Moshe Zev Lamm, LCSW - Marriage Workshop: Embracing Marital Conflict
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ส.ค. 2022
- Without Discord in Our Marriage, We Remain Lonely
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So many important insights and helpful ideas, thank you!
Please add translation to Hebrew, so that more people will have the opportunity to listen to this wonderful lesson.
I highely agree🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wow this is amazing!! Should be listened to by every couple!!
Thank you
Part 1 from the previous week?
Where is part 1
So that’s why marriage is so hard. 50 years ago the husband decided. Made thinks more simple and lots of resentment.
If two ppl really tried their best to work their middes and become better ppl and after many years marriage still feel way to hard and lack of fufillemt it’s most likely not a match. In order to find a match we need to become our best version in order to recognize the other part of us.. which is our soul mate
“How long will you hesitate, faithless people? I have created something new and different, as different as a woman protecting a man.””
Jeremiah 31:22
“If an unmarried woman makes a vow, whether deliberately or carelessly, or promises to abstain from something, and then marries, she must do everything that she vowed or promised unless her husband raises an objection when he hears about it. But if her husband forbids her to fulfill the vow when he hears about it, she is not required to keep it. The Lord will forgive her.”
Numbers 30:6-8
Respectfully, “love” can only follow from and build on “sensitivity”. Sensitive couples need not conflict. The notion that “conflict” is inherent to “marriage” is a frightful and fundamental misappreciation of “love” and its progenitor “sensitivity”. The reason this analysis holds is that a spouse who is insensitive to the other spouse is in fact insensitive to him/herself. Such a spouse may well be incapable of sensitivity to anyone. Comments welcome.
There’s conflict that comes from hate and conflict without fear and hate and it’s more like disagreeing . I belive when there’s this scary conflict it’s usually if it’s a abusive spouse or a spouse that simply not right for u. The biggest confusion I see is that they belive any two nice ppl can work . If there’s lacking deep connection and deep chemistry all will fail anyway. Just like u speak to two ppl , one gets u right away and one doesn’t . Doesn’t make one a bad person but their not ur match and it will cuz trouble and lack of fulfillment which then leads to all sort of negative feelings between them.
The more one knows themselves they will recognize their soul mate, they will look into their eyes and see themselves reflected and they will be delighted with awe. And then it’s not possible to hate that person or hurt them. Hurting them is hurting urself , and is so painful