5 Ways to Ask Someone Out

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  • Asking your crush out can be difficult, but we have tips to make dating easier. Psych2Go will list 5 ways to ask someone out. Do you have trouble working up the courage to ask someone out, or have experience in asking someone out? Please leave a comment down below, with your personal experiences!
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1384

    Did you enjoy yesterday's video about healthy crushes? Today, we will be taking that topic to the next level by providing you 5 Ways to Ask Someone Out! We hope you have a wonderful Sunday, and maybe take that leap of faith and ask that special someone out ;)

    • @satansspawner2710
      @satansspawner2710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Psych2Go Satan gotta see this... he doesn't know how to ask his girlfriend (MOMO) Out.

    • @starykun1625
      @starykun1625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Psych2Go I wish I had this video lol. Took abit for me to ask my girlfriend out.

    • @PROJECTJoza100
      @PROJECTJoza100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Make a video about OCD vs OCPD

    • @dunnoanymore8285
      @dunnoanymore8285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Psych2Go when are we gonna get a video about letting go of the past?

    • @snowytiger957
      @snowytiger957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm not crushing on anyone...yet. I'm still single. Lol

  • @non-existantpie6478
    @non-existantpie6478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10487

    Okay so uhm maybe I need a video on dealing with rejection now

    • @captaincaspin5035
      @captaincaspin5035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +367

      oof

    • @gatsbyspet9344
      @gatsbyspet9344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +601

      Communism was rejected too

    • @minecrafterselite1
      @minecrafterselite1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      Non-Existant Pie ask her sister out

    • @Flintlock900
      @Flintlock900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +278

      16 rejections and still counting. I know that pain bro.

    • @b1njjj95
      @b1njjj95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Non-Existant Pie Build a bridge and get over it. There's not much more you can do after your crush says no. You just have to learn to accept that rejection happens. You have to learn to let it go and move onto someone that is interested in you.

  • @gabriel.424
    @gabriel.424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5905

    Nah you gotta send one of those "send this to your crush with no context" videos to them

  • @lilacy2607
    @lilacy2607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3187

    Step one: ask them out
    Step two: deal with your depression after you got rejected

    • @thatkid7999
      @thatkid7999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I might need this, thanks :)

    • @idanheskel784
      @idanheskel784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Yep I'm gonna do that tomorrow and see if I have to deal with depression, oh god frick me I am going to die alone and sad

    • @thatkid7999
      @thatkid7999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@idanheskel784 Mood.

    • @waynelim9866
      @waynelim9866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Gotta be honest, It's a vicious cycle everytime I open up to be vulnerable

    • @beans4852
      @beans4852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1000% not gonna lieeeee

  • @iansarmiento23
    @iansarmiento23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2115

    "Don't wait too long to make your move"
    Laughs in 4 years of anxiety.
    *Cries in a year of regrets*

    • @ellahblu
      @ellahblu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      My friend has had thia crush on this girl for 12 years dude still hasn’t told her hes deep in friendzone

    • @bruuh3130
      @bruuh3130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@ellahblu rip his soul

    • @kartikayysola
      @kartikayysola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ellahblu I've been there, it's absolutely terrible. I asked a co-worker out about a month ago, and while she turned me down, it hurt a helluva lot less than not telling my childhood friend how I felt about her when I had the chance.

    • @neeltheother2342
      @neeltheother2342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I remember when I waited for a solid month to walk up to this girl and try to talk to her. Her being alone all the time kind of explained why she didn't wanna talk in the end.

    • @austinlincoln3414
      @austinlincoln3414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Break your anxiety. Get your weak ass up, STOP WASTING YOUR TIME! GET WHAT YOU WANT!

  • @rashadhaoutar5363
    @rashadhaoutar5363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6312

    Lol I never got rejected
    Because I never asked someone out.

  • @thatmf5181
    @thatmf5181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3919

    I found out today that my best friend is now dating my crush. Great.

    • @helincan1420
      @helincan1420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      A Random Introvert THATS fuckt up I hope you are oke !

    • @MM-ss9yd
      @MM-ss9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @Scott Ali i found my crushes social media if i ask her out on there she knows who i am but i dont want her to get the idea that im creepy for finding it in the first place so im not sure if i should message her

    • @anonymousperson26223
      @anonymousperson26223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Scott Ali ar club my G let's go

    • @anonymousperson26223
      @anonymousperson26223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Scott Ali yup

    • @SpongeQuotes
      @SpongeQuotes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Same here i got depressed for the next month so i found out that she liked me the whole time

  • @billle6883
    @billle6883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2050

    I'm asking tomorrow on Valentine's Day. Wish me luck.
    Edit: nvm guys forget abt them I did it

  • @corsac_
    @corsac_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2147

    bad pickup line:
    Are you todays date because you’re 10/10
    (only works on october 10)

    • @crsstien
      @crsstien 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I can't wait for october 10th

    • @thedemocraticfilipino6417
      @thedemocraticfilipino6417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Funny... Mine worked on the 12th...

    • @lovelywonders2287
      @lovelywonders2287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Kimet 10 - or u could say “Are you today’s date? Cause I want u to be mine” idk if it makes sense tho 😂

    • @Trehvawn
      @Trehvawn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Or 3010 and any date on the 10th

    • @z_adhitama8198
      @z_adhitama8198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lovely Wonders nice

  • @AnimeWolf5193
    @AnimeWolf5193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3123

    Here's another way to look at it;
    If you ask someone out, you have a 50% chance of success.
    If you don't, your odds drop to 0%.

    • @jonathancangelosi2439
      @jonathancangelosi2439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +441

      You’re conflating possibilities with probabilities. If I look under my pillow, either there is a million dollars underneath it or there isn’t. Doesn’t mean there’s a 50% chance there’s a million dollars under my pillow. Otherwise, I’d buy pillows like mad.
      Still, the basic idea that you’re conveying here is a good way to think about it.
      I wish I had a 50% chance of success. It’s more like 1%. Lol

    • @AnimeWolf5193
      @AnimeWolf5193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Jonathan Cangelosi If you ask someone out, one of two possibilities will happen; they will either say yes or no.
      50/50.

    • @jonathancangelosi2439
      @jonathancangelosi2439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      Just because there are two possibilities doesn’t mean they’re equally likely.
      Let’s apply your logic to the lottery. Either I win the lottery or I don’t. 50/50 chance, right?
      No, because the chance of winning the lottery is generally around one in 300 million. Many people enter the lottery, and only one can win. If everyone had a 50% chance, the lottery would go bankrupt, since about 150 million people would win.
      My point is, asking someone out isn’t as simple as a coin flip. It’s not random. It’s more like a lottery. Several guys may ask a girl out, but she can only date one of them at a time (assuming she is monogamous).
      If you had a 50% success rate, that means if you ask out 100 girls, you should expect about 50 of them to say yes. I have had nowhere close to that level of success.

    • @QuartzIsAnOxide
      @QuartzIsAnOxide 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      It's just as Jonathan said. Asking someone out is like lottery, especially if they're a woman and get asked out a lot. If they get 100 requests a day, then from THEIR perspective each guy only has a 1/100th chance of being selected, then your actual probability of being the chosen one drops much lower. A better way to calculate whether a girl will reject you or not would be through Drake's equation. There's more complicated ways to do it, but since all rely on subjective meassures of happiness and attractiveness, I don't see the use in trying one over the other.

    • @libertylee7073
      @libertylee7073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I read this in L's (from death note) voice XD

  • @salamander1460
    @salamander1460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +974

    When you watch these videos instead of actually interacting with your crush.

  • @veliselaci3096
    @veliselaci3096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2212

    What’s it called when your crush has a crush on you and that you end up being a couple?
    Just Your Imagination.....

    • @its_lemon_19
      @its_lemon_19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      _ Cezarpower _ lol.

    • @stingraykitten1796
      @stingraykitten1796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      😂 why is this true

    • @annandres8483
      @annandres8483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I said that last year on valentines day and then I got into a relationship with one of my crushes in december😂but now we've broken up

    • @corvus5964
      @corvus5964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      my crush had a crush on me but i didnt realise until it was too late but im still considering asking her out but i dont know if i should or not because she hasnt been trying to get my attention for a while now so im thinking that she doesnt like me anymore and btw im in highschool so it could mess some stuff up if i get rejected

    • @its_lemon_19
      @its_lemon_19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cory Colmer Hmm I know I'm in middle school but I'd say shoot your shot. You don't have much to lose. And maybe she's waiting for you to make the first move. You got this. When ny friend asked me out I low key thought it was a joke but I said yes anyway and turns out it wasn't. Since we're in quarantine if it fails you can say a sibling or parent took your phone.

  • @hoowup
    @hoowup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    The community is so self aware that saying "It's cliche and overused" has become a cliche.

    • @Orange_Swirl
      @Orange_Swirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That's so cliche.

    • @takdudung
      @takdudung 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Orange_Swirl Not to mention overused

    • @dingoa9595
      @dingoa9595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao wow good point

  • @grauts-5650
    @grauts-5650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3209

    Number 6: ask them out on April fools day. If they reject you can say April fools.
    Edit: Good luck to all those who are going to try this :D
    Edit 2: It's almost the day bois, plan the big question out and gl B)

    • @user78554
      @user78554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      Holy shit thats clever

    • @ungabunga1768
      @ungabunga1768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Oh that's smart

    • @mz7289
      @mz7289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +397

      What if they say no as an april fools joke

    • @kamerrg9874
      @kamerrg9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      You are....A GENIUS

    • @x3no841
      @x3no841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Grauts - But what if they say no, because they know it’s April’s fool even when you are genuinely asking them out

  • @luissemedo3597
    @luissemedo3597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    having an ice cream is an ice breaker... Genius

    • @TempoTenshi
      @TempoTenshi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      P U N S

    • @olivia691
      @olivia691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That was an ice observation

    • @hippsthehippo9804
      @hippsthehippo9804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They will give you cold shoulder tho

    • @darudebird3217
      @darudebird3217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FU***NG *GENIUS* !!!!!

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don't forget to keep it cool

  • @graysonkanoa
    @graysonkanoa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    them: "do you have trouble asking someone out?"
    me: ive been trying for months and i chicken out every time

    • @lvightbluex4512
      @lvightbluex4512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same! xD

    • @smltvt
      @smltvt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same I feel like I'm gonna get rejected

    • @kingtaco1518
      @kingtaco1518 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Apaches are cool if ur afraid of rejection then 100% ur gonna regret not asking her out

    • @spiderfrommars2334
      @spiderfrommars2334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ve been trying for 4 years

    • @sgtarchdornan2077
      @sgtarchdornan2077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was the same until one day I just did it and let's just say things couldn't have gone better

  • @ripchriss
    @ripchriss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Me realizing u need to talk to someone to ask them out

  • @logicpolice2451
    @logicpolice2451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1483

    *Asking out in person is the best method.* It’s more romantic, shows more courage, and it’s also harder for them to reject you.

    • @yookyu5712
      @yookyu5712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      this bitch lives states away

    • @anthonyamalathasan2650
      @anthonyamalathasan2650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@yookyu5712 BREEEEHHH

    • @brianfrost303
      @brianfrost303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Sure if you're already hanging out 1 on 1 in person.
      That isn't reality for most people though

    • @wendigo374
      @wendigo374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      it shouldn't be harder for them to reject you you should care what they want too

    • @logicpolice2451
      @logicpolice2451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@wendigo374 Harder, as in, in person you get a holistic view and proper assessment of someone and your compatibility, not just swiping left right based on a photo.

  • @Alesh86
    @Alesh86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    How to Ask Someone Out:
    Step 1: Ask Someone Out
    Step 2: There isn't step nr. 2

    • @BunniBuu
      @BunniBuu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Here's the genius play:
      Ask them out for ice cream and netflix.
      If they say yes, congratulations! You have your date, ice cream, AND netflix!
      If they say no, at least you have ice cream and netflix!

    • @aerocooper143
      @aerocooper143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@BunniBuu I liked your idea to ask her out for ice cream and Netflix, so I did this, I said "How about Netflix and chill?"...she slapped my face.

    • @BunniBuu
      @BunniBuu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At least you have ice cream and netflix!

    • @KaytheSooty
      @KaytheSooty 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, technically...

    • @twiggythetorterra9643
      @twiggythetorterra9643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is a step 2: get rejected

  • @anjelocarey
    @anjelocarey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    "there will be times you'll be rejected but this only brings you closer to who you're meant to be with"
    ABSOLUTELY. Ever since I started thinking this way(in love and in life), Ive learned to embrace rejections. It's one way of letting you know you might not be in the right direction, or right now might not be the right time... :)

    • @saumitradeo5336
      @saumitradeo5336 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great way to put it !!

    • @zerothehero9827
      @zerothehero9827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true. I asked out my crush and he rejected me, but he has been so nice since and we have gotten 10x closer since.

  • @stellatong5002
    @stellatong5002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    How to get rejected after the 1st date:
    Date: "Waiter split the bill"

    • @loneneotank.5687
      @loneneotank.5687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      CARING IS SHARING

    • @hannahclark8696
      @hannahclark8696 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @piperreeves975
      @piperreeves975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@loneneotank.5687 wait what..? lol

    • @Vize_David0404
      @Vize_David0404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@loneneotank.5687 **communist anthem plays**

    • @suja605
      @suja605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Hmm, really? I think splitting the bill is a good idea.

  • @todowassolo9886
    @todowassolo9886 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1135

    I was crushing on this boy, and I asked him out over text, he said he saw me more as a sister because we weren't too close, but the next year he asked me to be his girlfriend
    YOU HAVE A CHANCE PEOPLES

    • @taliatyson9200
      @taliatyson9200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hey so you still with him or nah gurl Xd

    • @leafychild5179
      @leafychild5179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@alexei6481 lol

    • @ethanhat5696
      @ethanhat5696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      "I see you as a sister"
      "Will you be my girlfriend"
      Sweet home Alabama.

    • @doughboy1841
      @doughboy1841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Elite you’re*

    • @krishnaj2618
      @krishnaj2618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@doughboy1841 you are and you're is the same thing

  • @lexye.
    @lexye. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +735

    Nice and all but what about the feeling of rejection? That's really what keeps me from putting myself out there and ask my crushes out.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      Alexandra Ramos maybe it’s better to have tried! Life is about recovering from our self proclaimed failures. Maybe rejection is a blessing in disguise.

    • @rudyossanchez
      @rudyossanchez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Psych2Go there is always alcohol!

    • @RavenStorm332
      @RavenStorm332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      It's always better to have tried and failed than to have not tried at all

    • @LouJNT
      @LouJNT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Psych2Go I'll have to disagree, constantly getting rejected is a big punch to the heart, I don't do it anymore because of past experiences

    • @10_Bit
      @10_Bit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Rejection is better than never asking them out and later have regrets to be honest but maybe it's just me. I have dealt with this in the past that I NEVER told someone whom I had a mad crush on only indirectly had I done it and made so much mistakes that my best friend, yes she's my best friend ended up having a lot of "fights" and arguments to the point where I told myself that we were better off being friends and I regretted it. But I'm past that already and we are still good friends.

  • @Martyn_Wolf
    @Martyn_Wolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Be Yourself is overused, I think more importantly is misinterpreted.
    I see it as Be Yourself when you're at your most comfortable and best self. A way to help is to imagine everywhere you go is your own bedroom. In your bedroom you're usually open, "confident", relaxed and at ease. Breath through your nose slowly for 5 seconds then breath out through your nose for 5 seconds repeat this if you're feeling nervous.
    The thing with feel "nervous" is that's all dependant on how you see it. Because nervousness and excitement have similar feelings so try switching how you view what you're feeling.
    Be safe and stay blessed

  • @wyattbedard2194
    @wyattbedard2194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is like the tutorial stage before the mission.

  • @fabianalfonsoooo
    @fabianalfonsoooo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1544

    good video *I can smell it*

    • @Fyve
      @Fyve 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I just farted, did that smell good?

    • @rakithelast
      @rakithelast 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Like wellcaster

    • @f.damian
      @f.damian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      *i can taste it*

    • @darklink5079
      @darklink5079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I smell spam now

    • @mellowshipslinky5600
      @mellowshipslinky5600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID*

  • @SkorpioN42069
    @SkorpioN42069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    Me: “Are we official”
    Her: “You haven’t said anything”
    Me: “Do you want to be my girlfriend?”
    Her: “yes”
    Obviously it wasn’t as easy as that though lol. I planned on asking her out sooner but I was too scared. She’s the only gf I’ve ever had (:

    • @bigdanslivestreams4060
      @bigdanslivestreams4060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lucky

    • @lks806
      @lks806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      CONGRATS! Hope things are going well for you!😊

    • @el-bennourya3899
      @el-bennourya3899 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      LoL

    • @sselemaNrM
      @sselemaNrM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      do you guys have baby names yet?

    • @thebrightmind_
      @thebrightmind_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacsanderson1774How is the situation for now?

  • @tr1nity278
    @tr1nity278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I did it.. and she said…..
    Yes, and after we went out she said she liked me

  • @ezucra
    @ezucra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Time: week ago
    States: task failed succesfully
    What happened: told her I had a Crush ON her. She just laughEd normally and we were still friends

    • @lagroad
      @lagroad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Get your crush to help you get a girlfriend. It’s always the next best step. Girl’s are great wingmen.

  • @GetPucked
    @GetPucked 5 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    I've been myself for 15 years and I still dont have shit

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      If you're comfortable with that, there's nothing wrong. Is your life improving? Are you happy?

    • @GetPucked
      @GetPucked 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Psych2Go I kind of have to be happy with it since I dont want attention from family about being in a relationship, and I have zero self confidence 😂 and I'm at the bottom of the totem pole socially so I cant get a gf (I'm pretty sure hawking came up with a formula explaining why the universe is doing this to me) so yeah... I'm not saying my life sucks as in I'm in poverty or anything, but from the perspective of someone in a first world country I can only go up

    • @vesi_2546
      @vesi_2546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      same but im 18.i hope you are not like me..and you will find someone soon

    • @facelessman5063
      @facelessman5063 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      skowarde tetsicules feels bad br0 🙁

    • @lordkukuwaba8518
      @lordkukuwaba8518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      On the bright side, relationships in middle school almost rarely work out and relationships in highschool have a 50/50 chance of working out but there isn't ever a definite chance

  • @uwupandaXD
    @uwupandaXD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Perfect for my friend who's gonna ask out her crush tomorrow, thank you so much

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Good luck to her!

    • @uwupandaXD
      @uwupandaXD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Psych2Go yay

    • @mylovesongs2429
      @mylovesongs2429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Panda Potato awesome! Too many people are stuck in a time warp, thinking that the guy always asks the girl out. Not true! It is 2018! Girls ask guys out these days, too!!!

    • @xenayem3905
      @xenayem3905 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my love songs I'll try to get that through my brain but I'm shy 😂

    • @Leto85
      @Leto85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Panda Potato How did it go?

  • @noahcool5372
    @noahcool5372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’m asking someone out tomorrow
    I’m freaking scared

    • @sharthub253
      @sharthub253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How did it go?

    • @sharthub253
      @sharthub253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So it went good?

    • @sharthub253
      @sharthub253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@noahcool5372 you left her speakless

    • @sharthub253
      @sharthub253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@noahcool5372 did you get over it?

    • @sharthub253
      @sharthub253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@noahcool5372 do you wanna talk?

  • @Mvjesty23
    @Mvjesty23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Has anyone ever had a crush on someone But was never nervous or felt butterflies? It’s weird....

    • @Kyumifun
      @Kyumifun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Maybe it's not a crush

    • @arrnnoo2145
      @arrnnoo2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i have that too but its because we have basically less emotions than others i guess

    • @cookieK9
      @cookieK9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i’ve never had butterflies cuz i’ve only had crushes on ppl i’m already comfortable with ☠️

    • @galaxyswrld9414
      @galaxyswrld9414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The only butterflies I know are the knives...

    • @theassassin8397
      @theassassin8397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAGAGAGAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA FUNNY JOKE I CANT EVEN TEXT A FRIEND I HAVENT SEEN IN YEARS!

  • @emibaka309
    @emibaka309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    The part ”be brave, take the leap!” and all the positive comments inspired me to ask my crush out. And hey they admitted that they felt the same way and were too afraid to ask. Im so glad that i did it.
    Edit: I’m still dating them. Over 2 years of happy relationship :) I love them so much!
    Edit2: Hopping to say that we celebrated our 3 year anniversary in november 2021, we are still together :)
    Also, I used "they" to not specify the gender of the person. Gender is irrelevant here and therefore I used it. I am not dating multiple people, stop asking me that. There is nothing wrong with polyamory but that is not the case here. Cheers!

    • @MM-ss9yd
      @MM-ss9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I git a question

    • @tpz_bri0886
      @tpz_bri0886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol at the same time i scrolled to this comment the part began

    • @serene1486
      @serene1486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      congrats!!

    • @IkesPimpHand
      @IkesPimpHand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How many people were you crushing on? "They" lol

    • @emibaka309
      @emibaka309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@IkesPimpHand They is a genderneutral pronoun.
      "They pronoun is also used with singular meaning, sometimes to avoid specifying the gender of the person referred to: see gender neutrality in language."
      It was one person and I am happy to be with them.

  • @Criticmasterz
    @Criticmasterz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    I smell good times coming

  • @corinalofu5084
    @corinalofu5084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I heard something once and now I can confirm it's true. You'll regret more the things you didn't do than the things you did.
    I was afraid of telling something to someone and then I found out that they indeed would have said yes. So just go for it

  • @mysterion3182
    @mysterion3182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The person I've been wanting to ask out is a coworker. We both like the same shows and movies, and we're kind of friends. I know she wants to see the new Halloween movie coming out and so do I, but every time I try to ask her I feel like I can't get the words to come out.

    • @jacekmak87
      @jacekmak87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude, I know what you feel.
      Mine is a coworker as well. She seems to really like me. But I'm afraid to mess things up. And there is additional problem - large age gap.
      Pathetic
      😔 life loves to throw curved balls at you

    • @mysterion3182
      @mysterion3182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jacekmak87 I know how it is with age gaps. 16 year difference between me and my ex fiance. Cheated on me with a guy 2 houses away from mine.
      I sent my coworker a text earlier and am waiting on a reply.

    • @jacekmak87
      @jacekmak87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mysterion3182 oh shoooot
      My boy. I hope it will be a success.
      Fingers crossed.

    • @mysterion3182
      @mysterion3182 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jacekmak87 I asked... a family member of hers had to tell me "no" for her. She still hasn't gotten over what happened between her and her ex fiance.

    • @jacekmak87
      @jacekmak87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mysterion3182 Oh man...
      Well, at least she could tell it herself.

  • @TheSteam02
    @TheSteam02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    "Be yourself."
    I look at memes, anime, and videogames for a majority of my days. I have a short temper and I'm impulsive.
    REEEEAAAAAALL helpful.

    • @flawedpotato3665
      @flawedpotato3665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      thats basically my life and there are like 7 girls crushing on me

    • @jonnejenjonne2894
      @jonnejenjonne2894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would end up overexplaining myself

    • @shortbreadbounty7945
      @shortbreadbounty7945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Jackal_007 how about you do us all
      A favour and grow up

    • @finnevitable
      @finnevitable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you'd be my perfect match tbh

    • @joshgulisano1863
      @joshgulisano1863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well hey at least you have passion. Look at it like you enjoy art and entertainment, you have a sense of humor AND you are willing to take chances. You just have to accentuate the positives of yourself and your hobbies, always have a glass half full approach to life :)

  • @rayin9467
    @rayin9467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    This just about confirms that they are psychic, every video is relevant to my or someone I know's life.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Lord Rayin We work on our psychic abilities every team meeting ;)

    • @isabellarivera570
      @isabellarivera570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ikr

    • @dawbal5382
      @dawbal5382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The beauty of psychology and the dedication of such great people bring together something special indeed.

  • @rickthestick4661
    @rickthestick4661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Me: asks out crush and is shot down faster than pearl harbor
    This video: happens on the same day
    Me: oh dang

  • @danielledopie
    @danielledopie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Be brave" is very true. It seems basic, but it's true! aaaah. I can DO this, we all can!! Thank you psych2go!!

  • @thisstatementisfalsenothin5312
    @thisstatementisfalsenothin5312 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    When you said choose a safe activity I immediately thought juggling chainsaws

    • @Traventity
      @Traventity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Because nothings like endangering your life to then impress your crush only for her to say no leading to your state of depression only for the cycle to repeat untill everyone have either said yes or no

    • @JulianAlvarado2006
      @JulianAlvarado2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No no let’s play hot potato with an un pinned grenade! They’ll be mind blown to see your incredible skill!

  • @SwitchUp99
    @SwitchUp99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I actually collected enough courage 2 months ago to ask my crush out (in person), with whom I was in love for about half a year. Sadly, she told me no... Well, at least I'm glad I asked, rather than always having to wonder 'what if?'. I've moved on now and accepted the reality. Looking back on it now, I realize that she may not have been the perfect one for me after all, as our personalities are quite different. I really hope I meet someone new some day!

    • @rbic
      @rbic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like how take this in so seriously

    • @gosho9403
      @gosho9403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good responce regret is worse then rejection

  • @sleepingbagmanstudios489
    @sleepingbagmanstudios489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My advice, either call or talk in person

  • @Superpp368
    @Superpp368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for making this video. I wouldn’t have known what to do if I didn’t watch this. Because of this video I’ve been dating my crush for a few weeks now and I’m very grateful.

  • @non-existantpie6478
    @non-existantpie6478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    Wait so it doesn’t work if I say I take live hostages and say I’ll only release them if they go out with me?!

    • @justinmatthew8885
      @justinmatthew8885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Non-Existant Pie you didn’t release them, did you? They always play hard to get at first.

    • @isolar_THE_576th
      @isolar_THE_576th 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I did the same. I confessed to them but all they did was kick and scream. It’s confusing

    • @mylovesongs2429
      @mylovesongs2429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Natanohj nevermind the chloroform, the gag, the handcuffs, and locking them in the trunk!

    • @brianfisher9273
      @brianfisher9273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nah that's called a psychopath

    • @sixtrash2758
      @sixtrash2758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I tried that with my first crush. She gave me a black eye.
      (Jk, I didn’t do that, but the black eye bit was true)

  • @IndeedVancho
    @IndeedVancho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2411

    Psych2go.....will you go out with me?.......uwu

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +757

      Austin Esquillin Of course! Tell me the place and time!

    • @isabellarivera570
      @isabellarivera570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +360

      aww they said yes uwu

    • @6starnutty970
      @6starnutty970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      I support this UwU

    • @viktorayy
      @viktorayy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      uwu

    • @bakirun8692
      @bakirun8692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Austin Esquillin owo

  • @nikoknee
    @nikoknee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I naruto ran away when I asked my crush out 😂

  • @ArchieSatchell
    @ArchieSatchell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I literaly just asked my crush out and she said...
    No 😞😭

    • @ursosexmachina
      @ursosexmachina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Join the club.

    • @thiccmcchicken550
      @thiccmcchicken550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Archie Satchell Murder is always an option

    • @MM-ss9yd
      @MM-ss9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@thiccmcchicken550 WTF

    • @yuryi1548
      @yuryi1548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thicc McChicken same with kidnapping or Bill Cosby them

    • @Fran-bj8jf
      @Fran-bj8jf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Archie Satchell I’m sorry about that, you’ll find someone good for you one day. ❤️

  • @deanbender1136
    @deanbender1136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I asked out my crush. He said yes.
    Theeeeeeen he dumped me the next day bc he felt like he should of asked me out.
    🤷‍♀️👏

    • @romeoa.6634
      @romeoa.6634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Tf????

    • @darkotazy
      @darkotazy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      That's just stupid

    • @ursosexmachina
      @ursosexmachina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      The fuck?

    • @MM-ss9yd
      @MM-ss9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It was good he dumped you because now you know

    • @addison7624
      @addison7624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    If you guys find our video helpful, do you mind sharing it on your social media?

    • @madamada2936
      @madamada2936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Psych2Go Funny how the comment by psych2go has only 2 likes 😅

    • @keegansakura1307
      @keegansakura1307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How I got my bf: accidental friendly frankness. 😝 been together for a year

    • @jerichogold5368
      @jerichogold5368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Psych2Go kay

    • @olivia691
      @olivia691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely! I’d be glad to, you guys’re the best

    • @strawberry1225
      @strawberry1225 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Psych2Go yehh shure

  • @capitalthrills
    @capitalthrills 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The struggle for me isn't the asking out part at all, the thing I've always struggled with is whether or not she is already seeing someone because I've always feared the awkwardness after asking her would be detrimental to the friendship we once had and all that jazz. Anyone else here on the same page as me?

  • @456stormpegasus
    @456stormpegasus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Watching this encouraged me to ask my crush out, about 10 minutes ago.... I got rejected... and I accept her decision but... I feel like I caused it by trying to act like I was better than everyone else all the time...

    • @JulianAlvarado2006
      @JulianAlvarado2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is this kinda relatable. The last crush I had I offended multiple times, wasn’t on purpose but now we don’t speak anymore 😐.

  • @imppro
    @imppro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I'm about to start school thank you for this.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Melese Ghetahun {ImpPro} hope you have a wonderful school year!

    • @imppro
      @imppro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Psych2Go Thanks!

  • @retroruin4917
    @retroruin4917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great I'll use these in several months when I can actually see anyone again!

  • @suja605
    @suja605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    So, there was this boy who I was in love with for 8 years without him even knowing. I haven't seen him in physical for over 2-3 years now and I don't think I will ever get over the love for him. I think next year, when I settle down with my new college, I am surely gonna ask him out. We never talked, like friends but we had like silent eye contacts all throughout those 5 years in school. I wonder why didn't we talk. We occasionally did talk though. But it was all not friendly. I just wanna marry him, lol. That's weird but true.

    • @gosho9403
      @gosho9403 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go for it you got this

  • @K7TZ
    @K7TZ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    But but I got no dating ideas. Where do we go? What do we do? I’m an introvert. I don’t go out much. I just stayed home playing games

    • @Flintlock900
      @Flintlock900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      K7TZ I've never had any experience dating but from what is stated the main objective in a date is to know the person. Don't make it too big or something grand. All that matters is that you get to know the person first. Hope it helps.

    • @farixguardian
      @farixguardian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Invite them over to play games with you? If they can't handle the fact that you play games often, then that's a warning sign that may end up affecting a relationship, possibly even after marriage too.
      If they say yes but don't know how to play, teach them. It'll be a good bonding experience… I hope.

    • @urmom-ki1of
      @urmom-ki1of 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can go out for coffee, take a walk, or go to a museum your welcome

    • @patrikkonjuh3298
      @patrikkonjuh3298 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know how it feels

  • @theodorospetrides
    @theodorospetrides 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Thank you😭😭i just asked my crush out and she loves me tooooo😭 thank you so much🙏🙏

    • @fjhsts
      @fjhsts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope you're still dating.

    • @theodorospetrides
      @theodorospetrides 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@fjhsts sadly not hahaha she cheated on me last year

    • @fjhsts
      @fjhsts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@theodorospetrides oh sorry for hearing that. Hope you dealt with the break up well.

    • @theodorospetrides
      @theodorospetrides 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@fjhsts nah its okay thanks haha

    • @VPZealouZ
      @VPZealouZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theodorospetrides I was gonna say lucky bastard as a joke now I feel bad, sending condolences.

  • @natedoyle9171
    @natedoyle9171 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bruh you guys are so nice I’ve never met a channel as nice as you

  • @brknmidget1692
    @brknmidget1692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lowkey think youtube knows what I am thinking. I was thinking about it earlier and now this pops up in my recommended

  • @aletheiaiueo
    @aletheiaiueo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    what if I have a crush with someone I barely know and we barely speak?
    how to ask them out then? and is it normal to have a crush with someone you barely know?

    • @Maevemarlowe
      @Maevemarlowe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Greentelo Lelo it’s normal. I’ve been there. I know it’s a year later, but maybe this can still help you? Just, you know, try to get to know them. Make friends with their friends, that actually helps a lot. Maybe even just walk up to them and say you’re interested in em, it doesn’t hurt to try.

    • @gametabulas
      @gametabulas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      So does it work? You asked her out? Dont leave us hanging.

    • @bluzro
      @bluzro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      U gotta tell us bro what happened

    • @chocolover4307
      @chocolover4307 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think person moved on

  • @deluusional6736
    @deluusional6736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    When you love someone for so long but they don't love you back...

  • @kroboon3590
    @kroboon3590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Me: *does not have a crush*
    Also me: -well this might be useful in the future-

  • @MichaelStrawn_I_am
    @MichaelStrawn_I_am 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is actually very useful! thank you very much.

  • @ke0606
    @ke0606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    A small tip for people feeling nervous about rejection. I never knew why, but I was quite popular with the guys in middle school. Unfortunately, many of these were my friends. Rejecting someone feels terrible, especially if they’re a great friend. The rejection is how you take it. If they reject you, it often doesn’t mean they don’t like you. Sometimes, they don’t realise they like you, or are to shy to admit they like you. Either that, or they only see you as a friends. Friendzoning someone gives you extreme guilt. So, try to be happy, and show the person who rejected you so. Keep being a great friend. A guy who had a huge crush on me is still a great friend of mine to this day. Other than the fact that rejection is only as scary as you make it, there is still the chance you won’t be rejected. There’s a reason you like them. There are so many psychological reasons that you like them and they may like you back. One of them is that people tend to find others that look like them more attractive. If you like their personality, your personalities probably go well together. Don’t be afraid, go for it!

    • @realnapster1522
      @realnapster1522 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s very selfish of you.

  • @BrotherTree1
    @BrotherTree1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I love how sweet, gently and softly this was explained. Makes me feel so loved and supported and worth living life, to which I suspect is the intention and I have so much respect for that

  • @N4T3_OFFL1N3
    @N4T3_OFFL1N3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The things said in the last minute or so of the video have done it for me. It’s been 4 solid months since I had ‘The One’ in my mind, but my fears of past rejection and relationships that have headed severely downhill have stopped me from asking them out. But I think it’s finally time. I’m annoyed I didn’t get the motivation from this video before Valentines, but I’m going in. Wish me luck, and thanks, 3 year old Psych2Go video. You’ve pushed me to do what I wanted to do 4 months ago, but never found the courage.

    • @N4T3_OFFL1N3
      @N4T3_OFFL1N3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It took awhile for me to remember what video I had this comment in, but I’m here to let you know that IT WORKED! It turns out she had a crush on me too and we’ve got along well. Thanks Phych2Go!

    • @blueuwu5424
      @blueuwu5424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@N4T3_OFFL1N3 this. This brings me hope 😩😩

  • @pkmntrainerred4247
    @pkmntrainerred4247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The last tip gave me some courage! Thanks for this video!

  • @CVL990
    @CVL990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I didn't really ask my crush out, but I did confess my feelings for her in person. It was probably the hardest thing I had ever done. Also the first time I had ever done something like that.

  • @kindred3152
    @kindred3152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Honestly this generation makes confessions harder the worse that could happen is rejection in a public area like a school but it's that risk that the other person will see how much you care for them.

  • @nickp.724
    @nickp.724 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found this channel a while ago. I rlly like it. Good job

  • @Kngzay
    @Kngzay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love the sound of your voice its so calming

  • @staryamythest4817
    @staryamythest4817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I needed this. I've been thinking about asking my crush out for a while. I'm going to do it.

    • @simariocrossing
      @simariocrossing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope things go well!

    • @Thepietro5000pp
      @Thepietro5000pp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But don't just say it, do it!

    • @isabellarivera570
      @isabellarivera570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck!

    • @mylovesongs2429
      @mylovesongs2429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wolf feathers in 5 years, you will give us an update. "So recently i got a balloon, put a note in it, asking my crush out, filled it with helium, and set it loose into the sky. Do you think she got it? I hope i remembered to include my phone number, so she could text me her answer!"

  • @ravenuchiha9583
    @ravenuchiha9583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I Loove this channel, and I really need this. I've wanted to ask my crush out so many times. Its just I get so nervous. I'm going to try these tips. Thank you :)

    • @ravenuchiha9583
      @ravenuchiha9583 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stefan Brockelbank saaame, when I'm with my friends I try to do some eye contact moves. Lol 👀Like the look: 👀 "Please leave so I can try to have some one-on-one with my crush" 👀 😭 >-< >_

  • @simp_angeel1025
    @simp_angeel1025 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You! Good Video!

  • @delirium1856
    @delirium1856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was looking at this video cause one of my introvert friends was asking me for help but I don’t really know a lot about this stuff so this was helpful! :)

  • @JHamron
    @JHamron 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've never heard "be yourself" explained as being open about how you feel as opposed to trying to do what you feel like you're supposed to. This is actually incredibly profound advice in my perspective.

  • @MysteryEclipse
    @MysteryEclipse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Throughout these past two weeks, yall made videos that really connected to me. Videos about friends and toxic relationships and recently, couple days ago, about crushes. I told my crush that i liked him and he accepted my feelings. Thanks for all your advice!💕

  • @farouqahmed555
    @farouqahmed555 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice is so calm i fell asleep half way through 😂

  • @framkk5534
    @framkk5534 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey it worked thank you so much and keep up the work

  • @Uloveeverglow
    @Uloveeverglow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I will ask my cat out

    • @noelnoni7310
      @noelnoni7310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@pyramidplunder8650 The cat probably had a boyfriend

    • @letsnotdothat975
      @letsnotdothat975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      excuSE me

    • @chechanrevolution992
      @chechanrevolution992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good idea

    • @MM-ss9yd
      @MM-ss9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And also that sounds a lil furryish

    • @Traventity
      @Traventity 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MM-ss9yd yeah lol

  • @sixtrash2758
    @sixtrash2758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I tried one of these a few days ago, and I’m now going out with the girl of my dreams, thank you!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Which tips did you try? :)

    • @sixtrash2758
      @sixtrash2758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We went to the park UwU

    • @chancla1239
      @chancla1239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Psych2goI’m WINNING HER TYSM

  • @arfaa584
    @arfaa584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was really helpful, thanks

  • @nathanloon3124
    @nathanloon3124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I do appreciate the non-gendered bubble heads! Sounds sarcastic, but it's true. As a father, it's way easier to have these conversations with open interpretations. Thank you for the open minded way of going about this video!

  • @aakoo7713
    @aakoo7713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I was literally just thinking how I'll ask my crush out.

    • @joymarkum6486
      @joymarkum6486 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you say how did you ask him out

  • @mariag7462
    @mariag7462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Good video. I didn’t even watch it yet

  • @kinzakugaming976
    @kinzakugaming976 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always have trouble asking people out especially since I've failed so much in the past and have also missed opportunities. I've started talking with someone new recently and am going to take some of this advice to heart and go for it. The stress and fear won't stop me this time.

  • @spottyfawn
    @spottyfawn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My first "confession": The other day I wanted to buy a book. Due to the current "circumstances", I can't just waltz into a bookstore, so I thought I'd buy online. Someone was selling a used copy of the book for a really cheap price, and all I had to do was go pick it up. We met for the exchange, and I kind of fell for him right then and there. The exchange was very brief, no small talk at all, but I wish I had said more to him. Since I had a way to contact him from the book purchase, just this afternoon I contacted him again telling him I wish we'd talked more. So far no response, and I may never get one at all, but this is the first time I've ever done anything like this, and I feel really accomplished and powerful now! Props to my bestie for being with me and encouraging me when I pressed send

  • @prettyprincess3648
    @prettyprincess3648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Haha, this girls voice is so calming and it low key sounds like ASMR speaking!! 😂😂

  • @silicabeastmaster1175
    @silicabeastmaster1175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    As an introvert and misanthrope; asking people out and communicating is difficult. Some days I really don't want to be around people. And; to be honest, I feel out of touch with a lot of people. When someone does take my interest approaching them is hard because while I try to understand and take an interest in their interests; mine are complex to explain. And I sometimes come off as intimidating.

    • @toxicmale2264
      @toxicmale2264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ask them out to dinner to get to know them. You don't figure them out right away. Well... you have to have some easier interests to explain. If you can hear what the person likes the maybe you can share the same interests? Much easier than explaining to them your severed head collection.

    • @MM-ss9yd
      @MM-ss9yd 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I get yuh

  • @myfelineobsession9636
    @myfelineobsession9636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don’t even know why I’m here I don’t even socialize or have anyone I want to date or who I have a crush on. I guess future reference?

  • @jasonbu
    @jasonbu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gonna try it today. Thank you!

  • @zooer64
    @zooer64 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Thank you for this. I'm considering asking a girl out when school starts.
    Btw, because of your TH-cam and Tumblr content makes me want to study psychology and possibly becoming a psychologist

    • @Flintlock900
      @Flintlock900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Zooer godspeed my comrade. Hope things go well!

    • @joymarkum6486
      @joymarkum6486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If a girl was going to ask out a guy what would you want the girl to say to you

  • @TraceCasanova
    @TraceCasanova 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This channel is really awesome. You guys are doing a great job!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the support Trace! :)

  • @boysenberryicecream
    @boysenberryicecream 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    1st one, TRUE... i PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD ASK HIM OUT AT THE END OF THE DAY! But when i stood behined him....i had no time and ran away hating myself

  • @blizzard_fang1580
    @blizzard_fang1580 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I admire this person as if they were the sun in my life blocking the pain and darkness out of my life every time I see them

  • @unicorn1655
    @unicorn1655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As good as always. Also the animation is in point!

  • @RiskoPlexus
    @RiskoPlexus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I've never clicked so fast 😅😂

  • @subtoken9280
    @subtoken9280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These channel really helps with my problems

  • @pixelgamelvr
    @pixelgamelvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is how I’m planning to tell them
    "ROSES ARE RED"
    "VIOLETS ARE BLUE"
    "GUESS WHAT"
    "I LOVE YOU"

    • @ThomasTherianos
      @ThomasTherianos 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Danm bro that's a good pickup line