Dumper Regret Triggers (Podcast 487)

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  • @vincentbos
    @vincentbos  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @kenf.2413
    @kenf.2413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Dumpees, just dump your dumpers. If they crawl back, give them a chance, if not, just let them go away. Period.

  • @BullMarketBandit
    @BullMarketBandit ปีที่แล้ว +8

    They don't care. Mine was 9 months ago. We already had a thanksgiving, Christmas, Valentine's Day without each other and she didn't care lmao. On Easter I'm sure was actually with another guy going to a concert. Which is interesting seeing as she normally is with her family on holidays. Her partying, F ing and drinking days will eventually come to an end. If I ever hear from her I'll be over this. She already is so why can't I be?

  • @oldgoat5589
    @oldgoat5589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    But most dumpers don't give a toss about you, once they leave. They aren't interested in you, or your life, any more - they just don't care - invariably, that's why they left in the first place. Forget about them, move on, find a replacement - I did, and didn"t look back. And I'm nearly 74.

    • @chunkybuttz844
      @chunkybuttz844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Maybe because of your age you see things very clearly and simultaneously black/white. My ex is 25 and has seemingly been quite interested in what I’ve been up to. I agree with you though because if I broke it off with someone then I wouldn’t be interested in their goings on

    • @kalstkim1254
      @kalstkim1254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thats the thing we moved on, ok we did it. Im sure the dumper thinks about their dumpee forever, b/c the dumpee is a memory, and the dumpee was part of their life. Dumpee just doesnt disapper from the dumpers mind--ever. Dumper thinks about dumpee more times than the dumpee thinks. But, if they want you back, they will find you.

    • @ikr2377
      @ikr2377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True but easier said then done

    • @paulcolin9071
      @paulcolin9071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'd move on and replace them too

    • @paulcolin9071
      @paulcolin9071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kalst you think?

  • @sammoe1292
    @sammoe1292 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This ain’t version 2.0. I’m version 5.0. And she will never get to partake. This pain revealed to me the monster I didn’t know I was.

  • @Count_Jacula
    @Count_Jacula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think this will especially be triggering to both dumpee an dumper if you been together for a while an now they are about to have the holidays alone for the first time. My example last 3 xmas me an my ex would go to my families after work as they were closer then hers. This year she will work an then be alone as cant get to her families in time an wont be with mine this year it would almost be impossible to think back on the previous years etc i will be honestly i feel sad for her to be alone on Xmas if that's how it pans out but she made the choice she chose to leave so its not my concern really.

  • @btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892
    @btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well... I was always better than him to begin with

  • @princess_joy19
    @princess_joy19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u

  • @santimarak6126
    @santimarak6126 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel boring listening to his accent

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry to hear this.

    • @rwentfordable
      @rwentfordable ปีที่แล้ว

      You're English grammar is bad. It hurts to read.

    • @santimarak6126
      @santimarak6126 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually your content are great Very motivating video..

    • @vincentbos
      @vincentbos  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for your kind words.