Going to my Dad's Gay Wedding!

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  • What is a gay wedding like? It's just like any other wedding!
    This video is about my dad marrying his partner.
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    Channel Description: Hi! My name is Ben Smith. I was adopted from China by my gay parents and grew up in NYC. I make videos about growing up in a real "modern family".
    Video Description: This video is about my dad and his partner getting married! So happy for them and the inspiration that are to the millions out there, congrats!
    Watch my newest video! It's the 1st video from my "Adoption Series" and highlights my first day of school when a little girl asks me, "Why do you have two dads and why don't you look like them?" • Growing up with gay pa...
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  • @BecomingBenSmith
    @BecomingBenSmith  5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Hi Everyone! I just released a new video: It's the beginning of my adoption series.
    On my first day of school, a little girl came up to me and asked, "WHY DO YOU HAVE TWO DADS AND WHY DON'T YOU LOOK LIKE THEM?" Watch the video below to see my answer!
    th-cam.com/video/M33NIxik0Ow/w-d-xo.html

  • @downundabrotha
    @downundabrotha 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +180

    Damn now he got 3x Dads. He just collecting them atp 😅

    • @itz_0ms259
      @itz_0ms259 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Why 3 dads? what happened?

    • @sebastianf9503
      @sebastianf9503 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @@itz_0ms259 apparently they got divorced:(

    • @arkezReiz
      @arkezReiz 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      ​@@sebastianf9503I'd like to think so, one of them looked a little older in Ben's childhood. I hope nothing has happened in all this time

    • @Porscheteera
      @Porscheteera 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      and some of ppl I know don't even have 1 dad

  • @skeewee-c6206
    @skeewee-c6206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Damn that's sweet. Having your ex-husband speak at your wedding reception. Best wishes and congrats

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you! It was a sweet night! What was your favorite part?

    • @skeewee-c6206
      @skeewee-c6206 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Ben Smith Studio - I enjoyed your speech at the wedding when you talked about having to gay parents how it allowed you to love show tunes and become a well-dressed man

  • @kittenbraden9800
    @kittenbraden9800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    That camera shy person you keep filming lmfao bless them

  • @kittenbraden9800
    @kittenbraden9800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Their marriage does represent hope. Equal marriage was legalised in my country (Germany) just last month. My best wishes to your family. Love, love, love!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you Kitten! Really appreciate all your kind words. It does represent hope! We still have a long way to go! What was your favorite part?

    • @jeste4187
      @jeste4187 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God oversees marriage. I don't remember Him allowing this.

    • @lenani9143
      @lenani9143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@jeste4187 Try to remember harder

  • @tedscutti
    @tedscutti 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Congratulations! This wedding was beautiful for so many reasons. May your Dads continue to enjoy a lifetime of happiness together.

  • @billsmith6160
    @billsmith6160 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    A DAZZLER: Didn't know Ben danced...

    • @heinuchung8680
      @heinuchung8680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      William Smith , if I may ask what made you divorce?

  • @LouisVuittonPrince
    @LouisVuittonPrince 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    congrats on this beautiful moment your family rocks

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! hope that you enjoyed the video!

  • @silvasmith2
    @silvasmith2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Ben! Enjoyed every second... so good to see everyone so happy and healthy. Sam is the same adorable Sam I remember. Aunt Linda

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you! Hope all is going well! Was great to see Jordan and David!

  • @JC-ut4yn
    @JC-ut4yn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi Ben found you through the Stauffer BS, so glad I have at a time when my 15 year old nephew is rebelling against his modern family. Watching you I know he’s gonna be ok. Thank you, can’t wait to see what you do next x

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey JC, thanks so much for sharing. Please feel more than welcome to share my channel with him.

  • @janicereed-smith3719
    @janicereed-smith3719 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great vlog Ben! So happy for Sam and Myron; you are lucky to have such a wonderful extended family!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! The big Ben family - very lucky!

  • @jordancastillo4631
    @jordancastillo4631 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Such a beautiful family at a very special ocassion. I wish ya'll a wonderful life and thank you for sharing this moment.
    Love, Peace

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Jordan for the kind words and support!

  • @kittenbraden9800
    @kittenbraden9800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your grandma laughs so much and I'm living for it

  • @jrr2045
    @jrr2045 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh my goodness your family is so awesome!! I cried when your dads had their first dance ❤❤❤

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! It was a very special moment!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi J RR! My new vlog is up! Would love if you would take a look. I appreciate you and your support!

  • @Jonnypbx
    @Jonnypbx 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It must've been awesome having two dads... Now three dads 😍

  • @GilbertMeow
    @GilbertMeow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    AWESOME! So sweet. I did not know I invited paparazzi to my wedding. Yay for interracial gay marriages XOXOXOX

  • @wawa2
    @wawa2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What a great son you are and your dad's wedding was beautiful!

  • @Strangeldad
    @Strangeldad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great vlog, glad to see the wedding again to help relive such a beautiful experience. Got to make a couple scenes as well!

  • @gregorywalker2262
    @gregorywalker2262 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ben, you have such a beautiful family congratulations to your Dad and Myron, I just watched this video three times in a row, that's how powerful I thought this was, #Awesome #Amazing #LoveWins.

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow! 3 times! That is amazing. Thank you for the support! Working on some more videos in the next few weeks.

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Greg! Just wanted to let you know that my new vlog is up! Let me know what you think. Thanks for all your support. I appreciate you!

  • @michaelbrown-tf1so
    @michaelbrown-tf1so 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are living how it could be and should be. I dream of a world like this. Whatever greater goodness that could be ... your family deserves it.

  • @TonalliZeleste
    @TonalliZeleste 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started clapping after your speech what you said made me cry,

  • @jwalt8019
    @jwalt8019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No other words but simply beautiful from start to just beginning.

  • @suegoulding1341
    @suegoulding1341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVELY WEDDING 😍
    Great Dad's and a wonderful son!
    Your Dad's have done a brilliant job 👍 of bringing you up.
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @stevenbest6923
    @stevenbest6923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video !! So much positivity and love with a group of great people.

  • @padminiegajadhar6956
    @padminiegajadhar6956 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow Ben, I really enjoyed watching your vides(s). Congrats to your dad and Myron. Keep up the good work! Living authentically and with passion is essential! X

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I agree! Thank you for watching and great seeing you! Hope to see you in NYC soon!

  • @joelbing5244
    @joelbing5244 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Inspirational! I hope you do more of this.

  • @marybenjamin1554
    @marybenjamin1554 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wishing you guys the best! Beautiful energy!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! What was your favorite part?!

  • @agreen1150
    @agreen1150 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Absolutely Beautiful! Congratulation!!!!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Adrian! What was your favorite part?

    • @agreen1150
      @agreen1150 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I loved everything about it. I felt the love through humor and joy. I loved that it wasn't super flashy and over the top. It was genuine to their personalities. I also loved seeing the race diversity.

  • @josefranciscojunqueiramarq8153
    @josefranciscojunqueiramarq8153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beatuful weending!!!..... congratulations!!!!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jose! I really appreciate you watching! What was your favorite part?

  • @Onella3DMusic
    @Onella3DMusic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    U deserve more subs, your vlogs are so good ben !

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much Onella, share with your friends! I've been super busy, but I have more video coming in a few weeks! Really appreciate you watching.

    • @Onella3DMusic
      @Onella3DMusic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can't wait, you're really funny and have good energy!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Onella 3D Music posting again in a week! And then starting a schedule! 😊 Thanks for waiting!!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Onella! Just wanted to let you know that my new vlog is up! Let me know what you think!

    • @Onella3DMusic
      @Onella3DMusic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was very well done, I like how you use narration between scenes, it was a nice addition.

  • @TheGraveyardChannel
    @TheGraveyardChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an awesome family you have! Congrats to your two dad!

  • @LillieAmeliaRose
    @LillieAmeliaRose 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love it! Beautiful family💕

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Lil! Let's do a video together soon!

  • @carmencampana3329
    @carmencampana3329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This put a smile on face thanks!

  • @simplesurrogacy2147
    @simplesurrogacy2147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is amazing!!! Thank you for sharing.

  • @karenmbbaxter
    @karenmbbaxter 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Be happy guys........ All the best ......xoxoxoxo

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Karen! Hope that you enjoyed the video!

  • @southoceann
    @southoceann 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great speech my man!

  • @amypieterse3706
    @amypieterse3706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful ceremony!!! So much love!!! :)

  • @chrisscott7545
    @chrisscott7545 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wait so your parents split and one of them is getting remarried ?

  • @Evee692
    @Evee692 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is beyond beautiful

  • @anitabelen1376
    @anitabelen1376 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a beautiful family! 😭❤

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Anita!! I really appreciate you watching! What type of video should I do next?

  • @AJ-qe3lo
    @AJ-qe3lo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so so beautiful. I wish I had a family like yours!

  • @Diorella_scent
    @Diorella_scent 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an absolutely beautiful family moment, thank you for sharing with us all. There should be more such happiness in this world, July 2020 x

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Di! I really appreciate you watching. What was your favorite part?

  • @ritchiehere
    @ritchiehere 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww, wish them the best in life and no more divorce. This one for a lifetime

  • @cassandramitch8793
    @cassandramitch8793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice wedding👩💍👨🎩👑💏 Be happy😄😃😁

  • @kittenbraden9800
    @kittenbraden9800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THAT SPEECH

  • @everythingislove111
    @everythingislove111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this 😍

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      woahh, is a celeb checking out my channel!?

  • @marialucidemesquitaprestes4910
    @marialucidemesquitaprestes4910 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Muito lindo! Parabéns! Deus abençoe a todos! Viva a unidade na diversidade! Paz e amor! Abração desde o Brasil! 🙏🏻💪🏻🫶🏻🥂🤩🙌🏻🙅🏼‍♀️👏🏻🎶🎵🎼🫰🏻😘🇪🇪💙🇨🇬🧉🇧🇷

  • @davidwang2346
    @davidwang2346 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful wedding and family :)

  • @starkman78
    @starkman78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who wouldn’t want to be at this party? ❤️🤗🏳️‍🌈

  • @whaley2365
    @whaley2365 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ben, you looked good and inspiring 👍

  • @billsmith6160
    @billsmith6160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    super cool

  • @allenb.lacour3909
    @allenb.lacour3909 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was AWESOME!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching!! It was an awesome wedding! What was your favorite part?!

    • @allenlacour7548
      @allenlacour7548 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I watched the first video when you went to visit your family for father's day. Of everything, that was more intimate and personal, so that was wonderful. LOVE LOVE YOUR GRANDPARENTS! I loved watching everyone dance and how happy everyone was. Your speech for the wedding was the icing on the cake!

  • @WhiskeyandDonuts
    @WhiskeyandDonuts 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awesome!

  • @antoinelemarier3567
    @antoinelemarier3567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So nice 👍, simple and full of love.

  • @cazb5777
    @cazb5777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful!!!!!!

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Caz B! What was your favorite part? I'm making another video this weekend!

    • @cazb5777
      @cazb5777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ben, EVERYTHING!... I could feel the love from over here in London U.K. The editing was gorgeous by the way.... That is one wedding that I would have loved to attend :) Congratulations to your Dad & Myron xxx

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!! I'll be uploading more regularly. And hoping that the videos will continue to improve! Thanks for watching Caz B in London!

  • @dancingonmy0wn
    @dancingonmy0wn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:27 i needed to hear this ❤

  • @dancingonmy0wn
    @dancingonmy0wn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful videos ❤

  • @wiguy3
    @wiguy3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mozel tov to you two wonderful men- much happiness.

    • @BecomingBenSmith
      @BecomingBenSmith  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing! Thank you for watching! What was your favorite part? :)

  • @macys2450
    @macys2450 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FANCY!! ti krutoi ahahahah

  • @chrisstockwell6978
    @chrisstockwell6978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Here from yes theory

  • @heinuchung8680
    @heinuchung8680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did he divorce his other partner the original one who did the adoption. I dont understand

    • @bornitachakravarty1115
      @bornitachakravarty1115 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too I want to know also

    • @blessed1940
      @blessed1940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. Now he's married to this black man but they're friends.

  • @michellelee9123
    @michellelee9123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good beautiful. 😌

  • @nuuraabdulkadir3217
    @nuuraabdulkadir3217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where is his grandparents and aunts and uncles

  • @bornitachakravarty1115
    @bornitachakravarty1115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your dads were get divorced and married again or what?

    • @blessed1940
      @blessed1940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The two dads divorced. Now one dad just got married. But the ex was there too.

  • @smh2557
    @smh2557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    (Leviticus 20:13)

    • @samlaury4612
      @samlaury4612 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As the proud son of a prominent baptist southern minister, I am well aware of this passage, & your feelings on this subject, which reflects the feelings of so many. I would like to also direct your attention, however, to two others: John 13:34, & Matthew 22:37-40. It's funny how these two powerful messages on God's UNCONDITIONAL love continuously seem to get left out of this age-old conversation.

    • @smh2557
      @smh2557 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your passages are correct as in all people should love each other regardless of color or gender. What you're condoning is unnatural. If men (or women) want to sleep with each other that is their personal business and choice, but asking God to condone it and the world to celebrate it is an abomination. But God bless all of you regardless.

    • @oakpkdude
      @oakpkdude 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smh2557 It's people like you that caused me to leave the church. Most of today's self proclaimed "Christians" think that going out of their way to judge and demean others make them good people. You disgust me.

    • @matthewkirk-coughlan5466
      @matthewkirk-coughlan5466 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@smh2557leave. Thanks!

  • @gerryautry6666
    @gerryautry6666 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jesus Help Them.

    • @zealferal
      @zealferal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Come on, their dancing wasn't THAT bad.

    • @krischng9519
      @krischng9519 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Jesus help you, Jesus don’t judge, you do.

  • @bobdonovan3465
    @bobdonovan3465 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ben, my brother, I hope for good health and happiness for you for the rest of your life. May God Bless You in every thing that you do. I hope to meet you some day!