Yep, I agree with that if my kid made that kind of wish I would talk to them & tell them that not all wishes come true especially the kind of wish he asked for his mom did a bad thing & I can't be with someone like that. Of course, the kid is going to press or make demands which I'll have to put my foot down & say when he's older he'll understand & respect me better when he goes through the same thing himself.
She showed you who she was and you ignored it and doubled down. It's hard to listen to these stories where they ignore red flags and dive into shark infested water after dipping into buckets of chum.
A lot of times a good man will want to believe that he chose a good woman and it is harder for him to see her flaws because he wants to believe that she's a good woman be careful how you judge a good man for being a good man and his people like you cause good men not to be so damn good in the end
It's the person that cheats on them that chases them from being good. Place the accountability where it belongs. I was with a chick for 5 years loyally and she thought the grass was greener and cheated. 2 years later she tried to come back and I declined. I'm still the same guy that will never cheat or mess with someone in a relationship but I pay more attention to things that can pose to be potential problems in the future.
@@ithompson8286 going through this kind of s*** with friends I've had I have to say don't take a cheater back if it hurts you that deep do not take a cheater back and it will hurt you that deep so just don't take one back but seeing this s*** happened from a different angle I got to say that sometimes that bastard that caused her to cheat berated her for weeks and weeks or months and months maybe even over a year just to get her into a hotel room for one time that don't mean you got to forgive her for letting in for that one time cuz she should have told your ass about it and let you handle that s*** I'm just saying don't demonize everybody cuz not everybody's a f****** demon
@@ithompson8286 can you write you should always Place accountability where it belongs in your also one hell of a good person for not letting that b******* change you what I'm trying to say is that too many people want to accept the blame for what someone else f****** does you don't have to accept that s*** those people make those choices and you're not alone and in the world we live in you can connect with somebody else whether it's in your town in your city or across the f****** world you don't have to settle for this s*** you don't have to be the f****** punching bag cuz I want you to be that they use it as an excuse to harm you and I know you see that I just hope other people do cuz there's too many people that fall into that
@@ithompson8286 oh I completely agree there are so many cases that I could point to of people that I know that we're good men and they were done wrong by a bad woman and they decided to be a bad man but then I had to ask a question where they really men in the first place because a real man will not let a damn thing under the person does shake them from the man they are I don't care who you are or what you do you can't change me from being a good man but you can bring outsides of this good man that will destroy you but only because this good man knows that you would destroy others if he doesn't you can't shake a good man from being a good man all you can do is it yourself because that good man will stand up to a bully or you can call it evil or you can call it bad whatever the hell you want to call it a good man will always stand up and stand in the face of that ship
Candace: you fall short as a husband, you don't know how I feel, you don't care.... Also Candace: no, I don't want a divorce, you're the love of my life...
Ugh. That letter really irked me. Immature women think their personal sense of fulfillment is their husband's responsibility. I feel bad for the many men who get saddled with the blame for their wife's general sense of dissatisfaction.
Agreed this happens way too often and men will often stay in these toxic relationships because the damage from divorce can be so punitive to them. I always say if you can't afford divorce don't get married. Have a prenuptial agreement with an infidelity clause. Many women today have 304 phases and then clean up their act just long enough to bag a good man. But they can rarely be happy with a good man. Eventually they will stray back like a dog to it's vomit
"I want a man that takes us on trips all over the world!". Literally 30 seconds later "you're always working, you never pay attention to me!". Why are they like this??
Because they want a rich man who can afford to take them on trips all the time and never have to actually work to pay for said trips These women wanna hang out with guys like Andrew Tate and stuff, rich guys who will just buy them everything and take them out on trips and stuff
I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't get the kid to say that wish herself. Or put it in his head for weeks before the birthday so when the day came that was top of his wishlist.
When will men learn that boundaries must be set as to the nature and character of the people a married couple cannot and must not associate with? And that, even if such undesirable people are family members! There are clearly toxins that threaten the institution of marriage, and they must be resisted on principle. Marriage, by its very nature, requires serious changes as two independent individuals become one flesh which demands a critical level of trust, and the very appearance of evil has to be shunned.
The problem isn't the cheating but the lack of respect you had for yourself. My wife wouldn't go on solo date with me. Back your stuff and we are done. How difficult is that? You don't work on a relationship where you are being insulted.
Well every story that says his wife or girlfriend goes out with her friends guys should already know that they will cheat unless they bring Grandma with them and even that is or may be dangerous
The red flag he miss at the start was god showing him a sign but he missed it, I bet the mom is the one that tell the son to wish for that, he was weak and should have tell his son right their to wish for something else.
@@censured-again The first time he caught her messaging another dude and promising to meet up and do sexual shit in a bathroom was his q to cut her out of his life as a parthner but no he has to go back and marry her, the myspace message was the god send sign for him to run and never look back.
Never trust a cheater, once a cheater always one, very foolish getting married to her, she was only interested in your money and nothing else. You should have run and run very fast and far away.
“l don’t see you enough” answer: open relationship or divorce. Logic - Doesn’t that mean you will see them less or never see them again!?! Make it make sense. “l’m not the same person” answer: l’m different now. Logic - make that make sense!…….. This is why men must lead at all times and explain to them very early on that you do not tolerate disrespect of any kind. Small infractions can be discussed and remind them you do not want to be disrespected. Major disrespect must result in the man walking away. Do not have the scarcity mindset. Being alone is better than most young men know & understand.
Just FYI Don't let kids blackmail you morally. It's really easy to make a kid say what you want - just give them toys, whatever, sow seeds. Seen that happen several times during divorces, kids blamed one parent for all the bad things. Because kids are kids and they're still unable to see the difference between something that tastes good and making the right decision.
I couldn't listen anymore after "We agreed to open marriage". Guy deserves everyrhing that followed whatever that was since I haven't finished listening.
Ya, after hearing the part where he said some female coworker trapped him in the room and tried to take advantage of him then go on to say they both made mistakes.....I didn't want to hear anymore. She cheated....some female essentially sexually assaulted him and used that as justification to get back with her cause he felt he wasn't innocent too. I feel so for no man or woman who voluntarily put themselves in the bad situation they find themselves. She showed him from the beginning she isn't worth shit and he went back to her anyway. Also, don't use the child as an excuse. You can co parent, you don't need to be with a liar and cheater to be a parent to your child.
She definitely had part in her son asking for them to be a family since the OP found success after all that hard work and wanted that easy life with the benefit of having her fun on the side. That letter was the biggest pile of elephant excrement coming from a cheater with no sense of shame.
If you stay with a known cheater. Everything they serve up to you in the form of abuse, betrayal and disrespect is on YOU! Weak and ignorant men are punished until they are no longer weak and ignorant.
Just don’t know what to say. But wow! Got to realize what the situation is. Don’t look for love just temporary companionship. It’s easy and safer. Today the available individual pool is no more than concubines! 🐈
The thing is, you can take them on holidays and out to lunch etc. Then still get the "Im bored" thing or "I'm not happy" nonsense. Some women after you are with them a year or two want mutually exclusive things. EG my first x wife whinging I did not spend enough time with her, and that I should do more overtime. Work was the only time I was away from her. Needless to say I left and divorced her.
Well he saw it, tried doing everything in his power ... to continue being lied and cheated on. It's on both of them. Hopefully he learns his lesson and not be a doormat in his future. I don't fell bad fornhi., just shaking my head at OP.
Despite his son's wish OP should've stayed the course & dropped his wife now his son has deal with it that despite his wish his parents still ended up splitting nice going kid.
Once, there is plenty to walk away from. Once my ex-wife did her shit well I divorced her then got put in jail for faults shit and now Il never be married ever again. Been single sents 2005
She is a hypocrite within her own letter, first she says she didn't feel the love when he came home ate slept and crapped but out of the other side of her mouth she says she never felt anyone love her more. Which is it? This is proof you connot argue feelings or emotions, the change with every breath. I haven't made the mistake of going back cuz the first one I divorced and sent her off and she still came back once to see I'd moved on. (I hadn't but my super hot friend posed as my gf) The second sent me packin but like this guy put my focus on myself so when this one came back seeing me thrive, she wanted in on this action. I'm like no way! She tore down once already what I'd built and I'm not letting her do it again. Brothers, stay single and under sell how much you actually have, sound broke. Women are playing poker and ya all are trying to impress her with tiddly winks. Get played once and get to the poker table and don't show your hand. Ever.
Dont give a second chance to a girl like what ever happen.. Dont.. Give second or any chance at all... She not appreciated you at all... Just me me me....
This guy did it all to himself. He should have left when she decided to do something different after 8 years. I get it. I stayed with a woman for my baby. Never do that. I've learned a man can take care of his child without being involved with the Mom. Period . I listened to story channels' for a long time and am older, 50s so i have to think back to my early 20s for reference. Most of these guys are just plain weak, SIMPs or doormats. They learn... sometimes but it always slow and they take so many hits it's like they enjoy it.
Commenting on the title. No interest to actually watch. If a woman wants an open marriage, give it to her with immediate divorce. Walk away and never look back!
Do you worked hard at improving your lifestyle and your way of live by making more money and being a provider. Your wife is the one who became too comfortable in the relationship. She got so used to it that she thought that she could do almost anything. But this wasn’t enough for her because all she thought about was about her selfish lustful desires to be with others! She had already disrespected you from the very beginning, when she cheated the first time, but you took her back. That was your biggest mistake! She is the one who took you for granted and never appreciated anything! She pissed away the marriage! Women like this do not deserve another bite out of the apple! You have to send her back to the streets!
Blah blah, you neglect our son.... weird how that came after saying what she wanted. "I want to be with a man that can take me on trips and pay for a nanny to watch our son"
Never feel sorry for someone who plays Russian Roulette with a fully loaded gun.
Bro played it with a loaded 22 guage😂
He didn't make 'mistakes' he made choices, he made decisions. He even said he didn't regret them.
MORAL OF THE STORY ........ DON'T LET KIDS DETERMINE THE DIRECTION OF YOUR LOVE LIFE.
Yep, I agree with that if my kid made that kind of wish I would talk to them & tell them that not all wishes come true especially the kind of wish he asked for his mom did a bad thing & I can't be with someone like that. Of course, the kid is going to press or make demands which I'll have to put my foot down & say when he's older he'll understand & respect me better when he goes through the same thing himself.
But , what if it's their birthday?
She showed you who she was and you ignored it and doubled down. It's hard to listen to these stories where they ignore red flags and dive into shark infested water after dipping into buckets of chum.
A lot of times a good man will want to believe that he chose a good woman and it is harder for him to see her flaws because he wants to believe that she's a good woman be careful how you judge a good man for being a good man and his people like you cause good men not to be so damn good in the end
It's the person that cheats on them that chases them from being good. Place the accountability where it belongs. I was with a chick for 5 years loyally and she thought the grass was greener and cheated. 2 years later she tried to come back and I declined. I'm still the same guy that will never cheat or mess with someone in a relationship but I pay more attention to things that can pose to be potential problems in the future.
@@ithompson8286 going through this kind of s*** with friends I've had I have to say don't take a cheater back if it hurts you that deep do not take a cheater back and it will hurt you that deep so just don't take one back but seeing this s*** happened from a different angle I got to say that sometimes that bastard that caused her to cheat berated her for weeks and weeks or months and months maybe even over a year just to get her into a hotel room for one time that don't mean you got to forgive her for letting in for that one time cuz she should have told your ass about it and let you handle that s*** I'm just saying don't demonize everybody cuz not everybody's a f****** demon
@@ithompson8286 can you write you should always Place accountability where it belongs in your also one hell of a good person for not letting that b******* change you what I'm trying to say is that too many people want to accept the blame for what someone else f****** does you don't have to accept that s*** those people make those choices and you're not alone and in the world we live in you can connect with somebody else whether it's in your town in your city or across the f****** world you don't have to settle for this s*** you don't have to be the f****** punching bag cuz I want you to be that they use it as an excuse to harm you and I know you see that I just hope other people do cuz there's too many people that fall into that
@@ithompson8286 oh I completely agree there are so many cases that I could point to of people that I know that we're good men and they were done wrong by a bad woman and they decided to be a bad man but then I had to ask a question where they really men in the first place because a real man will not let a damn thing under the person does shake them from the man they are I don't care who you are or what you do you can't change me from being a good man but you can bring outsides of this good man that will destroy you but only because this good man knows that you would destroy others if he doesn't you can't shake a good man from being a good man all you can do is it yourself because that good man will stand up to a bully or you can call it evil or you can call it bad whatever the hell you want to call it a good man will always stand up and stand in the face of that ship
She showed her true colors since the beginning,he let his son dictate starting a relationship with a cheater.Cant feel sorry for him.is this his son?
If it aint, send him to boarding school and file the next day 😂.
probably not and he should go check himself for stds as well, if his girl is willing to give random dudes head in a mall bathroom, she's INFESTED!
Candace: you fall short as a husband, you don't know how I feel, you don't care....
Also Candace: no, I don't want a divorce, you're the love of my life...
No regrets? You modeled a disfunctional relationship for your son. He might fall into the same cycle. Congrats
Yep. Another simp passing on his weakness to his son. Real shame.
Ugh. That letter really irked me. Immature women think their personal sense of fulfillment is their husband's responsibility. I feel bad for the many men who get saddled with the blame for their wife's general sense of dissatisfaction.
Agreed this happens way too often and men will often stay in these toxic relationships because the damage from divorce can be so punitive to them. I always say if you can't afford divorce don't get married. Have a prenuptial agreement with an infidelity clause. Many women today have 304 phases and then clean up their act just long enough to bag a good man. But they can rarely be happy with a good man. Eventually they will stray back like a dog to it's vomit
These women are coo coo for cocoa puffs, straight jacket certified.
"I want a man that takes us on trips all over the world!". Literally 30 seconds later "you're always working, you never pay attention to me!". Why are they like this??
Because they want a rich man who can afford to take them on trips all the time and never have to actually work to pay for said trips
These women wanna hang out with guys like Andrew Tate and stuff, rich guys who will just buy them everything and take them out on trips and stuff
You forgot to say and then get exploited because of this and then bitch because men are their only problem in life@@trustymccoolguy4259
Doormat being a doormat doing doormat things... what a surprise
I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't get the kid to say that wish herself. Or put it in his head for weeks before the birthday so when the day came that was top of his wishlist.
We dont feel sorry for simps out here! He brought this upon himself
I knew he was down bad when he said " he wasnt even that funny " within the first minute lolol
and them again she belongs to the streets lets be real about it
Damn…I know I was an idiot before but this guys make me look like a genius! 😂
HE NAILED HER SISTER!!! SO COOL! THATS JUSTICE!!!
Never ever take back a cheater even if your son wants you to smfh
When will men learn that boundaries must be set as to the nature and character of the people a married couple cannot and must not associate with? And that, even if such undesirable people are family members! There are clearly toxins that threaten the institution of marriage, and they must be resisted on principle. Marriage, by its very nature, requires serious changes as two independent individuals become one flesh which demands a critical level of trust, and the very appearance of evil has to be shunned.
The problem isn't the cheating but the lack of respect you had for yourself. My wife wouldn't go on solo date with me. Back your stuff and we are done. How difficult is that? You don't work on a relationship where you are being insulted.
There is no victim here, he wanted it, he has no regrets, he's asking for it, he got what he wanted, there's no problems.
I guess what's good for the goose isn't good for the gander!😂
Well every story that says his wife or girlfriend goes out with her friends guys should already know that they will cheat unless they bring Grandma with them and even that is or may be dangerous
Emperor Palpatine- *GOOD GOOOOD*
The red flag he miss at the start was god showing him a sign but he missed it, I bet the mom is the one that tell the son to wish for that, he was weak and should have tell his son right their to wish for something else.
It must be a traffic sign because I don't see it either.
@@censured-again The first time he caught her messaging another dude and promising to meet up and do sexual shit in a bathroom was his q to cut her out of his life as a parthner but no he has to go back and marry her, the myspace message was the god send sign for him to run and never look back.
@@thematrix2661agreed, you don't give a cheater a second chance because they will cheat again
Never trust a cheater, once a cheater always one, very foolish getting married to her, she was only interested in your money and nothing else. You should have run and run very fast and far away.
Welp, he brought all of this on himself. No simpathy for him.
I see what you did there…. Or if you didn’t do it on purpose…. that was the greatest typo of all time!
@@HomeDefender30 🤣🤣😉
you are nasty
That screen shot got me lol.
I think if a spouse says open marriage than it is time to say divorce! Bringing some extra drama into any marriage is never a good idea 🤮😪😞🙄☠️
This is a massive commitment that i was not prepared for.
“l don’t see you enough”
answer: open relationship or divorce.
Logic - Doesn’t that mean you will see them less or never see them again!?! Make it make sense.
“l’m not the same person”
answer: l’m different now.
Logic - make that make sense!……..
This is why men must lead at all times and explain to them very early on that you do not tolerate disrespect of any kind.
Small infractions can be discussed and remind them you do not want to be disrespected.
Major disrespect must result in the man walking away.
Do not have the scarcity mindset. Being alone is better than most young men know & understand.
Man, these real stories on real TH-cam accounts really makes me feel real.
Go get the sister.. 😂😂
0:12 Ann Silvers M.A.
Abuse OF men BY women: It happens, it hurts, and it's time to get real about it
Then it’s Divorce
1:35 once a 304 always a 304😒
What a bloody gift !!!
Just FYI
Don't let kids blackmail you morally. It's really easy to make a kid say what you want - just give them toys, whatever, sow seeds.
Seen that happen several times during divorces, kids blamed one parent for all the bad things. Because kids are kids and they're still unable to see the difference between something that tastes good and making the right decision.
Good job. Stay strong
If somebody said I want to open marriage I would simply say I thought we were in an open marriage
My son said he's always wanted matching ring tats🎉!!
Men are the financial provider, the entertainment provider, the everything while getting nothing in reciprocation.
Bro you need to start dubbing the whole story instead of the AI, definitely get you more views.
NEVER FIGHT over The TOWN BIKE'S,, it shows YOU don't RESPECT YOUR SELF 🤦🤦
Good video
I couldn't listen anymore after "We agreed to open marriage". Guy deserves everyrhing that followed whatever that was since I haven't finished listening.
i agree this dude is a simp but she for the streets too tho lets be honest about it
you are a bad person
Ya, after hearing the part where he said some female coworker trapped him in the room and tried to take advantage of him then go on to say they both made mistakes.....I didn't want to hear anymore. She cheated....some female essentially sexually assaulted him and used that as justification to get back with her cause he felt he wasn't innocent too. I feel so for no man or woman who voluntarily put themselves in the bad situation they find themselves. She showed him from the beginning she isn't worth shit and he went back to her anyway. Also, don't use the child as an excuse. You can co parent, you don't need to be with a liar and cheater to be a parent to your child.
Holy shit this sounds just like my ex-wife
go for her mom next
She definitely had part in her son asking for them to be a family since the OP found success after all that hard work and wanted that easy life with the benefit of having her fun on the side. That letter was the biggest pile of elephant excrement coming from a cheater with no sense of shame.
Wild thought, but I can tell you stopped drinking as much. Good job bro
All those signs for this fool. No sympathy for this fool
Legend
She put the son up for the birthday wish
If you stay with a known cheater. Everything they serve up to you in the form of abuse, betrayal and disrespect is on YOU!
Weak and ignorant men are punished until they are no longer weak and ignorant.
When her bestie is a hot, she's nit far behind her!
Just don’t know what to say. But wow! Got to realize what the situation is. Don’t look for love just temporary companionship. It’s easy and safer. Today the available individual pool is no more than concubines! 🐈
The thing is, you can take them on holidays and out to lunch etc. Then still get the "Im bored" thing or "I'm not happy" nonsense. Some women after you are with them a year or two want mutually exclusive things. EG my first x wife whinging I did not spend enough time with her, and that I should do more overtime. Work was the only time I was away from her. Needless to say I left and divorced her.
She would have went out of the door quicker than she come in with me
Open ? Unity is disconnected and will end badly
Well he saw it, tried doing everything in his power ... to continue being lied and cheated on. It's on both of them. Hopefully he learns his lesson and not be a doormat in his future. I don't fell bad fornhi., just shaking my head at OP.
Why did he have 6 grand in student loans when he said school was free? Makes me question the rest of the story
Despite his son's wish OP should've stayed the course & dropped his wife now his son has deal with it that despite his wish his parents still ended up splitting nice going kid.
So she wanted to travel the world.Did her best friend take her on a trip?
Open marriage: cheating with permission...ended with divorce ..started by boring or some influence from friends..
Isnt the woman on the Thumbnail Lagertha, the greatest shieldmaiden to ever live? Is there actually a second dude thats dumb enough to divorce her? ^^
This is plain stupid. The guy was a complete idiot getting back with his cheating ex.
All doormats use the word "mistake". I guess it makes everything easier for them.
Did this chick say “super duper”
I want to know what ever became of the step sister?
Once, there is plenty to walk away from. Once my ex-wife did her shit well I divorced her then got put in jail for faults shit and now Il never be married ever again. Been single sents 2005
Bro with that grammar and spelling you probably shouldn’t have been married to begin with. You were asking to be controlled.
A 10 year old wrote this story how it's worded.
She is a hypocrite within her own letter, first she says she didn't feel the love when he came home ate slept and crapped but out of the other side of her mouth she says she never felt anyone love her more. Which is it?
This is proof you connot argue feelings or emotions, the change
with every breath.
I haven't made the mistake of going back cuz the first one I divorced and sent her off and she still came back once to see I'd moved on. (I hadn't but my super hot friend posed as my gf) The second sent me packin but like this guy put my focus on myself so when this one came back seeing me thrive, she wanted in on this action. I'm like no way! She tore down once already what I'd built and I'm not letting her do it again.
Brothers, stay single and under sell how much you actually have, sound broke. Women are playing poker and ya all are trying to impress her with tiddly winks. Get played once and get to the poker table and don't show your hand. Ever.
I believe she put her son up to that
Dont give a second chance to a girl like what ever happen.. Dont.. Give second or any chance at all... She not appreciated you at all... Just me me me....
Men aren't mind readers.
frfr no cap
Love isn't a feeling and nobody can make you happy but you, so stop blaming other people for your unhappiness.
This guy did it all to himself. He should have left when she decided to do something different after 8 years.
I get it. I stayed with a woman for my baby. Never do that. I've learned a man can take care of his child without being involved with the Mom. Period .
I listened to story channels' for a long time and am older, 50s so i have to think back to my early 20s for reference.
Most of these guys are just plain weak, SIMPs or doormats. They learn... sometimes but it always slow and they take so many hits it's like they enjoy it.
Commenting on the title. No interest to actually watch. If a woman wants an open marriage, give it to her with immediate divorce. Walk away and never look back!
Do you worked hard at improving your lifestyle and your way of live by making more money and being a provider. Your wife is the one who became too comfortable in the relationship. She got so used to it that she thought that she could do almost anything. But this wasn’t enough for her because all she thought about was about her selfish lustful desires to be with others! She had already disrespected you from the very beginning, when she cheated the first time, but you took her back. That was your biggest mistake! She is the one who took you for granted and never appreciated anything! She pissed away the marriage! Women like this do not deserve another bite out of the apple! You have to send her back to the streets!
frfr no cap
she belongs to the streets
Your both tripping hard
But in the end Billie Jean is still not his girl
Bro that note is the most off based shit Ive heard lately and I grew up with 7 older sisters.
He is just as bad or worse than she is, he should have stayed with her...they are a perfect match.
you are nasty
omg,the guy us so stupid to tatoo a ring with his name onto cuz then it be hard to take off and hard to get a new gf with it
Dumbest thing ever.
super low effort. the "original footage" is odd
This one feels really fake to me
comments read. simpetry overload detected. abort viewing!!
Doormat
Blah blah, you neglect our son.... weird how that came after saying what she wanted. "I want to be with a man that can take me on trips and pay for a nanny to watch our son"
frfr no cap
she belongs to the streets
This story is bull***
When I hear these stories, I feel like these cheated men are lacking intelligence. Or maybe they act this way because it suits them.
dude go and read the sorry again💀💀 no cap
You are weak bro let that be my one you respectfully check her and if she’s not with it bye
frfr no cap