I have cried all the way through this story too!!! And I nursed for 10 years in dementia, and been with them when no one else has been there. Some people say goodbye and go, and others do not. I would dearly like someone to be there when I go ❤❤
Thank you for sharing this difficult journey. I have been caring for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s for 5 1/2 years. My dad passed of cancer 10 years ago and they had been married for 55 years. The progression of the disease has been much quicker this past year and breaks my heart. The care and keeping them safe is physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting when you’re doing it 24/7. It is such a long heartbreaking journey💔.
This was a very meaningful & important video for those suffering with this disease & the heartbreak of the caregiver (spouse). Appreciate this family for being vulnerable & sharing. 🇨🇦
My mom is going through this now I have sleepless night I feel as if I'm neglecting my self but I love my mom I'm her last child an watching this saddens me so much I'm crying 😢
My Mom had moderate dementia, ok when in her own house but being other places really stressed her. She died of a heart attack and stroke in quick succession, waited until she was in the ambulance outside the house before she died, just cannot help but believe she did this on purpose to not die actually in the house. When we were clearing her clothes, apart from a lot of money squirreled away, there were so many notes to my Dad, in varying qualities of handwriting, telling my Dad how much she loved him and apologising for "not being right anymore." Those notes finally broke us.
Wonderful family I looked after my mum with dementia for 2 years then I just broke! Now mum is in the local care home I thought it would be awful and felt so guilty but honestly there are so many staff that can encourage mum to leave her room mum wouldn’t even get up with me and I had a chronic illness but I am so pleased mum is there A couple f weeks ago I had a mini stroke think it was stress induced but the MRI found small vessel disease it can cause dementia and my mum has it too so I was almost giving up for a week or so Please carers if you are struggling try to find a good care home (I know allot of you are thinking ok she might be like that but I could do that, I know you are thinking that because I did too) Mum is more relaxed doesn’t fall allot and mixes with people and was even taken to a pub garden for a glass of wine I’m so grateful to them Sorry I went on a bit x
I think hearing your story will help families see that it’s both a relief for them to not have to be a 24/7 caregiver, AND it can be a nice improvement for their loved one to be someplace where they can get the best care.
This is a awful disease. My mother has it. She still knows who we are. It breaks my heart when she says I want to go home. I would not wish this on anyone.
He's a very strong man and a fantastic husband! Lesson learned: treasure every precious moments with your loved ones. Let the little things go and stay in the moment!
So much love and caring by a loving husband and his wonderful family during the incredibly tough journey of his beloved Pat living with dementia and cancer .
Beautiful...such love in the whole family especially Dad and daughter.. may she Rest In Peace. I wonder where Dad is today..hopefully well with his dogs and beautiful home..
Beautiful footage of their youth and their marriage such a young couple..and the reality on aging and loneliness!! He was a amazing husband! What a wonderful man.
And the beautiful and truly caring daughter. Just so incredibly beautiful to see a child love their mom so well. Her petting and gently rubbing her in an attempt to ease her was so dear!
every time when i read.... I m crying take so much power to control because pain from lost take so much power from you!Hard love to see the relationship in love!!It happened to my mom......it was so pain only tears bring you back... Wishing to all never be sick... Always be healthy! NEver lost member of your family!
Thanks for sharing, I alone is looking after my parents, because of COVID-19 I can not take them out. It's very emotional at times to see this way knowing the activity they had .thank you very much.
My husband has recently been diagnosed with Dementia, I have learned a lot from this wonderful man, I will try to be more patient and tolerant. May God bless him.
I like her wedding dress. Lace looks very pretty on bridal gowns, in my opinion and my dress is going to have lace on it when I get married someday. I'm kind of traditional in that way. By the way, I hope her family is ok too.
So glad I ran into this beautiful video this morning. So well-made technically and places such emphasis on dignity of friends, family and most noticeably for the protagonist. Wonderful!
Sorry for all your problems and for sharing such sensitive information about you and your family. The information will help other families who are dealing with family with dementia understand the bigger picture and emotions etc .Thanks for shari
I am 59 and the carer of my 90 year old mother here in the UK. She doesn't suffer from dementia, but she is very frail, sometimes a little confused, and I have to do nearly everything for her now. Victor's words near the end resonated with me when he said you mentally prepare yourself for the loss of your loved one, but nothing compares to the real thing. I know my mum is coming to the end of her life and I sometimes imagine how I will feel when it happens. But I realise that when it does eventually happen I will probably feel a level of grief that exceeds anything I had anticipated.
Is this my husband , my heart broke for you dear gentleman, it was all too much god bless you wherever you are , I see how happy both of you were on your wedding day what a joy , kind caring and a treasure for your beautiful beloved wife , a daughter so precious gentle and kind , 💕
A remarkable documentary. Not often do we see the caregivers part in this journey. Thank you to the filmmaker and Victor for allowing us to see this perspective.
Thank you for sharing your families story. This disease affects the whole family! My husband's dearest first wife, Connie, 57 died in 2007 of Huntington's and 11 years later we lost daughter Nicki, 45 passed from the same disease..it's so tough since it is like Alzheimes! It drags on for years for the person and the whole family! I pray for you and your family even as the years pass since the video was shared! Thank you and bless you all!
This is so sad. It is always sad to see this kind of thing happening especially after 63 years of marriage. At 60 I have a fantastic memory and really pride myself on it. I actually have friends and family that phone me to ask about past events. I also have a daughter who experiences grand mal seizures and she depends on me to remember past events for her. It breaks my heart but what kind you do. God bless this woman, her family and especially her loving husband.
What a special man her husband is and how sad it is that his wife is dying. Alzheimer’s is a slow moving, destructive disease. I hope I never have my brain altered in this way.
What a precious bideo. My husband and l have been married 43 yrs. He has dementia. The hardest part for me is ....one of the things i so adored about him was his intelligence. His father was a college professor. We will get through this. Our faith in Jesus our Savior is the strongest part of us. We know this earth is not our home and 1 day we will be in heaven our forever Home and there will be no pain no tears no dementia, we are ok.
Love for others ..true love that is spoken of on their wedding day...unconditional love is a choice not a feeling...we love even when we feel like running far from the grief of having to watch this process happen to someone we love....God is there for the joy & the pain..how we handle it all is our true test of character.. and this family is brave...
The part when she was saying she was tired was starting to make me teary but when I saw the husband in tears, now that i couldn't handle anymore which made me really cry, which doesn't happen often when I'm watching these stories on TH-cam since I eventually became numb to it but seeing this video was really heartbreaking mostly since my grandma also haves dementia and im her caretaker
Today I send you lots of prayers For what’s about to be I really want to help you So I’m sending this from me I’m sending what is needed There is no need to apply But most of all I send my love To all that passes by 🙏🏽🙏🙏🏼🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏻
My great uncle passed away on August 6 my birthday due to dementia such a horrible way to go not knowing anyone in the end but I'm glad he's not suffering
I'm sorry about that. That must've been an awful birthday. I hope you're feeling better now, and I believe he's in a better place now and he's happy even though I don't know him.
My wife was in a care facility and slowly was loosing her life. Due to COVID I was unable to enter the facility to see my wife or even communicate with her because she was bed bound and lost the ability to operate her mobile phone. I understand that man's pain .
Thank you for sharing such wonderful touching love relationship in this family. It touched my soul.i cried for such true love still exists in this world with heart felt gratitude.thank you once again.may God’s peace and love remains with your family.
What a beautiful video! I'm in tears. My Grandma had dementia and it was miserable for everyone. She was an amazing woman, best grandma you could ever want. She deteriorated so fast :( it was a horrible death.
Carers should be like extended family to their patients. I remember reading, a while ago, that carers who see their patients as part of their own tribe, i.e., extended family, are far more likely to make eye contact with the those in their care, and are far more gentle with them in general. Abuse of the elderly is seemingly rife in countries where cheap labour comes at a high price.
I diagnosed my husbands Alzheimer’s 3 years before I could get a doctor to. The very first thing of those 8 long years was when he told me that the speakers on tv were speaking faster. He couldn’t take it in. It was my own doctor 3 years later who said he had Alzheimer’s. I was telling him how my husband had planted outa bed of seedlings I had grown. The next day he came in so happy telling me he had weeded the whole patch. That was the seedlings. I took him to his own dr again and told him what my dr had said. I looked after.him for another 5 years but he got cancer and died a year ago. We had been married 58 years. He was sweet and gentle and I was numb for a year. I am just starting to grieve now. Oh how I miss my darling. We were lucky. We had lots of years to go back over and we would laugh of things that were further and further back.
I'm retired in Danbury, Ct, since 2006. My younger sister, retired in 2014, at 64. She started forgetting things almost immediately. Now , 5 yrs later. She is wheelchair bound, diapers, spoon fed, and round the clock care in her home in Ridgefield, CT. She worked as a journalist at NBC, in Rockefeller Center, for over 30 yrs. She got the Peabody award, and was a world traveler. She has Lewy Body Dementia, which is part Parkinsons. With Lewy Bodies, the brain shrinks very quickly. She is almost non verbal nowl Blessings and prayers to u , family , and friends.
Going thru this recently with my mother. A stroke in 2018 started the memory change...then Deminta kicked in. Without PRAYERS...FAITH AND TRUST IN GOD...I dont know how I could get thru this journey with my mother🙏🙏🙏🙏.VALUE YOUR LOVED 1'S WHILE YOU STILL HAVE THEM IS THE LESSON IM GETTING FROM THIS.💘💓🙏🌹
The gentleman reminds me of my own dear father ...and the situation is pretty similar as well ...the difference is that my dad would not let us put mum in a nursing home ...so we lost him first .....he died 6 years ago .... my . mother wasn't able to care for herself and a dission was made for her to go into care she is in late stage now and I pray for a peaceful passing 🙏 l hope this lovely family find some comfort knowing that they did the right thing for Patricia ...and that she to is at peace 🙏
Give thanks for all the good years and it is much more then most have had when I see this story I don’t feel sorry for them at all I see there life as a wonderful life and a wonderful family 🥰
I live eternally with the regret that i was not capable of looking after Dad once he got really bad. He was NZs highest ranking non-com soldier in the SAS back in the day, even without his marbles he wasnt being bossed around by no one lol, esp from his baby girl, its not funny but far out he was stubborn til the end! Love love LOVE!!!!❤❤❤
I’m going to beat Victor. Pls stop climbing ladders sir. We need you alive and well. I understand it keeps you going but you may not fully recover if you have a fall. An inspiring story. Much move to the family ❤️
I would rather have watched Dad go out to cancer, instead of this horrible disease. Atleast he would have had the marbles to speak his mind and possibly not die in a nappy. If i could go back, id have helped him end his life, he would have wanted that 💔💔💔 So much love to everyone out there watching their loved ones go out like this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Cancer is not necessarily better. My mother died of it. She was on morphine and kept falling asleep while talking to us. She wasn't in a diaper but had a catheter and a colostomy bag. I am glad you didn't help your father die. I am sorry for your loss.
“Who is this handsome man? I’m sure I’ve seen him before” this hit me 🥺 uve seen him for more than half your life, love. And he loves you.
I vow the same dedication to my dear husband. What a life!!! Thank God.
i really feel for this sweet man. i miss my granddad so much.
I cried all the way through this story as my Mum had bowel cancer and Dementia. What a gentleman her husband was through it all.
I have cried all the way through this story too!!! And I nursed for 10 years in dementia, and been with them when no one else has been there. Some people say goodbye and go, and others do not. I would dearly like someone to be there when I go ❤❤
Thank you for sharing this difficult journey. I have been caring for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s for 5 1/2 years. My dad passed of cancer 10 years ago and they had been married for 55 years. The progression of the disease has been much quicker this past year and breaks my heart. The care and keeping them safe is physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting when you’re doing it 24/7. It is such a long heartbreaking journey💔.
What a wonderful husband, daughter, and marriage.❤️
What a pretty lady. Music is so important for dementia people.
This was a very meaningful & important video for those suffering with this disease & the heartbreak of the caregiver (spouse). Appreciate this family for being vulnerable & sharing. 🇨🇦
My mom is going through this now I have sleepless night I feel as if I'm neglecting my self but I love my mom I'm her last child an watching this saddens me so much I'm crying 😢
This sad but I admire his dedication to his wife
My Mom had moderate dementia, ok when in her own house but being other places really stressed her.
She died of a heart attack and stroke in quick succession, waited until she was in the ambulance outside the house before she died, just cannot help but believe she did this on purpose to not die actually in the house.
When we were clearing her clothes, apart from a lot of money squirreled away, there were so many notes to my Dad, in varying qualities of handwriting, telling my Dad how much she loved him and apologising for "not being right anymore."
Those notes finally broke us.
Wonderful family I looked after my mum with dementia for 2 years then I just broke! Now mum is in the local care home I thought it would be awful and felt so guilty but honestly there are so many staff that can encourage mum to leave her room mum wouldn’t even get up with me and I had a chronic illness but I am so pleased mum is there
A couple f weeks ago I had a mini stroke think it was stress induced but the MRI found small vessel disease it can cause dementia and my mum has it too so I was almost giving up for a week or so
Please carers if you are struggling try to find a good care home (I know allot of you are thinking ok she might be like that but I could do that, I know you are thinking that because I did too)
Mum is more relaxed doesn’t fall allot and mixes with people and was even taken to a pub garden for a glass of wine I’m so grateful to them
Sorry I went on a bit x
I think hearing your story will help families see that it’s both a relief for them to not have to be a 24/7 caregiver, AND it can be a nice improvement for their loved one to be someplace where they can get the best care.
This is what is slowly happening to a sibling one year younger than myself. God grant us strength!
Praying for you
This is a awful disease. My mother has it. She still knows who we are. It breaks my heart when she says I want to go home. I would not wish this on anyone.
Beautiful video. He shows such a tremendous love to his wife. Tender and moving.
He has his Pup, His Family, He's keeping busy... Such a good man...
He's a very strong man and a fantastic husband! Lesson learned: treasure every precious moments with your loved ones. Let the little things go and stay in the moment!
So much love and caring by a loving husband and his wonderful family during the incredibly tough journey of his beloved Pat living with dementia and cancer .
Caring for and saying goodbye to a parent is the hardest and most precious experience.
Beautiful...such love in the whole family especially Dad and daughter.. may she Rest In Peace. I wonder where Dad is today..hopefully well with his dogs and beautiful home..
Victor passed away in January 2023. He was 95.
Beautiful footage of their youth and their marriage such a young couple..and the reality on aging and loneliness!! He was a amazing husband! What a wonderful man.
Brings a feeling of nostalgia sadness and missing people you never even knew.
what an amazing man. broke my heart to see him cry. this video seriously needs more views. it was beautifully shot and edited
Thank you very much for the kind words and support Taegan! we really appreciate it! thanks for watching!
Sad & Happy!
And the beautiful and truly caring daughter. Just so incredibly beautiful to see a child love their mom so well. Her petting and gently rubbing her in an attempt to ease her was so dear!
Beautiful caring loving man🥺
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What a gentle man with a big heart.
What a wonderful family ! Great husband and caring daughter. When Vic broke down, I did too!
hes a lovely man so loving towards his wife
This man shows us what true love is 🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️Heartwarming story.
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This was such a sad yet beautiful documentary. To have someone love you so much until your dying breath is such a wonderful thing.
Thanks Jaii, hope you enjoyed.
every time when i read.... I m crying take so much power to control because pain from lost take so much power from you!Hard love to see the relationship in love!!It happened to my mom......it was so pain only tears bring you back... Wishing to all never be sick... Always be healthy! NEver lost member of your family!
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Thanks for sharing, I alone is looking after my parents, because of COVID-19 I can not take them out. It's very emotional at times to see this way knowing the activity they had .thank you very much.
What a wonderful man!
beautiful human right life story . as caregiver I appreciate for this movie and teaching
Very sad/beautiful story! I cried so much, the love he has for her is beautiful
Thanks for the kind words Tina, glad you found it touching!
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My husband has recently been diagnosed with Dementia, I have learned a lot from this wonderful man, I will try to be more patient and tolerant. May God bless him.
yes it is very hard my grandmother has it this could be her last i visited her once two years ago she lives in a retirement home now for 4 years now.
Much love to you ❤
Pat looked beautiful on her wedding day and I love love love her fur coat. I hope her family are okay and have taken time to heal
I like her wedding dress. Lace looks very pretty on bridal gowns, in my opinion and my dress is going to have lace on it when I get married someday. I'm kind of traditional in that way. By the way, I hope her family is ok too.
Vic was so amazingly gracious..he is absolutely wonderful!
Seeing Victor cry made me want to cry
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So glad I ran into this beautiful video this morning. So well-made technically and places such emphasis on dignity of friends, family and most noticeably for the protagonist. Wonderful!
what a beautiful but sad journey. wonderful supporting husband
What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. ❤
A very sad and heartfelt documentary. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Alofa atu xox
Well done and very helpful as I am dealing with a family member with dementia. This should be in classrooms around the world.
Definitely!!!!
Sorry for all your problems and for sharing such sensitive information about you and your family. The information will help other families who are dealing with family with dementia understand the bigger picture and emotions etc .Thanks for shari
I am 59 and the carer of my 90 year old mother here in the UK. She doesn't suffer from dementia, but she is very frail, sometimes a little confused, and I have to do nearly everything for her now. Victor's words near the end resonated with me when he said you mentally prepare yourself for the loss of your loved one, but nothing compares to the real thing. I know my mum is coming to the end of her life and I sometimes imagine how I will feel when it happens. But I realise that when it does eventually happen I will probably feel a level of grief that exceeds anything I had anticipated.
Is this my husband , my heart broke for you dear gentleman, it was all too much god bless you wherever you are , I see how happy both of you were on your wedding day what a joy , kind caring and a treasure for your beautiful beloved wife , a daughter so precious gentle and kind , 💕
my grandad was just like him...I really just got pleasant memories of him back
beautiful man ,beautiful heart...
Patricia had a very loving family....
what a dear, dear man. God bless him.
My grandfather died of cancer at 88 in 2020, my grandmother lives with dimensia at 83. I see them in this story
A remarkable documentary. Not often do we see the caregivers part in this journey. Thank you to the filmmaker and Victor for allowing us to see this perspective.
What a beautiful couple. Well done !
Thank you for sharing your families story. This disease affects the whole family! My husband's dearest first wife, Connie, 57 died in 2007 of Huntington's and 11 years later we lost daughter Nicki, 45 passed from the same disease..it's so tough since it is like Alzheimes! It drags on for years for the person and the whole family! I pray for you and your family even as the years pass since the video was shared! Thank you and bless you all!
Everyone should be blessed to have someone like this wonderful man in their life.
This is so sad. It is always sad to see this kind of thing happening especially after 63 years of marriage.
At 60 I have a fantastic memory and really pride myself on it. I actually have friends and family that phone me to ask about past events. I also have a daughter who experiences grand mal seizures and she depends on me to remember past events for her. It breaks my heart but what kind you do. God bless this woman, her family and especially her loving husband.
Such a strong loving man.
I cry so much am going thru the same thing with mom she’s in hospice at home with me 24-7 love this video but it hurt so bad
He’s love for her is so great ...makes me tearing ..wish him the best!!!
What a loving man❤
What a special man her husband is and how sad it is that his wife is dying. Alzheimer’s is a slow moving, destructive disease. I hope I never have my brain altered in this way.
Beautifully documented
Tears. Bless you Victor and Rest In Peace Patricia.
Beautifully sad. It is always amazing to me how music remains with people.
Especially songs they sang often they can even remember the words. It stays with them, so interesting and amazing.
What a precious bideo. My husband and l have been married 43 yrs. He has dementia. The hardest part for me is ....one of the things i so adored about him was his intelligence. His father was a college professor. We will get through this. Our faith in Jesus our Savior is the strongest part of us. We know this earth is not our home and 1 day we will be in heaven our forever Home and there will be no pain no tears no dementia, we are ok.
God bless you and your husband. I work in a mostly Dementia unit at a nursing home. Times are so tough right now. I'd like to send you both a big hug.
Love for others ..true love that is spoken of on their wedding day...unconditional love is a choice not a feeling...we love even when we feel like running far from the grief of having to watch this process happen to someone we love....God is there for the joy & the pain..how we handle it all is our true test of character.. and this family is brave...
What caring wonderful administrators .
Thank you so much for making this sensitive and beautiful piece of work. It helps past and present grief greatly. God bless your parents.
Omg what a beauty she was in her wedding day.
The part when she was saying she was tired was starting to make me teary but when I saw the husband in tears, now that i couldn't handle anymore which made me really cry, which doesn't happen often when I'm watching these stories on TH-cam since I eventually became numb to it but seeing this video was really heartbreaking mostly since my grandma also haves dementia and im her caretaker
She was lucky for having great family support.
I watched a video because l start working in nursing home very soon. Thank you for sharing.
Today I send you lots of prayers
For what’s about to be
I really want to help you
So I’m sending this from me
I’m sending what is needed
There is no need to apply
But most of all I send my love
To all that passes by
🙏🏽🙏🙏🏼🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏻
My great uncle passed away on August 6 my birthday due to dementia such a horrible way to go not knowing anyone in the end but I'm glad he's not suffering
I'm sorry about that. That must've been an awful birthday. I hope you're feeling better now, and I believe he's in a better place now and he's happy even though I don't know him.
My wife was in a care facility and slowly was loosing her life. Due to COVID I was unable to enter the facility to see my wife or even communicate with her because she was bed bound and lost the ability to operate her mobile phone. I understand that man's pain .
@@1bannock that's also sad not being their for your partner even though they're not there and slowly waisting away.
Thank you for sharing such wonderful touching love relationship in this family. It touched my soul.i cried for such true love still exists in this world with heart felt gratitude.thank you once again.may God’s peace and love remains with your family.
What a beautiful video! I'm in tears.
My Grandma had dementia and it was miserable for everyone. She was an amazing woman, best grandma you could ever want. She deteriorated so fast :( it was a horrible death.
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Thank you for sharing your journey with us ! Bless you all xxx
Carers should be like extended family to their patients. I remember reading, a while ago, that carers who see their patients as part of their own tribe, i.e., extended family, are far more likely to make eye contact with the those in their care, and are far more gentle with them in general. Abuse of the elderly is seemingly rife in countries where cheap labour comes at a high price.
My stepdad.passed.away from this disease. It affects everyone. Prayers for the family.
WHAT A LOVELY HUSBAND
Thank you for sharing your story. God bless
If I would have had a good husband like these men I would have moved heaven and earth for them !
I agree. It would have been the most wonderful life to have a caring and loving husband.
My mother has been living with dementia for years now and it doesn’t get easier; I must say.
I diagnosed my husbands Alzheimer’s 3 years before I could get a doctor to. The very first thing of those 8 long years was when he told me that the speakers on tv were speaking faster. He couldn’t take it in. It was my own doctor 3 years later who said he had Alzheimer’s. I was telling him how my husband had planted outa bed of seedlings I had grown. The next day he came in so happy telling me he had weeded the whole patch. That was the seedlings. I took him to his own dr again and told him what my dr had said. I looked after.him for another 5 years but he got cancer and died a year ago. We had been married 58 years. He was sweet and gentle and I was numb for a year. I am just starting to grieve now. Oh how I miss my darling. We were lucky. We had lots of years to go back over and we would laugh of things that were further and further back.
Omg ....so beautiful I cried so much hahaha so admirable so lovely so kind so Just beautiful beautiful to watch
I'm retired in Danbury, Ct, since 2006. My younger sister, retired in 2014, at 64. She started forgetting things almost immediately. Now , 5 yrs later. She is wheelchair bound, diapers, spoon fed, and round the clock care in her home in Ridgefield, CT. She worked as a journalist at NBC, in Rockefeller Center, for over 30 yrs. She got the Peabody award, and was a world traveler. She has Lewy Body Dementia, which is part Parkinsons. With Lewy Bodies, the brain shrinks very quickly. She is almost non verbal nowl Blessings and prayers to u , family , and friends.
Going thru this recently with my mother. A stroke in 2018 started the memory change...then Deminta kicked in. Without PRAYERS...FAITH AND TRUST IN GOD...I dont know how I could get thru this journey with my mother🙏🙏🙏🙏.VALUE YOUR LOVED 1'S WHILE YOU STILL HAVE THEM IS THE LESSON IM GETTING FROM THIS.💘💓🙏🌹
The gentleman reminds me of my own dear father ...and the situation is pretty similar as well ...the difference is that my dad would not let us put mum in a nursing home ...so we lost him first .....he died 6 years ago .... my . mother wasn't able to care for herself and a dission was made for her to go into care she is in late stage now and I pray for a peaceful passing 🙏 l hope this lovely family find some comfort knowing that they did the right thing for Patricia ...and that she to is at peace 🙏
Give thanks for all the good years and it is much more then most have had when I see this story I don’t feel sorry for them at all I see there life as a wonderful life and a wonderful family 🥰
so lovely but not possible to watch!!! so painful!
Why a wonderful film and a fantastic man.
crying n crying, god bless you Suzi hugs
I love love love seeing the wedding segments in these videos. So beautiful ❤
Watching this I missed grandma one of my former client in Manasas😌unfortunately they put her in memory care.Really need to visir her😊😌
I live eternally with the regret that i was not capable of looking after Dad once he got really bad. He was NZs highest ranking non-com soldier in the SAS back in the day, even without his marbles he wasnt being bossed around by no one lol, esp from his baby girl, its not funny but far out he was stubborn til the end! Love love LOVE!!!!❤❤❤
I’m going to beat Victor. Pls stop climbing ladders sir. We need you alive and well. I understand it keeps you going but you may not fully recover if you have a fall. An inspiring story. Much move to the family ❤️
The much-loved little dog helps!
I would rather have watched Dad go out to cancer, instead of this horrible disease. Atleast he would have had the marbles to speak his mind and possibly not die in a nappy. If i could go back, id have helped him end his life, he would have wanted that 💔💔💔 So much love to everyone out there watching their loved ones go out like this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Cancer is not necessarily better. My mother died of it. She was on morphine and kept falling asleep while talking to us. She wasn't in a diaper but had a catheter and a colostomy bag. I am glad you didn't help your father die. I am sorry for your loss.
I've gone through this process. The 47 persons who put a thumbs down can go to you know where.
Wow! What a beautiful man.
I feel the same way. How can I one person such a mess. . And the animals won't help.
Beautiful place you have!
So sad my grandma had dementia and my grandpa spent everyday with her and he died before her so so sad!