she's not ok with it find another woman
You just spoke the truth, especially point 1 and 3. U just spoke about my immediate past chic.
What a very sensible lady. I think there is a lot of good advice here, and I do not think any apology is needed for such sensible and well balanced views
I gave up social media and when it was her turn she had a special reason why she had to have it
Now the table is unrepairable, thank you Jessica 🤣🙏🏾
😂😂😂😂
Every thing u said about in this video were bang on. One of the most well reaserched & facts about women cheating. So glad I found your channel. Keep posting such things.
Well, sold me on the 1st video,subscribed. It was actually really awesome to hear a woman speak on the subject and I took everything you said sincerely, I could tell that you had what you wanted to say in your head but you also took the time to think how to articulate certain things in a certain fashion, and your just genuine.
Thanks fpr the sub
I watched this video and I agree you made some points worth reflecting on. I have particularly dealt with woman number 4. She didn't show me off and later broke up with me amongst other signs. I enjoyed the video. Weldone.
Some women will show you off on some of her social media, simply to get at or hurt some specific guy out there
We Jamaican men need to sit at the feet of this beautiful and Intelligent lady from Mama Africa. Really leant a lot. Thanks Jessica.
That a well made research from my sister. I recommend every man to hear this and decide for themselves 🤔🤔
You are genius Jessica thanks for the info
Men to thirsty
Man you are so correct! My last girlfriend had most of these very same traits you speak off. Writing was on the wall but I refused to acknowledge it. Love is always so blind.
Love is not really blind but people are blind u was blind not love
People are something else
So on point!I wish I'd known this two years back!All the same thanks alot,just confirmed and learnt alot
Right on I found out 4 years to late but these point are right on!!!
That overly friendly flirting been there especially at work,with coworkers my last relationship ended this way when she finally got caught up so yeah all facts in my opinion!
This is right on point . Most of us get blind on these main points and end up in regrets. I have no great memories of "love" relationship.
The people disliking are probably these women 😂😂🚶♂️
Yep because they are the ones she's talking about
I agree sis with eveythi you said. However, these traits also apply to both genders. It sucks to meet men and women of Intergrity and of moral values. In all of these, love exists and people of good heart do exist too.
Nah some traits like "Attention" its doesn't apply on MEN . we don't put attention as priority on our relationships . RESPECT is on top to most men .
Fantastic Jesse! Your delivery is amazing, however after all the pointers and the explanations, try to give the Summary pointers at the end of all said and done to assist your viewers and listeners to precisely remember the main points! God bless and good luck!
Hey Alot Of Men Cheat Too and I Always Tell Folks If The Situation Isn't Working Out The Best Thing To Do Is Break Up Then Move Forward To The Next.
Jessica is such a beautiful soul. My kinda of woman
You must be blind she very handsome
@@boldandnew crazy stuff lol
Wtf
Clown 🤡
@@flintvalentine4020 🕳
Jess you just rocked the boat with this one🤣.
This is an invaluable advice to any man who want to get and maintain a durable and healthy relationship with a woman. One of the secrets to long life and prosperity.
Lmao the way she put her head down when it came to girl #5: "The woman who lacks attention" *head drop* 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Am watching from kenya great content everyday
This list literally describes my EX to a T... boy am I glad I'm out of that situation!
Me 2 man...
🇯🇲 Any female with at least two of those tendencies should have as her medical care-giver, a Pediatrician & is worthy of a baby-sitter.
She's better suited for the world of PG13 & parental consent.
Many of us men assign our name of endearment "Baby" for the dual reasons of our protectorate role and the childlike temperments of some women, even beyond child-bearing.
I'm very sure that so many ladies will surely fight JESSICA for exposing them
This lady is well versed with women's character. She's excellent everything she said my gal ain't in the list but she craves attention and even complains I ain't giving her attention.
I promise to up my game
Jess, wobenya asɛm na court apɔn. 😆🤣
🏃♀️🏃♂️
All the same, great content as always. 👌
Kudos!
Thankyou Jess, very informative content....Am all the way from South Africa.
Ah. Number 5 should have been worded differently.
If she constantly needs attention, she is going to cheat because no amount of attention from you is going to be enough for her.
So framing number 5 as a woman who "lacks attention" falls under the same female mentality that shifts the blame for their infidelity to a man by claiming she did not get up to a certain previously undefined threshold of attention from her man.
You're right
just happened to me... she constantly complained tt im not giving her enough attention, she just blamed me on cheating in order to get her way out ,,😂😂😂
Agreed
We know this,bring what we don't know and what kills us slowly.
Sister ... I'm sending love to you .... I'm experiencing #2 & #3 right now ... you're confirming my thoughts ...
I agree with you perfectly, except the fact that you should stop her from going on to the dating sites she may be visiting . My thing is where there is true love , there are no compulsions. It’s not good enough if u must resist her from doing what she wants to do . True love begins with real freedom .
She don't have to be materialistic. She could just be dumb. Fall for anything a new guy tells her.
I've had someone like this. No jokes. She's dumb
Reagarding the dating app part , I straight up told the girl, look I know this is how we met , I see the app still on your phone, don´t delete the app, delete your account if you want to be exclusive, otherwise it won´t work for me. At the same time I showed her my phone and told her I would obviously do the same...NEVER ask for her to delete the app, but the account and all contacts related to it...If she becomes defensive, calls you controlling etc...walk away because you as a guy shouldn´t have to ask in the first place, but her coming to you for that.
😂😂😂 @ type #1 - very low loyalty. Jessica, I just started listening to you a few days ago and I am all ears. keep pouring our phenomenal wisdom. Blessings always.
This our generation ankasa mobile money, smart phones and the internet has spoilt things for us🤦🏿♂️ it’s sad. Cause I witnessed how our parents used to going about this things back in the days and it was nice..I like how you said attention😹
Thanks for this content i just leant my mistake no 1 to 3 was what i was into until my eyes 👀 was open
My notification bell is always on😂😂. I am watching from Anambra, Nigeria. Thanks for sharing. Your contents are always good. Keep up the good work🙌🙌.
She’s right you see those that seek attention are so annoying they feel like drop everything for me and they are also so selfish it always about them
When your in a serious relationship you wake up every morning and say too yourself what can I do for this person too make her day better and she does the same thing what can she do too make your day better .Not what can I do to make My day better
Thank you, out of the 5 my ex has 4 of those qualities I didn't want to convince myself
This comment right here! 🙌🏽
Great thing you saw this vid
Nice content I must confess, much love from Anambra in Nigeria
Oba people, how obi cubana and groups, I hear say u dey stone bundles of currency there
Whatever you can give a woman, given your individual circumstances, she feels and it’s pretty accurate too the fact she can get that from a guy who makes 10x more or looks 10x better. Spending time, money, and intention on women is expensive. It could cost you your livelihood. If a better option happens by nature she will attach in some way to the option, or opportunity. Men can become so complacent in love. Women can still do numbers in love. Emotional cheating is more frequent than physical cheating. I’ve flirted with women that have emotional attachments elsewhere. Even though I didn’t get the draws the chemistry was unmatched. Those were and are enlightening situations. I discern times when my current gf has even put herself in a place to be flattered by another guy....
I think I gonna be your fan forever. I wish I had go through such content before I met my ex. I really wasted a lot of my time and energy on that daughter of jezebel
You forgot #6 - Basically, any woman who isn't sexually satisfied with you.
That the only one that truly matters 😂🤣
She went over that
That's so true..
@@TrillBill In the words of Chris Rock. "A man, (or woman) is ONLY as faithful as their options.
I know right,i lost a bunch of them because of that...but don't say nothin
Jessica If i found a women like you I would love her each day on earth and for eternity after this existence, god bless u Jessica
Wow.... For so long I thought I was the problem
Seems I've been dating the wrong type of women all along
Thanks alot Jessica.... 🔥
Good command of English! I like how you sound, crisps and clear and the mic 🎤🎙🎤 projects it well
I agree
@@theresachikondo3067 I know right ✅
Learned a lot ms O, thank you.
Jessica I just want to say may God bless you strengthen you and keep you in all your doing
Spot on... problem is 99% of young women out there are all of these five ... sad but true...
This is really a great lesson💯💯💯
Yes, that table was properly shaking; but what about the type of men that WILL cheat? I'm a guy and think we all WOULD, from Captain to Cook, but is that true?
Not so. A man that is well taken care of by an attractive wife and on his purpose has no time for the distraction of random women.
@@mannarmylie4195 "...well taken care of..."
You've said it, and I fully agree.
But this is why Jesssica's task is so needed in today's world, because women aren't properly taught how to take care of a man.
Too many women's upbringing was impaired by the apparent need to teach them to maintain the miserable status quo of being life wrecker.
Even for the recognition *Johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
I was browsing through my TH-cam platform and accidentally got interested in one of the messages. You are amazing and like your cohesive talk, pronunciation of words. You are fantastic.
Jess,thanks for the Forensics on Relationships...! Unapologetically, I say,of course, you've heard it from so many persons,but this is my version... Jess, you're SMART, BEAUTIFUL AND JUST COOL...!
I just love this lady, world class ❤️ 💕
The dislikes are from the hit BIG FIVE. Like they say: "through out a stone and let the hit dogs holla".
Sir Bob said ..
who the cap fit, let them wear it.
Wow i love this, everytime i watch your video I learn something new, all the way from Kenya
Great, I think I have this also
I have noticed some women may feel their friends may take you away from them and may intend hiding you from them.
Thank you..that last advice made the whole video sensible 👏
Glad it was helpful!
Sadly you have basically described 98% of the women out there, and pretty much how my last several relationships have gone sadly. This is the culture today, marrying, settling down, being loyal and being there for your S/O even in the worst times, and starting a family is as much a thing of the past as the 8-Tracks are, the fast partying life, in the clubs every weekend, and having multiple "options" to slide into the arms of (or slide something else into you) at the first argument or disagreement with your S/O is the now the flavor of times.
If you're not on IG, FB, Tinder, Twitter, Snapchat, etc. tagging people, looking for the most likes, checking the timeline every 5 minutes so that you don't miss some earth shattering news, and posting a status about every minute of your day, then WTF is wrong with this person is how you'll be perceived. I would love to finally have a woman in my life that I can go on dates and spend quality time with just me and her, NOT me, her, and Facebook, but I'm not going to hold my breath waiting for that day since I'll die from asphyxiation first.
I think most women are afraid to introduce a new man to her family/friends because more often than not jealousy ensues, especially if they see her so happy with the new guy. We all know misery loves company and there will almost always be those envious ones in her inner circle who can't bear to see her happier than they are, cock-blocking, gas-lighting, falsifications, and the old adages of "Girl, he ain't for you!", "I don't like him, you can do way better than him!".
I can speak from personal experience of having a relationship ruined by friends like this, making up some lie to start a fight or create tension, something along the lines of this: "Girl, I heard your man talking to another b**ch on the phone while you walked away!". Some will flat out make it up, in my case yes I was on the phone with a woman, it was my sister calling me about a a medical procedure and needed me to take her to it because she would be sedated, well this idiot friend of hers told my lady that another woman wanted me to take her out!
Perhaps everything I just mentioned here is my own personal experiences and horror stories, but I'm sure many can relate to it all.
My man is hurt
No wonder men are so stressed and constantly trying to figure out how to keep women in a committed relationship. In my humble opinion it would be a lot better for everyone, if men could focus on themselves, their health and career rather than waste their time on women.