Letting Go of Things & People That Don't Serve You...
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- Learn to let go of things and people that don't serve you. Examine your own life for anchors and sails, and adjust accordingly...
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I live in Burleson which is just 17miles south of Fort Worth TX The DFW housing market is brutal the property taxes are jumping 800$ to 1000$ a year. If you can hang on to your house In DFW market the value of the house will go up drastically. I do share the house with my younger brother and sister. For me it’s pay it off or build up so much equity in it to the point where I can buy a smaller house and but a lot money in the bank.
Move to Puerto Vallarta buy a condo .see you there 🏝🏖🛥🏊🌊🐬
Hey rich why do you wear a wedding ring ?
So make this make sense: a woman i know, got in a car crash, (2nd or 3rd totaled car), needed a ride home from work, I notice woman dont care about their cars and have all types of scratches on it, opening doors with rings on or keys n their hands, letting their purse or jacket with metal fasteners/zippers rub on the car, so she got n to my car, i heard the sound of a bag rubbing on my car as she was opening the door, I told her please watch your bag or jacket, i dont want scratches on my car, she got mad at me saying: "who cares its just a car" i told her do that shit wit ur car, not mine. I want my car to look nice, she said "for who", I said for me. She doesnt understand why i dont want something i paid money for to be damaged just because she doesnt care about her cars condition she thinks everyone else shouldnt care. I told her i dont want to have to spend money fixing it. Again her "i dont care its just a car, u men are materialistic, u cant take it wit u wen u die". So i hurt her feelings because at this point she is pissing me off. I said: "of course u dont care about ur car when u didnt pay for it", her dad gave it to her, she totaled that car he gave her and also totaled her previous car that she owned, on the way to her parents house I told her my previous car i was to nice and didnt put my foot down on this matter when women get n my car, and had to get scratches fixed, o but now im an asshole for saying something about it, the nerve, so now she wont speak to me, TF is her problem?
As I approach 40 years old, I see that there is only so much use and gratification “stuff” actual provides. When your toys and the work that accompanies retaining ownership cost not just cash flow but your most important and valuable asset…time, they are no longer valuable. Kudos to slimming it down Rich. Thank you for sharing this and keep doing the work!
Time isn't your most valuable asset.
@@nadersefidabi5586 time is life , if not time then what ?
@@lukasm4878 Your health is your most valuable resource. If you aren't healthy enough to use your time then your time isn't worth much.
Time AND health are your most valuable assets period, one is nothing without the other.
Exactly! I am now 49! And zero interest in material stuff or toxic relationships people. I lived and learned the hard way. Now I’m debt free and 100 healthy. Enjoying life in 2022! 24/7.
Reminds me of when I was 29. Had a great job, Porsche 911 in the garage, a house in the city, and arm candy living with me. Yet I felt so weighed down and unhappy. When I received an unexpected promotion, I cut the anchors loose and sold everything to live on a ranch out west for a year. That's how growth happens, men. By letting go, and going into the unknown. Penetrate life.
Only regret in life thus far... selling the 911.
What year and spec 911 did you own?
I assume you kept working from out west after the promotion. How so? Did you live alone at the ranch without the arm candy?
Yu can always buy a new one.
Penetrate life rather than penetrating the arm candy? 🤣
Reminds me of an old adage. Show me a beautiful woman and I will show you a high value man who is bored of her.
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Only regret in life thus far... selling the 911."
I've noticed that you only mentioned the "arm candy" once. I'm guessing she didn't love you or something happened? Not asking for entire details, like something along the lines of "She only wanted me for my money" or something like that is what I mean.
This may seem a very mercantile way to look at things and people but it helps you avoid confusion, cut losses and speed up recovery!
Very well put! 👍
From the title alone, it does sound sociopathic/narcissistic. I get where he is coming from though; he is talking to beta behaving people who give too much of themselves and others who accumulate too much crap.
Society depends on the generosity of people including strangers. Be generous, but don't give too much. The challenge of life is figuring out how much is just right...
It's optimizing your life
Long form of "Know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em. Know when to walk away & know when to run." R.I.P. Kenny Rogers. Sage advice put to music is the heart and soul of great song writing. Good video!
To a ship without a destination, no wind is favorable.
Thanks for everything Rich 👍
I buy diggers and machines when I build houses and I sell them when I am finished. Most people hire them and have a huge bill at the end. Honestly to hire one digger and dumper for one week here in the uk is £700 I made £1000 after 4 years use of my last digger. Like you say Richard its ok to sell assets if it works well for you.
I need to let go. Holding onto things keep me up at night and depressed all day long
All I am collecting these days are books. I just ordered 6 new ones about making a business and improving creativity. Recently finished your Unplugged Alpha. Found good info in it. Should be a must read for guys at the age of 16 and re-reading it every second year ☝️😅💪🏻
Great advice !!!! I have been divorced for 14 years and I have not been in a steady relationship since and I VALUE MY FREEDOM OVER A RELATIONSHIPS !!! I have not found that Woman that is worth compromising My Freedom!!!!! Thank You for your Advice I totally agree!!!! Get rid of what is not serving you!!!! Live Free!!!!!!!
They key thing is to be fully aware of when a sail turns into an anchor and needs to be let go..... That's the skill. Good video Rich, on point 👍
Rich getting ready to leave Chinada.
Thank you for the healthy advice.
The anchors & sails analogy is a great metric to assess your direction in life as a man. Since unplugging I've lost contact with some blue pilled guys that are married (some with families), they are in a totally different place than me. No hate.....it is what it is. And working from home for the last two years has been great since I don't have to deal with my woke co-workers in person, email keeps them at arms' length. Been exploring the world of crypto - that's my next step towards achieving even greater independence from the toilet bowl of social narratives and toxic women.
Try dividend investing
Look into LCX in the crypto world
I lived on a ocean trimaran sailboat and will be back out there as soon as my youngest child is a little older. Definitely a great idea. Nothing else has the same level of freedom.
Damn!!! Nice!!! Im thinking about fulltiming in an RV!!!
Raw, hardcore, cutting edge.
One of your best videos so far.
Agree on anchors / sails. Don’t move to NJ.
absolutely true
'you can either curse the wind or hoist a sail' .. sam b. cassidy ..
Congratulations on the sale.
**“Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.” Yoda, Star Wars.**
Simple, useful metaphor. Good stuff
Great analogy Rich. Getting familiar.
Tough to listen to, but useful, thanks Rich.
Thanks Richard. Much needed wisdom here.
Great content Rich. Is that a health tracking ring you're wearing? I was looking at ways to improve sleep and came across a company that uses a wearable ring to track workouts and recovery. Thanks
Toronto wokeness culture sucks. I second this
Theres no such thing as too many cars just like theres no such thing as too much money. Its what you do with it and really if you know what to do with it.
how can he drive that sports car without shifting gears?
So cool that you're far enough into crypto that you understand & participate in staking now. Even most of my friends who are in crypto, still don't even know the first thing about yield farming or staking protocols or any of that sort of stuff - to be honest I don't even fully either, and I've been in crypto for years hardcore. Matter of fact you should do a video on the risks involved in staking coins & a general financial analysis of all that bc that's what's currently keeping me from dumping more capital into it, but anyway you are one smart cookie there are exactly zero >40yo's I know that wouldn't give me a blank stare if I started talking about these types of things.
Right
How is that Bankman-Fried crypto going for you, bro?
@@CEWIII9873 going great. I wasn't a tard who kept all my stuff on an exchange so nothing happened. I can tell you're coping though for not buying early
@@jdally9872 Sure, sure
I am sure that all that doge coin Shiba Inu coin you bought is doing great, right?
Get a real job like bringing me my coffee!
L 0ser...
Been following a channel of a family that lived on a boat for a while. Called Sailing Zahara. Think you’d get along with the dad. He doesn’t like all the woke BS either
The litmus test of this is being able to walk away from your own kids. I know it sounds like heresy to most men, even “unplugged” ones, but it’s true and very liberating. The icing on the cake is the ex-wife with a look of a terrorist whose hostages have suddenly lost their value.
This is fucking real and hilarious as fck !
Half the video is him bragging
i was a sailor... 3rd generation... anchors and sails has big meaning in life. also keeping an even keel.
And cutting bait when needed. Learn to cut Losses quickly.
Fair winds and following seas my seafaring brother..
The one good thing my mother taught me was "keep a steady pace."
So you’re the legendary fisherman sailor ?
Trying to get my first engine assistant job atm. His channel is helping me mentally prep
*10 things to quit for all Strong Men:*
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Bad habit for good (if you have those - gaming, dirty websites, binge eating - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Let go of things and people that burden you (if you can). The relief and the sense of freedom is immense 💜
I have lived in Toronto most of my life and have noticed a really drastic change in the last 3 years. Crime has gone way up so has homelessness and drug abuse. Rent and house prices are sky high making it impossible to survive for a lot of people. If your starting from nothing it’s a lot harder to make something of yourself without help . Our rights and freedoms are being taken away right in front of our eyes. I plan on working a few more years and hopefully making enough investments that I’ll be able to live somewhere cheaper and hot all year round.
Live in Toronto too... been contemplating Texas or Hungary where I still have family... Toronto has a dead and corrupt culture - and I Fucking hate the cold.
Wishing you all the best mate.
A big drug deal
@Tristan z bravo... one more soul spared.
Check out Portugal - especially the Algarve - my friend. Wonderful country/people. No woke BS. Some seriously cool tax advantages under the residency scheme
Don’t consider the San Francisco Bay Area. It’s a wreck homelessness in every city near by. Filthy freeways 🛣 and congestion. We’re being ripped off for basic services. California politicians have failed on every level. I almost forgot about the fentanyl and druggies all over San Francisco. Zombie 🧟♀️ land.
I can't agree more. I run my life like a balance sheet. If it's not contributing to the company (my life) in a positive way, get it off the balance sheet. Great advice.
I couldn't let go of things and people when I was unhappy. When I'm steady and on track, it's no problem. When you have a goal in life it's easier otherwise you substitute satisfaction with stuff.
Come to Texas or Florida! You are the kind of people we need moving here.
Recently turned 30 and I completely agree. If something or someone is weighing you down whatsoever, cut it off.
Great content Rich . . Excellent advice as usual. We can get too romantically attached to people & assets. I am currently selling my house in Ireland that i built with my dad back in 2004. I never thought i'd sell it, but here i am. Will double my original investment when it's all said n done. The world moves on & so should we. Take care brutha.
Get to the point after you’ve finished bragging
I was about to say the same thing. I love Rich and his content, but WTF was that 10 mins plus of him bragging about his shit? The video title is misleading. 🤦🏻♂️
He's going to move to Texas.
Boom🔥🔥🔥1st salute big bro
Absolutely, well said sir 👊🏽
Let it go and Just do it !
Kondo method: if it doesn't bring you joy, get rid of it.
More people >>>More drama...Less people >>>Less drama... NO people >>>NO drama. Getting closer to my goal every day:)
I’ve never met one woman I would consider anything but a anchor. Not ONE
Love your content and your book brother! Thanks for putting out great content.
Dont work for your money, make your money work for you.
Hey Rich, thank you for the video. Perfect timing here to be honest :) Lately, I've become so good at dodging bullets that you might as well call me fucking Neo :D Keep it up, God bless!
Why are all these people dropping comments before watching the whole video?
😆 🤣
Cuz we know it's gonna be good lol
Premature ejaculation
@@shyman99 ^
Totally agree. Keeping things around you don't truly need leads to clutter which disrupts the flow of energy in your physical space. Keeping people around who bring more drama than peace of mind to your life drain energy from you as well.
Smart move getting rid of material stuff that doesn't serve you. I accumulated 20 years worth of nice stuff and I have sold most of it within the last year to allow myself to pivot and unlock the liquidity of my stuff and generate a continuous return on my money.
I think, the letting go, is pretty much what works for me, holding on to dumb stupid ideas in our head can be the hardest for me.
Great way to start the day
Get rid of anchors
Glide with the sails
Check.
I have a boat “bring another thousand” , it’s far more than that, beware. Don’t be a slave to a boat
Do you live in your boat all winter with 5 or 6 electric space heaters on all the time? 🥶
I've been in monk mode since requisite pokie prodie.... I will not date cattle prodded heffers..... I'll have a lot of time to focus on my goals until the next generation of junior college graduates that may have been lucky to avoid the prod.
Keep in mind that an anchor is also a security item! It can be deployed to avoid to go aground when you have no power or some catastrofic failure. Is there stuff that don't put us anywhere but can be deployed as security measure? I don't know...
Don't overthink it son... sounds like you may need a little help, therapy helped me... give it a try ?
Yeah I think the marine analogy doesn't fully translate here
@@josephzsoka874 glad it helped you! The only therapy I need is sailing. You should try it :)
@@nelsonfarya...then be safe and be well.
I've been a real estate investor for 11 years. There's always a time to sell. I don't agree with those that say to never sell.
Where did the r8 go? We had one we bought for a client that had a Canadian history. White 2018 with 20k miles. Came through a sale in FL.
Great video... Many people are in this position in my country, me included, getting rid of people though .... Evi, happy Sunday
Fantastic timing!
I been evaluating of my current situation. Small town living has run its course good job good money but lifestyle limitations has become an anchor. Current discontent can be a good motivator of personal change. 2 hours away, large city with good business opportunities that will give me freedom of time a less structured life that will let me be more creative financially. I can spin new plates meet new people. Sometimes I think a positive change is as invigorating as a long vacation. Besides good friends are where you find them, usually doing similar hobbies or in expanding into new interests that we may have. Let the wind fill my sail.
I let go of two people about a month ago. I'm tired of bull shitters. They were so fake and I don't know why I put up with them for a few years. I've really reeled things in. It's actually a great feeling. This aint no charity man. As for boats. I've sailed all over the Caribbean. I live in Florida and still enjoy my boat.
Anchors and sails, diamonds and pearls.
quit whining and complaining and blaming it on "wokeness"...take responsibility for your own actions!
All big cities in America have become too woke, maddeningly PC. Pick a nice, small town. (Not all small towns are nice.)
Or Italy.
Your own freedom is the greatest asset
Holler if you want to crew on SV Aait Verdan. In Oriental NC heading south soon. Like your sailing references.
For you younger guys.. This guy is your messiah !!
Learn. Listen. Grow... You will Reap
100%...let it go..move on...keep going ...keep moving forward....do not look back....sage advice from this man...yet again.....
Married guy/gal + New fancy convertible = swinger or cheating on their SO
Off topic, and as much as I like Audis, and all the details that come with them, why does the blinker noise have to sound like it's from the 70s? 🤷
Rich, great video and thanks for continuing to put out great content. You mentioned your desire to leave Toronto quite a bit in this vid and I know that you have made other videos about the same topic. I was wondering how your moving away will affect the time you are able to spend with you daughter. You havn't brought that up before and I was wondering what you think about it. Apologies in advance if this is prying and don't feel any obligation to respond if you want that to remain a private matter. Just curious. Best of luck to you in your move to better places.
My daily driver is a Peugeot 208 my personal car is an Audi A6 😊😊
You're bald because you lost your hair. Woman will only be attracted to your personality. It's OK and stuff but the pretty ones won't go for you.
And about women yes Every female I have ever had a relationship was an anchor Which is why I'm single right now And which is why When I am looking for if you would A good time strip clubs are great you should know that Saint catherine street lol How does the saying go "behind every strong man is a strong woman" All I see are a bunch of weak men around me We're a bunch of women who feed off of them aka Communism At least that's how I look at it's the definition of crabpot syndrome It's a real thing look it up
Ill never let go of my foxbody mustangs. You couldnt pry them from my cold dead hands!
Let's not forget about ideas and dogma and dogma that does not serve us as well
Where would you want to live besides Canada, or where would you recommend?
How about this for an anchor. Cutting the apron string with a mentality I’ll family member.
Style, Fitness and Finances… oh yea don’t yap, u should be fine.
Greetings Rich: I am a woman and I pop into your channel now and again ... your content and ideas shed a light on men and the flip side of the coin - always interesting & thought provoking! Thank you from Southern California 🏖️
that's nice
When did you transition?
Come to England if you can. No Convid restrictions here
like junk food, it's always the bad that's good 😔
I'm new to the channel.. Loving the content. My sail is to let go of a lot of the other 'Alpha's content out there. Its all just confusing shit.
..What car you driving though? Liking the engine sound and gear ratios as you set off..
Nice jacket bro. Loved the lesson in todays video.
Couldn't have posted this video at a better time. Currently looking at putting up the sail and making the next move. I've been stuck in this J.o.b (just over broke) for too long while doing my online business on the side but the job isn't serving me anymore. There are always new opportunities out there just need to find them.
Growth in equity, rental yield, vacancy rates, interest rates and amenities would be some of items I would look for with a rental property.
Too many comfortable lies to list at this point.
Audi S4? Looks a lot like my interior..
Rich, come to Texas!!! 👍🏻🤜🏻🤛🏻✌🏻💜🙏🏻🤠
I have the same mindset now that I have become unplugged from this world but sadly most people are chasing the next best thing. You can’t have this conversation with them.
Best timing ever for selling real estate 💪🏻
Staking is better for sure
Learn to let go of things and people that don't serve you - this is a gem that everyone can benefit from, especially when it comes to people. Cut a few anchors myself.
thanks
Thats awesome cant wait to see how ya make out.