men used to know and understand this fact. its sad how desperate many males are to accept that. do not marry them ever! you will suffer the consequences if you do.
"Lost him to open marriage, how do I win him back"?! You didn't want him enough in the first place to keep him. Nobody who "Wants him enough" to keep him would ever open the relationship.
'...I asked if he was willing to throw seven years of marriage for this.' 'Seven years means nothing now since yoindid it first.' About damn time these betrayed spouse's call out these OP's. Glad they managed to get away from the toxicity
You cannot have it all! He is not coming back! Your . cavalier feelings toward relationships and making out sex as no more than taking a shower every day has reduced who you are as a woman. Why will any man with any standards ever take you serious? They cant and they wont!
It's incredible, why after 5 years of marriage make that request? Monogamy and polygamy are situations to propose before starting a relationship when there are no strong feelings!
Story 1: Husband finds spine, happy ending Story 2: Really tried the gaslight of "throwing away 7 years" lady do you have amnesia & forgot what you did over the last 2 months before he left you?
I agree with the FACT marriage is monogamy! Open marriage, threesomes, swinging etc are all single people choices! They are the opposite of marriage!!! Once you brake those vows it's over!! The legal part is just a technical joke!!! If you are proposing single promiscuous activities to your partner you DO NOT LOVE THEM!!! Any form of betrayal or cheating is enough to end a marriage! It makes me laugh at all these women who want advice after proposing or asking to open/discuss the relationship!! They act like the victim when they are the ones who blew up the relationship!!! The cop out 'I was just talking not asking' is BS. The guy knows from that point you don't love him! You are not who he thought you were! He knows you want to cheat! His love for her will die slowly or just instantly evaporates! Either way he is done and it's her fault, she can gas light and blame shif all she wants but it is DONE!!! The joke is these women who post these stories, even on men's channels can't understand they will not get what they want, that is to have the cake and eat it!!! That is what they are sad about! Losing that cake, that provider, that walking atm they don't have loyalty to!!! And they act confused 😂 when the guy walks!!!
"I said I'd take it all back" Once that topic comes up, it's over. When she says she's happy being monogamous she's lying and will cheat behind his back.
How you can be happy with monogamous life if you ask for open marriage? You contradict yourself... you quite literally told your husband that he is not enough for you
They should have had all those stupid questions up front in the first year of dating virgin or not how many, monogamy or not what position you like or not etc ect. Sounds like they never talked at all plus he got excited on her adventures with other guys all the time it's his fault anyway in doing so lol what guy gets turned on when his wife tells him what she has done with other guys lmao And then we are trying to figure out if girls are tricking men but it's them that haven't set boundaries. She has more experience than him and it shows
For the woman in the story. 1. Ditch the friends who talked you into that bad situation. 2. Call everyone you know and own up to what you did, including how selfish and stupid you were. 3. Get therapy to understand why you felt as entitled as you did to do this to a man you claimed you loved. 4. If you know any of your girlfriends from that circle of friends that talked you into this.That are cheating on their spouses, boyfriends, or significant others tell the significant other, rat them out. Evil prospers when good people do nothing. When good people do nothing and evil begins to prosper. They are no longer good people. They are enablers and accomplices.
My friend said “gurl, just use him for his resources & go out & get ran thru” naturally the response was “l really like that idea”. See how they do not have a conscience.
I just don't understand the lack of tact in these people. If I wanted to bring up an open marriage I would watch a movie with my spouse that had an open marriage in it, after the movie I could ask my spouse's opinion on the subject, I don't look guilty as a result.
1st st. Which Man wants to hear stories of previous partners and techniques? Ridiculous. This simp told himself he was the best of all your conquests, then you turn around and say, I need more, now you're shocked he's mad. 2nd st. Shout out to Jenny, she corrected your illegal act. You only loved what he provided and he replaced you easily.
S2: When a woman starts to listen to her friends instead of her husband...Not shocking it ended the relationship. Never date or marry a woman who uses the words Controlling or Insecure.
She should of listened to her gut in the first place and to him when he said cut those 304 friends off, he knew damn well what they are talking about in private and she didn't give 2 Fs when she said no. How do i get him back?!?!, OP you stabbed him in the heart asking him for an open marriage and called him controlling that moment. He gone
Hey lady you wanted to eat your cake right, so now you can eat anytime you want!!!! Single women keep married women single! I hope he does divorce you because you was the one threw him away. But now you are saying that you regret it. Well that’s too bad for you!
If you were happy being monogamous, your would NEVER have asked to sleep around. The only reason a woman asks for an open relationship is because she is already cheating and is tired of sneaking around OR you have been cheating in your mind and heart and want to cheat in body. BOTH are evil. You will NEVER be able to convince him that you never cheated. You will NEVER be able to convince him that you will never cheat. It is over. You already destroyed him. He will never recover and he will never trust another woman... ever!
So who were you talking to or had your eye on. Your not ashamed of yout passed that's the problem these days normalizing the abnormal.he got with a 304 what did he expect
Marriage is monogamy, a open Marriage is not a Marriage. Open Marriage is a divorce in progress.
100% correct..
What the vows she spoke..???
1st
304's never is wife material.
men used to know and understand this fact. its sad how desperate many males are to accept that. do not marry them ever! you will suffer the consequences if you do.
"Lost him to open marriage, how do I win him back"?!
You didn't want him enough in the first place to keep him. Nobody who "Wants him enough" to keep him would ever open the relationship.
403 are NOT marriage material. Body count it counts
Once a 304 always a 304 both stories.
True that!
Be careful who your gf/wife associates with. 304's of a feather flock together.
"You should date someone from your own background"
"Wait no!, Not like that!"
'...I asked if he was willing to throw seven years of marriage for this.'
'Seven years means nothing now since yoindid it first.' About damn time these betrayed spouse's call out these OP's. Glad they managed to get away from the toxicity
You cannot have it all! He is not coming back! Your . cavalier feelings toward relationships and making out sex as no more than taking a shower every day has reduced who you are as a woman. Why will any man with any standards ever take you serious? They cant and they wont!
It's incredible, why after 5 years of marriage make that request? Monogamy and polygamy are situations to propose before starting a relationship when there are no strong feelings!
Story 1: Husband finds spine, happy ending
Story 2: Really tried the gaslight of "throwing away 7 years" lady do you have amnesia & forgot what you did over the last 2 months before he left you?
Bad past? What a surprise!!!
In the second story she doesn't need her husband as a husband but she needs her husband as a cook!
I agree with the FACT marriage is monogamy! Open marriage, threesomes, swinging etc are all single people choices! They are the opposite of marriage!!! Once you brake those vows it's over!! The legal part is just a technical joke!!! If you are proposing single promiscuous activities to your partner you DO NOT LOVE THEM!!! Any form of betrayal or cheating is enough to end a marriage! It makes me laugh at all these women who want advice after proposing or asking to open/discuss the relationship!! They act like the victim when they are the ones who blew up the relationship!!! The cop out 'I was just talking not asking' is BS. The guy knows from that point you don't love him! You are not who he thought you were! He knows you want to cheat! His love for her will die slowly or just instantly evaporates! Either way he is done and it's her fault, she can gas light and blame shif all she wants but it is DONE!!! The joke is these women who post these stories, even on men's channels can't understand they will not get what they want, that is to have the cake and eat it!!! That is what they are sad about! Losing that cake, that provider, that walking atm they don't have loyalty to!!! And they act confused 😂 when the guy walks!!!
"I said I'd take it all back"
Once that topic comes up, it's over. When she says she's happy being monogamous she's lying and will cheat behind his back.
Both stories demonstrate that there is no shortage of stupidity.
How you can be happy with monogamous life if you ask for open marriage? You contradict yourself... you quite literally told your husband that he is not enough for you
They should have had all those stupid questions up front in the first year of dating virgin or not how many, monogamy or not what position you like or not etc ect.
Sounds like they never talked at all plus he got excited on her adventures with other guys all the time it's his fault anyway in doing so lol what guy gets turned on when his wife tells him what she has done with other guys lmao
And then we are trying to figure out if girls are tricking men but it's them that haven't set boundaries.
She has more experience than him and it shows
For the woman in the story.
1. Ditch the friends who talked you into that bad situation.
2. Call everyone you know and own up to what you did, including how selfish and stupid you were.
3. Get therapy to understand why you felt as entitled as you did to do this to a man you claimed you loved.
4. If you know any of your girlfriends from that circle of friends that talked you into this.That are cheating on their spouses, boyfriends, or significant others tell the significant other, rat them out.
Evil prospers when good people do nothing. When good people do nothing and evil begins to prosper. They are no longer good people. They are enablers and accomplices.
My friend said “gurl, just use him for his resources & go out & get ran thru” naturally the response was “l really like that idea”.
See how they do not have a conscience.
I just don't understand the lack of tact in these people. If I wanted to bring up an open marriage I would watch a movie with my spouse that had an open marriage in it, after the movie I could ask my spouse's opinion on the subject, I don't look guilty as a result.
One of these stories had that and it ended badly as well. Neither men or women are dumb. You bring it up, you want it.
2nd needs to be reported to the DHS or immigration or IRS
Who gives a damn they were actually married to a period of time because they like each other before she cheated.
If you love someone and your "friends" start bad mouthing them and you don't get angry at the friend, you're not in love with your partner...
Story two: 😂
SPeaking about stupid women and their toxic friends!
1st st.
Which Man wants to hear stories of previous partners and techniques?
Ridiculous.
This simp told himself he was the best of all your conquests, then you turn around and say, I need more, now you're shocked he's mad.
2nd st.
Shout out to Jenny, she corrected your illegal act. You only loved what he provided and he replaced you easily.
Show him you adore him, sounded very one sided
S2: When a woman starts to listen to her friends instead of her husband...Not shocking it ended the relationship. Never date or marry a woman who uses the words Controlling or Insecure.
He should never have went near this woman
Can't turn a 304 into a housewife...
Karma is rough. Very foolish
Story 1. Can't turn a 304 into a house wife.
Hes not controlling lady
She should of listened to her gut in the first place and to him when he said cut those 304 friends off, he knew damn well what they are talking about in private and she didn't give 2 Fs when she said no. How do i get him back?!?!, OP you stabbed him in the heart asking him for an open marriage and called him controlling that moment. He gone
Can't turn a 304 into a wife.
A woman's past matters. No, he's obviously not enough for you
No you don't love him
2nd one just wanted his money. Didnt care for him.
Your husband started it !!
304 are not wife material, all they care about is getting more body counts.
Get used to McDonalds and not home cooked Indian food. Sounds like he came out the winner.
S2: Single women keep women single.
Liar in the first minute. No one else in mind!!!!!!!!!!!!! LIAR!!!!!!!!!!
This is just dump girl logic .
Story 1. OP was not happy being monogamous, otherwise she would not have raised the subject of an open marriage. What bullshit is she trying to pull?
I hope he is smart and leaves you. You dont deserve such a person.
She just wants him to take care of her while she gets Chad..... she never wanted him 8:46
Good video
Hahaahhahahahaha 1st story guy is pure beta boy
Hey lady you wanted to eat your cake right, so now you can eat anytime you want!!!!
Single women keep married women single!
I hope he does divorce you because you was the one threw him away. But now you are saying that you regret it. Well that’s too bad for you!
Story 2 Jenny a single mom or bitter women
I can sort of sympathize with this lady. I mean seems reasonable of your husbands gets off on your stories of sleeping with other men.
Knaks
If you were happy being monogamous, your would NEVER have asked to sleep around.
The only reason a woman asks for an open relationship is because she is already cheating and is tired of sneaking around OR you have been cheating in your mind and heart and want to cheat in body. BOTH are evil.
You will NEVER be able to convince him that you never cheated. You will NEVER be able to convince him that you will never cheat.
It is over. You already destroyed him. He will never recover and he will never trust another woman... ever!
Through reflection and research ? NONSENSE! Once one or both spouses serious consider an open marriage, the monogamous marriage is practically OVER.
story 2 with "friends" like that who need enemies
So who were you talking to or had your eye on. Your not ashamed of yout passed that's the problem these days normalizing the abnormal.he got with a 304 what did he expect