This Happens EVERY TIME Before Your Ex Decides to Reach Out (Podcast 903)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @JTravelChannel
    @JTravelChannel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    From personal experience experience I found the first 3-6 months the hardest time after being dumped but once you get through this period it becomes easier to get on with your life and not really care about getting back with them. Time is the key ❤

  • @KingArthurreturns
    @KingArthurreturns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I personally would never go back to an ex, because you simply don’t know where they’ve been…

    • @jonsentertainmentanddiy
      @jonsentertainmentanddiy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Do you mean to say that you Knew Everything about him / her BEFORE you guys entered into a relationship???
      Are you even Sure that you Know All her / his Whereabouts and the things she / he Did BEFORE you guys had a Relationship?

    • @Ella89zxx
      @Ella89zxx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Good for you. I hate to tell you that you don’t know where new people you meet have been either

    • @I-Am-Wonderful
      @I-Am-Wonderful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You don’t know where they’ve been before they were with you either.

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions089 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Not everyone who goes no contact has a time limit. Some make no contact a permanent decision.

  • @thompsontrevors
    @thompsontrevors 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    “Acceptance of the process” is a really intriguing and helpful reframe.

  • @GarethJohnson-gd6if
    @GarethJohnson-gd6if หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    1 month down, working hard to detach from every part of her. Return all her stuff got mine (she didn't like that ). Removed her off everything. The hard part is she is pergent but is totally nuts. Need to fully detach for sanity sp when my son arrives I can be the strong man I was before almost getting destroyed by her. Never let them back only pain

  • @inferno5922
    @inferno5922 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Brad browning and his 30 day no contact scam 😂 thanks Vincent for being authentic and helping me with my anxiety bro

    • @PB-md3nt
      @PB-md3nt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Anyone saying that you should use a 30 day no contact period is full of sh!t. No Contact lasts for as long as it needs to last. If it's 30 days great, most likely in my experience it's between 45-70 days before she reaches out.

    • @Odinala682
      @Odinala682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No seriously, that guy sucks. I've found Vincent, Craig, and other coaches that do no contact the right way give the best advice. Coaches like Brad prey on anxiety

  • @sebastianmueller8152
    @sebastianmueller8152 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was the rebound

  • @MrTony759
    @MrTony759 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well in my case it is now 3yrs and half so for my point of view don't think see would come anymore..so I think she just moved on with her life and the same....so for me that's alright if she would had come back in that small period we could had talked and see ..

  • @KairoGlyph
    @KairoGlyph 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Vincent What if the dumper still watches your story’s and has you on her close friend’s list on instagram ? It’s been a month and they still watch why ? I don’t watch btw just so confused by the action

    • @TheDevineFempress
      @TheDevineFempress 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Block

    • @bransoncarlisle7934
      @bransoncarlisle7934 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here. Eventually she blocked me but yeah, confusing. She even tried to talk to me a couple times directly after dumping me

    • @gudni9060
      @gudni9060 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It means that your dumper is interested enough to be curious about you but not interested enough to reach out. Don't let this stage fool you, here is where dumpers often give out breadcrumbs. Live your live to the fullest and only respond when given something substantial.

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He won't return because I'm with someone better. 😂

  • @robertanderson2289
    @robertanderson2289 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    👍