3 Reasons God Took a Relationship Away from You

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  • Why did God take a relationship away from you even though you asked him to make it work out? Here are 3 possible reasons God took this relationship away from you.
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  • @ketchupmustard5465
    @ketchupmustard5465 5 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    I came close to getting married. 3 months before the wedding I found her with another man. The pain and anger I went through was unimaginable. I lost 50 pounds in 2 months and came close to ending my life. I'm now in a good church and my life is getting easier one day at a time. I'm not saying it's easy or something that you can get over over night but time heals all wounds

    • @devorajacobs3581
      @devorajacobs3581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I'm sorry you went through that heart ache. I'm glad things are getting easier. I wish the best for you!!

    • @ketchupmustard5465
      @ketchupmustard5465 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@devorajacobs3581 I take it one day at a time. I meet a girl that has never been to church in her life. She thought I was crazy for putting money in the offering plate. She now goes every Sunday with me and she too puts money in the plate. She may not be the one but maybe GOD split me and my ex up to bring this girl to Christ. Who knows GOD's master plan but he knows what's best and what we can and can't handle. I believe now if GOD puts a challenge in front of us HE knows that we can make it through. It's just how we let GOD work in our lives

    • @barbarawest4313
      @barbarawest4313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I almost did the same, but left instead

    • @ancysanthia5052
      @ancysanthia5052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God is there to be ur everlasting partner a kind of relationship which u can rely on and move on! God bless you brother!

    • @dougd936
      @dougd936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Time does not heal wounds. Its an old saying. That pain may disappear into the back ground but the wound will always be there waiting to rear its ugly head.
      Jesus Christ can heal all wounds. Time is short. It is not time to seek a mate. Look up! Your redemption draweth near.

  • @pinkladybug56
    @pinkladybug56 5 ปีที่แล้ว +911

    If you Stick with GOD... Your situation is Guaranteed to Change for the Better✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏

    • @thedalmatianpack
      @thedalmatianpack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes Definitely

    • @michaeldacanay757
      @michaeldacanay757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      PREACH!

    • @bigt4636
      @bigt4636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pink Ladybug if this is your thinking of who God is then your far from Him. So I guess when things suck for you this thinking gives you permission to blame God. That’s sad, He created you to love Him and others, not tell anyone if there life sucks it’s because He’s not showing them favor. You need to spend about 4 years praying to know Him and not praying for a new house, car, perfect mate etc.

    • @gokhancaglar5370
      @gokhancaglar5370 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why change for better?. He dont care about our feelings.he is just executing his writings.he didnt write positive for everyone

  • @naebaespeakss
    @naebaespeakss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    “God may take that relationship from you to have you drawn closer to him through this situation” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @dennisealicea571
      @dennisealicea571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree that is exactly what happened with me!!! Now I am growing my relationship with him!!!

    • @jeskahaley9616
      @jeskahaley9616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s me too haha

    • @deedeee202
      @deedeee202 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is what happened to me so I agree with you

    • @sarahsaebz7453
      @sarahsaebz7453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine if he did that and you still wanted it.

  • @JustBeingJunie
    @JustBeingJunie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    I’m definitely growing through my loneliness

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      God bless, keep seeking the Lord no matter what!

    • @JustBeingJunie
      @JustBeingJunie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      David Watson Amen 🙏🏾

    • @Godisgood137
      @Godisgood137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too we grow the most when were alone

    • @MUFC-nu7ie
      @MUFC-nu7ie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stay strong and faithful, friend 🙏

    • @anjan334
      @anjan334 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are never alone, the Mightiest, the most loving, the most caring, the most helping, the benefit the merciful is always with you, more nearer to you than your jagular vein. Stay blessed.

  • @NatalieDiamond
    @NatalieDiamond 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2201

    God took my ex away and gave me my husband💝

    • @quinnterry2834
      @quinnterry2834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Thank you for sharing this. I'm in the midst of preparing for divorce my husband of six years and we were together for 10. I'm not saying that I'm looking to get married or be in a relationship anytime soon, but I'm looking forward to being happy by myself and hopefully with someone else one day maybe if it's God's will.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Amen! Thanks for sharing this with us :)

    • @marya.631
      @marya.631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Natalie Diamond Congratulations 🙏🏽💕

    • @mariamesimpore3706
      @mariamesimpore3706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      What a blessing.

    • @jagdishm3072
      @jagdishm3072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It can also be a blessing from god to your ex and punishment to your husband😁

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    GOD KNOWS WHAT HE S DOING!!! TRUST HIM!!!! ⚡️😉⚡️

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen!

    • @vedantsingh2602
      @vedantsingh2602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      This message is going to be quite long
      I'm In Dilemma..I Proposed A Girl in March This Year At First She Thought It's Attraction so after 15 days of regular conversation we both decided To Say Goodbye to each other..But We Both were sad and I Prayed to god to bring her back in my life and he answered my prayer after 1 day only ..he brought her back and now she said she needs some time to trust on me...now after 1 month of regular conversation we both had a misunderstanding and we fought, and again I prayed to God and again he brought her back in My Life ...After 1.5 months he has put me in a situation where I'm Unable to understand whether he Wants to make us together or want to separate us..God Is Allowing Me To Do Pray for her , fast for her...And I have also Prayed That God If You Want to Remove her from my life then do it but he's not doing it.. I Don't know what to do now..Please help me

    • @boni128
      @boni128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Fb87HFRQJmg/w-d-xo.html
      God in simple words from bible

    • @Mrstookie101
      @Mrstookie101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Period

    • @atuhairwehellen354
      @atuhairwehellen354 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True Amen

  • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
    @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    God saved my boyfriend from me.
    I didn’t deserve him. I hurt him. You never know what you have until it’s gone.
    God saved him from me. He saved him so he wouldn’t get hurt anymore.
    Hope he finds the one. 😔💔

    • @stevenovalle9967
      @stevenovalle9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      UnDeR tHe StArS oVeR ThE mOoN how long did it take you too realise you were wrong ? Do you plan on being better for next person ? This is such a great thing “ realization “ .

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      steven ovalle i knew from the start. Hard to explain. He is still talking to me. He doesn’t want us to break up. I keep telling him I can’t keep putting him through shit. I showed him this video and he said “or God is trying to let me save you.” Because he knows I don’t mean to hurt him. I have lots of issues with myself mentally. I have depression, anxiety, eating disorders, I believe I am bipolar but have never been diagnosed. I have lots of issues with self esteem and other stuff like that. I am a recovered self harmer.
      Anyways, sorry for the life story but idk where him and I will go. If things will work out in the end or if we will eventually go our separate ways but he doesn’t want to lose me. But if only he knew he could find someone better.

    • @stevenovalle9967
      @stevenovalle9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      UnDeR tHe StArS oVeR ThE mOoN I’m sorry to hear about your troubles , I hope you find peace at some point and things become easier especially in decisions . I can see how being bi polar can cause some difficulties in your relationship . He must love you so much and been with you for sometime huh ? It’s funny he sounds like me trying to save you . I myself find myself in a break with my GF of 9 years . She wants a break I gues she feels she’s hurting me . So she rather give us space . It’s hard to be honest .

    • @stevenovalle9967
      @stevenovalle9967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      UnDeR tHe StArS oVeR ThE mOoN I think if you allow him to stay , even though you feel like your hurting him it will do you good . I always say it’s easy to walk away . The real challenge is fighting for something you cherish .

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      steven ovalle also nine years is long!! I really wish you two the best! 🙏🏼

  • @chandabasharat5960
    @chandabasharat5960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    God has removed my ex from my life and now I'm closer to God🙏

    • @jerrylisby5376
      @jerrylisby5376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here. If she comes back I will welcome her but I am not going to wait on her. Been married 28 years. It hurt sooo bad. But I refuse to focus on the pain any longer. I am working on myself. My confidence level is going through the roof. Her loss. I actually feel sorry for her. I will always love her and will always pray for her.

    • @georginas2251
      @georginas2251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jerry Lisby Same here brother He has cheated on me and told me he don't love me anymore but everytime he gets arrested he calls me I Stop answering the phone calls very hurting and frustrating..
      God Bless You Brother I Pray Father God Blesses You with a Righteous wife in Jesus Name AMEN...

    • @kim7237
      @kim7237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!

    • @demetrasettle
      @demetrasettle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @kmc4k
    @kmc4k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Another very important reason that God takes someone away from you is for your salvation because being with the wrong person will pull you continually away from Him.

    • @monetenglish68
      @monetenglish68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes I was in a situation like that and it pulled me away from the Lord. I take responsibility for it cause I was weak and walking in the flesh and not fully healed from my last relationship. But I know God is a God of restoration and healing. I'm focusing on my walk with my daughter and just trusting in the Lord at all times 🙏❤️

    • @marcsmith5017
      @marcsmith5017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@monetenglish68 sounds like my situation. May God continue to bless you Monique

    • @marcsmith5017
      @marcsmith5017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @kmcBrazil Brazil excellent point!! God helped me to see that re: my situation with a wicked unbeliever

    • @jessicad1234
      @jessicad1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope ... this made me stop believing if anything God has showed me who’s in control is the devil wish it was God I’m just not one of the lucky ones.

    • @msdecemberloveangel8236
      @msdecemberloveangel8236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely true

  • @willanicole6356
    @willanicole6356 5 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    GOD is my best friend and I gave him my broken 💖

  • @alecedmisten7639
    @alecedmisten7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My best friend and love of my life ended our relationship a few weeks ago. We were together over 5 years and I’m absolutely devastated. I’m trusting God and seeking after him through this incredibly painful time. Any prayers would be be greatly appreciated and please pray for my ex too. Thank you all in advance for your love and compassion. God bless you all

  • @donnawoodford6641
    @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    My Ex did not deserve me. I did everything for him time and time again, but he did not honor or appreciate me. It was emotionally traumatic being married to a spouse who manipulated and controlled. I'm glad God finally made it possible for me to leave and to find a new life in Christ. ☮️

    • @bigchief4044
      @bigchief4044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Donna Woodford, you sound like a real catch. 🙄

    • @Pheladi.M
      @Pheladi.M 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He is probably narcissist. Glad God pulled you out of that mess. Stay strong 💖💕💓💗💜❤

    • @oscargutierrez-mt2kc
      @oscargutierrez-mt2kc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In my case my wife wants to control me and even what I do or say, my problem is that she says that the Bible says that I have to give with out expecting anything back and I think she misunderstood and she uses everything to her benefit.

    • @heyheyyouyouidlygf2606
      @heyheyyouyouidlygf2606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@oscargutierrez-mt2kc sounds a lot like manipulation. I listen to a lot of Derek Prince and he explains manipulation as a form of witchcraft. People do this unaware.. Maybe look up some old Derek Prince sermons here on you tube and give them a listen. They really helped me out! Hope it gets better for you brother!

    • @EnlightenedMusings
      @EnlightenedMusings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I guess i also made the same mistake being away from my getting bad thoughts in my mind thinking wat if she leaves me and many orther things and today she is gone and im in tears and only thinking mistakes of my past.......

  • @JustKate43
    @JustKate43 5 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    God wanted to get me alone to bring me back to Him, I completely understand that today. I’m not lonely anymore because I’ve been so hungry for God’s word and that’s been filling me up, I can’t get enough! Your videos have helped me see the kind of Christian man I’ll wait for now, I dated nonbelievers before, but that’s because I wasn’t walking in the faith. God bless you brother! Another good message tonight, thank you so much! ✝️💞

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amen Kathy! God is faithful and always wants what is best for us. Ultimately God himself is always best for us. You have a great perspective. Keep going!

    • @cscott8182
      @cscott8182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kathy Hunt amen to that! This has also happened to me...

    • @JustKate43
      @JustKate43 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dana Hutchison Hi ((Dana)) ❤️ I’m so sorry, I will definitely pray you. That’s a very long time. When we marry, God joins flesh together as one, so that pain feels like a separation of the flesh and only God can do that kind of healing. Fill yourself with God’s word that deals with healing both body and heart and you will heal. I’ve added you to my pray list. 💕💕💕

    • @godfreylyimo4177
      @godfreylyimo4177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please let me have your your email to learn from your experience

    • @terrybrunk1121
      @terrybrunk1121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He did that for me also.

  • @BeHisLikeness
    @BeHisLikeness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    Number 4: He may have taken a relationship away to SAVE THE OTHER person pain and heartache... it's not always because of YOU!!

    • @charlievanspock9868
      @charlievanspock9868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      True.. I would have been a horrible match for the girl of my dreams.. Just awful

    • @mariaoh1989
      @mariaoh1989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Came from this kind of relationship. It’s not always about you. It’s not always God saving you from the wrong Person. It’s God taking away that person to protect you from yourself. It’s been always God saving you from harm whether it’s you that’s bad or the other way around. Remember when a relationship ended, it’s a sign that you are harming yourself without you realising it. So God took away that person as an eye awakening. I know it hurts a lot and it’s sooo painful. But be glad and be filled with joy tho.. Cause you’re on your first step on becoming the very best version of yourself. Godbless us all!

    • @Dan-vb2dr
      @Dan-vb2dr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True!😂😂😂😫😫😫 so true.

    • @desfrvr6073
      @desfrvr6073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sooooo true!!!

    • @truth322
      @truth322 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      BeHisLikeness 😮

  • @christinefarley3868
    @christinefarley3868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    God has removed alot of negative people out of my life.i am happy He cares so much dor me. He will bring the right man to me one day.

  • @Sakura8421
    @Sakura8421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    it’s so painful, but without the pain i wouldn’t have found myself confiding in Christ

  • @jordanthompson9509
    @jordanthompson9509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    This was absolutely God’s perfect timing for me to see this!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen, I'm so glad this was timely for you :)

    • @SixStringsCovers
      @SixStringsCovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here.Encouraging words for me at the right time. Sometimes when I feel down and lonely God sends me to the right side of TH-cam videos recommending me messages like that :)

    • @godfreylyimo4177
      @godfreylyimo4177 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please let me have your email need to learn from your experience

    • @quitagleghornblogs3204
      @quitagleghornblogs3204 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Thompson me too

    • @idwmbijpagu9505
      @idwmbijpagu9505 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jordan Thompson Me too sister! 😁😁

  • @danieladolenec3331
    @danieladolenec3331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Being alone is nothing wrong. For some loneliness can make you happier than in a relationship.

  • @lucymaynard6798
    @lucymaynard6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    God took a relationship away from me but forgot to take the pain away too.

    • @chassyidaeho2733
      @chassyidaeho2733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Give yourself time as the pain will gradually go with time

    • @e-moneybags6449
      @e-moneybags6449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same way

    • @AnnaCoradin
      @AnnaCoradin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 😞💔

    • @Mr101473
      @Mr101473 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fresh from a breakup it’s so painful felt in love at 48 get my heart chew up it’s freaking hard

    • @Dajahgraves
      @Dajahgraves ปีที่แล้ว

      :(

  • @heatherlynn3438
    @heatherlynn3438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    God took my lifetime of Narcissistic Abusers away!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen

    • @darlenemoran1532
      @darlenemoran1532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here AMEN! God is good all the time!

    • @amazonadireitistaearmada7722
      @amazonadireitistaearmada7722 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same!!!

    • @robinqm
      @robinqm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wish he would do that for me

    • @heatherlynn3438
      @heatherlynn3438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Robin Gilmore Boundaries is a great book by Henry Cloud and John Townshend. Joyce Meyers Boundaries Series was helpful! Knowing that ALL of Heaven is on your side with every right step in the right direction sure helps! We have to choose our steps! He has called us out of the Kingdom of Darkness and translated us into the Kingdom of His Dear Son!! Boundaries are KEY!!! I liked the “Boundaries with Kids” book to accompany the other one. Very practical! I pray for the Holy Spirit to RISE up in you and fight the good fight! Amen!

  • @myrnafigueroa1033
    @myrnafigueroa1033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I’m so Blessed the Lord took this person away from me.

  • @TonyaA7
    @TonyaA7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    This applies to friendships as well..

  • @rima5429
    @rima5429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    We need to apply God's Word when it comes to relationships. Chose wisely. Don't be unequally yoked. And as always, pray about it. 🙏

  • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
    @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good! We have to trust that God knows best and loves us more than we love ourselves.

  • @user-xx7fi6xb6p
    @user-xx7fi6xb6p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    God takes away the father of my kids and brought him back to us after 27 years and we got married last year and we be together this 19 of April.
    God make it right in His Time

    • @SD-mm5uh
      @SD-mm5uh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Now that's beautiful 😍. Good for you and the family. Broken family is not of our Father. Praise God 🙌. That's a story I love to hear! God bless you. 👍🔜👑✝🌈

    • @teresastravers9800
      @teresastravers9800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      魏蓮英 I pray that Jesus will bring my ex husband back to me!

    • @junohamilton266
      @junohamilton266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks for sharing I just had a dream of my wife and kids so I know it’s possible

    • @jewelblue8496
      @jewelblue8496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WOW. 💜🙏🏽

    • @JustASmalltownGirl10
      @JustASmalltownGirl10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Praise be to God, wishing all the best for you xx

  • @peggyroberts3384
    @peggyroberts3384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    True it has happened to me,and I thank God that He always know what is best for me.

  • @langstonwilliams5530
    @langstonwilliams5530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A lot of times God will send you a storm not just to test your faith, but remove negative people and circumstances that surround you❤️💕

  • @realloreal
    @realloreal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've been divorced now for almost 2yrs. It's a process to overcome. The Lord is with me right now. Thank you Oh Lord, I will seek you...

  • @paullindo3495
    @paullindo3495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Now I TRULY UNDERSTAND why I'm still Single. God knows that the right Woman is out there for me and only he will know when she will come into my life.

    • @dianakum
      @dianakum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Paul Lindo true

    • @Robert-hr6sh
      @Robert-hr6sh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Now I truly know. After all, we may think who is for us as explained...However now I have a better (much better understanding) in three words I can sum it all up "Thank you Lord" 🙏

    • @sollibuen2718
      @sollibuen2718 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope I will truly understand too.. Someday

  • @wolfwings2136
    @wolfwings2136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    He took my ex away and give me someone better ☺️ thank you father xxx

  • @joannacastillo8412
    @joannacastillo8412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5. God probably took that relationship to make you both whole and draw you as well as the other person closer to him. So when the time is right he can bring you back together and honor him.

  • @pinkymaxine
    @pinkymaxine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I needed this, I think sometimes we idealize an ex once they're gone. With my ex there was one day recently i was missing him and then looked at our old texts. I forgot how annoying he was and would start fights over every little thing. It was chaos, reading those texts reminded me why God removed him from my life.

    • @marlaf2712
      @marlaf2712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for helping me come to this realization as well. It helps to realize other people r in the same boat. Sometimes I feel hopeless that I will never be with another person again (even though I am 17), and I am finding myself resonated towards your words of how we romanticize it.

    • @candacedawn357
      @candacedawn357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Delete those texts!

  • @KCtheSUNSHINE
    @KCtheSUNSHINE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    The rejection, pain and agony of divorce drew me closer to God thru Jesus. I could never have healed without him, nor forgiven my ex-husband without him and his mercy and grace. Trust Jesus and build your relationship with him first. He never fails.

    • @katelyn5010
      @katelyn5010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True that Kelly < 3 lots of love - God bless you

    • @goosebumpsk
      @goosebumpsk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Excatly what father is doing with me...building my relationship with Christ first and then God can allow for the one God has for me

    • @meeken65
      @meeken65 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Absolutely Kelly. The Lord started drawing me closer to HIMSELF years before my separation/divorce. He knew before hand I needed Him in order to make it thru the lonely and depressing days. Guys I will PRAISE and thank Jesus the Christ for His Love for me. Let us all pray for spouses who have gone astray. Jesus have mercy on them. Let us also pray for those who are really hurting and the pain won't stop. Jesus show YOURSELF strong in the lives of those who can't seem to get over the disappointment and hurts. Amen

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God is good

    • @KCtheSUNSHINE
      @KCtheSUNSHINE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@meeken65 I just watched the movie War Room. It is excellent and inspiring.

  • @IceboundDevin
    @IceboundDevin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Thank you God for taking me out of Narcissist relationship I was heading into trouble.
    Thank you for your Grace and mercy.

    • @kristincollins5468
      @kristincollins5468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right there with you! Spent 5 years totally blind to what a narcissist was.. My eyes are open now. It hurts but I thank God that I don't have to deal with that monster another day..

    • @karenfeeney9606
      @karenfeeney9606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I ran to the hills from a narcissistic monster.. if I’d stayed I’d of ended up in a mental hospital... never in my life have a been devalued, gaslighted and all the rest of the poison that went with him
      Iv been seven months free of him
      It’s been a hard slog and lots of tears....but I know in my heart someone was looking down on me ....... 🙏🏻 I can never allow this in my life again and knowing god is sending me someone special x love and light xx ❤️🌹❤️

    • @christophergaribay2777
      @christophergaribay2777 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karenfeeney9606 hey Karen mind talking about your narcissistic relationship?

    • @huntercollins4891
      @huntercollins4891 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kristin Collins - we have the same last name! How kewl

    • @kekesassycutie3936
      @kekesassycutie3936 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kristin Collins @omg the same thing happens 2 me Amen 🙏 glad I didn’t have no kids by him

  • @olonahlanganiso2172
    @olonahlanganiso2172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God just took my boyfriend away from me and it's painful God I'm not giving up on but lord I need your help I need him back to me🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Dc-re4xy
    @Dc-re4xy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I pray God does not take away a special someone in my life thats so near and dear to me. Lately she wont talk to me. I think she's changed her mind about me. My heart is just breaking everyday. Ive made mistakes but she said i was forgiven. She also said i would never be without her. I feel so frighten and lost. She is all i have on earth. I try not to cry. But i love her so much the thought of losing her makes my eyes water. Im a good decent person from a strict upbringing never been convicted of a crime. I love life and everyone. Since i was a child ive always been very kind to everybody. I love and appreciate God and the blessing of life he gave and gives me. Ive been praying to God that he keeps her in my life and change her heart. I dont know what ill do with out her. Im all alone on earth. I ll feel lost without her. Oh God please dont take her away please my lord and savior. She renewed my faith in everything. I feel so alive again. Ive made numerous positive changes in my life because of her. Please God. Please pray for me everyone who reads this comment. 😪.

    • @lisaanonson8431
      @lisaanonson8431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I say this to you with all of the love in my heart...could it be that you've made her an idol over God and everything else in your life??? I urge you to ask yourself this question. I have done this with alot of relationships in my life, therefore I very much empathize with your situation and how you're feeling. God loves you and will never leave you of forsake you. He promises this to all of us. I wish you all of the best. I know your comment was 3 months ago, but it touched my heart. God Bless!

  • @lolosumi8505
    @lolosumi8505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Jesus I need u in every day of my life ... amen🙏

  • @barrientos92
    @barrientos92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    One thing I’ve learned is that if you ask God to show you if they’re the one for you, he will tell you blatantly if they are or not. That’s been the case for me with EVERY single girlfriend I’ve had.

    • @DevynLogan1
      @DevynLogan1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well consider your self blessed!

    • @barrientos92
      @barrientos92 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monica Hall Always.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God does speak to those who listen

    • @jeniffergabani8321
      @jeniffergabani8321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true.....

    • @kellynorvell5714
      @kellynorvell5714 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen.......I ask God if a man is my husband and He protects me all the time until He unites me with the right man.

  • @moreenkasu2925
    @moreenkasu2925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    When I am silent I can hear GOD'S Voice.
    Thanks for sharing.

    • @dannym6552
      @dannym6552 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what does it sound like

    • @Dustyphoto915
      @Dustyphoto915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Moreen Kasu that’s your brain talking to yourself.

  • @haidevermanzano6621
    @haidevermanzano6621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Loving a mama's boy is the most difficult sitiation in a relationship. 😥

    • @edwingooden7900
      @edwingooden7900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Satan will use anyone as an obstacle for you

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be led by the spirit of God. Because we are to pull away from our parents and cling to our spouse. We are to come together with our spouse to do the will of the Father. If that person don't have God as the head of their life. The marriage will be full of unnecessary chaos and confusion. May you hearken to the voice and will of God. And may you be led by His spirit of He tell you to pull away from this person in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen. All IS well. God is good, and He is in control. As long as you follow God's lead all will be well in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.

  • @jjjohnson8623
    @jjjohnson8623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Not just about a mate, but even frienships + family relations + neighbors.

    • @shawingo8757
      @shawingo8757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      JJ Johnson not the neighbors too!😫😂😂

    • @jessicamonday1635
      @jessicamonday1635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shawingo8757 yes amen. I have a daughter that walks away from me sometimes for 2 or 3 years at a time. I always grow in these times

    • @FromG2eminor
      @FromG2eminor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the same! It has been hard to lose a friend who was/is like a sister recently. That loss drives me towards God even more than ever. I still pray for her with lots of love every day!

  • @nicolehogan3332
    @nicolehogan3332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    God is more powerful than we think 💜🙏🇺🇸

    • @trustgodalways3025
      @trustgodalways3025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nicole Hogan Yes! Not even our human minds can fathom it 🙏🏼🙌🏽

    • @nicolehogan3332
      @nicolehogan3332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@halcioncocaine2096 Yes you can. be God Will can you stop people from raped 5 years old litter girl. and they . justifying. why they did it. Because of i want to destroy that little. Girl 💜🙏🇺🇸

    • @jbs1133
      @jbs1133 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do I know . Things I csnt control . Put it in God's hands . Is this the answer...

    • @jbs1133
      @jbs1133 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do I put it in God's hands ..things I cant control ....

  • @lynncampbell1880
    @lynncampbell1880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u for this. I am glad that my soon-2-be ex left because he was so mean and abusive in EVERY WAY! I now know what God is trying to tell me. I am praying for patience. Things moving SLOW & not always in my favor!

    • @anal8151
      @anal8151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a fighter. You are His child, and I will keep you in my intentions. You deserve to be treated with respect.

  • @justinabastian3445
    @justinabastian3445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amen....I have brokeup with the guy but I have become more closer to God.... Praise the Lord

  • @esther3193
    @esther3193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    God I am ready for a relationship. God please give me a good husband please

    • @gingerellacookie5641
      @gingerellacookie5641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Esther praying you find his plan for your life. Also be open minded to who he may put you with if his will is for you to be married.

    • @gingerellacookie5641
      @gingerellacookie5641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Esther like if their younger then you or a bit different that what you'd expect but you'll know how you'll feel.

    • @chrislawson5370
      @chrislawson5370 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gingerella Cookie I hope I find my plan too soon

    • @esther3193
      @esther3193 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      A Google User very sorry to hear this. You are love ❤️. God bless you sweetie

    • @thedalmatianpack
      @thedalmatianpack 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍

  • @lostastheprodigalson2233
    @lostastheprodigalson2233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Perfect ! On point. maturity in Christ is best thing to work on before a relationship

  • @Wanda.Velez667
    @Wanda.Velez667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God does wonders
    In my separation with my husband drew my closer to him .his timing its perfect

  • @DEJones-et5hd
    @DEJones-et5hd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That what happened to me, I thought that he was the one that The Lord had for me. Later down the I found out that he was not the one The Lord told me to leave him alone He even warned me in dreams. All the man wanted to do was to lay with me, use me up and throw me away, but The Lord stopped him. So I left him alone. He died of a heart attack. I'm so glad that I didn't marry him and I'm glad The Lord spared me from having to go to divorce court later.

  • @Dulles-jt6sr
    @Dulles-jt6sr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sometimes it's hard being alone...

  • @sohineeroy805
    @sohineeroy805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    God just took away someone i really thought of making a home with and its for sure the best and He is sending the one he made for me
    Amen

    • @husseinkhanbhai7924
      @husseinkhanbhai7924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sohinee am waiting as well

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍

    • @sandhuk778
      @sandhuk778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Y think it's easy to forget someone u really liked

    • @sohineeroy805
      @sohineeroy805 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sandhuk778 ofcourse not. Its a journey which is challenging but eventually I will get through. I am clear that the person is not made for me then why go further and make even more difficult!

    • @sandhuk778
      @sandhuk778 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm I think u right

  • @Jessica_BR
    @Jessica_BR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My heart and soul are broken now, but I know that God is my healer. I trust in Him 🙏❤

    • @ramparkash2318
      @ramparkash2318 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica ps . I too believe in God .

  • @10974456s
    @10974456s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you! I’m going through a separation/divorce and I really needed this today. 🙏🏼

    • @malakiyahamari8448
      @malakiyahamari8448 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sooo what's next? Get into another marriage? You're going the wrong way sister.

  • @aakk009
    @aakk009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    When my husband and I married, we were the furthest away from God that we have ever been. We are now walking back together and learning what it means to have a Jesus-centered marriage. Even when I was teetering on agnosticism, I thought, “There has to be something out there because the love my husband shows me is so unconditional.”
    I thank God every day for ensuring those past relationships didn’t work. The Most High knew exactly what I needed. And the Most High knew I would lead my husband back to Jesus.
    What a divine romancer He is!❤️

  • @angelicdazzle
    @angelicdazzle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Message was God sent!

  • @ericrichardson9547
    @ericrichardson9547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank god for for channel. My wife left me August 14th 2019. I am now realizing that it's the gold in my well. So to speak. I am closer to god now than I have ever been. I'm still learning but trusting him first and learning how to slow my emotions is helping along this journey. Thank god for this pain I have felt. It is teaching me even now.

  • @vimimaliakel3112
    @vimimaliakel3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everything happens for a reason and God knows what's best for his own creation.. Amen!

  • @marycatherineryan1290
    @marycatherineryan1290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm so grateful that God intervened on mine my ex's relationship. I was wanting it to work out again and we were talking, but then he showed me that he hadn't changed, so I told him that all we could be were friends and he didn't like that. Last night he sent me a text accusing me of all sorts of lies and he even accused my roommate whom he's never met. I remained calm, because something ( God) was telling me to and I blocked him on my phone and Social Media. God speared me from another heartache and I can't thank him enough. I know he also did it too, because me and my ex would've been unevenly yoked also, so I owe God everything, especially with him protecting me from my ex.

  • @movingtowardcoaching
    @movingtowardcoaching 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I agree. There were a few times I've learned a lot from past relationships, but I wouldn't have met my wife or have my 4 children had God not taken away a few relationships I really wanted to work.

  • @brandonwhite2231
    @brandonwhite2231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know when god wants me to leave someone, but before I leave I will try give them the love and word of god

  • @angelahamlett8249
    @angelahamlett8249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God really does work in mysterious ways. Only when you look back it all makes sense. Thanks for sharing.

  • @mariesavannah2369
    @mariesavannah2369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    That is so true that's why God command us to love him first with all our heart mind and soul than love others but we always do the opposite and when these people drop us we want to die

  • @user-pg9fv7su8q
    @user-pg9fv7su8q 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God thank you for taking my last relationship away. I felt pain like I had never felt before, but it ultimately lead me back to you.

  • @GOP7100
    @GOP7100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Absolutely true.
    Knowing that his love was not. Losing him was the best thing that ever happen to me. It hurts so bad but my trust is in God. It will work out for my good. Somehow someway. Thank you

  • @domingue4god
    @domingue4god 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so very true! It’s just hard to keep trusting God while you go through it, but once you do it is really awesome!!!

  • @DarlinDarlinBaby
    @DarlinDarlinBaby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You hit the nail on the head with this video !!! I thank God for giving me the intuition to feel & see what I needed to feel & see and the strength to leave a relationship because it was revealed early on that person was not the one for me. I know greater is coming my way...in God's time, not mine.

  • @Yahshuaismyeverything
    @Yahshuaismyeverything 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God made me so mad today, he made my ex admit that he doesn’t love me I was like seriously God! But I know he’s protecting me he loves me sooo much that even when I kept going back to my ex God will always take my ex away from me my ex would become worse and worse as I come back to him but being in love makes me so stupid. I pray to Lord that he heals my heart and help me find someone special sweet and loyal.

  • @shendyelsom506
    @shendyelsom506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you God for your help🙏...i ask you to please get me away from my ex ...Only God knows what i was going through with this destructive man..God listened to me and thank you God for helping me heal🙏 today im stronger because of you God...iv forgiven the ex in my heart...and moved on greatly...Amen 🙏

  • @pamelakelley5535
    @pamelakelley5535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just left a narc it is so painful but I know the lord will not forsake me and he will heal me and my heart. I thank him now for releasing me from hell ✝️👏

  • @SixStringsCovers
    @SixStringsCovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I believe this message was meant to be spoken for many of us who are still waiting for the right one. I feel like we have this in common even though we have different personalities or living in different cities or countries. The message is the same and thanks for sharing and reminding us that we have to be patience and wait for God's answer. We had a broken heart before because we have chosen wrong relationships not letting God to decide for what's best for us. One Bible verse comes to my mind now Proverbs 10:28.

    • @thedalmatianpack
      @thedalmatianpack 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I Agree. I felt like this Message was directly to Me

    • @nasaazijoan3089
      @nasaazijoan3089 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SixStringsCovers wow so cutie sms you like me

  • @0h2ezy
    @0h2ezy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    It might be taken away for a season... I have a friend that is happily married to a girl that dumped him and got married. Only for her to be in a bad relationship and and reconnect with him down the road. They are a happily married, strong faith Christian couple.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's not common but it is certainly possible

    • @BRO77TX
      @BRO77TX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree with this possibility as well. My ex still resides in my mind and heart as well. More than any other woman in my past. I still envision my future with her. Could that mean something more than just what is on the surface in reality??

    • @0h2ezy
      @0h2ezy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seeking Christ In Tx faith isn’t built on what we can see, but what we hope in that seems impossible.
      Thank you Lord for building our trust in You this season. We know that You have our best interests in mind and are working out all these things for Your glory!! IJN

    • @jesusreturning3003
      @jesusreturning3003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@0h2ezy - Hi There, I dont want to be rude, but I do struggle with a scripture where it says that if a man remarries his first wife (And she has married her second husband) it is adultry....... I struggle with these kind of testimonies as Im reminded of Deuteronomy 24:1-4 and also Mark 10.12

    • @0h2ezy
      @0h2ezy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jesus Returning - Rev 22:12 absolutely! I understand completely where you are coming from. I do not wish this for anyone, but can God allow this and even bless this type of relationship? I believe He can. I’m not sure if the man in the previous relationship was in infidelity or not. Are there complications in this type of relationship? Most definitely. My point in this statement is that, with God, all things are possible, even if not ideal.

  • @St3w.0
    @St3w.0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've been through a couple short term relationships that all left me in pain... especially dating a co-worker of mine twice then getting dumped again. Alot of times I feel like I'm meant to be alone but I'm still trusting God with my love life and letting him take control of it to see who he might put in my life.

    • @anal8151
      @anal8151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Lord will lead you where He needs you. The Lord is in charge of your love life. Just keep praising Him and thanking Him. May the Lord bless you.

  • @astridalvarez9914
    @astridalvarez9914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is so true. Trust God. Sometimes it’s hard to let go, but God needs all of the pieces of our broken heart to heal us again and prepare us for a future He planned for us. He knows what’s best for us. Have faith. 🙏🏼

  • @lynettecotton3222
    @lynettecotton3222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    RIGHT ON TIME WORD!! NOT ONLY HAS HE REMOVED THOSE SO CALL FRIENDS OUT OF MY LIFE, GOD MOVED THOSE MEN WHO SOUGHT TO ROAD BLOCK ME AND ERODE ME AND POSITIONING ME FOR HIS MAN.
    HE IS JUST....I'M SO IN AWE OF MY JESUS!!!!!!😌😌😌

  • @MM-of5po
    @MM-of5po 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’ve been hearing these things & waiting for 20 years and still he has not come.

    • @noeldee9236
      @noeldee9236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sucks though waiting half your life

    • @akhamp1943
      @akhamp1943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where ever we are at the moment is right where God has us for whatever his plan is for us, we may not understand why, but he does and it will be for your good always. Just have to trust Him. ☺

    • @tinamaxson6669
      @tinamaxson6669 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Micah Dawn I didn't listen to the video,but I think you need to take the time to see a person's fruit,and they must be a believer in Jesus ,but we should also be careful not to be cookie cutting personality types,thus cheating ourselves.

    • @bigchief4044
      @bigchief4044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All of you waiting around might want to put a little effort into it.

  • @shaquana6250
    @shaquana6250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don’t get my relationships “took away” from me, I get rid of them.

  • @susanbuckley4153
    @susanbuckley4153 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing! I’m so grateful that He took the ugly relationships away from me :)

  • @queenrmia1816
    @queenrmia1816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Praise God for doing what only he could do, that was to protect, and keep safe ( me) his daughter !!
    I'm alive today, because he ended that abusive marriage !!!
    Thank you Jesus.
    Pastor Mark, your a blessing !!!

  • @kevilhoukhonuomezhunyu5978
    @kevilhoukhonuomezhunyu5978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every words you said are true! There is always a reason behind what God does for us, just need to Trust Him.

  • @mahalinhin
    @mahalinhin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God recommended this specific video for me to watch, listen and accept the truth to my being single! Thank you for clearing and calming my mind!

  • @damdam718
    @damdam718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart is broken right now and Im alone but I know in my heart that one day the right one will come at the right time.

  • @asinsasina7935
    @asinsasina7935 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    In long-distance relationship please GOD protect my relationship with you everything is possible

  • @christinelawrence4315
    @christinelawrence4315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My ex husband broke my heart and even though it brought me much closer to GOD .. I sometimes feel I'll never escape the heartache and pain of loneliness .. I push on nonetheless .. waiting patiently ...

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So sorry to hear this, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
      1 Peter 5:7

    • @christinelawrence4315
      @christinelawrence4315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Hi Mark thank you for your kind words and to remind me that He loves me x

    • @christinelawrence4315
      @christinelawrence4315 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zen Landon Thank you dear brother ..thank you for reminding me that my real Home is in Heaven not in this cruel world. Just thought I'd let you know I'm feeling much better now x appreciate your kind words

    • @Benny.13
      @Benny.13 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a challenge to be happy for some people like me also only Jesus can help you along so call on him all day . I think of the torture he endured for us to help me in my struggles .

    • @bigchief4044
      @bigchief4044 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christine Lawrence, or you could have just learned to cook and not nag so much.

  • @russellhawkins366
    @russellhawkins366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for this. They’re perspectives seldom considered.
    Or sometimes relationships delayed so we may become better for both of us.

  • @JM-fl3ic
    @JM-fl3ic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God saved me from a toxic relationship. He cheated on me. So i gave up . I said if u want to cheat set me FREE. If u love me don't cheat. I want self respect.
    To God b the glory!
    Thank you for this message.

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really agree and feel that this is true… A relationship was taken away from me and I know it was to save me pain and torture… And to free my soul… To find better more positive atmospheres!! ✨💫🙏🏻✨💫❣️🙏🏻✨💫🙏🏻❣️

  • @tonir9444
    @tonir9444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awesome video! So true i know in my heart God had to end my no good relationship. It was keeping me from truly knowing God. It hurt like heck but got through it with Gods help. Now i feel free happy and hopeful for something even better. Praise God :)

  • @Guntlevlogs
    @Guntlevlogs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! Mark thank you so much for this video. It helped me more than you could imagine. A girl and I just went through this exact situation. We both Totally liked each other, cared for each other, and saw what seemed quite clearly a great future ahead. Certain situations came up that had put her and I both on our knees and we prayed for hours upon hours. Ultimately God revealed to us that at this present time we were not to continue on in our relationship together. There is absolutely nothing that I hold against her and I know there is absolutely nothing that she holds against me. I was willing and would have and have forgiven her for everything that she had done, and I know she was and would have and has forgiven me for everything that I have done. We are both new creatures in Christ and so that is why her and I both went to the Lord in deep prayer and asked Him what we should do in the situation. He very clearly laid on my heart that for this present time we are to not move forward in a dating relationship. Which even though it is still very recent, we are already moving greatly forward at becoming absolute best friends until God places our future spouses into our lives. As this video says, even though everything seemed perfect, God has a bigger plan for the both of us and without a doubt I know He has the best interest for the both of our lives. Thank you again Mark!

  • @marisolgalono7978
    @marisolgalono7978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this. Now I know, regardless of pain and sufferings I may have gone through, I have a strong God. Stronger than all my burdens.

  • @0h2ezy
    @0h2ezy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God has this season for me to focus on Him and develop a knowledge and understanding of my first Love. Abba! Thank you.

  • @carrieannenapoleoni6099
    @carrieannenapoleoni6099 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    He took away my marriage because my husband is living w another woman!
    But, it has brought me to him (God) because hes the only hope I have.

    • @cantushea4659
      @cantushea4659 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's so sad. I'm really sorry. Hope you're fairing on well now.

    • @carrieannenapoleoni6099
      @carrieannenapoleoni6099 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cantushea4659 it's only been a mo seperated. We are still married, have 5 children and together 18 yrs in total. We have both hurt each other so badly. Hes only known this woman 4 mo.
      I'm praying for restoration. That God may work on me, convict my husbands heart (as he did mine) and being him to repentance.
      But, I'm completely broken.
      But, ty

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carrieanne Napoleoni praying for you

    • @linad9811
      @linad9811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My husband of 18yrs of marriage moved in with his strange woman for what I've learned to b a seven year affair.... 2mnths ago ~ I'm not understanding the reasoning behind it I just stay in prayer to not lean on my own understanding only the Lord knows ~ This is a horrific heartbreak that has devastated me to the core... I kno the only way I can stay out of the dark pit is to keep looking to the Lord keep my hopes in him go on with my life with faith knowing that one day I'll have the peace only HE can give ~ 🙏 the same for U

    • @lovegoddess3912
      @lovegoddess3912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'll be praying for you..hoping for restoration in my own marriage be it God's Will...you said you feel broken I can relate, the pain is excruciating with a few breaks in between....listen to Tasha Cobbs song "Gracefully Broken", it helped me. 🌷..
      praying for you too Lina D.

  • @deedab4691
    @deedab4691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm thankful for running into this video today! I agree with all 3 possible answers! THANK YOU GOD! THANK YOU

  • @helenej3617
    @helenej3617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God has taken all relationships from me. I don't have any friendships at all anymore. I feel so sad and lonely

  • @beckyandersons8435
    @beckyandersons8435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lord I Trust You... God took me out of my relationship 2yrs ago ND I know for sure that he saved me from death

  • @brittanybrooks430
    @brittanybrooks430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Recently a great friendship was take away to protect me. I'm still trying to understand it but at the same time I know God is protecting me and my future. I would like to have this friendship back someday if it's his will, but If he has something better for me than I'm completely open to a whole new friendship.

  • @suea.s.9975
    @suea.s.9975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trust the process, God is Merciful.

  • @violamenge
    @violamenge ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes it's hard when you're going thru it,but the peace I get at the feet of Jesus surpasses all the pain I feel so I will trust him more.

  • @chaunceyevans5896
    @chaunceyevans5896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This made me feel better!!This message is a blessing.

  • @YouTube_channel346
    @YouTube_channel346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amen. God tore someone from my life. I ended up finding out she was an entirely different person than the one she sold me. I was able to grow further without her

  • @Hazynecklace
    @Hazynecklace 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! I can honestly agree with every point on this! Just the truth. If your going through a hard time with a breakup just know if u stay close to god and please him he will reward with more than you could have ever imagined

  • @sandramiller8701
    @sandramiller8701 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yeah my husband of 20 yr died in 1998. ,,,,I wasn't happy in my relationship w him I married him because I got pregant w my son. I'm closer to God now he's my Everything now but I'm still waiting for a Christian husband to share what's left of my life w him a worthy loving caring man. If it's God's will.