How to Heal a Broken Relationship - Bishop Barron’s Sunday Sermon
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- Friends, forgiveness is about bearing the burden of the other-what justice requires them to carry, you carry for them. How we forgive others is tied tightly to God's forgiveness of us. If the Lord gives you grace in seventy times seventy ways, you must mirror the same for the brother or sister who offends you. Criticize another person only in the measure that you're willing to help them deal with the problem you're raising.
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As a wise nun once told me, "Holding onto resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die."
Great quote
A rare, wise soul
That's an incredibly wise quote
In a nutshell, brilliant!!!
So true!!! Forgive and let go 🙏
This hit so close to home. My Dad and his sister had a falling out more then 65 years ago. As a result I never knew two if my cousins until last year. We were robbed of all the memories that cousins should made growing up. Resentments often have innocent victims.
Yes, my happiest childhood memories are from visiting my cousins and aunt. But the resentment between my dad and my aunt caused us children to be robbed of more memories.
You are amazing sir! I’m am joining RCIA because of you and my mother in law! Please keep going, you give hope and speak to so many!
Praying for you and mother in law on your journey, welcome!
How wonderful! Thanks and God bless you both.
God bless you on your spiritual journey.
May you walk with HIM, all the days of your life. May HiIS blessing be upon you and yours. Welcome home,Rob! Shalom.
@@BishopBarron Forgiveness is at the heart of healing... We cannot begin to heal as human being spiritually or otherwise without being prepared to forgive. My family are in the midst of so much non forgiveness and punishment, it has torn the family apart for over 20 years, it began to heal a few years ago and last week, Satan has a grip of my so called Catholic family... Please pray for my family, I am piggy in the middle, talking to both sides but not attempting to intervene, Our Lord I pray for understanding and forgiveness 🙏❤️
It's time for healing, it's time for mercy, it's time to forgive your enemies.
It's time to stop the politicization of our Universal Church.
It's time to stop using the name of Christ for your personal gain.
It's time to adore Christ truly in the most Holy Sacrament.
It's time to bring Christ into the world with faith, hope, and love.
Amen.
@The Anthropologist _Forensic
Yes, truly☆
Yohanes R.T.B,
Awesomely creative and Gracefilled comment☆
Each piece of anger, each piece of desire for revenge are like rocks you carry in a sack on your back. Over time, the sack fills up and becomes heavy and heavier - but we don’t realize it until one day we boil over. Carrying those rocks of anger and revenge in the sack weighs us down in ways we do not acknowledge until we look inside the sack. Then, consider throwing that sack of ‘rocks’ at the foot of the cross and truly saying “Here, I give you all of these, with your help I will be free of each one.” You will find a new sense of freedom. And, then you must do your part, to forgive or ask for forgiveness - then you will have done your part. Just don’t go back and get one of those rocks!
There is a 12 step program which all of this sounds a lot like sans biblical reference
Thank you, sir. It is people like you who restore my faith in the Church and in people in general.
The devil is all about anger and vengeance, God is all about love and forgiveness. In which side do you dwell? Who do you want to serve?
O.H. Gotta Serve Somebody
@@jgil1966 0p oof
It is harder to forgive depending on the hurt.
Someone may have abused us or something very horrible. Another priest said forgiveness does not mean to resume a relationship. The evil may still be there.
Pray for the person and do not be a victim.
The offender usually does not want help. Pray for them! Hurt feelings are far from someone badly abusing a person.
I think we all would agree...including BB... if there's abuse or ongoing mistreatment, and you've been able to separate from the unrepentant perpetrator, you're not encouraged to resume the toxic relationship, but rather, seize God's grace to forgive them in your heart everytime you recall the pain and pray for them, asking God to forgive them and work out their repentance and conversion so they too will be saved. Often we need to ask first for the desire to forgive... It's something we will, not usually feel... A choice, not a feeling - like love.
@@micranley9880
Amen. Very well stated!
Yes, I hope BB speaks on toxic empathy at some date, where people have become so helpless they hold no one accountable.
Yet another homily by #BishopRobertBarron 's homily's bring's tears to my eyes! Thank you! I remember a homily a few years back where the Sister Mary said at a retreat she was told to think about each time she had been hurt and was still angry about it. For each time, she had to put a stone in a sack. Then, for the entire weekend, she had to carry the sack with the stones every place that she went. When she went to each lunch, the sack was next to her, when she went to the ladies room, it was on the floor next to her. Should she forget it someplace, she would have to rush back to retrieve it because she had to have it by the end of the weekend. Sister Mary said it was an incredible experience in what carrying a grudge really does to you.
Thank you Bishop Barron. Forgiveness is very difficult when the other person is not sorry, refuses to even consider that what they did was hurtful and continues to hurt you. I sometimes have to pray to want to forgive and pray for God to just take that poisonous feeling out of my heart because I'm incapable of overcoming it on my own. I have also found it sometimes best to forgive but not to maintain a relationship with someone who continues to speak and act without love.
@@alwaysbekindlove but after I wrote this, I thought that God always seeks to maintain a relationship with us no matter how hurtful we are. I think in a case of someone's ongoing cruelty, it's best to speak with a priest in confession about the unique dangers and difficulties in each individual experience of a broken relationship.
Remember when St.John Paul ll got shot in 1981? He forgave the shooter. I think that’s a great example of forgiveness.
A fine example and we all saw both sitting next to one another to exchange their sorrows and forgiveness.
... let go of our anger , our wrath ... we must forgive endlessly ... THÄNK ÝÖÜ for these reminders ... in the NAME of the FATHER GOD ALMiGHTY , of the SON JESUS CHRiST , and HOLY SPiRiT ... AMEN !!!!! 🙏 👼😇
Bishop Barron You lead so many people to God with the word on Fire Institute I took the Course Pivotal Players at a Bible study at my church a few years ago I was so taken by your writings and evangelism .Brilliant and wise at spreading the God's word
A beautiful sermon with insightful advise. As I listened, I thought of Blake's poem, "The Poison Tree." I was angry with my friend, I told my wrath; my wrath did end. I was angry with my foe. I told it not; my wrath did grow. And I watered it in fears, night in morning with my tears. And I stunned it with smiles, and with soft deceitful wiles. And it grew both day and night, till it bore an apple bright, and my foe beheld it shine, and he knew that it was mine. And into my garden stole when the night had veiled the pole. In the morning glad I see my foe outstretched beneath the tree. You are so right, Bishop Baron! How destructive is unchecked anger! How beautiful the gift of forgiveness, which we discover in God's love for us through Christ,
Forgiving those four people who pressed the dislike button.
Can you imagine?
@@barbaramazzocca4605 ???
I wish we all strive for and pray for the grace, even the Gift of *'unilateral forgiveness'.*
*"Unilateral forgiveness* is unconditional.
*Unilateral forgiveness* is always available to us, regardless of whether the other person apologises, shows remorse, is deemed deserving, or is even alive."
“When you hate, the only person who suffers is you because those you hate probably don't know, and those who do, don't care.” ― Medgar Evers
Pray for those who have grown angry and bitter and bitter of those who are doing well around them. We can’t fix them as much as we want to. They need prayer. They cause toxic relationships and they see the stick in other peoples eyes but not the 2x4 in their own. Pray, pray for them. Prayer is the only way to break the cycle. 🙏🏻
There are times when you find out too late that you are dealing with someone with serious mental health issues that are far beyond your pay grade to deal with, and it was not a healthy relationship from the start. It is, therefore, very unhealthy for them as well as you to continue to attempt to pursue any relationship at all. Forgiveness is not so much restoring relationships that were never healthy or "letting them off the hook" for the pain they have caused as it is "letting go of their throat" and letting go of your own desire to be justified or "right". Pray for them, that they receive blessing and everything they need from God, and do not harbor resentment in your heart. However, unless they receive help for their illness wherein a healthy relationship could then finally happen, it is best to let them go in God's hands.
Yeah, sometimes forgiveness is just letting go but not really reconciling/ getting back together.
Forgiveness is a beautiful thing I believe you do for yourself. Unfortunately even though I have forgiven, some people are just toxic and will take advantage of good will.
In this case I have to keep my distance.
Making amends to another is not about how they react; it is my way of building a bridge. I cannot control their reaction. And when someone comes to me and says "I'm sorry for ...", it is important, when I am ready to do so, to close the 'forgiveness loop' by saying "I forgive you."
I find myself stumbling on a homily that was exactly what I’ve needed to hear for five years. Thank you, Bishop Barron.
Taking this homily to inmates this morning. Thank you Bishop Barron. you did all my homework for me.
Thank you Bishop Barron, for your lovely and interesting sermon. You are a great preacher .GOD bless you ➕ ❤
Thank you, Bishop. This message resonates deeply with me. So beautifully stated. Very raw in truth. Much needed to be heard. I will refer back to it over and over with the openness to keep moving toward giving and receiving forgiveness. It is a beautifully transformational humility into a more glorious Spiritual strength.
Dear Bishop,
I have not heard you talking about abortion. This will help to open hearts and face one of the greatest evil in the worl and in all times.
To let go and live a renewed life, gifted by God's spirit, is a wise choice.
Thank you Bishop. As usual a great, thought-provoking homily. Always wondered what to do if one tries to repair relationships, but the other person does not want to. I give them to The Divine Mercy and pray extra prayers for them. I find that most times the other person is in a lot of pain and can’t get beyond that. So, pray and give them to God. Very difficult in families. God Bless! 🇨🇦 👏☮️ ❤️
Some of the best advice I have ever heard was leave the past in the past.
We ruminate over past offenses, keeping them fresh. Every time you start to go down that road stop yourself and change the subject in your mind. It takes practice, but eventually you can get good at it.
Thank you Bishop Barron, your sermon hit home
Beautiful. Thank you bishop.
Thank you Bishop, much needed.
Thank you, Bishop Barron!
Thank you! Just what I needed to hear today. May God continue to Bless you abundantly.
Perfect homily for our wounded society right now 🥰 let's hear more and more and more on this topic, choosing to be the bigger person even when you have every legit reason not to
Thank you! Beautiful sermon!
Wow timing perfect Thank you🙏 God Bless
Thank you Bishop Barron. Very helpful.
Praise the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 Mother Mary Pray For Us 🙏Abba Father Bless us and we Adore You 🙏
Thanks, Father!
Thank you Bishop for your great sermon.
As always remarkably timely
Thank you Bishop Baron for this great sermon.
Incredible Sermon, Thanks Bishop Barron...
Thanks Bishop ...
After viewing this sermon I am quite convicted deep inside to go forgive my mother whom I often have arguments with. I also feel like my bad relationship with my mother is making it hard for my father... but sometimes I just don’t know what to do. My mother and I have quite incompatible personalities and I just don’t even know how to begin, partially because it gets very awkward very quickly but also because I really don’t know what my mother is looking for when I attempt to forgive. I’ve also never read the Book of Sirach as a non-Catholic, but from what I’ve heard today it sounds to be filled with wisdom, so thank you for sharing, Bishop.
Heroism. 🙏 Thank you, Bishop.
I need this Bishop Barron.
Bishop Barron ..... you get it ... thanks for sharing and doing what you do!
Thank you Bishop Barron 🙏
Thank You Bishop Barron - again!!!!!!
Oh my goodness Bishop. This was wonderful. Thank you.
Thank you Father!🙏❤️
Amen Bishop Barron, this is so meaningful today. May we all let go & be at peace.
Thank you Bishop Barron. Just what I needed to hear. God bless you and your family. 🙏❤💙❤⛪🏴🌏
A great sermon with great advices. A talk for everyone.
Thank you Bishop Barron
Hey Bishop Barron! Thank you for this very powerful message. It cut right to the quick for me. In my own life certainly, but also in our current world with the endless demonizing of "the one who is not like me!" This message would best be taken daily!
I can see this clinging to the unhealthy abuse at the hands of my deceased father. It comes up in waves like a spring, and turns into resentment if I let it. Like a drop of ink in a huge tub of clear water, polluting it all. I thank God for the awareness and willingness to work on myself and change, as difficult as that often is. And accept what was, and what is.
Anyways, thanks for your wisdom and eloquence. God bless you all here. :) JV Johnny
Thank you Bishop, excellent sermon
Lovely.
Thank you Bishop for a wonderful message again. God bless you and your ministry.
Watched again. 22nd JAN 2023.
Thank you, Bishop Barron, this is Very helpful
Paz y Bien. Gracias. Muy cercano y con espontaneidad.
Thanks...you strengthen my faith.
Great sermon! Thanks be to God.
Amen.
What a wonderful homily. Thank you so much! 👍
Prayers for peace in our world 🌍 Amen
Amen 🙏 ty❤
Thank you Bishop Barron! You are making us saints!!! God bless you.
Bishop Barron, your wisdom has been a gift that is greatly appreciated. Thank you for your Sunday Sermons.
Thank you so much
Come Holy Spirit, grant us Faith, Hope and Love.
Ps 103:8, Mt 18:22
“I must dedicate myself to the service of God until death, on the understanding that I am like a slave."
😇 St. Peter Claver , pray for us sinners!
Thank you for your Sunday Sermon, Bishop Barron!
Word on Fire is food for my soul!
Through You I came to Christ and to the Catholic Church.
I hope you can do your valuable work for a long time and continue to help people with it! God bless you and Greetings from Germany. 🔥🙏
Thank you Bishop, thank you for those words of life...we, the world, so desperately need to hear them. It touched me heart to tears, they are so beautiful. Praise our beautiful loving God.
Wow, so much, so well articulated!
Peace.
Thank you bishop. The meaning of forgiveness just became so meaningful and real god bless
God, give us the Grace to let go of those things that bind us to the world. Give us strength to open our arms and release all that keep us from You. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.
thank you for this sermon, Father. I don't know how it's possible, but it's exactly what I needed to hear.
Thank God for the Lord's Prayer.
Just a wonderful message…
God bless you always
🙏 Amen. I will go forth and follow what my Lord has done for me. Beautifully stated and to the heart.
Wow did you get me this morning. So beautiful, so hard to do, and yet so necessary. Thank you Jesus for the reminder, and blessings on you Bishop Barron
This may sound hard believe But alot of unforgiveness happens in the churches today, We as the Body of Christ need to Pray alot and forgive one another Amen
Bishop you are correct, we Catholics benefit by instruction on the Old Testament. Thank you.
Thank you! Asking your Archpastoral blessing, and kissing your right hand.
I felt like you were speaking directly to me, as this is something I struggle with on a daily basis. It’s easy to say and so difficult to do. Thank you, Bishop Barron.
Thank You Bishop Bob - You are a blessing each week with your insight and understanding of connecting human nature to the divine.
I like your messages. Because you speak peace. Although it is difficult. Some times it’s tough or hard to forget.🙏
This guy is really good. It's like Los Angeles needed a really good Bishop and the Lord provided :)
Great practical advice at the end of the teaching! Thank you, Bishop
I'M not anger with if not cause i can't be the excuse for anybody get be in sin cause wants whatever if is it false. And so then i hate my way of suffer once or much times but then i Accept my suffer and let all gone with blessings not with sin. If i know but if i don't know i hate me more cause i don't wanna hurt anybody. somethings are new for me and others are constantly the same. With my suffer deepest i'm trying to Jesús help them to change, the offer is be far of them.😇😇😇👼🔥☄️and with all of you i Talk with them without resentments with the promise of be far of them while Jesús works inside not me. I know i can't. I wait nothing less 😇😇😇👼🔥☄️ thank you for my Heart Bishop Barron!
Always so inspiring and down to earth advice - thank you!
Middle East. That's the International level, there. We are asked to be people of peace in a world that wants to find ways to argue all the time, Bishop. Thank you for your homily, today.
Living word of God thank yoy
Thank you Bishop. This is exactly what I needed ❤🙏
Thank you so much Bishop Barron. You are truly a great gift to our church. Thank you so much for responding to your call!