Nervous System Dysregulation Doesn't Exist

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  • @byebyepanic
    @byebyepanic  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

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  • @hanibalanteportas
    @hanibalanteportas 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I'm on a right path of my recovery journey thanks to this guy... panic attacks stopped, I only have problems with intrusive thoughts even though they are reduced to minimum, I still learn to accept and ignore them. My ultimate goal is to move out my parents house and I feel I'm close to that goal but last step is the hardest for me personally.
    Sending love to all brothers and sisters who are fighting this. We are all gonna make it! ❤

    • @WendyDiaz-zk6js
      @WendyDiaz-zk6js 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yup, me too!!!!
      No more panic attacks 🙌🏻💯 core confidence 😌

    • @hannahnichols320
      @hannahnichols320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You GOT THIS. You are in control. You are healing. So happy for you

    • @andrewdoig9089
      @andrewdoig9089 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey friend. Feel like this is where im at, moved back in with my parents and work remote. All i have now is high morning anxiety for an hour or so. did you move out and doing okay?

  • @CristianaAileni
    @CristianaAileni 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Shaan, you're the most practical, wise and educative person I've heard yet thus far on this topic ... Coming from me who spent about 2 years calling 911 just about daily from being stuck in an intense panick attack loop... Then two more years of "feeding" the fear and keeping my nervous system extremely sensitized..as you'd say. I've searched high and low on this topic of anxiety/panic...and i resonate with you the most. I've been blessed by finding your channel. A couple of days ago i had an errand to run ... And i was dealing with "anticipatory anxiety" while sitting in my car before the drive. I searched "panic attacks while driving" and your video came up on that. Here i am now listening to the rest of your content in complete gratitude for you...and a new sense of hope.. like a breath of fresh, clean air. You have given me a strong sense of empowerment about this like noone else could or has. This is a priceless gift to me.

  • @4runnerManco
    @4runnerManco 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Hi shaan!! Jesse from AZ. Your videos started saving me over a month ago. Been in the cycle for over 18 month now since my dad suddenly unexpectedly passed in a bad way in my arms. . Have 100 symptoms in all ways so crazy. Long story short.. i wish i could do your program badly. But your videos are a saving grace. Im thankful for you. . The ALARM and AWARE and just Letting go have been my thing.
    I will say I know you guys mention to Find someone who has been through it as a mentor or guide or join the program, And if I get my tax return back this time I definitely will use it for that. But for now , I use you and your videos and all you guys as my people & person who has been through it and my guides. . Lastly, I want to add if I do and when I do make it out of this anxiety holocaust, My biggest goal and hope is to at least help And get someone out there going thru this hell to get them completely out of it and get the benefits of it.

  • @RS48333
    @RS48333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for this video. I have been chasing NS regulation for years and not healing but your jumpstart program is helping me. Im fairly new but still see good changes that are small but matter to me. Thank you 🙏

  • @allardvandenberg7584
    @allardvandenberg7584 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is spot on. I thing it is a good thing that awareness about nervous system related issues such ad anxiety, cptsd, trauma etc is increasing. It however seems that new (body based) treamtments still focus on ‘fixing’ the nervous system with excersises etc. instead of providing a method that serves the purpose of letting your nervous system calm down own its own and be retrained in the process.

  • @MentalHealthPower
    @MentalHealthPower 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are right Shaan, it is important to point out the difference in the words, as it changes their perception of the issue to be more accurate.
    Dysregulation implies not working properly - which may be attractive to some because it implies more of a quick fix and is kind of "machine like". Almost implies its a mechanical thing that needs to be fixed. I suggest that it appeals to some because they already see the body and mind like a machine and not a holistic entity.
    Hypersensitivity makes more sense and is more accurate because it points out the human part , the one who senses, it is us the person who has to change our relationship to the symptoms, our mind and our body to desensitize the nervous system.
    That part I believe people find it hard to understand at first because of the more abstract and holistic approach - where you work with your body and mind in a relationship and learn how to listen and communicate with it more effectively.

  • @StacyAtoms
    @StacyAtoms 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Dysregulation is the new pop psych buzzword, just like how everyone was a “narcissistic” a couple years before that

    • @noo-bz
      @noo-bz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In Russia it's really a common diagnosis though, and it's called basically a vegetative dysregulation f45.3
      But thankfully the docs are getting rid of it, cuz it's never the main diagnosis

  • @beyonce812
    @beyonce812 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you have no idea how helpful this was to me, thank you sm!!

  • @MarcelFerrin-
    @MarcelFerrin- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’ve had the craziest story
    And I feel I’m on the home stretch
    If I can recover
    Anyone can

    • @kamleshkumarsingh5140
      @kamleshkumarsingh5140 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Have you fully recovered ?

    • @MarcelFerrin-
      @MarcelFerrin- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Recovery is about learning to fully let go
      Of it all
      Not to be scared
      Worried and live life
      I’m on the home stretch
      I don’t really focus on my symptoms
      Because I’m so in control
      I don’t notice them

    • @MarcelFerrin-
      @MarcelFerrin- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have to understand that we attach emotions to thoughts
      Whenever you have a thought, the way you attach a motion to it
      Determines how you feel
      You have to not live the thought like meditation let the thought come and go do not attach a motion to the thought
      Anxiety Must live with you
      Don’t fight it give up the fight
      Allow it to exist
      It is there to protect you
      Develop a different relationship with anxiety
      It will never kill you nor harm you
      Think of it as your best friend
      It will pass
      But if you think fearful
      Anxiety only gets bigger

    • @MarcelFerrin-
      @MarcelFerrin- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because you are scared you are making the symptoms worse
      Invite the dizziness
      Allow it to happen
      I know it sound hard
      But allow the dizziness to happen
      It will go away
      Don’t be afraid of it
      The more afraid you are the worse it gets

    • @MarcelFerrin-
      @MarcelFerrin- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Anytime

  • @emmaelina1801
    @emmaelina1801 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So helpful, thanks a lot

  • @marcelferrin5469
    @marcelferrin5469 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys got this

  • @jessicanilsson5941
    @jessicanilsson5941 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always got like Darkness in my vision why ?

  • @emusedesigns
    @emusedesigns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This nuance is helpfull. Thank you. But what about dorsal shut down?

  • @WendyDiaz-zk6js
    @WendyDiaz-zk6js 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of your best videos 💯🙌🏻✅

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🙌

  • @doordie6790
    @doordie6790 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i relapsed on this so how do i prevent this in the future ?

  • @ezza1236
    @ezza1236 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish long Covid people would understand this, all the symptoms are exactly the same

    • @Pinksugarskull84
      @Pinksugarskull84 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you elaborate on this? Genuinely curious!

  • @bartspog7856
    @bartspog7856 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, I've got anxiety, and it's getting a lot better, but I've got a flight in 3 months, and im really nervous and scared, has anyone got any tips? Thanks.

    • @xwein422
      @xwein422 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Friend if it's already getting better, in 3 months it will be even better. I was scared before my flight as well (25 hours long) but I just faced it and after it I started to recovering sooo much faster . Take this step and you will become much more free after.

    • @bartspog7856
      @bartspog7856 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@xwein422 thanks bro

  • @doordie6790
    @doordie6790 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so you don't believe depersonalization is a trauma response??

  • @jessicanilsson5941
    @jessicanilsson5941 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But if You not are safe how ?

  • @BMill88
    @BMill88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what do you say to me? I’m kindled from benzo withdrawl after taking a mushroom that effected my gaba. Going right back thru all the same symptoms. Anxiety/depression/dpdr/vibrations/facial pressure.

    • @marthasisco9678
      @marthasisco9678 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How long?

    • @marthasisco9678
      @marthasisco9678 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Still?

    • @BMill88
      @BMill88 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marthasisco9678 I’m a lot better now, but still have some slight blurriness to my vision and a little sensitive to supplements.

  • @GiulioPaganini
    @GiulioPaganini 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I bro. I have 18 years and I suffer from dpdr since February 2020. I would like to buy your course, but my dad earn so little. I can't use his money to buy your course. How can I do? I found your channel and you help me for a lot of things, but I want to pass the successive level. Please help me.😭😭🙏🏻

  • @Apurbodey423
    @Apurbodey423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Please shaan make your program affordable, I am a student from india I can save 400 to 500 rupeea which means I can save 4 to 5 dollars in a month, if I had money I cannot talk like this I want to talk,please do something just like manyone condituons is like me , please help I want to talk please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @Kirtantube71
      @Kirtantube71 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The think is we are poor brother

    • @Khojkhabar10
      @Khojkhabar10 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even I know 5000 dollars means 4lac rupees in India, which is above from our status ,even I want to talk to him but I can't afford because my salary is like nothing shaan please make affordable for everyone..

    • @PrabhatRathod-df1lp
      @PrabhatRathod-df1lp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You can see videos of vacate fear or the anxious truth and I also request to shaan please make affordable for some people..

    • @MarcelFerrin-
      @MarcelFerrin- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If any of you need help I can try my best to help you

    • @Apurbodey423
      @Apurbodey423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@MarcelFerrin-have you followed shaan's process? actually I have vomit phobia and I follow the process but when vomit comes how can throw up at public, process is like let go but how can I throw up at everyone how..?

  • @ianmelling6686
    @ianmelling6686 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have anxiety and tinnitus for one year on antidepressants but not working only help with sleeping what can I do to get rid of my anxiety

    • @Babayagaom
      @Babayagaom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let the panic happen. Get busy and stop resisting anxiety. Stop checking symptoms

  • @joemartino29
    @joemartino29 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What are your thoughts on polyvagal theory? The way you described the nervous system and how the two branches compete is incorrect from a polyvagal lens. There is a hierarchy of response as a threat enters. Sympathetic can lead to parasympathetic shutdown (a survival response) if a threat does not "go away." It's not one system winning out over the other per se... as someone who works with clients, dysregulation is very real. The question is: is it the cause of ALL of people's problems? No, but to say it's not real is not true from my training. Too many people are seeing too good of clinical results under the dysregulation lens for it to not exist at all, not to mention many folks arrive with textbook cases of it.
    On another note, what you are describing about sensitization is essentially what any well trained good practitioner would describe about dysregulation. The challenge we have today is way to many folks are on social media where they are incentivized to go viral.. they create weak content and mislead folks and then others (urself in this case) respond to those folks pointing out their flaws, which is useful, but at the same time perhaps missing the whole point that properly explained dysregulation is exactly what's going on in many people's system.

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There’s no competition. Sympathetic nervous system will always take priority.

    • @joemartino29
      @joemartino29 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@byebyepanic In the animal kingdom, if a cheetah chases an antelope the antelope goes into sympathetic. They flee because they realize they can't fight. After a while, if the antelope is caught and is in the jaws of the cheetah, the parasympathetic shutdown response (from the dorsal vagal complex) rushes in and conserves. Conservation is a last attempt at survival. In this response blood rushes to conserve the brain, chemicals are released to numb pain, immobilization occurs etc. If the cheetah somehow leaves, the antelope will eventually come out of shutdown, rise to its feet and flee (back to sympathetic). Once it's safe, it returns to a ventral vagal oriented state of parasympathetic response and moves on with its day because it doesn't have a higher brain to tell its friends what happened and relive the experience love and over like humans do. lol
      Humans have the exact same nervous system as those mammals. When we become too overwhelmed we shutdown (dorsal vagal of the parasympathetic system.) We end up feeling numb, hopeless, and as if we can't even move. This is the dorsal vagal response and some people can get stuck in that for very long periods of time via dysregulation, or sensitization as you describe it (same thing really) and it wires that way as the best way to protect us based on the experiences we've had and the habits we build from those experiences. So in the end much of what we are saying is the same, but the nuances of our survival responses are important for many clients to understand their unique situation.

    • @byebyepanic
      @byebyepanic  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, correct.

  • @OmaxLegend-cg8ws
    @OmaxLegend-cg8ws 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was surfing from anxiety. naw am okay I I dont think there is same thing called anxiety any more

    • @jazzi3740
      @jazzi3740 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How did you heal ?

  • @aqibhussain7139
    @aqibhussain7139 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @scarletalcantara1050
    @scarletalcantara1050 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you please give me your opinion, I’m 27 years old and started getting anxiety because I stopped drinking coffee and weed, now I have accepted but I started taking b complex supplements, should I stop that ? It has made me feel better though

    • @noo-bz
      @noo-bz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's a placebo, these supplements not like 'work', either there wouldn't be a need in the therapy.
      Your gut is not taking everything it receives, and the brain don't get everything the gut takes, so all that stuff mostly don't work.
      What is works is the all the things that makes you calm. The mindset Shaan teaches at first, and at the second is sedative drugs, from some calming herb tinctures to SSRIs and bensos

    • @droprblx584
      @droprblx584 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No dont stop it. B complex is great for the brain

  • @GodIsLove726
    @GodIsLove726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What about the fact that the mind doesn’t know the difference between a physical trauma and an entirety emotional one. Not to say the brain is wrong. It’s to say that pain is pain. Does it matter if it’s physical or emotional? To the brain, no, it does not matter. So it doesn’t always have to be a physical threat for it to be legitimately harmful. If a situation causes emotions to arise that you don’t have the capacity to process, why fault the brain for trying to protect you? I don’t think we are anywhere near as dumb as we think we are. The brain, body, mind, soul etc. are all extremely resilient. It really just goes to show just how much evil there is out there working against us for us to have such self-preserving and a resilient nature that we still get obliterated.

    • @noo-bz
      @noo-bz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's some dope theory

    • @GodIsLove726
      @GodIsLove726 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@noo-bz Can’t tell if you mean that in a good way or not

    • @noo-bz
      @noo-bz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@GodIsLove726 No, i mean i liked it

    • @noo-bz
      @noo-bz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@GodIsLove726 Its all about the emotions, for example youre a man seeing a snake in the forest below your feet. Your reaction is to prepare to run or jump whatever, the defensive reaction, and, then you realising that this is a stick, not a snake. So there wasnt even a threat, its just the emotion got your brain to switch on the alarm mode

  • @COLOFIDUTI
    @COLOFIDUTI 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its simple but not easy

  • @motmotalthea
    @motmotalthea 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Shaan, Im your subscriber from the Philippines.. hopefully you will see this message. Just curious: do you take your medications again at times of setbacks? I'm having difficulties sleeping because of these setbacks. This is the reason my doctor prescribed me rivotril and escitalopram again, but in a lower dosage.

    • @noo-bz
      @noo-bz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      By the protocol, you should take ssris 1 year after the symptoms stopped appearing, so if it is appearing then you're not recovered fully and the doc should raise the SSRI dosage till you're stable
      The recovery is possible without them tho, but it's easier to heal the broken bone with a plaster cast, what the ssri is basically

  • @colleeninsko4665
    @colleeninsko4665 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really like the video I gather u have heard of dr sarno mind body syndrome his books helped my chronic pain and anxiety and learning that u
    Don’t need to fix anything as u are ok and acceptance is such a huge part in my recovery and I believe I many other people too 🙂

  • @Totbatot6774
    @Totbatot6774 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need your mentorship program.im s single mother to 3 children.your mentorshipn is not affordable for me bit still i want to do it

    • @beastmas77
      @beastmas77 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Try his Jumpstart program.. you pay monthly to get access to the program..

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    @MrGreat007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm having hair lose issues.my have lost so much hair in scalp area..