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Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person
Well said. What irks me is that they feign being offended when I ask for sex or make advances suggestive of the same. What did they think I wanted in the first place? That is a turn-off for me personally.
This is about early dating. They usually don't like you this much on first sight. They might be interested, and give you some credit. But you surely can scare girls away.
Jessica I'm a big fan! My name is Jonas and I'm from Sweden. Soon I'll be coming to Ghana for my sixth time. Your videos are very informative and helpful
I’m a woman, and now new subscriber from Toronto. I have no clue how I ended up here, but I’ve been binge watching your channel for a day now😄 and you are hitting the nail on the head! Great advice to some of these men and us women as well. Much appreciated!🙌🏾
Dear Jessica although we are all slightly different you have just hit on everything you’ve said in a proper manner and with a deep meaning of behaviours that we should follow normally with our loving women. I simply love your readings they’re so good and instructive and all I can tell you is I’m gonna follow them as long as you keep on giving them to us. Best regards to Accra Ghana lots of good luck and good wishes to you and your family always. Thank you thank you thank you. 🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person
1) Hahaha 'I love you' within minutes??? My goodness that's actually pathetic. It takes 3 months minimum to fall in actual love 2) Give them space and the benefit of the doubt. This was one indicator of most successful relationships (assume positively about your partner rather than negative) It can be difficult if you've experienced dating lying trash haha. 3) Talking about your ex other than random facts etc is a no go. Talk to a therapist about your ex. 4) Lol, so a man has to give his girl space and freedom but then is also expected to finance her freedom? Choose one, you don't deserve to have both unless you're into the relationship at least 6 months. 5) Unless she's a virgin or you guys are in your teens then it's 3 dates boys. If no action then move on, she's probably using you for free food/meals lol. If she holds back that much then let her do it with another guy. 6) Yes! Direct, straightforward, honest, transparent about your intentions is so rare these days. Many guys will say whatever it takes to get you in the sack then they ghost. Pathetic weak men use this tactic. 7) If you're timid, go see a therapist to see why. Get your bloodwork checked to see if your testosterone levels are normal and not low. Decent list my dear.
Steeve Harvey has written a book entitled "think like a man and act like a lady" I think you have to write a book entitled "understand ladies". Thanks a lot Jess!
@Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!
@Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!
Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person.
U made mention Ghana guys rush in proposing to girls but the girls are opposite stingy girls always expect the guys to provide as if they mother them or father them so the equation balance,
So Jessica, you live in Ghana!? Interesting. I don't know much of the African Continent except for very short visits to Morocco, Mozambique and Angola. I was born in Portugal but I actually live in USA. It's great to hear the point of view of a girl about these matters. Love your videos.
Love this singing introduction. You make my morning. Planning on taking a trip this new year for a week or more. Maybe Spain and Italy and Ghana. Keep stuff coming but please have a life for you too. Hoping all the best comes your way.😁
Well if its not the brilliant Jessica herself again!, Another masterpiece. Words fail me! Keep up the good work Jess! Such a blesser to men!.... 2 sec after first meeting in my vicinity... "BABY GIRL I AM SOOO CRAZYYY ABOUT YOUUUU...YOU ARE THE AIR THAT I BREATHE..." watching your content with much love from MALAWI Davie here! Peace!
Lol. I remember when I was making that deadly mistake. Telling a girl I like her, so soon. I want us to start a relationship, bla bla bla 😆. Is either she stop answering my calls or start avoiding me. They don't want to be caged so soon. Especially young women in their 20s. Yes, somehow those moves make sense but it's the things that doesn't even make sense that works better with women. You just gotta ACT don't ask.
@@Deferrybouman It's not because they're the wrong women. As a man you need to improve on how to handle women. Simping or telling her you like or love her so soon will ruin your chances. It's not really their fault. It's women's nature. You can start a relationship with her without telling her and she'll be the one wanting a serious relationship. That is what I didn't know
@@josefelfinito6925 if they dont go fast enough in and not showing that they really want me than i dont want them anymore i give up soon because i am not 16 i dont want to be her dog or something
If she doesn't want to start a relationship with me so soon,she shouldn't come back to me for a relationship after being run over by other guys..... A girl that is interested will wish you tell her you love or like her really quick
Great tips, I like how you put the words down, it's easy to find stuff you did back in your past and see it yourself like "you know, I'm guilty, I've actually done some of that before, maby that's why bla bla bla" Love your content, keep up girl! Ohh, also love your voice, the expressions and all, you are confident, powerful women, but still be ladylike, not overwhelming or too aggressive/passive! I like people who can actually talk about stuff, specialy "general life stuff" that happen everyday, but being smart of it, knowing what they talking! Much love, great channel, the best singing evolved ever also haha 🤓🙈💚
There's more than one kind of intimacy and if you meet a woman that never lets her guard down to be intimate with you on the simplest level of intimacy it's time to go find another woman because something is wrong but it isn't the man in front of hers fault. My grammar may be off but I'm sure you get the idea.
I get your point and it's true. Some ladies out there won't just let their guard down due to whatever experience they might have, but you keep thinking you are not man enough!
Wrong! When a man who completely dresses in adamantium and walks as though vibranium is his daily diet, suddenly makes it a point to start conversing with the hottest girl who stands with her best friend in the room with words like "hey cutie, you know I could carry you out to the most distant offshores of Busua beach and we completely get lost in choice tunes for days because i can't imagine anything other than my imagination that I love you" says this with a good enough tone that anyone around can audibly hear and he spreads out his fingers to greet the lady's closest friend and shows the whole room that he actually doesn't give a damn about walking away from this girl anytime and in any style that he chooses. Wait and see if this girl will not die to be this "cool" guy's girlfriend...!! How fast was this??? 3 mins... If you get so unlucky that I accidentally meet you, I will try this on you and you will find yourself dying to find a way to break with your boyfriend inorder to strike a deal with me..!!! You will walk back here to You tube with heads low to edit this video... I Wana tell you miss TH-camr, alpha males dictate their odds with women. Certainly ghana dudes don't know how to do it so fast. I mean your first point
A big turn off , DON'T BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR PHONE ! lt happened to a friend of mine. He went on a lunch date and the woman she answered every call that came. She should have ( unless she was expecting an emergency call), turned it off. It annoyed him so much he said he was going to the men's room and walked out the side door and left her there.
#1 desperation, loneliness, lack of confidence, immaturity, horniness... amongst others declare love at first sight. The concept of live at first sight is infatuation in 99% of all cases. #6 being too dependable and predictable bores the woman who is constantly seeking drama. She will get bored and seek outside entertainment. Bad boys have this part right.
Great advice...just dat the presence of social media has changed the dynamics. Social media is catalysing things. At the same time you dont want to waste your time n resources on a lady whose mind is already on another guy only to realise you were her number 3.
Great advice I needed this! I'm having difficulties with myself as I pursue this older woman. My only true hurdle is being timid. I'm trying to focus on being laid back but direct but don't want to say too much to push her away. I'm gonna have to watch this again
I think talking about ex’s is important but you have to feel out the connection between you and this new person first. It’s always good to talk about what didn’t work in past relationships and what you’ve learned.
Live your life seeking to please a woman, and you will be MISERABLE for the rest of your life. If she is into u she will find a way to always be with you, not the other way around where she always looking for a reason to leave u. Get that and even the words I LOVE U will work out at first sight
I really love my gf but we broke up bcus of my ex so I lied to her, she felt pity for me, and I didn't really like the way it made her feel so i told her the truth and she became so disappointed at me for ever lying to her and I've tried to keep things going between us but all to no avail she still loves me but she's scared if she could really rely on me and I don't really know how to prove that cus we are still in a long distance relationship, we've never met each other,,,I really to see her some day but I can't go to her bcus she's in the USA and my status won't let me, ask me anything other thing you can help me with, I'm willing to do anything to make her my lady and wife
First of all Jessica you just as beautiful as you are amazing, your intelligence, advice and information on this subject is just like having a cheat code manual! Powerful stuff.. U created a monster. 😂
Hie sister Jessica .I am one of your followers from Zimbabwe. You are telling us true facts and extrinsically motivating us as well. Keep it up, we are waiting for more videos from you. Stay safe and blessed sister ,wishing you the best in life.
Love is a problem it tickles the heart worries the brain easy to solve but hard to explain . Love is foreign to our nature, becos Love is of God and Love is God's character . Hes the one who initiates the first marriage relationship of our two parents Adam and Eve in the garden of eden, then comes Satan and cause decay on that marriage. well let God be the centre to amend all broken marriage relationship, the only remedy, solution, and answer to our personal affairs together with constructive advices and council presented. Thank you for being so cool and so inviting in your presentation sis Jessy,!!
Do you know something, Jess? It is a misunderstanding of how we consider that culturally. Because in our culture, "me p3wo or me p3 was3m, translate into that in English. So, if you are talking to Ghanaian men in English, that's what you are gonna get. And sometimes, it's what some of the women themselves go out to say when a guy fails to go full throttle after the first meeting.
I really enjoy your videos and advices..most of all your vocals are on point man😘..To be frank with I enjoy your vocals more than the advices even though am facing challenges in my relationship😔😔Keep it Up big sis🤟
I met a lady and to be honest it was love at first sight but i didn't tell her. We have been friends for 5 years now and we both have fallen in love automatically😍
Thank you for your teaching, i just fail one lady few days ago, and i realized i was in a hurry to be in love with the lady, but at first she was really interested in me always coming yo my work place just to see me .
Jessica somebody is redirecting me other of your comments for to me! I only want your comments when you have the time as I only will socialize with you and not anyone else! 🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️
Hi Jessica im from South Africa (Nelspruit). Thank you so much for sharing everything with us for free.. you really changed my love life into a perfect one, I also love your academic english. God Bless you!
I really appreciate your quality advise and strength of character . Your standards and values comes across from the quality of advice you provide. Much appreciated, keep up the great work.
This is just wonderful. A couple days back I wrote on a very informative sermon by Dr. Charles Stanley ( Intouch ministries ) I said it : It take three seconds to tell a woman I love you and ask why ? it may take hours to explain it . But ultimately it will take a life time to prove your love. True friendship is base on Humility, Honesty , Patience , loyalty , no two people are the same. It would be just perfect if God is invited in the decision making process before you start: OIL and WATER can't mixed , Unequal yoke . Very enjoyable, thanks.
Not being straight forward but don't push for sex too soon? oooo I forgot don't push for a relationship... Gents get your money and never take dating a woman serious
Things decent men should do to protect themselves against women : 1. Get to know her 1st 2. Have your standards - if she doesnt meet them. Dont persue her. Eg of standards - she must have a good job , she must be studying , she must have a good family , she must be a virgin --- whatever these standards are -- keep to them. Damaged women love to gaslight your standards - dont compromise --- EVER -- 3. If she has a high body count - she is damaged. Leave her for a damaged guy. Remember - high body counts in men dont deplete them emotionally . With women it affects their ability to commit - also they will be quick to change their minds on you because they arent used to hard committment 4. If she is unsure about you - make sure you have other women who you have lined up as potentials. Its easier to make the right choice when you have options 5. If she wants you to prove your love to her very early on then shes got insecurities and not worth it. 6. If she retains special memories of the 1st guy she slept with through things he gave her eg underwear , rings etc - dump her 7. If she claims shes dealt with her past but struggles with emotional committment she's lying about her past. 8. If she discussed her past with you and things dont line up - shes lying - dump her 9. When a woman lies about her past and does the stuff above - dont just dump her - be a great guy - be the one who doesnt put pressure on her - dont be possessive - understand what her closest relationship(s) in her life are/is eg could be her mom. Wait for her mom to have a birthday - buy her mom a big bunch of flowers and a present for her birthday - then on your way home with her in the car - dump her ass - it will leave long lasting damage which is only fair since she lied to you 10. If she tells you within 3 months of your relationship that you mean more to her than the 1st guy she slept with - she's lying - follow step 9 above 11. If she claims shes religious yet she slept with guys whilst going to church - dump her - shes got double standards and is unstable 12. If she says she is still a virgin - the easiest way to determine that is see how she acts around other guys - if she oozes self confidence - unless he had 2 older brothers and is an extrovert -- she lying about her V status 13.
When it comes to the premature "I love you": It's pretty crucial to understand the girls perspective here. It puts a ton of pressure on her. You make her responsible for your wellbeing and raised the stakes. A lot. And the easiest way for her to escape the pressure is saying no.
I really like you and respect your intelligent. Last time I mentioned that I fancy you, you replied to say that there is mischief going on here. To be honest, you look attractive. There is no mischief in this at all! I have subscribe to your channel in order to hear and see more of you. I really like everything about you Jessica. I feel like falling in LOVE with you to be honest.
I was always wondering and kept in fear , y ladies could just ignore someone but I came to know that there some mistakes we do make that make us red flagged by ladies.
Honesty is one of those things as well, fake honesty is better, for example, setting up a situation or conversation on purpose, specifically to give off the impression that you are honest, that works. Being yourself, another huge turn off for women, if you refuse to wear the masks others want you to wear, women usually hate that, however that also goes for women who put off the impression they dont like ppl who wear masks, that itself is a mask. this is why you often see people happy together for years only for that to change due to someone or both removing their masks. which leads to number 3, dont where a mask to bluntly, you want to give off the impression that you're being you, so for example, all guys know we dont like other guys too friendly with our woman, so what most guys who get the woman do is give off the impression that we dont care about her guy friends or anything around that area, usually until you tie the marriage not. but ofc if your girl likes keeping orbiters around in the first place you should not date her, we men have to stop letting women think anyone is gonna be ok with that. those who flat out cover up and lie about what they want or are ok with too much are the real villains, because its not right to do that to someone 4 and more important, most women are satisfied with you giving her everything they want in sex, and are far more sexual than most men. For example weird kinks and stuff like that, if they show you these things and you know you wont be able to give them to her, or you aren't comfy with it? leave her, quickly. Even if she says she's ok with that. Because she's just plain not your type. 5 Never try to control a woman, if they start doing things you dont like, saying things you dont like, hanging with other guys without you, texting them and shit like that, which no real man likes, dont try to change her, leave her. remember what momma always said, you cant turn a ho into a house wife, the same concept goes for other traits as well. She's just not your type. 6. Dont change yourself just to be with someone, most guys do this, but its only ok atleast for you, if all you want to do is get laid, in that case, this will work 100% of the time, thats just how women are, sadly :/. I've put this to the test, and watched others do so. But if you try to do so for a relationship, it will hurt one of you in the end... 7. Dont be too giving, too nice, too vulnerable etc.... You will be shocked how much most women love an asshole over a nice guy, if they start to see you as weak they will slowly gravitate away from you for numerous reasons. Might I also add, letting a woman feel like they can manipulate you, use you, or disrespect you (like with close guy friends) she will see you as weak, she will do these things without even realizing it, while turning away from you slowly, going for other more Real men, you will notice her befriending guys who are more manly than you, or just plain assholes
Days?!...My cousin met his wife at 10am..and by 5pm on the same day..they chise to be together..this was in March 2011..and they still together with 4 kids.
Please Jessica I have a question and it is if a woman used to put much energy texting you but she doesn't do it no more what can you do?.So let's say at the you've calling her and texting her but she doesn't answer , please anyway on how to deal about it?
The first one knocked my sock. I met this Indian girl and I was deadly impatient to tell her my feeling. She was so friendly and polite. But after telling her my feeling, she changed n we hardly greet each other after then. Lesson learned !!!!!
Is being "possessive" a reflection of genuine love for the woman? And also worry that she might leave for someone else? Some women are very unstable and at the sight of a seemingly better looking guy or a guy with a better car, they'll start feeling weird around the guy they are with and start acting it. That could drive the subconscious "possessive" action(s)
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I've started vlogging everyone! and i'm pretty excited about it! Check out my Vlog channel (Jessica OS Vlogs). If you want to watch my very first video, Check it out here. th-cam.com/video/oz5BusWnYMA/w-d-xo.html
Thank you very much for this my AFRICAN Queen J Os
Your voice 😍
Glad to always hear from you
Jess i want 16 bars for my new rap song..i will credit and reference you for the lyrics..have u thought of being a ghostwriter?
Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person
If a lady really likes you nothing will chase them away from you,You will never have to work hard to keep a woman who likes you
Well said. What irks me is that they feign being offended when I ask for sex or make advances suggestive of the same. What did they think I wanted in the first place? That is a turn-off for me personally.
TRUE!
This is about early dating. They usually don't like you this much on first sight. They might be interested, and give you some credit. But you surely can scare girls away.
Very true
@@Chiungalla79 yupp you also have a point with this
Just make MONEY 💰 my brother, women will be the one chasing u 😅
Jessica I'm a big fan! My name is Jonas and I'm from Sweden. Soon I'll be coming to Ghana for my sixth time. Your videos are very informative and helpful
We Don't Care About The One's That Leave ??? We Care About The One's That Stay !!!
I’m a woman, and now new subscriber from Toronto. I have no clue how I ended up here, but I’ve been binge watching your channel for a day now😄 and you are hitting the nail on the head! Great advice to some of these men and us women as well. Much appreciated!🙌🏾
Dear Jessica although we are all slightly different you have just hit on everything you’ve said in a proper manner and with a deep meaning of behaviours that we should follow normally with our loving women. I simply love your readings they’re so good and instructive and all I can tell you is I’m gonna follow them as long as you keep on giving them to us. Best regards to Accra Ghana lots of good luck and good wishes to you and your family always. Thank you thank you thank you.
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I love you so much and I'm learning alot from you evn though sometimes you expose me but it's really helpful. keep molding us to be better men🔥♥️
Always watching you to get new vocabularies and new expressions as well.. Keep the good work Jess👍👍
1) Hahaha 'I love you' within minutes??? My goodness that's actually pathetic. It takes 3 months minimum to fall in actual love
2) Give them space and the benefit of the doubt. This was one indicator of most successful relationships (assume positively about your partner rather than negative) It can be difficult if you've experienced dating lying trash haha.
3) Talking about your ex other than random facts etc is a no go. Talk to a therapist about your ex.
4) Lol, so a man has to give his girl space and freedom but then is also expected to finance her freedom? Choose one, you don't deserve to have both unless you're into the relationship at least 6 months.
5) Unless she's a virgin or you guys are in your teens then it's 3 dates boys. If no action then move on, she's probably using you for free food/meals lol. If she holds back that much then let her do it with another guy.
6) Yes! Direct, straightforward, honest, transparent about your intentions is so rare these days. Many guys will say whatever it takes to get you in the sack then they ghost. Pathetic weak men use this tactic.
7) If you're timid, go see a therapist to see why. Get your bloodwork checked to see if your testosterone levels are normal and not low.
Decent list my dear.
Steeve Harvey has written a book entitled "think like a man and act like a lady" I think you have to write a book entitled "understand ladies". Thanks a lot Jess!
It will definitely 🙏 happened
@Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!
@Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!
😂😂😂😂Sounds interesting…
If you think like a man you will act like one. That book is just cringeworthy to me.
As always, Jessica's content is a master piece. Keep it up!
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Nice
U made mention Ghana guys rush in proposing to girls but the girls are opposite stingy girls always expect the guys to provide as if they mother them or father them so the equation balance,
So Jessica, you live in Ghana!? Interesting. I don't know much of the African Continent except for very short visits to Morocco, Mozambique and Angola. I was born in Portugal but I actually live in USA.
It's great to hear the point of view of a girl about these matters. Love your videos.
Love this singing introduction. You make my morning. Planning on taking a trip this new year for a week or more. Maybe Spain and Italy and Ghana. Keep stuff coming but please have a life for you too. Hoping all the best comes your way.😁
if there is something i love about is ur voice....Madam ur blessed .
keep doing u and keep it real!!!!!
Well if its not the brilliant Jessica herself again!, Another masterpiece. Words fail me! Keep up the good work Jess! Such a blesser to men!.... 2 sec after first meeting in my vicinity... "BABY GIRL I AM SOOO CRAZYYY ABOUT YOUUUU...YOU ARE THE AIR THAT I BREATHE..." watching your content with much love from MALAWI Davie here! Peace!
I made the mistake of wanting a relationship immediately and damn I regretted it immediately.
Lol. I remember when I was making that deadly mistake. Telling a girl I like her, so soon. I want us to start a relationship, bla bla bla 😆. Is either she stop answering my calls or start avoiding me.
They don't want to be caged so soon. Especially young women in their 20s.
Yes, somehow those moves make sense but it's the things that doesn't even make sense that works better with women. You just gotta ACT don't ask.
@@josefelfinito6925 because we choose Just the wrong woman if they dont want to marry relationship she Just is for the streets
@@Deferrybouman It's not because they're the wrong women. As a man you need to improve on how to handle women.
Simping or telling her you like or love her so soon will ruin your chances. It's not really their fault. It's women's nature.
You can start a relationship with her without telling her and she'll be the one wanting a serious relationship. That is what I didn't know
@@josefelfinito6925 if they dont go fast enough in and not showing that they really want me than i dont want them anymore i give up soon because i am not 16 i dont want to be her dog or something
If she doesn't want to start a relationship with me so soon,she shouldn't come back to me for a relationship after being run over by other guys..... A girl that is interested will wish you tell her you love or like her really quick
Thanks Jessica 😍.
Much love from Italy to everyone watching 🙏❤️🇮🇹🇬🇭
2 mins of silence for those who watching this but still have no girlfriend 🤞
Your skin.. Oh my goodness.. It's very smooth and beautiful.. Love it.
Great tips, I like how you put the words down, it's easy to find stuff you did back in your past and see it yourself like "you know, I'm guilty, I've actually done some of that before, maby that's why bla bla bla" Love your content, keep up girl! Ohh, also love your voice, the expressions and all, you are confident, powerful women, but still be ladylike, not overwhelming or too aggressive/passive! I like people who can actually talk about stuff, specialy "general life stuff" that happen everyday, but being smart of it, knowing what they talking! Much love, great channel, the best singing evolved ever also haha 🤓🙈💚
There's more than one kind of intimacy and if you meet a woman that never lets her guard down to be intimate with you on the simplest level of intimacy it's time to go find another woman because something is wrong but it isn't the man in front of hers fault. My grammar may be off but I'm sure you get the idea.
I get your point and it's true.
Some ladies out there won't just let their guard down due to whatever experience they might have, but you keep thinking you are not man enough!
Hi I just stumbled onto this this morning, good stuff and well presented. I like your style and will be looking for more from you.🇧🇧
Awesome content & that singing gets me every time 😉 thanks for another great video, full of solid advice in direct female speak
What happens when you give a woman space but she uses the space to date other men!!!???
Wrong! When a man who completely dresses in adamantium and walks as though vibranium is his daily diet, suddenly makes it a point to start conversing with the hottest girl who stands with her best friend in the room with words like "hey cutie, you know I could carry you out to the most distant offshores of Busua beach and we completely get lost in choice tunes for days because i can't imagine anything other than my imagination that I love you" says this with a good enough tone that anyone around can audibly hear and he spreads out his fingers to greet the lady's closest friend and shows the whole room that he actually doesn't give a damn about walking away from this girl anytime and in any style that he chooses. Wait and see if this girl will not die to be this "cool" guy's girlfriend...!! How fast was this??? 3 mins... If you get so unlucky that I accidentally meet you, I will try this on you and you will find yourself dying to find a way to break with your boyfriend inorder to strike a deal with me..!!! You will walk back here to You tube with heads low to edit this video... I Wana tell you miss TH-camr, alpha males dictate their odds with women. Certainly ghana dudes don't know how to do it so fast. I mean your first point
Thank U soo much for this my AFRICAN Queen J Os
Many are guilty of number 1. I have been too fast to Profess love one way or the other at some point. God help me. Thank you Jessica for this video
If she dont want fast enough take other woman
A big turn off , DON'T BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR PHONE ! lt happened to a friend of mine. He went on a lunch date and the woman she answered every call that came. She should have ( unless she was expecting an emergency call), turned it off. It annoyed him so much he said he was going to the men's room and walked out the side door and left her there.
Always get my head in the perfect setting whenever I get tuned. Love from me to BIG Jessica!
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#1 desperation, loneliness, lack of confidence, immaturity, horniness... amongst others declare love at first sight. The concept of live at first sight is infatuation in 99% of all cases.
#6 being too dependable and predictable bores the woman who is constantly seeking drama. She will get bored and seek outside entertainment. Bad boys have this part right.
Great advice...just dat the presence of social media has changed the dynamics. Social media is catalysing things. At the same time you dont want to waste your time n resources on a lady whose mind is already on another guy only to realise you were her number 3.
Thank you so much Jessica. Your research is very real.Perfect and to the point.God bless you and the work of your teachings via this media.
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There's nothing like love at first sight it's always infatuation, lust or attraction just me saying
Exactly for you to love someone u need to know them inside out......You can't KNOW them by looking at them
Appreciate the friendly reminders Jessica. You hit the nail on the head.
Great advice I needed this! I'm having difficulties with myself as I pursue this older woman. My only true hurdle is being timid. I'm trying to focus on being laid back but direct but don't want to say too much to push her away. I'm gonna have to watch this again
So how is that going?
@@isaacbuziba7085 our timing is off and at this point I moved on no need of continuing pursuing someone who's not for you
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Great advice ma!
I think talking about ex’s is important but you have to feel out the connection between you and this new person first. It’s always good to talk about what didn’t work in past relationships and what you’ve learned.
When you run away from LOVE, you run to the evil side.
In Nairobi Kenya we say I love u,I want u n need u within 10 seconds cz we don't want to lose that chance hehehe
You never disappoint us 😌☺️
Thanks 😊👍
Don't be The Talkertive guy please Gentlemans.
Perfectly said!!
Thanks for Sharing. God bless you richly
Very well researched piece.. Jess you're a real master piece.
It is better if women keep running away from me. I have more peace of mind.
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Jess my Gee. Thanks for all the relationship hacks. I appreciate it all.
I don't know what I'd do without your advice Jess thanks alot for that
In West Africa guys are always in a hurry to start a relationship 😅
We Gat A Talented Singer Here ...Nice Voice Jessy👏👏
GIVING A WOMAN TOO MUCH SPACE IS A HUGE MISTAKE ! SHE WILL STRAY ! SHE WILL CHEAT !
Live your life seeking to please a woman, and you will be MISERABLE for the rest of your life. If she is into u she will find a way to always be with you, not the other way around where she always looking for a reason to leave u. Get that and even the words I LOVE U will work out at first sight
You’re just cute and hilarious the same times ❤️👍🏾. I really appreciate what you do.
I really love my gf but we broke up bcus of my ex so I lied to her, she felt pity for me, and I didn't really like the way it made her feel so i told her the truth and she became so disappointed at me for ever lying to her and I've tried to keep things going between us but all to no avail she still loves me but she's scared if she could really rely on me and I don't really know how to prove that cus we are still in a long distance relationship, we've never met each other,,,I really to see her some day but I can't go to her bcus she's in the USA and my status won't let me, ask me anything other thing you can help me with, I'm willing to do anything to make her my lady and wife
First of all Jessica you just as beautiful as you are amazing, your intelligence, advice and information on this subject is just like having a cheat code manual! Powerful stuff.. U created a monster. 😂
Seems you have dated all kinds of men.😢😂
you speak facts ma'am,
love from Kenya.
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Jessica , you are the dangerous pretty Lady , lol ! You pick up straight facts , and slap people with them . It is fun to watch !
Hie sister Jessica .I am one of your followers from Zimbabwe. You are telling us true facts and extrinsically motivating us as well. Keep it up, we are waiting for more videos from you. Stay safe and blessed sister ,wishing you the best in life.
Strongly agreed with you Jessica!
I'm Bendu from USA.
I hate it when guys just meet me and say" I love you " I'm like you just met me! . Love is built.
Taura hako vakupedza ma sports
I think 🤔 I have found a great therapist on TH-cam. Thanks ma’am 🙌
The stingy part ,let's be honest ladies need money Theyre now taking it as a right
Jessica I love you thanks….
Love is a problem it tickles the heart worries the brain easy to solve but hard to explain . Love is foreign to our nature, becos Love is of God and Love is God's character . Hes the one who initiates the first marriage relationship of our two parents Adam and Eve in the garden of eden, then comes Satan and cause decay on that marriage. well let God be the centre to amend all broken marriage relationship, the only remedy, solution, and answer to our personal affairs together with constructive advices and council presented. Thank you for being so cool and so inviting in your presentation sis Jessy,!!
Do you know something, Jess? It is a misunderstanding of how we consider that culturally. Because in our culture, "me p3wo or me p3 was3m, translate into that in English. So, if you are talking to Ghanaian men in English, that's what you are gonna get. And sometimes, it's what some of the women themselves go out to say when a guy fails to go full throttle after the first meeting.
Viewing all the way from Kenya, good stuff.
This is awesome. You nailed it with humour. That's amazing
I really love the intro. Very classic
I really enjoy your videos and advices..most of all your vocals are on point man😘..To be frank with I enjoy your vocals more than the advices even though am facing challenges in my relationship😔😔Keep it Up big sis🤟
Your delivery is silky smooth ! Great job
I met a lady and to be honest it was love at first sight but i didn't tell her. We have been friends for 5 years now and we both have fallen in love automatically😍
I love this Jessica,you are my councilor ,I will handle my relationship with your directives
Thank you for your teaching, i just fail one lady few days ago, and i realized i was in a hurry to be in love with the lady, but at first she was really interested in me always coming yo my work place just to see me .
Jessica somebody is redirecting me other of your comments for to me!
I only want your comments when you have the time as I only will socialize with you and not anyone else!
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Ignore them dear Brian. When are you joing my patreon? I'll love to e- meet you
@@JessicaOS I’d love to e meet you too! You are simply such an interesting person in my life now!
Hi Jessica im from South Africa (Nelspruit). Thank you so much for sharing everything with us for free.. you really changed my love life into a perfect one, I also love your academic english. God Bless you!
Blessed afternoon big sister ❤️
You are simply the best 😘 I love you big time God bless you 🙏
🤣 I was just about to type: “Jessica, I love youuuuuu !” And then: item #1 in that authoritative voice I so adore: “… …” 🤣😂
I really appreciate your quality advise and strength of character . Your standards and values comes across from the quality of advice you provide. Much appreciated, keep up the great work.
This is just wonderful. A couple days back I wrote on a very informative sermon by Dr. Charles Stanley ( Intouch ministries ) I said it : It take three seconds to tell a woman I love you and ask why ? it may take hours to explain it . But ultimately it will take a life time to prove your love. True friendship is base on Humility, Honesty , Patience , loyalty , no two people are the same. It would be just perfect if God is invited in the decision making process before you start: OIL and WATER can't mixed , Unequal yoke . Very enjoyable, thanks.
I enjoyed this episode and surprisingly it's the other way round for me as time without number this happens
Please people make Jessica Os 1 million subscribers. She's always phenomenal in boychild moral, social and psychological support 👏 ❤️ 🙌
Not being straight forward but don't push for sex too soon? oooo I forgot don't push for a relationship... Gents get your money and never take dating a woman serious
Nowadays I think love is scam
Things decent men should do to protect themselves against women :
1. Get to know her 1st
2. Have your standards - if she doesnt meet them. Dont persue her. Eg of standards - she must have a good job , she must be studying , she must have a good family , she must be a virgin --- whatever these standards are -- keep to them. Damaged women love to gaslight your standards - dont compromise --- EVER --
3. If she has a high body count - she is damaged. Leave her for a damaged guy. Remember - high body counts in men dont deplete them emotionally . With women it affects their ability to commit - also they will be quick to change their minds on you because they arent used to hard committment
4. If she is unsure about you - make sure you have other women who you have lined up as potentials. Its easier to make the right choice when you have options
5. If she wants you to prove your love to her very early on then shes got insecurities and not worth it.
6. If she retains special memories of the 1st guy she slept with through things he gave her eg underwear , rings etc - dump her
7. If she claims shes dealt with her past but struggles with emotional committment she's lying about her past.
8. If she discussed her past with you and things dont line up - shes lying - dump her
9. When a woman lies about her past and does the stuff above - dont just dump her - be a great guy - be the one who doesnt put pressure on her - dont be possessive - understand what her closest relationship(s) in her life are/is eg could be her mom. Wait for her mom to have a birthday - buy her mom a big bunch of flowers and a present for her birthday - then on your way home with her in the car - dump her ass - it will leave long lasting damage which is only fair since she lied to you
10. If she tells you within 3 months of your relationship that you mean more to her than the 1st guy she slept with - she's lying - follow step 9 above
11. If she claims shes religious yet she slept with guys whilst going to church - dump her - shes got double standards and is unstable
12. If she says she is still a virgin - the easiest way to determine that is see how she acts around other guys - if she oozes self confidence - unless he had 2 older brothers and is an extrovert -- she lying about her V status
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Sing for us again😋🥰great content, great inspiration 🔥🔥🔥
Seriously! Did you really do that for the intro?😂😂
I love it though.
Great content.
Jessica always burst my brain with her vibes
When it comes to the premature "I love you":
It's pretty crucial to understand the girls perspective here. It puts a ton of pressure on her.
You make her responsible for your wellbeing and raised the stakes. A lot.
And the easiest way for her to escape the pressure is saying no.
As soon as she highlights the first reason, I know she was right on track because it happens to a lot of us men!!
I really like you and respect your intelligent. Last time I mentioned that I fancy you, you replied to say that there is mischief going on here. To be honest, you look attractive. There is no mischief in this at all!
I have subscribe to your channel in order to hear and see more of you. I really like everything about you Jessica. I feel like falling in LOVE with you to be honest.
I was always wondering and kept in fear , y ladies could just ignore someone but I came to know that there some mistakes we do make that make us red flagged by ladies.
Honesty is one of those things as well, fake honesty is better, for example, setting up a situation or conversation on purpose, specifically to give off the impression that you are honest, that works. Being yourself, another huge turn off for women, if you refuse to wear the masks others want you to wear, women usually hate that, however that also goes for women who put off the impression they dont like ppl who wear masks, that itself is a mask. this is why you often see people happy together for years only for that to change due to someone or both removing their masks. which leads to number
3, dont where a mask to bluntly, you want to give off the impression that you're being you, so for example, all guys know we dont like other guys too friendly with our woman, so what most guys who get the woman do is give off the impression that we dont care about her guy friends or anything around that area, usually until you tie the marriage not. but ofc if your girl likes keeping orbiters around in the first place you should not date her, we men have to stop letting women think anyone is gonna be ok with that. those who flat out cover up and lie about what they want or are ok with too much are the real villains, because its not right to do that to someone
4 and more important, most women are satisfied with you giving her everything they want in sex, and are far more sexual than most men. For example weird kinks and stuff like that, if they show you these things and you know you wont be able to give them to her, or you aren't comfy with it? leave her, quickly. Even if she says she's ok with that. Because she's just plain not your type.
5 Never try to control a woman, if they start doing things you dont like, saying things you dont like, hanging with other guys without you, texting them and shit like that, which no real man likes, dont try to change her, leave her. remember what momma always said, you cant turn a ho into a house wife, the same concept goes for other traits as well. She's just not your type.
6. Dont change yourself just to be with someone, most guys do this, but its only ok atleast for you, if all you want to do is get laid, in that case, this will work 100% of the time, thats just how women are, sadly :/. I've put this to the test, and watched others do so. But if you try to do so for a relationship, it will hurt one of you in the end...
7. Dont be too giving, too nice, too vulnerable etc.... You will be shocked how much most women love an asshole over a nice guy, if they start to see you as weak they will slowly gravitate away from you for numerous reasons. Might I also add, letting a woman feel like they can manipulate you, use you, or disrespect you (like with close guy friends) she will see you as weak, she will do these things without even realizing it, while turning away from you slowly, going for other more Real men, you will notice her befriending guys who are more manly than you, or just plain assholes
Days?!...My cousin met his wife at 10am..and by 5pm on the same day..they chise to be together..this was in March 2011..and they still together with 4 kids.
Dammmmn, you nailed it right at the top!! I've to download this!! Thank you Jessica
Thank for the advice!!! I'm really confused about your accent though. It keeps switching up. Where are you from?
The problem with some men is that they believe that the woman is their personal property. They could not be more wrong.
Please Jessica I have a question and it is if a woman used to put much energy texting you but she doesn't do it no more what can you do?.So let's say at the you've calling her and texting her but she doesn't answer , please anyway on how to deal about it?
The first one knocked my sock.
I met this Indian girl and I was deadly impatient to tell her my feeling.
She was so friendly and polite.
But after telling her my feeling, she changed n we hardly greet each other after then.
Lesson learned !!!!!
Your presentations makes me proud of you being an African woman from mother continent. 🤛 From 🇺🇬
Is being "possessive" a reflection of genuine love for the woman? And also worry that she might leave for someone else? Some women are very unstable and at the sight of a seemingly better looking guy or a guy with a better car, they'll start feeling weird around the guy they are with and start acting it. That could drive the subconscious "possessive" action(s)
Btw I really don't care for having any relationship with anyone period 🗣
“There are soo many ways to ……… “ my reaction when i completed that statement 😂😂😂 🤣
Complete the statement bruh😏
Public comment. Wonderful message to humanity. Thank