@@ghazalysi6574 that is terribly destructive to your self esteem. Hard to reach out and seek the people who will love you after that - that is the point of the song. Do you mind me asking how old you are?
@@helenebennie3961 nobody likes me tbh...even my friends, I'm always the last priority to them which I don't blame them because when my mom can say such terrible stuff to me how can I blame strangers...the point of this song for me is to never have a child and never make someone live through this hell, I mean this world... and I'm 23 btw I just graduated from university
Britta Balfour honestly my dad was an alcoholic and was raised with really good parents but some bad things happened to him when he was a teen and it causes a lot of problems for him in relationships he and my mom had a very volatile relationship but he was never toxic to me or my siblings always supported us as much as someone who is struggling with alcoholism can he was less toxic than my mom who had a really bad relationship with her mom but was a fully functioning member of society I’m still thankful for her providing all the things I need I just feel like my dad loves me and my siblings more I can tell how much he means that when he says he loves us as he really wants to protect us from all the bad in this world I just feel more love in the way he speaks compared to my mom who just seems a little cold
Britta Balfour I want to be a parent who’s fully there for my kids like my mom but really let them know how much I love them and believe in them like my dad did
"I was so young you should have known better than to lean on me." That one lyric summarizes my entire childhood in a way I thought no one else understood.
Sarah Peterson it must have been so hard for you. Many children are placed in that position by broken hurting parents. I retreated into drugs and alcohol, unfortunately my children lived through it with me. Now they have both had their struggles, very hard. My father abandoned my young mother and her four children when I was four. The cycle goes on and on.
When my mom was depressed she would use me as a therapist. Just dumped all her problems on me. I was in high school and felt like I was the adult at home. Didn't tell her about the stuff I was going through because I didn't want to add to her problems. Which is why they found out about my suicidal thoughts from my psychiatrist about 1.5 years after it started.
@@ajsoltani I'm sorry to hear you went through that. You were likely right to hide it from your mom. Mine would lecture me about how I had to grow up and be more grateful whenever I mentioned my depression to her.
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
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Dear future child. I will never do the same mistakes my parents did. I will always be there for you and love you with all my heart. You will never be alone. You will always be loved.
She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
In response to the comment from Breanna Jones that this song was written by Reba McEntire: The songwriting credits are given to Kelly Clarkson, David Hodges and Ben Moody. Hodges and Moody produced the song. Kelly has said that the song would not have gotten recorded without their help, so she gave them a songwriting credit. But Kelly wrote it at 16. It was about her parents divorce. Reba did record her own version of this with Kelly. Kelly released it on her Breakaway album in 2005. Reba's version came out on her album Duets in 2007. So while Reba did sing a version of it, she had nothing to do with the writing of it. I hope that clears things up.
I love Kelly, her voice is great! But The Voice is, Whitney Elizabeth Houston... nothing against Kelly, she is fabulous! But Whitney is Whitney…love y'all!🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197 That's what's great about music. There is something for everyone to enjoy. For me it's Kelly, for you it's Whitney. Everybody's happy. With all the hate in this world, music can bring people together.
@@frankingenito oh yes! I'm totally agree with you! Everyone has his preference, his liking... Music unites! Music makes life more enjoyable ! Music is love, music is against the hate! Wishing you all the best! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍 And sorry for my English I'm Italian...😊
The song 'Because of you' by Kelly Clarkson resonates deeply with me. It truly defines my childhood and continues to shape my life even now. My mom is a kind and responsible person, but when things went wrong, she would turn to alcohol. She’d drink, get drunk, become loud and emotional, often crying uncontrollably. I couldn’t sleep when she was like that, and I still remember the shame it brought upon us. It was especially difficult when people visited our house, as she would always be drinking, and I was so embarrassed by it. The worst was when she and my dad fought-those weren’t just arguments, they were intense, with shouting, objects being thrown, and a lot of trauma. I’m sure our neighbors could hear everything. I remember feeling powerless, unable to do anything but cry. I thought things would change as we grew older, but even now, they remain the same. It hurts to see my mom still stuck in that cycle. I long for her to be the comfort and support that I need, but it feels like she’s no longer that person, even though she’s the one responsible for it. I always have to be the strong one because whenever I cry, it’s seen as a weakness in her eyes. I’ve talked to her many times about how alcohol is not the answer, how it affects me emotionally, but it seems like her feelings are prioritized over mine. It’s painful to realize that the person who should be there to comfort and support you is also the one who triggers those deepest wounds.
To everyone who survived narcissistic or abusive parents I'm glad you're here today and I hope you never give up trying to be happy. It can be so much harder than some people will ever understand but you are strong and you have been through things nobody deserves to deal with. My heart goes out to you. 💜 I hope you can break the cycle. And that having a bad childhood doesn't have to define your whole life because you can be happy. You've already come so far. And if you're not ok... that's ok. 💜
im still stuck here trying to make it through this hell.... this song describes me... im a 16 yr old girl stuck with an emotionally physically and mentally abusive mother and brother and this is completly domestic violene her and i need mmoney an online job to leave to get to an online friend i want to meet that ive known for 1 yr and a half and im honestly about to have another breakdown i have depression fears anxieties...
@@Littlekey1212_Backup I hope you get out of your toxic situation and into a better place asap. You are strong to be going through this. I'm sending love. Nobody deserves abuse. I hope you can find safety and heal. I'm sorry I can't help more. I wish I could help you escape. I hope you can get an online job and save some money.
Being with a narcissistic is a very difficult situation, But when you find the right person to get you out you appreciate life more & you thank the person who got you out! I'm Not looking back, I was lucky.
To everyone who have family issues, who never feel loved, who have traumatic experiences and etc,just wanting to let you know that you are loved. You are worth it and the scars you have doesn't define you. You are you. You are loved by many. Please stay strong for a bit, stay strong for that new music you've been anticipating, stay strong for wanting to eat the meal you've always wanted, stay strong for your friends who loves you even if they don't show it right away.
My aunt was the one who introduced me to This song which was 4 years ago, 2010. She was probably the only family member I ever had that Cared for me. My parents are just a pair of Messed ups. A few years later, she passed on from having cancer and the only thing I have left is this song to remind me of her...And I break down everytime I hear this song. Thank you Aunty, Because of you, I actually felt loved for that once... :') God bless anyone who listens to this song and get feels .
I really and exactly know how u feel This gets me and explains what I feel and have been feeling for years And I'm glad that someone else knows my pain as well My parents were all fucked up and it felt like no one in the world cared about me
Oi eu me importo. muito com você...você não disse se aceita ser minha amiga. escreva-me, adoraria saber mais sobre você...e sua Historia. Tchau RuiBradok
I will not make the same mistakes that you did I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery I will not break the way you did You fell so hard I've learned the hard way To never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep I was so young You should have known better than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain And now I cry in the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in Because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you (oh) Because of you (mm, oh)
Why is it always the sad songs that get the most love? The answer: because if there’s one thing we can all relate to, it’s pain. Be kind to others everyone. And stay safe.
I never cried so much than this song. This song literally told my whole childhood. I grew up with a toxic and abusive father that always hates me. He loves to manipulate others specially my mother who is the only one who loved me the most. The saddest thing is that I'm 16 now ... And I can't get over to everything. This song answered alot of questions that I asked my self. The chorus literally is what I'm going through right now. It's hard for me to trust, I'm to scared to take risk, I tend to not try something new as I'm too scared to be pointed out again and get scolded and it feels like I'm too scared for anything... I'm so lost.
I wish you all the best. I totally understand how it feels. I’m just a couple of years older than you, but I had a similar experience. I grew up in an Asian family, where they valued boys more than girls. I have an abusive mother; she hates me and would hit me every day. I remember on my 14th birthday, she even told me that bringing me into this world was the worst decision she ever made. She said her life is worse because of me. Even now, it still hurts when I think of that. But I believe the most important thing is that you need to love yourself. Treat yourself as well as you can, be a good person, and stay positive. You’re not alone, and I know you can overcome this!
This song so beautifully and accurately shows the painful emotions that are at the core of childhood trauma and narcissistic abuse by parents and caregivers in early childhood. Powerful.
To everyone who has been through childhood trauma, You are amazing. You're so strong and I'm so proud of you for managing everything so well. I know you feel confused and helpless but please never give up on yourself. It wasn't your fault,you were just a child trying to discover the world... God has a gift for everyone who has been so strong to deal with a traumatic childhood,he has for you too and that's why he has given you so much strength. I believe in your power and I know you'll be able to get through this difficult journey and come out stronger with every moment passing by. Just because,nobody knows about your pain doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Your trauma is real and matters. Stay strong.
Have been through childhood trauma - this reminds me of plants that are fed with poison instead of water. Have to survive this and it's a miracle to grow up psychologically strong or healthy after childhood trauma
I get what she's saying and I sympathize... I just don't know that I can blame my mother for looking for comfort or support, even though, I was young and I had no idea what to do. There were so many times I held a knife at the door or paced around with a baseball bat just bc I wanted to kill the guy that hurt her and I just couldn't do it.
@@rachelluviano7514 this whole song is about her mom🥺 whats sad is people dismiss it as a break up song because they don't listen to the lyrics well enough but this song is so much more meaningful and powerful than a break up song. Anyone can get over a breakup, but a damaged relationship with your own parents? Now thats just something you don't recover from💔
I wasn't physically abused as a child, but I did experience emotional abuse and neglect. I keep coming back to this song because it articulates the experience so vividly and real.
It took me 30 years of suppressed trauma and 2 years of therapy to realize that I've been singing along to this song since middle school without knowing what it really, deeply meant to me. I forgive you, mom.
You never deserved so much of trauma and suffering. You're so brave to forgive your mom... I wish you have a beautiful life ahead. I'm sure you'll become stronger and stronger with every moment passing by. God loves you.
I completely understand the pain I’m gonna through separation at the moment and I forgot who I am num to the world and no one can understand I don’t want to live but I have to we don’t get choices we are trapped in the scars they left us
Both of my parents died along with my brother at age 15 I have been a orphan since that date I’m now 29 and the pain will never leave my heart 💓 because I was to young to realise they where my best friends , Mum , Dad , Matthew I’ll see you in eternity I’m heading every day towards you xx
I'm sorry about this but I do hope you can find solace and strength in God and know that they are up looking down at you and proud of all your little victories and accomplishments, plus the big ones. Take care
This and "Piece by Piece". I think they go hand in hand really. A part 1 and 2. I would suggest watching her live performances of Piece by Piece to see what I mean.
@@D2FFDK Piece by piece is one of her greatest live performances. To make Keith Urban and Jennifer Lopez cry (as well as all of America) is quite an accomplishment. I liked the acoustic performance much better than the studio version. I still think this is her best studio release. It's heartbreaking.
@@trgoohileshea2820 Yeah I see what you mean and agree completely! Her live performance of Piece by Piece was incredible but this is for sure her most emotional hit as a studio release.
Quando eu era pequena na faixa de uns 7, 8 anos presenciava todas as discursões e violência físicas dos meus pais, e sempre passava essa música na tv eu não entendia a letra , mas quando eu olhava as cenas eu chorava tanto pq era o que eu estava vivendo. Eu implorava atenção dos meus pais pra se sentir amada. Essa música me marcou demais nela eu encontrava conforto que tudo ia passar🥹
+art volcano join the club pal. Everyone is at some point in their life. I am now, last 2-3 months. Music helps, but don't listen to all depressing songs like this. Listen to some crazy hardcore rock, and all varieties of music.
I’m 16 years old. And I’ve never was a child. This song hits me so hard, I feel like the lyrics was written about me. Thx Kelly for this beautiful song.
Me too, my father was an alcoholic with complication and he loved to humiliate my mother and me and my little sister. As a child, I injured myself and had anxiety neurosis. Currently I have no contact with this man, I am happy and I have everything I want because I earn a lot and have a lot of friends. This song reminds me of the horrible moments my father sent me 💔😥
No matter how many times I listen to this song, it makes me cry. And nothing makes me sad cry, ever. This song, though, it hits so close to home that it's not something even I can fight. That, to me, makes an amazing artist. Someone who makes songs that brings people's emotions out.❤
same here...he did not leave..but he was not a good father..he was an alcoholic and treated my mom very bad when he was drunk..and i was.also only a child when i saw all this stuff..i must admit he changed a lot in the last couple of years..but i just can't forget and forgive all the things that i witness and felt in my childhood..i think i can't have a serious relationship because of him..i really do not trust men because of him..i always think that they will hurt me in one way or another..so i always end it before it gets to serious
I was these parents and I stopped myself because of this song. Granted I was only 15 when I had my daughter . But still this song opened my eyes . I didn't want to be like my mom.
Martin bezuch you are right... I'm in the 2020 and the time is going so fast... It was yesterday the I was at primary school and now, second of secondary school... I'm afraid of the time.
Yep I know the feeling. A lot of people are in denial because if they see their own pain it will kill them. I feel my pain and own up to it but my parents are unable to, co workers are unable to, etc. I’m blessed to have someone in my life that understands who is helping me grow a long with Jesus. I pray that God heals your families brokenness and gives you time to heal. I cut my dad out of my life which means I have to cut my step mom and half sister out of my life to. I never enjoyed her analyzing me either sense she’s a therapist it just never felt authentic
you totally hit the nail on the head, I got out when my father died(I was 16), it took 22 years for me to even think of my family, my mother died a few years ago and I finally told her what she did to me, you never treat your children with distain, it will follow them through their lives.
This song is so emotional. Makes you want to cry. The fact that Clive Davis hated this song and called Kelly a horrible songwriter is terrible and baffling. Kelly worked hard to get this song on an album. And no one liked this song until it became a # 1 hit worldwide. But, in the end, it all worked out for Kelly. “Because of You” got on the album, it became a hit, and it became one of her biggest hit songs to date. And so many people can relate to this song in one way or another!
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
@@notjokeyaya4468 What on earth are you on about? I'd like to think you have a sincere response in your heart but what you've replied with is just a mess that (on a first read) has very little connection to the original post...It honestly just sounds like you are airing something in your soul that maybe should have been a comment all of its own. in response to the original comment: I can't believe there was opposition to such a lyrically and musically powerful song. I cry every time I hear it because it resonates so deeply with me.
Can definately relate. My mom is trying to steal my house right now and I'm homeless now. She's a practicing alcoholic - it will kill her sooner before later. And how to forgive her before she dies is going to be a beast. Everyone can relate to this song in some way
Kelly, despite this song being sad, it's such a great sounding one that's one of my favorites from August 16th 2005 I remember when I was 11 going on 12 then. I still enjoy this song being 30 going on 31 in a bit more than 2 months. This one is great like "Everytime We Touch" by Cascada. And "If Lovin's What You Want" by Rihanna. And they were both released the same day as this on A Tue. . You go, girl!
This song never gets old. For the ones of us who understand the lyrics. You deserve better than you may allow yourself. Life is too short to be stuck with misery!
"...Because of you.... I don't know how to let anyone else in...." Hit me hard...Grew up in a family where both parents were emotionally unavailable...
edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.
when you live in the forest alone in reality. with real knowledge and ecosystems. you shoot because you need to. even you realize that you are lonely. your heart doesn't want to destroy more. where you feel comforted by the presence of those who comfort you. the logic of this life will surely emerge. when the purity of the heart is not polluted by unrighteous thoughts. what do you shoot for? there's even a better way than archery. to survive? there's not even an end. all have a function and are used for something that is right and not justify something of the thing done.
All jobs require good management. even in places of worship. when making mistakes and violations. in big cities. not an ordinary sight. but get used to it. when we do not dare to admit and bear losses and mistakes. but by taking the right or something basic. to cover losses from people's property or that is contrary to even violating God's law. be for the atonement and cover the loss, even make it a fantastic field and profit. good things, bad things and a feeling of dilemma (good people look evil and are annihilated) become a familiar image. it is so sad and unlucky if a righteous person experiences the same thing as an evil person. beware. remember the story of the brothers. his brother .did what was right and best for God. but his brother became jealous and killed his brother . not all good deeds, bring benefits for yourself, even for God. there were only four of them and who would want to see and for what? Be alert and don't let this heart be ruled by bad thoughts. if not the closest person? who can help? why everything is turned opposite. keep trying and spirit?
This song resonates with everyone who went through rough childhood experience which maybe just little less intense to say traumatic because there are people who have been through worse, but doesn’t mean it affects you less. Some traumatic childhood experiences are hard to explain because you had food on your plate and a roof over your head. Your parents worked hard for you, and didn’t abandon you but emotionally they were not there, and you never received that emotional security to grow into a full happy adult. All those arguments, bitterness, chaos and fear left a huge hole inside your heart, who would you hold accountable? My heart breaks every time I come to this song because I see myself in that little girl
Felt every word, hers and yours. I still cry when I see the video, and I repeat to myself "I will not make the same mistakes that you did". I am a mother now.
Raised by single mom since I was five, I didn't realise how parent could affect their kids until I became grown man, there's something lacking inside of me but I thought I'm fine which is not. For many years I thought I've been doing right choices turns out I'm just escaping. Escaping from home, escaping my true feeling to anyone.
I hope, your able to come it and live the life your meant too live.... From personal experience, I realized it ok to grow up without father.... Was it painful yes, but in the end it wasn't him I was searching for.... I don't know your circumstances, but i know what you needed is already inside you.... I praying you realize this before it too late....
I grew up in a loving home.. with loving parents. My personal childhood experience is anathema to this song, yet hearing it saddens me on such a deep, primal level. Maybe its because i have two little kids of my own, and I would move heaven and earth to spare them from this kind of heartache.. no child should even have to go through something like this
Imtiaz Sheik I’ve got two kids, me and my wife fight. Only mild though. My weird practical jokes don’t help. I put a rubber spider in her pocket. He he. She wasn’t impressed. My daughter loved it. “Whoooo a spider”, . Ha ha ha.
No, it's about her father. She's stated several times she wrote this song about how her father left her mother. But some aspects are likely about her mother, etc.
Because you won't get your heart hurt anymore if you don't let any possible threat in 👍 and after some decades, the loneliness is just a habit, like breathing anyway
WOW BEAUTIFUL SONG BEAUTIFUL WORD'S BEAUTIFUL VOICE BEAUTIFUL PERSON IN THE UNIVERS WHEN YOU SING GIRL IT SMILES DOWN ON YOU GOD BLESS YOU GIRL AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY AND BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS AMEN 🙏 ❤️
Can't believe she was only 16 when she wrote this. Because of her parents divorce. And her first label laughed when she tried to put it on her first album. Wow! Kelly Clarkson will always be super under rated. She is amazing! Her voice is just WOW! I'm glad she has a talk show now tho! Yey!
Nah, this is just a fairytale, another Love Song to be forgotten Erase all my data when I'm gone, when I am done with the visit on Earth Hays, I thought this is just another summer vacation Damn, I feel jealous
@@alyssalancto7781 Girl, it's a wide-known fact, not some fairy tale in your head. Kelly is literally one of the writers of this song. The duet version with Reba was released 3 years later.
@@alyssalancto7781 You are the one who should do some research LOL Breakaway the album was released in 2004 (which has Because of You original version) while Reba: Duets was released in 2007. Idk why you think Reba has anything to do with the writing credit of this song. The song was written and produced by Kelly, Ben Moody, and David Hodges (the latter two were members of Evanescence at the time)
@@alyssalancto7781 TH-cam was not as popular back in 2004 so there are songs that were published on TH-cam way later than their original release date. This mean TH-cam published date is not a credible source for such information. Some simple Google search can help you answer the question of writing credit or release date.
To everybody who feels like this song hits close to home: You're strong. You've come so far, despite everything, and this means you can pull through whatever you want in life. Don't forget you are loved, and that family is where the pieces of our heart belong - not bound by something so random as blood, but by choice.
Yes, I understand. But, the parents need to understand that. My ex-wife left me - I could never do that to my daughter - to bring her up into a broken home - but, my ex is selfish and stubborn and only thought about herself - I could NEVER take her back, it would never be the same. She left, and I will ghost her for the rest of my living life.
Yes..... the damage is real and hard to fix. Im forced to live with an anxiety disorder, panic disorder, agorophobia and ocd. Too much traumatic events happen when growing up and now its hard to handle all the mental damage done by my parents. And still they like to point out the problems I have due to this mental disorders do they even know they caused these mental problems??? harsh ..
Radha Chatterjee That’s just how life is. I’m a child and I’ve just gone through so much in my life. Nothing dangerous, just a lot of mental abuse and being screamed at every day and being told terrible things. And I have a lot of family problems. It’s not better, but the past few days have been good so I guess that’s good.
Peggy Schuyler I disagree with the "or divorce" part heavily. My parents are divorced, but were mature about. I never heard them argue to my memory, I never saw violence, even to this day they can hold civilized conversation when discussing something about me as far as I'm aware, and I see both almost equally. There is no reason for two people to be in a toxic or miserable relationship for the child's sake, and that is what leads to the violence and cheating that will likely give the child trust issues and anxiety.
To anyone who's been though this I'm soo sorry and I hope u make your life way more then your pass and live happy. Don't quit on life just look at the good things and make your future better than your pass
When you're not an english speaker and all of your teen years this was about a broken relationship and now realize it'a about toxic parenting and abusive parents and now it just hits you REALLy close to home.
Everytime I listen to this song, I cry. Everyone relates differently to it, it reminds me of my childhood, the abuse from by father, the family fights, screams, hitting. Every word, literally every word, hits so hard. I'll never be like that, I keep telling myself every time the song finishes. I'm 30 this month, and I still fight the demons from the past. But we all just have to be better, better than our parents, better than us yesterday. ♥️
I'm so sorry i know how it feels my Mother only thought of herself so when she told me my grandmother died I did not know what to do i felt empty. I'm only 11 and already experiencing the pain of a heartbreak. My mom saw me break today and now knows i have feelings too.
Yeah easier to remember everything when your a kid. Past your teen years not as easy to remember everything only important info and things. it generally gets worse in late 20's early 30's. Children remember everything. And of course 50 and over dementia can occur. It's the weirdest thing but even those who are very sharp can loose their memory at that age
When she sings "I cannot cry because I know that's weakness in your eyes, I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh everyday of my life..." Always hit me hard 😔
Same!!:( I cry like crazy... Cause every word is relatable!!:( and those who say we are just trying to get empathy... Most probably you haven't felt the pain we have!!:/
Adrian LBS story of my life too, except my abusive father has gotten less abusive but still is, I'm happliy married and out of their house but I am the person he hates the most. Life gets better, hense the ending off this clip
I'm terribly sorry. As a person who's mother and father are split, the best advice I can give is to put aside whatever toxic feelings there are for the kids sake and hopefully they are able to see both parents throughout the year.
As a child of divorced parents at the age of 7, I preferred it most of the time when my parents were apart. They were constantly arguing and making each other upset, thus also making my sister and I upset too. When I was younger/teen years, I just yearned for my family to be put back together and I still do now sometimes feel sad when I think of my parents and how they're not married anymore. Looking back as an adult now, although it's sad, I feel like it's the right choice to separate, if the people in the relationship aren't happy anymore or constantly fighting because it does affect the kids. Hope everything works out for you 😊
This song makes me cry everytime I listen to it... Because I have a daughter, I'm a single mom. And I hope she'll never go through what I've been through (all the heartbreak, all the pain, all the lying, all the suffering and abuse)...
I am a dad my daughter just turned 1 yesterday sometimes life can be rough i know because my childhood was not easy with my parents i was the black sheep so everyone even my entire family turned their back on me, but focus what you have right now don't let the past decide your life you can never erase the pain and it will always haunt you but don't let others suffer from your pains i did and i am a better man now after all my mistakes.
Kelly Townsend It's something I don't want to speak on the internet to let the whole world know about my problems. I just can relate to it. That's all...
My favorite lyrics. Watching this video reminds of my parents disfacial marriage. People always tell me and "your nice but heartless at the same time, who broke your heart" NO ONE has ever broken my heart, being rises by 2 broken people there for "my heart can't possibly break because it was never hole to start with."
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é impressionante como uma musica, que está na minha vida desde que me entendo por gente, pode falar tanto de mim e falar tanto comigo como neste momento. nunca veio tão forte "because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty" como agora. e é tudo culpa minha.
to my future child or children, i will not allow you to feel the fear and pain that i suffered as a child. i will bring you up to know that you are loved and cherished. i will not allow anyone hurt or abuse you like my father hurt and abused me, for you will mean more to me than life itself. i will never allow you to feel as if you are nothing, worthless because even though i don't know you yet, i love you with my heart and soul and i can't wait to be your mum and to laugh and live life with you and create the most amazing memories together
The feeling that your all alone and that your family doesn't give a damn about you... it hurts... it hurts really bad. Then you watch this video and like realize that instead of crying and looking back at the painful past, let's just focus at the present and "I will not make the same mistakes that you did"
Her voice & her song are so powerful. I don't know how she can sing it all the way through without bursting into tears. This song is incredible, just gives me chills.
Dear my future child, i promised myself will give you all my love and i will never repeat the same mistake like how my parents did. *Please don't reply if you never experienced living in a toxic family. My dad cheated and abused my mom.
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So very true! Also, I was so young you should’ve known better than to lean on me... I hear pieces of myself so often in this song, a few are not “bad” but made me stronger n more aware of choices before I made them....I hope this is coming right to where nobody takes this the wrong way.... that’s not my intention. Another song that touches my heart is “Where is the Love”
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Every children deserves a parent, but not all parents deserves a child...
-Unknown
Your words should get repeated......children should not bear the burden....kids....just want "parents" to care........
my parents don't...wish I wasn't born
Precisely
@@ghazalysi6574 that is terribly destructive to your self esteem. Hard to reach out and seek the people who will love you after that - that is the point of the song. Do you mind me asking how old you are?
@@helenebennie3961 nobody likes me tbh...even my friends, I'm always the last priority to them which I don't blame them because when my mom can say such terrible stuff to me how can I blame strangers...the point of this song for me is to never have a child and never make someone live through this hell, I mean this world... and I'm 23 btw I just graduated from university
“I cannot cry because I know it’s weakness in your eyes” wow. It just hits harder now that we’re older.
Or it's because we are finally feel comfortable to cry now. It's sad. God bless you nia I hope it gets better for you.
Or because we get attacked when we cry, because we cry
Maybe we cry because we've held the pain in too long. Because we've had to be strong too long. Crying isn't weakness. God bless y'all ❤
@@misfitbrit1989 , how would we get rid of our psychological pain without tears?
@@happyface4711 Exactly how I feel. thank you so much and god bless.
I grew up with a toxic mother but I'm breaking that cycle with my children her mistake will not cost the future relationship I want with my children
I wish you a good health
Same but with my father tho
More power to you girl!
Britta Balfour honestly my dad was an alcoholic and was raised with really good parents but some bad things happened to him when he was a teen and it causes a lot of problems for him in relationships he and my mom had a very volatile relationship but he was never toxic to me or my siblings always supported us as much as someone who is struggling with alcoholism can he was less toxic than my mom who had a really bad relationship with her mom but was a fully functioning member of society I’m still thankful for her providing all the things I need I just feel like my dad loves me and my siblings more I can tell how much he means that when he says he loves us as he really wants to protect us from all the bad in this world I just feel more love in the way he speaks compared to my mom who just seems a little cold
Britta Balfour I want to be a parent who’s fully there for my kids like my mom but really let them know how much I love them and believe in them like my dad did
Brings me to tears whenever I watch this. I do recognize I am broken too.
same... maybe we will surive...
"I was so young you should have known better than to lean on me."
That one lyric summarizes my entire childhood in a way I thought no one else understood.
Sarah Peterson it must have been so hard for you. Many children are placed in that position by broken hurting parents. I retreated into drugs and alcohol, unfortunately my children lived through it with me. Now they have both had their struggles, very hard. My father abandoned my young mother and her four children when I was four. The cycle goes on and on.
That one lyric make me cry...
When my mom was depressed she would use me as a therapist. Just dumped all her problems on me. I was in high school and felt like I was the adult at home. Didn't tell her about the stuff I was going through because I didn't want to add to her problems. Which is why they found out about my suicidal thoughts from my psychiatrist about 1.5 years after it started.
@@ajsoltani I'm sorry to hear you went through that. You were likely right to hide it from your mom. Mine would lecture me about how I had to grow up and be more grateful whenever I mentioned my depression to her.
Same.
“My heart can’t possibly break, if it wasn’t even whole to start with.”
Gets me every time.
same
Me too. Me too.
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I dont got it
Γμς τα, same.
Today I was wondering how you call the emotion when you feel sad about losing something you never had in the first place.
Broken home isn't choice,, but people's that lives with this kind of pain is stronger than anything..
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.
Stay strong miss lady
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When I sing this all my fear go away let’s all celebrate the day together in Jesus Christ birthday ❤🎉
December 25 is NOT Jesus's birthdate. It doesn't state his birth date anywhere in the Bible. Please research when he was born.
Dear future child. I will never do the same mistakes my parents did. I will always be there for you and love you with all my heart. You will never be alone. You will always be loved.
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Are u laughing ? @@rosemaklari3904
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it hurts to heal but worths it... trust me... hurts like hell! but a lil smile and kiss from your lil you will heal everything....
She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
In response to the comment from Breanna Jones that this song was written by Reba McEntire: The songwriting credits are given to Kelly Clarkson, David Hodges and Ben Moody. Hodges and Moody produced the song. Kelly has said that the song would not have gotten recorded without their help, so she gave them a songwriting credit. But Kelly wrote it at 16. It was about her parents divorce. Reba did record her own version of this with Kelly. Kelly released it on her Breakaway album in 2005. Reba's version came out on her album Duets in 2007. So while Reba did sing a version of it, she had nothing to do with the writing of it. I hope that clears things up.
I just heard an older interview with Jewel speaking about how insanely gifted artistic Kelly Clarkson is.
I love Kelly, her voice is great! But The Voice is, Whitney Elizabeth Houston... nothing against Kelly, she is fabulous! But Whitney is Whitney…love y'all!🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197 That's what's great about music. There is something for everyone to enjoy. For me it's Kelly, for you it's Whitney. Everybody's happy. With all the hate in this world, music can bring people together.
@@frankingenito oh yes! I'm totally agree with you! Everyone has his preference, his liking... Music unites! Music makes life more enjoyable ! Music is love, music is against the hate! Wishing you all the best! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍 And sorry for my English I'm Italian...😊
If I could meet Kelly I'd tell her how her song help me deal with the pain of my father's abuse.. thank you Kelly I love you God bless you!!
He was teaching you to be strong x
@@monsieur9743 yeah, teaching her to be strong in a worse possible way
@@monsieur9743 abuse isnt teaching
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Stay strong!🤗☺️
The song 'Because of you' by Kelly Clarkson resonates deeply with me. It truly defines my childhood and continues to shape my life even now.
My mom is a kind and responsible person, but when things went wrong, she would turn to alcohol. She’d drink, get drunk, become loud and emotional, often crying uncontrollably. I couldn’t sleep when she was like that, and I still remember the shame it brought upon us. It was especially difficult when people visited our house, as she would always be drinking, and I was so embarrassed by it. The worst was when she and my dad fought-those weren’t just arguments, they were intense, with shouting, objects being thrown, and a lot of trauma. I’m sure our neighbors could hear everything. I remember feeling powerless, unable to do anything but cry. I thought things would change as we grew older, but even now, they remain the same. It hurts to see my mom still stuck in that cycle. I long for her to be the comfort and support that I need, but it feels like she’s no longer that person, even though she’s the one responsible for it.
I always have to be the strong one because whenever I cry, it’s seen as a weakness in her eyes. I’ve talked to her many times about how alcohol is not the answer, how it affects me emotionally, but it seems like her feelings are prioritized over mine. It’s painful to realize that the person who should be there to comfort and support you is also the one who triggers those deepest wounds.
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I bet she had no idea how many lives she'd impact with this song.
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Around the world
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“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” so profound !
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That line kills me. Every time.
To everyone who survived narcissistic or abusive parents I'm glad you're here today and I hope you never give up trying to be happy. It can be so much harder than some people will ever understand but you are strong and you have been through things nobody deserves to deal with. My heart goes out to you. 💜
I hope you can break the cycle. And that having a bad childhood doesn't have to define your whole life because you can be happy. You've already come so far. And if you're not ok... that's ok. 💜
im still stuck here trying to make it through this hell.... this song describes me...
im a 16 yr old girl stuck with an emotionally physically and mentally abusive mother and brother and this is completly domestic violene her and i need mmoney an online job to leave to get to an online friend i want to meet that ive known for 1 yr and a half and im honestly about to have another breakdown i have depression fears anxieties...
@@Littlekey1212_Backup I hope you get out of your toxic situation and into a better place asap. You are strong to be going through this. I'm sending love. Nobody deserves abuse. I hope you can find safety and heal. I'm sorry I can't help more. I wish I could help you escape. I hope you can get an online job and save some money.
@@echastee thnks that means alot to me
Being with a narcissistic is a very difficult situation, But when you find the right person to get you out you appreciate life more & you thank the person who got you out!
I'm Not looking back, I was lucky.
Thank you ❤
Who’s listening to this song in September 2024 ???
Me😂
Checked in
This is what happened to me...😢
I am rigth now 😊
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To everyone who have family issues, who never feel loved, who have traumatic experiences and etc,just wanting to let you know that you are loved. You are worth it and the scars you have doesn't define you. You are you. You are loved by many. Please stay strong for a bit, stay strong for that new music you've been anticipating, stay strong for wanting to eat the meal you've always wanted, stay strong for your friends who loves you even if they don't show it right away.
Thank you
Thanks :)
Lol
Thank you, friend 👍
@@courtneypopich3117 is there something funny?
My aunt was the one who introduced me to This song which was 4 years ago, 2010. She was probably the only family member I ever had that Cared for me. My parents are just a pair of Messed ups. A few years later, she passed on from having cancer and the only thing I have left is this song to remind me of her...And I break down everytime I hear this song. Thank you Aunty, Because of you, I actually felt loved for that once... :') God bless anyone who listens to this song and get feels .
Oi boa noite, gostei de sua Historia e muito bonita, e ao mesmo tempo muito triste. Tchau gostaria de ser seu amigo. RuiBradok
I really and exactly know how u feel
This gets me and explains what I feel and have been feeling for years
And I'm glad that someone else knows my pain as well
My parents were all fucked up and it felt like no one in the world cared about me
Oi eu me importo. muito com você...você não disse se aceita ser minha amiga. escreva-me, adoraria saber mais sobre você...e sua Historia. Tchau RuiBradok
Olá, sinto muito você ter passado por isto. Sei que não é fácil, mas tente ser forte! Um dia isto tudo terá fim e você será muito Feliz..
I don't know you, but surround yourself with people who love you :) Hope all is well!
I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you (oh)
Because of you (mm, oh)
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Because these lyrics are beautiful and powerful to the bone marrow love her and this gem of a tune stay strong and courageous😂😂.
@@andrewjwheelerjr275 it reminds me of the song "Breakthrough" by TWICE, powerful but not as sad as Kelly's lyrics
Scrolled through the comments to find that one guy who copypastes the lyrics under a music video. Thanks mate
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This is one of Kelly's best performances! Just beautiful!
Why is it always the sad songs that get the most love?
The answer: because if there’s one thing we can all relate to, it’s pain. Be kind to others everyone. And stay safe.
stay home, coronavirus is painful
So true
@@bobblesV4.0 you too
Cause we all depressed
Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, and may your dreams come true, stay safe and have a wonderful day:)
thank you! needed that!
Thank you for this! I wish you the same✨♥️
tq frenz
Thanks wishing yo the same!💖
Thanks dude❤
I never cried so much than this song. This song literally told my whole childhood. I grew up with a toxic and abusive father that always hates me. He loves to manipulate others specially my mother who is the only one who loved me the most. The saddest thing is that I'm 16 now ... And I can't get over to everything.
This song answered alot of questions that I asked my self.
The chorus literally is what I'm going through right now. It's hard for me to trust, I'm to scared to take risk, I tend to not try something new as I'm too scared to be pointed out again and get scolded and it feels like I'm too scared for anything... I'm so lost.
I wish you all the best. I totally understand how it feels. I’m just a couple of years older than you, but I had a similar experience. I grew up in an Asian family, where they valued boys more than girls. I have an abusive mother; she hates me and would hit me every day. I remember on my 14th birthday, she even told me that bringing me into this world was the worst decision she ever made. She said her life is worse because of me. Even now, it still hurts when I think of that. But I believe the most important thing is that you need to love yourself. Treat yourself as well as you can, be a good person, and stay positive. You’re not alone, and I know you can overcome this!
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If you’ve grown up in an abusive childhood this song hits you on so many levels
I know
Yes so much that it hurts.
Yeah. I feel like this song will always hit me in a painful way.
yes everytime i heard this song it makes me cry coz i grew up physically and emotionally abuse
KIT KAT I luckily only had emotional abuse.
This song so beautifully and accurately shows the painful emotions that are at the core of childhood trauma and narcissistic abuse by parents and caregivers in early childhood. Powerful.
But u overlooked the trauma experienced by the wife.
Yess👏🏽
@@sweetjoker0813 meio que caras assim só falam de homens mas nunca poe a mulher como abusadora
Don't think so simp
Thank you for this. :’)
Une terrible maladie . Ce n’est pas celui qui oubli le plus triste , c’est celui qui voit son amour se perdre 😢 Merci Amel .
To everyone who has been through childhood trauma,
You are amazing. You're so strong and I'm so proud of you for managing everything so well. I know you feel confused and helpless but please never give up on yourself. It wasn't your fault,you were just a child trying to discover the world...
God has a gift for everyone who has been so strong to deal with a traumatic childhood,he has for you too and that's why he has given you so much strength. I believe in your power and I know you'll be able to get through this difficult journey and come out stronger with every moment passing by. Just because,nobody knows about your pain doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Your trauma is real and matters.
Stay strong.
Thank you very much
Thank you so much 💕 I needed that
Yes it is...I'm trying to find a homeless shelter to escape the emotional abuse 😢
I'm crying read this
Have been through childhood trauma - this reminds me of plants that are fed with poison instead of water. Have to survive this and it's a miracle to grow up psychologically strong or healthy after childhood trauma
hey, broken homies. it's still our Anthem
Definitely!
Yes :)
Yep
@F. Santos
Yeah
"i was so young, you should have known better than to lean on me" gets me everytime.
Kelly is clearly talking to her mom in that lyric. I feel the same way as you.
Me 2
I get what she's saying and I sympathize... I just don't know that I can blame my mother for looking for comfort or support, even though, I was young and I had no idea what to do. There were so many times I held a knife at the door or paced around with a baseball bat just bc I wanted to kill the guy that hurt her and I just couldn't do it.
@@rachelluviano7514 this whole song is about her mom🥺 whats sad is people dismiss it as a break up song because they don't listen to the lyrics well enough but this song is so much more meaningful and powerful than a break up song. Anyone can get over a breakup, but a damaged relationship with your own parents? Now thats just something you don't recover from💔
"and now I cry in the middle of the night for the same. damn. thing" I wish it didn't resonate this much
I wasn't physically abused as a child, but I did experience emotional abuse and neglect. I keep coming back to this song because it articulates the experience so vividly and real.
Same here. CPTSD is a nightmare especially when you didn’t have the bruises to show. I hope you’re okay.
I pray you'll get better soon guys 🥺
Same.
***True love = the love of God!*** God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being Philippians 2:5-8
Same! 🥺
It took me 30 years of suppressed trauma and 2 years of therapy to realize that I've been singing along to this song since middle school without knowing what it really, deeply meant to me. I forgive you, mom.
You never deserved so much of trauma and suffering. You're so brave to forgive your mom...
I wish you have a beautiful life ahead. I'm sure you'll become stronger and stronger with every moment passing by.
God loves you.
@@justbreathing8003 God bless. Your kind words have lifted up a soul today 🙏
God bless you and everyone under this comment 🥺
@@mutias.noviani785 My heart goes out to you Mutia. You are strong--just one foot in front of the other. That's all we need to focus on.
I completely understand the pain I’m gonna through separation at the moment and I forgot who I am num to the world and no one can understand I don’t want to live but I have to we don’t get choices we are trapped in the scars they left us
Both of my parents died along with my brother at age 15 I have been a orphan since that date I’m now 29 and the pain will never leave my heart 💓 because I was to young to realise they where my best friends , Mum , Dad , Matthew I’ll see you in eternity I’m heading every day towards you xx
Be strong honey 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️
I'm sorry about this but I do hope you can find solace and strength in God and know that they are up looking down at you and proud of all your little victories and accomplishments, plus the big ones. Take care
@@mazuro1293 Thank you 🙏 your kind words mean a lot to me. Have a fantastic day , much love.
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I've no words to make you feel better.
I think this is Kelly Clarkson's most powerful hit. She pours every ounce of emotion into this and it's heartbreaking.
I love these song it's remind me my husband first time we kiss and..
This and "Piece by Piece". I think they go hand in hand really. A part 1 and 2. I would suggest watching her live performances of Piece by Piece to see what I mean.
I love dis song
@@D2FFDK Piece by piece is one of her greatest live performances. To make Keith Urban and Jennifer Lopez cry (as well as all of
America) is quite an accomplishment. I liked the acoustic performance much better than the studio version. I still think this is her best studio release. It's heartbreaking.
@@trgoohileshea2820 Yeah I see what you mean and agree completely! Her live performance of Piece by Piece was incredible but this is for sure her most emotional hit as a studio release.
few years later i finally understand this song and this video :'(
😢
My old helper loved this song! When I listened to it, turned out I like it too! Great song! Too bad it's a sad song.
Same whoa!!
still dont
+Winnie Lu Right? The first time I watched it, it was just a music video, but now I understand it.
Quando eu era pequena na faixa de uns 7, 8 anos presenciava todas as discursões e violência físicas dos meus pais, e sempre passava essa música na tv eu não entendia a letra , mas quando eu olhava as cenas eu chorava tanto pq era o que eu estava vivendo. Eu implorava atenção dos meus pais pra se sentir amada. Essa música me marcou demais nela eu encontrava conforto que tudo ia passar🥹
"because of you i'm ashamed of my life because it's empty"
- truly because of you
I'm going...geez we just met in the TH-cam comments and you're already telling me to leave
John Smith No Jack come back >> with Rose voice :P
+John Smith Hahahahahaha Lmao
+shaden hani my life is empty
+art volcano join the club pal. Everyone is at some point in their life. I am now, last 2-3 months. Music helps, but don't listen to all depressing songs like this. Listen to some crazy hardcore rock, and all varieties of music.
I’m 16 years old. And I’ve never was a child. This song hits me so hard, I feel like the lyrics was written about me.
Thx Kelly for this beautiful song.
Me too, my father was an alcoholic with complication and he loved to humiliate my mother and me and my little sister. As a child, I injured myself and had anxiety neurosis. Currently I have no contact with this man, I am happy and I have everything I want because I earn a lot and have a lot of friends. This song reminds me of the horrible moments my father sent me 💔😥
Me too, my father was horrible when I was growing up. He never cared for anyone other than himself and left when I was about five.
Take care of you...
That's a song..... getting me deep thinking,
@@shxdique5866 same but I chose not to publically share my story as I don't want sympathy
@@loronthompson7344 then why are you sharing it now?
This came out 6 years ago.
Still one of best songs I've ever heard.
Ikr one of my faves ♥♡♥
Vi this song came out 11 years ago in 2004 on her album Breakaway and 9 years ago on radio in 2006. lol
Lol, you're right.
Not 11 years ago, 10 years
Alaya Basinger Oct 30 will be 11 it was released in 2004
No matter how many times I listen to this song, it makes me cry. And nothing makes me sad cry, ever. This song, though, it hits so close to home that it's not something even I can fight. That, to me, makes an amazing artist. Someone who makes songs that brings people's emotions out.❤
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You know what hurts the most is when you can relate to this song with your own father, the only thing is he didn't even leave.
I feel the same
I'm sorry to hear that. but I can tell you that you're strong. and I'm proud that you've been this strong
+Aislynn Wilken yea
same. he didn't leave. so i had to leave.
same here...he did not leave..but he was not a good father..he was an alcoholic and treated my mom very bad when he was drunk..and i was.also only a child when i saw all this stuff..i must admit he changed a lot in the last couple of years..but i just can't forget and forgive all the things that i witness and felt in my childhood..i think i can't have a serious relationship because of him..i really do not trust men because of him..i always think that they will hurt me in one way or another..so i always end it before it gets to serious
who else’s childhood was like this? and looking back you’re just amazed that you pulled through all the hurt even when you thought you wouldn’t.
+ArmaniCoat me
I was these parents and I stopped myself because of this song. Granted I was only 15 when I had my daughter . But still this song opened my eyes . I didn't want to be like my mom.
15 years long when I first heard this song
and it still make me cry
I think only who had grown in the broken family can really feel the lyrics
When I first heard this song I thought about growing up, a mother who instilled fear when I very young! I am stronger for it now, I won!
Hallo ich steh voll euer lied ich bin Sina Berghahn!!!
2020 anyone? Nostalgia hit me like a train...
Edit:
2021 and still going!
Edit 2.0(2024):
Timeless song.
damn, time is going so fast
Martin bezuch
you are right... I'm in the 2020 and the time is going so fast... It was yesterday the I was at primary school and now, second of secondary school... I'm afraid of the time.
I was in primary school when the song came out... now I'm a college/university student...
ROMANIA❤️❤️
@@vikvik9573 I ain't from Romania, but respect for Romania from Macedonia :D
This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!
This will forever be my song to my parents. No one knows how it feel to have a family that looks complete outside, but inside its already broken.
Millions know exactly that. I hope you really don't think it is only you?
😭😭😭😭😭
@@martinjames4600 a lot of people do know how it feels. What I meant was no one knows how it feels unless it happens to you.
Yep I know the feeling. A lot of people are in denial because if they see their own pain it will kill them. I feel my pain and own up to it but my parents are unable to, co workers are unable to, etc. I’m blessed to have someone in my life that understands who is helping me grow a long with Jesus. I pray that God heals your families brokenness and gives you time to heal. I cut my dad out of my life which means I have to cut my step mom and half sister out of my life to. I never enjoyed her analyzing me either sense she’s a therapist it just never felt authentic
you totally hit the nail on the head, I got out when my father died(I was 16), it took 22 years for me to even think of my family, my mother died a few years ago and I finally told her what she did to me, you never treat your children with distain, it will follow them through their lives.
"Because of you, I'm ashamed of my life, because it's empty." Ten years later and it still gets me
the song is from 2004
I dont know how to trust not only me but everyone around me :(
Oh my god this discribes me
!!!!!!!!!
@@dsansil No bro
Around 2010
This song is so emotional. Makes you want to cry. The fact that Clive Davis hated this song and called Kelly a horrible songwriter is terrible and baffling. Kelly worked hard to get this song on an album. And no one liked this song until it became a # 1 hit worldwide. But, in the end, it all worked out for Kelly. “Because of You” got on the album, it became a hit, and it became one of her biggest hit songs to date. And so many people can relate to this song in one way or another!
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
@@notjokeyaya4468 What on earth are you on about? I'd like to think you have a sincere response in your heart but what you've replied with is just a mess that (on a first read) has very little connection to the original post...It honestly just sounds like you are airing something in your soul that maybe should have been a comment all of its own.
in response to the original comment: I can't believe there was opposition to such a lyrically and musically powerful song. I cry every time I hear it because it resonates so deeply with me.
F Clive Davis.
Can definately relate. My mom is trying to steal my house right now and I'm homeless now. She's a practicing alcoholic - it will kill her sooner before later. And how to forgive her before she dies is going to be a beast.
Everyone can relate to this song in some way
Kelly, despite this song being sad, it's such a great sounding one that's one of my favorites from August 16th 2005 I remember when I was 11 going on 12 then. I still enjoy this song being 30 going on 31 in a bit more than 2 months. This one is great like "Everytime We Touch" by Cascada. And "If Lovin's What You Want" by Rihanna. And they were both released the same day as this on A Tue. . You go, girl!
This song never gets old. For the ones of us who understand the lyrics. You deserve better than you may allow yourself. Life is too short to be stuck with misery!
True 💞💞
it is a very sad song really
yes im in misry
Oh, and war is a bad thing, too! You could have added that. And cancer! I mean, what's with cancer?!! ;-)
@@suds2808 🙏
"Because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty". That is for my mother. I pray one day I can forgive you for what you did to me.
darry39 i deal with this .. Hope u find peace
darry39 try to forgive her❤
Same wttf😭
darry39 I hope you find peace
Stay strong💞 I know it’s hard but you’ve got to give it your all. Your a strong person. You’ve got this 💞
"...Because of you.... I don't know how to let anyone else in...."
Hit me hard...Grew up in a family where both parents were emotionally unavailable...
yesssss
@@fellagaspersz7505 I keep replaying the first like 40 seconds lol, it just hits me too hard
edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.
when you live in the forest alone in reality. with real knowledge and ecosystems. you shoot because you need to. even you realize that you are lonely. your heart doesn't want to destroy more. where you feel comforted by the presence of those who comfort you. the logic of this life will surely emerge. when the purity of the heart is not polluted by unrighteous thoughts. what do you shoot for? there's even a better way than archery. to survive? there's not even an end. all have a function and are used for something that is right and not justify something of the thing done.
All jobs require good management. even in places of worship. when making mistakes and violations. in big cities. not an ordinary sight. but get used to it. when we do not dare to admit and bear losses and mistakes. but by taking the right or something basic. to cover losses from people's property or that is contrary to even violating God's law. be for the atonement and cover the loss, even make it a fantastic field and profit. good things, bad things and a feeling of dilemma (good people look evil and are annihilated) become a familiar image. it is so sad and unlucky if a righteous person experiences the same thing as an evil person. beware. remember the story of the brothers. his brother .did what was right and best for God. but his brother became jealous and killed his brother . not all good deeds, bring benefits for yourself, even for God. there were only four of them and who would want to see and for what? Be alert and don't let this heart be ruled by bad thoughts. if not the closest person? who can help? why everything is turned opposite. keep trying and spirit?
Thank you for making me cry whenever I need to when I can't on my own ❤
Anyone with divorced parents knows how this feels and how true is this song, and the feelings of fear to fail just like your parents did
or parents who are divorcing. This song explain exactly the feeling...So modern in a sense
My parents have been married for 30 years, and trust me. I prayed everyday to them get divorced. Otherwise I woudnt be here crying on Christmas day.
Ikr😞
Sometimes a divorce is better than a sick and toxic marriage. Since I am 12 years old I say too my mum she should make a divorce,
yeah divorced? my parents had me and left each other i feel like i failed so bad
This song resonates with everyone who went through rough childhood experience which maybe just little less intense to say traumatic because there are people who have been through worse, but doesn’t mean it affects you less. Some traumatic childhood experiences are hard to explain because you had food on your plate and a roof over your head. Your parents worked hard for you, and didn’t abandon you but emotionally they were not there, and you never received that emotional security to grow into a full happy adult. All those arguments, bitterness, chaos and fear left a huge hole inside your heart, who would you hold accountable? My heart breaks every time I come to this song because I see myself in that little girl
Felt every word, hers and yours. I still cry when I see the video, and I repeat to myself "I will not make the same mistakes that you did". I am a mother now.
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The fact that Kelly Clarkson wrote this masterpiece when she was just 16.😭
Now I am more than double of her age that day and I just lying here to listen to her... That's legend!
True Stuff Hannah?
Not a masterpiece simp
Wait. SHE WROTE it???!?! Omg.... Omg wow. Omg... Seriously?!?! Omg omg omg. Wow
@@Anonymous-in4ed please go back to sleep anonymous...........
Nov 2024 anyone?😂
Meeee
Yes. I am here!
Here😅
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I'm still suffering from the childhood pain, hurt and insecurities. This song is touching the depth of my heart.
@@Unsolvedmysteries1 hope we won't suffer and be able to move on! We deserve a better life
I hope you feel better soon.
I'm praying for all of you . I hope you all will be okay . Stay strong :( 🤍
Me too. Lyrics of this song very touching me
I cried listening to this. It's so relatable.
Raised by single mom since I was five, I didn't realise how parent could affect their kids until I became grown man, there's something lacking inside of me but I thought I'm fine which is not. For many years I thought I've been doing right choices turns out I'm just escaping. Escaping from home, escaping my true feeling to anyone.
Stay strong, you will learn to deal with it and feel better i’m sure.
:(
I hope, your able to come it and live the life your meant too live.... From personal experience, I realized it ok to grow up without father.... Was it painful yes, but in the end it wasn't him I was searching for.... I don't know your circumstances, but i know what you needed is already inside you.... I praying you realize this before it too late....
Same feeling 😔
@Ma2yves You mean it can be difficult...
2019. Still listening to it. I know i am not only one.
I grew up in a loving home.. with loving parents. My personal childhood experience is anathema to this song, yet hearing it saddens me on such a deep, primal level. Maybe its because i have two little kids of my own, and I would move heaven and earth to spare them from this kind of heartache.. no child should even have to go through something like this
Imtiaz Sheik I’ve got two kids, me and my wife fight.
Only mild though.
My weird practical jokes don’t help.
I put a rubber spider in her pocket.
He he. She wasn’t impressed. My daughter loved it.
“Whoooo a spider”, . Ha ha ha.
Yes l'm here, still because of you .
You sure you are not alone
stfu come up with an original comment god damn
Boy, who can't relate to this? Beautiful job, Kelly.
I can feel the pain through her eyes...
Love Musik because all of this is true. She did go through everything in this song
OH!!! I never realized until now that this song was about her dad!
I didn't either, but I actually think it's about her mom
No, it's about her father. She's stated several times she wrote this song about how her father left her mother. But some aspects are likely about her mother, etc.
+DegrassiInstantStar in some ways yes
but it's also a lessons to couples
I actually think is about both her mom and dad, and how their bad example hunts her until now.
so so treu,,we sometimes do shambles,,but thtsbc we love our womens
"Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in" is one of my all time favorite lines from any song
Mine is "My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with" it does me in every time I hear it
Because you won't get your heart hurt anymore if you don't let any possible threat in 👍 and after some decades, the loneliness is just a habit, like breathing anyway
my life in one verse
This whole song is like my theme song. 🥺😢😭
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WOW BEAUTIFUL SONG BEAUTIFUL WORD'S BEAUTIFUL VOICE BEAUTIFUL PERSON IN THE UNIVERS WHEN YOU SING GIRL IT SMILES DOWN ON YOU GOD BLESS YOU GIRL AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY AND BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS AMEN 🙏 ❤️
Can't believe she was only 16 when she wrote this. Because of her parents divorce. And her first label laughed when she tried to put it on her first album. Wow! Kelly Clarkson will always be super under rated. She is amazing! Her voice is just WOW! I'm glad she has a talk show now tho! Yey!
Да, это удивительно...
Nah, this is just a fairytale, another Love Song to be forgotten
Erase all my data when I'm gone, when I am done with the visit on Earth
Hays, I thought this is just another summer vacation
Damn, I feel jealous
@@alyssalancto7781 Girl, it's a wide-known fact, not some fairy tale in your head. Kelly is literally one of the writers of this song. The duet version with Reba was released 3 years later.
@@alyssalancto7781 You are the one who should do some research LOL Breakaway the album was released in 2004 (which has Because of You original version) while Reba: Duets was released in 2007. Idk why you think Reba has anything to do with the writing credit of this song. The song was written and produced by Kelly, Ben Moody, and David Hodges (the latter two were members of Evanescence at the time)
@@alyssalancto7781 TH-cam was not as popular back in 2004 so there are songs that were published on TH-cam way later than their original release date. This mean TH-cam published date is not a credible source for such information. Some simple Google search can help you answer the question of writing credit or release date.
To everybody who feels like this song hits close to home: You're strong. You've come so far, despite everything, and this means you can pull through whatever you want in life. Don't forget you are loved, and that family is where the pieces of our heart belong - not bound by something so random as blood, but by choice.
Thank you so much, especially the last part.
I don't believe you but thanks :(
So bad
Thank you so much! ❤
needed this, thank you.
I well not let my family go through hell like i did when i was a child.
Angela w If you're still married to him you need to divorce him . I know it must be hard but you MUST leave him!!
Atleast for your kids' sake
Same fam, same
U had Nintendo 64 and psx it Wasnt a hell dude.
eu ainda estou aqui! nao perca a fe!!!!!!!!!!
This tells the story of millions. But children should never have to be a part of this...
Yes, I understand. But, the parents need to understand that. My ex-wife left me - I could never do that to my daughter - to bring her up into a broken home - but, my ex is selfish and stubborn and only thought about herself - I could NEVER take her back, it would never be the same. She left, and I will ghost her for the rest of my living life.
Because my parents abuse me when i was a kid. Now, im 25 yo and having suicidal thought. Abd think about it everyday. 😭
Yes..... the damage is real and hard to fix. Im forced to live with an anxiety disorder, panic disorder, agorophobia and ocd. Too much traumatic events happen when growing up and now its hard to handle all the mental damage done by my parents. And still they like to point out the problems I have due to this mental disorders do they even know they caused these mental problems??? harsh ..
Radha Chatterjee
That’s just how life is. I’m a child and I’ve just gone through so much in my life. Nothing dangerous, just a lot of mental abuse and being screamed at every day and being told terrible things. And I have a lot of family problems. It’s not better, but the past few days have been good so I guess that’s good.
Peggy Schuyler I disagree with the "or divorce" part heavily. My parents are divorced, but were mature about. I never heard them argue to my memory, I never saw violence, even to this day they can hold civilized conversation when discussing something about me as far as I'm aware, and I see both almost equally. There is no reason for two people to be in a toxic or miserable relationship for the child's sake, and that is what leads to the violence and cheating that will likely give the child trust issues and anxiety.
To anyone who's been though this I'm soo sorry and I hope u make your life way more then your pass and live happy. Don't quit on life just look at the good things and make your future better than your pass
thank you :)
tina tunup So much needed words. They made me tear up
thank you for understanding me :')
tina tunup you are absolutely right. The future is always brighter than the past.
tina tunup your a good person
When you're not an english speaker and all of your teen years this was about a broken relationship and now realize it'a about toxic parenting and abusive parents and now it just hits you REALLy close to home.
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Funny
100%
:(((
Who's here in December 2024?
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I from in Ukraine 🎉
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Brasil aqui sofrendo muito 😢😢
@@oksanaalokhina5268 I'm from Philippines
Everytime I listen to this song, I cry. Everyone relates differently to it, it reminds me of my childhood, the abuse from by father, the family fights, screams, hitting. Every word, literally every word, hits so hard. I'll never be like that, I keep telling myself every time the song finishes. I'm 30 this month, and I still fight the demons from the past. But we all just have to be better, better than our parents, better than us yesterday. ♥️
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I’m so sorry!!
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Stay strong 💪🏼
This is why I honestly feel that there should always be therapy sessions in school. Not a “counselor” but an actual psychologist on campus everyday.
Only in the US there are counselors, here in my country, there aren't even counselors!
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As a teen I would listen to this song cause it hit home. Parents don’t realize how much your upbringing affects you especially as a teen
I'm so sorry i know how it feels my Mother only thought of herself so when she told me my grandmother died I did not know what to do i felt empty. I'm only 11 and already experiencing the pain of a heartbreak. My mom saw me break today and now knows i have feelings too.
@@Taria154 i hope you're okay now, i know how it feels to have a mother who only thinks of herself...
@@Marcel-2174 Thank you It's really hard
Yeah easier to remember everything when your a kid. Past your teen years not as easy to remember everything only important info and things. it generally gets worse in late 20's early 30's. Children remember everything. And of course 50 and over dementia can occur. It's the weirdest thing but even those who are very sharp can loose their memory at that age
Vdd ❤️
I've heard this song many times, but today, i listened for the first time. Wow, I'm done.
The first heartbreak is that of a parent
Yes u got it !!!
My biological father
so true
Took me until 37 to realize this. Life long problems because of it.
Yeah also songs about heartbreak where not about a boy I liked it was about my dad
When she sings "I cannot cry because I know that's weakness in your eyes, I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh everyday of my life..." Always hit me hard 😔
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me too. Every time I cried as a kid, I would just get yelled at.
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U re not alone. 😭
I feel the same as well
This song makes me cry =( It describes my life
Stay strong life always get better :)
Same!!:( I cry like crazy... Cause every word is relatable!!:( and those who say we are just trying to get empathy... Most probably you haven't felt the pain we have!!:/
Sweet Swifter Thank you, I hope so...
winnerssay1 I feel you... Especially the end of the song really killed me, I broke down and I couldn't help crying for a while :(
Adrian LBS story of my life too, except my abusive father has gotten less abusive but still is, I'm happliy married and out of their house but I am the person he hates the most. Life gets better, hense the ending off this clip
15 years old but you make 😢 so touch every time I watched this song.Thank you Kelly
As a dad of 2 little girls currently divorcing my wife this hits my straight into my heart...
I'm terribly sorry. As a person who's mother and father are split, the best advice I can give is to put aside whatever toxic feelings there are for the kids sake and hopefully they are able to see both parents throughout the year.
that's really sad. always worse when kids are involved. 💔
Just be there for your girls. Your relationship with them can survive and will be healthier if everyone is in a happier state of mind.
Renee Stephens I agree. Two parents that don't get on can really mess up a child.
As a child of divorced parents at the age of 7, I preferred it most of the time when my parents were apart. They were constantly arguing and making each other upset, thus also making my sister and I upset too. When I was younger/teen years, I just yearned for my family to be put back together and I still do now sometimes feel sad when I think of my parents and how they're not married anymore. Looking back as an adult now, although it's sad, I feel like it's the right choice to separate, if the people in the relationship aren't happy anymore or constantly fighting because it does affect the kids. Hope everything works out for you 😊
This song makes me cry everytime I listen to it...
Because I have a daughter, I'm a single mom.
And I hope she'll never go through what I've been through (all the heartbreak, all the pain, all the lying, all the suffering and abuse)...
I knew it
@@dansen5338 you knew what exactly?
@Justin Bieber and your point is?
Me too 😭
I am a dad my daughter just turned 1 yesterday sometimes life can be rough i know because my childhood was not easy with my parents i was the black sheep so everyone even my entire family turned their back on me, but focus what you have right now don't let the past decide your life you can never erase the pain and it will always haunt you but don't let others suffer from your pains i did and i am a better man now after all my mistakes.
10 years later and I still cry everytime I hear this song. but its such a wonderful song.
Same
+krinket94 Ten...?
+Armin Arlert the song is ten years old lol
krinket94 Oh..I was kinda confused cause it was uploaded on 2009
it's a sad song
Ate ano passado me via nessa música. Graças a Deus minha vida mudou ❤
"I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh everyday of my life" I love this verse, because I can relate to it.
But what if man not relate?
SEMI HIATUS i can relate to it too
Why?
same
Kelly Townsend It's something I don't want to speak on the internet to let the whole world know about my problems. I just can relate to it. That's all...
“I’m forced to fake a smile a laugh every day of my life” honestly hit me
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What r u going through?
Ye same with me
Me too..😔
💔We're not alone and there is Hope and Help 🌈
My 3yr old daughter said “Wow. She’s a good singer!” You’ve gained another fan tonight Kelly 💗
You using speaker to listen ? I using earphone though
I always cry when listening to this song. this really hurts my heart.
“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” 😭
My favorite lyrics. Watching this video reminds of my parents disfacial marriage. People always tell me and "your nice but heartless at the same time, who broke your heart" NO ONE has ever broken my heart, being rises by 2 broken people there for "my heart can't possibly break because it was never hole to start with."
Yeah, thanks dad. RIP. I hope you found peace.
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When I was young, I undestand the lyric
But when I'm getting old, now I understand the pain
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When I was young, it was the new fun song. Now I am older and can put my pain into words that sound a lot like this song :(
that was my childhood . and I lived happily ever after holding pain and fear as adult .
i feel bad for u....
really bad...
not self pity , ts just sharing , coz parents fight's can coz harm for their kids while they dont know .
+Angel Knight i still feel bad....
well . thank you then for your empathy :)
é impressionante como uma musica, que está na minha vida desde que me entendo por gente, pode falar tanto de mim e falar tanto comigo como neste momento.
nunca veio tão forte "because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty" como agora.
e é tudo culpa minha.
São José do Rio preto 📍
to my future child or children, i will not allow you to feel the fear and pain that i suffered as a child. i will bring you up to know that you are loved and cherished. i will not allow anyone hurt or abuse you like my father hurt and abused me, for you will mean more to me than life itself. i will never allow you to feel as if you are nothing, worthless because even though i don't know you yet, i love you with my heart and soul and i can't wait to be your mum and to laugh and live life with you and create the most amazing memories together
You'll be a good mom, sis❤
you'll make a good parent, dont let that change.
Why are there no more song like that, just a masterpiece. Hit the high notes and so emotional
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Bcoz of marikit......
They dont make good music anymore, they make music that sells
this song helps a lot with my depression
This song resonates with me in a huge way. I weep every time. She's singing all the words I have trouble expressing on my own.
The feeling that your all alone and that your family doesn't give a damn about you... it hurts... it hurts really bad. Then you watch this video and like realize that instead of crying and looking back at the painful past, let's just focus at the present and "I will not make the same mistakes that you did"
Get some friends mate also your parents DO care about you. But sometimes they show it in different ways
Janice Baneg wow. Such strong words. I feel the same. But im human and question evrything
Janice Baneg yup
I thing my mom not love me but she's love my sister. I'm just a fat brat 😔
I know that feeling all too well. Because they don't.
And now I cry in the middle of the night for the same damn thing!
Her voice & her song are so powerful. I don't know how she can sing it all the way through without bursting into tears. This song is incredible, just gives me chills.
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Indeed
Very emotionally-stirring bridge. It's pretty noteworthy for a pop song I think. The background vocals add to the effect
Dear my future child, i promised myself will give you all my love and i will never repeat the same mistake like how my parents did.
*Please don't reply if you never experienced living in a toxic family. My dad cheated and abused my mom.
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Bts Maknae I hope you make it I wish you my very best and good luck to everything you do in your life
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"My heart can't possibly break, when it wasn't even whole to start with" This makes me cry
+ thank you for the likes 😊
Me too😭
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So very true! Also, I was so young you should’ve known better than to lean on me... I hear pieces of myself so often in this song, a few are not “bad” but made me stronger n more aware of choices before I made them....I hope this is coming right to where nobody takes this the wrong way.... that’s not my intention.
Another song that touches my heart is “Where is the Love”
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