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- 22 year old female college student is too young and afraid to married while young.
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This girl hasn't even walked down the isle yet and she's already preparing for her divorce. YOU CAN'T MAKE THIS STUFF 🆙
Sad shit
I don’t plan on having an accident but I still buy insurance. Good for her, she’s planning for contingencies
@@logical_lb3059 that's idiotic. A car doesn't give you children, or help raise them. Your people are doing fine when it comes to marriage. Are they planning for divorce before they're married? Just stupid, uninformed comment.
@@truthmatters142
what has children to do with it? Saying random shit. The concept here is minimizing risk. What’s wrong with that?
This shit is Wicked 😂😂🤦🏿♂️ I don't think they'll ever really get it no matter how many times they say they understand 💯
These young women always think a better job and a better man are always right around the corner. All they have to do is manifest it. And time isn’t an issue either.
It's the b.s their big mama tell them to think for it to manifest... This is crazy. Pls guys head to south America or Ghana or nigeria and get you a wife. This 304s are full of s**t.
Unfortunately they won’t learn until it’s too late
Thats why they will die alone
Just shows you they are incapable of love.
Worst part about it, they expect us men to put up with alot of their toxic behavior, otherwise "We're not man enough to put her in her place." Ladies need to get therapy cause alot of us men work on ourselves and aren't here to have our time wasted.
Women call prenuptial agreements wrong but they go into a marriage putting together their exit strategy, real shit.
and prenups are not even held up , most of the time they are tossed out because of some BS reason
Factzzz
This is why all men are getting married at much lower rates and black men aren't getting married at all.
As a black man, if you can't even hold a reasonable conversation with a black woman about finances and the implications of divorce then we can't get married. Black men can't have a reasonable conversation with 99% of black women about anything.
Why get married? Most of us can get all tht we want without a ring no matter if we have money or not. 🤷🏾♂️
The fact they do that is exactly why they're against prenups, it messes up their exit strategy
20 year old - I'm waiting for a man with a great job
30 year old - I'm waiting for a man with a great career
40 year old - I'm waiting for a man with accumulated wealth
50 year old - I'm waiting for my dog's diabetes medication
🔥🔥🔥🤣
The accuracy 🤣
This is soo accurate🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ha ha ha ha 😂 😆
😂😂😂😂
Most women say relationships are risks based on what a man could do to them but they never consider that THEY are the risk to a man. A woman could literally have an amazing man and still find ways to ruin the relationship. Im talking bout majority pf women i know here from sisters to acquaintances
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So true! Of course some women have to come across like they are the prize.
Please tell this to more women!!
How do they find ways to ruin the relationship? Give me one example?
The truth is that many of these females NEED backup plans because they know within themselves that they don't have the skills that it takes to be a WIFE. Duty is having a disagreement with your husband and continuing to manage your household as if it never happened, NOT saying, "Well, I'm not going to cook or clean because you pissed me off." These little girls aren't ready for that! 💅🏾
Very true. You don't have a backup plan for MARRIAGE. that's wild. I mean, you girls grew up dreaming about starting a business in case your husband cheats? You're setting yourself up for failure with that mindset. I'm thankful I learned this existed, feel stupid not knowing this, socially idiotic, but at least I know now and maybe I'll be lucky enough to weed it out
"Well, I'm not going to cook or clean because you pissed me off" streets is done.
Exactly. Will let the whole house burn down over something stupid. Meanwhile the man keeps going to work. Duty and the foundation is most important. My duty and responsibilities dont stop because we bickered. My household is a reflection of ME and us.
@@RayneyKayLa Absolutely dear! This really requires a different level of consciousness to accomplish. Selfish wives don't win.
The reality is if you find the right partner you can ride out the rough patches. Provided both parties are willing to work on finding common ground. That said, it seems too many dont try to find common ground and 80% of the divorces are initiated by women. . So who is trying to keep the institution of marriage going? Clearly women don't seem to be
Kevin talked to her like she’s his daughter. So passionate, hope she listens
She checked out 12 min into the convo and had no ideal what he was talking about after that. All she heard was blah blah blah
@@darickfoxo7986 Right her body language said so much.
Unfortunately she's listening to the feminist that say put your career before a man and sleep around in your 20s. Thats why i believed her when she said non black women in her school talks the way she does.
@@baldcheddar that feminist drivel is about five times more prevalent in Washington DC than any other locale in America.
She's pleasant but it went over her head this was great advice better than she called for, my ex in college gave me advice like this bless her heart.
I was 19 when I married my husband, which he was 24 at the time, and we are now celebrating 10 years of marriage. I think if you marry the right person, marrying young is a blessing. It is beautiful to see how your marriage grows throughout the years.
Marriage didn’t stop us from earning our degrees. Many woman think that marriage is the end all be all when it is not.
true
Congratulations on 10 years anniversary and many more ma.
100% Ive worked on getting my degree after I was in a relationship. still together 16 years later.
Marriage with the WRONG person man or woman IS the end all be all. let me tell you, two losers can drag each other down like nobody's business. shit even one loser can drag an over achiever down if you spend too much time with them.
Exactly! Marriage literally doesn’t stop anybody from doing what they wanna do career-wise.
Kids tho…
When you say "the future" to young girls like her, they think you mean next Tuesday.
Taco Tuesday and what I'm going to wear this weekend...
Next weekend shenanigans.
Thats so true man, you spot on. These early 20's girls really want to live their lives away switching man to man and be in rush to get married once they hit 30, its incredible.
😂😂😂😂😂
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I had a conversation with a 45 yr old I'm dating and she flat out told me that she in her 20's, 30's and early 40's never prioritize being married. Now at 45 she is in a rush to get married because she has no kids. I just shook my head and she came from a well to do two parent home.
Not kids at 45😂 she think she Sara. Bye girl. That ship has sailed. God can do all things but don't nobody wanna be chasing a toddler at almost 50. She's a grandma. Lol. I was scared to death of marriage for very dumb reasons but I had my 2 kids. I got something out of the deal. If I manage to find a man who is willing to marry me at 42 I'll be very grateful.
She's about 15 or 16 years too late with her "rushing "
@@JustBree716 have two aunties who had kids at 45 and one at 47 it's unlikely but possible
Sounds like her mother executed order 66
Modern feminism doesn't discriminate.....powerful culture
I dated a lovely sista a few years back. Once we got down to the long term relationship it all fell apart since she wanted;
1) To keep her own last name
2) Live in her own house
3) Have 3 kids but they live with her
4) Travel every summer for 2 months by herself while the kids stay in the US with me
5) Prefer to live in different cities
Maybe she was an outlier, but this rebellious nature is becoming more prevalent.
sheesh! she was tryna finesse
That's insane and outright selfish. To want the kids to stay in a separate home, away from you ? And I bet you would still have to pay for everything. I'm glad you left, keep your head up and keep your sanity.
Any update on the woman? Did she find her fairy tale ending
She just wanted you as a retirement and a monthly check
How do they expect to be married with on foot out the door. The foolishness.
She's a narcissist bro
When I met my husband I was 23 years old, we got married a year later and we have been together 19th married 18th with two kids. 🖤
The only thing married people can brag about is how long they been married. Also the 2000s was probably the last time period of viable marriages I bet.
@@kissme1518 why is that the last viable time period?
Met my husband at 16 he was 20. Married at 21. 2 kids and 3 grandkids later, still married after 39 yrs.
Bw are.programmed differently, quite comical actually but very entertaining just like this show lol
They think life is funny. Men are forced to know better. They suffer in silence and long term.
But luckily we can start over at 30 and 40, some men even later. Women don't have that luxury yet they don't plan accordingly.
That’s the beauty of it, they think this shit is a game because they expect to be saved at the end of the game when they run out of lives, not realizing that it’s about to be a cold world, and the men are going to save you an old age as easily as they used to
so edgy
@@alexia964 yet you still agree
@@mikesmith1181 agree with what
80% chance this girl didnt even listen to what kevin said
90%.
If you started to read her body language towards the end, you got the answer to that inquiry
@@duckfoutube1761 didnt watch just listened
Consistently looks upper right when responding to KS, nearly an eye roll. Says...."but in my mind" when KS states facts. DEF not listening, but life has a way of educating.
This is the kind that gives it up to a factory worker who drive a BMW
If your focus is the “ if it doesn’t work” you’ll focus your energy on preparing for marriage not to work. You attract what you project young ladies. Have a positive outlook on life.
Women want to manifest everything except the right things
truth. its self fulfilling prophecy. if you are always trying to prepare your way out and safety net, what energy are you putting into not needing it in the first place
She’s right. Men can easily trade you in for a gold digger. It’s stupid to rely on men to look after you. You need to look after yourself.
@@missxmarvel lol. What a shame you won't realize it's your fault until it's too late for you to change your life around. Very sad.
@@jampacc Boo hoo. You big children are hardly worth it. But my career is and it’s the best thing ever.
The huge risk is marrying a woman who can't (refuses to) answer a question.
This is a common thing . also I see women answering questions trying to catch the angle or read in between lines that are not even there ...like just answer my question yes or no . if a woman can't do that leave her immediately
The huge risk is *marrying* .
fixed that for you.
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@@DTreatz Not even that, some states have INSANE common law marriage laws. Gotta be aware of those just as much!
Trust me on how true this is
Young Women believe that everything is a joke, so why bother to entertain them. Let them figure out life by themselves once they laugh at your advice.
This is true but the only ones that truly suffer are the kids that they have. We not trying to save them it's more so the kids can have a fight chance. Because the females end up bitter and who do they take it out on the kids. They know not to come at the men with that trash. So the kids are helpless and defenseless perfect target for bitter ass females.
I fully agree. The amount of giggles and shock from these ladies is insane.
Yea it’s a joke till they 45
I was laughing when she said she was going to make 60-70k starting out with a communications and French degree. These institutions are just milking women dry.
This is the point of his entire channel. He's trying to help women like this, who were indoctrinated at an early age to 'get a career, get an education, you can find a man later!'. , only to find out that at 35 they aren't able to find a good man, especially past their ability to rear children.
Even STEM grads would be lucky to start at 70k. She's delusional.
Facts my sister in law graduated with PhD. Delivering babies. (So no small stuff) She still isn’t making 100k at 32 yrs old. Yet I have 0 education & have made over 100k since I was 24. I’ve also ran my own business for 10 yrs now. 😵💫 btw she has far more then 100k in debt AND is a baby momma now.
@@SamanthaP48 baby momma 😂😂😂
Exactly I live in Ireland and starting salary for students across all courses is around 35k-40k.
@@melloa7833 - All that baby delivering got to her head apparently. 😅
@@SamanthaP48 Wait, she has a PhD in medical? I'm assuming advanced nursing/midwife? or She doesn't use the degree and instead has only given birth to many children? Apologies, but I don't understand how she could make so little if in medical. I'm a non-surgical PA, I average between 185-210k a year, granted with alot of hours. If she is making less than 100k she needs to re-negotiate her salary or may have chosen to stay in the clinics working the floor?
This man is trying in his own way to make building strong black families a priority for our women. Because as a community, you can only be as strong as your family units. Communities with families that are together strive. That’s why in terms of asset and wealth black people are at the bottom.
We need to make black families a priority again.
Amen...!!!!!!!+!!!!!!!!
Thank you 👍👍
Try the next generation of women it’s too late for most women
150% facts
That’s for damn sure.
They crazy part about kevin teaching women is that he is ACTUALLY teaching men on how they should be to become the man they want to be and get the woman or women they desire. Kevin is making men want to be their best selves and showing us how to dodge women who are a risk to us as well as to getting therapy to heal from our childhood that makes us less than ourselves, etc. I love it
I realise Kevin was actually talking to men on how to be a better man
He has said several times that that is exactly what he is doing. He is advocating for men. He's showing men how to is to deal with unreasonable women. And in doing so He is teaching them what the women are actually like and showing them why they need to walk away...... And it is working.
A degree in Communication, but can't communicate.🤨
Too scared to get married when you are young? Well, who the hell is going to want you when you are old??🤨
The government will want her, every tax season to pay them money she’s earning from working outside the home.
Does.. not.. compute.. error..error logic has entered the chat smh
Prince in the 1980s made a song with lyrics...DOES NOT COMPUTE. He saw the future.
the delusion is that they think they'll be young, cute, and desired for DECADES!
“Do you have what it takes to stay in a relationship with a man for a lifetime?”
“Do you have what it takes to wake up everyday and stay with a man for a lifetime?”
I certainly wish that I knew in my 20s when I was married what I know now in my 40s getting married again. Thank God for videos, podcasts, books and therapists.
If you can manage to answer these questions early on, you’ll win.
For a man keeping up with modern women is no easy task that's why most relationships fail.
Answer and be TRUE to yourself.
I agreed. It's just so tragic that more and more have to learn these truths so much later in life.
WOMEN need to start TEACHING this to the GIRLS out there. Dont SHIRK your RESPONSIBILITY Montina.
@@__-bz7wh lawlz...she's a woman. Her only responsibility is to her man and her family.
Find a girl with decent parents and put a kid in her. That's all there is to it.
Too bad there are so many shitty parents out there.
Being that 80% of communication is non verbal I enjoy the shows where the guest is on camera way more than just the phone
No bullshit, especially because if you could not see her during the last part of the video, you would’ve thought she was listening intently, you could see the look on her face that said this was going through one ear and out the other, that she thinks she’s right so she’s just trying to be respectful and let Kevin so-called rant
She is simply another woman who is going to learn the hard way that the solipsistic nature of women is a double edge sword
I really wish this was told to me in my early 20s, she’s got time to work on this and turn things around.
She won’t she’s terminal
@@davidb3852 😂 Sad but true.
@@davidb3852 Clearly!!
What were you told?
She thinks she is better than a man
These women are not crazy. They have been sold a dream. And they bought it on credit...
Time to pay the bill!
@@juniorbattle1407 Unfortunately they want men to pay that bill😉
...which is crazy.
And that bill is due in 2022!
Cold bro,
Red pill stuff 💪
She was telling the truth. These younger women just don’t know what they want.
When kevin asked if non black women in her school talks like she does and she said yes i believed her because feminism is teaching these women to focus on your career party it up and sleep around in your 20s then settle down in your 30s
To her defense most that age don't know what they want. The second problem is our society lays hundreds of options in front of women so that they don't have to choose. Well at least until they hit the wall.
I think that's the most if not only correct thing she said
About 50 years ago my aunt left my uncle because she was "not happy" She would often come by and visit with my mom (my uncles sister). My aunt had to admit that she made a mistake and had good think. Beautiful home and upper middle class lifestyle at a time when most black people were struggling. My uncle was heartbroken but ended up remarrying and was happy before he passed with cancer. His 2nd wife took very good care of him in his final days. My aunt is about 85 years old and never remarried and lives alone and is very lonely.
Very sad because my aunt and uncle were a very good looking couple and by all accounts really could have made things work out.
So sorry about your uncle, sounds like he was a great man. Happy he was loved accordingly by his 2nd wife.
But she might of dipped when he got sick
I would rather be lonely than be stuck in unhappy,lonely marriage
That regret is gonna hit some of you soooo bad when you hit 30-35 and be like wow I really could've had that man and a beautiful family but I clowned him in my early 20s cause I wanted to sleep around lol. Regret is a real thing. I'd advise yall to delete all that cardi and megan off yall phones cause it's messing with your legacy.
IG lifestyles and celebrity worship is all they know.
That shit hits even harder when they hit that age range you were talking about, it look back on one of the men that they rejected, and see he has a whole wife and kids plural.
I remember reading a comment like that except the guy went outside of his race got a Latina, have kids, and a single mother who had turned him down in the past when he met her again in a class reunion, basically saw a moment into his life and he said he could never forget the look on her face.
Need more Rapsody in their boomboxes
@@duckfoutube1761 Classic
Why would you care about their regret when you can get yourself a 21 year old?
After hearing and hearing a lot of women like her speak. The one thing I can say is a lot of women like her feel and think the way they do is because they don't need a man NOW. And because they don't need him now, they'll think they're not going to need him in the future
Yeah, and then they ask 'where did all the good men go?' when they're in their 30s.
Every.
Single.
Time.
@@peekaboo1575 and all used up from jumping on all those banana's 😫🤦
Excellent point. Sadly it rings with more truth with succeeding generations.
They think they are still a kid until they’re in their mid-thirties, and that they can have kids in their 40’s. By your mid-thirties you should be married 5-10 years and done having kids.
Mic Drop
Our community would be in much better shape if we emphasized getting married in your 20s and beginning a family..all this out of wedlock births and single parent homes are destroying us.
Pushing people to get married that early is probably only gonna work once we've already established a way to make younger people more responsible and self aware now. Way too many people get married in their 20s and divorce at 30 because they realized that maybe that wasn't the person they needed to be with.
@@nightfighter7452 That wouldn't be any worse than what we already have in the black community. these young women and men are irresponsibly getting pregnant and having kids without any sort of family structure or plans on how to raise the kids. Emphasis on having a stable home to raise the kids with both parents would make things better. But then again the parents have to actually be raising the kids right.
@@nightfighter7452 True
The programming has almost solidified in this young woman's mind. She says that she can be committed for life but the reality of that and what she imagines that to be is two different things. To young people, I was one of them, THINK it's all about the love you feel the first few months/years. I call that the "high", but the plateau is what mostly happens. That is when people bail the most "when the fun of the past has been replaced with the not-as-fun". As a male, I understood this as time passed in my first marriage and was prepared to see it through. In the end if they believe and want the "fun life", then they'll never make it through the transition to the day-to-day level of building a long-term relationship. I let a lot of things not affect my first marriage because I thought in time we'd settle into a more stable relationship. But the ongoing infidelity was like acid to our relationship, and it died. Literally died. I felt it when it happened and just stated "We're getting a divorce" during one of our discussions. Hope the young folks can learn and get past this whole concept of "strong and independent" as both genders are made by evolution to be stronger together.
Thank you, you can see it in real time. The programming in her mind as he talks to her
After 5 years, two children this is what happened, she got bored and wanted to live a free and single life. I guess that's easier than putting in the work. We're both 32 BTW. Left a secure relationship to pursue her 20s again
@@fweshy274 what’s your opinion on marrying a women the same age as yourself?
That's deep, but very true. Right on ✊🏾
@@weswalks8449 I see no problem in that as long as we share the same vision. I was the main provider earning 50k (£) a year. She worked part time but didn't need to
Marriage is definitely a huge risk and sacrifice...for western men.
I am thinking of going back to Kenya 🇰🇪 or Ethiopia 🇪🇹 for a wife🤠
@@roolyfe don’t get one get a couple them African women can get it
@@roolyfe don’t forget Filipinas, Eastern European, or latinas….
Just whatever you do… stay away from Americanized women… people talk about how American black women are the LEAST desirable woman in the world, but American WHITE women are the second LEAST desirable… followed by women in Western Europe…
Africa, India, Taiwan, Korea, Brazil, Mexico, all have higher ranked women than we do.
@@roolyfe That would be wise. I heard Ugandan sisters make excellent wives too.
@@cw5971 East Africa. American women are to different than foreign women
You can tell she doesn't want to hear any more of it
Yeah her attention span is like 5min
You can tell she doesn’t listen and comprehend well off the bat
Jez-e-bel spirit.
"Please. Make it stop." 💀
Scared, afraid, cautious. They're afraid of men and marriage but not the job market or being a bad parent 😤
😮 whoa
They are more afraid of marriage and security than having babies out of wedlock and being single mama's. Can't make this stuff up.
This hit me hard
Imagine telling someone you’re getting a Communication degree but struggle having an adult conversation.
She told me she thought she had time so she wanted to get her fun girl ways out of the way now she is ready at 45
Women at 20 to 24 imo got two choices- be free and have fun or get serious and get married if they want to be married. Pushing marriage back only decrease your chances when you hit your mid 30s- especially if you have out of wedlock kids..and men in their mid 30s or older who are ready for marriage will sit back and watch mid 30s women having to compete with mid 20s women.
Who do you think will win?
So, r u dating with intention?
@@supadupa6891 they can go out and have fun but that lowers their marriage market value which seems impossible for them to understand.
@@giveme24hrs72 he's telling you how delusional that woman was I don't think he will marry a 45 year old woman would you? Lol
Just in time for her 50st kid at 50.
I’ve gotta give credit where it’s due and say that this woman is probably right that all young women nowadays, particularly college educated, regardless of race put marriage and family at the bottom of their list of priorities.
This is absolutely true
The NUMBERS don't reflect that
This is sadly true and these ladies will realize when they're in the danger zone and above, that other women got married before the wall, hence why KS is talking about non black women care a lot about marriages
Not true.
Asian women and Latin women value family values and having families
@@zThaRipper7 that may be the case, but if what I think I’m witnessing continues it will be reflected in the statistics 20 years from now.
KS hit it on the head. A large part of the wealth gap is the marriage gap.
Married people become wealthier most of the time over time.
But women, like children, want instant gratification. They don't realized wealth is build, not given. You need time and partnership. Ie. marriage to make it. Two incomes, one set of bills. Live bellow your means, save one income. By the time you are 35-50 You are in the middle class. By the time you 50-60 You built your wealth.
@@navytanutrof1823 amen 🙏
2 people is double the income with half the expenses which is one of the few ways to get ahead in the modern economy but many of these women seem to think that relationships/marriage means they can retire early.
Not until you get a divorce and lost half your shit as a man…
@@santo9032 you right too
I remember dating a women about 20 years back. She had 2 freinds. They all left their husbands and got breast implants at the same time, and went running around the clubs in their late 30s early 40s with kids at home. They all had decent guys at home who didn't want the divorce. But they weren't "happy". They all got married again a few years later.... And divorced again. I myself got tired of chasing wmen and have been single now 5 years. Happiest 5 years of my life. I get lonely, but the low level stress I always carried is gone.
I just can't take any woman with breast implants seriously. Shallow is the vibe I get
How old r u?
@@giveme24hrs72 lol
Watching women make the same mistake over and over and over. It’s sad.
Marry your career. Enjoy.
Facts and don’t come back when they lay your dumb a$$ off and give you no pension,401k in the future
why not ? Carrier is amazing
@@arianalushtaku4329 Carrier? Yeah, they make some descent HVAC systems. Problem is CAREERs are fine - until you max out the pay scale . . . or they downsize . . . or get bought out and decide they don't need you because you're in a redundant position . . . or fold because the SEC found they were cooking the books . . . but other than that they're amazing.
If these women want to live like college kids all through there 20’s and 30’s then no one is to judge….the issue comes into play when they choose to live that lifestyle, but yet have the nerve to judge men and have the highest expectations towards them and have such standards for a “real man”……all whilst partying and dating there life away, working dead end jobs and have the nerve to want to be a “stay at home mom” just so they can continue to live like broke unemployed middle aged teenagers and want a hard working wealthy man to take care of her like a spoiled drunk lazy middle aged child 🙄😂
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@@cw5971 yea I’m out man 😭
Damn, the accuracy
That is she wants a millionaire or billionaire
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Kevin. I don't care how many people try to silence you and discredit you. You are making the most sense in this relationship sphere than any other person I have seen. You have successfully changed the relationship dialogue between black women and black men. I am so glad you are bold enough to tell us.
The women that can "listen" (not just "hear") will be the "survivors" that won't be left behind in life. God Speed in your journey of happiness and fulfillment Sonya, it's a tough road.
•Women want the authority of a man , with the privilege of a women , and the accountability of a child
•Dating for a women is like a shopping spree,
Dating for men is like a job interview.
•Trying to raise a girls interest, is like showing her she’s the prize.
•Sometimes women don’t cheat , but they know who’s next.
•women are born with value ,men have to gain their value.
•women date up , men date down.
•when women cheat its premeditated murder ,
when men cheat its man slaughter.
•reason Women like Confidence , because it asserts dominance.
•women want a traditional man , but not willing to be a traditional women.
•men are taught to do right, women are taught to do right by them.
•it’s a mans job to get the women , but a women’s job to maintain the man.
•To much focus is on keeping the women happy and not the man.
•a fat women is equivalent to a broke man.
•If she didn’t want you in her prime don’t save her in her decline
•Women chase want they can’t have in their 20’s and settle for what they don’t want in their 30’s .
•no man wants to pay full price when everyone got that for free.
•people focus on finding the right person , but don’t focus on being the right person.
•Men don’t want a women with a past , and women want a man with a future.
•Modern day problem , requires modern day solutions
•a country that is closer to the poverty line , the more the women are submissive
•women in the west are taught to be independent , but not taught to be wives.
Wow you said it ...this is so true and powerful
Important words 💯💯 good stuff
Thanks
Killed it!!!
this needs to be pinned
If “listening to react” was a person, it would be her…
Her parents are going to leave her an inheritance but she needed student loans.....doesn't compute.
Most modern women lie. Most of them will *lie* themselves into a grave next to they cousins; not their husband and possible children.
Women cap more than lidz
Just because a parent has the money to pay for their kids college doesn’t mean they will always pay for it. Maybe they want her to do it herself for the life experience
@@markcurry3083 True ... plus inheritance is for the future POSSIBLY. Student loans are due now. Lol
Good points.
Married my wife when she was 21. We just celebrated our 23rd anniversary a few months ago. These ladies are delusional 💀
Your wife have then earned the right to mock those women for the rest of her life :)
I'm noticing relationships need a healthy age gap amognst adults just so you as a man can have your shit together and so she has a certain level of respect for you, being the same age she views you as peer or little boy.
Not delusional. You definitely have to be careful when marrying. Man or woman. Imagine getting married and you have kids then divorce.. to Kevin women have no value after they have kids. Young women aren’t wrong. Just like young men aren’t if they choose not to. We are still tryna figure life out in our 20’s anyway
@@kenyahulsey5172 women have value after they have kids stop the bs
@@kenyahulsey5172 no... he's saying singke women with kids have a lower value. U should be on this show i really wanna see that
Black women are raised to be independent that’s why it’s soo hard for them to submit.
nope. they are raised to think 'you can do anything' with out anyone teaching them anything. govt school and govt welfare programs are the worst thing to happen to the black community
Hope women in their 20s are seeing this. Most of you have good men in your circle right now and instead of brushing them off you need to take them seriously and date with a purpose.
Good comment!
You can't force attraction🤷🏿♂️ the truth is most of these women don't want good guys because they don't turn them on....
@@abanfrancis6400 facts
@@10Redhawks people need to stop lying to themselves about this... How much times do we see these females go after the same type of men?
Aban Francis that’s because of what they have been taught, this is why the past is a lesson to the future. It falls on deaf ears when you say the good guys don’t turn you want, When a couple generations ago, those good guys were the guys that ended up being your grandfather.
Good conversation overall, she was polite
She definitely checked out at the end though Lol, those multiple "ok" on the back end of the convo she wasn't even mentally there anymore
Yeah she looked like she didn't agree
they have an attention span of a mosquito....
She needs to watch more of Kevin's previous videos. To me she still have doubts and skepticism about the settling down. Still want to go out there and prove something. Bottom line She needs more assurance and to stop taking advices from single women.
@@Dtt4 oh I agree, I was just saying she wasn't rude
Very likely never challenged like that in her entire life.
University Investors: “We need to create a degree plan and tie it to something empowering.”
Janitor: “How about communications! We can tell these women that they’re the reason why everyone talks”
University Investors: “Janitor, you’re now the Dean of Admission”
Oh they sure talk alot, but without much substance, peace and quiet can be men's best friend.
should be a movie lool
😂😂😂
@@ricardos8307 🤝
😂😂😂😂😂
Girl, you seem to be a nice girl... Don't waste your biggest commodities: youth and beauty in dating... Find the best man, you can before your 30 !!!
Exactly Even though she's virgin in her late 20s to early 30s no Man wanna marry a older virgin cause as women it's really impossible to be Virgin at 25 to 35 no women will be virgin cause Even though she's virgin at 25 or beyond no man want to take that and he probably won't gonna believe her cause women are the Most manipulative gender than man on sex so if you're Blue pill beta male then go head get a 30 years old Post Wall who think she's still virgin every man desire Younger women not a Post wall who think her youth aren't important for man Many of this Post Wall old women think her age aren't important she's think she still high value male
The divorce is planned before the wedding
Facts👍👍
Fellas. Best advice I can give is….travel the world and see how WOMEN are supposed to treat MEN! You’ll never think about women the same 💯. Maria and Becky with the good hair start looking REAL good when you hit New Zealand, Germany, Mexico and places when black men are POWERFUL!
You're a chump
1) Most men who gravitate to KS don't make enough money to travel
2) All women are not a monolith. The Kiwis of New Zealand may not appeal to every man. Same with Asians, Germans, etc. Yes you'll have a good time but it may not appeal to every man.
3) This stupid young girl is not even the average in the dating pool
@@jbreezy6784 Ok, you disagree w/ Robert. No need for the 'chump' comment.
I agree that it's a 'must' for young brothas to travel abroad. Even someone on a Walmart job can travel,. There's hostels, Airbnb, and other budget friendly options.
Having traveled overseas myself, i can say was one of my best experiences of my life. I had some of my best times w/ a German gf.
@@GregPeters1 don't worry about him. Plenty of men travel and don't have to be compared to KS. He is just small minded. There is TH-cam channel based on exactly that subject for black men traveling abroad
@@IronMikeDyson1979 You're right. I'm glad to hear the majority of us are on the same page..I just hope the Pookies & Ray-Rays stay put, here in the states..
She is the average in the dating pool C Breezy... or whatever your name said.
The 1st lesson I learned was "The family Unit is the core unit of civilization!!!"
I hope to God that she understood at least half of what KS was telling her.
Kevin had to get passionate with her because she’s 22, sounded like she is about to make the exact same mistakes as women before her dad. I know it kind of hurt Kevin to hear her basically in lockstep with other women he has talked to that are a lot older than her and wish they were her age again so they could go back and fix their mistakes
She tuned him out before even halfway through the clip. Order 66 is too powerful. The Wall and the Godfather are undefeated. 👑
Order 66 🤣🤣🤣 cold shit
I actually agree with what this young lady stated as her experience with non black young women in college. As a non black woman, when in my early 20s my friends and I DID all have the mindset that we needed a stable career before worrying about marriage. Now in my fourth decade of life and newly married for first time, I do wish I had met my husband twenty years ago. I wasn’t concerned with that but wish I was because my degree and past earnings are completely irrelevant now that I’m a stay at home step mother and with first pregnancy. Could have skipped all these school loans. So, that would make Kevin right again!Women should just focus on finding a husband. 😆
Honest question though. What if a woman married very young and had kids, while husband provided everything, and the husband died from illness, covid, workplace accident etc. With no employable skills to fall back on, then what?
@@Luminaria86 Your question doesn't compute. If the husband provided for EVERYTHING, she would be provided for in his absence. I sell life insurance, if you are interested.
Your reply is like many women on these videos. You feel like your personal empirical "evidence" somehow changes the FACTS and statistics that he is giving you. lol It could very well be true that YOU (and the woman in this video) had a different experience from the other 99% of women, that doesn't change the facts. In math, we call it statistical outliers.
@@Luminaria86 I have a real world example. My mom was a housewife her entire marriage and my dad passed away leaving us both with nothing when I was a teen. So I hustled and put myself through college to provide for both my mom and I. Yes I wish I also thought about looking for a husband at the same time but I was just too focused on career. So in a way, I do think you need employable skills for yourself, but also look for a husband.
@@wanderlustly313 cool, glad you’re an insurance salesman. What’s the converse situation of that? A no-income wife did everything in the home for the family but she dies? Does the husband get a big enough insurance pay-out to get a full time nanny, cleaner and cook? What about the fine print that says insurance is void if the nation is involved in war?
Kevin would've been a great pastor. You can see he really cares about fixing our stinking thinking.
Facts👍👍
Just in the language she was using, "So you are saying I need to hunt and work for a man." You are not working for a man, you are working for your family or your future family and have the privilege to have found the person who cares for you and wants to build a family with you. It is all about perspective.
Oh girl a life time is long and you will be tested, don't quit it's hard.
She could care less about the free game she just got but 10yrs down the line will come back to this video saying damn i should have listened 🤷 but still GL to her
KS is a God send. Protect him at all costs!
😁😁
RIP to a true Legend.
A woman’s protection comes from being under her husbands covering, directly from her fathers covering! “That’s biblical facts” anything outside of that she’s truly unprotected. Somehow our women missed this vital information and the results are evident.
I have to take a step back and view the landscape. I can usually look at a woman’s circumstances and reality and agree to this statement.
Fathers are not all good. Mine was violent. Not all husbands are good..many are violent
I still like decent men...but Kevin doesn't acknowledge the hoardes of abusive men.
@@paulascott7670 Your anecdotal experience does not dictate the standard. The majority of men are not abusive or violent to women and to believe so would be ridiculous.
@@paulascott7670 Exactly
In one ear and out the other.
Me and my wife got married at 24 and 22 respectively. It just takes maturity when it comes down to it. You've got to be mature enough to know when it's time to start waiting and settle, what you really want in life, how much time you have left as the prime of yourself. Plus this culture doesn't push the image of people growing old together. A lot of shows either have you people just hooking up all over the place for 10 years or the couple are mid 30's and or parents. I don't think I've seen many shows about young married couples 18-24 developing, but there are going to hardly be any married people in the future, so oh well, I got mines.
Its ok to not be mature at 22, 23, 24...The human brain does not even fully develop till about 26. Some people are born old, don't have fun like other people so for them settling down is fine but that does not and will not work for everyone. there are a lot of ways to live, find one that suits you and and your limitations and do that.... People will always get married, its just shifting from being a "right of passage" into a well planned, though out life choice.
@@r.walker7986 Being mature and having foresight have no correlation with having fun. The problem is people are delusional and are not living in the real world. A lack of guidance and understanding of consequences, IMO, we can learn in our formative years. Kevin's show displays women well over 26 making the kind of decisions you would expect of a person in their early 20s.
@@r.walker7986 😵💫 Our forefathers we’re those ages. As in the founding fathers. This treating grown adults like they are babies needs to stop. If you haven’t noticed we have been giving grace to older and older “children” decade after decade. Yet things have only gotten exponentially worse. I was engaged & have my first child at 17. By 19 I was making more then my parents. Still with the same man nearly 15 yrs later. Hence why we have 25-30 year olds still living with their mommy and daddy. 30% of men are still virgins at 30. 🤦🏼♀️
Push them out of the NEST! At 23 I was helping my elderly grandparents & parents alike. Plus taking care of my own. If anything it’s selfish on both sides. It’s selfish of the parents to handicap the children and rely on a codependent toxic relationship. As well as being selfish from the child to rely on their parents when it’s their time to relax and enjoy all their hard work. Perhaps enjoy their grand children on the weekends etc. NOT supporting grown adults & their out of wedlock children.
(Simply because the prefrontal cortex is not fully developed does not constitute “child” sure they will be more likely to take a job across the country (which can be extraordinarily helpful in job growth) before 25. Most people who consider their young children up until 25. Allow them to be immature and remove accountability are those who simply want to handicap their child enough where they never leave and cleave. Those are the facts.
@@r.walker7986 Uh…no it’s NOT. That’s an incredibly troublesome statement and one that’s highly detrimental. Check your own family lineage and see what age they were married. If you’re immature at 24 you’re in BIG trouble. I bought my first home at 24. I’m 55 now.
@@josephoneil3093 people who got married that young got married because they had no other choices. And they were not mature, they were just young and married. The women could not move through this world comfortably without a man so they grabbed the best or least-undesirable employed guy they could find and just went with it....The relationships looked good on the outside but a lot of them were just to keep up appearances. It boils down to whether you want to tow a line or actually have a satisfying fulfilled life.
Kevin definitely right on this one… I have always known my mom to be married and to the same man all my life.. She retired 10 years ago… Her unmarried sisters still working long hours.
So happy I got remarried in my 30’s. I can understand that I am an exception to not grow old alone. However, who I am today is a way better version of myself versus in my 20’s. I don’t have to worry about what if, shoot I did. My husband can consider himself lucky today but 10 years ago? Heck no lol. That’s just me being honest. I can appreciate marriage now because I didn’t appreciate it then
From what I heard People who have 2 nd marriages tend to fail more than 1 st marriages. So I would not be too happy yet.
Same here! Instead I’m getting it right in my 20’s versus my teens. Lol I can definitely say I caught on quickly after getting it wrong. It definitely took accountability and dedication. I’m proud of myself for wanting to be a better woman for myself, my child’s father, and now my daughter. Because of her and her daddy they’ve helped me grow without even knowing. I almost lost a good thing but I put my pride to the side and when in the house. Lol I’m done playing in the streets.
What part of if you have a back up plan to a marriage it's because you need therapy and you don't respect your man enough because if a woman goes in to a situation with her "standards" she gets to choose a good man. U can't be mad at bad results after getting with pookie and Ray ray. If a man is not seriously heading in the direction that says he's marriage minded then you leave it alone.
As she'll be Living It Up through her college 304 phase, telling her to try get with a blue collar brother (an electrician, trucker, forklift driver, plumber etc) who's currently earning $ 70-80K (as his annual starting salary) is pretty much insulting her.
At this point in time, a Pookie & RayRay struggling rapper is her ideal *mhan. Smh!
A brotha making $70-80K wouldn’t even look her way. She’d be too “dark”. we all know how colorist ya’ll are. a black man making that much would chase after the light skinned exoticals or non black women
@@faye1417 lmfao, as usual, zero accountability. Can’t make this shit up😂
@@faye1417 yeah, they’ll take the non black women because they’re not masculine, have natural hair, no raptor claws, and aren’t argumentative.
@@markcurry3083 the hair in my profile pic is my natural hair pressed out with heat. I was never argumentative with any guy I dated Why? Cuz I liked him a lot and didn’t want to ruin anything. My nails always grew long naturally so I never started wearing acrylics till my late 20’s and even then I kept them on the shorter side. i don’t wear any now cuz of my job. And I’m very feminine actually.I’ve been told that I’m TOO soft and quiet by BM
@@markcurry3083 don’t act like you BM aren’t colorist and obsessed with light and white skin. Stop lying!
"im too afraid to get married while rich, let me wait till I'm broke and can't offer a woman anything so then I can marry her".
I get it
Seems kosher
She seems like she just doesn't get it. She may be 2 inexperienced and the echo chamber of women she's around in college is most likely going to make it worse.
White women are in that same environment and seem to have no issues getting married and raising families.
Agree. It's like the saying, "There is no "Crime" amongst thieves." She's most likely found too many women like her. Keeps her entrenched in that distorted mindset.
@Asah Spades Yes, the outcome is she is not a wife. What we are speaking to is the systemic influence(s) as to WHY she isn't a wife. No excuses implied.
@Asah Spades Most men know why they're homeless and the choices/consequences on what got them there. But that's the point; these girls are not aware of the consequences or the choices they are making that will keep them from being a wife. I agree with your second point. If she put just as much effort in a relationship as she did with her academics, it would be a different story.
@Asah Spades Because men are inclined to be logical and assess risk/reward from that perspective. Women are inclined to make decisions based on emotions/feelings and get drawn into directions in life based on scarcity, fear and lack. Men know the "why" for themselves already (or should know) because of our nature stated above. That doesn't mean we have the "why" for women because they operate differently. Like saying a motorcycle drives the same as a car because they both run on gas. Respectfully disagree, it's just not the case.
What a cutie and despite her pretty teeth and gorgeous smile, she still needed a verbal thrashing of the truth from KS. Let's hope she put her feelings aside and was truly listening.
She did have a beautiful smile and gorgeous teeth.
I agree. She do have some nice choppers on her😁!
Yuck!
I seriously doubt she did. I'm sure because of all of the D, money, and attention showered on her, she will take what he said with a grain of salt. That is, until those teeth begin to yellow, face starts to wrinkle and those eggs dry up. She'll then wonder what went wrong, probably never considering this conversation from her past.
@@mpscorporation6874 bro you saying she gets all this attention and d showered on her like she a 10/10 or something
Me and her are the same age but I hope she heard everything what Kevin is trying to tell her
I am a guy in mid 30s and have to say some of the black men have to work on ALOT of shite as well... These young dudes out there wanting thug life selling rocks and robbing elderly needs to be fixed....No wonder black women always yelling at black men
@Asah Spades he not wrong though. A lot of us men go through trauma and need therapy. Books on self-improvement also helps and will make us a better man than all these positive affirmations. Always put yourself first and never your women. Be straight up with your partner but enjoy life together. Learn and grown from one another.
She heard but not listening too brain washed by other women
@David W because they were raised by their mothers and that's why those young dudes are messed up!!
@@gw6496 🎯
When a woman grows up in a single mother home or in a home were the father's role is undermined they don't realize that they need a man until they actually need a man, usually in their 30s and 40s.
This was me in my teens and early 20s. As I got older (not yet 30), I realised that as you're working to secure the bag, you can and should look for a man whiles working yourself as well. Be polite and respectful. Don't assume every man is a potential cheat. Date with a purpose/commitment and have reasonable standards. Relationship is work not a fairytale. When you meet a good man, don't compare him to unreasonable standards. You attract what you project.
This is a perfect example of how Kevin match his energy. His argument points are the exact same as all the other women he talks to, but she came in good faith and she seemed a little bit shy, and so he made sure that he wasn’t too overbearing although he was firm
Kevin has obviously taken several professional speaking/communications courses. Additionally, it is very obvious that he has a strong debate background from high school or college.
Still excited about the club! At 40!
That’s just sad 😂
I'm 65 and I've been married for 43 years to the same man. I'm proud to say I've stayed and worked through our differences. Now we are empty nesters and we are still doing well. Don't want to grow old alone. Thank God we had one another through this COVID 19. I hate being alone. He's my partner and my confidant. Do we have challenges⁉️yes but we have ground rules that we adhere to and have proven to be a support. I have a college degree and worked as a professional for 40 years and he has worked his electronic business and still does while I'm retired. All is well in our camp.
Please tell me, what is your secret to stay married? I’m a young wife and learning
When she says her Caucasian classmates that are her age aren't talking about marriage that's not unrealistic. I worked with many of them fresh out of college. Career and a little more post college exploration (fun) is what's on their mind. Marriage only comes up after the first year of working a real job and them already being tired of the grind.
He always has to compare black women to white girls because he was always compared to white men and didn’t like it so he does it back to black women he will even lie about it
@@lucyadams1833 black women aren't on the positive side of things. Ignoring reality doesn't change it.
White women are far more ready to get married then black women. They just manifest their Hypergamy and silliness after the I do's. Black women are the queen's of getting engaged and dumping the fiancee over stupid shit
Men, this is the problem with the modern women we are not worth the effort!
Thank you for imparting into her, not sure if she will take it at first but I think it will sink in more with time.
The genius of KS is that he speaks directly to their sub-conscious. The first answer they give is what they really feel. He doesn’t allow them to take back or move the goal post to try to look "good".
Women will ALWAYS fall for this.
I always ask women who make moves “just in case” or “for security” when it comes to their men how they would feel if their man took money outta out of his pay every week and put it in his mama account just in case she divorce him he has money she can’t go after and they always say they wouldn’t like it…..they hate the idea of a prenup which is essentially a “just in case” precaution but yet they have no problem being in relationships where they have one foot out the door
Exactly, so true
What a great analogy brother!
that’s a good idea fr. 👀…. i know my african/carribbean brothers at my part time job got hidden/secret cash accounts set up all over… costa rican Venezuelan banks they girl will never ever touch or even know about. they have the statement come to there mommas house.🤫
They be ready for it not too work especially in the black community when it comes too divorce it don’t be the men it be the woman ready too go thinking 🤔 it’s something better out there especially if she gets divorce and has kids what. Real single man want a single baby momma
@@drisskins look yall an argumentative black woman
Haven't ever met young black married couples. I have seen young oriental, Indian, Muslim and Jewish couples and religious white married couples. I've only seen black married couples older than 30
Facts
Same in my country
a good husband is better than a good job. I said it!
Becky & Marisol are starting to adopt the same mindset of these other modern day women. Kevin should know this.
Becky sure as hell is.
She just wanted the conversation to be over. It won't be until she's about 30 that she remembers this conversation and regrets not believing it.
I pray these young women listen and pay attention to what's really going on. Don't get left behind 💔
Dam that don’t get left behind hits different
20 Fears of Modern Women (Must Read):
1. She fears no dates from up, but from across or down.
2. She fears no men focusing on her words or Womanese but her actions, including checking her phone.
3. She fears no men to be manipulated and simping for her like a prize, as she has this inveterate unbearable entitlement and contempt for men.
4. She fears boredom or a drama-free life, for she is insatiable and ungrateful.
5. She fears her friend got a better man than her or her man stolen, whom she stole from another woman/friend during her last seamless monkey-branch.
6. She fears feeling sorry not for her cheating but for its being caught, while she always got pumped and dumped from these unknown men and therefore climbed back to be with her beta man who mistakes her staying with him ''by force'' for ''by choice''.
7. She fears her friends revealing her body count or what she actually did in those girls' nightouts/bachelorette party/Vegas or Cancun Trips, while she cannot help sharing her secrets as well as her man's privacy with them who are gossipy and bitchy.
8. She fears no free attention, continual validation, unconditional energy from men, while she'll make no efforts at all in return and won't feel sorry for using up their resources.
9. She fears it is not 6 digits income, 6 inches D, 6 feet tall, 6 pack abs, while she claims she wants a nice guy (to provide), by which she means she's going to find another chance to seizure the 666ers behind his back with the security and his trust in place.
10. She fears men not treating her as an end while she is treating them as a means, given she loves them not for who they are, but for what they can do for her.
11. She fears her man's money is not her money while her money clearly isn't her man's money.
12. She fears bigger-better-deal men are wise/redpilled/KnowingHisValue but not stupid/bluepilled/NotKnowingHisValue, and she always wants to change/vet/brainwash/shame a bbd man of that stupid kind for her use for good.
13. She fears a lack of privileges or convenience but a presence of accountability or responsibility, and she must always play the victim of all-time for the sake of being a woman while she's under the independent-woman brand and yet she insists he pay.
14. She fears unable to use her sexuality as the only weapon but her personality, humor, cooking, etc. which she sucks at, given she always responds to men with ''Entertain me'' as her conversation-opener, which is also her fundamental life attitude toward men.
15. She fears no backup men even in a good LTR, for she fears karma and is anytime ready to dispose her used-up man upon inevitable life difficulties with him.
16. She fears being single by betatizing men in her Situationships by giving them false hopes and wasting their time, and what's worse is her riding on the carousel counts as being single too in her opinion.
17. She fears unable to get what she wants through no men, for men not playing her stupid games such as not subscribing to her bullshit or shaming, or not wifing her up for her to divorce him later to take half his shit.
18. She fears ending up being alone and lonely in her 30s, 40s or 50s when she realized even the nice/beta guys back then have now disdainfully rejected and ghosted her, after she ain't doing shit for decades, either for her own relationships or for her self-improvement on basically being a loser OFFLINE.
19. She fears aging like vinegar or milk, which she is.
20. She fears her look seen without makeup, be her a 49er 304 from the streets.
You already know everything bro💯
Bruh you really took the time out to type this. That’s not high value
Your game is up.
@@mustanggang5.0 each one, teach one. He wrote it for them young heads coming up that need this info to avoid pitfalls, S T O P S I M P I N.
Too long to read…..🙄
If young modern women don't change we all will see the outcomes in about 20 years, maybe even less. They'll be unmarried trying to get their groove back. I had to really look at the women around me, whether at work or in my family, and it's true! We are not married!! So to be married, to have been chosen by a man and become his wife is rare and shouldn't be taken for granted. The way is world is going 1 income cannot sustain you for retirement. We already don't have the financial literacy needed and you think your going to have enough money during the years your unable to work??? Ladies get it together! Put your pride and masculinity aside and align yourselves with a MAN. Become a wife.
My grandma is 70+, unmarried, depending on her children to take care of her (which shouldnt be their responsibility having their own families) She can't work and the little SS checks are not cutting it. She will die alone 😔 she's not able to work to continue making income. No more retirement $$ left. Everything Kevin says holds weight. Take heed ladies.
Good points Janesha.
When I look at my window,...do you know what I am seeing more and more of? Homeless WOMEN. They were always around but nothing like the volume I am seeing now. I suspect this will continue to increase if our mindsets don't change on our roles and relationships.
They don't want to listen and won't listen unfortunately....
I feel like a unicorn, I got married at the 19 went on leave from medical school because I fell pregnant.
Now that I have my son I don’t care about work/school anymore my son is my everything. I am about to move across the country to Florida with my husband because he got a good job.
I don’t know anyone in Florida but I am uprooting my life for my husband, I just turned 24.
Women like you are an inspiration to me.. I am a young 24 year old wife and mother as well. It is difficult but we can persevere. I get backlash from other women. It is quite shocking. Why do other women want me to be a slut…? Or end up a single mother…? It doesn’t make sense. I love my husband and I love raising a family.
You didn’t ‘fall’ pregnant. Just don’t screw your husband over when your kid is grown and take half of your husbands stuff because you never had a hot girl summer and you’re bored
Her voice annoyed me, her lack of any sense annoys me too lol I’m not even 5 minutes in
Haha! Glad it's not just me. You almost feel like shaking her through the screen and yelling, "Wake up!"
My god the Godfather has more patients, than a saint...An attractive fresh faced young woman, and then she started talking (baby voice, delusional, and shocked her life goals are pure fantasy)...It was I/ me/what I want, and the fear of commitment is stunning. She has time, she needs a cook book, and a set of good older women to guide her. Ladies we men can not make peace with you if you see us as an adversary.
No! She doesn't need a group of good older women... She needs a MAN to teach her about men. Her father, usually.
@@yo3rdtier128 No one knows you so why would you accused him of speaking for you? Don't be sensitive but instead look up the word "generalities".
I agree with the young lady especially regarding being prepared for the eventual divorce
I do tOO. That way a man can take half her shit OR they can just walk away keeping what they got.
Man once this girl said that her degrees are in communications and French, I conked out on her. I have a friend who majored in that kind of stuff, she didn’t start making decent money until she got an MBA from a top 25 program and started selling her soul on social media to get consulting clients.
She’s not going to build a great hustle. If she was, she’d have already started to do it. Instead, she’s going to work a job. And a job can be worked whenever. In fact, she’d probably have better outcomes to her career if she had kids now, entered the workforce at like 33 when the youngest one was out of school, and worked from 33-65 without interruption, versus went to work at 22, mostly left the workforce at 29 to start a family, and then tried to restart at 40. I know in fields that pay well, like computer science, big gaps in employment is basically the same thing as not having worked at all
I mean dang! Who wants to marry a Black Woman when he knows there is a 80% probability she's going to leave. AND WITH HALF! No wonder only one in four would ever marry.
An after actually reading tht infro from cdc statistics an data, they'll scream "f@#$ statistics, I Feel like I'm the acception" ..smfh.
It’s ridiculous that they actually destroy so many families in our community it’s almost criminal.
@@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet the idea behind stimulating women to be 'independent' and feel insecure about being married and/or a housewife is the source of this situation.
@@silkshirt17witdajhericurl80 It's true. they say "well if that man would have picked the right woman he wouldn't have had that problem"' mofo all the men thought they were picking the right woman! the numbers don't lie! 😂
Great convo, very insightful.
The GODFATHER!! I appreciate the work you’re doing man!
She is such a sweet young girl ☺️;
She'll be a great single mother!
I'd take her as a side piece after she has that baby lol.