But I find amazing is these women raise their standards that's like putting a car on the market for a higher price after it's been in an accident and racked up mileage
She doesn’t understand that once she has a child that “selfish” option went out of the window. She’s harming her child and doesn’t even realize it-or care.
my mom, had 6 pregnancies and 4 children, myself being the 4th, with a narcissistic alcoholic husband. My dad told her after child 3, my brother, he didn't want to have more kids. My mom in her eternal selfishness had me anyway and subjected me to the same abuse, chaos and dysfunction the other 3 were subjected to. Sounds like so many selfish women, never thinking about anything but themselves....not even their children, just like the sky waitress. Had a kid too early, now the kid has to pay for it, while mom is absent 50% of the time, being a flight attendant
Considering that she's a flight attendant, I'm betting that someone else is raising her kid while she does her job. That's why she can say that she's having her "selfish years" as a single mother.
@MisterB A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." But, if the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) that came out of him would have to be a mistake too. Because if she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant, and given birth to one of his seeds, and then... there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it's indirectly saying that the child is a mistake without actually coming out and directly having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire situation. The only reason why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, people would have no problem with calling their bd/bm a mistake without feeling bad about it. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and there'e really no getting around it or trying to separate it from that choice/outcome/baby daddy. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. It's word semantics and sugarcoating to "pretty it up". But you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, my apple is a blessing that came from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? If the apple seed was a mistake, the apple itself wouldn't exist? It would be like a Christian saying they love Jesus, but they have hatred for God and the virgin Mary? It's like a Muslim saying they love the Quran, but hate Muhammad? If you get my drift... Honestly, the kid is the only true victim. And it might sound messed up, but the child is only going to be the collateral damage of that decision and will feel the burn of it.
@@jamalmatthews4854 Appreciate it bro! I'm not even trying to be mean, but it has always sounded like they are trying to rationalize something that can't be rationalized. I never paid much attention to the single motherhood issue and being "selfish".... until I started watching these podcasts. I've even started noticing it within my own family. Don't get me wrong. There are some extreme circumstances where a woman is forced into single motherhood. But, most of the time, it is a choice. Widows do not make up the overwhelming majority of single mothers. It's truly only a way of emotionally protecting the child. I've noticed it more from single mothers making those type of statements. They will say that their baby daddy was a mistake or a bad choice, but that the baby is a blessing. It's only because they don't want to admit that getting pregnant was a mistake and it's selfish. They don't want the child to feel unwanted or like a mistake. But, when you look at the outcome of the situation and the way they describe their baby daddy.... that's exactly what it is. You can't say that your child's father is a mistake/bad choice, but the child is a blessing. The child came out of him (literally). So, if he didn't exist, her child wouldn't exist either. So, by default... the child would also have to be a mistake. They will never say it out loud though. If you've ever heard single mothers say these types of things, they are lying and trying to sugarcoat reality and downplay how bad it is. Let me rephrase that. It's selfish to get pregnant by an unworthy man who wasn't even good enough to marry. And if the relationship was already "toxic", then what good will come from purposefully bringing a child into that type of situation? Why tie yourself to that man permanently? And deal with him for 18 years through the court system or 18 years of coparenting... with a man you consider to be a mistake? Can't make this stuff up.
@@robsawyer8034 A lot of people get angry when they hear the term "leftovers" and when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? It's sad because kids are smart and when they get older, they start to piece the puzzle together for themselves (kids can also tell when you're bullsh*tting them) The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
@T Bennett Exactly. But, a lot of women with that mindset will never see it that way. Truth be told... a lot of these single mothers are too far gone to help. Because they refuse to listen and have no self-accountability. There's also a difference between being a single mother due to circumstance versus choice. (i.e. a widow would be a single mother due to circumstance). Kevin is trying to get these women to understand that by purposefully having a baby out of wedlock by an unworthy man who wasn't even good enough to marry.... it will only make her life harder (and make dating/marriage) harder as well. Because the next man who enters into that situation will be paying a higher price than the baby daddy. The man who got her pregnant was able to not only have sex with her, but she pushed out an unworthy man's seed for a man who didn't even have to wife her. Most men (with common sense) would not want to blindly enter into that type of situation with a woman who has no accountability. Because the only one who will suffer and be the collateral damage of that decision is the child. The outcome speaks volumes of how selfish it is to do such a thing. And the sad part is that some people will still try to convince themselves that "things happen" or "the situation will work itself out." It's like a defense mechanism because they are living in denial and don't want to acknowledge there reality that they are living. So, they sugarcoat it to make it sound better than what it really is.
She tried to hide behind the law of attraction, but when KS mentioned she and the child’s father would be perfect for each other since they’re both selfish, “we are what we attract. ”GOTEEEEEM I died laughing 🤣🤣🤣
Law of Attraction works big time, but it takes a lot of work and discipline. These females don’t have the consistency. They are too chaotic. I used Law of Attraction to get jacked. The weights got a lot easier, and my body started to recover a lot faster. I still had to lift the weights, though.
@@truthinyan9050 I never said the LOA didn’t work. You’re missing the point. You can’t wish yourself into a positive outcome and continue the same behavior that brought you there. It’s like saying you want to lose weight but won’t exercise and change your diet. She simply created a reality distortion field around the question and wished the desired outcome would happen without taking accountability for what created the situation.
Whenever they talk about spirituality, grand rising, zodiac signs and all that other stuff, run. They only get that way after they have nothing else to connect to
@@robsawyer8034 It's scary that some women talk this way and actually believe their own lies. I see it within my own family. Whenever my female cousins talk to my mom, they always bring up their zodiac signs and try to use it to explain a man's behavior. It seems borderline crazy. It's like not living in reality.
@@forddreamsdofly546 A lot of people create deflections because they can't handle the truth. If they were forced to look at themselves and take accountability, it would hurt them. It might come off "harsh" to some people, but we choose our consequences when we make our choices based on our own free-will. Every outcome is only the domino effect of a decision that was made prior (besides situations that involve extreme circumstances).
Kevin: What is your profession? Her: I went to school for nursing. Kevin: What is your profession? Her: I'm in the airlines profession. Kevin: So you're a flight attendant? Her: Yes. Broad, why didn't you just say flight attendant when he first asked you? So many women try to make extra regular stuff sound like more than what it is. I guess that's the physical manifestation of having an inflated sense of self worth.
@Keenan Smith If they have to beat around the bush, they were already lying. It gives them enough time to stall because it's a defense mechanism. They don't want to admit the truth because they are living in denial. They are not operating in a world of reality.
Women love titles because they love the appearance of things. I always make the joke that I would let my job change my job to “shit eater” for a 20% raise.
@Dominic Holloway A lot of people get angry when they hear the term "leftovers" and when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
The craziest part about all of this, is women like her don’t know nor realize they’re embarrassing themselves. They’ll proceed to do what they do even after Kevin gives them sound advice.
@Mark-Anthony J It's like the age-old saying goes, "There's an easy way and a hard way to learn things. Some people choose to learn the hard way." I don't know why some people refuse to self-reflect. It's the only way to improve.
Most come for attention or are seeking “cheat codes”. I’m starting to believe high mortality rates before modern medicine was natures way of keeping these chaos factories in check. I know it sounds horrible but like Putin; some just wanna set the world on fire, and others need the fire smacked out of them.
At 24, I was a college graduate in the second year of my career. Me, being "selfish" meant not knocking up any woman and establishing a foundation for my future, not using youth as an excuse for poor decisions and actions.
@@Shushkin I'm twice as old now and when you reach my age, having done the right things for yourself, you will see how the proper "selfishness" can pay off for you. You only get to be young once. Take FULL advantage of it for the better.
My sister who was married and divorced 3 times ended up a single mom. When my niece was 13 her mom decided not to be a mom anymore so she can go chase men and pills. Our mother took over finishing raising my niece. She’s 22 now and where her mom calls or text she gets no response but when grandma calls or texts she respond right away. My niece won’t forget how things went down.
Crazy I was kicking with a chick like that. After talking to her a while I found out she left her whole family behind to party and run the streets. I cut her off immediately. Last I heard, she was on drugs and selling her 😺
@Jay-all-day They're all reading from the same playbook. They think men should sign up to deal with anything. I see it within my own family. It's selfish.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 deeper than just selfish darn right irresponsible and need a clean up man because they don't know how to make great decisions
Her, like most women, confidence comes from the fact that so many men will gladly accept leftovers with baggage. Once those men begin to have standards, you’ll see the true consequences
@Rob Sawyer If a lot of men stopped messing with women who have no accountability, it would be a rude awakening. They will be left dealing with their child's father and forced to accept the reality of it.
I pray I see the day. I know two dudes, both of whom love hitting on these types of women. They go for single mother's only. So I stopped hanging out with both of them.
This is true but it's fool's gold. If loses the selfishness and doesn't see a guy who makes decent money as settling she can absolutely find someone. Women seem to know plenty of men will smash but that attention also gives them a false sense of leverage. The fact that she's saying she'll be a wife for "the right guy" says enough honestly. That almost comes off like a man that can "handle her".
She thinks she can turn this mentality on and off, just like they think their femininity can be conditional. If she's selfish now, she will be selfish in the middle of marriage once the honey moon period wears off, or anytime things aren't going the way she wants. She'll just make everything about herself cause that's all she's about. At 30, and after 6 years of being a mother, the fact that she hasn't matured to having this understanding is something else. She's not even smart enough to hide it. If you're vetting a woman, and you ask her why she waited till 32 to start dating with intention, and she tells you I had to spend the the last 2 years in a selfish phase, RUUUN! This is who she is. They don't get better, and less selfish and less demanding as they get older. Quite the opposite. Time is running out for her and she showing she has no sense or maturity. Also run from any woman talking this pie in the sky nonsense about manifesting and law of attraction. You let her into your life, she will destroy it with this crap. She'll spend all your money on designer bags and red bottoms, then when you demand she stop, she'll tell you she's going to manifest your money back, and the bag that is for her, is for her. It's her destiny. No joke. This is literally how these people conduct their lives.
Her bad decisions led to her having child with the wrong man; therefore her decisions can also cripple any opportunity finding her soulmate... Mind blown
She outlines the exact issue with women today. They have been told and fundamentally believe do not add value. Men are just an after thought once they do them we will just be there waiting for them. Fellas its up to us to address & change this narrative. Don't be victim tonyour sexual urges, set your boundaries, vocalize your beliefs & demand you respect.
Why do women sit up here and talk to a man that does not have a relationship and has 2 failed marriages and 1 year ago had a man in his bed on his live so he is not even living or telling his own truths
@@kimpearson5733 lol go back to real-estate school. Jk but seriously keep watching and open your mind. We need strong families out here and with how you think, nothing strong will come to you.
I had an argument today with a dear friend who told me he was dating a single mother of 2, he told me he was over that relationship. I said "that was the best thing you've done". He got kind of upset with me, but I know he'll understand in time. No man should ever consider having a serious relationship with a single mother, period (for more context, he's NEVER been married, nor has he had any significant amount of relationships, does not have children, either). The biggest issue with modern women is that they believe a man has no inherent value by himself. They think a man's real value comes after they get into a relationship with a woman - which is an absolutely insane train of thought that society in general has ingrained into women's minds.
Being a greedy person will allow me to become a better person and be more giving. And after I go through my sloth stage it will teach me the value of hard work and then after my gluttony stage it will teach me the importance of a healthy body. This is like mental asylum levels of logic here.
@themusicman2005 Exactly. I always think to myself, "If he "ain't shit" and wasn't good enough for marriage why permanently tie yourself to a man by having his seed?" Now, she will have to deal with him for 18 years through the court system or 18 years of "coparenting"
Women prime years are between 19 to 28 to lock down a good man. After 30 you are gambling, and after 33 women don’t have no physical value to a man if he wants kids. After 33 she is set in her ways and won’t change. Dealing with single mothers that are 30 plus is a bad deal. They don’t want to have your kids but wants you to be responsible for there’s. It’s so sad how destroyed these sisters minds are. They don’t see the error in there ways, so sad.
i disagree, i'd say 16 to 21; 25 if they don't do hookup culture. The problem is rising expectations for said potential husband through experiences with other men, and emotional imprinting. a woman at 26 is set in her ways, why would i bother with a 28 yo if i'd want to have children and have the time to get to know her, a woman would be 33 at the earliest after 5 years of relationship. They expect a ready made nest at that age, that's another issue, it's hugely disrespectful.
@Johnathan Lee Agreed. It's selfish, not only toward the next man who signs up to deal with her. But, it's also selfish toward the child... who will suffer as a result of that decision. I see it within my own family, especially with older single mothers. A lot of them are not willing to have any more children, but will want to date/marry a man and expect him to raise another man's child without providing anything in return. It's truly a cycle of dysfunction.
KS should do a show on the gov. assistance these mothers receive. If a single mother receives ANY govt. assistance you are not independent. Never. No way.
she want to provide less 10% of the financial burden while bringing a whole ass child with her to another man and want him to invest in a child that isnt his cant make this stuff up
@Victor Sandoval Agreed. A lot of women need to change their mindset. You can't make a whole bunch of demands without bringing anything to the table. You have to be realistic and fair. It shows that she's selfish. Most importantly, the child is the only one who suffers.
Avoid any wmn that's over 25 & doesn't know what she wants or is still trying to play the field/be selfish. That's the mentality of someone who thinks like an immature teenager & doesn't realize the major uphill battle she's in for.
25 is already too old. Very rush. Calculate in the dating years, marriage and honeymoon, she would be 30 by that time. Even 23 is too old. Ideally, 21 or below
The only problem I have with Kevin suggesting therapy, is that the modern mental health sphere has also been infected with this sort of stuff. If she sees a younger therapist, they will only tell her that everything she is doing is correct and that she should ‘live life for herself’
I was banging a "mental health" provider. We popped Molly and drank wine daily. I had to drop her. She had a big client base and they were mostly younger women.
@Max AI Agreed. I never thought about it from that perspective, but that's a good point. I've heard many women (even in my own family) say, "Do what's right for you. Live your best life. If it makes you happy, then that's all that matters." But, it can be dangerous to base all of your emotions off of this. Sometimes, the truth isn't what we want to hear, but it's what we need to hear. It seems like there's also a bit of not wanting to break "girl code."
Yes. They forget they have children and act as if they are single single......once THEY decide to have that child they have to realize that it's not just themselves they are responsible for.
Their thinking is like a child. Do whatever and no consequences. The want to hit the rest buttons when the game is messed up. They only care about the kids when it comes to family court.
@@luvbig41 thats why alot of their relationships with the father end, becuase they have the kid and then they want to be selfish and focus on their wants and needs rather than whats best for their family
Lmao its a great thing really . Kinda crazy when you think about it most of these women would be in the club every weekend looking for their new “king🥰😍🥵” for the next 3 months if they didn’t have a kid to look after
Some men are selfish but you're a single mom/flight attendant. You've chosen a career that is not only geared towards younger women but also keeps you away from home on a regular basis. Who's raising the kid?
These women refuse to give up on the dream until they wake up in a nightmare. I think women should start with being nice to eligible men and they will see a big turn around.
@John Haney they call it settling because it's not who they want. You could be a good looking guy with your shit together and you still not be enough for them.
This woman really thinks when she's ready, she can snap her fingers and Prince Charming who wants to raise her kid will appear. That's not a dream, that's a fantasy. There's a reason why Cinderella is referred to as a fairytale.
That’s the part that people like her don’t think about. There’s a man out there that’s meant for me…. And I’m going to make him wait until I’m good and ready to be with him….. AND I’m bringing someone else’s kid(s).
Cinderella was younger, childless, selfless and joyfully cleaned and acted like a lady...This chick wants to be a Fairytale's Fairytale....the Disney Delusion is real🤦🏾♀️
Unfortunately when a woman’s child grows up (past 5-8) years old, the mother tends to take that as a sign to get back in the streets or let’s just say her old ways. These bad ways btw are what lead to being in this situation
As a parent, you Can't be Selfish when you have a Child. Your Children come first until they are capable of taking care of themselves! I mean how can you take care of a child, when your job requires you to Travel, and you're not married???😨
She says she's "proud to he selfish", what's SELFISH is to be thinking of herself meanwhile her daughter is growing up without the love and discipline of a FATHER
Everyone has a plan and idea. Yet practically no one acts on it because they use it as another form of procrastination and a basic response to everyone who ask, how do you plan to retire. Welp, more room at the top for action takers. Be strong and stay focused fellas.
Speaking from experience. A lot of single mothers act selfishly and do not even realize it. They do not know how much the kids suffer because the kids love their mom too much to say anything.
Speaking from observational experience here. Oh alot of them know damn well how selfish they are. They often know also how much damage they do to their kids, but it is me me me, me. Delusional.
@@RisingKing1024 A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. Kids are smart and piece the puzzle together, especially as they get older. They start to realize the truth and reality of how they were born and which type of situation they've been born into. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
@@davidmiletic6647 The most damaging thing to do to a child is bring it carelessly into these types of messy situations in the 1st place. The child will only be collateral damage of that decision and is the only true victim. Selfish as hell. A cycle of dysfunction.
You couldn’t pay me to go toe to toe with KS on live. These women embarrass themselves in front of thousands-millions 🥴. You can’t go out into the world looking for a man with A+ standards when you yourself are below average. Also, ‘the law of attraction’ doesn’t just drop things into your lap because you think about it. Edit: I knew she was gonna say Beyoncé. Lol
KS shows time and time again that modern women really think that whenever they’re ready the life they want will come. They really think marriage,family can happen at any age. imagine being 30 and wanting to be selfish.
@troyforce2 McKinney Unfortunately, some people choose to learn the hard way. Some younger women might have hope (for those who listen) But, a lot of older women are too far gone and don't want to take accountability. It's a mindset. Sad to see.
Yep I was just mentioning this is a textbook chameleon, single mom flight attendant, who says she wants two more kids which I really don't believe at all. Sounds like she's enjoying her freedom and there's no way she would quit that job for a man and she is pretty much admitted it
Women seem to point to Russell Wilson as the man they aspire to or Ciara and Russell Wilson as the couple they aspire to. However, it’s funny to me that NOBODY was checking for Russell Wilson before he was in a relationship with Ciara.
That's because these modern women are trying to follow in Ciara's footsteps... "If Ciara can get knocked up by a thug rapper and still get a high value man so can the average woman" In other words, she said Russell Wilson because she's looking for her Russell Wilson just like the majority of these modern single mothers
She’s the quintessential DMV modern day woman; trading off of her looks until shit hits the wall. How does she really believe she can be selfish and call it self love? Sounds like Kevin was right, therapy therapy therapy.
@Rawi La YASHARAHLA YAHAWASHI Is Coming Back 144K The majority of women who come with an attitude of “I’m in my selfie season” are snotty and brat-ish due to a high opinion of themselves. To each there own, I’m not here to judge.
My single mom went to uni while I was homeless in Detroit. I'm 33 & only had 1 GF for 3 years. My mom had 12 BFs since she divorced my dad(locked me out), had a kid when I was 19. Lived with her mom & went to uni while I was homeless since 17. I never went to 2nd grade, readings hard. Said she would homeschool us in the 90s & was on AOL over 40s chats with vodka screwdrivers. Where she met my kid sisters dad. I will never date an "independent women". Raising my mother in her 50s has been hard. But now that shes in her 60's she's growing into a good adult woman who accepts responsibility now that SHES working long hospital hours. I will never respect a woman that doesn't respect my experience, knowledge, or wisdom I've forcibly developed. IF I say no, Its NO. If you wanna hear why, take a seat, get some popcorn & a drink. Cause by the time I'm done explaining I may need a Xanax or a joint.
@@Y1001 yeapppp , And that's why that was so hilarious to him, I just knew they would pull out the real estate I meet girls that say this shit on dates all the time the real estate is their Swiss Army knife
Today I made a similar video ranting about single moms and them acting like I’m lucky to be there. Somebody suggested I check this guy out. Not disappointed and now I’m a subscriber.
So she thinks she can go to the man store, and buy herself a man/relationship. Do women view men like accessories like their clothes and stuff? If she's going to treat relationships like getting a pet, I would just recommend her to get a pet instead of ruining some dude's life.
@@johnbrowntheprophet Or B Actors willing to participate in her play and then discard them when she can catch the attention of a well-known actor who falls for her BS acting that she was a 'victim'.
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 FACTS. Too many women need to change their mindset. If she's the victim in every situation, something is not right within her. It shows no accountability. I even see it within my own family. It's selfish.
No most women view unserious men like children. They exist to prove they can get someone but they don’t believe in you. They just discipline them. They’re an ego boost
I would never feel sorry for a selfish mother much less a woman. You can't want a relationship and behave like you're selfish, that's very contradicting. I thought God said that we should share unless chicks who are selfish don't believe in the most high.
Women only believe in god when it serves them. As you see from this video, she says “when im in a relationship im worried about making the other person happy.” That’s not healthy, that’s codependent behavior 101
@@louissaunders912 exactly and furthermore we can't make anybody to be happy. Happiness comes from within. That's her problem, worrying about making the other person happy. That's ridiculous
@@thedeanogaming Welp, you can't save them all. Some people refuse to listen. It's sad. The only one who suffers from these careless decisions is the innocent child. And then they grow up and continue the cycle of dysfunction because it's never been addressed.
Women only wants the promises/ benefits from the most high the same as from the men, they will not submitted to man or the most high! Only to them selves & the serpent!!!
The irony of using the "Law of Attraction/Speaking selfish desires into existence" is that once they want a husband at an older age, they forget how many times they themselves told "the universe" "they don't need no man." If they truly believe that crap, they will agree they have self-sabotaged their own dreams.
@V R It's insane. It's only a defense mechanism because they can't deal with reality. They only say they enjoy being single and independent because it sounds good. But, the outcome speaks for itself.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 women don't like rejection or taking Ls. This woman is cute but even the Big Shirley's that call in will say their standards are too high or they don't want to settle. I think a lot of women just figure a kid and pretending to be religious can replace the need for a man.
@@davyjones2032 Words of Wisdom bro. It definitely is mind-boggling behavior. People are social animals, especially women (at least traditionally). Whenever a woman has 20 cats or 8 dogs, it makes me think... there's no way she's truly happy. She has to be using that as a substitute for something. My own cousin became a single mom at 26 and recently got pregnant at 40. The 2nd time around she knew the due had 3 baby mamas. She now has a 15 year old and a 2 year old. She is now dating again. She's been telling my mom about her dates for 15 years now. None of her relationships have worked out and she always complains about something that the guy did. She usually says nothing wrong about her own shortcomings and tries to pretend like it doesn't bother her not having a man. She says stuff like, "I'm not tripping. Plenty of fish in the sea. He can kiss my black ass. I'm too good for that." I don't know if she realizes it, but she comes off as very combative and disagreeable. I think she decided to have the baby because she was lonely/desperate. But, now that the dust has settled... she wants a romantic relationship. Why else would a woman with a teenager and toddler find the time to still be dating if the baby was fulfilling her? In my heart of hearts, I think my cousin wants an escape from being a single mother and regrets it. She has also recently found out that the toddler has autism. So, that's why I say that I'm not sure where she's finding the time commitment to go on all these different dates. It seems like she has a lot on her plate.
didnt see the whole live but towards the end when he asked her what her profession would be to raise her retirement money i swear i thought "oh god please dont say real estate" and got dammit she went there LOL. Kevin is too damn good at this. Keep thrse convos going. you're truly doing God's work.
@@scotttracy9333 A lot of women have a side hustle, but they refer to it as a business. I'm not trying to belittle anybody by saying that either. Outside of hair, lashes, and nails... what new technology or invention has been created that society can use? I see it all over instagram
"Yeah, I'm a 30yo flight attendant. I'm just gonna have a couple selfish years and then find a Russell Wilson in time to retire and have 2 more kids before I'm 35." Yeah, I think not.
Interesting that you say that. Even before she said she was a flight attendant that's what I thought her job was. The scarf around the neck and the background of a bunch of chairs like in an airport terminal led me there. See also the people walking behind her @ 6:01 when they are talking about her profession. It *kinda* looks like the baggage claim are of DCA (Reagan National Airport, DC), but I could be wrong there. In any case, I dont think see was lying about being a flight attendant...unless she's a gate attendant instead. Either way, I thought she worked for the airlines even before she said it.
@@123pb Well, and actuall IRL friend of mine does it. Sometimes the kids are with their dad. Other times it's the grandparents. She has regular routes though, back and forth, that get her home most nights.
@@Hostyl176 If you knew, studied and allowed yourself to think, rather than talk just to hear yourself speak; you'd know what to look for when a person is F.O.S. Based on your comment, you obviously can't. Enough said....
Kevin: “What’s your profession?” Single Mama: “I was in school for nursing.” Kevin: “What is your profession?’ Single Mama: “I’m in the airline industry.” Kevin: “So you’re a flight attendant?” Single Mama: “Yes.” You can’t make this shit up. 😂
she is lying about being a flight attendant, she simply works at the boarding gate. If she lies about something that simple, what wouldn't she lie about.
@@realascanb222 it's very obvious...firstly, when you ask a FA what he/she does, they respond "i'm a FA" not a bs answer like "i'm in the airline industry"...second, FAs don't have time to sit around casually in the airport to listen and call KS...third, the most obvious one is around half way through the conversation you clearly hear her walkie talkie going off, Flight Attendants don't have walkie talkies, Gate Attendants do!
It's so hilarious to see her defend her selfishness so valiantly and then turn around and throw out the jab about how men are selfish. Girl, please... Thanks to the Godfather for calling her out on it immediately.
@Jeffrey Fahie It's a defense mechanism because she has no accountability. The outcome and the way she speaks clearly says that she's selfish. Sad to see.
I just wanted to say your last live show was very moving and needed to be said. It was that very moment in the end that the daughters of abused households needed an apology from the mother's! Now it's getting good, it's the under lining issues of so many men and woman who suffer. I applaud you for your content and your efforts towards bringing light to all the situations of the black community! Mr. Samuel's you are a voice use your God given gifts! Thank you
@JanayiaLove It's selfish. The only true victim is the child and of course, the child always suffers from it. But, accountability is the 1st step toward improvement. It's sad because it's a cycle of dysfunction.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 I whole heartily agree with you. Yes extremely selfish, don't realize overtime the damage the Mother's has caused the children by then it's too late.
@@janayialove4414 Exactly. I don't wish bad upon anybody because we all make good choices and bad choices. But, we all earn the outcome of our choices. I never paid much attention to it until I started watching these podcasts, but we have some healing to do. It's a mindset. I even see it within my own family. It's not even completely the choice that was made, but also changing the mindset. It's just sad when people not only refuse to listen, but refuse to change. With some people, the only thing you can learn is what not to do. Hopefully, as the children grow older, they can break the cycle. Peace and blessings to you!
I was having a similar conversation with a mother of 5. She believes she deserves a man of God who doesn't drink, smoke, cuss, earns 6 figures.. etc. You cannot reason with these women. The father is an addict who got out of prison when she married him. Why do they wreck their lives and want to drag a man down with them? I want to feel sorry for their delusion, but I can't.
I have a question for the ladies...I am 39 and have no kids....IS IT POSSIBLE To FIND A BLACK WOMAN BETWEEN tHE AGE OF 27-32 WIThOUT ANY KIDS or is that wishful thinking? THIS SHIt IS SAD>>....SO MANY SINGLE BLACK MOTHERS IN THAT AGE RANGE
@jude ayo You have to focus like a laser on the outcome that you want. There's 7 billion people in the world, I'm sure you can fine one without kids (if that's what you want). You just have to learn how to deal with and expand your options. If she's not on the same page as you, don't waste your time. Focus like a laser and ask the tough questions when you go on dates. If you want marriage, let that be known. If you don't want to deal with single moms, let that be known. Maybe even date a younger woman or explore different cultures. There's always somebody out there who's just like you. Just gotta find her and be selective. It's like an interview process.
I'm 25 without any and every chick around my age has kid(s). It's one thing if they're married but majority of them aren't. I don't get how people are just making babies like it's no big deal.
@@missk6040 Yup. FACTS! . I'm 22 and when you start hitting 25-30, it becomes more common. It's only been 5 years since we graduated high school and a few of my classmates already have kids and baby daddy/mama drama. Kids are very expensive, and take up a lot of time and energy. So, I've never understood making babies just for the sake of it. On top of that, if the other person "ain't shit", then why make a permanent attachment in the form of a child? Especially if they weren't even good enough for marriage (something that's supposed to be life-long). I've even heard people say, "Well, at least I created life. Can you even have kids?" They will try to convince you that it doesn't matter how a child gets here, who you choose to have the child with, or which type of situation a child is born into. But, that is nothing but foolishenss. Either way somebody tries to spin it, it's dysfunctional. I see these types of situations all the time and it never comes out pretty. The child always ends up becoming the collateral damage of a reckless decision. It's unfortunate. Having a baby is not picking out a puppy.
Amazing! ....another young woman that sounds absolutely ridiculous... She's definitely common on this show....Men won't marry this type, or anything close to it.
Kevin you picked a fantastic market to go into because at the rate that these women perform you will never be out of a job. It's mind-boggling everyday these women come up and make complete fools of themselves. It's the new normal though you have a great day sir keep on keeping on.
I keep saying it that Beyonce, alongside her sidekick Rihanna have a whole lot of things to answer for with regards to the harm that they have brought upon the black community.
@@123pb Someone pls explain to me how a felon is able to use the proceeds of his "ill-gotten" gains to start up a record company. Wouldn't the authority have seized his assets, if he indeed was this so-called big time drug dealer with a criminal record?
@@robsome2946 money laundering and statute of limitations I’d imagine Isn’t it like 7 years in America? First album dropped in 1996 so if he got out the game in 88 he’d be ok? Also a bit of money laundering/performing at clubs/paid for verses etc roll that into a small label, release a few singles and plough that back into it Possible but incredibly hard Get another bigger label to underwrite your finances by leveraging masters etc Like I said not easy but possible Maybe one in 50,000 could pull it off because of all the facets you’d need to make it work Good connect, pay an extra 20k per brick on 100 bricks and get them to finance your label for 1 million as a loan you never pay back or sell them your retail operation That’s just off the top of my head ways it could be done
@@robsome2946 lol a felon. I don't think Jay Z probably ever did a day in jail🤣🤣🤣🤣 He rapped about how he "used to sell drugs' and tbh he was exaggerating that.
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Isn’t it amazing after a woman has a child becomes a single mom all of a sudden they have standards. Can’t make this stuff up.
😂😂😂 So true!!! And what’s even more amazing is that she puts all of her personal flaws on a public platform!!! 😂😂😂
My thing is have those standards when you don’t have a child 🤣🤣not after the kid is born.
Step up you simps and make her whole. She is natural😍
But I find amazing is these women raise their standards that's like putting a car on the market for a higher price after it's been in an accident and racked up mileage
@@shonuffizhere5670 that ain’t my job
For a generation of women who claim they can't find a good man, they sure do get pregnant a lot.
😂😂😂 So true!!! 😂😂😂
They chose the bad boy to get pregnant and the good men got skipped because he's boring.
😂😂😂
Facts
Hello!!! Exactly
She doesn’t understand that once she has a child that “selfish” option went out of the window. She’s harming her child and doesn’t even realize it-or care.
my mom, had 6 pregnancies and 4 children, myself being the 4th, with a narcissistic alcoholic husband. My dad told her after child 3, my brother, he didn't want to have more kids. My mom in her eternal selfishness had me anyway and subjected me to the same abuse, chaos and dysfunction the other 3 were subjected to. Sounds like so many selfish women, never thinking about anything but themselves....not even their children, just like the sky waitress. Had a kid too early, now the kid has to pay for it, while mom is absent 50% of the time, being a flight attendant
Most women don't actually give two shits about their children. Women make children, men raise them.
Me, I'm trying to understand how she cares for a child while being a flight attendant. Isn't she out of town half of her life? How does that work?
Well she doesn’t care about harming her child, she’s selfish remember
She’s too worry about “ having a hot girl summer”
Don't date single mothers or marry one. Bad investment. 🏃 Run.
Good advice, you would always be number two. If she has a dog, you’d never be more than number three.
U can date them. Just don’t take them seriously
@@thesupervisor3270never date or invest money with these selfish women
Real facts
@@kingjamesmayo8232 definitely
Considering that she's a flight attendant, I'm betting that someone else is raising her kid while she does her job. That's why she can say that she's having her "selfish years" as a single mother.
@MisterB A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." But, if the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) that came out of him would have to be a mistake too. Because if she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant, and given birth to one of his seeds, and then... there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it's indirectly saying that the child is a mistake without actually coming out and directly having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire situation.
The only reason why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, people would have no problem with calling their bd/bm a mistake without feeling bad about it. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and there'e really no getting around it or trying to separate it from that choice/outcome/baby daddy. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. It's word semantics and sugarcoating to "pretty it up". But you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, my apple is a blessing that came from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? If the apple seed was a mistake, the apple itself wouldn't exist? It would be like a Christian saying they love Jesus, but they have hatred for God and the virgin Mary? It's like a Muslim saying they love the Quran, but hate Muhammad? If you get my drift... Honestly, the kid is the only true victim. And it might sound messed up, but the child is only going to be the collateral damage of that decision and will feel the burn of it.
Exactly. No way a flight attendant can raise a kid on their own it’s too much travel time
Flight attendants get it in too! Probably got a few different dudes in different states too 🤦🏾♂️
Selfish and children don't mix.
@@jamalmatthews4854 Appreciate it bro! I'm not even trying to be mean, but it has always sounded like they are trying to rationalize something that can't be rationalized. I never paid much attention to the single motherhood issue and being "selfish".... until I started watching these podcasts. I've even started noticing it within my own family. Don't get me wrong. There are some extreme circumstances where a woman is forced into single motherhood. But, most of the time, it is a choice. Widows do not make up the overwhelming majority of single mothers.
It's truly only a way of emotionally protecting the child. I've noticed it more from single mothers making those type of statements. They will say that their baby daddy was a mistake or a bad choice, but that the baby is a blessing. It's only because they don't want to admit that getting pregnant was a mistake and it's selfish. They don't want the child to feel unwanted or like a mistake. But, when you look at the outcome of the situation and the way they describe their baby daddy.... that's exactly what it is. You can't say that your child's father is a mistake/bad choice, but the child is a blessing. The child came out of him (literally). So, if he didn't exist, her child wouldn't exist either. So, by default... the child would also have to be a mistake. They will never say it out loud though. If you've ever heard single mothers say these types of things, they are lying and trying to sugarcoat reality and downplay how bad it is. Let me rephrase that. It's selfish to get pregnant by an unworthy man who wasn't even good enough to marry. And if the relationship was already "toxic", then what good will come from purposefully bringing a child into that type of situation? Why tie yourself to that man permanently? And deal with him for 18 years through the court system or 18 years of coparenting... with a man you consider to be a mistake? Can't make this stuff up.
A mother, by definition, cannot and should not be selfish. She’s for the streets.
That’s why they’re not called mothers! They’re called single mothers… Totally different definition.🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
She called in earlier in the show, said her age was "old enough" then ran away...not surprised by this conversation
@@dentindahousee9635 Brutal.
They are selfish. Don’t take leftovers from anyone
@@robsawyer8034 A lot of people get angry when they hear the term "leftovers" and when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing.
And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other?
It's sad because kids are smart and when they get older, they start to piece the puzzle together for themselves (kids can also tell when you're bullsh*tting them) The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
Pretty sure she had selfish years from 16-24. She's a grown ass woman who has the mindset of a teen.
@T Bennett Exactly. But, a lot of women with that mindset will never see it that way. Truth be told... a lot of these single mothers are too far gone to help. Because they refuse to listen and have no self-accountability. There's also a difference between being a single mother due to circumstance versus choice. (i.e. a widow would be a single mother due to circumstance). Kevin is trying to get these women to understand that by purposefully having a baby out of wedlock by an unworthy man who wasn't even good enough to marry.... it will only make her life harder (and make dating/marriage) harder as well. Because the next man who enters into that situation will be paying a higher price than the baby daddy.
The man who got her pregnant was able to not only have sex with her, but she pushed out an unworthy man's seed for a man who didn't even have to wife her. Most men (with common sense) would not want to blindly enter into that type of situation with a woman who has no accountability. Because the only one who will suffer and be the collateral damage of that decision is the child. The outcome speaks volumes of how selfish it is to do such a thing. And the sad part is that some people will still try to convince themselves that "things happen" or "the situation will work itself out." It's like a defense mechanism because they are living in denial and don't want to acknowledge there reality that they are living. So, they sugarcoat it to make it sound better than what it really is.
Exactly
Modern women are children with boobs
Is 16-24 your preference?
@@myisglim7801 Why? How old are you?
She tried to hide behind the law of attraction, but when KS mentioned she and the child’s father would be perfect for each other since they’re both selfish, “we are what we attract. ”GOTEEEEEM I died laughing 🤣🤣🤣
Law of Attraction works big time, but it takes a lot of work and discipline.
These females don’t have the consistency. They are too chaotic.
I used Law of Attraction to get jacked. The weights got a lot easier, and my body started to recover a lot faster.
I still had to lift the weights, though.
@@truthinyan9050 I never said the LOA didn’t work. You’re missing the point. You can’t wish yourself into a positive outcome and continue the same behavior that brought you there. It’s like saying you want to lose weight but won’t exercise and change your diet. She simply created a reality distortion field around the question and wished the desired outcome would happen without taking accountability for what created the situation.
Whenever they talk about spirituality, grand rising, zodiac signs and all that other stuff, run. They only get that way after they have nothing else to connect to
@@robsawyer8034 It's scary that some women talk this way and actually believe their own lies. I see it within my own family. Whenever my female cousins talk to my mom, they always bring up their zodiac signs and try to use it to explain a man's behavior. It seems borderline crazy. It's like not living in reality.
@@forddreamsdofly546 A lot of people create deflections because they can't handle the truth. If they were forced to look at themselves and take accountability, it would hurt them. It might come off "harsh" to some people, but we choose our consequences when we make our choices based on our own free-will. Every outcome is only the domino effect of a decision that was made prior (besides situations that involve extreme circumstances).
OMG he murdered her with the question of “why do you have another man’s child?”
FATALITY!
“I was young” must be the go to excuse. Heard it many times.
Kevin: What is your profession?
Her: I went to school for nursing.
Kevin: What is your profession?
Her: I'm in the airlines profession.
Kevin: So you're a flight attendant?
Her: Yes.
Broad, why didn't you just say flight attendant when he first asked you? So many women try to make extra regular stuff sound like more than what it is. I guess that's the physical manifestation of having an inflated sense of self worth.
@Keenan Smith If they have to beat around the bush, they were already lying. It gives them enough time to stall because it's a defense mechanism. They don't want to admit the truth because they are living in denial. They are not operating in a world of reality.
Women love titles because they love the appearance of things. I always make the joke that I would let my job change my job to “shit eater” for a 20% raise.
@@Mike_M. as a mother it those jobs would be far more respectable for her
Whoever came up with the analogy that, "Mens minds are like waffles....womens minds are like a plate of spaghetti..."
@@Mike_M. 😂🤣😂🤣
When she said only one man is destined for me, and Kevin said why did you have another man's child, I was dead!
Because you gotta cut that BS at the source
@Dominic Holloway A lot of people get angry when they hear the term "leftovers" and when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing.
And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other?
The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 once you crush that fairy tale story that’s when all hell break loose
@@Cashmomey When you say "crush the fairy" what do you mean? I'm not really understanding the reference.
Man shut the front door I’m laughing at work 😭😭🤣🤣🤣
The craziest part about all of this, is women like her don’t know nor realize they’re embarrassing themselves. They’ll proceed to do what they do even after Kevin gives them sound advice.
@Mark-Anthony J It's like the age-old saying goes, "There's an easy way and a hard way to learn things. Some people choose to learn the hard way." I don't know why some people refuse to self-reflect. It's the only way to improve.
They deal exclusively in the realm of absurdity and illusion. Pseudo reality at best.
& their 🐦 🧠 will reinforce the and affirm the nonsense they’re up to
The only actual solution to this would literally be to take away their ability to choose to live that way.
Most come for attention or are seeking “cheat codes”. I’m starting to believe high mortality rates before modern medicine was natures way of keeping these chaos factories in check. I know it sounds horrible but like Putin; some just wanna set the world on fire, and others need the fire smacked out of them.
At 24, I was a college graduate in the second year of my career. Me, being "selfish" meant not knocking up any woman and establishing a foundation for my future, not using youth as an excuse for poor decisions and actions.
Your selfish sounds like responsible course of action.
@@Shushkin I'm twice as old now and when you reach my age, having done the right things for yourself, you will see how the proper "selfishness" can pay off for you. You only get to be young once. Take FULL advantage of it for the better.
@Atenciosamente, Kermit 🇧🇷 I have no idea what you're trying to say here.
At 24 I was nearing my second deployment responsible for the lives of 20 soldiers. 24 isn’t young.
"Not using youth as an excuse for poor decisions and actions" is my new quote 👌
My sister who was married and divorced 3 times ended up a single mom. When my niece was 13 her mom decided not to be a mom anymore so she can go chase men and pills. Our mother took over finishing raising my niece. She’s 22 now and where her mom calls or text she gets no response but when grandma calls or texts she respond right away. My niece won’t forget how things went down.
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☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝
✚𝟏𝟒𝟎𝟓𝟖𝟕𝟏𝟖𝟖𝟔𝟏✔
ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦◦◦◦◦◦◦◦◦
Crazy I was kicking with a chick like that. After talking to her a while I found out she left her whole family behind to party and run the streets. I cut her off immediately. Last I heard, she was on drugs and selling her 😺
So the man who she is DESTINED to be with was made to be a stepfather 🤯🤯🤯 Female logic 2022 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@Jay-all-day They're all reading from the same playbook. They think men should sign up to deal with anything. I see it within my own family. It's selfish.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 deeper than just selfish darn right irresponsible and need a clean up man because they don't know how to make great decisions
Just like poor Joseph
Sheesh
@@ShameenYakubu this proves the old saying 100% true. Alpha seed... Beta need!!!
Her, like most women, confidence comes from the fact that so many men will gladly accept leftovers with baggage. Once those men begin to have standards, you’ll see the true consequences
@Rob Sawyer If a lot of men stopped messing with women who have no accountability, it would be a rude awakening. They will be left dealing with their child's father and forced to accept the reality of it.
I pray I see the day. I know two dudes, both of whom love hitting on these types of women. They go for single mother's only. So I stopped hanging out with both of them.
@@reitum.9950 curious, are they wifing these women or only sleeping with them?
This is true but it's fool's gold. If loses the selfishness and doesn't see a guy who makes decent money as settling she can absolutely find someone. Women seem to know plenty of men will smash but that attention also gives them a false sense of leverage. The fact that she's saying she'll be a wife for "the right guy" says enough honestly. That almost comes off like a man that can "handle her".
I don't even think they accept leftovers they just don't mind getting sex with no commitment
She over 30 with a child talking about some damn “selfish years” that’s hilarious 😂
THANK YOUU!!! She already has one child talking about she wants to have 2 more ??? Mind you she has already had a child science is already against her
Facts 😂 talking about she hasn’t tried yet 😂 god damn
Ikr
She thinks she can turn this mentality on and off, just like they think their femininity can be conditional. If she's selfish now, she will be selfish in the middle of marriage once the honey moon period wears off, or anytime things aren't going the way she wants. She'll just make everything about herself cause that's all she's about.
At 30, and after 6 years of being a mother, the fact that she hasn't matured to having this understanding is something else. She's not even smart enough to hide it. If you're vetting a woman, and you ask her why she waited till 32 to start dating with intention, and she tells you I had to spend the the last 2 years in a selfish phase, RUUUN! This is who she is. They don't get better, and less selfish and less demanding as they get older. Quite the opposite. Time is running out for her and she showing she has no sense or maturity.
Also run from any woman talking this pie in the sky nonsense about manifesting and law of attraction. You let her into your life, she will destroy it with this crap. She'll spend all your money on designer bags and red bottoms, then when you demand she stop, she'll tell you she's going to manifest your money back, and the bag that is for her, is for her. It's her destiny. No joke. This is literally how these people conduct their lives.
Well these last 6 years been her selfish years 😭😭😭
"I want to be selfish"
You don't get to be selfish, you're a parent shut your mouth and raise your kid.
Her: “you’re funny”
Kevin: “no you’re common”
😂😂❤️❤️
The Godfather, Undefeated for eternity 💪
Remember your out there making yourself better while she is taking "selfish years". Men don't ever get "selfish years". Men always have to produce.
Women heal,Men rebuilt. Women are on a journey, men are on their purpose
Her bad decisions led to her having child with the wrong man; therefore her decisions can also cripple any opportunity finding her soulmate... Mind blown
And she's a flight attendant I'm trying to understand how she's going to meet a man with that type of career
@@JDMHaze She's gonna fly from D 2 D !
@@mikelarry2602 most likely
Nah, it’s somehow black man’s fault. We’re broke and dusty cause of her decision’s. Let’s be real for once, it’s always a mans fault. SIKE!
@@Dee-ye2dk Yep. When has a woman today ever taken accountability for her actions or decisions?
She outlines the exact issue with women today. They have been told and fundamentally believe do not add value. Men are just an after thought once they do them we will just be there waiting for them. Fellas its up to us to address & change this narrative. Don't be victim tonyour sexual urges, set your boundaries, vocalize your beliefs & demand you respect.
VERY well said.
Why do women sit up here and talk to a man that does not have a relationship and has 2 failed marriages and 1 year ago had a man in his bed on his live so he is not even living or telling his own truths
@@kimpearson5733 lol go back to real-estate school. Jk but seriously keep watching and open your mind. We need strong families out here and with how you think, nothing strong will come to you.
👍 ✔ true
I had an argument today with a dear friend who told me he was dating a single mother of 2, he told me he was over that relationship. I said "that was the best thing you've done". He got kind of upset with me, but I know he'll understand in time.
No man should ever consider having a serious relationship with a single mother, period (for more context, he's NEVER been married, nor has he had any significant amount of relationships, does not have children, either).
The biggest issue with modern women is that they believe a man has no inherent value by himself.
They think a man's real value comes after they get into a relationship with a woman - which is an absolutely insane train of thought that society in general has ingrained into women's minds.
Being a greedy person will allow me to become a better person and be more giving. And after I go through my sloth stage it will teach me the value of hard work and then after my gluttony stage it will teach me the importance of a healthy body. This is like mental asylum levels of logic here.
"Me being selfish will prepare me to be selfless for a man" Dang I've heard it ALL NOW! 😂😭
When she said she's in the "Airline Industry" and KS said "Sky Waitress" I hit the floor.
@Bryan A He already knew she was lying. It makes you wonder... what else is she lying about?
Guest: "Some men are selfish"
KS: "But you're a selfish woman, so that would have been perfect"
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, pot meet kettle
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@themusicman2005 Exactly. I always think to myself, "If he "ain't shit" and wasn't good enough for marriage why permanently tie yourself to a man by having his seed?" Now, she will have to deal with him for 18 years through the court system or 18 years of "coparenting"
Women prime years are between 19 to 28 to lock down a good man. After 30 you are gambling, and after 33 women don’t have no physical value to a man if he wants kids. After 33 she is set in her ways and won’t change. Dealing with single mothers that are 30 plus is a bad deal. They don’t want to have your kids but wants you to be responsible for there’s. It’s so sad how destroyed these sisters minds are. They don’t see the error in there ways, so sad.
i disagree, i'd say 16 to 21; 25 if they don't do hookup culture. The problem is rising expectations for said potential husband through experiences with other men, and emotional imprinting. a woman at 26 is set in her ways, why would i bother with a 28 yo if i'd want to have children and have the time to get to know her, a woman would be 33 at the earliest after 5 years of relationship. They expect a ready made nest at that age, that's another issue, it's hugely disrespectful.
@@ray076NL very true
Nah they choose to ignore it. I don’t feel sorry for anyone of them.
@Johnathan Lee Agreed. It's selfish, not only toward the next man who signs up to deal with her. But, it's also selfish toward the child... who will suffer as a result of that decision. I see it within my own family, especially with older single mothers. A lot of them are not willing to have any more children, but will want to date/marry a man and expect him to raise another man's child without providing anything in return. It's truly a cycle of dysfunction.
@@ray076NLYou're looking at children purv
KS should do a show on the gov. assistance these mothers receive. If a single mother receives ANY govt. assistance you are not independent. Never. No way.
He’s dead bro
She had the nerve to say: next” when he went silent. Typical
Modern woman.
Kevin showed an immense amount of patience with this woman. He is truly missed.
She’s doing men a favor. Everyone is not meant for marriage. She’ll be divorced after 3 years if she did get married. She’s all about herself.
That's fine until it comes to an innocent child and it affects their upbringing and mental health.
she want to provide less 10% of the financial burden while bringing a whole ass child with her to another man and want him to invest in a child that isnt his cant make this stuff up
@Victor Sandoval Agreed. A lot of women need to change their mindset. You can't make a whole bunch of demands without bringing anything to the table. You have to be realistic and fair. It shows that she's selfish. Most importantly, the child is the only one who suffers.
Just don't WillySmithy it.
Avoid any wmn that's over 25 & doesn't know what she wants or is still trying to play the field/be selfish. That's the mentality of someone who thinks like an immature teenager & doesn't realize the major uphill battle she's in for.
@Kimbo Nice It's sad. A lot of women who have that mindset have no accountability. It makes life harder when certain choices are made.
Facts
I used to work for someone who's 40 and still acts immature.
25 is already too old. Very rush. Calculate in the dating years, marriage and honeymoon, she would be 30 by that time. Even 23 is too old. Ideally, 21 or below
Karma be coming 😂😂😂
She'll be attending her daughter's high school graduation with her mom, father, several aunt's, and maybe 1 uncle. Still no husband in sight.
My mother told me at 13 years of age; "Do you see the way that I struggle? DON'T DO IT THE WAY THAT ME AND YOUR FATHER DID, Do you understand me"?
🥺❤️
Wise
The only problem I have with Kevin suggesting therapy, is that the modern mental health sphere has also been infected with this sort of stuff. If she sees a younger therapist, they will only tell her that everything she is doing is correct and that she should ‘live life for herself’
I was banging a "mental health" provider. We popped Molly and drank wine daily. I had to drop her. She had a big client base and they were mostly younger women.
Your right
They are getting free advice, so I don't think he would go into specifics...
@Max AI Agreed. I never thought about it from that perspective, but that's a good point. I've heard many women (even in my own family) say, "Do what's right for you. Live your best life. If it makes you happy, then that's all that matters." But, it can be dangerous to base all of your emotions off of this. Sometimes, the truth isn't what we want to hear, but it's what we need to hear. It seems like there's also a bit of not wanting to break "girl code."
Yea my daughter's sister in law is a therapist and she has abandonment issues, i guess that like co-therapy 🤷♂️
Yes. They forget they have children and act as if they are single single......once THEY decide to have that child they have to realize that it's not just themselves they are responsible for.
Their thinking is like a child. Do whatever and no consequences. The want to hit the rest buttons when the game is messed up. They only care about the kids when it comes to family court.
@@kapriece Your last sentence nailed it. That and the Child tax credit.
@@luvbig41 thats why alot of their relationships with the father end, becuase they have the kid and then they want to be selfish and focus on their wants and needs rather than whats best for their family
Lmao its a great thing really . Kinda crazy when you think about it most of these women would be in the club every weekend looking for their new “king🥰😍🥵” for the next 3 months if they didn’t have a kid to look after
KS: "What state do you live in?"
In my head, I always reply with "the State of Delusion".
🤣🤣🤣 No Lies Detected There🤷🏿♂️
Reminds me of that one Calvin&Hobbes comic strip
Some men are selfish but you're a single mom/flight attendant. You've chosen a career that is not only geared towards younger women but also keeps you away from home on a regular basis. Who's raising the kid?
The friends or relatives most likely at the best. Themselves at the worst but not the mother lol.
"I see this everyday..."
"You're funny."
"NO... YOURE COMMON!!"
🤣 🤣 🤣
These women refuse to give up on the dream until they wake up in a nightmare. I think women should start with being nice to eligible men and they will see a big turn around.
That's going to be hard.
It will most likely be forced by Existence than volunteered by women.
@@zitens66 FACTS
They expect more than they're worth.
They don’t want the boring nice guy.
@John Haney they call it settling because it's not who they want. You could be a good looking guy with your shit together and you still not be enough for them.
This woman really thinks when she's ready, she can snap her fingers and Prince Charming who wants to raise her kid will appear. That's not a dream, that's a fantasy. There's a reason why Cinderella is referred to as a fairytale.
And there are a lot of man like that. How many men want to be educated by Kevin.
That’s the part that people like her don’t think about. There’s a man out there that’s meant for me…. And I’m going to make him wait until I’m good and ready to be with him….. AND I’m bringing someone else’s kid(s).
@@timboslice9905 😆
Cinderella was younger, childless, selfless and joyfully cleaned and acted like a lady...This chick wants to be a Fairytale's Fairytale....the Disney Delusion is real🤦🏾♀️
@@Cheray_ 😆
KS needs an award from any firefighters' association: I'm sure his smoke detector reminders must've saved a life or two
I agree...
As a firemen I agree
We had our first son 22 years ago, and his brother 5 years later. Trust me, I haven't had a selfish year since 😂
im in the airline industry 😂😂😂😂
Keep pushing KS! Your changing the world 🌎!
Facts
*You're....you're welcome.
@@reeko9781 So would it be "your, you're, or you are a a**hole?"🤔
@@kevinaustin5086 It would be "you're", it's basic English grammar. No need for insults, I was helping you out.
@@kevinaustin5086 It would be *you're *an...not "a." Once again, you're welcome.
A good mother/wife is not selfish, PERIOD!
Unfortunately when a woman’s child grows up (past 5-8) years old, the mother tends to take that as a sign to get back in the streets or let’s just say her old ways. These bad ways btw are what lead to being in this situation
we know she's selfish, She's a flight attendant with a kid, unless that was her only option It's very clear she would likely choose herself
By your definition.......she is NOT a good mother. 🤔
Facts 🎯🎯🎯
As a parent, you Can't be Selfish when you have a Child. Your Children come first until they are capable of taking care of themselves! I mean how can you take care of a child, when your job requires you to Travel, and you're not married???😨
She won't realize she messed up until her child gets older and stops contacting her, saying now they being selfish.
They honestly believe that if their offspring have food, clothes, and shelter, they are being a good parent.
@@uncleroams279 yep 💯
It takes two of us to make a child and it takes TWO to raise the child. So fing simple!
She dumps him off onto her mother, like they all do
She says she's "proud to he selfish", what's SELFISH is to be thinking of herself meanwhile her daughter is growing up without the love and discipline of a FATHER
Everyone has a plan and idea. Yet practically no one acts on it because they use it as another form of procrastination and a basic response to everyone who ask, how do you plan to retire. Welp, more room at the top for action takers. Be strong and stay focused fellas.
You can literally see the cognitive dissonance hitting them, the anxiety comes out in the faces they make
@Your Neighbors Dog They can't make sense out of their reality. They are living in denial.
Speaking from experience. A lot of single mothers act selfishly and do not even realize it.
They do not know how much the kids suffer because the kids love their mom too much to say anything.
I lived it
More truth has never been spoken. I have also lived this.
Speaking from observational experience here. Oh alot of them know damn well how selfish they are. They often know also how much damage they do to their kids, but it is me me me, me. Delusional.
@@RisingKing1024 A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing.
And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other?
The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. Kids are smart and piece the puzzle together, especially as they get older. They start to realize the truth and reality of how they were born and which type of situation they've been born into. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.
@@davidmiletic6647 The most damaging thing to do to a child is bring it carelessly into these types of messy situations in the 1st place. The child will only be collateral damage of that decision and is the only true victim. Selfish as hell. A cycle of dysfunction.
You couldn’t pay me to go toe to toe with KS on live. These women embarrass themselves in front of thousands-millions 🥴. You can’t go out into the world looking for a man with A+ standards when you yourself are below average. Also, ‘the law of attraction’ doesn’t just drop things into your lap because you think about it.
Edit: I knew she was gonna say Beyoncé. Lol
And they keep coming back for more!!!
And I knew she was going to say Russell Wilson lol
I too wonder the same thing!
Agree. Why do the least educated, least successful women flock to KS to display their delusions to over 1 million viewers? It's a mystery.
She looking happy on live 🤣🤣🤣
She Just Called Her Daughter A Mistake 🙄
So you have a kid out of wedlock and decide to have standards?
Hope everyone is having a great weekend. Keep the conversation going. Save mankind.
I joined too. His words are changing the world
KS shows time and time again that modern women really think that whenever they’re ready the life they want will come. They really think marriage,family can happen at any age.
imagine being 30 and wanting to be selfish.
Especially after 29 years of selfishness🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@troyforce2 McKinney Unfortunately, some people choose to learn the hard way. Some younger women might have hope (for those who listen) But, a lot of older women are too far gone and don't want to take accountability. It's a mindset. Sad to see.
Spot on...
No matter how much of these modern women try to suck up to Kevin in the beginning they always end up revealing their true modern nature.
Yep I was just mentioning this is a textbook chameleon, single mom flight attendant, who says she wants two more kids which I really don't believe at all. Sounds like she's enjoying her freedom and there's no way she would quit that job for a man and she is pretty much admitted it
@@JDMHaze she even said her mom made six figures but just bought groceries.
Just because you think it, doesn’t mean you have to say it…
She said her man is going to find her 😂 LMAO I can’t with this woman
Typical DC woman Selfish And now they watching all these real estate reality shows. Kevin dead on.
Yep!
Women seem to point to Russell Wilson as the man they aspire to or Ciara and Russell Wilson as the couple they aspire to. However, it’s funny to me that NOBODY was checking for Russell Wilson before he was in a relationship with Ciara.
That's because these modern women are trying to follow in Ciara's footsteps...
"If Ciara can get knocked up by a thug rapper and still get a high value man so can the average woman"
In other words, she said Russell Wilson because she's looking for her Russell Wilson just like the majority of these modern single mothers
@@bluer68 facts
That’s cuzz he was with a Becky
My lily white ass has no idea who any of these people are! 🤣
Guest: "My husband is only meant for me"
KS: "Then why do you have another man's child?"
Guest: 😱 🤔
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Thank You Godfather. Man I wish I had this program back in my younger years.
This is why men make better single fathers, the research is clear on that
Working on yourself does not help you be in relationship. What helps you be in a relationship is literally being in one. It’s like a muscle
She’s the quintessential DMV modern day woman; trading off of her looks until shit hits the wall. How does she really believe she can be selfish and call it self love? Sounds like Kevin was right, therapy therapy therapy.
Silver spring she be at society lounge
@@elijahreilly9247 😂
Ah shoot, and I live in silver spring...lol..DMV woman are something else....sheesh
@Rawi La YASHARAHLA YAHAWASHI Is Coming Back 144K The majority of women who come with an attitude of “I’m in my selfie season” are snotty and brat-ish due to a high opinion of themselves. To each there own, I’m not here to judge.
What looks ?? She’s not all that honestly . Average at best
Yo! She said me being selfish will prepare me for my future husband lmfao. These women are insane!
lmaoo😂😂😂 And that my friend is what I called polishing a turd.... Just making a bullshit excuse for shitty behavior
Unless she meant selfish in fixing herself. Selfish in getting therapy and working on herself. That's the only way that could possibly make sense. 😂
Leave us alone then and keep riding Kevin’s dique🤷🏽♀️ …we’re good!!!
@@keylacmckemp1309 That is self-improvement. Selfishness is immaturity.
She was referring to the devil. She'll marry him in the afterlife.
The godfather undefeated rest in power
My single mom went to uni while I was homeless in Detroit. I'm 33 & only had 1 GF for 3 years. My mom had 12 BFs since she divorced my dad(locked me out), had a kid when I was 19. Lived with her mom & went to uni while I was homeless since 17. I never went to 2nd grade, readings hard. Said she would homeschool us in the 90s & was on AOL over 40s chats with vodka screwdrivers. Where she met my kid sisters dad. I will never date an "independent women". Raising my mother in her 50s has been hard. But now that shes in her 60's she's growing into a good adult woman who accepts responsibility now that SHES working long hospital hours.
I will never respect a woman that doesn't respect my experience, knowledge, or wisdom I've forcibly developed. IF I say no, Its NO. If you wanna hear why, take a seat, get some popcorn & a drink. Cause by the time I'm done explaining I may need a Xanax or a joint.
"Finally working on myself"
yeaaaaah....and you've lived the past 30 years of your life totally selfless. LOL
damn 😂
@@duhmarionn and she hit it with the "yeah im gonna make millions in the real-estate" at the end. Goddamn. It's sad.
@@Y1001 yeapppp , And that's why that was so hilarious to him, I just knew they would pull out the real estate I meet girls that say this shit on dates all the time the real estate is their Swiss Army knife
Women in this Era make things up as they go & expect every1 else to jus agree
Feels over reals, baby!
I feel like bla bla bla....
@STEEL BL!TZ They want to play the victim to gain sympathy from everybody. No accountability.
Underrated comment.
It only works because weak men enable it.
The delusion runs so deep!
Today I made a similar video ranting about single moms and them acting like I’m lucky to be there. Somebody suggested I check this guy out. Not disappointed and now I’m a subscriber.
So she thinks she can go to the man store, and buy herself a man/relationship. Do women view men like accessories like their clothes and stuff? If she's going to treat relationships like getting a pet, I would just recommend her to get a pet instead of ruining some dude's life.
Yes, modern women view men as accessories. That’s exactly it. 👍🏻
@@johnbrowntheprophet Or B Actors willing to participate in her play and then discard them when she can catch the attention of a well-known actor who falls for her BS acting that she was a 'victim'.
and they view chilren like they are puppies, to be a joy in their life you can get through ivf
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 FACTS. Too many women need to change their mindset. If she's the victim in every situation, something is not right within her. It shows no accountability. I even see it within my own family. It's selfish.
No most women view unserious men like children. They exist to prove they can get someone but they don’t believe in you. They just discipline them. They’re an ego boost
I would never feel sorry for a selfish mother much less a woman. You can't want a relationship and behave like you're selfish, that's very contradicting. I thought God said that we should share unless chicks who are selfish don't believe in the most high.
Women only believe in god when it serves them. As you see from this video, she says “when im in a relationship im worried about making the other person happy.” That’s not healthy, that’s codependent behavior 101
@@louissaunders912 exactly and furthermore we can't make anybody to be happy. Happiness comes from within. That's her problem, worrying about making the other person happy. That's ridiculous
@@thedeanogaming Welp, you can't save them all. Some people refuse to listen. It's sad. The only one who suffers from these careless decisions is the innocent child. And then they grow up and continue the cycle of dysfunction because it's never been addressed.
@@thedeanogaming therapy therapy therapy, that’s what is needed. 🙏🏽
Women only wants the promises/ benefits from the most high the same as from the men, they will not submitted to man or the most high! Only to them selves & the serpent!!!
The irony of using the "Law of Attraction/Speaking selfish desires into existence" is that once they want a husband at an older age, they forget how many times they themselves told "the universe" "they don't need no man." If they truly believe that crap, they will agree they have self-sabotaged their own dreams.
Heavy Facts 💯
They do believe it. You are just having a hard time, understanding female logic. Don't worry, so do I; isn't it amazing. LoL
@V R It's insane. It's only a defense mechanism because they can't deal with reality. They only say they enjoy being single and independent because it sounds good. But, the outcome speaks for itself.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 women don't like rejection or taking Ls. This woman is cute but even the Big Shirley's that call in will say their standards are too high or they don't want to settle. I think a lot of women just figure a kid and pretending to be religious can replace the need for a man.
@@davyjones2032 Words of Wisdom bro. It definitely is mind-boggling behavior. People are social animals, especially women (at least traditionally). Whenever a woman has 20 cats or 8 dogs, it makes me think... there's no way she's truly happy. She has to be using that as a substitute for something. My own cousin became a single mom at 26 and recently got pregnant at 40. The 2nd time around she knew the due had 3 baby mamas. She now has a 15 year old and a 2 year old. She is now dating again. She's been telling my mom about her dates for 15 years now. None of her relationships have worked out and she always complains about something that the guy did. She usually says nothing wrong about her own shortcomings and tries to pretend like it doesn't bother her not having a man. She says stuff like, "I'm not tripping. Plenty of fish in the sea. He can kiss my black ass. I'm too good for that." I don't know if she realizes it, but she comes off as very combative and disagreeable. I think she decided to have the baby because she was lonely/desperate. But, now that the dust has settled... she wants a romantic relationship. Why else would a woman with a teenager and toddler find the time to still be dating if the baby was fulfilling her? In my heart of hearts, I think my cousin wants an escape from being a single mother and regrets it. She has also recently found out that the toddler has autism. So, that's why I say that I'm not sure where she's finding the time commitment to go on all these different dates. It seems like she has a lot on her plate.
Shout out to the MITS* "Maids In The Sky"
"you're a sky waitress"😂🤣 omg never looked at it that way.💀😂
THe delusion doesnt stop smh
didnt see the whole live but towards the end when he asked her what her profession would be to raise her retirement money i swear i thought "oh god please dont say real estate" and got dammit she went there LOL. Kevin is too damn good at this. Keep thrse convos going. you're truly doing God's work.
@Yokahu Divine It's not even surprising at this point
Me too I was like don't say real estate please
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 Exactly, it's either that or an entrepreneur meaning she does nails and hair
@@scotttracy9333 A lot of women have a side hustle, but they refer to it as a business. I'm not trying to belittle anybody by saying that either. Outside of hair, lashes, and nails... what new technology or invention has been created that society can use? I see it all over instagram
I was thinking the same
The laugh after the real estate plan was legendary
"Yeah, I'm a 30yo flight attendant. I'm just gonna have a couple selfish years and then find a Russell Wilson in time to retire and have 2 more kids before I'm 35." Yeah, I think not.
Just crazy
This is one of the most entertaining reality shows there is 🤣🤣🤣
She's not a flight attendant, her eyes gave that way. "Yes, this is thinking is funny and it's no joke." This woman is joke.
Interesting that you say that. Even before she said she was a flight attendant that's what I thought her job was. The scarf around the neck and the background of a bunch of chairs like in an airport terminal led me there. See also the people walking behind her @ 6:01 when they are talking about her profession. It *kinda* looks like the baggage claim are of DCA (Reagan National Airport, DC), but I could be wrong there. In any case, I dont think see was lying about being a flight attendant...unless she's a gate attendant instead. Either way, I thought she worked for the airlines even before she said it.
@@Hostyl176 How could you be a flight attendant with a child at home?
@James Simmons Def ain't TSA. Look like either American or United.
@@123pb Well, and actuall IRL friend of mine does it. Sometimes the kids are with their dad. Other times it's the grandparents. She has regular routes though, back and forth, that get her home most nights.
@@Hostyl176 If you knew, studied and allowed yourself to think, rather than talk just to hear yourself speak; you'd know what to look for when a person is F.O.S. Based on your comment, you obviously can't. Enough said....
"What do you bring to the table?" is a hard question for women to answer. I wonder WHY?
Kevin: “What’s your profession?”
Single Mama: “I was in school for nursing.”
Kevin: “What is your profession?’
Single Mama: “I’m in the airline industry.”
Kevin: “So you’re a flight attendant?”
Single Mama: “Yes.”
You can’t make this shit up. 😂
"Airline industry" translation: baggage claim counter agent
she is lying about being a flight attendant, she simply works at the boarding gate. If she lies about something that simple, what wouldn't she lie about.
Fax
@jamchris98 She's lying to paint herself as a victim and to "pretty up" the situation. It's only a defense mechanism.
How do you know she works at the gate. Just curious.
@@realascanb222 it's very obvious...firstly, when you ask a FA what he/she does, they respond "i'm a FA" not a bs answer like "i'm in the airline industry"...second, FAs don't have time to sit around casually in the airport to listen and call KS...third, the most obvious one is around half way through the conversation you clearly hear her walkie talkie going off, Flight Attendants don't have walkie talkies, Gate Attendants do!
@@realascanb222 most of the pretty ones work the gates
It's so hilarious to see her defend her selfishness so valiantly and then turn around and throw out the jab about how men are selfish. Girl, please...
Thanks to the Godfather for calling her out on it immediately.
@Jeffrey Fahie It's a defense mechanism because she has no accountability. The outcome and the way she speaks clearly says that she's selfish. Sad to see.
I just wanted to say your last live show was very moving and needed to be said. It was that very moment in the end that the daughters of abused households needed an apology from the mother's! Now it's getting good, it's the under lining issues of so many men and woman who suffer. I applaud you for your content and your efforts towards bringing light to all the situations of the black community! Mr. Samuel's you are a voice use your God given gifts! Thank you
@JanayiaLove It's selfish. The only true victim is the child and of course, the child always suffers from it. But, accountability is the 1st step toward improvement. It's sad because it's a cycle of dysfunction.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 I whole heartily agree with you. Yes extremely selfish, don't realize overtime the damage the Mother's has caused the children by then it's too late.
@@janayialove4414 Exactly. I don't wish bad upon anybody because we all make good choices and bad choices. But, we all earn the outcome of our choices. I never paid much attention to it until I started watching these podcasts, but we have some healing to do. It's a mindset. I even see it within my own family. It's not even completely the choice that was made, but also changing the mindset. It's just sad when people not only refuse to listen, but refuse to change. With some people, the only thing you can learn is what not to do. Hopefully, as the children grow older, they can break the cycle. Peace and blessings to you!
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 Peace unto you ❤️
I was having a similar conversation with a mother of 5. She believes she deserves a man of God who doesn't drink, smoke, cuss, earns 6 figures.. etc. You cannot reason with these women. The father is an addict who got out of prison when she married him. Why do they wreck their lives and want to drag a man down with them? I want to feel sorry for their delusion, but I can't.
Servants of evil on a mission.
Holy shit
“I plead the fifth on this one”? When someone says that, that is an admission of guilt!
1,2,3,4, FIF!!😂😂😂
@@carspec-therighteyebeforey77 😂😂😂 You know what time it is!
That's crazy scary how right Kevin was on the realtor!
"You're funny"
"No, you're common"
Ouch that hurt me a bit......
I have a question for the ladies...I am 39 and have no kids....IS IT POSSIBLE To FIND A BLACK WOMAN BETWEEN tHE AGE OF 27-32 WIThOUT ANY KIDS or is that wishful thinking? THIS SHIt IS SAD>>....SO MANY SINGLE BLACK MOTHERS IN THAT AGE RANGE
Too many man.
Without kids, some type of sickness, or college debt. It’s like like they always have two out of the three.
@jude ayo You have to focus like a laser on the outcome that you want. There's 7 billion people in the world, I'm sure you can fine one without kids (if that's what you want). You just have to learn how to deal with and expand your options. If she's not on the same page as you, don't waste your time. Focus like a laser and ask the tough questions when you go on dates. If you want marriage, let that be known. If you don't want to deal with single moms, let that be known. Maybe even date a younger woman or explore different cultures. There's always somebody out there who's just like you. Just gotta find her and be selective. It's like an interview process.
I'm 25 without any and every chick around my age has kid(s). It's one thing if they're married but majority of them aren't. I don't get how people are just making babies like it's no big deal.
@@missk6040 Yup. FACTS! . I'm 22 and when you start hitting 25-30, it becomes more common. It's only been 5 years since we graduated high school and a few of my classmates already have kids and baby daddy/mama drama. Kids are very expensive, and take up a lot of time and energy. So, I've never understood making babies just for the sake of it. On top of that, if the other person "ain't shit", then why make a permanent attachment in the form of a child? Especially if they weren't even good enough for marriage (something that's supposed to be life-long). I've even heard people say, "Well, at least I created life. Can you even have kids?" They will try to convince you that it doesn't matter how a child gets here, who you choose to have the child with, or which type of situation a child is born into. But, that is nothing but foolishenss.
Either way somebody tries to spin it, it's dysfunctional. I see these types of situations all the time and it never comes out pretty. The child always ends up becoming the collateral damage of a reckless decision. It's unfortunate. Having a baby is not picking out a puppy.
Rest in power KS you left a deep impact on the world thank you. 🙏🙏
Amazing! ....another young woman that sounds absolutely ridiculous... She's definitely common on this show....Men won't marry this type, or anything close to it.
Kevin you picked a fantastic market to go into because at the rate that these women perform you will never be out of a job. It's mind-boggling everyday these women come up and make complete fools of themselves. It's the new normal though you have a great day sir keep on keeping on.
I keep saying it that Beyonce, alongside her sidekick Rihanna have a whole lot of things to answer for with regards to the harm that they have brought upon the black community.
@Rob Some A lot of girls/women like Beyonce and Rihanna. Especially because Rihanna is pregnant, they think being a single mother is a "boss move".
Remember Beyonce married a former drug dealer and felon
@@123pb Someone pls explain to me how a felon is able to use the proceeds of his "ill-gotten" gains to start up a record company. Wouldn't the authority have seized his assets, if he indeed was this so-called big time drug dealer with a criminal record?
@@robsome2946 money laundering and statute of limitations I’d imagine
Isn’t it like 7 years in America? First album dropped in 1996 so if he got out the game in 88 he’d be ok?
Also a bit of money laundering/performing at clubs/paid for verses etc roll that into a small label, release a few singles and plough that back into it
Possible but incredibly hard
Get another bigger label to underwrite your finances by leveraging masters etc
Like I said not easy but possible
Maybe one in 50,000 could pull it off because of all the facets you’d need to make it work
Good connect, pay an extra 20k per brick on 100 bricks and get them to finance your label for 1 million as a loan you never pay back or sell them your retail operation
That’s just off the top of my head ways it could be done
@@robsome2946 lol a felon. I don't think Jay Z probably ever did a day in jail🤣🤣🤣🤣 He rapped about how he "used to sell drugs' and tbh he was exaggerating that.