Sammy, only for one obvious reason to anyone with a modicum of common sense. In a best case scenario chidren should be raised by one man and one woman. Each sex brings something to the equation that that the other cannot thus helping the child, or children in question. Yeah...not difficult concept for us to wrap our minds around my friend.
@@zekebanister865 what told you that? surely not science and personal experiences. pretty sure people live good if they have good parents, something straight parents struggle to even do, i guess its so easy to have children for them they dont wish it enough and dont work enough for their children
@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself idiot☺️
@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself instead of preaching others☺️
Gosh, you have an absolutely fabulous family. How lucky are you? They are lucky to have you too cuz you're a good son to surprise everybody and spend time with your family. So sweet. Loved this.
Thank you for sharing!! I was also adopted, but by two moms, and they got “divorced” (before it was legal to get married in the first place) when I was younger, and they each have new partners now. And I have an older sister who was adopted from China. Just subbed. 😁💖
Your family from Granddad and Grandma to both your dads and their respective partners to your aunt and uncle and cousins (?) to your sweet sis are adorable. Wishing you great success with your vlogs. Now I’m going to see how many more you made. lol. Lovely video and great to meet your beautiful family.
Thank you, thank you for saying you had your ups and downs, because that's more realistic than claiming it was all gum drops and rainbows ...because by design, no family is.
You have an amazing family. How incredible you are for surprising your dads! And OMG I recognize the place that farmers' market is in. My mom worked in that building for a long time when I was a kid. It was the first "skyscraper" (pffftt!) built in that area. It's an interesting place, they're trying to retrofit a walkable urban area into an 80s- style car- based suburb. I am excited to see how it turns out.
@@BecomingBenSmith You're young and you live in New York. If there's a vlog I would watch it would be yours. Show me bars, restaurants, whatever your thing is. I want to see you having a good time. [Old man voice] If the DC area didn't grow up around me the way it did to become as awesome as it is, I'd have moved to New York. [/Old man voice].
Hello Ben, I just suscribed and from the south of France (where it is difficult for the moment), I want to tell you that your video is sweet and well done. So, good luck and be safe.
I am gay guy (19) and yk we dont have see and come across a lot of gay families and see the culture. I hope i can make a family like your fathers and have a child and make my own family with my own fav ppl
I was flabbergasted. Perhaps bi. Tried the man/man part first, separated and now do ‘the other’ side. Just wonder if that dad knew about his bi part being young. Interesting. 🤔
Interesting, I allways wondered what the outcome would be once the kids of gay-couples grew up, at least in your case it seems you have had a good life so far, and with the split-up between your dads you even gained two more nice,loving people in your life❤
Wow, I can't believe how many views this video has now. The comments are so touching, thank you so so much.
How are things now?
I can't believe that I'm finding this video only after 7 years, I absolutely enjoined your video and you have such a great family
hmmm, lemme guess, did you got recommended the "growing up with two dads" vid?
@@itzchip._. yess that was the first video that I saw from him
me too, why TH-cam didn’t show this video to me earlier, damn!
Me too. Just saw it today
"You open your heart and you get the kid you're supposed to have" Wish my dad had a similar outlook. Your family is beautiful
You wish your Dad was a homosexual? Um...better not tell him that
@Zeke Banister No. They meant that their dad saw things the way they did.
Hey Kitten, thank you so much for the kind words and for watching and supporting us. This is what keeps me going.
I grew up right next door to your grandparents and Dad and Aunt. They are wonderful people . What a treat to see them! Thanks for posting!
You have such a unique family, glad to see a family like this.
Love, Peace
Zeke Banister Whys that?
Sammy, only for one obvious reason to anyone with a modicum of common sense. In a best case scenario chidren should be raised by one man and one woman. Each sex brings something to the equation that that the other cannot thus helping the child, or children in question. Yeah...not difficult concept for us to wrap our minds around my friend.
@@zekebanister865 what told you that? surely not science and personal experiences.
pretty sure people live good if they have good parents, something straight parents struggle to even do, i guess its so easy to have children for them they dont wish it enough and dont work enough for their children
@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself idiot☺️
@@zekebanister865There are some extremely awfully raised kids of straight parents, they teach their kids to be bullies, to be abusive, not all straight parents are good parents just because they are straight😐 While there are some extremely incredible people raised by gay parents, in fact, the kids raised by gay parents are usually a lot more sweet and tolerant than the ones raised by straight parents because their gay parents know what it feels like to be bullied and discriminated, so your pea-brained answer is absolutely stupid☺Maybe have some "common sense"️ yourself instead of preaching others☺️
I cried when dad said there are many ways to be a father and there are many kids who want a father.
Ben you have no idea how many people out there would die to have a family like yours: so much love and support❤thank you for the video🙏
Why did took me 4 years found this? It's AMAZING
It took me 7, you’re luckier
Gosh, you have an absolutely fabulous family. How lucky are you? They are lucky to have you too cuz you're a good son to surprise everybody and spend time with your family. So sweet. Loved this.
Thank you for sharing!! I was also adopted, but by two moms, and they got “divorced” (before it was legal to get married in the first place) when I was younger, and they each have new partners now. And I have an older sister who was adopted from China. Just subbed. 😁💖
Wow! What an amazing story. Would love to hear more some day. Thanks so much for sharing and watching. :)
Becoming Ben Smith I will probably make some adoption related videos in the future!! 😁
What a wonderful loving families you have! This video answered my questions. I enjoyed watching it.
What a beautiful family!! You are so lucky to have 2 dads who love you more than anything!! Good luck to you, and thanks for sharing your story!
Your family from Granddad and Grandma to both your dads and their respective partners to your aunt and uncle and cousins (?) to your sweet sis are adorable. Wishing you great success with your vlogs. Now I’m going to see how many more you made. lol. Lovely video and great to meet your beautiful family.
ur grandpa talking about the hickey is so sooo funny omg
Fantastic! Thanks for sharing your story. I only knew the very beginning. Looking forward to what's to come!
Ben, this was such a beautiful video and really well done!! I was beaming the whole time :) Thank you for sharing your story - it’s inspiring!
Wow! Thank you for watching Lily, means a lot!
Absolutely fantastic! Ben is a genius and a beautiful human being.
Thank you Frank!
Thank you, thank you for saying you had your ups and downs, because that's more realistic than claiming it was all gum drops and rainbows ...because by design, no family is.
Yes, Tanya! You are right!
From Brazil... I am love with your modern family!
Thanks for sharing... its so inspiring...
Thank you for watching Cleber! I love Brazil and Brigadiero. share with the people of Brazil for me!
You seem well-adjusted and a positive and helpful human. That is what matters.❤
I think the algorithm is showing this video to a lot of people at the moment. Lovely video!❤
I love how the whole family jokes around so freely with everyone and how non pc they are
You have an amazing family. How incredible you are for surprising your dads!
And OMG I recognize the place that farmers' market is in. My mom worked in that building for a long time when I was a kid. It was the first "skyscraper" (pffftt!) built in that area. It's an interesting place, they're trying to retrofit a walkable urban area into an 80s- style car- based suburb. I am excited to see how it turns out.
Wow! Thank you so much! I'm relaunching my channel soon, have any video ideas for me?
@@BecomingBenSmith You're young and you live in New York. If there's a vlog I would watch it would be yours. Show me bars, restaurants, whatever your thing is. I want to see you having a good time. [Old man voice] If the DC area didn't grow up around me the way it did to become as awesome as it is, I'd have moved to New York. [/Old man voice].
It is important to be loved. I am glad that you are deeply loved by your 2 dads. Proud and happy for you all
Love! Love! Love! This video! I am a South American adoptee ..... loved your video and looking forward to seeing me
Love this! I have gay moms, and I wish more people knew about us.
Hi September! Thank you so much for your support. Just preparing to relaunch my channel - would love to hear about your story.
do you know who are you're biological parents?
@@darkhero792 one of my moms is my biological mom, and I have an anonymous sperm donor who I have never met.
@@darkhero792Why do you care so much about a stranger's life?
Husband material a family guy so cute , show u love from Namibia
Aw this is so sweet! Thanks for sharing🤗
Thank you Lily! Really appreciate it!
True meaning of Love is Love ❤️
Yes!! Thank you Eric! What was your favorite part?
Hello Ben, I just suscribed and from the south of France (where it is difficult for the moment), I
want to tell you that your video is sweet and well done. So, good luck and be safe.
what a loving family I can't stop cryinig while watching this.
Ben your family is so cute!! Great first vid as an introduction vid showing your background:)
awww thanks Laura!
Such an amazing message. Love your vibes man c
Thank you Beth! Yes, good vibes only! What was your favorite part?!
loved this so much!!
Thank you Danielle! More to come - thanks for the support!
OMG your family is so cool and you are such a wonderful person Ben
I'm from Brazil and it was cool to see that you Like João Gilberto... Ha ha ha! Great video!
Joao is my favorite! Bossa Nova is my favorite type of music!
I was having a bad day and for some reason I ended up watching videos about families with same sex parents and I'm glad I did, I feel happy now :)
YOUR GRANDPA HAS ME YODELING
Great family and congratulations to your dads!
Just subscribed. Your family just genuinely love each other.
Thank you!! I really appreciate you watching. What was your favorite part?
Beautiful family..!!! God bless you all your family!!! Viva la Vida,
Thank you Claudia! What was your favortie part? Viva la vida siempreee!
Wonderful. Continue to enjoy your life like that with an awesome family.
so you actually have 3 dads you’re so blessed 😭😭😭
3 dad and a mom ? If i didnt understand incorrectly
Your family's excited reactions to you vlogging are so endearing!
Your family is too sweet. Great video!
Thank you Adrian! What was your favorite part?!
So sweet!! 😊
Really appreciate it Kiraaa!
Grandparents were so happy to see him.
I LOVE YOUR WHOLE FAMILY
Thank you so much! I love your positivity! Please share and subscribe and spread the love! :)
How’s this channel not have way more subscribers?
So sweet!💗
Great video ben keep it up!!
This Is So Awesome Thank for Sharing.
Thank you so much Vicky! What was your favorite part? Did you want my dad's wedding video!?
Love this
It doesn’t matter who makes up your family as long as you have family.
I am gay guy (19) and yk we dont have see and come across a lot of gay families and see the culture. I hope i can make a family like your fathers and have a child and make my own family with my own fav ppl
This was absolutely amazing m
Pappie & Grandpappie be looking exactly alike, except for the age difference
My heart is full! Love my family!
Ur family is absolutely adorable dude ❤❤
So cute, made my heart warm
great family great ben love your vlogss
Your Grandparents are so sweet. Look at his hickey! LOL
I'm glad you can make this video.
Thank youuuu! What was your favorite part?
At about eight minutes, when you give them stuff, his little monologue after, the will jokes, and the fathers day visit.
Tears! Omg so sweet 💗🌈☺️
How do you distinguish between your 2 dads when they're in the same room? Is one called Pap or another name other than Dad?😊
Everyone's so kind
you are so loved 🥺
Awh myron is so cute
New subscriber here! You are amazing!
this is such a cute family. wish you the best
I know I'm late but just wanted to say what a beautiful family you have 💙
Plss can’t you give me a hint of what course the split that made he got married to a woman , my reason for asking is bcos of my self
T H E G E N E S
❤ love is always the right thing to do!
really nice video!!!!!!!
Thank you!!
Wow
I would have love to know what courses the split
Love knows no bounds
This is so beautiful ♥
This sooo cute and beautiful!!!
What a heartwarming and cute family
HI DUDE..IM YOUR AVID FAN FROM THE PHILIPPINES....
God bless u son and your to fathers
Mucg love from the Philippines ❤🇵🇭
So did the other dad marry a woman? As long as everyone is happy who cares. Love is love.
I was flabbergasted. Perhaps bi. Tried the man/man part first, separated and now do ‘the other’ side. Just wonder if that dad knew about his bi part being young. Interesting. 🤔
how sweet 🥰
Your meme level is off the charts, Ben. You're doing your grandfather proud...
Thank you so much for watching my videos Kitten!!! Wow, really appreciate it!
What does off the chart meme level mean? hahahaa
That your jokes are unrivalled
That's what i meant at least ahaha
Wonderful family
adorable new sub
Thank you RavennaBonet! Hope you enjoyed it, do you have a favorite part?
I am really confused why is your other dad married a other boy?? 🤔🤔🤔
Probably because they fell in love!
Hey Ben! I like your channel. When are you going to be posting more videos?
Thank you! I'll be posting new videos late december! Stay tuned!
Interesting, I allways wondered what the outcome would be once the kids of gay-couples grew up, at least in your case it seems you have had a good life so far, and with the split-up between your dads you even gained two more nice,loving people in your life❤
Very complicated modern family even for my complicated mind to unddrstand 😅 but glad that you survive
O M G this is the wholome and boutifoul vidio! 😊😊 i have 2 uncles and are gay 💕and i respet that cuz im bisexual
you are all set! you are in his will! LOL LOL LOL
This is so nice.
You're a lovely man 😊
I wish I had two daddy
Next blog hire hair stylist for Smith Dad
Where's the other dad? They one that adopted him
Ur dad looked like Richard Gere.