Sick of Him Only Texting? Do This Next...(Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)
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If a guy likes you he will want to see you, if he is only texting and not making dates, guess what? He doesn't like you.
Not true
Ouch really
what if they're nervous to meet you? like maybe the girl is super pretty but the guy thinks he won't be able to live up to his expectations type of thing
@@Jan-bc3ed I AGREE
Or they are dating others..
If a guy acts like this, start talking to other guys because more than likely, he’s seeing or talking to someone else, so unless he steps up, don’t just give all your focus to him.
Guy was only texting, I got annoyed, I decided to ask him if he had any plans for saturday, he replied back with a lame excuse, he continued texting and I just stop replying back, why waste my time?
You are so right
the same thing happened to me
But why do they do it? I can't find the reason
They are bored and want attention, also might want to make you hang in there until they decide if they want to see you or not. And if they do it's prolly just to get laid.
Why so little respect? It makes me so mad...
Only texting is disrespectful and if you are disrespected you need to walk away. Wish them luck, because they will need a lot of it.
Drop a guy who doesn't put an effort to see you because you are just wasting your time texting him and to him you are just a diversion to his boredom.
If you ain't trying fuck what did you expect
@@redfather5342 lol did she say that?
TRue, you will regret it if you have kids with him
When even Matthew Hussey is getting curved, you know it’s hard out there
Sarah Santiago fr
Lol so true
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Sarah Santiago.. seriously I was thinking the same thing.
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People who just use you as a side texter, do not deserve any attention you have to give him. Good video.
I agree I wuld nvr do that 2 him that chick has nnoooo idea how hard it is 2 come across like matthew n 2 be legit hmmmm
Dayna Martinez I was thinking the same thing :-)
Natalie ☺ 2 do that is #icant team too much
Dayna Martinez I agree. People eventually get tired of that.
Natalie Cherie People who just text don't really want to connect with you on any intimate level.
Me: I miss your voice, we haven't spoken in so long
Guy: * sends three words voice clip then keeps texting *
Maria Oca - did you say anything to him about it?
Maria Oca haha
Hahaha omg. Such jerks
😂😂😂
Hahahaha! Oh my gosh! 😂
Talking on the phone gets in the way of them texting other people while they are texting you.
omg this is amazing
Exactttllyyyyyyyyyy
Their brain is with someone else, can't concentrate on you for more than 3 minutes.
They can still text other people while on the phone though.
This advice actually worked...I text the one about being a robot..he responded a day later...we text some more then I ghosted him. He later text me a long text about who he is and friend requested me on FB..too bad he took too long because while he was texting I met a man who called and stole my heart.
Eleborate
Wow good for u I can't wait until this happen to me!
Niceee
I need that kind of luck. I keep somehow meeting these sexually deprived men who are pigs when texting.
@@kimpollard434 HAHAHAHAHA. FEEL THE SAME
means he wants to be single. he is not interested so leave him alone
Shantell McShane no prob hes seeing someone else, and will come back to you when it fails, but still just someone to kill time with, so just bullshit, next!
he is gay.
@@chuckie826 makes sense
Hell yeh
To me if a guy don't reach out, especially in the beginning, I'm out. I've been burnt in love and learned a valuable lesson: better be single than in a toxic relationship.
Unfortunately, the actual conversation is becoming a lost art.
2019 "now non existent
Imagine it Now
Yes it is
If you want to talk so badly go talk to him in person
Trash a guy who only text you, he's not worth it.
What makes you say that
@@DemonRose69 you sound entitled maybe you need to wake up and smell the coffee
@@redfather5342 It's not a matter of being entitled. If I'm seeing a man and sleeping with him, a phone call is necessary here and there. Honestly. Would you want to give your body to someone who you can't call in the event of an emergency? If the answer is no, you have respect for yourself then.
@@Khrystal-wl6kz you can't 'give' your body to nobody what kind of retarded logic do you have also just because some guy is fucking doesn't mean he owes you anything
Haha true and then they will be no guy left
When a guy texts me a third time without having called, I respond by saying,, "who is this,? I think you have the wrong person." If he responds by texting I don't answer. Ever. I need the texting to be the exception, not the normal mode of conversation. Know your worth. You are worthy of a phone call and more.
I agree, only I go a little farther, only one text just to make sure I know the person. If not no more text.
Tanya Carson I'm sure your still single with how you commented lol
Ashley Ramillano read the previous comments. Even when you do ask for a call. You might not get one or you may get called for a short period of time and then the guy still isn't interested
You madam are a savage and i love you
Tanya Carson amen..
How about just ignoring his text
completely
Dealing with one of these guys now. And he's always saying "I want to see you do this..." "We should do this..." "I wish blablabla so we could blablabla" and just never makes plans and when I try to he's flaky as fuck. It sucks. But I'm moving on now. Like you said, it's not attractive and it's just a bore.
Definitely the worst. Sometimes I don't understand why those types of guys even bother. I guess just for their own gratification.
Sydney Dively same here :(
Sydney I literally just done this to a guy this very minute. I await to see if I even hear from him tomorrow! As they say ......NEXT!!!!!
@Diana Art xD
He was dating others sorry .
Alot of older men are starting to do this....40's 50's, 60's. It's outrageous.
Matt just text the guy " my fingers hurt", you will definitely get a response
True fact! I can't stand it either!
Tell me about it!!!😤
They can't hold a conversation. What a shame?!!
Means they’re married. Pathetic men!
Just ended this with a man that was elusive about getting together. Wished him a good day and good luck. Im no ones pen pal.
I think the problem is that guys like this generally won't change their behavior. They do it with the intent of keeping their options open, not just because they're flakey. Don't waste your time y'all, not even worth playing that game. Calling him out or even insinuating a phone call won't inspire him to try harder. These guys are THE WORST- apathetic as all hell and use you as a fall-back because your attention is convenient. Run for the hills the second you notice the pattern. You don't owe him no damn explanation.
N0LANI trues up. thank you 😀😀
N0LANI yea! The best way is just simply dont reply, leaving him like an idiot. I was dealing with a guy like that too, we girls can try give initative ONCE, like letting him know you are free & if theres no more action but just texting, stop replying. He uses you for his backup but we have the choice not being his backup, ill go meet some other guys until he proactively asks me out again.
chuckie826 You'll end up missing out on otherwise great guys. Communication is key in any relationship. Men are not mind readers and not all women are the same. Some women feel a guy is too pushy if he calls her. At least give him the chance to try.
I did it out of insecurence, now i feel like a horrible person :'(
N0LANI word. For, word. You nail it!
I don't think I have the energy to go the extra mile like in a relationship if you only text me when your bored. If you don't like me enough to want to call me or hang out with me, why should I even bother inviting you places and texting you. If someone truly likes you, you shouldn't have to pull teeth for them to do more than just texting you. It's a waste of time. There's someone out there who would love to talk/hang out with you. That's just how I feel.
💯💯💯💯💯
That is what men thinking about women.Congrats u just spoke what men thought about women behaviour.
No one gives a damn about how u feel
Wait. Someone blew off Matthew? What a foolish woman. Lol
The problem is that she's already in love. When women are in love, they become straight up blind to everyone else. It’s like tunnel vision. lol
@@brittany1484 this is soo true
I agree!
Right! Is there hope for any of us
@Esha So true.
I don't think it is really worth putting efforts for someone who communicates to you like that. It means that they are really not that into you. Not worth the effort to win them over.
I love your post. I agree 100,00%
Well put, don't waste your time on someone who doesn't care enough or respect you enough to want to talk to you.
This is EVERY guy I've dealt with that I've met from online dating sites. It's pathetic. I've tried the cute flirty way & I've tried the nasty way that you mentioned lol It's very depressing that people nowadays lack humanity/respect for a person & behave cowardly. Thanks Matt!! Glad you know how to communicate 😄
Exactly. This is why I don't waste my time with dating sites. Lames
I thought this was only me,I’m kind of relieved that I’m not the only one..EVERY single guy that I have spoken to from online dating is exactly this way.im done with it all now,iv spent so much time with online dating.
yOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE.SAME HERE!
IS like a virus that spread,They are crazy,
I was a nice girl,saying ok text during work,but at least one day per wek after woork,let saay thursday after 22 pm talk.
I was called rude be ci wanna talk.i blocked them.Idont tolerate any bs anymore.i cut in raw meat.Next!
Online dating are the chatters... All they do is texting! The Texter,! And they have long list of supplies 😂😂😂
You’ve got to realize to where men are coming from has the guy been rejected because that can really bring him down a lot it’s awful to feel rejected so maybe that’s why guys don’t try
I don’t like playing games. But for the sake of it, when the ball is in my court, I’m fair and check it back. But when he has the ball and suddenly takes eons to play again.... I take my ball and go home. No explanation no further contact. Just go.
They should find a person who also like texting date so they can have texting date together!!
I dunno why but this really made me laugh 😂 lol!
Girl.....this is so funny 😂😂
Ikr? Why the hell won’t they just find someone who is just as insecure? Lol
@@KurosakiLuvar01 how are they insecure?
I am currently in this texting situation and I came across with this video. It breaks my heart, but what the video and comments here said is true.
I should move on and make other opportunities elsewhere. I thought we had real chemistry. 😥
The same. It was only texting. It was fun, but it was too long. I cut him off. I do not think he will ever call me. Lately he has told me, that he actuallt doesn't like to text so much. So why didn't he call me? Why did he text with me so long? Out of boredom. I pressume
Same here.. Since for few months I'm in texting relationship. I don't know what name shall I actually be given to this relationship.
Don't think people realise how hard this is
I'm actually in a texting situation rn. He says he's terrified with calling or video calls. So I respected it and never asked for it since then but I'm getting tired now 😔
Thank GOD I found this video. I thought I was the only one experiencing this and thought maybe I was doing something wrong. To be honest with me no shits are given anymore, I've just stopped replying to him. :)
GracefulDanny - good for you.👏 his loss.
GracefulDanny omg agreed
GracefulDanny hi
Am in thesame mess
I thought the same thing. I just found this video. I'm gonna back off from him. He's a waste of my time. It's gonna hurt but better sooner than later.
They're are many reasons why he texts and doesn't call:
1. He has been staying with a very strict order of nuns who have asked him to join them in a vow silence. Texting is his only option.
2. He knows the Sister Wives would get jealous if they were to overhear.
3. He is green and red colorblind so he tries to call but keeps hitting "End" instead.
4. There is a really bad echo in his mom's basement.
5. He is hard of hearing since that insane Yanni concert and can only shout now when speaking.
6. He is a phone calling addict and he's on Step 5 of his recovery. One Day at a Time!
7. Guinness World Record Holder for Number of Marbles in Mouth.
8. Afraid to reveal he talks like Mickey Mouse on helium.
9. Shanking his cell mate means no phone calls, only texting, as punishment.
10. He's only setting the bar as low as you allow!!!
I laughed so hard, I can't lol
TheShabby Attic ahahaga echo in his Mom's basement and marbles 😂 lmfao
he will stop txt then
TheShabby Attic bravo 😂😂😂😂
This was so fun 😂😂
I could have sworn you were going to say "I've noticed something about you...you only text me when you are bored" at 2:48 lol maybe I am just a straight savage but I have texted that before and was even thanked for my honesty
love that lol
Must b nice
Dee Speaks. _ no, they mistake niceness for weakness.
I am a grown woman who grew up before there were text messages or answering machines.
I met a guy at a show last week. We chatted for a while and exchanged numbers. Then we parted company.
He sent me a text message at 3 am “are you still up?”
Next few messages were long questions about my career, personal life, etc. I felt as if I were filling out a job application. If the guy was truly interested in getting to know me he should have written “I am interested in seeing you again and getting to know you”. How about you? May I call you?
The concept of meeting up for a date is a lost art. This man is about 45 years old. If he does not know how to ask a woman out in a date, he is a very poor prospect.
Truth be told, dating is not a “magic meeting” guarantee for the man or the woman.
I feel like a lot of guys want to hook up or just want to message when they think they are going to get some “action”.
So lazy and such a turn-off.
Most of my boyfriends I had known quite a while before the “magic” happened.
A few cute text messages then a drink at my place?
I don’t t think so.
When they text with those long gaps, normally they are dating other people.
or they tell you they are on business trips expanding their business (when really probably with that wife that they married 3 years ago and bragged about online and forgot about the remark. I find it hard to believe someone can marry a 2nd time and divorce that fast).
No it means they dont have manners! Simple!
I always texted right away wen i got a text. But i never got a response wen he red it. Thats rude ! And not well mannered. But now i give him a taste of his own medicine. Im done treated like shit.
Absolutely!!!!
I believe this comment cause it's from a guy
What is considered a long gap?
Do not tolerate someone who's just looking for penpals-you are potentially enabling a very unhealthy person who needs to take initiative getting help for their issues. I once texted back and fourth with a 38 year old guy for a year. It started to become disturbing realising that someone whose old enough to be married with children (another reason to not engage he may just be cheating 👀👀👀) had the habit of a broke teenager addicted to his screen. I stopped responding to his messages and he tried to contact me again, but I let it fizzle out, I'd given him more than enough time to initiate a date.
It's a sign that person is unhealthy, socially awkward or thinks it's okay to engage with women he isn't interested in to boost his ego (UNACCEPTABLE). He needs to figure a way to stop relying on his phone for a friendship or relationship. Stop enabling them and stop responding if they won't meet you in person or talk on the phone. That person has something off about them and you don't need to prop them up with a pen pal thing, they need to work on themselves or whatevers stopping them from interacting with not just you but other people in real life.
i refuse to b the backburner plan. Next!
Love that you specified how many "W"s to use in "yawwwwn." So precise!
he was joking! you can put as many as you like
I've always loved that Matthew gives women power. A lot of people accuse him of training women to give men what they want, but he's not. He setting a standard for focusing attention on the men that deserve it. How many women waste their time on people who don't give them anything. Yes, he talks about doing things that make a man attracted to you, but he also makes sure you know that you should never put up with bs from someone who hasn't done anything for you. He stresses having a life and pursuing goals before looking for a man because, incidentally, that will make you more attractive anyway. His videos have literally changed my approach to dating and showed me I should never tolerate being treated badly consistently because there are plenty more fish in the sea.
It's 5 years now
Hope you found peace and love too.
Lol good advice Mathew I just texted him “I don’t like texting, if you want to talk call me” he calls me 8 hrs later! I never answered and will never reply to his text again!
I am going through this right now and I do not have the balls to say these things to him so I'm just going to forget about it lol
And being cold and distant will make him just go after someone else. Stay single...less frustrating 👍
😂 same, I literally have no balls.
When you have to beg for a guy to call you, what do you think it will be like later down the line? Save yourself the time and just move on!
This video and the comments here really opened my eyes.....I finally called her up... thank you
4 weeks of texting after 2 dates turned ugly. I expressed my concerns ,that texting is a turn off to me.. I expressed hearing his voice would be better. Called him my penpal. Finally call it off by blocking him . Lol. Selfish , manipulative as he was dating others and was playing games apparently with me.
Ugh tose types of guys are so annoying. I had a guy who texted me for 4 months and we only went out once.. despite him saying he really wanted to get to know me better and that he was interested, he kept rescheduling our dates because he said he was too busy with work.. but he never stopped texting me everyday all day. So I decided I wasn't gonna give him the time of my day anymore and started not answering his texts or distancing myself.. and he gradually but surely disappeared. Guess he just needed to feel that somebody cared about him which is kind of sad when I think about it.. but still, I learnt something from this at least!
saraiscixiri Texts you all day but you never meet up. Could he possibly not had much money, been unemployed? Hmm
saraiscixiri I'm kind of dating this guy right now that he don't text me you don't call me unless he needs a ride or something like that this is been going on for 2 weeks he's change Among the Sleep towards me he don't answer his phone when I call him he don't reply to any texts to me unless it's to do for him
I've been dating this guy for like 8 months and at first everything was all good but now he's changed you don't want to come over in my apartment he doesn't answer any text messages doesn't answer any phone calls and if I do call him he gets really upset I don't know what to do and when he does come over it's always at night time for sex and he leaves and goes home
Cindy James I'm afraid it's time to move on. It sounds like you want more than a casual relationship with him. This guy is just not prepared to offer that.
Sariscixini must have been the same man i met LOL
Glad I watch this video man I swear this whole texting epidemic is absolutely repulsive I hope as human beings we will eventually move past this. Most people who only text all the time are usually just terrified of face-to-face communication/confrontation it really is a form of social phobia best thing you could ever do is just to not feed into it whatever you do do not text the person back if that’s all they want to do is just text.
Yes! Ppl like that are so annoying and full of sh*t! I dealt with a guy who texted me everyday for a month straight but when I asked him to meet up or to talk with me on the phone he was all of a sudden "too busy." Then after disappearing for two months he started texting me out of the blue like nothing happened. Wtf? Turns out he had a pregnant girlfriend surprise surprise -_-.The best way to deal with those people is to leave them alone because most of the time they are just playing games.
I'm a guy trying to get the girl i want and I have to say Matthew hussey you have helped me so much with your advice , I just reverse your videos from the girl wanting to get the guy to the guy wanting to get the girl.
Most of this advice kind of doesn't really get to the bottom of what the problem is. It is separating the guys that are interested and will put in the work of a relationship from the ones that don't. None of those "trick texts" do anything, nobody changes their tactics and how much they like you based on any of this. You are just going through a little "test" that helps YOU get that difference, who is interested/worthy and who is not. So now you know who to drop or they drop you. You can't make a guy that is not interested in your suddenly change around and like you and start calling and stepping up the dating behavior.
so glad I found this channel. Really useful advices, and it helps to sober up from crush and think about what I actually want, what I need, what I deserve... Thank you, Matthew.
One guy wrote to me in the very first chat between us: "Maybe one day we will have a coffee together" and his next phrase was: "Can I add you to my friendshiplist on Facebook?" So I thought about his "maybe" and why he is eager to add me on FB not knowing me yet at all and I responded: "Maybe one day". He replied: "hahahahah" ... and vanished... at least he got my hint! lol
Mireille Claire LOL you're awesome. Well done!
Wtf
OMG just wanna thank you a mill for this helpful video. Met a guy 2 wks. ago& he was being more than flaky w/ only the sporadic txts.( which I told I don't like). I watched this video on Sun& called him out like you advised. Basically saying lets meet. He was taking long intervals rtng. my texts but eventually said he was already out somewhere watching football & we'd either have to meet later( On a Sunday, mind you)or we could link up nxt. week.... I THINK NOT!..... I did what you said & gave no reply.... Well now he's even calling and leaving voice mails.. LOL....I'm no longer interested cause this proved that he was indeed a jerk content on stringing me along since he thought I liked him... There are plenty of decent fish in the sea, I'll just be patient. I will also be exerting coldness quickly if recognize any pattern of flakiness fr a guy who is not worth my time... THANK U, THANK U, THANK U
sana cole It sounds like he didn't want to come on too keen in the beginning. Guys can often end up getting rejected for showing too much interest. It's difficult to get the balance right as each person is different.
I'd say if he's making effort, might be worth reconsidering.
This video came in the right time, I cant handle more texting hahaha its so boring..
This is actually my life right now lol
Just tell him "texting is void and virtual, if you are interested let's set a date to meet in person soon". Quit being afraid to say what you want. If he doesn't respond or say yes, you have your answer and can move on to someone who is mature and interested. Set the bar from the get go.
so true..
Thank you so much for this video. It helped me to stop a 'messages' relationship, where nothing was happening, except messages.
HAHA. I love that you said "this guy sucks". Love you!
He may suck but you swallow
Advice worked Matthew! After texting sporadically for months, I sent “ ….you loooove texting” suggestion. Got an actual phone call minutes after!!
I met a guy online and after he texted me a few days, I became annoyed that he lacked initiative. So, I texted him back, the "You looooooove to text," message. His response: "Is that okay?" Really dude... Ugh, such a turn-off. That was a signal that he was planning to pull that time-wasting nonsense for a very long time. It's a great way to weed out the time wasters from people that are serious about getting to know you.
You do relize texting is faster and more efficient right
Texting has a time and place: to communicate small pieces of info when a conversation is either not necessary or not possible. Texting an *entire conversation* is a moronic waste of time, apparently enjoyed by people who have nothing better to do, and who are not capable of actual conversation. I will never give in to that asinine game again.
Does the girl realize what a great guy she lost? 😆😉 I adore his kindness and that smile!
Hussey is brilliant! I have watched several of his videos, started reading his book, and just purchased a couple of his programs. Thank you for all your insight! I am rather excited about everything I am learning from you :-)
I love this! Thank you for being so specific. I'm going to put these ideas to good use.
I am defiantly going through this right now, thank you Matt now I have a game plan :)
As hard as it is, go with the guy who wants to spend time with you. Trust me you will have the time of your life and realize that he is the real deal, not the flaker!
Your advices are excellent Matthew I love all of your videos. Youre nice, enthousiastic, positive and helpful. Thanks a million
You're amazing. Of all the dating coaches, you're my favorite.
As soon as l realized this was happening to me l decided to cut him out of my life. The end.
what if you send the "i miss your voice" and he says the same back to you....then nothing, lol.
also don't answer every text he sends. be mysterious.
Lol. Happened to me. I called him out on it. He says that's a fair take. And we're still back to square one
This is my situation right now...oh god this video is a sign from you...I swear I'm going to respect what I will listen here. Let's press play😊
i don't even have anyone that texts me but i love your videos I always learn something..and i'm keeping hope alive.
Oh my God, I'm a guru!
I have been through this with so many guys and that's actually how I proceeded
beatrice ana-maria and did it work?
How?
God has blessed you with so much wisdom! I'm thankful that I can learn from it
Just when I needed it!! You are like an. Angel Matt!! Love you!
I love you Matthew. I use the advice you give in your videos, it works like a dream, thank you
🤣 lmaooooo I think I’m talking to a robot , perfect line
Good on You Girls>>>You all Sound Really Smart>>!!>>Being Someone's Ego Boost>>Is a Drain>>and Gets BORING>>>!!!
AYY Matthew! Sos lo mas!!! Soy Argentina pero vivo en Londres!! Gracias por estos videosssss!
Thankyouuuuuu So much for this video Matthew! Ive been needing this advice for years! 🏹💯
Thanks for this video. I've had a guy texting every day, and often, but he is flaky about committing to hanging out. He always has a weekend trip and only wants to do lunch by his job...which is a far and expensive ride for me, btw. I'm going to try these texts. Thanks for sharing!
I don't need dating advice, I just watch the videos for Mr Hussey. Yummmm.
Matthew, I appreciate and enjoy your humor. Thanks!
Your so insightful Matthew! Why can't more men be like you!!
Greaaattt video as always Mathew !! 😜 (you had me laughing on the floor when you were talking about extending letters 😂 but great advice!!)
They are texting because they are spending time with others , kick them out of your life… I did one week a go and I’m so great full of myself. We are not break time
I LOVE this video , your advices are always on point Matt ..!! thank you so much !!
Oh, thank You for this one.
I really needed a line to use.
I soooooo (see what I did there?) needed this video!!
this is really helpful. long gaps between texts.
THIS is awesome. Tremendously helpful Matt!
Such a relatable video. Thank you!
Story of my life Matthew...if i hear the "ive been busy with work" thing one more time...its gonna get ugly lol. I love your content SO much.
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Why wanting someone to call you who doesn’t puts in the work and calls you by himself, he should when he really likes you. If he doesn’t call, he isn’t that interessed.
Matthew you're AMAZING!! Love the advice! :)
I think is is great advice for some who just text occasionally, but I don't think there is anything wrong with regularly texting as opposed to calling. If he doesn't want to even hang out that's something that's off. Some people just don't want to talk on the phone, but if the texting is never leading somewhere, you're just a text friend. If you're proactive, he should respond. Even if he is not available or doesn't want to go to something with your friends, a guy who is really interested will try to make alternative plans
OMG...this is SO what I was dealing with the past 5 months with a guy...and he's SO spot on.
Thank you Matthew for sharing! Love this! Met so many men who only text and it drives me bonkers! I will definitely be trying your advice! Love you and your wisdom!
Hate texting! Love this video, especially for those that loooove texting
Can I just take you? I think you're my ideal man anyways. Ok, you really are amazing and I really love your videos. They have actually helped me out a lot, and you really have taught me so much in general too. I was with the same person for so long, and by the time we split up and I was back in the dating game, I had NO idea what to do with myself when a man would show interest in me. I felt like I was in this whole new world, but your advice really has helped me not feel awkward around men. So seriously! thank you!
these texts help temporarily, they may call you back on the spot, but in the long term, you can't get someone to call you if they don't feel like hearing your voice!
I would certainly not keep Matthew as stand by. And I surmise almost none would.
Yeah who was that crazy woman?!
@Sweetie Bellie nothing wrong with a woman being loving its in our nature but men do prey on this behavior and it's the man's fault not the woman. Only when he loses her and she's truly gone and he ends up settling and marrying the bitch from hell is when they realised what they lost.
please do this kind of videos again, it is sooooooo useful
know im not a women but really find it interesting to watch your videos. always nice to know if im anything to advoid.