running away from living alone | in my 20s diaries

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  • I know y'all have lived alone for millions of years but I am a fragile baby bird who can't handle it so I jumped into a birds nest to fly away to another state 🫶
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  • @meatycow3363
    @meatycow3363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    Are we not gonna talk about how she started this series and now she is close to thriving? The improvement is crazy!

  • @igglepiggle8447
    @igglepiggle8447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    I’m loving Ryan’s penny challenge and this in my 20s series; the Trahan’s literally do my favourite TH-cam series ever 🤙

  • @rEdchEEsE
    @rEdchEEsE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    This is awesome! Just cause you’re living alone doesn’t mean you HAVE TO stay home alone the whole time. World is your oyster! Take some classes in something you’re interested in, go to a concert, travel to see friends (✔️).
    You know yourself way more than I know you but as a viewer I don’t see it as running away. I see it as a nice trip to see friends :) proud of you for this series

  • @emmajoanne1716
    @emmajoanne1716 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Journaling is actually fab. I have a ‘general’ journal and a bible journal, there’s some overlap in between but journaling while I read my bible is life changing like there’s so much more room to process and grow your faith! I’m so glad you’ve found journaling as part of your quiet time because it really is life changing!

  • @stophackingme2349
    @stophackingme2349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    im gonna be honest, i started watching you just a few weeks ago, due to ryan’s videos about feeding america, and omg you pass the most amazing and inspiring vibe. from the moment i saw your videos i’ve felt such a good and genuine connection with you and your videos. and HONESTLY you are such an inspiration to start journaling. honestly thank you. 🤍

    • @Haven_Japan_America
      @Haven_Japan_America 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey what is your age

    • @rocklee9199
      @rocklee9199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Haven_Japan_America the cops are coming for you bro

  • @nadineswayy
    @nadineswayy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm so glad that you're talked about journaling bc i wanna build it as a habit so that was extra motivation for me 🤍🤍

  • @agatate8813
    @agatate8813 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haley you inspire me so much, I just feel so connected with what you’re creating right now that I don’t feel alone being confused in my 20’s. Literally after any video you put I feel excited for life!

  • @pearlstella
    @pearlstella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    love this series!! also absolutely agree on journaling! It's such a good way to remember all your good memories and help yourself through the difficult parts of life too❤I'm 25 and I've been journaling since I was 12 and have like a ton of filled out journals now and it's just fun sometimes to go back and read my thoughts from like 10 years ago and see how I've evolved as a person. 100% recommend journaling to anyone!

  • @hannahw323
    @hannahw323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m totally the same with living alone. I need to talk to people and do things or else I just don’t feel like myself. Watching your videos definitely helps! 💕

  • @lena37094
    @lena37094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sometimes we need to be around people. if we don’t make time for friends we won’t have any. love you hailey!💗

  • @jebVlogs556
    @jebVlogs556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Speaking of getting spooked or scared while running: if by off of chance you are being followed, always make noise if being chanced by an assailant and remember land markings. These are huge indicators for police so that they can help find you if something did happen.. People will take notice and will try to assist(just so you know)

  • @stay8434
    @stay8434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m really addicted to IN MY 20s series, tbh I started to change my daily habits Because of you and this incredible series, thank you so much Haley 🫶🏻

  • @kateramos9303
    @kateramos9303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This series is just sooo comfortinggg like it’s just good vibes I love it sm🥰✨

  • @kindredriver8837
    @kindredriver8837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seriously this in my 20s series is helping me so much! You’re a gem Haley👏🏻

  • @queenofthecosmos5020
    @queenofthecosmos5020 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started journaling at the beginning of this year, and usually it’s super hard for me to keep up habits but it truly does get easier the further along you are. If I’m trying to do something consistently I don’t think about how I need to make sure I don’t miss it and that I have to do it, I just focus on one day at a time. Also don’t let missing a day stop you!

  • @angelaedhere639
    @angelaedhere639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haley, you are so wholesome! You're doing all the things I love doing but you make it look so pretty!
    I love watching you improve through this series! You are so inspiring!
    I pray you keep finding more ways to creatively express and share the light God placed within you.
    love you💖💖💖

  • @fefe1362
    @fefe1362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been so productive lately and I think that a lot of it Is because of this series. Thank you Haley!!! You’re so inspiring and real💕💕

  • @SunnyDays09
    @SunnyDays09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haley thank you for using this platform to share your journey and how you hold onto God in times like these .... so proud of you to be an unashamed believer. .... Praise God for getting you through this 🤍

  • @bby_cheese
    @bby_cheese 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey Haley, I just wanted to let you know that I am so in love with this series! It's so inspiring, and I feel like I found a friend, and we're together on this journey! Thanks for always keeping it real💗

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    When in doubt buy a plane ticket and read a good book -Haley 😂 glad that you have people around you to make living alone a little less lonely

    • @esmehammond6485
      @esmehammond6485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :)

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/pFbinISGGjU/w-d-xo.html vlog !

  • @ivan.a.kovalenko
    @ivan.a.kovalenko 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So awesome that you are open being about your faith and sharing how your journaling and Bible study has blessed you! Especially while you and Ryan are becoming such big TH-camrs! It's inspiring me to get on my journaling and Bible reading. God bless you sis!

  • @farrahg7732
    @farrahg7732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This series has helped me so so much, thank you for doing this! You are helping more people than you know❤️

  • @tarastephenson5767
    @tarastephenson5767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's exactly how I feel about journaling and looking up definitions and using "my words" in the right way so I know what I mean and help others understand how I am feeling!

  • @jadyn9988
    @jadyn9988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You talking about your faith/Bible studying encourages me to do the same because it reminds me that God is SO good and I should spend time with him today.❤️

  • @courtneyalysangaebler3819
    @courtneyalysangaebler3819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you run away, you always take you along! I've been trying for years!

  • @Alxxisk
    @Alxxisk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an obsessive overthinker and I find that Journaling the thoughts that seem to repeat themselves helps me see how not realistic the thought is or even just helps me vent out what I think about the situation . It helps A LOT. So if your an overthinker I heavily recommend Journaling

  • @vktweed
    @vktweed ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m loving this season of growth for Haley! I’m the same age and definitely experiencing a lot of growth myself, as I embark on my “adult” life and it’s cool to watch others who are in a similar place!

  • @ysl3025
    @ysl3025 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haley, I love watching you grow and learn! And thank you for always mentioning books ♥️ You're one of the main reasons I got back into reading

  • @simoneboggs6733
    @simoneboggs6733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    JOURNALING IS THE BEST!!! I am so glad it has been so helpful for you. I know personally journaling totally changes my perspective on my experiences and helps me process feelings in a really healthy way. Praying for you (and Ryan)

  • @BreeZy915
    @BreeZy915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm new to watching your channel, and I just wanna say how refreshing it is for you to speak about reading your bible and praying. I feel there are many other YT'ers that wouldn't say they do because they are afraid. I think it's super cool you share so openly! Love this series :)

  • @yeganeh8951
    @yeganeh8951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haley! You inspired me to journal! It was so nice, I felt like I was having a friendly soft convo with myself, I needed that, thank you Haley, you are one of my favorite TH-camrs, and always will be!

  • @nalanic.9995
    @nalanic.9995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been watching your videos for years now and it's so cool to get to see you grow in life, you're one of few youtubers that I hope to meet someday.

  • @MsAblivia
    @MsAblivia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are some of my favorite videos you've ever made. Thank you for documenting and sharing your life with us!!

  • @stephaniemorazan6253
    @stephaniemorazan6253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I journaled because of you and I loved it, my brain feels like a scary place but after I write it out it feels safe???? And that’s amazing

  • @taylorsversion7336
    @taylorsversion7336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this series. It is so good and it inspires me so much ❤️

  • @mpscarborough5399
    @mpscarborough5399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro i started journaling when you posted last episode and i saw how you loved it and now im literally obsessed!

  • @BeingTaegen
    @BeingTaegen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a full-on introvert and love my alone time, but even I struggle to live alone. It’s much better to have loved ones or a roommate around imo. You’re doing great, Haley!

  • @victoriarubyxoxo
    @victoriarubyxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m just LIVING for this in my 20s series 🥰🥰🥰 makes me feel so comforted, you have no idea! Thank you for another incredible video ❤️❤️

  • @annie73388
    @annie73388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this has been such an inspiring series! I look forward to it every week!!

  • @carleewaschek
    @carleewaschek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    awe seeing you happy makes me so happy!!💗🦋

  • @madisonkinser1144
    @madisonkinser1144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These video inspire me to do better in my 20’s. Thank you, Haley. ❤️

  • @allienzix
    @allienzix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    HALEY I LITERALLY LOVE YOUR STYLE AND LITERALLY EVERYTHING 😭😭😭😭😭 keep doing ur videos pls!!!!! 🎉

  • @sarahcastaneda3429
    @sarahcastaneda3429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this so freaking much! Haley I love seeing you grow, and be able to grow with you! You inspire me so much and I think it’s ok if it’s hard to live alone I don’t think I could do it either! You’re doing great! 💓

  • @erincafferty5388
    @erincafferty5388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As someone just a bit older than you (28), this is life ✨ You say you’re not cut out to live alone and I don’t think some are. That’s why you can choose to visit with friends and travel. Being an adult is often about choosing what experience to have. Happy for you Haley!
    P.S. I recently listened to you on that episode of WWS and it’s definitely not cringe! Y’all were fangirling each other the whole time it was sweet!

  • @esmehammond6485
    @esmehammond6485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This series is so inspiring! I can't wait for every upload and they always make me so excited! Hope you have a great weekend Haley!

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 💜

    • @esmehammond6485
      @esmehammond6485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@khalilahd.

    • @ayasyr2003
      @ayasyr2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know where she got her journal? The different shades of brown one

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/pFbinISGGjU/w-d-xo.html vlog ;)

  • @user-mc8io3wb9z
    @user-mc8io3wb9z หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos are so good and they make me feel so happy and productive!!!☺

  • @rileycurry1013
    @rileycurry1013 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re the reason I found the WWS podcast a couple years ago and it’s my fav podcast to this day ❤️

  • @Faiithdonthate
    @Faiithdonthate ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the recommendation Haley! I’ve always been interested in journaling but had no idea how to start so we’ll see how it goes 😅

  • @anikaxmeisel
    @anikaxmeisel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My boyfriend and I see each other again in 60 days (we’re moving into a college apartment together). I love watching your portion of the series because it’s good to know I’m not alone

  • @ilovesleep66
    @ilovesleep66 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the most comforting series

  • @meredith71607
    @meredith71607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have been journaling about once a week or once every two weeks since i was 9, and it’s been life changing in making me aware of my emotions!! i don’t even know how i started, but i’m glad i did. and now i also have a bunch of books of my life to look back on when i’m older! that’s part of my motivation to keep journaling, but it also makes me feel so accomplished and like i can let go of the past once i write down things i’ve been feeling and thinking about. it’s very helpful to me; i definitely recommend it!! the entries don’t even have to be that long, but you might find you write more than you thought you would once you get in the groove.

    • @user-iv2kq5zh8e
      @user-iv2kq5zh8e ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do u have any tips on what to or how to journal?

    • @meredith71607
      @meredith71607 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-iv2kq5zh8e idk, the first thing is just to get motivated!! i would say these things are what have helped me the most though:
      1. don’t put too much pressure on yourself to journal all the time! journaling every day doesn’t work for me because i think that would burn me out, but every week or so i start by looking at my camera roll or calendar and writing what i did that week.
      2. sometimes what i did that week is all i write, but sometimes i write about some emotion that comes up as i write. i don’t really stick to an agenda or try to make it look pretty because i sometimes just need to let it out.
      3. in general, it just takes forcing yourself to do it sometimes. i usually don’t want to journal until i start, and then i kinda zone out and start writing.
      4. also, a lot of the time when i’m in a bad mood i journal. it’s like venting to someone, but you can just write it down and let it go. it helps me process what i’m feeling at the moment better and helps me move past it.
      5. sometimes to make it more fun, i tape in receipts or tickets from a movie or something i went to. i used to draw in my journals when i was younger; nothing fancy, just bc i thought it was fun to draw out something i was mad about. and also bc i was inspired by a book i read where one of the characters doodled in her journal lmao.
      anyway hope that helps! i’m a lot better at communicating through writing, so i think that’s why i journal. even if you don’t like writing things down in a physical journal, you could try keeping a video diary or something? idk whatever u like doing!! good luck and thx for asking!! :))

    • @user-iv2kq5zh8e
      @user-iv2kq5zh8e ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@meredith71607 thank u so so much omg 💞

    • @meredith71607
      @meredith71607 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-iv2kq5zh8e NP!! 💗💕

  • @madilynmiller
    @madilynmiller 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i'm obsessed with this series!!!!

  • @katerinakardoula9424
    @katerinakardoula9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok I don’t know about others but personally I will start journaling for sure !!! Thanks you for being so motivational Haley ❤️

  • @emmatacc_
    @emmatacc_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bry’s little surprise party was so cuute omg the whole segment was just-🥲

  • @brookerichardson3566
    @brookerichardson3566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are doing amazing!! i’m so proud!

  • @veerlemazer7744
    @veerlemazer7744 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just ordered 5 new books to read this summer, because you inspire me sooo much to love my alone time by reading 🥰

  • @sophiacaldwell3722
    @sophiacaldwell3722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So ive been journaling pretty much since I could write a thought out that made sense. And I have journals all the way back from 2nd grade. I agree that it is very therapeutic. Im not Christian and I hate work so we journal very differently but I figured you’d be interested in knowing about how some other people do it. I hate feeling like I have to do anything so I only write when I want to. What helps me want to is fun easy to write with and erasable pens also a cute flat opening journal. I write about my day and whatever is on my mind. I never tell myself one thing I should write every time because I get bored easily, but I always end up writing about how my day was. It is one of the best feelings to look back at the journals from when I was little and even from a year ago and see how life has changed. Im currently in a journaling phase right now too haha and I love it. I hope u keep journaling every now and then because being able to see your thoughts and progress on paper is so therapeutic and sentimental too. ♥️♥️

  • @linalyter4536
    @linalyter4536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl you are THRIVING in LA! You seem so much more you and have come out of your shell! So proud of you girly 💕✨

  • @amina-ph2vp
    @amina-ph2vp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you so much for these videos you’re my comfort tiktoker/youtuber❤️

  • @lysc5796
    @lysc5796 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    really been loving the 20s series !!! 🤍

  • @lomie17
    @lomie17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for being transparent about your good and bad days, it just goes to show that progress doesn't mean that we are perfect!!! I just started journaling again and it feels sooo good.

  • @riley2375
    @riley2375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the summer i turned pretty is currently my new obsession & i will be rewatching another 17 times :)

  • @lilylucia1788
    @lilylucia1788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the best days ever I mean Ryan uploaded and Haley uploaded on the same day!!! It couldn’t get better

  • @mariafinch1106
    @mariafinch1106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haley I love this video sm. You seemed so happy and im happy for u!!

  • @Val-rq8wx
    @Val-rq8wx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy that you are reading Float I read it after you got it and it is now one of my top tier books. Thank you so much!!!

  • @sarahtheexplora4125
    @sarahtheexplora4125 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos motivate me so much, I always have such a productive day when you post :)

  • @Stella_eq12
    @Stella_eq12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Haley, I love you so much you really inspire me!!! I love how you're so open about your faith! You are amazing! And thank you for all your hard work you put into your videos! They really make a HUGE impact on peoples lives!!! Thank you!!! A book rec I have is The Hound of the Baskervilles! It is a murder mystery! I love it!! Also love your book channel!! Have a wonderful blessed day! Im praying that when you see Ryan again y'all will have some restful, happy days together! And I'm also just praying for you and your family! And Spock:) Thank you!!!!😁❤

    • @Stella_eq12
      @Stella_eq12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much haley!!! You made my day!!!!

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/pFbinISGGjU/w-d-xo.html vlog !!

  • @Alexandra-ig8vd
    @Alexandra-ig8vd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    aahh your videos are the only ones i genuinely enjoy at the moment

  • @HaileySpesia
    @HaileySpesia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your vids haley!! they make me so so happy

  • @urfriendhannah
    @urfriendhannah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m turning 21 soon and it’s just nice to see someone my age going through similiar things to me ❤️❤️

  • @meraalnawashi
    @meraalnawashi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haley you’re my favorite TH-camr and i love it when i see a TH-cam notification that says “Haley Pham uploaded blah blah blah”. I’ve been watching since a long time and im in love with your channel! Keep up the great work!! I luv you

  • @abbyc4086
    @abbyc4086 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel the exactttt same way about journaling. I feel like I need to do it, but it seems so boring. This rlly spoke to me so I’ll try your tips!! 🧡🧡

  • @warmclouds7289
    @warmclouds7289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the journal talk was needed! 🥰🫶

  • @tucodahamster1297
    @tucodahamster1297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg ilysm hailey!! Thank you for making such great videos! 💕✨

  • @katherinevalencia-ramirez3553
    @katherinevalencia-ramirez3553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love everything about this series and this video, but I may say that the little jump when she said “good morning” was very cute to me

  • @mariafern
    @mariafern 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're so beautiful Hailey ❤️!!! the editing is amazing :)

  • @someoneontheinternet4744
    @someoneontheinternet4744 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am manifesting reading a book written by Haley after listening to her loving writing at the end of the video.

  • @SlowColt
    @SlowColt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You and Ryan are my favs 🙏🏻

  • @diaryofalexee
    @diaryofalexee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    one of my favorite things to watch on youtube rn !!!

  • @k.oriaku
    @k.oriaku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We stan the in my 20’s series

  • @LALIVIN
    @LALIVIN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly so here for this era of HALEY ❤️ love seeing how happy she is!

  • @Reeceenduro
    @Reeceenduro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Letssss go Haley is backkkkk!!!!!!!!

  • @Mary-mj7le
    @Mary-mj7le 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    im 20 and also not going the college route so i relate so much to this… its weird because i feel like most people my age are either living in a city or at college where there are lots of people their age. its a struggle trying to find a christian community with young people in it lol especially where i live. your videos make me feel like i am not alone ❤

  • @Stella_eq12
    @Stella_eq12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so so much haley!!! You made my day!! ❤❤❤😁😁

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s sweet that you went and had company!

  • @jettwashed
    @jettwashed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    these always motivate me

  • @dina6001
    @dina6001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bry looked so cute with the crown😍 I also loved the setup of her party!

  • @ItsLeloo
    @ItsLeloo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    still cant get over seeing haley pham and claire rosinkranz in the same space, two of my favorite people ngl

  • @emilyking4493
    @emilyking4493 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love journaling!! so good

  • @doylethechocolatelab
    @doylethechocolatelab ปีที่แล้ว

    Not me literally being obsessed with the summer I turned pretty currently and you were watching it in your vlog!

  • @dina6001
    @dina6001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started journaling and loved what it did to me but unfortunately I stopped…Thank you so much for reminding me to do it again💙

  • @ninagoldsmith
    @ninagoldsmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love this seriessss

  • @lauraunfreid145
    @lauraunfreid145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you so much! im going to start journaling now. omg im so exited for that! thank you so much!

  • @rukesa_
    @rukesa_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending you all the love and prayers Haley

  • @BrianaB3
    @BrianaB3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this series!

  • @liekekamphuis8127
    @liekekamphuis8127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started journaling and I love it thanks for the advice❤️

  • @hediicampuzano9220
    @hediicampuzano9220 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best Hayle ilysm ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺

  • @JayBilling
    @JayBilling 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the idea of journaling always wanted to do but didn’t how to start

  • @beachy_tropic5822
    @beachy_tropic5822 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    your such a sweet, loving amazing person! i’m a big fan and love your videos! can you make a video on your Bible study! 💗💗💗

  • @ninagoldsmith
    @ninagoldsmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE CHARCUTERIE WAS SO CUTE