Gotta tidy up before the Scrutiny Squad arrives

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  • This video is just for fun. I don't actually believe you have to have a perfectly clean home for company. I just used the excuse of company coming over to clean some of the neglected areas of my home in addition to some regular cleaning.
    Also, I support and love our law enforcement. Don't let my sarcasm fool you. ;)
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  • @lillypatience
    @lillypatience 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +56

    People are silly! As if you would disrespect your hubby's friends!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Right?! 🤭

    • @lisathurston8265
      @lisathurston8265 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      *Snarky comment* As if, OMG Like totally Right! For Sure! (Valley Girl Tone) *For real Comment* LOL I feel that people can take things so literally. Can peeps lighten up a bit? Man! I feel we lost their sense of humor. Bonnie, I LOVE THE HUMOR! Trolls will be trolls. Just ignore those comments.

    • @Ruth58969
      @Ruth58969 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@lisathurston8265" I feel that people can take things so literally." In fairness...a lot of us are autistic and is a trait. I didn't realise Bonny was joking but fortunately I kept quiet.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @Ruth58969 Yes, I probably should have remembered a lot of my fellow autistic people out there likely did take it seriously at first. I sometimes forget that that is a common autistic trait because it's definitely one that I don't have and one of the reasons I thought there was no way I could be autistic. That's why when Mack said he was autistic but is sarcastic like 80% of the time, I began to wonder a little bit more. After I got my autism diagnosis, I actually looked up why some people with autism don't understand sarcasm while others seem to speak almost nothing but sarcasm and it's apparently very common in level 1 autism to be able to understand sarcasm very well. That being said, there are things I take very literally or I have a hard time parsing out what people mean. That may have more to do with the English language having so many words that have double meanings, though. Anyway, it's just interesting the different ways we are all wired. Hopefully, people will gradually learn that I can be pretty sarcastic a lot of the time, just like people figured that out with Mack and know that's just what they are going to get from him.😁

    • @titab
      @titab 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Maybe a t-shirt with "it's called autistic sarcasm" would come in handy 😅

  • @maureenrene6344
    @maureenrene6344 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    Bonnie don't you know that law enforcement loves to dust for prints. You should save your dust for them. 😊

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I got rid of the evidence! 😁There have been a few people who have made some great jokes about this video and now I'm thinking of all of the fun things that I could have done different to bring out the law enforcement/crime scene type of stuff in a fun way. Now I want to redo this whole thing...😄🤔

    • @maureenrene6344
      @maureenrene6344 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You should! It would be so funny!

    • @a.t.6535
      @a.t.6535 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp A bathroom cleanup video done like a crime scene would be hilarious! "The perp fled the scene of the crime leaving a trail of dirty towels and toothpaste splatters [Exhibit A]" 🤣

    • @malene1005
      @malene1005 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      The blood on the floor wasn’t really from your husband 😉😂

    • @ForbiddenChocolate
      @ForbiddenChocolate 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@malene1005 or was it?
      🧐🤔 😇

  • @tabbycat4606
    @tabbycat4606 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    Oh my goodness. People need to take a chill pill. 😮

    • @brenbren9756
      @brenbren9756 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      💯

    • @_Desiree
      @_Desiree 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      agreed!!! everyone is so ready for a fight and a freak out!

  • @kathydumas2745
    @kathydumas2745 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Well, I get your humor 🤣 No apologies needed, dear one!

  • @RoseofSharon3
    @RoseofSharon3 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Oh Bonnie I’m so sorry. I got your sarcasm. I love sarcastic humor. Please don’t take that real personal. You are so stinking sweet.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I didn't take it personal at all. I was just a little worried that maybe too many people were thinking I was serious and I definitely didn't want people to think that I thought law enforcement people are really that judgmental. In hindsight, I probably should have just left up the original video and let people be offended who were offended because, if I didn't offend them in this one, I surely will in some future video I put out because I can be very sarcastic. I guess better to get them off my Channel at this point than to drag it out... haha!

    • @danoyse8233
      @danoyse8233 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Rose did you really call Bonnie stinking?😂

  • @thriftytxmom
    @thriftytxmom 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    You will always have THOSE people, they are just unhappy and look to make others feel the same way! Great video and I enjoy seeing someone with a sense of humor.

  • @cynthiablodgett1882
    @cynthiablodgett1882 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    We live sarcasm. Great job. Love your home. My only suggestion is to dust first, vacuum last.

  • @rhondalockrey9592
    @rhondalockrey9592 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I broke out laughing when you said they were going to break out their black lights to see your dust lol My sister was a cop & her hubby they would of laughed. Good video I love your remodel of the fireplace I have no design skills!

  • @user-yn7on7ou8n
    @user-yn7on7ou8n 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Hahaha lol, 😂 I hope you have a Happy Mother's Day!!! 🌹

  • @orlahastings4563
    @orlahastings4563 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    You have a beautiful home Bonnie and I am seriously impressed with your woodworking skills, kudos to you. And definitely your remodelling of the fireplace is by far the better of the two! I must admit we have gradually decluttered a lot of our decor sitting out on open shelves and it makes dusting much easier and quicker. This was a lovely video, thank you. ❤😘

  • @rocky6055
    @rocky6055 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Happy Mother's Day lady! (I am here for the snark) I love the fireplace makeover. You have some amazing building talents too

  • @brendakelly6965
    @brendakelly6965 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Love the remodel of the fireplace and the signs you made. ❤

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Good morning 🌄 blessings, happy mother's day 💐

  • @eyrunsigrunardottir6977
    @eyrunsigrunardottir6977 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    How cool is it that you just build your furniture! I am so impressed 🤩

  • @sanditamlin8345
    @sanditamlin8345 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I love the remodel version of the fireplace best!

  • @CountessKek
    @CountessKek 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Lol so fun!
    Here's how i feel about decor- 1- the more eclectic the better, 2- if you like or love your different decor, who cares?! ❤❤

  • @ljhoneywell
    @ljhoneywell 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Omg.. It was clear you were joking!! Good grief. Ignore all of them and have a Happy Mother's Day!❤

  • @user-sz4hz1lj5u
    @user-sz4hz1lj5u 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I got the biggest kick out of this video! “Those judgmental law enforcement,” they’ll use black lights to look for dust!” OMG! What a hoot! I hope Mack sees this, because he will definitely appreciate your fluency in sarcasm! Also, the references to Lonesome Dove. A long ago boyfriend loved LD. We read the book together and watched the miniseries. I hadn’t thought about it in many years. Thanks for the reminder! Your woodworking skills are exceptional! Great, fun video! Thanks!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I told Mack that if it was him who put this video out, no one would have batted an eye. I'm not sure people know how sarcastic I am yet. Yes, I can be serious when I'm talking about the people I help and the things they struggle with, but this is more like how I am most of the time. I'm almost never serious about anything. People will learn how sarcastic I am...or they'll leave my channel, and that's okay because I know my humor isn't for everyone. I'm done catering to those who don't "approve" of my humor. Those who are easily offended will eventually be offended by something else I say, so I guess better to let them find another channel that suits their (very boring, IMHO) personality now than to drag it out. LOL!

  • @sarahwilks2413
    @sarahwilks2413 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Lol I'm British - sarcasm is our second language! Totally got you Bonnie and had to giggle because it was like you've been reading my mind every time I have visitors, probably because I had a very judgemental step grandparent who would run her fingers over the furniture and tut every time she visited - as it was my job to polish the furniture I was made to feel a total failure if there was any dust anywhere and had to deal with the aftermath once the visit was over. I used to take great delight in taking her fur coat upstairs to put on the bed and encourage my cat onto it during flea season. But that's enough of my childhood trauma lol. Honestly Bonnie the things you were saying were obviously satirical but I bet a lot of viewers can relate. Hands up if you've ever apologised about the state of your home even if you spent the last hour frantically getting it something like? I expect there's a lot of hands up right now. Your home looks homely and very comfy and if I'm really honest it was kind of refreshing to see a top notch cleaning channel with an honest layer of dust (my layers thicker then yours btw lol I hate dusting!) on the furniture, I really hate those channels that claim their homes are so messy yet there isn't a speck of dust to be seen. You're keeping it real Bonnie and funny especially with that deadpan expression when you were talking about your husband's judgy fellow law enforcement team - I bet nothing phases them dirtwise lol. Sending very dusty hugs xxx

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I gladly accept your very dusty hugs and I'm sending them right back to you. I'm sorry you were made to feel like a failure over not having things perfectly dusted. One of the very first people I helped had a lot of trauma from her childhood over her chores and getting the belt if it wasn't done right. It's so sad to me that some people think the state of their home is more important than loving your child/grandchild and making them feel valued as they are and not for what they do or don't do. I do love your revenge tactics...LOL! That makes me giddy to think about...haha! I just love you, Sarah!😘😊

  • @christysolange
    @christysolange 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    People seriously look for any reason to be offended about something. Keep doing you, Bonnie, I'll be here rooting you on. Btw, I thought that the rotating camera shot was pretty cool in the living room. 😊

  • @dukkieb
    @dukkieb 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love sarcasm / dry humor! Some people just don’t know that women have sarcastic dry humor as well. Love seeing you have a lived in house too. You are awesome!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So true! Mine and my daughter's relationship is about 80% sarcasm. It's our love language...LOL!

  • @CrazyCatLady-dx8uj
    @CrazyCatLady-dx8uj 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You decorate your home how you want it!! LEO have a rough job and a sense of humor and sarcasm is a part of the job to deal with it. I know first hand!! My son was an LEO and I have many friends that are too. It’s how to deal with a high stress level job! You have me cracking up and I’m sure your husband and coworkers are too!! 🤗

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And that's exactly why I thought there was no way anyone would have taken me seriously. In hindsight, I should have just left up my original video and let those people be offended because I'm guessing they probably don't really understand that type of sarcastic humor and are easily offended, so I probably should have just let those people leave my channel because I'm sure, if I didn't offend them in this one, I will in a future video and it's better to let them go now. Lol! Yeah, sarcasm is a great way to get through rough jobs like law enforcement officers have, but also just a fun way to live life because it's too short to be serious all the time. I can definitely be serious, but sarcasm is my love language.😄

    • @CrazyCatLady-dx8uj
      @CrazyCatLady-dx8uj 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp exactly! I joke around with my son and LEO I know. We have a warped sense of humor! Don’t worry about the ones who don’t get it!! I served in the Army and believe me, we were all 🦇 💩 crazy with the things we came up with!! 😂🤣

  • @zerocasualteas
    @zerocasualteas 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are awesome, Bonnie! I loved the original & I love your sense of humor & fun! 🎉Keep being awesome!! 😎 ❤

  • @ashoalcraft4404
    @ashoalcraft4404 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    When I struggled with keeping my place clean in my 20s, one joke I'd tell myself for motivation was that if something happened to me, I needed to make sure the cops didn't think my place was ransacked. I imagined Gil Grissom from CSI solving the case when he realized I was just a slob. I think this video is great. Quick, let's all clean up before the cops get here!

  • @---------------------------...
    @---------------------------... 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That jet cleaning brush looks effective at the job 👍
    Happy mother's day to you and your mom! 😊

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It really is! I love that set of detailing brushes along with those skinny ones I was using. Between those two sets, I can get about every nook and cranny scrubbed.😁

  • @maryrichardson6205
    @maryrichardson6205 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’ve got dry, deadpan humor that I love. Seriously my brother would come over and pretend to stretch but really he would be feeling the top of the door casing for dust. One day my mom couldn’t find anything to clean while I was out and she took apart my stove. Yes she found the object of her desire. I just said thank you. As a child I was notoriously messy but when I cleaned I cleaned thoroughly. They tried to mold me after my perfect sister but she was under so much pressure and I think never got any down time like hobbies or pets. Not the life for me. She eventually, after 3 failed marriages found herself and pleases herself so that is good. You seem to have a well rounded life. I am always amazed at some of my interests and accomplishments when I was younger. Now I am 72 and it is all about fun with my granddaughter.🥰thank you for this video.😘

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I can see myself doing that when my kids get married.. coming over and just finding something to clean. I have never expected them to be as clean as I am, though. I realize it is a very odd obsession. I just want them to know enough that there spouses can't say I didn't teach them how to clean, but as long as they know how and are responsible for their own rooms, I'm happy to do most of the cleaning around here and they know that. Ask for well-rounded, I would say more well-ovalled 😅 because I have a lot of different interests, but I'm not great at balancing those with some of the things that I should be focusing my time on. I'm still trying to figure that out.😁❤️

  • @josephdaly2015
    @josephdaly2015 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Omg you are so talented. The fireplace is beautiful. No evidence left in this house 🤭😂🤭 Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪🙏💐

  • @nommh
    @nommh 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Cleaning so that people will not find out that you actually LIVE in your home is such a wonderful and sadly accurate description

  • @Walkyria2030Vlog
    @Walkyria2030Vlog 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    😊 Happy Mother's Day to all 🇨🇷 Best regards from Costa Rica 🇨🇷

  • @NewJerseyLaw
    @NewJerseyLaw 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You are terrific!!! Love the sarcasm. Your fireplace upgrade is spectacular. You are so handy. Do NOT be annoyed w/me: you could do without the ENTIRE side table the makes your walkway alongside the stairs claustrophobic. Your mind might calm down if you calmed down your environment.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree with you about the side table in the hallway. I actually built it to go behind our old couch and it worked perfectly there. When we got our new couch, we actually placed it there temporarily and then it ended up just staying there.😄 Since I built it, it was a little harder to let go, but I think I'm ready to get rid of it because it is a little bit annoying to have in the middle of the hallway.

  • @s-potter
    @s-potter 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You don’t need to apologize! People are nuts, I can’t believe you got that much scrutiny - it was pretty obvious you were joking.. anyways, Happy Mother’s Day!

  • @DonnaStocking
    @DonnaStocking 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don't enjoy dusting either. We must be related.😂😅😊

  • @veronicapace7198
    @veronicapace7198 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My hubby takes things literally. If I say it's a square box, it better not be rectangle. lol I enjoy sarcasm but it has blown up on me in social media. You have a wonderful home.

  • @aprilhoover3481
    @aprilhoover3481 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I feel you about not quite loving your decorations anymore. I call that "decor fatigue", where you're just tired of looking at the same stuff year after year. Sometimes you just need a reset.
    Decor fatigue hit me hard one day so I stripped away *all* the tired old wall art and tchotchke. I slowly redecorated with a few new pieces. Some walls and surfaces are still empty and I like it that way. So much quieter. Feels like a brand new house!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes! "Decor fatigue." Perfect way to describe it! I recently stripped down my office walls of all of my decor and have yet to redecorate, but I will get there. Just trying to decide if I want to repaint or just do touch-ups. I get a little out of control when I start redoing stuff in my house because one room becomes two, and so on. Am I ready for that? Actually, yes. But, do I have the time for that...hmmm...I'll have to think about how to squeeze this in.🤔

  • @a.t.6535
    @a.t.6535 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I saved this video to relax to while working in the morning, then had to laugh at the absurdity of finding other people working their butts off to be my coffee break relaxation background 😂 Love the "for the purposes of this video, let's pretend this worked really well". Expectations vs reality, indeed!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I had someone send me a meme that said "Why do my kids love watching videos of other people playing video games? It's so weird. Just play the game yourself." --Me, as I settle in to watch 14 reels of a woman mopping her floor. 😂😂😂

    • @a.t.6535
      @a.t.6535 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 🤣🤣 Honestly, I'm both! There are some games I physically can't play, but at least I can get the story if someone else is playing it. And cleaning videos... you're all my emotional support moppers, let me have the satisfaction of a good clean with none of the work, okay?! 😆

  • @lindaandersen3289
    @lindaandersen3289 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your sense of humor! Our family is the same way. Very dry and some wouldn’t get it either! You are quite the carpenter♥️

  • @pamcarnes7932
    @pamcarnes7932 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I said it in the first video, and I’ll say it again here…love the series Lonesome Dove! ❤️
    Also, people need to find their sense of humor! I love your sense of humor! Happy Mother’s Day!

  • @thek9girl1017
    @thek9girl1017 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love your sarcasm. And your taste in decor.

  • @veronicapace7198
    @veronicapace7198 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The crevice tools are worth their weight in gold yet cost less than $6.00!
    Thank you! I put one in each bathroom and kitchen. Yes, you can teach an old dog new tricks! lol Blessings!

  • @artcreationsbydar
    @artcreationsbydar 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The act of humour has just disintegrated during and after Covid! No one , well mostly no one has a sense of humour anymore! It is crazy! I am a person who jokes all the time! If I can make someone laugh, I have done my job for the day! People have lost the fun side of life and it is very sad! Please don’t lose yours! I love your videos and your sense of humour! ❤

  • @Lilyandmoomin
    @Lilyandmoomin 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Even I understood that you where joking about how forensic, or not your husband’s friends were even on there time off…. Der. I love sarcasm. It’s a British pastime lol 😂
    I loved the remake of the fireplace. Much more homely.
    I used to do cleaning as a job for many years, and I hated polishing. My own and my customers homes….. it’s dang boring…..
    Baseboards we call those skirting boards in the uk. But if you have a hose on your vacuum it’s so easy to just put the brush head attachment on the hose of your vacuum cleaner an suck all that dust and dander up.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I love that sarcasm is a "British pastime." LOL! I've never really realized that until several of my UK subs started saying something to that effect and I guess now that I think about it, y'all are pretty sarcastic and you have the best phrases. I love it!

  • @_Desiree
    @_Desiree 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And, I'm sure you don't need me, a stranger to say, but... absolutely beautiful home! I think you guys have done a great job with it. wow!

  • @koc4787
    @koc4787 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I totally get your humor. It's like I'm with family! Love your videos!!!

  • @asumner1959
    @asumner1959 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    People are just weird. I guessed that you were joking about the law enforcement friends coming round, it was just a bit of humour!
    I'm glad to see you're just as normal as most of us when it comes to dusting. I only dust when I see it. There's just not enough hours in the day to do everything we need to and be the perfect housekeeper too.
    Just love watching your videos x

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Definitely not enough time to do it all. Way more fun and important things...like helping someone else clean their home. 😄

  • @michellesimpson6734
    @michellesimpson6734 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Bonnie
    Thank you for cleaning motivation. Thank you for sharing. ❤

  • @michellemohlman
    @michellemohlman 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I LOVE how you decorate! Also, I totally knew you were kidding in the beginning and I got a good chuckle 😂. Hello from Lehi, btw. 😊

  • @sophiegolden
    @sophiegolden 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Please delete them, and don't take attention to their bs, or they are continuing to bully you. I m not from us, so I didn't understand the joke. And they are others people from others countries also. But we love you and your videos... Just block them 😊❤

  • @lmrader85
    @lmrader85 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂 the dust bunny police 😂

  • @bernicehoggsfav
    @bernicehoggsfav 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    OMG!!! The sign from Lonesome Dove and the pigs!!! Fabulous! Your husband is so lucky!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah, we might be the only people in the world with two stuffed pigs in our front room.😅 I still can't believe I allowed that. 🤔😋

  • @sharonsomers5513
    @sharonsomers5513 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the fireplace you did. That is more my style. I like your humor.

  • @joannevans2505
    @joannevans2505 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I loved both the book and the mini-series of Lonesome Dove!!

  • @OShaughnessysPub
    @OShaughnessysPub 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Here for all the snarkiness you have!!! Bring it👏🏻🤣🤗

  • @amybone950
    @amybone950 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You have a beautiful home Bonnie, and you are so good at making things! ❤

  • @bekind5019
    @bekind5019 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Life is too short to clean all the decor, I got rid of them, now I only have stuff that serves me or a have a purpose. I recommend all of you do the same, I got my peace of mind back. You are a very good cleaner by the way. ❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Absolutely agree. I am working on decluttering a lot of my stuff in between all the other things I have going on. I did end up getting rid of a couple of things from that shelf, but there is definitely a lot more I'd like to get rid of.

  • @MrsJax304
    @MrsJax304 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Your builds are fantastic. And i appreciate your sarcasm

  • @user-vo8zq3iz2o
    @user-vo8zq3iz2o 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video. Lots of good information 😊

  • @robinbriggs4976
    @robinbriggs4976 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What ever makes you happy!

  • @suewright984
    @suewright984 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I always say stuff needs doing, but company is the impetus for doing it right now.

  • @laurastout3556
    @laurastout3556 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You had me busting up!

  • @Its_Ev
    @Its_Ev 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lonesome dove!! The best!

  • @JustJ-Me
    @JustJ-Me 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I wondered what happened. I'm so sorry someone didn't understand your sarcasm. I thought I was going crazy trying to find the video again and get back to watching.
    In any case, I'll finish this video. I loved what I saw so far. Thanks for showing your decor and all that.
    Happy Mothers Day to you. 💜 💐

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s a cool view you can get from so high up and wide and it moves ❤

  • @colettenewell4634
    @colettenewell4634 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like your use of the flooring. It made a really nice background. Also you are really handy. I wouldn’t know where to start. Not handy that way at all.

  • @rebeccaashton5390
    @rebeccaashton5390 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So good to see you on Mothers Day. I hope you had a lovely one.

  • @teresatillotson5561
    @teresatillotson5561 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sarcasm is one of my middle names. I love your style, the one on the right for sure. Lori is so cute and definitely had no care in the world. I didn't know the cover comes off for the jetted tub, I have one too, I don't even want to know what it looks like😳. The kids looked so adorable in their western attire😊 they grow up to fast.

  • @gwright0121
    @gwright0121 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is hilarious! We have cop friends that visit and I tell them if their not in uniform their opinion doesn’t count 😂

  • @user-sd8it3gh2w
    @user-sd8it3gh2w 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the toilet bowl cleaner tip.

  • @christysolange
    @christysolange 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awww your kids are so cute and those boots are adorable.

  • @juliewright1895
    @juliewright1895 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You’re awesome!!

  • @leannekirk74
    @leannekirk74 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Another superb video, thanks for sharing your home with us. Your place looks so cosy and I love the theme. I also love the honest layer of dust and dog hair! I can't really understand why anyone would be offended by you in any way but I think it's par for the course unfortunately. There are folk who delight in findiing fault. The rest of us find your videos uplifting and refreshing. And oh my goodness I'm really jealous of your woodworking talents. You inspire me to be more courageous and creative. ❤

    • @cat-mum-Jules
      @cat-mum-Jules 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree with everything you said 👍😀

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks so much! 😊Yes, get creative! That's the best part of being alive is getting creative and just knowing that whatever you make is your own and you learn a little something each time. Plus, with TH-cam, you have so many great teachers for pretty much anything you want to learn. The possibilities are endless!🤗

    • @leannekirk74
      @leannekirk74 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp challenge accepted 😁

  • @paulaharris4667
    @paulaharris4667 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I watched the video yesterday and I got it right off you were funny! I watched this one too! 🤗👍🏼❤️

  • @mu5tard610
    @mu5tard610 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Us English folks watching literally invented sarcasm 😉 So we get ya!!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I've heard that from a couple other of my UK peeps. I guess that's why I love you guys so much!!

  • @MacsGoldenLife
    @MacsGoldenLife 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OMG! I nearly fell out of my chair. My favorite book is Lonesome Dove. It is a Pulitzer Prize winner. I’m glad you didn’t name your son Gus as I DID name my son Augustus and have always called him Gus. What an amazing coincidence.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      NO WAY!!! That is hilarious! I'm sure I could have gotten used to it if we had and it really would have gone well with our last name (Ashdown), but then I suggested Tristan after Brad Pitt's character in Legends of the Fall and that felt right. But that is a crazy coincidence to have found someone out there with a son named after one of our very favorite characters. I had no idea there were so many people out there who love Lonesome Dove as much as we do. I'm always explaining the two pigs in our front room to company because most people we know have never read the book or seen the miniseries. When those pigs showed up in the mail, I about died. I was thinking maybe we had taken it too far at that point. I guarantee no one else has two pigs in their front room unless their front room is a play room for kids. 🤔😅

  • @jenniferg9641
    @jenniferg9641 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I was wondering what happened I came on TH-cam last night and thought I saw you put out a video so I was about to watch it then it was gone. Sorry you had to deal with that!
    Oh my Dad loves that miniseries! He would love that room!❤

  • @lisbethkelsey6622
    @lisbethkelsey6622 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sorry you had to work twice as hard for this one. I enjoyed the first video immensely. Happy mother's Day!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      All I did was added a comment at the beginning that I'm being sarcastic and have a really dumb sense of humor. Other than that, I didn't change a thing with the video, so it wasn't that big a deal. However, I am wishing I had just left it as is and let those people be offended because it just weeds those people out who are easily offended and don't understand my sarcastic humor. Oh well. What's done is done. I hope you had a happy Mother's Day as well!

  • @Rachel-ul8et
    @Rachel-ul8et 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Less is more when you don’t enjoy dusting. Get rid of 20-30% of the decorations and it will still look great

  • @gregpendrey6711
    @gregpendrey6711 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    They are dumb. You are awesome. Do not react. Block their comments if you want. You can explain if you want. Obviously people care enough to complain, they are your captives. Now. If you start bring puppies on a walk to the gravel pit.?... Happy Mother's Day 🌹 ❤️ , G😎

  • @3TXSisters
    @3TXSisters 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😄😄😄 Too funny!

  • @cappysue
    @cappysue 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People being mad are just people sitting around looking for something to get mad about. I loathe Ricky Schroder but I would never stop to yell at you for liking a movie. So what if you like something I do not. It is a free world and you are providing free content to people. I appreciate you sharing your videos and hope you just ignore that nonsense.

  • @jemreandeau3583
    @jemreandeau3583 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for taking us along. I also hate my jetted tub, those little jets are always dirty. I never use it either. ❤

  • @sarahrune5318
    @sarahrune5318 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I got to the part where you were cleaning the tub jets and it vanished…..I figured something like this happened. People get far too bent up over nothing.

  • @ladyicondraco
    @ladyicondraco 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I watched it the first time, and will watch the re-upload!

  • @cziegle3794
    @cziegle3794 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What you do in your own home is nobody else's business. I personally think that your fireplace shelving area looks cool, but in my home I would choose the old design because the new one you made would be too busy for my brain, plus we live in the woods and have spiders, so I need to be able to see to handle any 🕷 or 🐛

  • @suewright984
    @suewright984 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I ❤ Softscrub!

  • @frealafgb
    @frealafgb 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yay dust prints! 😂 just like my house. I also hate dusting. Would prefer to scrub the bathroom than dust.
    You have a beautiful home ❤
    I understood the humour, I'm autistic too (don't have a formal diagnosis though)

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Your kids are so cute!!!!!!

  • @JudithBerman
    @JudithBerman 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your woodwork is impressive.

  • @danexj69
    @danexj69 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💕

  • @margiebeeb2836
    @margiebeeb2836 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My son is in law enforcement, works for NYPD 😊

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wow...he has my full respect. That would be a tough place to be an LEO! God bless him!

  • @marie_84
    @marie_84 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ah...that's nothing......imagine you would have friends over, who own a cleaning company.....now THAT should scare you for life! 🥶😂🤣😂🤣

    • @marie_84
      @marie_84 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Could be worse, right? 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's when you just act like you have no idea how to clean and tell them to show you. Bam! Clean house, and you didn't even have to lift a finger. 😁

  • @deetee8100
    @deetee8100 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A friend of mine did use McCrae as her son’s middle name-after the series.

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m going to guess your decor is John Wayne? I knew immediately even without your intro disclaimer that you were kidding. Your sense of humor isn’t dumb! It’s just you ❤I love it!!
    I got it wrong 😂

  • @beckyb1797
    @beckyb1797 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When you were showing the fluff under your couch I wondered does she have a golden retriever cause that’s what my dog fluff mess looks like at my house!😂😂😂 And then I saw your sweet dog and had to subscribe …anyone who has a golden has to be a good person because goldens know!☺️ Ha! My hubby is from TX also ….we live in the Midwest and have all the TX longhorn stuff. I guess you can never take the TX out of a boy!😂

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That might be the best reason to subscribe, ever. 😅Someone else subscribed because they had a corgi named Bonnie. We're all about the dogs.😊
      Nope, the Texas never leaves the boy. 🤷‍♀️❤️

  • @user-jd2pq4zg7r
    @user-jd2pq4zg7r 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are very motivating and i get you. Just be you. Don't worry what others say.🎉❤

  • @lovecleaningslay
    @lovecleaningslay 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love your cleaning video's 😊

  • @evaapple255
    @evaapple255 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    are sure about Lori ? she looks more like the corps those officers are coming for - oh no . she is not quite dead, she moved

  • @carolynsimone8647
    @carolynsimone8647 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Watched this yesterday...🥰🥰

  • @bernicehoggsfav
    @bernicehoggsfav 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lonesome Dove baby!!!! Robert Duvall as Augustus was probably the best casting of an actor ever!!! I can really geek out over it.
    Let me add, the western decor really fits your home.
    Many people are humorless. Sad you feel you have to edit for the Karens of the world.
    Love your content!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Absolutely! Robert Duvall has even said that Gus was his favorite character ever played. It fit him so well.

  • @danoyse8233
    @danoyse8233 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sarcasm is my husbands favorite pastime. And irony. And not being very politically correct. Retired nurse here, with a very dark sense of humour. Like my fire crew, ambulance colleagues. Coping strategies maybe. Apparently smoked glass and dark wood is the worst for showing up the dust. Yes, my house has plenty of it.Best wishes from UK

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think it's a requirement in any first responder situation to have a dark sense of humor. I absolutely think it's a coping strategy.😄

  • @strider6074
    @strider6074 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You have a lovely home!