Here’s an idea about the boy who had a gf at 16-18. 1. I wouldn’t tell the girl. 2. I wouldn’t call off the shiduch. 3. I’d ask the girl to keep dating for a while and get to know him better. We all do silly things at all ages, especially during teen years. Rabbi Akiva got married at 40! Who knows how many girlfriends he had till then?
Here’s an idea about the boy who had a gf at 16-18. 1. I wouldn’t tell the girl. 2. I wouldn’t call off the shiduch. 3. I’d ask the girl to keep dating for a while and get to know him better.
We all do silly things at all ages, especially during teen years. Rabbi Akiva got married at 40! Who knows how many girlfriends he had till then?
*you've created* ... an evil world... the golem... at large... make believe...