My mother, sister, brother and 2 ex's. Thankfully I now understand what and who I was dealing with. It is apparent that until we can identify them and have understanding we feel this crazy comfort with like minded sociopaths. Because we grew up with it we don't recognize them. Even though we don't want that type in our lives. It's education, understanding, being able to identify them, knowing how to defend ourselves from them, and how to go no contract even when we, heartbreakingly, need to go no contact with good people because the good people are the loose links those types use to get to us, to control and harm us. Once we do, we can freely reinvent ourselves, live with peace and love, and have the life we truly want and are meant to live
@@empathicone21 If we had grown up with it we are attracted to these individuals because it is what we know.We must break this cycle and go no contact and recognise them for what they are, EVIL. Some people who seem Good who hang around these creatures could be Enablers/ Flying Monkeys who help perpetrate the abuse.Be very careful and get clued up on Narcissistic abuse.TH-cam has a plethora of good videos.Be extra careful if you're an empath.You are spot on with everything you wrote.Can relate. Good luck.
Yes my sister has all of these. It's like handing the keys to a airplane to a blind person. She needs control but doesn't know what the hell she's doing.
That might be because men are typically overt using their strength and are more likely to resort to violence. Where as women are far more likely to gossip, use manipulation, more likely to fall under the radar.
It's not a need. It's a compulsion, a desire. Genuine needs are for things like food, water, oxygen. Things a person literally needs to survive. We have to stop calling evil/unhealthy compulsions "needs." That just feeds into the gaslighting and enabling. Nobody has a *need* to harm, control, or use others.
I'm 100% convinced my Dad was a sociopath and a narcissist. He had a few things that gave him away in my opinion. His facial expression was pretty flat, I believe this is called flat affect (or reduced affect). His eyes used to scare me, they were very still and calm, predatory. His eyes appeared unfeeling and reminded me of the dead eyes of a shark. In a conversation he always had to be right. He usually had a smirk on his face. He was just an average Joe in an average job, but obviously felt superiour. He always put me down and was negative my whole childhood, but it got much worse when I became a teenager. He couldn't handle me having my own opinions and saw my development as a threat.
You just described my now elderly father. Treatment of me started this way as long as I can remember. My brothers are exactly the same. They all laughed over my mother the second she took her last breath. I now realize why she got so sick it was from the abuse. Now I am the big-time target even worse. I'm almost 70 years old and I am done!
This sounds just like my dad,all started in my teens when I became my own person with my own opinions. If I disagreed he rage and got angry,calling me bad names ,telling me I should be more like my sister(the perfect child) putting me down,disregarded my feelings.extremly neglectful emotionally. He was all abouth his own interest and self image. He also controlled my mom,she never stood up to him,and when she did try,nothing resolved. cant control his emotions. I delt with so mutch anxiety because of him. He never learned me to drive a car. I been confused my whole life but now I understand everything. Didnt help that I struggled with undiagnosed ADHD started in my teens.they never took me to a doctor did nothing. Now I understand why I attract so many narcissist/sociopaths
This is exactly why I don't date anymore. I've been married twice and divorced twice. Sociopathic men are not men. They're very toxic unhealthy relationships when dealing with sociopathic. They are very abusive and some are narcissistic and a sociopathic. I'm not in a relationship with no one else and I don't want to be with no one else. It's terrible being married to men who have this. Some young children can have sociopathic and narcissistic personality disorders also. It's absolutely horrible when you have to deal with more than one with these disorders.
I really cannot blame you! I am not a fan of "dating" either. I do believe there is a difference between "dating" and sharing dinner/your life with someone you may want to spend a lifetime with. Dating can be extremely traumatizing to say the least.
@@TherapistTamaraHill You are so right about dating can be traumatizing if the person is unkind etc. I'm not ready to be in a relationship with no one. I'm taking next year to just work on myself mentally, physically, emotionally and physically. I'm taking time for myself now.
Wow my ex had a lot of these traits. But lay people like myself are tempted to label people who have hurt us as "narcs" or "sociopaths" because it is comforting to our pain and need for an answer. How you feel around toxic behavior is a huge sign. When my ex was in my life I had lots of anxiety, increased heart rate when he called, intrusive thoughts like crazy, and my jaw even started aching during the day.
@@DivaDivine88I understand why my mother had migraines so often but didn’t know at the time. She stayed too long with my father and had her own traits as well which hurt me a lot. I can’t be around either of them now. It’s so sad.
This is very good Most clairvoyant video I’ve seen so far The types of manipulation Sometimes it goes into a social awkward cadence that doesn’t fit the situation It leave u puzzled. Like a guy I dated we were in a restaurant a waitress served us. Don’t know her name But he caught name tag. And was like hello ‘ Jane’ I’ll have a coffee ‘ Jane’ Thank you Jane Oh Jane I’ll have a water too. It was so awkward
I know of a person who talks like this to his partner, or now ex partner as in uses her name in every sentence and I mean every sentence - I always thought it sounded odd and ‘awkward’
Most, if not all, manly men stereotypes who served as prime examples of masculinity for generations show most, if not all, of the sociopathic traits mentioned here. John Wayne, Batman, 007... The culture was pushing sociopathic behavior as something to be looked up to.
That's absolutely not true, The research shown that the only thing preventing psychopaths from completely taking over society are strong male figures. think about it, if strong male figures were psychopaths there would be literally savages everywhere you turn. It's strong moral men that keep psychopaths from killing everyone.
Wow. This is the man I’ve been with for 3 years. I’ve been waiting and thinking this man was the perfect husband because on paper he is but I’ve realized that he is manipulative and at times downright frightening. He can be very giving and sweet and supportive but he’s got a complete polar opposite that makes me question his good side. It’s very confusing. Especially for someone who has had no consistent positive male figures in my life.
I’m starting to think my boyfriend is this way to but he will spend hours ignoring me then later on tell me a play by play about his day and then say he’s going to bed. 🙄 Then put it all back on me “but you said this and you wanted this.” So idk 🤷♀️🤦🏽♀️ Yet everyone at church loves him. I still don’t trust him at all. I’ll tell him I love him and everything is great but at the end of the day I just don’t trust him.
Excellent! Highly clinical, explained in a way that we can all understand. I appreciate the reference to "sexually maladaptive" behavior. These folks exploit the gap between Criminal Law and Moral Law. Fear of legal and/or other physical/externally imposed consequences, but no internal remorse.
Some intelligent ones know that many rapists or sexually violating individuals never go to jail or get consequences for their actions so they aren’t afraid of the law. They’re the really dangerous ones
That's so kind. I'm very glad that you getting something from this channel. That's an answered prayer of mine. And yes, you can't fix him. If you are around this evening 7:25ish est, I will be live and talking a lot about this. I welcome you!
Hard to accept but pretty sure my father is a sociopath. He has had problem behaviour since youth. All I remember from him is insulting me as a young child, and throughout my life, insulting my mother, multiple affairs, missing special days, beating me, never showed up to my graduation, throwing me to the streets as a teen, then finding me, bringing me home, beating me again and threatening to do it again. He made me believe since I was a child that I was a bad seed and I believe used me as a punching bag. When I left at 40, he tried to make me feel guilty, stalked me, but I really went into hiding, to this day no one knows where I live, because he is that crazy. I hate him so much.
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you got away, but still this probably carries with you a heavy burden. You were the scapegoat to place all his pain that you never deserved. And for that I'm so sorry.
I called out a Sociopath my sister was dating 8 years ago after he manipulated crisis after crisis in our family for years and was a pathological liar/theif. Told him exactly what he was, all ofv he times in the past I was aware he was lying, and warned him if he came near me ever again I was going to hurt him bad (i had to because if i didnt then he would have tried to come "reason" with me). I havent seen or talked to him since , even moved across the country last year, but to this day he still rants and raves about me on his social media 8 years later. He has no association with our family as of 4 years ago. I get a good laugh now and again when I see his posts going insane.
Yes, I find this to very true about men who are in high position. They know how to such you in and then control you. I have been off the grid for awhile I been focusing getting ready for my trip out of the country to see my family in Panama.
I read once that there are some Corporations that seek out to hire certain socilpathic types to put in high positions because they tend to increase the company's profits!!!
thank you for helping me with my sociopathic ex husband that is so sneaky and convincing and vindictive -my anxiety is rising and your clarity is very helpful
I have a man in and out of my life for the past five years. I have been studying this disorder for quite sometime and I wonder now if he would fall into this category. There was always a lot about him that seemed off to me. First the charm I was mesmerized at how he could walk into any room and control the environment no matter what. When we were together we’d go to a work function and a man with very little rank like him within 15 min he’d be laughing come up to me and said “babe we’ve been invited to dinner with the colonel/gen/SMG etc. and I’d be shocked he even gained an audience with them. Charm he always seemed to spend far more money then I thought he could be earning. He knows some of my abusive history so now he will pop smoke and when he wants to come back for whatever reason he always comes right when I’m involved with a not so great man and he sort of “saves the day” being a very large muscular man and very violent he easily gets the “bad man” out of my life. I also have to be very careful with my own language he LOVES that I am extremely successful and shows that off when he’s in my life BUT if I get close to his level he gets very angry. I hid my promotion for two months because I promoted before him. When he found out I immediately said it was no reflection on him and it was silly but he was infuriated saying I never earned it that there’s no way I’ll ever outrank him again. He always praises my accomplishments but also reminds me they aren’t on his level. He switches emotionally all the time calling late at night saying I should be his wife to saying he needs space we aren’t good together etc. odd moments when he calls with his friends saying things like “watch this I’ll get her to believe I’m actually gonna be with her forever” whenever he feels I’m making decisions on my own or I get too attached to him he just disappears no warning usually to another country but every few months sometimes a year or so he finds his way back to me. It’s been almost 6 years since we’ve met. Am I involved with a possible sociopath?
You have no boundaries. He does not like or respect you. He’s also very jealous of your accomplishments, he will stay and play as long as you allow it. Run for your life !!!! You are wasting your time…
These are the kinds of people who cost their cooperations millions or billions of dollars in fines , fees or damages. After they have been sued, they tend to become REPEAT offenders of the same crimes. Because, they will find another way to scam their customers. They will tell their staff, just don’t get caught. These kinds of businesses need to be confiscated.
I'm so glad I found your channel. You pretty much helped me into a pretty life changing paradigm shift. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I wish I was able to figure this out sooner but I never trusted myself. Even with incredible people like you in my life, I just refused to believe it.
You are so welcome! And thank you! Very glad this was helpful to you. As you continue to grow in your knowledge of this, you will learn to trust yourself more.
Thank you for this. I’m trying to understand right now if the man I was seeing romantically for six weeks earlier in the year was perhaps a sociopath. He contains many of the traits you described in this video; he was very charming in what I now recognize as a shallow way, and I believe he was very manipulative as well. He lied a lot (more than I think I realized) and preyed upon my younger age and naiivete (I 20F, he 25M; he was my first relationship, unfortunately). I never once saw him express true concern or emotion for another person; he actually smiled and laughed when I told him things he’d done to emotionally hurt me - tears were literally in my eyes. He once told me that people who disrespect him “are pathetic and undeserving.” And he always told me: “I need to be in control. I need to be in control. When I’m not in control, I shut people out.” He hurt me so much emotionally - six weeks for a false relationship, only for him to lie to my face, laugh at me, and cut me out forever. It’s because I didn’t want to have sex with him, I’m pretty sure. Too much to explain concisely, but my mind is just reeling and the memories of his absolute apathy towards me are still traumatic to me five months later. At first people would tell me I was just heartbroken and that it was just a breakup, my first breakup moreover, but that’s never felt like the right explanation; I know my feelings and it’s not heartbreak I’m going through. I do think I’ve been traumatized by his behavior, and your video provided me with more clarity and closure than I’ve been able to find elsewhere, least of all from him. I don’t know if he’s a sociopath but I have my suspicions.
Great video, thank you for sharing!! The courts recognized what they were dealing with and assigned the same judge so no manipulation could be done because these people are skilled at utilizing the system and manipulating things in their favor.
Tamara is so pretty inside and out. I dont have too many friends. She would be a great friend or contact. Seems to be a good judge of charecter to have in our corner.
I love the way you explain things! Thank you for your great examples. 🙏🏿💚For anyone dealing with psychopaths in the workplace... I am reading "Snakes in Suits" by Paul Babiak and Robert. D Hare, it has some well written stories/examples of how cunningly sociopaths/psychopaths are when it comes to destroying people around them without anyone noticing what they are doing. Peace and Love to anyone who has ever been the target of such abuse. You are amazingly beautiful, smart, creative, original, sweet, brave, wise, and courageous never forget! 🙏🏿💗
@@TherapistTamaraHill Thank you! 💚🙏🏿 Yes Dr. Hare is one of my favourites 👍🏿 Reading these type of books now and then helps me stay awake after the storm was over. It is tempting for my mind to live in a strawberryfields forever world, however in the end of the day though staying real and being honest about abuse and predators is what delivers the strawberries 🍓🍓🌈💗
The narrator is genius regarding the different types of toxic personalities. Some say 1 in 5 people are mentally unhealthy. That is a pretty high number. A question for study should be why.
Do some sociopathic fathers help their children get jobs and let them live with them? My therapist thinks my dad may be one, but it's hard for me to tell when he does that and he says I love you and hugs me. It sends so genuine. He gives me advice on my anxieties and everything. I think it's all at a cost though. I have to be there emotionally for him. He gets upset if I don't do stuff that he asks.
Well, if he’s a sociopath he does all that to make himself look good. You are his son and everyone will praise him for being a great dad and doing an amazing job by you. He will be known as the man with a successful son…
Sounds like my ex husband now he is with my son who’s now 17. My ex always went to our son filling his war with his woes and he was so little . I never knew this was happening . He’s callous he gaslights both kids but my son wants his fathers genuine love but their father places conditions on love. So both kids are or always reacting and either feel like the happy with them or if bad grades comes up he becomes callous telling our daughter that she’s just a disappointment . Our Daughter is struggling with anxiety and depression and has lost over 30 lbs in a year which is making me look too skinny . But it’s bad how dismissive he becomes if they don’t make him look good cause it’s all about him If makes me sick .
Thank you so much for this Tamara, I'm glad the universe guided me to you, You're absolutely beautiful, Peace, love, Respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe 👁♘🐉🌚🕊💙💜🌈😃💛💚🌌🐎☘😇😍😊🦄🌹🌷👽❤
My narcissistic father said how dare you feed yourself breakfast, and not feed your brother! I was eleven years old and very selfish. I let a Veterinarian miss treat my dog! I accepted disrespect and I have blurry boundaries! Now I didn’t pick up my dog. I said to myself Lilly who? Then I thought, let her suffer, she’s no good. I was in a false reality due to gaslighting and bad advice from my angry, money hungry Veterinarian! I believe that I let him harm my beautiful puppy!
My father told me through my mother, when I had reached my fill with his emotional and financial domestic violence when he was in hospice, that it was about patriarchy. Yes, you heard correctly. My mother said with a derisive smirk, and I quote, "Your father told me to tell you that it's about patriarchy."
It's called "Duper's Delight". Google it. I am so sorry you went through this. There is a documentary on Buddha that changed my life along with Jesus Of Nazareth. I realized this moment in time we are passing through is just a grain of sand on a beach and that your father is just a yellow jacket or wasp. He is not your real father. He's nothing. There is something out there. I don't think there is, I know. If people want to call it God ok. The closest description I can give is just pure raw love. Took me years of meditation, study and prayer to reach the place i'm at and if I don't keep practicing I can go back to that place where the opinion of the yellow jackets matter. They were always going to be exactly what they are you just happened to be connected to them.
Brain tumors can cause this behavior too right? There was that one BIG serial killer who before his excision said somethings wrong in my head and said please look at my brain. After he was out to death they cut open his head and found a brain tumor on the specific part of the brain that controls that stuff. They couldn't prove it caused it but........ Pretty freaky if you ask me
Wow...I now believe I've been with two men with sociopathic and narcissistic tendencies. One was covert, the other overt or maybe malignant. Talk about eye opening. No wonder I'm skeptical and don't trust people right now.
Hi my name is Crystal I would love for you to give me some advice on a personal situation I’m dealing with. I also wanna know why can’t I ignore the situation. Sometimes in life we need a person to give us some good sound advice that I can also give to my children later on in life if the situation or something similar occurs
DING DING DING DING! "As if they're playing a game of chess! My Ex literally played chess all the time and maneuvered through life as if it was a damned game. RUINING Countless lives along the way!
I watched your videos on both female and male and you described the male version exactly as the female I’m dealing with. I don’t want to go into detail as she views my comments however I don’t know why we protect women so much. The worst humans I’ve ever met were female. Maybe it’s difficult to see from being a female. I know I had to look harder to see what women are taking about. “The Game” can be disgusting from men.
Why do you think sociopathic traits are attractive to females in the first place? I see a lot of “victims” here who had sociopathic boyfriends/husbands. What do you think it is? I suspect that in the right doses, some of these personality characteristics/ when used in the service of others, are quite attractive to females.
That's a good question. And I think you are right. I think, professionally, that women are attracted to men who appear independent, competent, and has a bit of edgyness to their character. Sadly, sociopaths and psychopaths can "act this out" and get what they want. The psychopath becomes even more believeable because they plan things out so well that the score on the independence and competence scale tends to go up in the eyes of most women. There is also a higher percentage, according to research, of men who are sociopaths and psychopaths than women. Source: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8374040/
@@TherapistTamaraHill well in reference to the big 5, a trait called disagreeableness is reliably higher then men then in women. It’s the number 1 predictor of going to prison. It’s a Pareto distribution. That’s why there are reliably more men then women in prison. The reverse is also true. Opposite to disagreeableness, more women fit into an agreeable temperament, which as I’m sure your familiar with, is associated with care and concern, and in the extreme, I would assume those people would tend to get taken advantage of by aforementioned sociopaths:D
@@andrewwabik5125Women are conditioned to be agreeable more than males. We are taught to be submissive and say yes when we really want to say no, to please men. When we tried to overcome this we get labelled ‘selfish’
Well...no. Everyone falls somewhere on the scale of sociopathy but most sociopaths tend to be at the top of the scale. The behaviors discussed could be displayed in almost all humans. But that doesn't mean they are sociopaths. And sociopaths may engage in the many behaviors found amongst humans but what makes them different is that there is a high level of antisocial behavior and disregard for the rights of others.
@@TherapistTamaraHillWhat would you say to the notion that we have been socially engineered by sociopaths in high places to be sociopathic? I had this awareness many years ago but can’t prove it
I think I just got rid of one last week! He turned SO cold one night when I shared about a driving instructor who stalked me! He actually laughed?? I was scared of him after that and my cat hated him and wouldn’t come out from under the bed when he visited. I was assertive with him and put up reasonable boundaries and instead of respecting them he Unfriended me for apparently “hassling him” when I simply said his words weren’t helpful to me after he started blaming me for a situation that unfolded legally that didn’t go well and upset me! He is just devoid of empathy and couldn’t say anything comforting but just immediately blamed me without listening to what I said and it actually wasn’t my fault but he was obsessed with me taking responsibility yet never took any in his own wrong doings..like how he intentionally did not tell two women I know that he had herpes and didn’t use a condom and then blamed them later when they got it for not putting a condom on and said “there’s no proof they didn’t already have it???” He KNEW he had it and didn’t give them any informed options then blamed them?? He tried to use this argument and rationalise to me after I told him to get lost after he Unfriended me. I stood up for myself and my right to be assertive with my boundaries and if he could t deal with it then too f ing bad
Hello can frontal lobe brain injury be a cause of my husband falling into this type of behavior.i have known him over 30 years we have only been married 8 .pryer to our marriage he had a front lobe brain aneurysm . He didn't have any of the traits when we married 8 years ago but over the years slowly he developed every trait listed..I know that if it is due to the brain injury the can't help it but it no less hurtful and disruptive to our lives We have listened to so many of the videos hoping he would see this and let's get him /us help but no luck he keeps dening this is him.. Thank you for you video it was helpful to me Elizabeth
Its sad to say, but unfortunately I have encountered a number of sociopaths in my life from family members, to an ex, to ex brother in laws. I'm sure I also work with colleagues who have traits too :(
Hi Tamara! Amazing video!! I let them mistreat my beautiful, put her into the shelter for just being a sweet, innocent puppy. Meanwhile, I realized that I neglected her. I didn’t protect her or keep her safe. Then when I saw a dead bird on my phone, two months later, I went to get her and it was way too late! When they told me to pick her up, I was angry about something. Then I felt like I wasn’t going to anything for her. The Veterinarian told me he wanted me to surrender my dog. I told the Doctor that I paid another hospital $500 for my dog to be kennel when I went out of town. I didn’t take action to pick up my beautiful puppy! I was confused and zombie like. Now I’m heartbroken and in a world of pain inflicted by my narcissistic father!!
I thought a sociopath qualifies automatically as a narcissist but not vice versa. What does being street smart and knowing how to get what you want have anything to do with not caring if you kill an animal and/or intelligence? Were you trying to talk about a sociopath or just shifty characteristics ? I don't know much but I was pretty sure that in order to be considered a sociopath clinically you need to meet X amount of these characteristics characteristics combined. It really sounds like you're just taking narcissistic characteristics.... but I'm no expert.
Watch out for the knife in your back. Make sure the kids are well grown before you turn them over to dad in a custody battle. They don’t think anything of ruining their kids just so they can get revenge, and they will wipe you right out of their lives.
This reminds me of what is called parental alienation. This means that one parent "darkens" a child's view of the other parent to create a "us" against "him or her" mentality. It's frightening to see how this works.
Have you also seen these behaviors in females or mothers? I have but research suggests men seem to display these traits more.
Yes this has been my mother as well. 😞
My mother, sister, brother and 2 ex's.
Thankfully I now understand what and who I was dealing with.
It is apparent that until we can identify them and have understanding we feel this crazy comfort with like minded sociopaths. Because we grew up with it we don't recognize them. Even though we don't want that type in our lives.
It's education, understanding, being able to identify them, knowing how to defend ourselves from them, and how to go no contract even when we, heartbreakingly, need to go no contact with good people because the good people are the loose links those types use to get to us, to control and harm us.
Once we do, we can freely reinvent ourselves, live with peace and love, and have the life we truly want and are meant to live
@@empathicone21 If we had grown up with it we are attracted to these individuals because it is what we know.We must break this cycle and go no contact and recognise them for what they are, EVIL. Some people who seem Good who hang around these creatures could be Enablers/ Flying Monkeys who help perpetrate the abuse.Be very careful and get clued up on Narcissistic abuse.TH-cam has a plethora of good videos.Be extra careful if you're an empath.You are spot on with everything you wrote.Can relate. Good luck.
Yes my sister has all of these. It's like handing the keys to a airplane to a blind person. She needs control but doesn't know what the hell she's doing.
That might be because men are typically overt using their strength and are more likely to resort to violence. Where as women are far more likely to gossip, use manipulation, more likely to fall under the radar.
It's not a need. It's a compulsion, a desire. Genuine needs are for things like food, water, oxygen. Things a person literally needs to survive. We have to stop calling evil/unhealthy compulsions "needs." That just feeds into the gaslighting and enabling. Nobody has a *need* to harm, control, or use others.
Exactly. Facts. How you getting by with men who are now women? She not he
its a need becausethey have a pathology, normal people do not have this need. Normal people do need human connection and love.
I'm 100% convinced my Dad was a sociopath and a narcissist. He had a few things that gave him away in my opinion. His facial expression was pretty flat, I believe this is called flat affect (or reduced affect). His eyes used to scare me, they were very still and calm, predatory.
His eyes appeared unfeeling and reminded me of the dead eyes of a shark. In a conversation he always had to be right. He usually had a smirk on his face. He was just an average Joe in an average job, but obviously felt superiour.
He always put me down and was negative my whole childhood, but it got much worse when I became a teenager. He couldn't handle me having my own opinions and saw my development as a threat.
You just described my now elderly father. Treatment of me started this way as long as I can remember. My brothers are exactly the same. They all laughed over my mother the second she took her last breath. I now realize why she got so sick it was from the abuse. Now I am the big-time target even worse. I'm almost 70 years old and I am done!
This sounds just like my dad,all started in my teens when I became my own person with my own opinions. If I disagreed he rage and got angry,calling me bad names ,telling me I should be more like my sister(the perfect child) putting me down,disregarded my feelings.extremly neglectful emotionally. He was all abouth his own interest and self image. He also controlled my mom,she never stood up to him,and when she did try,nothing resolved. cant control his emotions. I delt with so mutch anxiety because of him. He never learned me to drive a car. I been confused my whole life but now I understand everything. Didnt help that I struggled with undiagnosed ADHD started in my teens.they never took me to a doctor did nothing. Now I understand why I attract so many narcissist/sociopaths
That's what they do. And they don't like IT when you say no. Even if it's your very right to do so. They don't accept your boundaties.
Mine too it was hellish my whole childhood was ruined resulted in depression and anxiety
This is exactly why I don't date anymore. I've been married twice and divorced twice. Sociopathic men are not men. They're very toxic unhealthy relationships when dealing with sociopathic. They are very abusive and some are narcissistic and a sociopathic. I'm not in a relationship with no one else and I don't want to be with no one else. It's terrible being married to men who have this. Some young children can have sociopathic and narcissistic personality disorders also. It's absolutely horrible when you have to deal with more than one with these disorders.
I really cannot blame you! I am not a fan of "dating" either. I do believe there is a difference between "dating" and sharing dinner/your life with someone you may want to spend a lifetime with. Dating can be extremely traumatizing to say the least.
@@TherapistTamaraHill You are so right about dating can be traumatizing if the person is unkind etc. I'm not ready to be in a relationship with no one. I'm taking next year to just work on myself mentally, physically, emotionally and physically. I'm taking time for myself now.
Haven't dated in about 7-8 years because of the males actually being psycopaths- necrophilias, and abusers of all sorts.
Since many sociopaths are superficially charming, I avoid rich and successful business types.
Part of the difficulty finding a partner is that we all rush into relationships, and our role models are not always healthy!
Just found out my husband is a sociopath. First thing i noticed when i met him was the lack of emotion in his eyes
You’ve probably just described close to 90% of those I have known to achieve truly high status within a business organization.
That's true! I can't disagree with that.
Psychologists validate this. There are a lot of cluster b’s in corporate environment and high status roles
Wow my ex had a lot of these traits. But lay people like myself are tempted to label people who have hurt us as "narcs" or "sociopaths" because it is comforting to our pain and need for an answer.
How you feel around toxic behavior is a huge sign. When my ex was in my life I had lots of anxiety, increased heart rate when he called, intrusive thoughts like crazy, and my jaw even started aching during the day.
Well said Jennifer!
All of this plus migraines, sweaty palms, exhaustion and sickness b4 and after dealing with them.. protect your energy people, PROTECT YPUR ENERGY!
@@DivaDivine88I understand why my mother had migraines so often but didn’t know at the time. She stayed too long with my father and had her own traits as well which hurt me a lot. I can’t be around either of them now. It’s so sad.
Yes.. after his mask started to crack i had several times when I got near him and just puked out of the negative feeling and energy
This is very good
Most clairvoyant video I’ve seen so far
The types of manipulation
Sometimes it goes into a social awkward cadence that doesn’t fit the situation
It leave u puzzled.
Like a guy I dated we were in a restaurant a waitress served us. Don’t know her name
But he caught name tag.
And was like hello ‘ Jane’
I’ll have a coffee ‘ Jane’
Thank you Jane
Oh Jane I’ll have a water too.
It was so awkward
I know of a person who talks like this to his partner, or now ex partner as in uses her name in every sentence and I mean every sentence - I always thought it sounded odd and ‘awkward’
Most, if not all, manly men stereotypes who served as prime examples of masculinity for generations show most, if not all, of the sociopathic traits mentioned here. John Wayne, Batman, 007... The culture was pushing sociopathic behavior as something to be looked up to.
That's absolutely not true,
The research shown that the only thing preventing psychopaths from completely taking over society are strong male figures. think about it, if strong male figures were psychopaths there would be literally savages everywhere you turn. It's strong moral men that keep psychopaths from killing everyone.
@@TheCoffeeCat Eh agree to disagree I feel like it’s more stoicism than sociopathy
This video should go viral. It s so spot on on each factor/element mentioned. So true it hurts, I feel a bit stupid not running away sooner.
Wow. This is the man I’ve been with for 3 years. I’ve been waiting and thinking this man was the perfect husband because on paper he is but I’ve realized that he is manipulative and at times downright frightening. He can be very giving and sweet and supportive but he’s got a complete polar opposite that makes me question his good side. It’s very confusing. Especially for someone who has had no consistent positive male figures in my life.
I'm sure Dr. Jeckyl looks great on paper, too. Need I say more?
Wish you the best,
~ TD, Boston
Is he a Pisces? 🤣
I’m starting to think my boyfriend is this way to but he will spend hours ignoring me then later on tell me a play by play about his day and then say he’s going to bed. 🙄 Then put it all back on me “but you said this and you wanted this.” So idk 🤷♀️🤦🏽♀️ Yet everyone at church loves him. I still don’t trust him at all. I’ll tell him I love him and everything is great but at the end of the day I just don’t trust him.
Women need to come totally out of lala land. It's been working against us for centuries..
@@vgrannyvl2 yes...this is the truth! Women live in freaking romance novels.
I was one such. Its fucked up.
Excellent! Highly clinical, explained in a way that we can all understand.
I appreciate the reference to "sexually maladaptive" behavior. These folks exploit the gap between Criminal Law and Moral Law. Fear of legal and/or other physical/externally imposed consequences, but no internal remorse.
Thank you!! And I agree. They do exploit these two. Very disturbing.
Some intelligent ones know that many rapists or sexually violating individuals never go to jail or get consequences for their actions so they aren’t afraid of the law. They’re the really dangerous ones
Thank you Tamara for saving my sanity again about my past. I did the right thing and I can’t fix him.
That's so kind. I'm very glad that you getting something from this channel. That's an answered prayer of mine. And yes, you can't fix him. If you are around this evening 7:25ish est, I will be live and talking a lot about this. I welcome you!
Hard to accept but pretty sure my father is a sociopath. He has had problem behaviour since youth. All I remember from him is insulting me as a young child, and throughout my life, insulting my mother, multiple affairs, missing special days, beating me, never showed up to my graduation, throwing me to the streets as a teen, then finding me, bringing me home, beating me again and threatening to do it again. He made me believe since I was a child that I was a bad seed and I believe used me as a punching bag. When I left at 40, he tried to make me feel guilty, stalked me, but I really went into hiding, to this day no one knows where I live, because he is that crazy. I hate him so much.
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you got away, but still this probably carries with you a heavy burden. You were the scapegoat to place all his pain that you never deserved. And for that I'm so sorry.
You are really good at this.
😊 thank you!
Body language says a LOT about these people, especially if they are less intelligent and masking.
💯 This is how I began to spot the issues that lay below with a few people in my life!
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I called out a Sociopath my sister was dating 8 years ago after he manipulated crisis after crisis in our family for years and was a pathological liar/theif. Told him exactly what he was, all ofv he times in the past I was aware he was lying, and warned him if he came near me ever again I was going to hurt him bad (i had to because if i didnt then he would have tried to come "reason" with me). I havent seen or talked to him since , even moved across the country last year, but to this day he still rants and raves about me on his social media 8 years later. He has no association with our family as of 4 years ago. I get a good laugh now and again when I see his posts going insane.
Yes, I find this to very true about men who are in high position. They know how to such you in and then control you. I have been off the grid for awhile I been focusing getting ready for my trip out of the country to see my family in Panama.
Have a great trip!! I heard it's beautiful there.
I read once that there are some Corporations that seek out to hire certain socilpathic types to put in high positions because they tend to increase the company's profits!!!
Sociopaths are not Qualified to be called MEN. They are Monsters!!
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That's genuinely insensitive to group them all like that...
Gourgeously accurate, almost with a strict comical humour.
Nothing further to add 🙏
thank you for helping me with my sociopathic ex husband that is so sneaky and convincing and vindictive -my anxiety is rising and your clarity is very helpful
You're welcome!
This scenario is often the worse, especially with children involved.
@@TherapistTamaraHill you are really wonderful at responding and it means a lot
🥰 Thank you. I'm humbled by the opportunity.
I have a man in and out of my life for the past five years. I have been studying this disorder for quite sometime and I wonder now if he would fall into this category. There was always a lot about him that seemed off to me. First the charm I was mesmerized at how he could walk into any room and control the environment no matter what. When we were together we’d go to a work function and a man with very little rank like him within 15 min he’d be laughing come up to me and said “babe we’ve been invited to dinner with the colonel/gen/SMG etc. and I’d be shocked he even gained an audience with them. Charm he always seemed to spend far more money then I thought he could be earning. He knows some of my abusive history so now he will pop smoke and when he wants to come back for whatever reason he always comes right when I’m involved with a not so great man and he sort of “saves the day” being a very large muscular man and very violent he easily gets the “bad man” out of my life. I also have to be very careful with my own language he LOVES that I am extremely successful and shows that off when he’s in my life BUT if I get close to his level he gets very angry. I hid my promotion for two months because I promoted before him. When he found out I immediately said it was no reflection on him and it was silly but he was infuriated saying I never earned it that there’s no way I’ll ever outrank him again. He always praises my accomplishments but also reminds me they aren’t on his level. He switches emotionally all the time calling late at night saying I should be his wife to saying he needs space we aren’t good together etc. odd moments when he calls with his friends saying things like “watch this I’ll get her to believe I’m actually gonna be with her forever” whenever he feels I’m making decisions on my own or I get too attached to him he just disappears no warning usually to another country but every few months sometimes a year or so he finds his way back to me. It’s been almost 6 years since we’ve met. Am I involved with a possible sociopath?
He sounds narcissistic but it's possible to be soc. at the same time.
That sounds incredibly toxic. Run as fast as you can from this person, for the sake of your mental health.
You have no boundaries. He does not like or respect you. He’s also very jealous of your accomplishments, he will stay and play as long as you allow it. Run for your life !!!! You are wasting your time…
I have been trying to run and hide from my ex who is one... This sounds like him all the way. Thank you so much for this video.
You're welcome. And I'm sorry to hear this. Boundaries and barriers to keep this person away from you is needed.
These are the kinds of people who cost their cooperations millions or billions of dollars in fines , fees or damages. After they have been sued, they tend to become REPEAT offenders of the same crimes. Because, they will find another way to scam their customers. They will tell their staff, just don’t get caught. These kinds of businesses need to be confiscated.
love your insight! you're so real 🖤
You are fantastic! Very useful advice
Thank you! 😃
I felt like I was in a hypnotic trans brought on by my malignant narcissistic father!
Thanks love!! This is great!!
I just can't stand the person who gives a thumbs down (THE ONLY ONE!) on every video. Says a lot about them!
You're the best! Thank you.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
My husband has turned into a rage filled nut. All he cares about is himself.
This is excellent information. Bless you for this.
Thank you Ashley! Blessinf to you too!
I'm so glad I found your channel. You pretty much helped me into a pretty life changing paradigm shift. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I wish I was able to figure this out sooner but I never trusted myself. Even with incredible people like you in my life, I just refused to believe it.
You are so welcome! And thank you! Very glad this was helpful to you. As you continue to grow in your knowledge of this, you will learn to trust yourself more.
Thank you for this. I’m trying to understand right now if the man I was seeing romantically for six weeks earlier in the year was perhaps a sociopath. He contains many of the traits you described in this video; he was very charming in what I now recognize as a shallow way, and I believe he was very manipulative as well. He lied a lot (more than I think I realized) and preyed upon my younger age and naiivete (I 20F, he 25M; he was my first relationship, unfortunately). I never once saw him express true concern or emotion for another person; he actually smiled and laughed when I told him things he’d done to emotionally hurt me - tears were literally in my eyes. He once told me that people who disrespect him “are pathetic and undeserving.” And he always told me: “I need to be in control. I need to be in control. When I’m not in control, I shut people out.” He hurt me so much emotionally - six weeks for a false relationship, only for him to lie to my face, laugh at me, and cut me out forever. It’s because I didn’t want to have sex with him, I’m pretty sure. Too much to explain concisely, but my mind is just reeling and the memories of his absolute apathy towards me are still traumatic to me five months later. At first people would tell me I was just heartbroken and that it was just a breakup, my first breakup moreover, but that’s never felt like the right explanation; I know my feelings and it’s not heartbreak I’m going through. I do think I’ve been traumatized by his behavior, and your video provided me with more clarity and closure than I’ve been able to find elsewhere, least of all from him. I don’t know if he’s a sociopath but I have my suspicions.
Great video, thank you for sharing!! The courts recognized what they were dealing with and assigned the same judge so no manipulation could be done because these people are skilled at utilizing the system and manipulating things in their favor.
I ate this while stuffing my face with pizza, and usually don't like long videos. But, you did a good job giving examples. Good bullet list of points.
Tamara , you are spot on . tanks 4 postng .....
You're welcome!! Thank you.
YOU ARE EXCELLENT AT THIS WORK !! GLAD TO HAVE FOUND YOU! KUDO'S !
Thank you so much!!
Hey beautiful, I like your work, I don't think I'm crazy, nice awareness your spreading
Thank you so much 🙂
Well said thanks for sharing!
My pleasure! Thank you!
@@TherapistTamaraHill You’re welcome
wow. amazing video, I have a lot of thinking to do
Thank you!! Yes, I've been there.
Thank you so...much, for sharing your content.
My pleasure! You're welcome.
Thank you! looking forward to the next video using the WEB method!
You're welcome. Coming soon!
Tamara is so pretty inside and out. I dont have too many friends. She would be a great friend or contact. Seems to be a good judge of charecter to have in our corner.
☺Thanks so much!! That's so kind of you.
@@TherapistTamaraHill you're welcome.
Wow, thank you ..helping me to understand clearly. 😊
You're welcome 😊
Thankyou Tamara for your videos 😊 your spot on and informative. I have learnt alot! 💖♥️🌺🌹🥀
I love the way you explain things! Thank you for your great examples. 🙏🏿💚For anyone dealing with psychopaths in the workplace... I am reading "Snakes in Suits" by Paul Babiak and Robert. D Hare, it has some well written stories/examples of how cunningly sociopaths/psychopaths are when it comes to destroying people around them without anyone noticing what they are doing. Peace and Love to anyone who has ever been the target of such abuse. You are amazingly beautiful, smart, creative, original, sweet, brave, wise, and courageous never forget! 🙏🏿💗
Thank you! And thank you for sharing these resources. I like Dr. Hare. Haven't heard of Paul Babiak too much in my research.
@@TherapistTamaraHill Thank you! 💚🙏🏿 Yes Dr. Hare is one of my favourites 👍🏿 Reading these type of books now and then helps me stay awake after the storm was over. It is tempting for my mind to live in a strawberryfields forever world, however in the end of the day though staying real and being honest about abuse and predators is what delivers the strawberries 🍓🍓🌈💗
The narrator is genius regarding the different types of toxic personalities. Some say 1 in 5 people are mentally unhealthy. That is a pretty high number. A question for study should be why.
Do some sociopathic fathers help their children get jobs and let them live with them? My therapist thinks my dad may be one, but it's hard for me to tell when he does that and he says I love you and hugs me. It sends so genuine. He gives me advice on my anxieties and everything. I think it's all at a cost though. I have to be there emotionally for him. He gets upset if I don't do stuff that he asks.
Well, if he’s a sociopath he does all that to make himself look good. You are his son and everyone will praise him for being a great dad and doing an amazing job by you. He will be known as the man with a successful son…
Sounds like my ex husband now he is with my son who’s now 17. My ex always went to our son filling his war with his woes and he was so little . I never knew this was happening . He’s callous he gaslights both kids but my son wants his fathers genuine love but their father places conditions on love. So both kids are or always reacting and either feel like the happy with them or if bad grades comes up he becomes callous telling our daughter that she’s just a disappointment . Our Daughter is struggling with anxiety and depression and has lost over 30 lbs in a year which is making me look too skinny . But it’s bad how dismissive he becomes if they don’t make him look good cause it’s all about him If makes me sick .
Im worried that my son is a sociopath. Trying to keep it together.
Hang in there, make a lot of prayer n continue to learn so we can combat
Thank you so much for this Tamara, I'm glad the universe guided me to you, You're absolutely beautiful, Peace, love, Respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe 👁♘🐉🌚🕊💙💜🌈😃💛💚🌌🐎☘😇😍😊🦄🌹🌷👽❤
Thank you so much!! That's kind. Bless you.
@@TherapistTamaraHill You're very welcome Tamara , God bless you too😃🌈🌌💙💜💛💚❤😃
this is the father of my 9 month old son. word for word.
My narcissistic father said how dare you feed yourself breakfast, and not feed your brother! I was eleven years old and very selfish. I let a Veterinarian miss treat my dog! I accepted disrespect and I have blurry boundaries! Now I didn’t pick up my dog. I said to myself Lilly who? Then I thought, let her suffer, she’s no good. I was in a false reality due to gaslighting and bad advice from my angry, money hungry Veterinarian! I believe that I let him harm my beautiful puppy!
Love your videos. Thank you ❤
You are so welcome! And thank you!!
Great one! thnx..
You're welcome! Thank you!
Thankyou Tamara 🙏
You're welcome 😊
So James Bond was a sociopath.
Mine threatened head on collisions and laughed when someone almost crashed. Difference between sociopath and psychopath?
My father told me through my mother, when I had reached my fill with his emotional and financial domestic violence when he was in hospice, that it was about patriarchy. Yes, you heard correctly. My mother said with a derisive smirk, and I quote, "Your father told me to tell you that it's about patriarchy."
It is sociopathic patterns of behavior rather than patriarchy. He was excusing himself by saying that. Patriarchs can be respectful and truly kind.
It's called "Duper's Delight". Google it. I am so sorry you went through this. There is a documentary on Buddha that changed my life along with Jesus Of Nazareth. I realized this moment in time we are passing through is just a grain of sand on a beach and that your father is just a yellow jacket or wasp. He is not your real father. He's nothing. There is something out there. I don't think there is, I know. If people want to call it God ok. The closest description I can give is just pure raw love. Took me years of meditation, study and prayer to reach the place i'm at and if I don't keep practicing I can go back to that place where the opinion of the yellow jackets matter. They were always going to be exactly what they are you just happened to be connected to them.
❤Thank you ❤wonderful❤ lady❤this video will help to see what to expect from a Sociopath
Brain tumors can cause this behavior too right? There was that one BIG serial killer who before his excision said somethings wrong in my head and said please look at my brain. After he was out to death they cut open his head and found a brain tumor on the specific part of the brain that controls that stuff. They couldn't prove it caused it but........
Pretty freaky if you ask me
Yes my boyfriend had one which caused him to be borderline sociopathic. I’m pretty sure he’s a sociopath though.
Could you do a live question answer, so we can ask questions to help us with things we are dealing with?
Hi I just wanted to say I love your videos, thank you.
maybe I'll come to therapy with you in the future.
Thanks so much!
@@TherapistTamaraHill you're welcome
Wow...I now believe I've been with two men with sociopathic and narcissistic tendencies. One was covert, the other overt or maybe malignant. Talk about eye opening. No wonder I'm skeptical and don't trust people right now.
Perfect time for me to discover this video as I just finished watching "Woman of the Hour" on Netflix
Hi my name is Crystal I would love for you to give me some advice on a personal situation I’m dealing with. I also wanna know why can’t I ignore the situation. Sometimes in life we need a person to give us some good sound advice that I can also give to my children later on in life if the situation or something similar occurs
My sister checks all the same boxes.
This is word for word someone I know 😪
Thank you.
You're welcome!
my mother is like youre describring
I would like to know more about female sociopath.
DING DING DING DING!
"As if they're playing a game of chess!
My Ex literally played chess all the time and maneuvered through life as if it was a damned game. RUINING Countless lives along the way!
So basically the first one to claim “they’re crazy” isn’t the crazy one.
Oh boy. Im aware that sociopaths wanted to conttol others ...i just never knew it was such a complex subject.
I watched your videos on both female and male and you described the male version exactly as the female I’m dealing with. I don’t want to go into detail as she views my comments however I don’t know why we protect women so much. The worst humans I’ve ever met were female. Maybe it’s difficult to see from being a female. I know I had to look harder to see what women are taking about. “The Game” can be disgusting from men.
Why do you think sociopathic traits are attractive to females in the first place? I see a lot of “victims” here who had sociopathic boyfriends/husbands. What do you think it is? I suspect that in the right doses, some of these personality characteristics/ when used in the service of others, are quite attractive to females.
That's a good question. And I think you are right. I think, professionally, that women are attracted to men who appear independent, competent, and has a bit of edgyness to their character. Sadly, sociopaths and psychopaths can "act this out" and get what they want. The psychopath becomes even more believeable because they plan things out so well that the score on the independence and competence scale tends to go up in the eyes of most women. There is also a higher percentage, according to research, of men who are sociopaths and psychopaths than women.
Source: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8374040/
@@TherapistTamaraHill well in reference to the big 5, a trait called disagreeableness is reliably higher then men then in women. It’s the number 1 predictor of going to prison. It’s a Pareto distribution. That’s why there are reliably more men then women in prison. The reverse is also true. Opposite to disagreeableness, more women fit into an agreeable temperament, which as I’m sure your familiar with, is associated with care and concern, and in the extreme, I would assume those people would tend to get taken advantage of by aforementioned sociopaths:D
@@andrewwabik5125Women are conditioned to be agreeable more than males. We are taught to be submissive and say yes when we really want to say no, to please men. When we tried to overcome this we get labelled ‘selfish’
😂 “aren’t all people like this?” Most sociopaths don’t know they are sociopaths.
Well...no. Everyone falls somewhere on the scale of sociopathy but most sociopaths tend to be at the top of the scale. The behaviors discussed could be displayed in almost all humans. But that doesn't mean they are sociopaths. And sociopaths may engage in the many behaviors found amongst humans but what makes them different is that there is a high level of antisocial behavior and disregard for the rights of others.
@@TherapistTamaraHillWhat would you say to the notion that we have been socially engineered by sociopaths in high places to be sociopathic? I had this awareness many years ago but can’t prove it
I think I just got rid of one last week! He turned SO cold one night when I shared about a driving instructor who stalked me! He actually laughed?? I was scared of him after that and my cat hated him and wouldn’t come out from under the bed when he visited. I was assertive with him and put up reasonable boundaries and instead of respecting them he Unfriended me for apparently “hassling him” when I simply said his words weren’t helpful to me after he started blaming me for a situation that unfolded legally that didn’t go well and upset me! He is just devoid of empathy and couldn’t say anything comforting but just immediately blamed me without listening to what I said and it actually wasn’t my fault but he was obsessed with me taking responsibility yet never took any in his own wrong doings..like how he intentionally did not tell two women I know that he had herpes and didn’t use a condom and then blamed them later when they got it for not putting a condom on and said “there’s no proof they didn’t already have it???” He KNEW he had it and didn’t give them any informed options then blamed them?? He tried to use this argument and rationalise to me after I told him to get lost after he Unfriended me. I stood up for myself and my right to be assertive with my boundaries and if he could t deal with it then too f ing bad
Hello can frontal lobe brain injury be a cause of my husband falling into this type of behavior.i have known him over 30 years we have only been married 8 .pryer to our marriage he had a front lobe brain aneurysm . He didn't have any of the traits when we married 8 years ago but over the years slowly he developed every trait listed..I know that if it is due to the brain injury the can't help it but it no less hurtful and disruptive to our lives
We have listened to so many of the videos hoping he would see this and let's get him /us help but no luck he keeps dening this is him..
Thank you for you video it was helpful to me
Elizabeth
Its sad to say, but unfortunately I have encountered a number of sociopaths in my life from family members, to an ex, to ex brother in laws. I'm sure I also work with colleagues who have traits too :(
They're 4% of the population...
Hi Tamara! Amazing video!! I let them mistreat my beautiful, put her into the shelter for just being a sweet, innocent puppy. Meanwhile, I realized that I neglected her. I didn’t protect her or keep her safe. Then when I saw a dead bird on my phone, two months later, I went to get her and it was way too late! When they told me to pick her up, I was angry about something. Then I felt like I wasn’t going to anything for her. The Veterinarian told me he wanted me to surrender my dog. I told the Doctor that I paid another hospital $500 for my dog to be kennel when I went out of town. I didn’t take action to pick up my beautiful puppy! I was confused and zombie like. Now I’m heartbroken and in a world of pain inflicted by my narcissistic father!!
What makes people become sociopaths or are they born this way?
saw this video with fearing I might be one, happy to know am not.
Yes, I'm sure!
Anyone who's commenting, "Isn't this all humans?" is frankly self-identifying because that would never occur to any normally empathic human being.
Sounds like being a sociopath is to be a super man.
Reportedly, the city with the highest number of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths is Washington, DC. Politics attracts them.
I thought a sociopath qualifies automatically as a narcissist but not vice versa. What does being street smart and knowing how to get what you want have anything to do with not caring if you kill an animal and/or intelligence? Were you trying to talk about a sociopath or just shifty characteristics ? I don't know much but I was pretty sure that in order to be considered a sociopath clinically you need to meet X amount of these characteristics characteristics combined. It really sounds like you're just taking narcissistic characteristics.... but I'm no expert.
Hello. I'm here.
Welcome back!!🙂
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This is my husband.
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Narcissistic mother + sociopath father = sociopath son who attracts narcissistic women
The inferiority i believe some of them have is that they have same sex attractions.. I'm sorry but the once I know seem to come across like that
This is my babygirl. I don't understand.
This sounds just like my ex, Dan. Very disturbing.
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Let’s not elect one this November!
Watch out for the knife in your back. Make sure the kids are well grown before you turn them over to dad in a custody battle. They don’t think anything of ruining their kids just so they can get revenge, and they will wipe you right out of their lives.
This reminds me of what is called parental alienation. This means that one parent "darkens" a child's view of the other parent to create a "us" against "him or her" mentality. It's frightening to see how this works.
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God your pretty too btw
Thank you!!