Try to make your videos in hindi too.. like ranveer allahbadia.. it expanded his audience massively and his subscribers also went up pretty quickly.. Overall amazing content man!
When you don't judge others it gives room for people to open up. Trust me! People are so much filled up, they will be happy to have a person like you in life who accepts all.
Great content Varun. Have loved CERO, both 1 and 2. Loved Scenes. And now the content here too is straight from the heart. You are our unfair advantage.
90 % agreed with you. Rest 10 % of self- judging based on intuition & experience & feeling, is also must for good survival. Imagine a drunkard driver behaving weirdly to a lone lady in car, shouldn't she judge him based on her life experience and be cautious. Remember everything cannot be black & white 😊
Varun you shouldn't dilute your level of content that you provide just to get some more subscribers. Great content. Loved this video and the content you provide. ❤️
These days Varun is trying to reach more audience and when they will be here, they can peak into his life and see all of the smart information and his well documented journey has to say and learn from it and become smart as it is the agenda in the end
Spot-on Varun...and nicely spelt out👏 And not many people realise this mistake....we all see the world through our own key-hole..it better be positive👍
hey varun noting to say about the content it's great!! Just a small input i wanted to share that the bg music is just too good and also another add is it might be good for you if you don't include a solo piece of guitar or any instrument because many a times it just gets amplified as there are many musical notes which might distract the focus of the viewer to the music rather than the words and wisdom it will be better if you use a music that doesn't have too many moving pieces in it.
'Being a decent human being' I think was the core of the video without saying much on today's prevalent conditions, u said a lot Great buddy....keep it up
kudos bro waiting for more and more energetic video and one thing you english speaking skill are really good you have your own voice just keep going keep smiling :)
Quick Judgement help you to survive better, its not about accuracy, its about effectiveness. It is likely that an Indian in India who dosent speak English is less educated than a person who does. This is not same in other nations, but in India, this judgement is effective most of the times, though it not accurate. ..but extreme of anything is dangerous.
Shit Varun. That is so Real and deep. Judging is one of the core problems with our society and with us why we don't get ahead in Life. Thanks for this video.🍺
literally just a week ago i was thinking the same . Iske alawa bhot si baar ham perception create kr lete h kisi insaan ke bare me sirf kisi aur individual se uske baare kuch sunkar aesa hi mere sath hua kisi ne mujhse ek bhayya h unke bare ke vi aese h vese h blah blah lken jb me unse mila matlab vo bilkul hi alg the
Some people ask me how do so many people become friends with you so easily. The only reason is that I judge less. It's not like absent, subconscious is there. But I don't care where he is from, accent and all the drama.
Same thing was mentioned in shwetabh Gangwar book First impressions is bullshit Data is the king which means in-order to form a conclusion about anyone you need a realistic amount of data about that person
But experience also counts, I have seen people from certain walks of life who share similar traits ...I know the brain is trying to make sense of things by extrapolation of previous data but sometimes that is pretty useful. Esp. if you're dealing with dangerous people. Not everyone is worth going to and talking to... Sometimes that "judgement" does help. In the context of what you said how does one navigate this ?
Valid question... I guess that's our gut giving us a short-cut red flag by squeezing every experience our brain has documented... One way to use it is listen to your gut when it's pulling your T-shirt like your loyal dog...but do not judge proactively for gossip or sadism or narcissism.....we usually know the difference☺
Doesn't this argument about not judging the other person holds true even when that other person seems admirable to you? Like then stop judging him as good, logical, sensible even if he talks well, sense, uses clear speech, because NO JUDGEMENT. Right?
Also this idea seems hypocritical, because if you say that I don't judge people, then bruh, why do you act in ways that are accepted by the society. Like then you don't have to wear clothes, look smart, speak English. If you don't 'judge' anyone, the structural integrity of society would simply collapse. What do you think?
@@namit-gupta i doubt. Peter Thiel has an incredible video about how many high performers have mild Aspergers, which makes them much less likely to give a shit. We'd have a much better world.
@@VarunMayya Hmm Fair! But evolutionally, our brains seem to be have evolved in such a way, to be able to judge 'in a snap' to predict if the situation is dangerous or not, what are different courses of action.... Doesn't this idea goes against the evolution? I propose that we should be able to 'judge' in a 'snap' but practice not to 'incline' or 'rely' towards that initial judgement and treat everyone with decency no matter what.
So, if I have to figure out the random people whom I met once how he's he or not! So, that I can deside have to meat that people again or not. Coz this is harmful or harmless in any case. So, I think that's why our brain taking decisions on the basic of what he see.
Want to know another skill you suck at? Subscribing :P
Please train your skills on this channel, I won't mind :P
Try to make your videos in hindi too.. like ranveer allahbadia.. it expanded his audience massively and his subscribers also went up pretty quickly..
Overall amazing content man!
@@srushtilokhande1143 He is learning Hindi as well to speak well. He knows good written English
When you don't judge others it gives room for people to open up.
Trust me! People are so much filled up, they will be happy to have a person like you in life who accepts all.
Pink+Blue background is lit 🔥
It shows something like Masculine+Feminine
Great content Varun. Have loved CERO, both 1 and 2. Loved Scenes. And now the content here too is straight from the heart. You are our unfair advantage.
90 % agreed with you. Rest 10 % of self- judging based on intuition & experience & feeling, is also must for good survival.
Imagine a drunkard driver behaving weirdly to a lone lady in car, shouldn't she judge him based on her life experience and be cautious.
Remember everything cannot be black & white 😊
I've learnt this from Garyvee "when we stop judging ourselves then we will stop judging others" (& Vice Versa). This concept has been a game-changer🚀.
If you have link of that video then share here.
Let me try to find that video
Good stuff good stuff
How to not judge ourself? How do we correct ourself then?
Talking to people without being judgemental is the highest level of sophistication
There's a thin line between judging people on first glance and ignorance of red flags
The skill : How not to judge anyone the moment you met them
I made a snap judgment when the editor misspelled 'Racist' at 03:56
Another good one and super cool setup!!
Dude,your content is amazing .
I don't learn this much even in my college semester. Keep doing it.🙏😀😀😊😊
Varun you shouldn't dilute your level of content that you provide just to get some more subscribers. Great content. Loved this video and the content you provide. ❤️
These days Varun is trying to reach more audience and when they will be here, they can peak into his life and see all of the smart information and his well documented journey has to say and learn from it and become smart as it is the agenda in the end
Just my perspective
People don’t have a problem with positively judging someone, they have with negatively judging them. You can’t have one without the other.
You shouldn’t do that either. You should reserve judgement till you know the person. It’s called the halo effect.
And the Golem Effect and Pygmalion Effect
Spot-on Varun...and nicely spelt out👏 And not many people realise this mistake....we all see the world through our own key-hole..it better be positive👍
I see the effort put into editing, keep growing Brother 🔥
Bro Your Videos Are Very Helpful. Keep Working Hard Brother. I Wish You achieve all your dreams.
That's 100% true
I was thinking about it recently and this video just dropped.
Thank you very much
YT algorithms know what you will think before you know it.... Scary, but true......
ONE OF THE BEST VIDEOS BY VARUN ,GREAT WORK
hey varun noting to say about the content it's great!! Just a small input i wanted to share that the bg music is just too good and also another add is it might be good for you if you don't include a solo piece of guitar or any instrument because many a times it just gets amplified as there are many musical notes which might distract the focus of the viewer to the music rather than the words and wisdom it will be better if you use a music that doesn't have too many moving pieces in it.
Man, you always inspire to be better with everything .
I notice a lot of intensity and involvement in what you do. You will grow fast if you routinely post videos. Good Conent. 👍
'Being a decent human being' I think was the core of the video
without saying much on today's prevalent conditions, u said a lot
Great buddy....keep it up
Your videos are worth watching💯
Good stuff Varun. Love the layered positivity ❤️
Aah very nice video , I've trained myself to not judge anyone , I've been hurt for so much time that I've learned to be happy for myself & others
This is really good Varun!
kudos bro waiting for more and more energetic video and one thing you english speaking skill are really good you have your own voice just keep going keep smiling :)
Amazing videos sir... Thanks for 🙏💕 this knowledgable content......
Isn't it funny that reality show and lawsuit judges should keep this in mind as well 😳
Quick Judgement help you to survive better, its not about accuracy, its about effectiveness.
It is likely that an Indian in India who dosent speak English is less educated than a person who does.
This is not same in other nations, but in India, this judgement is effective most of the times, though it not accurate.
..but extreme of anything is dangerous.
Brilliant content bro.
Make a live session with shewtabh gangwar .
*THATS SOOOOO DAMN TRUE!!! OBSERVED SO MANY TIMES!!*
Shit Varun. That is so Real and deep. Judging is one of the core problems with our society and with us why we don't get ahead in Life. Thanks for this video.🍺
Judgement is some sort of vague calculation. It's fine as long as you're not way too invested in it.
Nice one
Thank you for your time
I've been working on this and you just put it into words.... Thankyou 🙇
I do judge people however I never let that judgement come back to my head again and focus on thinking clearly
Thanks for this man
nice video... much needed thing for every person
literally just a week ago i was thinking the same .
Iske alawa bhot si baar ham perception create kr lete h kisi insaan ke bare me sirf kisi aur individual se uske baare kuch sunkar
aesa hi mere sath hua kisi ne mujhse ek bhayya h unke bare ke vi aese h vese h blah blah lken jb me unse mila matlab vo bilkul hi alg the
Super cool setup
Ok how to have hair like you being an entrepreneur ? What's ur hair care routine? Next video please 🙏🙈
This is really very important, you're right. Could understand it even better with that mob mentality point.
Can you provide link of the sweater?
Some people ask me how do so many people become friends with you so easily.
The only reason is that I judge less. It's not like absent, subconscious is there.
But I don't care where he is from, accent and all the drama.
"THINKING, FAST AND SLOW"
good content bro
Just lovely ❤❤
Best way to practice to not judging people is being RESILIENCE
Don't know judge people, judge their actions ~someone
Wholesome video 🎉✨
Varun Mayya dropping value bomb!!!!
I really was the first 🥺😊
This Video Was Damm Amazing. It Made me think about my life Am I on the right track.
amazing i was really not aware about this
Same thing was mentioned in shwetabh Gangwar book
First impressions is bullshit
Data is the king which means in-order to form a conclusion about anyone you need a realistic amount of data about that person
But experience also counts, I have seen people from certain walks of life who share similar traits ...I know the brain is trying to make sense of things by extrapolation of previous data but sometimes that is pretty useful. Esp. if you're dealing with dangerous people. Not everyone is worth going to and talking to... Sometimes that "judgement" does help. In the context of what you said how does one navigate this ?
Valid question... I guess that's our gut giving us a short-cut red flag by squeezing every experience our brain has documented... One way to use it is listen to your gut when it's pulling your T-shirt like your loyal dog...but do not judge proactively for gossip or sadism or narcissism.....we usually know the difference☺
This video clearly explains the biggest problem going on in the country right now..
man, this content should be on trending instead of gf vs bf
Though the plants are edited in the scene, they look naturally kept.
they're not edited
Absolutely true in life.
Thank you
Seeing things as it without myself in mind
Can you share your advice on decision making
Next video on how to setup like a pro plsssss
sir podcast m kyuni jaate ho aap kahi
Do u know about rebt...I would suggest you to learn about rebt ...it's similar to what u r saying.
Production 🔥
Lol I thought the skill would be communication.
Absolutely 💯
Thinking fast and slow
I don't know, I am good at snap judgement, saved me from lot of worse people
loved it!
Did you get the Sales Intern?
I wonder why that tattoed person still turns out to be a bully.🤦🤦
Great ❤
I can't open my scenes app
Can you help me out ?
The moral of the story, not to make assumptions?
Setup💥🔥🔥🔥
On point
Doesn't this argument about not judging the other person holds true even when that other person seems admirable to you? Like then stop judging him as good, logical, sensible even if he talks well, sense, uses clear speech, because NO JUDGEMENT. Right?
No. If you have enough context, you can judge people. The problem is "snap judgement".
Also this idea seems hypocritical, because if you say that I don't judge people, then bruh, why do you act in ways that are accepted by the society. Like then you don't have to wear clothes, look smart, speak English. If you don't 'judge' anyone, the structural integrity of society would simply collapse. What do you think?
@@namit-gupta i doubt. Peter Thiel has an incredible video about how many high performers have mild Aspergers, which makes them much less likely to give a shit. We'd have a much better world.
@@VarunMayya Hmm Fair! But evolutionally, our brains seem to be have evolved in such a way, to be able to judge 'in a snap' to predict if the situation is dangerous or not, what are different courses of action.... Doesn't this idea goes against the evolution? I propose that we should be able to 'judge' in a 'snap' but practice not to 'incline' or 'rely' towards that initial judgement and treat everyone with decency no matter what.
@@VarunMayya interesting... Thanks for replying 😃
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So, if I have to figure out the random people whom I met once how he's he or not!
So, that I can deside have to meat that people again or not. Coz this is harmful or harmless in any case.
So, I think that's why our brain taking decisions on the basic of what he see.
Nice background how to do it
magic
But then judging people who judge people is the same, isn't it?
0:23 me: aham gacchhami
you look like Thomas Frank lite but in a good way
Awesome
I don't think I could master this skill in my entire life cuz its a genetic thing
#mouna
When you know the other is dumb but you still being non judgmental go to talk and waste your time , energy on him
This not applies here
I don't judge 🙂👀
Please bring kunal shah varun 2+2 = 1000
Please
Can proudly say, unrelatable.
Please be a little more consistent 😸
Stereotypes
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IT'S CALLED PRE CONCEIVED NOTIONS
The most essential skill is to learn is HOW TO UN LEARN 😏
Oka I cant control myself, but it’s “Racist”. Nice content you create tho no doubt about that :).
Clickbaity title and thumbnail. Well done!
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