The WORST Woman Ever? How Giga-Chad Ruined His Life

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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
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    • @bryanthomas7160
      @bryanthomas7160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      excellent advice as always sir thanku 🤜

    • @jeddmohlenkamp6870
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      Your audiobook was great btw!

    • @bryanthomas7160
      @bryanthomas7160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      rich says nobody hates a looser! people only hate on winners!!! & hes dead right!!
      the guy is winning at life..its hard but if u like the nice things in life u have to do the work!!
      people don't like winners cos there to lazy to get off there arse and put the hard work in..I see it all the time

    • @42NORRIS
      @42NORRIS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bill Gates Dude, why are you even here?

    • @42NORRIS
      @42NORRIS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Bill Gates Ok, cool. But why are you angry at Cooper?
      I'm not interested in 100% of Rich Cooper's or anybody's advice but some of it is good, for example: Work on yourself (personally and professionally), Chase Excellence, Watch for red flags with everyone, relationships with certain types women are more problematic than others, try to be the best version of yourself, Remove toxic people from your life. This is great advice for any man.

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1438

    I'm always suspicious when a woman always trash her exes, but she was a perfect little angel who can do no wrong.

    • @RedH3
      @RedH3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @Elvir Doko Not sure thats right. I was with a woman for a year, and when she mentioned ex boyfriends she always seemed to take some of the blame.

    • @Ladliju1
      @Ladliju1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@RedH3 yeah just like those few women who pay bills , or split the bills. It's not only us who are getting red pilled bro, the woman are also updating their finessing skills.
      If she is sincerely apologetic about the mistakes she commited at the past, watch her actions closely. If there is only remorse talk or actual action plan on a permanent basis.

    • @robertreynolds2726
      @robertreynolds2726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      100 percent. This is a fact.

    • @greymatters14
      @greymatters14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@Ladliju1 “women are updating their finessing skills”. You nailed it bro. People make the mistake of conflating human nature (differences between men and women) with intelligence and that is a dangerous assumption. Woman can and will and are adjusting. Good insight on your part. More guys need to start putting emphasis on actions versus words.

    • @RedH3
      @RedH3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@greymatters14 Imagine my shock, while still being bluepilled at the time, finding out that my sweetheart used to fuck a married man before she met me. Good Lord im so grateful for the redpill community being the father I never had.

  • @Re3iRtH
    @Re3iRtH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    Cheerleader for Miami Heat = professional "train" conductor

    • @pollcrazy
      @pollcrazy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      More like team bicycle , everyone’s has had a turn on it!

    • @finished6267
      @finished6267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Choo CHOO OOOOO!!!!

    • @rajeshroshan2877
      @rajeshroshan2877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And maybe professional rail tunnel?

    • @penderyn8794
      @penderyn8794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pollcrazy village bicycle

    • @iamthestorm1004
      @iamthestorm1004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      CheW CheW 🚂🚂🚂🚂🚂 🤪

  • @rodrodney4904
    @rodrodney4904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    One thing all these 'abusive , loser ex's' have in common is...she chose them.

    • @silentwitness536
      @silentwitness536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tom Leykis shout out.

    • @solusaldrain
      @solusaldrain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You're not supposed to say that.
      YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO SHOUT IT! Let those in the back hear you.

    • @jackmcminn2520
      @jackmcminn2520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dam right

    • @rolfjohansen5376
      @rolfjohansen5376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you are correct , .... That's why some experience with women are crucial and not to mention reading at least one psychology book and actually have some healthy boundaries. Some men do absolutely "everything" getting the pussy like it was the last pussy on the planet, like buy her manipulation to get a rewarded and play into their games. If you give up your own boundaries and values , don't expect to get reward from a normal healthy individual

    • @DeviantDeveloper
      @DeviantDeveloper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Totally. Any time a woman tries to pull me / approaches me first I'm highly suspicious.

  • @daifeichu
    @daifeichu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    My daughter is 13. Agree 100% with Rich that at 7 she was the sweetest person around. Now at 13 I have to remind every once in a while who's house she lives in, who's food she's eating, who bought the tablet she's always using and so on. She gets the message but after a bit of time the attitude starts to appear and then I give her another reminder. It's a cycle.

    • @DocFischer
      @DocFischer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Damn, I am so happy that I have a boy who is and always has been just the chillest sweetest dude ever at 17. I guess women are born this way. They just call for a strong hand. Again and again. It is so strenuous.

    • @alexinfinite7142
      @alexinfinite7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@DocFischer it's exhausting. To be expected to regulate and ungrateful adult in the same way as a child and then be told you're the "bad guy" even though it's how women naturally want to be treated. Who has time for this?

    • @guido100
      @guido100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Damn. Mine is 8 and already a handful. Disrespecting me. Probably got that from mom who left me for her Chad. Never marrying again

    • @losfromla1480
      @losfromla1480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@DocFischer good to know, my boy is only 12 and still sweet and funny and positive as can be. I'm really hoping that will stay through the teen years and beyond. Any tips?

    • @pwlyons759
      @pwlyons759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My daughter is nine and a little princess, but I am absolutely terrified of the future. Especially when I'm very old fashioned in the common sense idea that "you get respect when you give respect" and when you disrespect, you get....

  • @GK-wx6xo
    @GK-wx6xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Society will never admit that women will openly try and destroy a man’s life if the man doesn’t do what she wants.

    • @powerscourt182
      @powerscourt182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That’s the truth

    • @e.paradigm7415
      @e.paradigm7415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Like spoiled children they've become

    • @slugakristov8343
      @slugakristov8343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It is our fault....who gave them "rights"

    • @naydah
      @naydah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Basicly... ,,be a real man and do ... " means - do what I wanna do, get

    • @GK-wx6xo
      @GK-wx6xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@e.paradigm7415 Social media has made things 100 x worse….narcissistic spoiled brats

  • @anthonyc5039
    @anthonyc5039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    “Speaks 4 languages, has 2 degrees”
    Goes great with “Filed for bankruptcy”
    Modern women are amazing. They can really do it all. Imagine being able to be bankrupt and in debt, yet be strong and independent at the same time. Truly impressive. On top of that, she can even tell her creditors to F off in 4 different languages. Now that is a real boss babe.

  • @georgesontag2192
    @georgesontag2192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I am 65 years old with life experience on marriage and dating. If you decide to get married, it is impossible to know what you will be getting. You don't know because THEY CHANGE. They are all sweet and giving at the start. She is capable of becoming pure evil if they decide to wander.
    Don't ever sign the marriage license.

    • @roninvictor
      @roninvictor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Tango Salsa yeah “hope”. Unfortunately that “hope” can ruin your life financially if it doesn’t work out.

    • @safeway3168
      @safeway3168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      a license...hmm... making something illegal, legal.
      you just invited the government as the 3rd party, guess who owns the future "product" of your "marriage".
      Did Adam have a license?

    • @madslasher18
      @madslasher18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      To add on to this ; there’s this age old saying.... Men marry women thinking they’ll stay the same and they always change - women marry marry thinking they’ll change and they never do
      I’m 33 and I fully agree with you

    • @jaybernamikaze5109
      @jaybernamikaze5109 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im a teen are you sure my friend?

    • @contra8183
      @contra8183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So, simply, don't ever get married.
      I am divorced :)

  • @jaythenihilist4689
    @jaythenihilist4689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    Having been raised by a single mother, I never had these life lessons when I was young. I had to learn everything the hard way. TH-cam didn't exist back then. So glad that people like Rich are helping to offer guidance to struggling young men.

    • @davidhenderson5051
      @davidhenderson5051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, he's doing gods work

    • @jacobwiebe1460
      @jacobwiebe1460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@davidhenderson5051 more like the absent dads work.

    • @davidhenderson5051
      @davidhenderson5051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jacobwiebe1460 Amen

    • @nightmaster6381
      @nightmaster6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jacobwiebe1460I just want to remind you, out of respect for the fathers that lost custody in divorce court, that not every child of a single mother has an absent dad.
      My dad divorced my mom because she's nuts. But in 1982, where I'm from, the mother ALWAYS won custody. So my dad was given visitation rights every other weekend. That's only 4 days a month to teach a boy to be a man. But he was there those 4 days, not absent. Still not enough but more honorable than an absent dad. He did what little he could with what little the system allowed him.

    • @jacobwiebe1460
      @jacobwiebe1460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nightmaster6381 thanks. Your respectful reminder does not detract from my point though. Some dads can influence a child more in one day a week than other dads do everyday.

  • @ThePhinista
    @ThePhinista 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    My mom trashed talked my dad ALWAYS (now divorced). Even though he worked night shift and had 2 jobs at one point just to provide for us. Now that I am a bit older I realize that she really provided next to no value in that relationship and SHE was the one who should have been contributing more.

    • @JohnSmith-kb5ku
      @JohnSmith-kb5ku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lillian Reardon in Atlas Shrugged is the queen of this type of woman. Brilliant archetype of a woman who tried to keep a brilliant man under control like they do with race horses.

    • @C39SHARKDRAKE
      @C39SHARKDRAKE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very similar situation with me as well man.

    • @gordonjay2461
      @gordonjay2461 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's all wives

    • @DuckboyJiden
      @DuckboyJiden 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here. Headfuck.

  • @Epsillion70
    @Epsillion70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +608

    What most women want;
    " The power and benefits of a man
    The privilege and entitlement of a woman and the
    responsibility and accountability of a child!"

    • @shawnmoran3606
      @shawnmoran3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Damn

    • @iammaximus614
      @iammaximus614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Unfortunately,
      most likely she has a npd or bpd disorder

    • @jaylen8822
      @jaylen8822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      PERFECT 🔥🔥🔥

    • @sbeckstrand
      @sbeckstrand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hit the nail on the head so hard it went through the fking board

    • @Trinhnguyen714
      @Trinhnguyen714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mostly anyways lol

  • @rajakghosh753
    @rajakghosh753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    Paternity fraud is skyrocketing. Father need to conduct Paternity test before signing the birth certificate.

    • @FedeGeko34
      @FedeGeko34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Nah it always existed and it was a lot more common when our society was poorer

    • @RedH3
      @RedH3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I just turned 30, my dad informed me that my mother was being sketchy around the time of my conception and that he isnt sure im his.

    • @Shyhalu
      @Shyhalu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@RedH3 so go get tested.

    • @RedH3
      @RedH3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Shyhalu Yes!

    • @whenpigsfly8178
      @whenpigsfly8178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      And pay for their own paternity tests. There are online business selling fraudulent paternity tests that women can buy to lie to the ''father''. Some of them seem quite legit too.

  • @kirbyaugustine761
    @kirbyaugustine761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    As a rule, if a woman, especially if you know her to be unstable, demands that you get her pregnant in short order she’s usually already pregnant by another guy.

    • @HenrySomeone
      @HenrySomeone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very often they are pregnant by another guy anyway (30-40% nowadays) and this will soon become the majority. Society's final collapse will follow shortly after that.

  • @CuriouslyInquisitive
    @CuriouslyInquisitive 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    He is going to be hurt the worst when the ‘daughter’ tells him he is not her dad and reopen wounds he is now suffering from.

    • @iamgroot8954
      @iamgroot8954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yup. "You can't tell me what you do, you're not my real dad." This will inevitably happens in her teen. The mom will defend her to the bitter end.

    • @safeway3168
      @safeway3168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@iamgroot8954 yes those words do come out 13-17
      but their welfare is dependent on you.. stand your ground,
      then they know their own and your boundaries, even if means you say .."you don't like it get out". Your "rulership" of the house will be challenged...but that is just rebellion - dad or not. Many a generation had to deal with this too, nothing new under the sun ! Tough love... they will see you as "my stepdad" eventually. Love conquers all. It's your greatest gift to give, they will not see it as such at this age though.

    • @fezzard
      @fezzard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@safeway3168 you a stepdad bro?

    • @290revolver290
      @290revolver290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @maditya4341
    @maditya4341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    the fact that she was poor financially and 11 years older than him should've been the biggest No-No for the dude, but sometimes these women know how to totally take over a guy's mind and heart which makes it hard for the man to think rationally.

    • @marcelarbeiter1612
      @marcelarbeiter1612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Its often the need of a man to play the hero

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      One of the criteria for high earning men should be to analyse not just what she earns, but how she spends things, her attitude to money. Of course passion and lust usually takes over logic.

    • @Zanatos9
      @Zanatos9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Where was his mom. I mean, any "serious" gf, you bring to mom. Any mom would be like get rid of that bag of shit

    • @easyDoes1T85
      @easyDoes1T85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Take over his meat muscle you mean

    • @douglasguiotto521
      @douglasguiotto521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She manipulated him with her pussy ! Obviously he did not have any wisdom

  • @conorboyle947
    @conorboyle947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    You called him “saucy, and juicy as hell” one too many times for me bro 😂

  • @brendancampbell8075
    @brendancampbell8075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Man I think it’s gonna hurt like hell when your daughter eventually throws it in your face that you’re not her real dad then you’re left with nothing. I think it’s best to just move on now

    • @jamesgoodwin7742
      @jamesgoodwin7742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The reverse is often true too. The daughter tells her biological father that her real dad is the new step dad.

    • @cdixon5150
      @cdixon5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @cautarepvp2079
      @cautarepvp2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      naah, if she has morals and is raised well, she won't do that.
      Biological father or not, your father is the one that raised you, that took care of you, not the one that spermed you and ditched you.
      Keep that in mind.

  • @artlilly121
    @artlilly121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Chad needs to understand that if he stays in this relationship for "the well being of the child", he is teaching her to stay in a dysfunctional relationship. Furthermore, he may be the male hero of her 7 year old life now but when she enters the combative years where she is trying gain control of her own life SHE will remind him that he is NOT her father. If you had a positive impact on this child while you were fathering her she may reach out to you after she matures (or not), either way you are both better off.

    • @calbaking
      @calbaking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chad is intellectually challenged

    • @safeway3168
      @safeway3168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@calbakingno discernment.

  • @disgustinghandsome1282
    @disgustinghandsome1282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    My mom tried to make me scared of my dad because he was such an "evil man", she always threatened me to sent me to my father when I was not listening. I never had a bond with my mom and always wanted to be far away from her. Even had nightmares about her at a young age. She went from disaster boyfriend to another disaster. Trying to fix their lives and neglected me and my sisters. Lately she's hanging out with "an old friend" who awfully looks like me. She said "he doesn't want to meet us, because he wants to keep it simple". I'm at a stage where I actually don't care. I now live half way across the world with no toxic mom around me. I've learned a lot and for those out there in similar situations. I'm doing great. Work on yourself, talk to friends or a professional about it and give it peace. Finally had the courage to telling my mom about it and she cried the whole conversation. She didn't admit and I still don't have a connection with her but at least I got it off my chest. Don't have nightmares ever since. 1 step closer to excellence.

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well done. A successful future is on the way for you.

    • @illyrian8991
      @illyrian8991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you still keep in touch with your dad?

    • @safeway3168
      @safeway3168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Glad you confronted your mom early of what she did.
      Nothing shall remain hidden, truth is the antidote, to set you free and heal.

    • @disgustinghandsome1282
      @disgustinghandsome1282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@illyrian8991 I contacted him like a couple of months ago, we mail some back and forth. There's a huge barrier between us. The thing that bother me a little is everything has to come from my side. But I'm still in the fase of closing this chapter for me.

    • @luke304
      @luke304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep ya head up boss

  • @robertreynolds2726
    @robertreynolds2726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Woman with kids, controlling woman, daddy issues.....this is a pile of dynamite

  • @DevsScents
    @DevsScents 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "More red flags than a Chinese communist parade" i literally f**king laughed out loud. Im stealing that one 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @chaosdweller
      @chaosdweller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly its been said alot over the past few months or yrs , or so not sure ?

    • @chaosdweller
      @chaosdweller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes its funny though, I just didn't laugh cause I picked it up on my human social media redundant radar lol.

  • @slickdickmemes
    @slickdickmemes ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’ve yet to meet a woman who says any of her past relationship failures were her fault. It’s ALWAYS HIS fault. Zero accountability.

    • @HenrySomeone
      @HenrySomeone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've yet to meet one who takes responsibility about anything to be honest, including the smallest things. It's just not in their program code.

  • @roastbeef1967
    @roastbeef1967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    The moral of the story is: women are never to be taken lightly.

    • @thecount_1957
      @thecount_1957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Never underestimate a woman! NEVER

    • @MCC876
      @MCC876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The most dangerous decision a man will make is the decision to get married. This has a high probability of ruining his life.

    • @kirilmihaylov1934
      @kirilmihaylov1934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thecount_1957 some are very harsh yes

    • @kirilmihaylov1934
      @kirilmihaylov1934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MCC876 it looks like that yes

    • @Mark-ly4lq
      @Mark-ly4lq ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are the part of the team that is most likely going to send you down the river in a high pressure situation. Think of them like a crew that has a high risk of mutany. Be the captain of your life and own ship

  • @rajakghosh753
    @rajakghosh753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Sounds like the guy won a lottery to hell and divorce court.

  • @scottjones1491
    @scottjones1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I was raised by a single mother but every single day of my life she warned me about women and that they would be conniving and try to get pregnant and literally had me scared to death when I went off to college I thank her every day for that knowledge And it kept me out of the hands of the crazy. My dad was in my life to a limited degree but he never warned me like my mother did.

    • @oneplus113T
      @oneplus113T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Maybe because your mother did the same in her time and she knows what's coming!

    • @juansegoviano9727
      @juansegoviano9727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Come to think of it, my mom warned me stay away from woman who get kicks from bossing others around.
      She probably have done that in her teens.

    • @sunflowerrayne6026
      @sunflowerrayne6026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom and dad both taught me humans were pathetic and not to be trusted they were both shit. It's true shit people can teach you the best how not to get messed up in others crap.

    • @john7148
      @john7148 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She knows...😉

  • @JohnSmith-qx8ll
    @JohnSmith-qx8ll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Remember gents, YOU are the prize! Don't bend the knee...it's the beginning of the end.

    • @matthattermatador4595
      @matthattermatador4595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      We always have been. Society did its best to tell us weren’t worthy. That we had to play their game. Well now, the tables have turned

    • @calbaking
      @calbaking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's time we rise up and gain our glory, what is rightfully ours... Our biological destiny and birthright

    • @D3K018
      @D3K018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup, when you realize how many abilities you actually have (and that you have the power to acquire more, plus to increase your assets in multiple ways), there's no way, shape or form any media outlet can make you think otherwise. I wish every man started to see their unlimited potential and stopped thinking they need a woman to be worthy...

    • @supertruthfortynine
      @supertruthfortynine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true.

    • @cdixon5150
      @cdixon5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I heard that song the other day “girls run the world “ by Beyoncé and just laughed. Who discovered electricity, built infrastructure, developed planes to fly, went to the moon …I could go on, but men. I don’t hate women of course but it’s sad to see how many women treat guys like sh*t when they live in the world we built.

  • @stevelynch5843
    @stevelynch5843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This is going to get a little personal but this is what I' think Rich is talking about (I can't do what my Dad did) we moved to Alberta in 68 my parents split up in 1969, I was 5 my Dad went back home to Ontario and as far as I knew left me behind, he came back a year later wanting his TV back (my mother said) so he drove 2500 miles to get back his TV?? we started moving after that, every year a new place, it was difficult cause I was always having to make new friends, when I was 9 (my Dad showed up out of no where) he found us through my moms sister, then when I was 11, 13 and again at 15, I always wondered why I never received a birthday card or Christmas present, never a phone call, I started therapy 6 months ago after my cancer surgery, had a conversation with my mother shortly after, my therapy was becoming more than just about the cancer, some things as a grown man didn't add up, side note (my mother suffered Mental illness was in and out of hospitals most of my older sisters life), so when I was 5 my father wanted to take me with him back to Ontario, (she wouldn't let him (I was her welfare check) when he came back a year later, it wasn't his TV he wanted, when I was 9, my Aunty called him, told him the abuse I was suffering at the hands of yet another drunken boyfriend, this happens again and again, I didn't know every time he came, he was trying to rescue me, I was a kid, I hated him my whole life, thinking he had left me behind, found out my mother throw out birthday cards, then we'd move again so he couldn't find me, found out he took her to court twice, couldn't prove her unfit, no one asked me, my mother called my father everything from child molester to worst of unimaginable wreakening, my father sits on a pedestal now, a healthy one, no one will ever take him off of it again, I just wish at 5, I would have woken up in the car, on our way home, my life would have been a whole lot better

    • @Artur_Martins
      @Artur_Martins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks for sharing, Steve!

    • @DocFischer
      @DocFischer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Damn, that a tough story, Steve. Hope you have the chance to heal that one with your dad, for good. That shit sits deep in the soul. Ther might also be the parallel to the cancer, which is often caused by deep frustration with life and the lack of inner joy it brings. All the best! And thanks for sharing.

    • @farmerdave286
      @farmerdave286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing

    • @JuanDavid-fj3tg
      @JuanDavid-fj3tg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing , bro. I hope you can enjoy the present and future with your father and you can heal.

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is why I have no sympathy for the mentally insane they do so much damage to people and society that I firmly believe that they don’t deserve to leave the hospitals. Some should just be put out of their misery

  • @Alex-bb4cr
    @Alex-bb4cr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That bit about single moms lying to their kids about their dad is absolutely correct. My mother tried to pull that shit and tell me that my dad didn’t want to see me after the divorce, but I literally have memories of going to see him during that time even at 2/3 years old

  • @cassidybronson6891
    @cassidybronson6891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    That’s why she DEMANDED he put a baby in her when she did. So when they went back and look at the timeline she could say “that’s impossible, that’s when we had sex to get pregnant”. When in reality she’s asking YOU to cover up her mistakes for her.

    • @Antassium
      @Antassium 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @andersonguests
      @andersonguests 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just like King David wanting Uriah to go home and have sex with Bathsheba to cover up his mistake. 2 Samuel 11 : 2 - 27

    • @maritzacubero9431
      @maritzacubero9431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That woman is horrible, even if she is hot as stated.

  • @vladimirpastukhov7538
    @vladimirpastukhov7538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Scary that a giga chad can fall prey to female shenanagins.

    • @RedH3
      @RedH3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      You can be a giga chad and Bluepilled at the same time

    • @ElecktroHasARedHoodie
      @ElecktroHasARedHoodie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@RedH3 Exactly. The famous blue pilled alpha

    • @tomaszsosnowski9279
      @tomaszsosnowski9279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Winning the genetic lottery and going to the gym plus taking juice is not enough to make it.

    • @badass1g
      @badass1g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Giga Chad’s can be the biggest target on the market.

    • @bbaazz17
      @bbaazz17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He was young, he was thinking with his tiny testes.

  • @markyoungman7267
    @markyoungman7267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm wondering about his legal access to this seven year old girl. His ex-train wreck sounds unstable, so what's to stop her from one day just deciding to deny him access to his "daughter" on a whim?

  • @globalnomad1221
    @globalnomad1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    many young men are blind and without guidance....a new type of man will emerge from this chaos and dysfunction...

  • @NathanBlackJ
    @NathanBlackJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My daughter is 7 now and totally agree, super funny, sweet. Personality is really growing and thoughtful, playful. Amazing.

  • @SofronPolitis
    @SofronPolitis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Rich, what you're saying about single moms who bash the father of their kids is true, my ex gf's mom was telling her horrible things about her dad for years, but when she turned 18 and decided to find him, it turns out he's the most caring father ever - he left when my gf was a baby because ex-wifey was a manipulative emotional vampire who had lied to him about being on the pill. The icing on the cake: when crazy single mom found out that her daughter had met her dad, she kicked her own kid out of the house saying "you're dead to me".
    If you know more stories like that, they'd be a cool topic for a video.

  • @M.Kabane
    @M.Kabane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There is nothing to think about it. If he has some dignity, he has to leave.

  • @Davidthegnme
    @Davidthegnme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    20! im making my 16 year old son read your book.

    • @animeink5822
      @animeink5822 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funny comment, i was just thinking when would be a good age to start my son reading a book on this red pill stuff. As well as teach him myself.

    • @MMA-CLIPS2
      @MMA-CLIPS2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@animeink5822 18 or older is the perfect time.

    • @svnsetexe7326
      @svnsetexe7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No earlier since women are focus typically in younger men then 18 example 15 year old gut gets gf who manipulated him etc (now would’ve been a good time to have read that book .) so I recommend when you notice him taking an interest in girl 14-16

    • @Davidthegnme
      @Davidthegnme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@svnsetexe7326 wel I had my son when I was 22. His mom told me everything a man wants to here. I love you. Want to spend my life with you. Build a life with you. Please have a child with me. I believed her. Then a year after he was born she left me for a guy I once considered a brother. I raised my son on my own. And I would never want his to be taken advantage of by a women like I was. He is red pulled as much as I can red pill him.

    • @anniexo7453
      @anniexo7453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please don’t!

  • @evankrhodes
    @evankrhodes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I have a DNA negative daughter in the Philippines as well. The sweetest thing, but not mine biologically. I found out when she was 6, and I'm the only father she has known. Tough situation.
    Lesson to guys: Always get the test done, and get it done early.
    Love you work Rich. Read your book and did a quick review. One day I'll share with you how 2 years ago you played a role in changing my life.

    • @bravefastrabbit770
      @bravefastrabbit770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cewemahbebaschannelindones1624 This, curious to know. Definitely a tricky fkn situation...

    • @Simon-og5vy
      @Simon-og5vy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hard to give up on kids especially when there biological father disappeared, it’s not like it’s there fault there in this situation.
      I was in a relationship with a single mother and to this day I still stay in contact with the daughter ( she’s 12 now and I’ve watch her grow up (she sort of stole my heart right since the day I first met her at 3 years old ) , but I’m over 50 and have son of my own and don’t want any more so I don’t even think about the fact she not actually mine .I can understand it’s harder for younger guys who want there own kids and don’t have the time or resources to spend on someone else’s child

    • @satyakammisra
      @satyakammisra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My advice on how to handle this if you are wealthy:
      Remain a father to her - do not change anything. Take her and her mom to Cebu or Bocaray on vacation but being along a young hotter Pinay as your gf.
      Introduce the cheating mom as your maid to that hotter Pinay and also in the resort. Let her face the humiliation. Bang that younger chic in front of her and tell her to clean up the mess.
      See how it works out -

    • @HiddenHandMedia
      @HiddenHandMedia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@satyakammisra That's pretty stupid and a waste of time.

  • @ThePatriots010304
    @ThePatriots010304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Being alpha isn’t about how you look, it’s about what’s between your ears.

    • @johannes7434
      @johannes7434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A mix of it all

    • @carlosqlv
      @carlosqlv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why even alpha? But when you conquer alphas, you are the overlord. The conqueror.

    • @mcnstein646
      @mcnstein646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is why I don't agree with the modern definition of alpha male. It's incomplete and built on the wrong premise.

    • @nospoontobend2656
      @nospoontobend2656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100% correct...its not about physical appearance

    • @Mark-ly4lq
      @Mark-ly4lq ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mcnstein646 competent mentally and physically. Physically capable of being violent when it's necessary, not intimidated by other men. All of this is possible if you live an active life of meaning where you push yourself out of your comfort zone and to excel. If you want women to want to smash you, you have to be a bit of a specimen. Good shoulder to hip ratio, good posture, good health, good muscle to fat ratio

  • @Erwan_Uxio
    @Erwan_Uxio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I felt that bit about single moms
    In my younger years, mum always guilt tripped me by using the phrase "you're acting exactly like your father"... That always made me feel terrible and docile. When I became a teenager and I started gaining my independence, she kicked against it terribly, sometimes limiting my freedom, till one day I just snapped, I walked out of the house while she was ordering me to stay in.
    When I got home that night I could see the fear in her eyes cos she felt I didn't want her involved in my life any longer. I apologised and reassured her that I wasn't going to abandon her but i also warned her about the limiting factor, was imposing on me.
    Now she makes a conscious effort to not come off as clingy...
    Ps. Fuck Obedience before sacrifice
    Sacrifice then apologize, they always get over it

    • @TightNinja
      @TightNinja 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Obedience is greater than sacrifice...however that is scripture regarding your relationship with the most high....not your mom. Glad you stood up to her...keep watching red pill content and don't become a son husband. You doing good if you are learning from the manosphere. Men like myself did not have the internet to tell us this stuff, be thankful!

    • @calbaking
      @calbaking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      how about do whats right for you and dont apologise for it

    • @MCC876
      @MCC876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Owen Elbe, mothers can be the worst at using shaming language at their sons. They are bitter at their husbands, even though they are partially to blame, and take their frustrations out on their sons. Be careful, men.

    • @raff5184
      @raff5184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Apologize for doing nothing wrong?? Wth are you doing!!?! You still submissive

    • @icu8128
      @icu8128 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No they don't

  • @dennisorourke6545
    @dennisorourke6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Buy Rich's book, guys. I've read it twice already. Every man *MUST* possess this knowledge.

    • @neffseda4181
      @neffseda4181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What's the title of the book?

    • @professionalshooter1
      @professionalshooter1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Unplugged Alpha

    • @jaythenihilist4689
      @jaythenihilist4689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also read The Rational Male books. Those books are a big influence on Rich's Red Pill way of thinking.

    • @disgustinghandsome1282
      @disgustinghandsome1282 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I bought the book but couldn't find anything that I didn't know. But I'll pass the book around for those in need.

    • @karnyt5843
      @karnyt5843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup, waiting for the audiobook

  • @TightNinja
    @TightNinja 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Your not Chad if you go after a woman like this

    • @johnphillip2566
      @johnphillip2566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      -10 Reason why this man isn’t Alpha.-
      1) Married a woman 11+ years his senior.
      2) Obtained citizenship through marriage.
      3) Needs testosterone to build physique.
      4) Takes demands from women.
      5) Wife is impregnated by another man.
      6) He was cukholded by his wife.
      7) Cant have kids bc of prior drug use.
      8) Uses the phrase “Try 2 make it work”.
      9) Raised by a single mother.
      10) Paid Rich for a sponsored advice.

    • @AlanValdez_TV
      @AlanValdez_TV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Remember the part of needing someone to marry fast in order to not be an illegal immigrant.

  • @txbob5978
    @txbob5978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Leave her and start a new life
    You're still very young and can easily do better!

  • @andresjacome6200
    @andresjacome6200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 24, about to get my engineering degree, I thought I have met crazy women, but this is just a different level. Thank you brothers for sharing your knowledge and experiences.

  • @chrismarinov2007
    @chrismarinov2007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Man, he screwed up royally. This is a difficult one. I would say move on and don't look back. Plenty of men walk out on their biological children I don't see why you'd be obligated to raise a child that's not yours. I know it sounds harsh, but you'd never be able to have your own family and kids if you chose to keep that train wreck in your life. Good luck.

  • @jasonboughen9542
    @jasonboughen9542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Read your book, downloaded the audiobook. Finished in 2 days.
    I let my 16 year old son listen to your chapter on red flags.
    You packed a lot of info into a neat package. No fluff. Just truth bombs, stats, men’s health, female nature, red pill truth and reality. Good shit. 👌🏼

  • @biscaynesupercars
    @biscaynesupercars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    As soon as i heard “Miami” i knew this was gonna go down hill lol. Certain cities don’t produce good wives like nyc, LA and miami is at the very top of that list. Miami women are there for a fun time not a long time

  • @BrandonClark-StocksPassports
    @BrandonClark-StocksPassports 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I really wished marriage was more important in our society.
    But it's not. I can't invest in marriage when I know she will leave or cheat eventually Anyway

    • @oldsoul1758
      @oldsoul1758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The value of marriage has been intentionally eroded....much like currency, by a corrupt and parasitic legal system.

    • @HenrySomeone
      @HenrySomeone 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She will do both, don't worry.

  • @huckfinn4686
    @huckfinn4686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You know you have a good mum when she doesn’t tell you heaps of bad stuff about your father. She let me figure that out on my own

  • @Brett_B73
    @Brett_B73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Get snipped like I did and never buy the cow....You will never get wrecked.

    • @KA-vs7nl
      @KA-vs7nl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does that reduce testosterone?

    • @Brett_B73
      @Brett_B73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KA-vs7nl Not on me...Only thing I noticed was volume seems a little less...No big deal...As for sensation no different....Not a bad recovery...For a couple weeks you have a slight discomfort that feels like you were hit in the balls...Very minor.

    • @thomasshort1784
      @thomasshort1784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SR 71 To me, personally, that's the most reassuring knowledge about vasectomies.

    • @jnordne2
      @jnordne2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be careful, I had all sorts of complications from mine. The instances of PVPS (post vasectomy pain syndrome) are much higher than they claim. My first vas didn't work all the way, so I had to get a 2nd one, and several years later I got chronic epididymitis from the back pressure, so I had to get a reversal to ease the pain. Insurance doesn't cover a reversal, so that was out of pocket for me. But, I also got nerve damage down there and sometimes get pain when I ride my motorcycle too long. Another guy I know had to get a reversal too because of his chronic pain. The literature the doc gave me said there was only a 2% chance of chronic pain, but afterwards, when I did more research, it seems to be more like 20%. Just, do some more research before you get one and accept that there's a 1 in 5 chance that you'll have problems afterwards.

    • @Brett_B73
      @Brett_B73 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jnordne2 Been 3 years since mine and I am 100% issue free.
      I guess everyone is different.
      I rolled the dice and got lucky.

  • @bengrant9900
    @bengrant9900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is why guys need to be red pill aware because of foolish women like this. It’s our job as men to save the younger generation from these train wrecks with the knowledge we gain from the Mano sphere. Get the unplugged alpha guys and I will recommend the young bucks get it too

  • @justaprogrammer3764
    @justaprogrammer3764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just heard your book twice on audible, mad props to you from Mississauga.

  • @coater31
    @coater31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can confirm that single mother’s lie about the father of their children. My mother was one of them.

  • @altonhoward3598
    @altonhoward3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's totally fine to be a positive male role model in her life. Keep being her father and teach her how to be the best person she can. That's the win out of your situation.

    • @mohamedadan6678
      @mohamedadan6678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no its not, why should he raise a daughter that isn't his? Why?

  • @_JC_Denton_
    @_JC_Denton_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Just turned 40 this year, but still kept really fit, doing my best to invest my money properly, stocks, cryptos etc. Sometimes I wonder If I missed something by not having kids and a family already and then stories like this remind that hmmm actually this is fine. It's just too bad our "great masters" destroyed the family core model and f*cked up women's mind...

    • @ace90200
      @ace90200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      + the fact you can still likely have kids for atleast another 10-15 years

    • @cdixon5150
      @cdixon5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I just turned 41 and I agree with you 💯 percent
      I’ve seen some of my buddies go through the divorce ringer - it ain’t pretty

    • @jamiemartinez8674
      @jamiemartinez8674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay single my friend..you are doing well...this coming from a twice divorced male! Lol

  • @PastTime777
    @PastTime777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    These videos were not around back when he was 20. For me, the internet was not around, I'm 57. Today the word is getting out, even though the system is trying to suppress the truth. That's because marriage is an institution worth a lot of money (wedding, honeymoon, new car, new house, kids, divorce lawyers). The guys didn't know until now.

    • @holyhandgrenadeofantioch2019
      @holyhandgrenadeofantioch2019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Rational Male was not published until 2013. I did not find it until March, 2018. Like you, I walked around for half a century not knowing red pill truth. 🤦🏼‍♂️

    • @RedH3
      @RedH3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The best thing about the internet is instantaneous and sometimes anonymous communication with strangers from any location in the world. My dad didn't teach me shit, and if not for guys like Richard Cooper I might be in prison or dead.

    • @jaythenihilist4689
      @jaythenihilist4689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm in same the boat. I had no guidance and had to learn the hard way. But I've also had my own suspicions of women's true nature since I was 21 and my girlfriend of 3 years dumped me to go ride the CC in college. I'm 36 now, never married and no kids. And I couldn't be happier. I still like women. Still date. But I will NEVER get married.

    • @jamesbra4410
      @jamesbra4410 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I think a lot of it has to do with the shape of the economy now. It's much harder to become financially independent and stable now than it was back then so men are not as quick to throw away all their hard work on something as risky and volatile as a woman.

    • @shawnmoran3606
      @shawnmoran3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@RedH3 All my dad taught me was how to spot fat chicks before they become fat chicks. (look at their calves, and their mother)

  • @KJ-pu8dw
    @KJ-pu8dw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a little gem giga Chad found. You know she loves you when she threatens to have you deported.

  • @genocidemoose9293
    @genocidemoose9293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That woman will continue to be a problem in his life for as long as he is playing daddy to this little girl. She’s going to torture him with this little girl and he’s going to torture himself by watching daddy‘s little girl act like her mother with all the issues. 🗣That baby is not yours it’s time to realize you got a get out of hell free card and run for your life‼️

  • @alexpatriot8768
    @alexpatriot8768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Leave her and leave the country, go start a new life and career in a former British colony like Canada or Australia, maybe even the UK itself. There are plenty of opportunities there too.

    • @smugwise
      @smugwise 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      UAE is also a good place and it was also a British colony.

  • @captain77ga
    @captain77ga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just finished your book! Great read

  • @alexfrefrickson1024
    @alexfrefrickson1024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The pedestal of “playmate” makes it feel like you’ve really achieved something. I can understand why when he was young he ignored all the intuition, but damn. Feel sorry for this guy.

    • @davidpierce9949
      @davidpierce9949 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feel sorry? Dude married this chic after 3 months!! Cmon, he was asking for it

  • @kurt6410
    @kurt6410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This video gave me a great idea. I'm going to create a catfish dating profile of a hot 31 year old woman and say im twice divorced with multiple kids, with multiple tattoos, recently bankrupted with BPD and daddy issues and just see how much interest I get

    • @endibobey
      @endibobey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Any results? Update pls.

    • @losfromla1480
      @losfromla1480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tons of interest no doubt, depending on the looks. I'd hit it but I'm not on dating sites cause I get filtered out.

    • @BangBang-hk4rg
      @BangBang-hk4rg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’ll probably get more messages than you even have time to answer!

    • @rapsheets4993
      @rapsheets4993 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would still hit it. Just wouldn't date

    • @MrBirgerB
      @MrBirgerB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With a good picture, the majority of men would go for her.

  • @wesleyrowland344
    @wesleyrowland344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If he continues the relationship with the daughter one day she will use the "your not my father you can't tell me what to do"

  • @mikemusgrove9654
    @mikemusgrove9654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Get the Unplugged Alpha.
    I finished the Audible before my paperback arrived.

  • @maikp5505
    @maikp5505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I met a girl last weekend, everything seemed fine but when she told me she just divorced and has 4 kids, that’s when I ghosted her.

  • @eliseo.quincy
    @eliseo.quincy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “More red flags than a Chinese communist parade”!! Lmao 🤣 fucking CLASSIC!!!

  • @zawadix9574
    @zawadix9574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very smart advice

  • @voltazarus1065
    @voltazarus1065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    why is he being called Chad when he’s a blue pilled man running headfirst into a red flag parade.

  • @whoknows6722
    @whoknows6722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this guy. Discovered a TH-cam gem. Learning more everyday. Thank you for your content sir from UK 🙏🏼❤️

  • @johnstephens6052
    @johnstephens6052 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've come to love this channel!!! It cheers me up...

  • @rickyaz8640
    @rickyaz8640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Chads are people too. Apparently they don’t have the common sense of a donkey but bow down to their hardships

  • @geekaleek
    @geekaleek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hear "Borderline Personality Disorder", or see any BPD traits. PLUS DADDY ISSUES? PLEASE RUN! WE SHOULD ALL RUN! DON'T LOOK BACK.

    • @tomgabriel5150
      @tomgabriel5150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly..run as fast and far as you can. Those poor 4 kids will have issues as well.

  • @michaelmatondo8469
    @michaelmatondo8469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I felt those red flags through my phone! Had to pause the video and breath!

  • @lestendsouza9395
    @lestendsouza9395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be prepared to listen these words when she hits puberty"You are not my father. Stop acting like one"

  • @rolfjohansen5376
    @rolfjohansen5376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    that borderline woman with 4 kids ... been there , well almost , I accidently met her X , he told that the same day they should move in together in a new flat, she had met a new flame and ordered the guys from moving company to halt and just place his stuff outside the on the pavement and ended the relationship with him. I took a rethink and found out that if I looked closely there were red-flags from here to the moon..... it was my responsibility to look for them, and I initially failed

  • @J.B.1982
    @J.B.1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Rough spot. Sounds like he has some serious deeper work to do, matching up with someone that wounded.
    As far as the child. Walking away from the child will ultimately be more damaging for the child, at least at this age. When the child is a little older, she’ll understand and you can step away more easily if that feels right. And he can still have another child of his own, I believe.
    I would be concerned about the crazy woman in the picture who’ll just do more damage over and over.

  • @stephenkimmel9745
    @stephenkimmel9745 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rich, I always enjoy your videos, but this one had the most comedy that I have heard and seen so far. Keep up the good work!

  • @ozanoutcast
    @ozanoutcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looks like being deported was better than staying with her. 😭😢😥😓

  • @dbackhusker
    @dbackhusker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The 7 year old little girl calls him Daddy, she knows him as such. Not long ago, he thought he was her Dad, nothing has to change. He should accept her as his own and be a Daddy FOR HIS OWN SAKE. Being a father is the best thing I ever did. Yes, my daughter was a sweetie at 7 and became difficult at 14, but that’s part of it. By the time she was 16, the hardest part was over, and now she’s almost 40 and we’re as close as ever. Similar story with my son, it’s part of life. If he can get over his ex’s bad behavior without blaming an innocent child, he’ll never regret being a father. Hell, he’ll probably shell out tens of thousands on her wedding and be happy to do so!

  • @yuefei8711
    @yuefei8711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is there any laws incriminating paternity fraud?

  • @mikerude5073
    @mikerude5073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm at 1_54 in and thinking "don't walk kid, RUN"

  • @rickybobby421
    @rickybobby421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy girl had a laundry list of red flags!!! Have mercy.

  • @artmeditationvista1526
    @artmeditationvista1526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As long as he's happy fathering the girl, and the mother isn't using her to manipulate him, he'll be fine. But he needs to know the child may become a pawn by the mother at some point, so he has to be prepared for the relationship to end. Love the child in the moment and be grateful for any constructiveness that occurs. And the same risks occur with a blood relation child. Toxic women can destroy any relationship men have with young, naive kids/young adults.

    • @cdixon5150
      @cdixon5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I say cut bait . It’s just not a situation that will end well. Plus why should he use his finances to raise a child that’s not his? Terrible for the little girl though she’ll be heartbroken but that’s in her pos mom. Man some women out there are just low life street walkers with not one stitch of decency.

  • @PhantomFilmAustralia
    @PhantomFilmAustralia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    If a woman speaks negatively about a former man, and revealing next to no positive attributes, it's begs the question of her life choices and what characters she spreads her legs for.

    • @drjekyll5300
      @drjekyll5300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She's projecting her nastiness on the exes women project a lot, a way for them to escape the responsability

    • @Tomsmus
      @Tomsmus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I made this mistake. Thinking that I'm noting like the ex she described. Felt she would be better. So many red flags to start with but again, I'm not like the ex. Well the same thing happened to me that she did to her ex husband and the ex before that. She belongs to the streets. I chose to saw reality better than it was. She would have best been a sex playmate. Dial back the attachments guys.

    • @andrzejgoota6478
      @andrzejgoota6478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a small romance with Young Mother in separation, during divorce process. IT was funny experience when I said to her: Come back to husband, you already have the son with this man. I gave her a 3 weeks of rollercoaster and what happens? When I cut contact, she call me an actor, but not blocked me finally, I understand the second red flag when I saw her divorced mom. After this, I still clearly open eyes when I go even fo one night stand.

  • @SebastianGarcia-go4tx
    @SebastianGarcia-go4tx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the wisdom

  • @universal728-
    @universal728- 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to this with my mom, she loves it !

  • @illwitness
    @illwitness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Four minutes in and this is worse than any horror film you could ever watch.

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    he checked every mistake in the book

  • @jonathanhill2751
    @jonathanhill2751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Rich

  • @djm9276
    @djm9276 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your channel !

  • @sydneyloli5849
    @sydneyloli5849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My bros, listening to Rich and other men in the same sphere has blessed my dating life and my sanity.
    My ex fiance ripped me apart. Long sad story and 15 years later, I'm finally free! Keep listening to this man but it is not enough that you listen. Take action! Gather your courage, have faith in yourselves and make actions. Failure is also the absolute best teacher. Much love broz, keep ki king goals and take life by her hair and own that bitch. ✊🖖🙏

  • @suxel12
    @suxel12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My daughter is 6 and she's the sweetest little creature on the earth. Totally agree Rich, I'd crawl over broken glass for her

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ten years later she will be screwing the football team and the dealers to get her fix.

    • @rolendas
      @rolendas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TomNook. Not with the good teachings. And strong father figure.

    • @user-oo6vr1ky5f
      @user-oo6vr1ky5f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TomNook. dude just shut up this is a 6 year old

    • @anniexo7453
      @anniexo7453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TomNook. why do you hate women lol

    • @harvestingseason2725
      @harvestingseason2725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Tom Nook 👈and this kids is the kind of red-piller you don't want to be

  • @drjohnsonhungwell5115
    @drjohnsonhungwell5115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many red flags a bull wouldn't know where to charge to.

  • @gumbie007
    @gumbie007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew this would go south the second he says, “It gets worse….” 😒 🤦‍♂️

  • @Allergic2broke
    @Allergic2broke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Maybe some people have no intuition 🤔

  • @georgeaswipe5031
    @georgeaswipe5031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This guy’s chief concern in the divorce is “paternity by estoppel”. A guy may be held to be the “father” of a mimor child if he has assumed and created a parental relationship with a minor child. The specifics vary depending on the state, but some of the most common factors are the length of time, holding the minor child out to the public (i.e. calling the child yours to other people) as being your child, and living together. The fact that the mother lied about the paternity of the child typically does not defeat the claim because the court focuses on the best interests of the child not the mother’s misconduct. That is how a guy can be stuck paying child support for a kid that is not his.

  • @MatthewsteelSmith
    @MatthewsteelSmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Rich for all your great wisdom !I’m super skeptical about dating females that work in bars , wondering your input if you can throw it in one of your future chats would be awesome.

  • @gregwadowski2957
    @gregwadowski2957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy make my train wreck looks not that bed.... his gotta walk a way asap. Still young and still can turn things around. Best of good luck

  • @muninnsmith7958
    @muninnsmith7958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'd love to play chess vs you in person someday while we discuss... anything. I notice the board in the background; mine is glass.

  • @joshuadspeer
    @joshuadspeer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I tried to connect with my father as an adult to see for myself what kind of man he was, but he turned out to be exactly what my mother said he was. Not the slightest bit interested in being part of my life. The funny thing is, though, she's the female version of that. She walked away from both of her kids as teenagers because we got in the way of her precious career as a.... wait for it.... hardware store manager. At least my father built several very profitable businesses from the ground up. 😂😂

    • @cdixon5150
      @cdixon5150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No one deserves two shit parents josh I hope your life is great anyway.

    • @sunflowerrayne6026
      @sunflowerrayne6026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that. I hope your in a better place in life that doesn't cause you to dwell on your past. I was raised in the house with 2 shit parents as well.

  • @taymazpourhosseini7031
    @taymazpourhosseini7031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, not even gigachad is safe.