He's not ready for a relationship but still wants to be friends? DO THIS!
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 มิ.ย. 2021
- He's not ready for a relationship but still wants to be friends. DO THIS!
Watch my Free video here:
click.frenchrelationshipexper...
HOW TO ATTRACT AND MAKE HIM COMMIT (Watch This 25 Minute Video)
click.frenchrelationshipexper...
DO NOT FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL!
FREE E-BOOK: www.frenchrelationshipexpert....
Join me on my social media and discover exclusive content. I'll provide all the tips you need to make your love life better quickly
{{THE EBOOK}} "THE LOVE CODE: HOW TO FIND LOVE IN 60 DAYS OR LESS"
www.frenchrelationshipexpert....
Find me on Facebook here: / alexlovecoach
Follow me on Instagram: / coachalexcormont
My Website to see all my articles: www.frenchrelationshipexpert....
My name is Alex Cormont and I've been helping men and women in their love life for more than 10 years. I became the number one relationship expert in France and Europe.
For the past decade, I have helped more than 20000 people all around the world. You want to find the one? Save your marriage? Get back with an ex or learn how to attract a man into your life? I'll give you all the tips you need to improve your relationship.
Yes, Love can be taught and I'm the expert you need! I have a unique philosophy from the country of love itself. You deserve to be happy and I give you all the secrets you need on this channel. - บันเทิง
A man who truly likes you could never just have you as a friend
@BeautyQueen2023X True but women are more shy and conservative. She might just get jealous and walk away.
I’m sick of being taken for granted and used by men .. I’m better off staying single .. trying to find love is a joke !!
any updates
I’ve convinced myself that everyone is going to hurt you so don’t give away all your trust
Got another one like that...just wants the milk for free...I told him I like him but I am looking for a husband and commitment and I already have enough friends...plus I don't want a bunch of male friends to make my future husband insecure...I don't have time to settle for anything less than what I want in life. Thank you. The time and energy I would be wasting on entertaining such a "friend" could be the time I could be investing into finding someone who is ready for a commitment. Gotta keep stepping over these jokers who just want to play around.
Thx beautiful 😘i like your reasoning capacity. Keep up
I have a similar situation. Currently, without hesitation, I told him if he wants to be with me he must initiate the date, pick me up, and if we decide on sex, I walk away with $$$ and prizes In my pocket or it ain't happening!!! Kitty Kat ain't free if you don't want to give me what I want. I feel I have ALL THE POWER NOW ...
Well said
Thanks
A guy wanted to friend zone me, but I told him I wanted us to stop meeting or talking completely. After a week we went back stronger than ever, however, this time I gave him a taste of his own medicine and dumped him after 2 dates after we went back.... A lesson that girls are not toys
Well done! So proud of you.
Girl 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️good for u!!!!!
Love it !!! Go Girl
Sisterhood is proud of you girlllll!!
Woaaahhhh
After months of dating, he said that he doesn't want a relationship because he just sees me as a friend. And he has so much to do at work and just isn't mature enough for a relationship. (He is 30) I told him that i have feelings and that's why I don't want to meet anymore. I don't why but he almost cried when I told him that. I didn't want to see him cry that's why I said to him: " I want to make this easy for you." So I kissed him as a goodye and said; " Thanks for everything. I had a really good time. I will miss you. Bye." After this, I went home and just left him there.
What happened after that ? Did he reach out ? I’m litterally in the same situation..
You did the right thing and I’m proud of you 👏
any updates
Doesn’t want a relationship but still wants to be friends?
You’re not the only one, get rid.
He wants you to chase him because modern men are losers that need women to chase and validate.
Get rid.
It's best to just move on. No time to waste. You are just wasting your time.
With public freedom of speech comes public responses so I'm not saying this to be disrespectful in any way. Chances are the guy you want is the same guy hundreds of other women want. You would never give the guy who wants a relationship a chance. So since you all want guys from a small percentage of men those guys have all of you going crazy chasing them. Remember, most men won't give a crap about relationships or marriage if they can get many women. The guys who don't have those options want a "girlfriend" or "wife." And these guys don't need validation. Stop thinking men are wired like women.
@@mosesruperto7128 LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL just cause your'e easy man do not means that all guys are like you.
@@mosesruperto7128 also that the small percent that we want and don't care about men like yourself 5hank you,move along and keep being toxic for those who care.
This comment woke me up. Thank you ❤
Love is not about control. If there's no love, walk away to find love.
This is a wake up call. Thank you for this video, my time is too valuable now, no more wasting times. A girl doesn't need anyone who doesn't need her.
Today I will become a challenge and I will never make this guy feel confident to tell me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. It's not his choice it's my choice.... Thank you Alex for all the love, support and advice.
Thats rright we choose
Me too sis. And it hurts so bad to see someone you truly like treats you like piece of garbage 🥺.
He takes many hours or days to respond to my message. He reach out to me the next day like nothing happened. He is really so proud I am chasing after him but yes no more after seeing I am not the only one in this condition.
I will write him tonight and then block him forever.
You can't convince someone to be with you. They either want to or don't. Be wise enough to know the difference.
Muy bien dicho.
He's rejecting you. Get rid of him.
I agree
Hello ladies out there. I will tell you my story and i hope it will empower you all. It was not easy but i did it and now feel super precious. I was seeing a guy and we even slept several times. He asked me date him 7-8 times but i was not sure. Then weeks later i said ok im ready boy, lets be exclusive. Then he started making excuses and asked me to be friends for now. Then i said no. This is so childish, you dont know what you want and i dont like this gray zone. I stopped talking to him. He did not write since then either. But it shows that he was obviously not really into me while i was wasting my time and energy with him. Deleted his number and moved on. I feel great!! Do the same ladies, they should beg for you!!
Keeping you on the side is only a stepping stone for his self -confidence. No!! NOT acceptable.
Thank you! After he told me that , I dropped him like a bad habit. I have ignored his messages and texts. I’m not doing that, I deserve better.
any updates
I'm tired of difficult relationships.. sometimes peace is just letting things be what they are, be yourself and give the love that you feel .. we think challenging the other one but we're only challenging our feelings..
I told him I want a relationship but he never said anything, he knows I love him
This is so true omg
My mindset is that I'm a Ferrari and if a man isn't able to maintain me like a Ferrari then they aren't up to my standards. I have learned that all men want a Ferrari but want to take car of it like a 1967 Honda Civic. We all know if you start putting the cheap gas in a Ferrari then the car will break down and soon wont run at all. Ladies always think of yourself as a Ferrari and never settle to be treated as less.
*Communication and understanding play a key role in any relationship, even in friendships. Let's create a space where both parties feel comfortable and respected.*
I told him no-go!! No 'friends'! Boy did he get MAD!😮
any update s
We’re not even sleeping together! He doesn’t get any bf privileges and he still wants to just stay friends! Like what do you WANT from me!? Leave me alone then!
Exactly 💯
Maybe you have money or maybe you boost his self confidence 😏
any update s
He just wants the ego boost
I see. This is true. He told me that he is not ready to commit but still wants to see me. Some days later he said he knows that I want to get married to him. I didn't even say that, but I guess this was what he understood from me because I loved him so much. I felt stupid when he said that, like an orphan child who is waiting for a parent to choose him.
I always tried to show him that I am independent but he obviously understood that it was just a Fassade.
Finally I met someone else who is the opposite, he wants a commitment. But I am definitely a challenge to him because I am not that attracted to him as I was to my ex. So I distanced myself from both of them them. 😆 And I am happy that now I am dating a guy who is attractive AND caring, and I listen to your advices to not screw it up again
My ex wanted to be just friends. I refused. I don't call, text nothing. This is what he does to all his ex's....yeah not me. They become FWB and he "thought" I was like those other desperate women.
I'll be a friend from a far. Bye 🙋♀️
👏🙌🏻
👌
Old saying goes....staying friends with your ex is like keeping in touch with your Kidnappers!!!!
Wow- this sounds like the dude I’m dealing with except he took the sex part away from me- smh..
You’re the best Alex… so grateful for you I’ve been watching and learning from you for years now and happy to see you growing, you deserve all the success in the world! ♥️
I continued with him after he said he could not commit because he was healing. He's been giving attitude when I've been getting at 11. Time to stop. He's not meeting my emotional needs. He's taking me for granted.
We met for a month during internship and part of a friend circle. He knew places, foods and stuffs and I wanted to explore them so whatever I ask him to do he planned and executed so well. We got really close in our last two days of the internship because I wanted to shop things before leaving the place. He accompanied me and he was a complete gentleman with me. I liked his gestures all throughout. Just before the day of leaving we went to Temple together, prayed together and I prayed about him and the same night he confessed that he has some feelings for me, he says thank you for all the experience I gave him and it's okay if I don't have any response but he'll know how it feels. The look on his face all throughout was so genuine I can't even describe. I was excited because that's what I prayed for but I asked him some questions like when did it happen? He told me that he was about to tell me but he didn't want to ruin my internship. He also gifted me bangles and earrings and mentioned that don't think I'm gifting this because I wanted something from you. To be mentioned, for him I got to visit one of my dream religious places. That night I was so happy, seemed everything was falling in place and I asked him to meet me tomorrow. I can't even look at his face, it was so pale and dull. I gave him some gifts because we're gifting everyone from the friend circle. After I asked him if my response from yesterday was yes, do you still wanna be friends with me. He says please be friends with me. I just replied that I don't be friends with people like you. But I was dying inside. Later he texted me a long message and ask me to message him whenever I feel like I need someone to talk to. I just told him that I want to talk to you everyday. Do you? He said yes and then we met in person and asked me if I'm going to talk to him. I was gloomy because I didn't know what's heading to. It's been several weeks we talk everyday through call and texts. I don't bring up anything regarding that because he feels uncomfortable and says that please forget the mistake. We just chat and talk. He asks me questions, we're creative about chatting and he's mindful that I'm not hurted by his words, he also teases me but importantly he never bring up anything like being physical ever in conversation. He mentions that it's his first time everything but Idk about the future. I think I'll bring the things after few months of the getting to know each other process and everything is upto God.
Thank you for this video. I have seen many of your videos and all are helpful. I must say that you are the best coach for me as not only the content you are delivering but the tone you are using has a persuasive impact on me that I cannot but follow your instructions. Regards from Serbia♥️
This video has made me emotional. Thank you for making me reach my moment of epiphany ♡
Watching your video at this time, I regret that I did not discover you a year ago. I feel frustrated because I lost my partner being too confident that he will accept and understand my deep feelings that unfortunately made me look "needy" in his eyes. But first we make mistakes and then we realize and learn. It's very true. The man must really feel that he wants to be with us .... Otherwise we will always lose points in front of him. Thank you Alex for the objective advice and for waking us all to reality!💯👍
Thank you Alex for being so positive!
I like that your advice is giving the freedom to do exactly what we want for ourselves despite any man we like or are attracted to.
I have been loving the last couple of videos! I appreciate you, and your head coach. 🥰
I should watch this video during the next month twice daily 😅
The right video at the right time , thank you 🙏
Absolutely! I love what I’m becoming. I’ve done so much work on myself this last year to get here. A high value feminine woman with a badass attitude… Thank you Alex for your motivation… exactly the reminders I need on a daily basis to remind me that I am a goddess on a pedestal.💗🥂
❤
I was in that situation, giving him a power to manipulate me, but couple days ago I told him we are done, I need to find my own path
You are our BEST FRIEND
You are the most honest about men to us 👍👏
any updates
Thank you so much. Excellent advice. Your English is pretty good and your French accent is charming but clear. I am Irish living in France. It is wonderful that you do your videos in French and English which I both watch. Merci beaucoup et bonne continuation.
And even when he wants to be friends it's still on a downhill trajectory , he doesn't want to be loved 🥰
Not all cases are the same at all. I’ve dated with the end motivation to have a relationship but the guy I’m dating hasn’t qualified in my mind as the one I want a relationship with yet. Before I had made my mind up about him he decides to tell me he doesn’t want a relationship which it fine as I was never 100% sure about him anyway and he has just confirmed what I already half knew. 3 weeks later he wants to meet for coffee. I have zero interest in being his girl now but have zero problems meeting him for coffee. It will be a pleasure show up looking great with happy vibration and wish him well. He lost out here, not me and the regret on his face will be rewarding. I don’t give second chances ñ, life is too short and we are too old for this game.
Wow!! Such a good and straightforward video.
Perfect for me! Thank you.
This is great advice. I just started listening to your videos these last few days
I’m a guy and I needed this. Thank you!
Thank you for watching Thomas!
Thank you. I felt this but i didn't know how to put it in words.
I just recommended this video to my friend with similar situation. Thanks for sharing
I find the advice from Alex very good
Need to be a challenge and be different, try to control the storm? I am the storm. Anything is possible. ❤
From America (USA). Thank you for this video
Thank you Alex just what I needed to hear 🙏🙏 merci
Always happy to help!
Thank you so much for this beautiful. You are such a beautiful soul. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you Frenchie
Thank you so much. I have done a lot of self development of self and dating ...I was very accommodating in my past relationships, accepting disrespect, on and off wishy wishy guy. But now I know better. He is just there to feel controlling over me he can't commit. Am done. Let him look elsewhere
I know how hard this can be and I'm sorry you had to go through this!
Your awesome I love listening to you love from Baytown Texas
Alex u just talked my story. I just ended such a connection and told him I dont do casual sex anymore. I felt guilty after it all the time and thought maybe if I gave him time he would commit to me....but now I know that it wasnt me...I was right. Thank you🥲🥲
any updates
Hi Coach Alex. Thank you for your Great advice!! I'm listening to from El Paso Texas.
Alex thank you for this video. It makes me feel Good like i matter
Thank you very much Alex, this is deep.
Thank you so much for watching, Lydia!
Thank you Alex from Japan! this is such a good video....I always love your content
My pleasure!
(chatbox) i asked him "what are we?" He said we are friends. Ok we are friends i said...then he asked me if he upsets me. He knows deep inside that it will make me upset but no.. it broke my heart into pieces. Then i told him... I think you need to find a new friend. Said bye and unfriend him.
any updates
Thx for this, I am becoming a challenge! 🥰
merci d'être merveilleux 👏🏽
He told me he did not want to fall in love. After many months I walked away.
You are correct, thank you.
This is SPOT ON!!!!!
Yes that's true. That's what I started doing. Until I saw your video in which you talked about how to deal with an indecisive man, you suggested to accept friendship and eliminate love language with him. So I changed and I accepted friendship.
Then become distant, also I'm doing that.
any updates
Brilliant videos and advice. Thank you Alex! 😁
I’m a challenge thank you so much Alex
Thank you. It's great advice. back in the day, id fix this a different way. Id say "just friends? That's cool. I have my eye on someone else, and now i don't have to worry about hurting your feelings" and tomorrow id go on a date with his best friend, or his brother. Be a total lady, no hanky panky.... and watch his head spin in circles. When he approaches (and he will with the quickness) be kind of non comittal. Be like, oh you didn't want me? But now you do because I'm going out with so and so? Laugh and look at him like he has lost his mind. Don't be mean. Just act like maybe he really has lost his mind. And you aren't really interested anymore.
any updates
Loving your contents Alex...luv from Nigeria.
Thank you soooo much bro ❤......I told her that we can't be friends anymore but we will be in touch.....it worked really😱....she took 2 days to decide about it....lots of love from India
any updates
Omg first one to comment!!! I needed this so bad today…Alex you are a Saint and a hero to me, you help me do much thank you for being so amazing ♥️♥️♥️
any updates
Wow wow love this video!
Well this is so helpful, thanks Alex
Thank you so much for watching Rebecca!
Alex is such a beautiful man. Inside and out. Grateful for him. My hot and cold man doesn't even come to mind when I watch ur videos Alex lol thanks so much! 😊
@8:47 I FEEL AMAZING!!!! THANK U ALEX!!!! I FEEL BEAUTIFUL! FULL OF LIGHT ENERGY AND POWER! U R ANOINTED FOR THIS WORK GOOD SIR! 😊💯
@10:44 😲HOW DID U KNOW!?!? MY SITUATION EXACTLY! 🙆♀️
Love how you said “I want to empower you!” 😂💜
Thank you so much for watching!
I did this and TRUST me it works❤ thanks Alex
any updates
Great advice!!! From. phillippines 🇨🇿
Every woman is her own beautiful!!
This is so great, thank you! I wish I’d known this several years ago; it would’ve saved me a lot of time and heartache… And honestly, it’s messed up that men sometimes string women along like this; where is their conscience? I would never string along someone I’m not interested in. What baloney!
TRE BIEN! MERCI!! 😍💖💋
Thank you from Norway
Her satelliting me was driving me insane. It tore me apart.
So I finally told her, I don't want this and she is not welcome under this circumstances.
Stopped any contact, havent heard from her either.
Now I still miss her, but not worse than before!
On the other hand I am living my best life, travel, started a new hobby. My life has changed for the better definately.
Karla, Continue to stay focused on what makes you happy and everything else will come your way!
I know you are my best friend 😍😍 thank you . I love what you said 😁😁😁
Im so glad you have posted this!! Iv been putting up with this for two years in hope, being let down, thinking it was me!!
It was you because you accepted his attention when it wasn’t fulfilling anything.
any updates?
Amen! We are ALL so beautiful and we are ALL unique ❤
Perfect guidance 👍
Glad it was helpful!
I am ready for the challenge.
any updates
Thank you I am in this position , I am 50 he is 38 he never married or had any one
Am from Sierra Leone West Africa
Your vedio has helped me a lot.
Watching from Holland,you are the best
Thank you for this
You're always welcome Priya!
For some reason..and ive seen so many videos but this snapped me out a little bit
Here at the right moment
Great video
I'm here for that french accent 👋 💛
Am i seeing this right?? 1.6k views less than 200 likes?!? i know y’all listen to this guy he’s amazing deserves at least a like🙏🏽🧿💙🔪🔌💅🏽
I am from India Karnataka Mysore😊I will watch all your videos it will be very useful👍☺️
Alex sir thank you so much for sharing such wonderful great msg❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for watching!
Good morning Alex
Great love guruuuuu
Hello sir Alex good morning! I'm first watching your video... I'm inspired all your videos... I'm your biggest fan from Philippines 😊
Thank you god for today guiding me
You are always welcome Fely!