Thank you for the kind words. Amanda's voice does have a very soothing effect! As for your breakup, how are you doing? Are you taking care of yourself?
It’s a test of character when you feel strongly attracted to someone who you can’t have. You learn to appreciate a person without expecting anything in return. It’s a beautiful friendship. Keep your distance if you can’t control your impulses.
This is literally what I’m going through right now. I’ve been developing feelings for a guy I work with who’s married. He’s way older than me too so this is very different for me. I’m trying to view it as he’s like a guide for me, making me realize what exactly I am attracted to. I made the realization that sometimes feelings aren’t things to act on but more indicators of things unseen, kind of like how the body makes you crave certain things when you’re lacking in something.
As a 15 year old who's in love with a 13 year old, I know we can't Date now, but I'm willing to wait a few years! Many have discouraged me in many ways to not like him, maybe just liking him is for the best, though! :')
As I relearn how to have healthy relationships as I heal from trauma and grow as an adult, I find I’m no less shy! I’m still very shy, that’s just who I am as a person and love these videos that are teaching me actual things about the other humans lol
That's very interesting! For you then, as a shy person, how do you navigate through social relationships? Do you ever find it difficult to express how you feel?
@@Psych2go Oh yes. I generally don’t express how I feel in social situations as that would draw attention to myself. Once I’m comfortable it’s a whole new game and I don’t struggle nearly as much with shyness once I feel comfortable opening up. Talking about something I am confident about (for example I give wild plant foraging talks) that is outside of myself - Is different and I don’t struggle with that much. But the tips I’m gaining from this channel about social cues, signs, etc, have been very helpful!
We're so glad to hear that you're finding our channel helpful in working with your shyness. It certainly is a struggle working with our shyness but I hope that you'll be able to overcome them to meet the right people, not just in romantic relationships. Thank you for sharing with us!
Both people know it's there, I would say be yourself, People can be attracted to one Another but is that person right for you, because if one person is mature and the other one is not it's not going to work. I'm talking about Character and respect. Once that's establish then the crush will blossom into something serious.❤️
I’m a young teenager and I absolutely love this channel, it explains certain situations that I can relate to and it makes me calm down whenever i’m sad or angry, mostly because of your soothing and soft voice, the cute animations and the really helpful advice ❤️
Timestamps 1). Lingering eye contact 0:27 2). Subtle accidental touches 1:00 3). Mirroring 1:38 4). Dance of nerves 2:20 5). Personal details 3:04 6). Engagement 3:40 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
There’s another sign too, though only applies for those who are already taken: a distinct feeling that if you wanna remain faithful, you need to stay away from this person.
Your timing is so perfect that it scares me. I was just thinking about a girl I met and got dinner with last week. I admittedly have a bit of a crush on her, but I’m not sure whether she sees me the same way or if she only wants to be friends with me. It’s hard to tell because we really hit off last week. We had so much fun simply talking to each other that we were at the restaurant for over 3 hours and really only left because they were about to close. I’m just trying to figure out whether she’s into me or if she just wants to keep me as a close friend, especially since I kinda feel like I’m beneath her given she’s a sophomore in college and I’m only a freshman. It’s been really confusing for me, but I’ve got a plan. I’m gonna invite her to go ice skating when she’s free in two weeks and then I’ll be able to get a better read on what I should do. Thank you once again Psych2Go for making these situations so much easier for me!
There's this one guy I've become friends with on Discord that makes me genuinely question my sexual and dating identity. He and I think so alike with regards to sex, flirting, and love, we both enjoy talking to each other immensely, and we've been good friends for a while now. I'd like to meet him someday, because I feel like the potential for us to become more than just friends after meeting each other is definitely there. Perhaps I'm in over my head, but we both really enjoy each other's company to say the least, and all of this is making my head spin. XD 😅😊
@@thecorrupted3217 Thanks! I appreciate that! Over the past year or two I've had this growing change in my sexual identity where the idea of having an S.O being EITHER a male or female doesn't sound bad to me at all so long as they're of good company, and this guy I talked about here REALLY makes me feel that way all the more. Like seriously, he makes me feel things I don't think I have ever experienced before, and I really do enjoy interacting with him. Hopefully if I do meet him IRL someday he doesn't turn out to be like a totally different person, because that would suck.
@@justalpha9138 thanks good, I hope it goes well for ya. If it ever does well update it here. Wish ya the best of luck even tho the message will be in god now's how many years or months.
Online friendships do end up being real life relationships from time to time. The way you describe your friend tells me that you care deeply about this person and that you connect with them on a deep level! We hope, however, that you're also very careful about connecting with people online because, as you mentioned, a person may tern out to be a totaly different person. We appreciate you for the thoughtful comment about your special connection :)
@@Psych2go I know all too well about online people not being like I thought they'd be, and I've learned my lesson the painful way. This person though genuinely seems really really nice, and so far I keep having a fantastic time with them! :")
as an INFJ, I especially get flustered when I get eye contact from the opposite sex and when I do get prolonged eye contact, I usually come off as uninterested because I try to break contact. all the other details I am guilty of doing to the people I like.
I have a crush who is an INFJ, and what does it mean when she initiated the prolonged eye contact? It lasted for more than 15 secs... It felt like forever, I initally got scared, but... I am enamored by how pretty her eyes were...
@@thedemocraticfilipino6417 im a guy but if i was the girl, that would be an interested kind of stare. I can tell you that we're a shy bunch and staring into someone for that long is something
Aww thanks for the kind words! We always aim to make our content relatable and full of useful information! If you don't mind my asking, what have you learned mostly from our videos?
I’ve had that kind of attraction to someone once but that person slipped through my fingers sadly. We had mutual interests and attraction to each other. I still think about her from time to time. Every kiss was like the first time in my life. If my work life didn’t interfere with my time I guarantee I would have married her.
Every time psych2go does a video about attraction I do a fun little game that I grab a checklist and check every sign someone has never showed me, and every time the list is completely checked
Trust me, your time will come. Just don’t force things and don’t stress or think about it too much. Everyone is different in showing attraction. Someone might have a crush on you and you won’t even know/ expect it. Always hope for the best and love yourself before anything. Learning to love yourself can help you love others. Whether people like us or not, that shouldn’t define us. You sound like a great person, I hope you find what you’re looking for. Let love find you.
These videos have always been so helpful especially for me through the years (my word... years), but can we take a moment to appreciate how heckin adorable this art is?
My crush and I do share these signs but she made it clear nothing was going to happen between us :^: I'm just so delusional because of her mixed signals 😔😔 Great video again ♡♡
This isnt an ask for opinions- but recently on the bus my crush was sitting diagonal from me and he was tapping his foot right on top of mine and I was DYYYYIIIIING
@@Psych2go sorry for the late response, Those feelings were when I meet my friend. She was the person who maded me feel like she was worth the effort, and I would always do alot of the things in the vedios and she would as well. We both always have been super supportive of eachother. We are still good friends as we both lost feelings over time. Those feelings are very special to me. Sometimes i think about them and this vedio does remind me of those feelings we had in the past. Her family and I also know eachother and things are well. Maybe one day we both would reconnect but for now these memories are something I cherish. Not a very expressive person but these memories her change that. Happiest days of my life.
Unless someone looks me in the yes and clearly says, "I like you," "I love you," "I hate you," "I want your friendship," I will detect nothing from anybody. To disallow any possibility of becoming a victim of a social predator again, I simply deleted the social aspect of my existence. There that can not detect the emotions of others should just delete the social aspect of their existence. My life became vastly better after deleting the social aspect of my life.
Mhm, she doesn't like me anymore though because I was a shy little sperg. I used to wear sweaters to school, literally almost every day because I was insecure about my arm size or something. Like, even on a hot day, I'd be reluctant to take it off. I was also insecure about my hairy legs, and so I wore sweatpants most of the time too. I remember in 8th grade or so, I sat alone literally every day. Like bro, I barely remember anything from middle school ngl. All I remember is sitting on that cafe table, alone with my fucking sweater and sweatpants and no one to call, no one to text it's like all the days somehow melted and came together as one long and depressing day. While all my classmates were going out with their friends, training for sports, going to parties, investing in romantic relationships, just creating fantastic memories to last a lifetime all I was doing was staying home and rotting away into oblivion. I'm a sophomore now, and luckily I've improved a lot (or so I think.) I don't use disgusting sweaters to hide my body anymore, now I can wear shirts and shorts without trouble. I've even started wearing my silver chain again. I'm not one of those crazy super extroverted guys, but I certainly know I'm not a little mute loser anymore. I'm so glad I'm not that kid anymore dude. I also managed to talk to my crush just today in chemistry class. I was so nervous, I thought I would empty my bowels. But I didn't let that deter me, and where the inferior past version of me would have immediately broken eye contact like a girl, I stared down into her eyes. It wasn't a full-blown conversation, just a sentence as we had an activity in class where we needed to make a list of 12 partners, but even with that I knew I had won. I had just successfully conquered the shyness, the stupid "personality trait" that has robbed me of happiness over and over. I learned a valuable lesson from her. I'm sorry if that was redundant and I know nobody will be reading this whole entire thing, but I'm just frustrated at being such a loser.
@@theoryofsentience Don't worry about being genuine dude. It's alright. Glad you shared your experience because honestly, I thought it was just me. But you're the guy version haha. I also wear long sleeves a lot when outside to cover my arms since I'm a bit skinny. I always wear jackets too with my uniform... because I'm something of an ectomorph (it's a somatotype- a body form type) and it doesn't help that I get cold so easily. I'm also the quiet kid type who doesn't speak much unless spoken to. I spent most of my time in the library instead of making connections with people. Instead of reaching out to my classmates, I just absorbed myself in books I borrowed rather than paying attention to people. But you know, looking back as a more outspoken person, I don't see that as "loser" behavior as you say. There is no winning or losing behavior unless someone is truly wholesome or toxic. It's probably just the social politics in school that's got people making up hierarchies on who is "better" or "lesser"... You know. Highschool drama kinda stuff. And if it's really highschool- you might not see it from an inside POV, but maybe others see you as an intimidating lone wolf or maybe you got that RBF or voice that cause people to hesitate. Effects of puberty and all. Some classmates judgment can be a bit off because they only work with assumptions or impressions to be safe. As a bookworm, some classmates thought I was a "snob" (a word written from a jumbled anonymous paper evaluation activity that we had back then- it was fun~ other words are "independent" or "quiet" etc.) because I was always busy reading instead of gossiping. There are just people like that. And I really don't think it's a loss to not be part of that circle. I'm a bit more outspoken now (I have to be-) even when I still wear jackets because of our very chilly classrooms. Putting my voice out there and showing a bit of the personality I have cooped up inside helped a bit to get people to treat me a bit better. Sometimes being "open" like that from time to time helps people open up a bit more to me too. But I still am a shy character deep inside. I just match the initial energy that someone shows me and go for it. It also helps that our current school's library is lacking so I don't spend time there anymore. Also I don't see anything wrong with the "shyness" as a personality trait... I think it's adorkable and a sign that someone worries a bit too much about their actions that they get shy in the first place. But that's just my biased take on it hahah. If you're really not sure about whether your "personality trait" is helping you, then maybe checking out your MBTI type will help? Being an introvert is not a curse, but in a mostly extroverted world, it may feel like that. So it'll help to find like-minded people. Like the MBTI community. And their feel-good memes. Hahah once you get in there, you'll never see some "personality traits" the same way again as just black and white. I swear. Just putting this out there, because that's one of the things that really changed my POV, and you reminded me so much of me lol... besides the gender part, bookworm part, and talking to the crush part of course... (Some of my crushes have become my chatmates before lol- or maybe it's the other way around?) Also, since I've already said this much, let me add this too as well- have you tried letter apps before like Slowly? Your comment reads like a letter from the openness and sincerity of it. If you feel frustrated and like a "loser" because you lack some connections or memories with others, then that can be fixed with actual pen pals. I mean, the thought of someone writing a letter to you that has parts of their life/story which can come at any time... it's a good distraction from the self-loathing thoughts. Also it feels much more freeing to anonymously vent, ramble, or rant there hahah because everyone is basically doing that. Anyways, hope this helps and wish you luck with your crush there. Don't let the self-loathing confuse you from what you're capable of. I'm just saying since introverts can often get wrapped up in their heads. You got this!
3:22 woah i had this with one boy we had an mutual attraction. And we talked someday on a party bcos he is a friend of mutual friends. When i spoke to him again. He started saying alot of stuff i said when we talked. I was shocked😂 that he remembered so much of our conversation before it felt very nice.
I do this with my best friend we’re both lonely lesbians who want girlfriends but I feel like lately we’ve gotten closer. I feel comfortable hugging them and I want to. And my favorite part of the end of the day is saying bye to them and I like talking them any chance I get. I’m not sure what it is but I feel loved and it makes me feel special.
Psyctogo is just making me suffer for being single virgin 😔. And now i am qwestioniing my sexuality 💀. I am a dude why am i having touch starvation. I like kissing girls not boys. Aaaaa
I felt all these signs of attraction at one point of my life, but not for a long while. I lost a lot of physical beauty during the pandemic. I was off work for 3 months. I came back to work, and friends gave me the collllllld shoulder. I guess during the pandemic, I mighta ate too much. It sucks. I wish I knew how to get my body back to where it was, pre-pandemic.
i'm very bad at noticing signs when someone likes me. so most of the time they have to literally say something to me for me to know it. as for me i just tell the person i like directly and then let them decide after that.
I did feel an attraction to Aphrodite fron Hercules/Xena when I was younger. 😂❤ I fell in love with her all over again today, the costume and her character played by Alexandra Tydings. But, personally, I've been called handsome lots of times.
omg omg i just realized me and my friend may like each other but brooo that cant be. but everything in this video is soooo accurate and he even started to get better style because he asked for my help, he changed his hair the first time in a loooong time, we both mimic our behavior and MORE AHHHHH I JUST DON‘T GET IT do i like him??? does he like me???
One year ago around this time, a guy was showing all of these signs and more. Then some bad stuff happened, we don’t talk anymore. Healing has been quite the journey and I don’t think I’ll ever fully understand why I had to go through what I did :/
i’m sort of in a situation like this at work. he used to like me and even asked me to be intimate with him once years ago, but it just never actually happened. he’s had two girlfriends since then and is still with the second, but the way he looks at me and stands so close to me i feel like there may still be some attraction there. i wonder if im just delulu but who knows what the future holds
i guess i can tell if i want someone to be there for me if i watch a bunch of videos of this type.... but so far it only has been false hopes and absolute nopes
You know. Sometimes I feel like an a**h*** when I respond to videos about love. Mainly I got nothing good to say. Or ask stupid questions that I already know it’s answer. But some reason it always pains me in a weird way. But good luck with love. I hope someone does benefit from this. I’ve given up on it.
Bro we have talked about love a lot. We have also said we don’t think we are ready for relationships, he is recovering from a bad break up and I wanna finish high school. We are both juniors. There was even a time were he asked if I liked him, and I said I don’t know because I don’t know. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship, but I feel giddy when I’m around him, I feel like I can talk about anything and just open up, and I brighten up anytime I see he texted me something. What do i dooooooo
Well, as someone in a weird situation out of highschool with a BIT of life experience (not a whole lot, but a bit, you guys are like 16-17 and I am 22 and have worked a few jobs), from what you wrote, seems like at the very least you feel very safe with him and you being giddy is a pretty good sign you like him. Though I don't want to say anything definitive around the internet. You guys going on as normal after he asked if you like him is also very great. Shows that the topic, while confusing, wasn't so uncomfortable that you talked less. Maybe he is just a really good friend to you, maybe you like him more than that. Honestly, if you trust him enough maybe talk to him about it again. If he brought it up, that's a pretty good sign. Can't hurt right? Last time you talked about it you went on as normal. (Goes to show that the generations emotional intelligence is getting better and better) Best of luck to you friend. May stuff work out the best it can in your life.
I had one of the scariest sleep paralysis half hour ago. I have them mostly every week bcos i have PTSS. So I’m used to them. But this was one different and very scary. I was to scared to sleep so i came here to watch your videos. I love this account. And your voice so soothing and calmimg🥹🫶🏼
We're so glad our videos help you feel calmer. As for your sleep paralysis, that sounds very scary! How long have you struggled with sleep paralysis? Have you had a chance to speak with someone regarding your condition?
@@Psych2go I have them sinds i was a kid. bcos of many traumas. I always had the same sleep paralysis. I would wake up in my room very dark and i could never turn on the lights or scream. Now that im older 20 currently they never left but they’re different each time. I went to therapy for two years. But i think the nightmares and paralysis will stay with me forever. But luckily i never feel scared anymore im used to them. Except this one i had but im okey know🫶🏼
That sounds very rough to deal with.. However, it sounds like you somehow learned how to cope with your situation, which I believe is amazing. If you don't mind my asking, can the sleep paralysis be cured or improved in the future?
@@Psych2go i don’t think there’s a cure for it bcos I believe its something spiritual and connected with the mind an dreams. You just learn to live with it🙏🏼
Thanks for this. I've found myself doing these things and now I know what to look for I can stop, as none of this is being returned. It's completely unconscious. I'd actually given up trying to find someone years ago. It seems my subconscious refuses to leave me in peace.
I thought I had this with someone I've known online. Especially considering the two last points mentioned here. But now I feel that's just me overthinking things, trapped in my own fantasy. 🙄 Still, it will be funny if it turns out the other person feels the same too, and that we're just both too unsure that neither makes the first move... 😅 Whoops. Another fantasy, huh? 🤦🏻♂️
but i don’t know if engagement could count. If anyone i know posts something i’m going to like it. Also most people I know don’t post often so i could easily like all their stuff and comment with zero interest in dating them.
Pov: this showed up 10 minutes after seeing my middle school crush (this is actual. Like this vid popped into my notifications when yeah😃🩷) (Feelings never faded)
I have this with my best friend, but sadly for me she already has a boyfriend 😅. We see eachother weekly on a regular base etc, spent lots of time together. Oh well, maybe one day.
@@tikhongilson3770 they are 6 years together, so i am not meddling into it. If they break up, win for me, but i am not destroying anything. Even tho she said she misses something in her relationship, and she doesn't feel understood and lonely. But she doesn't know better, she was 12, and he 22 when they met, and they got into a relationship when she was 19,and i met her when she was 20. For me it feels like grooming, and that wht she doesn't know any better and thinks he is the only one. Almost nobody knows about their relationship, and in the 5 years that i am seeing her, i never seen the dude once, and after 6 years they aren't even living together. For me as an outsider, it looks so weird, as if he is just using her. So maybe she is committed, but i think the guy is just using it.
There's this girl in my church, we don't talk much except a hi and bye but we seem to make contact with eyes more than we talk 😂.... There's no lust to it, just a genuine spark😊, I don't know if she feels the same but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one getting that feeling
Whelp, I'll have to keep these actions in mind. Attraction is spoken in mostly actons then words... its because of what I assume is a wee bit of anxiety. I know from experience
These are several of the reasons why I thought someone might've liked me. Only to be rejected cuz he had a gf at the time I told him I liked him lol :,)
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so calming to hear your voice after i went through a breakup :)
Hope your doing well buddy.
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Same bro
Thank you for the kind words. Amanda's voice does have a very soothing effect!
As for your breakup, how are you doing? Are you taking care of yourself?
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It’s a test of character when you feel strongly attracted to someone who you can’t have. You learn to appreciate a person without expecting anything in return. It’s a beautiful friendship. Keep your distance if you can’t control your impulses.
If you love someone, you learn to let them go.
This is literally what I’m going through right now. I’ve been developing feelings for a guy I work with who’s married. He’s way older than me too so this is very different for me. I’m trying to view it as he’s like a guide for me, making me realize what exactly I am attracted to. I made the realization that sometimes feelings aren’t things to act on but more indicators of things unseen, kind of like how the body makes you crave certain things when you’re lacking in something.
@@alethiastafford6061 Exactly, you use it as a guide. You are very smart about this!
That's so insightful.. and a beautiful way to process this feeling. Thanks for sharing your self discovery 💖
As a 15 year old who's in love with a 13 year old, I know we can't Date now, but I'm willing to wait a few years! Many have discouraged me in many ways to not like him, maybe just liking him is for the best, though! :')
I'm here to feed my delusion
And the TH-cam algorithm and suggestions help with that a lot!
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As I relearn how to have healthy relationships as I heal from trauma and grow as an adult, I find I’m no less shy! I’m still very shy, that’s just who I am as a person and love these videos that are teaching me actual things about the other humans lol
That's very interesting! For you then, as a shy person, how do you navigate through social relationships? Do you ever find it difficult to express how you feel?
@@Psych2go Oh yes. I generally don’t express how I feel in social situations as that would draw attention to myself.
Once I’m comfortable it’s a whole new game and I don’t struggle nearly as much with shyness once I feel comfortable opening up.
Talking about something I am confident about (for example I give wild plant foraging talks) that is outside of myself - Is different and I don’t struggle with that much.
But the tips I’m gaining from this channel about social cues, signs, etc, have been very helpful!
We're so glad to hear that you're finding our channel helpful in working with your shyness. It certainly is a struggle working with our shyness but I hope that you'll be able to overcome them to meet the right people, not just in romantic relationships. Thank you for sharing with us!
1 Lingering eye contact 0:27
2 Subtle accidental touches 0:59
3 Mirroring 1:39
4 Dance of nerves 2:20
5 Personal details 3:05
6 Engagement 3:40
Thank you! I'm sure everyone really appreciates your time stamps!
@@Psych2goAnd i'm sure everyone who watches your videos appreciates it a lot! God bless! ❤
@@Psych2go Indeed we do
Yes, i remember what it was like being attracted to someone but too scared to death to say anything.
Both people know it's there, I would say be yourself, People can be attracted to one Another but is that person right for you, because if one person is mature and the other one is not it's not going to work. I'm talking about Character and respect. Once that's establish then the crush will blossom into something serious.❤️
I’m a young teenager and I absolutely love this channel, it explains certain situations that I can relate to and it makes me calm down whenever i’m sad or angry, mostly because of your soothing and soft voice, the cute animations and the really helpful advice ❤️
I just entered geezer-hood two years ago. I find this channel very interesting. It looks this channel attracts quite a large demographic.
yeah me too i have a girl i love and i’m so uncertain abt what is what. and also i’m a teen. i love these they’re so comforting.
Honestly Ms Silvera needs to do some kind of podcast or those sleep stories like the calm app
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Her voice is so calming it makes me calm even when I’m stressed it’s like she’s my therapy
We're glad Amanda's voice puts you at ease!
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2). Subtle accidental touches 1:00
3). Mirroring 1:38
4). Dance of nerves 2:20
5). Personal details 3:04
6). Engagement 3:40
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you for giving me comfort with your contents during my hardest time
Thanks for your extra support! You're very welcome! What are you currently struggling with?
@@Psych2goI'm struggling with diarrhea
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There’s another sign too, though only applies for those who are already taken: a distinct feeling that if you wanna remain faithful, you need to stay away from this person.
Your timing is so perfect that it scares me. I was just thinking about a girl I met and got dinner with last week. I admittedly have a bit of a crush on her, but I’m not sure whether she sees me the same way or if she only wants to be friends with me. It’s hard to tell because we really hit off last week. We had so much fun simply talking to each other that we were at the restaurant for over 3 hours and really only left because they were about to close. I’m just trying to figure out whether she’s into me or if she just wants to keep me as a close friend, especially since I kinda feel like I’m beneath her given she’s a sophomore in college and I’m only a freshman. It’s been really confusing for me, but I’ve got a plan. I’m gonna invite her to go ice skating when she’s free in two weeks and then I’ll be able to get a better read on what I should do. Thank you once again Psych2Go for making these situations so much easier for me!
There's this one guy I've become friends with on Discord that makes me genuinely question my sexual and dating identity. He and I think so alike with regards to sex, flirting, and love, we both enjoy talking to each other immensely, and we've been good friends for a while now. I'd like to meet him someday, because I feel like the potential for us to become more than just friends after meeting each other is definitely there. Perhaps I'm in over my head, but we both really enjoy each other's company to say the least, and all of this is making my head spin. XD 😅😊
Maybe go for it. Up to you. Wish you the best of luck.
@@thecorrupted3217 Thanks! I appreciate that! Over the past year or two I've had this growing change in my sexual identity where the idea of having an S.O being EITHER a male or female doesn't sound bad to me at all so long as they're of good company, and this guy I talked about here REALLY makes me feel that way all the more. Like seriously, he makes me feel things I don't think I have ever experienced before, and I really do enjoy interacting with him. Hopefully if I do meet him IRL someday he doesn't turn out to be like a totally different person, because that would suck.
@@justalpha9138 thanks good, I hope it goes well for ya. If it ever does well update it here. Wish ya the best of luck even tho the message will be in god now's how many years or months.
Online friendships do end up being real life relationships from time to time. The way you describe your friend tells me that you care deeply about this person and that you connect with them on a deep level! We hope, however, that you're also very careful about connecting with people online because, as you mentioned, a person may tern out to be a totaly different person. We appreciate you for the thoughtful comment about your special connection :)
@@Psych2go I know all too well about online people not being like I thought they'd be, and I've learned my lesson the painful way. This person though genuinely seems really really nice, and so far I keep having a fantastic time with them! :")
as an INFJ, I especially get flustered when I get eye contact from the opposite sex and when I do get prolonged eye contact, I usually come off as uninterested because I try to break contact. all the other details I am guilty of doing to the people I like.
Us us
We are in this together lol...
I do all the mentioned points...when I am around someone I like...except maybe the one about accidentally touching
I have a crush who is an INFJ, and what does it mean when she initiated the prolonged eye contact? It lasted for more than 15 secs... It felt like forever, I initally got scared, but... I am enamored by how pretty her eyes were...
@@thedemocraticfilipino6417 im a guy but if i was the girl, that would be an interested kind of stare. I can tell you that we're a shy bunch and staring into someone for that long is something
@@AnthonyStJames-yn8nr lol yeah haha... Thanks for that insight tho.
Im never gonna feel attractive as long as I have people around me living just to inflict insecurity in me
The people in our lives influence our self-esteem whether they realize it or not. Do the people around you project their insecurities on you?
I love watching these videos!! I have honestly learned so much more from them than my teachers
Aww thanks for the kind words! We always aim to make our content relatable and full of useful information! If you don't mind my asking, what have you learned mostly from our videos?
@@Psych2go I've just learned more about the world and myself through all of your videos! Also you videos are great! Keep up the good work :D
😂😂😂😂me too
I’ve had that kind of attraction to someone once but that person slipped through my fingers sadly. We had mutual interests and attraction to each other. I still think about her from time to time. Every kiss was like the first time in my life. If my work life didn’t interfere with my time I guarantee I would have married her.
Every time psych2go does a video about attraction I do a fun little game that I grab a checklist and check every sign someone has never showed me, and every time the list is completely checked
Trust me, your time will come.
Just don’t force things and don’t stress or think about it too much.
Everyone is different in showing attraction.
Someone might have a crush on you and you won’t even know/ expect it.
Always hope for the best and love yourself before anything.
Learning to love yourself can help you love others.
Whether people like us or not, that shouldn’t define us.
You sound like a great person, I hope you find what you’re looking for.
Let love find you.
These videos have always been so helpful especially for me through the years (my word... years), but can we take a moment to appreciate how heckin adorable this art is?
My crush and I do share these signs but she made it clear nothing was going to happen between us :^:
I'm just so delusional because of her mixed signals 😔😔
Great video again ♡♡
This isnt an ask for opinions- but recently on the bus my crush was sitting diagonal from me and he was tapping his foot right on top of mine and I was DYYYYIIIIING
This channel has hold on to me on my social life, and I gotta thank you for that.
These animations keep getting better every video!
As always, thanks for the amazing content. Got some very good nostolgic memories. Good times.
Thank you! If you don't mind my asking, what kind of memories did the video remind you of?
@@Psych2go sorry for the late response, Those feelings were when I meet my friend. She was the person who maded me feel like she was worth the effort, and I would always do alot of the things in the vedios and she would as well. We both always have been super supportive of eachother. We are still good friends as we both lost feelings over time.
Those feelings are very special to me. Sometimes i think about them and this vedio does remind me of those feelings we had in the past.
Her family and I also know eachother and things are well. Maybe one day we both would reconnect but for now these memories are something I cherish. Not a very expressive person but these memories her change that.
Happiest days of my life.
Who ever animated or drew these characters, I'm a fan of them cause I'm drawing one myself in their style I hope that's ok.
I love ur channel!!! Its very helpful useful and educational ❤❤
Thank you ❤️❤️
@@Psych2go Your welcome!! I love videos like these it puts education in my head❤️❤️❤️
Unless someone looks me in the yes and clearly says, "I like you," "I love you," "I hate you," "I want your friendship," I will detect nothing from anybody. To disallow any possibility of becoming a victim of a social predator again, I simply deleted the social aspect of my existence. There that can not detect the emotions of others should just delete the social aspect of their existence. My life became vastly better after deleting the social aspect of my life.
Sign #7: The person you thought of when seeing this video without saying a word.
That's a great one
Mhm, she doesn't like me anymore though because I was a shy little sperg. I used to wear sweaters to school, literally almost every day because I was insecure about my arm size or something. Like, even on a hot day, I'd be reluctant to take it off. I was also insecure about my hairy legs, and so I wore sweatpants most of the time too. I remember in 8th grade or so, I sat alone literally every day. Like bro, I barely remember anything from middle school ngl.
All I remember is sitting on that cafe table, alone with my fucking sweater and sweatpants and no one to call, no one to text it's like all the days somehow melted and came together as one long and depressing day. While all my classmates were going out with their friends, training for sports, going to parties, investing in romantic relationships, just creating fantastic memories to last a lifetime all I was doing was staying home and rotting away into oblivion.
I'm a sophomore now, and luckily I've improved a lot (or so I think.) I don't use disgusting sweaters to hide my body anymore, now I can wear shirts and shorts without trouble. I've even started wearing my silver chain again. I'm not one of those crazy super extroverted guys, but I certainly know I'm not a little mute loser anymore. I'm so glad I'm not that kid anymore dude. I also managed to talk to my crush just today in chemistry class. I was so nervous, I thought I would empty my bowels. But I didn't let that deter me, and where the inferior past version of me would have immediately broken eye contact like a girl, I stared down into her eyes. It wasn't a full-blown conversation, just a sentence as we had an activity in class where we needed to make a list of 12 partners, but even with that I knew I had won. I had just successfully conquered the shyness, the stupid "personality trait" that has robbed me of happiness over and over. I learned a valuable lesson from her. I'm sorry if that was redundant and I know nobody will be reading this whole entire thing, but I'm just frustrated at being such a loser.
@@theoryofsentience Don't worry about being genuine dude. It's alright. Glad you shared your experience because honestly, I thought it was just me. But you're the guy version haha.
I also wear long sleeves a lot when outside to cover my arms since I'm a bit skinny. I always wear jackets too with my uniform... because I'm something of an ectomorph (it's a somatotype- a body form type) and it doesn't help that I get cold so easily. I'm also the quiet kid type who doesn't speak much unless spoken to. I spent most of my time in the library instead of making connections with people. Instead of reaching out to my classmates, I just absorbed myself in books I borrowed rather than paying attention to people.
But you know, looking back as a more outspoken person, I don't see that as "loser" behavior as you say. There is no winning or losing behavior unless someone is truly wholesome or toxic. It's probably just the social politics in school that's got people making up hierarchies on who is "better" or "lesser"... You know. Highschool drama kinda stuff.
And if it's really highschool- you might not see it from an inside POV, but maybe others see you as an intimidating lone wolf or maybe you got that RBF or voice that cause people to hesitate. Effects of puberty and all. Some classmates judgment can be a bit off because they only work with assumptions or impressions to be safe. As a bookworm, some classmates thought I was a "snob" (a word written from a jumbled anonymous paper evaluation activity that we had back then- it was fun~ other words are "independent" or "quiet" etc.) because I was always busy reading instead of gossiping. There are just people like that. And I really don't think it's a loss to not be part of that circle.
I'm a bit more outspoken now (I have to be-) even when I still wear jackets because of our very chilly classrooms. Putting my voice out there and showing a bit of the personality I have cooped up inside helped a bit to get people to treat me a bit better. Sometimes being "open" like that from time to time helps people open up a bit more to me too. But I still am a shy character deep inside. I just match the initial energy that someone shows me and go for it. It also helps that our current school's library is lacking so I don't spend time there anymore.
Also I don't see anything wrong with the "shyness" as a personality trait... I think it's adorkable and a sign that someone worries a bit too much about their actions that they get shy in the first place. But that's just my biased take on it hahah. If you're really not sure about whether your "personality trait" is helping you, then maybe checking out your MBTI type will help? Being an introvert is not a curse, but in a mostly extroverted world, it may feel like that. So it'll help to find like-minded people. Like the MBTI community. And their feel-good memes. Hahah once you get in there, you'll never see some "personality traits" the same way again as just black and white. I swear.
Just putting this out there, because that's one of the things that really changed my POV, and you reminded me so much of me lol... besides the gender part, bookworm part, and talking to the crush part of course... (Some of my crushes have become my chatmates before lol- or maybe it's the other way around?) Also, since I've already said this much, let me add this too as well- have you tried letter apps before like Slowly? Your comment reads like a letter from the openness and sincerity of it. If you feel frustrated and like a "loser" because you lack some connections or memories with others, then that can be fixed with actual pen pals. I mean, the thought of someone writing a letter to you that has parts of their life/story which can come at any time... it's a good distraction from the self-loathing thoughts. Also it feels much more freeing to anonymously vent, ramble, or rant there hahah because everyone is basically doing that.
Anyways, hope this helps and wish you luck with your crush there. Don't let the self-loathing confuse you from what you're capable of. I'm just saying since introverts can often get wrapped up in their heads. You got this!
Okay so I am 100% single 😂
3:22 woah i had this with one boy we had an mutual attraction. And we talked someday on a party bcos he is a friend of mutual friends. When i spoke to him again. He started saying alot of stuff i said when we talked. I was shocked😂 that he remembered so much of our conversation before it felt very nice.
It's really hard to hold eye contact when you've got a lazy eye 😭😭 I hate my stupid eye!!
Thats ok the right person will love your lazy eye because it's yours and it makes you Unique😇😇😇
Your voice is so wonderful, and I really love these cartoonish videos! You can never be too old to enjoy a cartoon, ever! Thank you, my dears.
ngl i b feeling so delusional when i think about him but the signs r there.
I do this with my best friend we’re both lonely lesbians who want girlfriends but I feel like lately we’ve gotten closer. I feel comfortable hugging them and I want to. And my favorite part of the end of the day is saying bye to them and I like talking them any chance I get. I’m not sure what it is but I feel loved and it makes me feel special.
Curious why don’t you two get together? Unless it’s strictly platonic?
@@alceusrydan6237 there uncomfortable with being in a relationship
I really like the jazz piano soundtrack in this video :)
This art style is AMAZING
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After this video I realized I've never had a relationship 😂
I'm in a situation like this at work.
Hehe
I met my boyfriend at work
I hope o get hired to draw art for psych2go one day I love this channel
How come this only has 6 views 🤨
It’s still unlisted
Horrid
It was released 20 seconds ago
Magicians I tell you
Because it was literally just posted
Idk why but the more i watch the dating advice from this channel i feel more touch sensitive. 😭 help
Psyctogo is just making me suffer for being single virgin 😔. And now i am qwestioniing my sexuality 💀. I am a dude why am i having touch starvation. I like kissing girls not boys. Aaaaa
I felt all these signs of attraction at one point of my life, but not for a long while. I lost a lot of physical beauty during the pandemic. I was off work for 3 months. I came back to work, and friends gave me the collllllld shoulder. I guess during the pandemic, I mighta ate too much. It sucks. I wish I knew how to get my body back to where it was, pre-pandemic.
Yeah, those aren't real friends.
Getting into shape is very easy, just exercise and don't eat too much, result are guaranteed. I wish it could be such simple with women ...
Go on a diet and go to the gym?
Pretty sure im gonna die alone but ima watch this anyways :)
This was peaceful to watch these are very interesting 🙂
Glad you think so! 🙂
The only time I have long eye contact is when I see a really nice car or I'm watching my tattoo getting done
Love your animation! Makes me feel calm
Psy2 go deserves the world record for the best animated vids❤
i'm very bad at noticing signs when someone likes me. so most of the time they have to literally say something to me for me to know it. as for me i just tell the person i like directly and then let them decide after that.
I did feel an attraction to Aphrodite fron Hercules/Xena when I was younger. 😂❤ I fell in love with her all over again today, the costume and her character played by Alexandra Tydings. But, personally, I've been called handsome lots of times.
omg omg i just realized me and my friend may like each other but brooo that cant be. but everything in this video is soooo accurate and he even started to get better style because he asked for my help, he changed his hair the first time in a loooong time, we both mimic our behavior and MORE
AHHHHH I JUST DON‘T GET IT
do i like him???
does he like me???
One year ago around this time, a guy was showing all of these signs and more. Then some bad stuff happened, we don’t talk anymore. Healing has been quite the journey and I don’t think I’ll ever fully understand why I had to go through what I did :/
i’m sort of in a situation like this
at work. he used to like me and even asked me to be intimate with him once years ago, but it just never actually happened. he’s had two girlfriends since then and is still with the second, but the way he looks at me and stands so close to me i feel like there may still be some attraction there. i wonder if im just delulu but who knows what the future holds
I love this art style
I just love seeing him smile and seeing his eyes light up I get butterflies 😍(I'm a simp help)
aand in my case after some of those signals i always discover she's engaged WHAT A SURPRISE! Let's go, my self!
please make a meditation video guide in your voice, it's so soothing relaxing 😄💙
Not me looking for signs of attraction I know damn well don’t exist
Btw y’all ain’t see me here
Im watching this video to recall those exactly moments of me toward my crush
i guess i can tell if i want someone to be there for me if i watch a bunch of videos of this type....
but so far it only has been false hopes and absolute nopes
You know. Sometimes I feel like an a**h*** when I respond to videos about love. Mainly I got nothing good to say. Or ask stupid questions that I already know it’s answer. But some reason it always pains me in a weird way. But good luck with love. I hope someone does benefit from this. I’ve given up on it.
Bro we have talked about love a lot. We have also said we don’t think we are ready for relationships, he is recovering from a bad break up and I wanna finish high school. We are both juniors. There was even a time were he asked if I liked him, and I said I don’t know because I don’t know. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship, but I feel giddy when I’m around him, I feel like I can talk about anything and just open up, and I brighten up anytime I see he texted me something. What do i dooooooo
Well, as someone in a weird situation out of highschool with a BIT of life experience (not a whole lot, but a bit, you guys are like 16-17 and I am 22 and have worked a few jobs), from what you wrote, seems like at the very least you feel very safe with him and you being giddy is a pretty good sign you like him. Though I don't want to say anything definitive around the internet. You guys going on as normal after he asked if you like him is also very great. Shows that the topic, while confusing, wasn't so uncomfortable that you talked less. Maybe he is just a really good friend to you, maybe you like him more than that. Honestly, if you trust him enough maybe talk to him about it again. If he brought it up, that's a pretty good sign. Can't hurt right? Last time you talked about it you went on as normal. (Goes to show that the generations emotional intelligence is getting better and better)
Best of luck to you friend. May stuff work out the best it can in your life.
I had one of the scariest sleep paralysis half hour ago. I have them mostly every week bcos i have PTSS. So I’m used to them. But this was one different and very scary. I was to scared to sleep so i came here to watch your videos. I love this account. And your voice so soothing and calmimg🥹🫶🏼
We're so glad our videos help you feel calmer. As for your sleep paralysis, that sounds very scary! How long have you struggled with sleep paralysis? Have you had a chance to speak with someone regarding your condition?
@@Psych2go I have them sinds i was a kid. bcos of many traumas. I always had the same sleep paralysis. I would wake up in my room very dark and i could never turn on the lights or scream. Now that im older 20 currently they never left but they’re different each time. I went to therapy for two years. But i think the nightmares and paralysis will stay with me forever. But luckily i never feel scared anymore im used to them. Except this one i had but im okey know🫶🏼
That sounds very rough to deal with.. However, it sounds like you somehow learned how to cope with your situation, which I believe is amazing. If you don't mind my asking, can the sleep paralysis be cured or improved in the future?
@@Psych2go i don’t think there’s a cure for it bcos I believe its something spiritual and connected with the mind an dreams. You just learn to live with it🙏🏼
0:28 lingering eye contact
1:00 subtle accidental touches
1:38 mirroring
2:20 dance of nerves
3:04 personal details
3:40 engagement
Thank you so, so much! :)
@@Psych2goi had something like this but i moved away😢
5:10 😢
Definitely and I'm still not over it.
Here before this blows up
Can we agree that while listening to this her voice is so relaxing
Thanks for this. I've found myself doing these things and now I know what to look for I can stop, as none of this is being returned.
It's completely unconscious. I'd actually given up trying to find someone years ago. It seems my subconscious refuses to leave me in peace.
Help this was ten days ago she posts so fast and literally she reads my mind
I really like this animation style! 👍
These videos are practically like free therapy videos
The title should have been “6 Signs of Unspoken Rizz”
Bro ong same thing I was thinkin😂
I thought I had this with someone I've known online. Especially considering the two last points mentioned here. But now I feel that's just me overthinking things, trapped in my own fantasy. 🙄
Still, it will be funny if it turns out the other person feels the same too, and that we're just both too unsure that neither makes the first move... 😅
Whoops. Another fantasy, huh? 🤦🏻♂️
And thus begins the neverending cycle of "will they won't they" 😭😭
Watching this cause I'm desperate lol
The fact that i dont have this is so awesome
My love language is touching♡
I think you mean...Unspoken Rizz
"Attraction" is part of more people's vocabulary, but I definitely agree.
🤓
😭
but i don’t know if engagement could count. If anyone i know posts something i’m going to like it. Also most people I know don’t post often so i could easily like all their stuff and comment with zero interest in dating them.
Pov: this showed up 10 minutes after seeing my middle school crush (this is actual. Like this vid popped into my notifications when yeah😃🩷)
(Feelings never faded)
I have this with my best friend, but sadly for me she already has a boyfriend 😅. We see eachother weekly on a regular base etc, spent lots of time together. Oh well, maybe one day.
Is she in a committed relationship? If not, go for it.
@@tikhongilson3770 they are 6 years together, so i am not meddling into it. If they break up, win for me, but i am not destroying anything.
Even tho she said she misses something in her relationship, and she doesn't feel understood and lonely.
But she doesn't know better, she was 12, and he 22 when they met, and they got into a relationship when she was 19,and i met her when she was 20.
For me it feels like grooming, and that wht she doesn't know any better and thinks he is the only one.
Almost nobody knows about their relationship, and in the 5 years that i am seeing her, i never seen the dude once, and after 6 years they aren't even living together.
For me as an outsider, it looks so weird, as if he is just using her.
So maybe she is committed, but i think the guy is just using it.
Your animations are so calming!
Just a stone
No feelings
No emotions
No energy
Wish it could be true...
Thankyou for the video (:
I love the drawing especially the plant on their head
There's this girl in my church, we don't talk much except a hi and bye but we seem to make contact with eyes more than we talk 😂.... There's no lust to it, just a genuine spark😊, I don't know if she feels the same but I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one getting that feeling
This art style is adorable and thank you for these vids
Your channel keeps me happy
Amazing videos, as always!! Thank you for the quality videos!
me watching this for my characters, and then getting jealous of them-
Whelp, I'll have to keep these actions in mind. Attraction is spoken in mostly actons then words... its because of what I assume is a wee bit of anxiety. I know from experience
I MUST GET A PSI PLUSHIE!❤❤❤❤❤
Am I the only one who thinks the narrators voice is unbelievably attractive?
The taped on sunflower was cute
What the heck this says 18 seconds ago how are there 12 day old comments, what’s TH-cam smoking
Two guys are time travellers here ..HOW?
I've started developing a crush on this girl so this was really helpful. I'll keep an eye out for these next time we hang out. Thanks!
These are several of the reasons why I thought someone might've liked me. Only to be rejected cuz he had a gf at the time I told him I liked him lol :,)
Someone is teaching me this powerful language, she expressed it then context changed then it all made sense 😅
Me, delulu, doing absolute mental gymnastics to make this connect to me and my crush: