How To Recognize Unhealthy Relationships | Prakriti Singh | Josh Talks
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ย. 2024
- Prakriti Singh's story in this Josh Talks as she shares her experience of being in a tough relationship. Prakriti, a content creator, talks about the challenges she faced with her ex-boyfriend and the signs she noticed early on. She opens up about the impact on her mental health, family, and friends.
Prakriti thought her relationship was healthy at first but later realized it was not good for her. She explains how she dealt with the situation, ended the relationship, and coped with the aftermath. In today's world, understanding mental health is essential, and Prakriti's story shows why it's crucial to recognize the signs of an unhealthy relationship. Watch this Josh Talks to learn more about relationships and well-being in a simple way.
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Loyalty is the important things, I don't know who is culprit but your story will inspired to many people.
Hi, I am trying to look for a lady who presented on your platform as I wanted to give her a nice life and take care of her and her child. Will you help me? Please
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Is Josh Talks out of the the mind. This was a channel I respected sir much. But now this platform has become a place where people just blame their prior relationships and show how much of a saint they themself were. Soes anyone asked the other person's point of view. It doesn't matter if that was a boy or girl how can you blame everything on to the other party and say that you were the Saint in the mutual relationship and the other party was the devil. Josh talks I can't believe you guys are promoting agendas. Was there any investigation done from police about the abusive nature of the other person. Was there any FIR??? How can you agree with one's words without any evidence???
And I have read you disclaimer also , so the speaker could be any manipulative person blaming the other person and showing he was such a poor soul. And you guys will air it on TH-cam that's really a great promotion.
I was in an abusive relationship like this via arranged marriage, but inspite of being vocal about all the abuse I was facing, my parents valued my marital status more than me and supported my husband, because they didn't want me getting divorced. It has been a roller coaster but I am much happier and healthier after blocking my narcissistic parents and ex husband. Stand up for yourself because no one else will. Your life is valuable.
I m going through the same..mera husband mere papa se meri burayi krta rhta h n my father doesnt understand me..wo sirf apni izzat k liye mujhe force kar rahe hain ki mai hi down ho k rahu..maine unke khne pe shadi b kr li bt ab wo mjhe weak kr rhi h..i dont feel any future n happiness with that guy ..aisa lgta h bs mann maar k nibha rhi hu..i m not earning..aise taane mil rahe hain to mjhe sehna padega bt i m really frustrated..na uska behaviour acha h na uski family ka mere sath..mai kafi padhi likhi n well mannered hu..bs ghr k kalesho se bht pareshan hu..especially apne father se..ab mjhe khud ko prove krna h bt mjhe koi rah nhi mil rhi ki kya karu..bht pareshan hu life ko lekar..only my mother is supporting and two of my uncle..mere papa mere ghr me rhne se bilkul mere khilaf hain..ab mai burden ho gyi hu unka burden kum krne k baad..mera dil dimag bht disturb rhta h..kash shadi na huyi hoti meri..hardly 10 mahine hone wale hain
@@shivangipandey9533 It's just 10 months. Find a good future (it's hard to find, but you can) and get out of that relationship. You will at least get those dowries back, if not a compensation for your time and energy there in that family and moreover, the compensation for all the harm they did to at least your mental state. Tell your father that he is the cause of your birth, so if not make you happy, at least he should not be in your way of finding a happy life. It has been only 10 months as you said, get out when you can, you are lucky to have an understanding mother, two good uncles. Women with nobody beside her have also been able to gey out, you surely can.
@@shivangipandey9533 shivangi dear I hope you get the strength to make the decision you need to make to be happy. Pray you stay strong mentally and not give hope for yourself.
@@shivangipandey9533 sadly your whole family is toxic for you.
Look for Danish Bashir videos on TH-cam. Also DrRamani.
Quietly build your strength.
You deserve respect, love, happiness.
These people want to see you suffer.
Don't give them that pleasure.
Remember that bullies are scared on the inside. The day you stop showing them your pain, they will get confused.
Don't give up. Keep becoming stronger.
Refuse to accept disrespect.
The negative force is always strongest before ending.
At least do this much: Love yourself more than anyone else in the world. ❤️
More power to you
I know her personally, she was a really loving, jolly , full of energy, intelligent girl...
Being a girl I used to admire her alot
Sad to hear her story that she suffered so much.
And happy that she came out of it now and healed herself and becoming more stronger.
Power to you girl 💪
You deserve much more ...
Love you....
---Your train friend
Hey Naheed, glad to see your comment here. Thank you so much dear, yes I am absolutely healed and living my best life now. Focussing on being a better version of myself everyday. Everything is a learning experience, I am glad I am over it. Hope you are doing well as well. Lots of love ❤️
@@prakstheexplorer you are so strong girl 🥰god bless you.
May I get her contact? I need her help
💓💓💓
All the best
Once he know you are completely trapped in love with him. They will start showing the real colors because they know you are not going to leave him. This is the reason why one shouldn't send nudes or personal info. They can use to blackmail further to keep you in relationship.
Bhaijaan, we Indian men love our wives so much that we really don't like them going and talking to anyone else. I think her husband was not bad. I hope you are also from India only. If you are from Pakistan, I think situation must be the same there also.
@@001-nishantbariar4 yes! Not all are same. I am indian too. Indian men are possessive in nature. If your love is true and you trust each other than she will not going to dump you just by talking to anyone else . She was not married and dating him. She get red flags and left him for good.
I WENT ON TO MARRY SUCH ABUSER AFTER MANY YRS OF RELATIONSHIP.BCOZ THAT TRAP WAS SO STRONG.BUT AFTER MARRIAGE I FELT WHOLLY MISGUIDED N DECEIVED
@@swyammahajan8559 so how did u get out? Got a divorce? Stay strong and heal yourself!
@@001-nishantbariar4 uncle ji apna muh bandh hi rakho to behtar h.. ye 1990s nahi h. 2022 h.
I feel like someone is sharing my story.Can relate to each and every incident that has been said. This is basically a narcissistic abuse. Glad that you came out stronger. More power to you and all the survivors like us ❤️
So true❣
More power to you girl ❤️... U have been through alot 🥺
Yes it is typically a narcissistic abusive relation. Her boyfriend was also a control freak.
Yes.mine also like dis.
Kudos to all of you who are speaking up. Narcisistic abuse is very common and we will only help others by speaking up so they recognize it and get out of it at the first instance itself. Zero tolerance is the only acceptable way to keep ourselves safe.
Looks like you were in love with a man who has narcissistic personality disorder. You are lucky that you were not trapped in a marriage. If your were married and had a child you would have been doomed for ages. This is what happened to me and I suffered a lot. Finally when my son became 18 I walked out with my son.
Behind every one such success stories there are a million such sufferers who are silently bearing everything
Hats off to u
It's really great to know that you dared to walk out of it .... best wishes
Yes he was a narcissistic. I am so sorry you had to go through years of abuse. I am also super proud of you to walk away, it takes so much strength to do that after so many years of being in an unhealthy relationship. Your story will inspire a lot of other women who are stuck in such marriages.
She is independent and free minded... Patriarchy society can't accept and digest ... This situation changed in my life ... Definitely it ll change for her too and in every girl who try to come out of this stereo type
Best wishes
Change begins with us
There are psycho girlfriends too!!
Is it due to matriarchal society?
@@pranayr9284 Ofcourse there are crazy ppl in both genders. U have to be discerning
Each and every word and behavior indicates that he is an emotional abuser. It's the emotional abuser who isolates and drains you and then blames you. One get so confused and start blaming herself. That's the time to remind yourself, how your parent brought you up and what have you become.
Never marry the person who is same as you. Diversity should be there, find someone who is better than you so that you can learn!
Indeed! When two people agree on each n everything, one is not required.
yeah...it's not required that the person would like exactly everything what I like. .but at least he should by supportive of everything whatever I like doing ..
Yeaah
I think she is talking about the manipulation. He was pretending to have the qualities that she liked.
He did not actually have those qualities. He did this only to make her believe that he is good.
Her focus is on the manipulation.
I am married to a person who is the complete opposite of me..life is not easy either...he is a person who wants to grow while pushing me down...for him self growth and self accomplishment is more important than a family growth..
I was in an abusive relationship like this. It was a fairytale in the beginning which became a nightmare later. Such a handsome guy who was so verbally and emotionally abusive. This has now led me to give up on love. I broke up with him not before giving him many chances. Now focusing on my healing only.
Same 😔
This is disheartening that u chose a guy for happiness to support u to love u care u respect u unconditionally but ended up as sorrowful ☹️ and u won’t able to trust if someone be honest be caring loving towards u rest of I wish u restore ur happiness and one worst experience never stops a better person ahead 😊👍
@@CreativitywithPratima focus on ur career and stand on u we often think we love a person who will care for us and marry us like that but that’s rare in real just have the diamond like persons who uplift in ur career and be with u as a person supporter not just nice to u babu sona type
@@cupcakedoctor2889 u namee as Doctor so wish to heal soon much happiness to u and one failure doesn’t determines ur whole life
More power to you
Love is to empower you... It's not something to make u feel down! 😊
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Totally agree with you bro!! It’s not love when you’re with your partner when they need you and they turn you down whenever you need them the most!! And how come they are progressing when they were with you and even after when they are not with you, and you are always going down and even worse after you are not with them because you feel lost and no one is there with you because you left everyone because of your partner!!
@@Shortsviral0780 you don't know what to do, is it? Haven't heard about divorce?
True😇
Bhar main gaye pyar relationship 😡Paisa kamao Duniya ghumo❤️
Sahi baat bhai
@@yashwardhansinghsolanki7877 👌🏻
You're and my thoughts🤔💭 are same
@@pramodsahani9343 Yes🤣❤️
Yes 😂 U R Right 👍😎
Glad that u did it. They hv dual personality...so no one can ever believe their hidden intentions..they abuse u..manipulate u.. wants u to be wholly dependent on them for everything. They not only damage ur self esteem, self confidence, relationships with ur family n frnds, but tear ur soul and spirit. It takes lot of guts and strength...stay well and be yourself👍
I just realized that I'm an abuser in our relationship 😢 need to change my behaviour for my darling.
🙂
Where you able to change?
Being a guy, I felt pity for this gal... She tried so much in the relationship.. Thats not worth it, no matter what. But its good she is out of it completely. God bless her and she will get a good guy shortly.
Oh man sorry if you feel uncomfortable but it's girl not gal.😇
She lives in my society I have seen her many times... followed her in insta too long back she had shared her story over there also...I m actually proud of her and can relate to her I have been thru the same situation as her abusive guy used to beat me. Now I m at peace and happy so so proud of u prakriti just love u hopefully will have talks with u 💜💜
Hey Shruti, Hellow neighbour 😊 It's a small world. Thank you so much, means a lot ❤ I am really sorry you went through abuse. Wishing and praying for your healing. You can DM me on Insta whenever you wish to talk.
just imagine that chutiya watching this video....
much respect for you mam to share ur story.... bcoz most of the girls just keep on suffering nd tolerating without knowing that there is a limit to bear things nd there is to say *enough is enough* !!
Chutiya mat bolo bhai, Akhand chutiya bolo
@@Harsh-nv1xt Akhand chutiya mt bolo chaman chutiya bolo
Yar this man had Narcissistic personality disorder. It is obvious
A person who loves you can never inflict pain upon you. They’ll sacrifice their ego. They’ll put the blame on themselves and say sorry. As saying sorry can mend things which are broken. If they make you feel inferior, and derive pleasure out of it. It’s not Love. Too much of what we call love is infatuation. People of this generation have unrealistic expectations. They’re influenced by idiotic movies like Kabir Singh, the scene where he slaps the actress is completely wrong. Character like Kabir Singh influence young teenagers, they think being physically violent is okay. It’s okay to slap a women, and tell her that you love her afterwards. That’s toxic masculinity. Loving someone is a good thing, but being obsessed with an individual is wrong. You love someone, you set them free. Because you love them unconditionally. If you see they’re not happy with you, for making them happy you try to mould yourself accordingly. That’s true love. You can’t put a bird in the cage, as you love them. They’re born to fly. If you love them unconditionally you’ll set them free.
Lulli
such a beautiful definition of love..
Well explained 👏
Yes, it's 💯 true.....
Yess kabir Singh is extremely emotionally abusive, controlling and a creep
This is textbook ... Narcissism ...
Really appreciate your sharing your experience and journey ...
You are really strong and courageous !!!!
Kudos to you !
Your story is inspiring to many !!!
I have also faced exactly same situation for five year and I never realised that it was abusive relationship I thought may be all this thing happen in love I hoped that one day he will understand me but never and I never shared anything with anyone bcoz my parents and sister are not so open minded and supportive in this matter and my frds were always against him. Never share all thing especially your personal problem with anyone people always take advantage of it no one will help you .you are the only one who can help you.there is no love in this world all are adjustment.
But u can make ur worth so that in future u can take ur stand its ur life and ur happiness is in ur hand sometimes ur real ones are not with u it doesn’t mean u live with sorrow and disrespect 🙂
I have gone through this sister
It is just I am a boy and my ex-gf did to me
Now I am just focused on my career and I will be best in my field ❣️
What she did bhai. You can write here. We will listen.
@@utsavmishra619 usne jo karna tha woh kar diya, later on muje pata chala ki woh ladki hi galat kism ki thi, she was dating another person as well.
What I did wrong is, Main sab ladkiyo ko same maanne laga, jo galat hai.
Thanks for standing with me. Thank you 😊
@@poojanmankad1749 sorry but i can't control my laughing 😂😄 on your story. I am sure you will definitely do best in your field.
@@avaikaarora9354 what's funny in it?
@@avaikaarora9354 but what's there something to laugh on it 😑
Maturity, respect, personal space and loyalty are the pillars, but first stand on your feet, because this is the most important pillar..
YES SIR
True dude😇
Abusers don't look like abusers, in fact they take extra care to maintain their image. It's true. That abusive person was my biological mother 😢
I've also gone through the same thing..this person has 2 faces: one who loves you extremely and the other who abuses you emotionally and tries to control you all the time. I sufferd for 3 years. He isolated me from everyone, my family, friends, colleagues. Finally i decided to come out of this after giving him multiple chances that he never deserved. He stalks me and not ready to leave but my decision is firm and no matter what happens I am not going back to him.
You got victimized by covert narcissist person. Good choice. You must be human of huge courage and strength.
Glad you shared Prakriti. Hopefully it will give strength to people going through the same and take a stand for themself like you did 🙂🙌🏻
. Kannada pride. Kannada power.
So so so proud of you Praku💗💗 it takes lot of courage to come out in public and talk about it. Im so happy that you spoke about it and made other people aware 😇😘 love you 😍
He was a narcissist . Been through the same shit and still get panic attacks after leaving him.
Mam...while watching this video...i felt that i m telling my own story...word by word...but after 7 years of long torture...i finally escaped frm that...thanks to u for sharing this story
Now how r you
good...uh are lucky...
@@sreesha21 i m fine and i m living my life with dignity...after separation i cleared state pcs exam...and i am happy that i took that step...a humble request to all the girls...plxzz dont let urself tortured by any person...
@@__swasti_2316 thanks
@@sandhyaji566 this is what education needed self independent and knowing ones power alws helps u out from hell life situations best wishes for ur ahead life and u set an example by clearing this exam that he lost a gem like a person and every woman is determined and able to live on her own
it's almost impossible to come out such relationship completely 😖 it always tries to stock u sometime... Somewhere... 🤐making distance from that person, as much as possible may help u at some extent 🙂
Surround yourself by like minded people
But when a fruitful things becomes poison we can’t have that like a relationship which is one sided respectful and the other side abusive then better leave that or u won’t able to reconcile ur happiness invest where u find happiness just not crush on someone or infatuated 🙂
Excatly I have been through this. I am staying and working in Canada, I have a boyfriend who thinks he is the best, never says sorry, and is always jealous. I have tried multiple times to break up. He comes back again, and tries to convince me. He lied so many times. The biggest indicator I would say is whenever I am with him, I feel drained out and an intuition that something is wrong. I am now in India with family. He is in Canada. I feel much better and safer. I think I won't go back, else he would come back in my life.
That’s great he was not a guy who was with u by heart by as an option he considered u somehow u saved urself from an abusive relationship now work on u and trust on u ur happiness is in ur hand 🙂
@@rajbhardwaj2180 bro such guys suck. There are many good guys but girls seems to attract these nasty flies more
Trust your intuition... Seems like he's a narcissist... Protect yourself
Wish u healing ❤️
The one who dont accept yourself the way u are .... So dont waste ur time to be with the person anymore .... Trust me girls and boys ... Nothing matter more than urself .....just be you ... Be happy with ur own self ..... We all have a scary story .... But its okk our paste doesn't describe our self .... You are more powerful than u know ... Just beleive god... And if ur heart is pure u dont loose people ,people loose u
And people don’t stand on them don’t invest in career just be in relationship or in marriage it’s not good at all self worth is needed to fight against any suppression 🙂
It’s an empath-narcissist relationship. It can never work!
True
Yup.....I knew exactly the same thing once she started narrating her experience.
M in one too..it feels like a nightmare
@@mahemsharma7723 I left him after 10 years of abuse. It's too late I know. Not able to heal now.
You should not waste your time. Leave that person forever immediately.
@@be-precious-with-snehal power to you. You will heal and reach great heights in your life.
I left him after 6/7 years of shit , it has been two years and 9 months living away from that shitty person and I have healed myself to a good extent. He tried to call me , threatened me for 2.2 years . But finally he stopped contacting me.
I have recovered . Hugs from my side and power to you.
Blessings 🙏.
Same thing with me..... husband tried to strangle my neck during pregnancy n i got miscarriage
My husband was narcissist and now he’s no more my husband. Us women have to stand up and speak up. Hell with what people say. They don’t know our lives and what we have to put up with. Emotionally and physically it totally drains you to the point that I got cancer but I’m feeling healthy and happy without him. Life is good without men. Sorry to all the men out there but that’s how I feel. I’m sure there are good men out there but I personally don’t see one
actually dogs are better naaa , but with due respects miss u used to have men in guise of DAD
I hope u are in a much better place and free from all illness. God Bless❣️🙏
Narcissist are indeed far more worst than animal . Please take care of your health and don't forget to smile 👍💐
Jill jack, I absolutely agree with you 100% . Almost all men are narcissists, they use women for their needs, I don't like men 😔
Praying you recover soon and truely kind hearted people come into your life ❤ 🙏🙏💖💖💖
*भाड़ में जाए दुनियांदारी*
*हम तो करेंगे अपनी जीत की तैयारी!!*
_कौन कौन मेरे साथ है❤️_
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Didi mai aapke sath hoo
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Ji ji 😂❤
same kind of experience i too had in my past , lasted for around 7 yrs , later came to know this is a clear cut case study of narcissistic abuse , narcissistic abuse have such patterns as she explained, power to you girl , keep going, keep moving
Long back I watched one such video and got to know about emotionally violent relationships... I was not even aware of these things. Thank you for coming up and sharing
It happens but for the sake of relationship a woman doesn’t highlight and bear all the lifetime but such enlighten women will induce a woman to stand for her 🙂
I felt like I am listening to an improved version of my story😳😐
Thank you so much ,Prakiti!! It will help me a lot. I have same story . Even I sleep a lot to avoid the person and the world. I broke up with him 4 months ago . And I will get well soon. Thank You ❤️❤️❤️
Keep saying I'm sorry pls forgive me thank you I love you.. It clears the heavy energy
I can totally relate your circumstances, my story was same like you may be worst than you. But I came out strong threw out that abuser out of my life by being more practical. I understood my value and realise that I deserve better. Now I am married to a wonderful man❤️
I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. He was manipulative, even cheated on me twice and finally left. I feel he was there because he loved that I loved him so much and that i did everything for him.
All the Redflags she said is like warning rules for girls before entering in relationships because the problems girls face during this type of relationship is like hell and you totally broke it's so hard to describe what It feel like the worst nightmare and when you end up with it you will always feel this was your blunder mistake to trust and be with that perticular guy you will always regret for it whenever you want to forget all this things they always stay with you. so before entering in relationships girls always remember that Redflag point 🙏
I loved my ex like anything. Our engagement was finalised wedding date were finalised. He started calling me poor, started calling my house is small I took everything as a joke.... Then 2 months before engagement they started asking me for my property of 2cr in dowry.
Boy did I need to hear this. And from a beautiful young woman. I'm older. So. An old dog can learn new tricks! Thank you. Blessings to all!!!
in such relationships the main problem is ( just bcz these kind of abuses are based on emotional pattern) a girl is unable to understand what is wrong. they blame themselves. i think this story is of many people
The thing is you realized this early on in ur life and sometimes people don't even realize being in married life. People who are married to a narcists have very low esteem as they are being tortured mentally every single day. The other person is always trying to make the relationship work. But it just does not work. We all need to understand that the person who loves you will uplift you and not belittle you. That is a good relationship not the other way around. Prakriti I am so proud of you.
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Thankfully you got to know about his true nature before marriage. You are saved.
Right now, I am realising that I am also in emotional abusive relationship....bcz he is doing the same things..😟
Peace..Peace is the ultimate thing u can feel in a worthy relationship...Focus on this u will easily come to know what is, who is good for u and who is not...😌💐🙏
So true, sister. Wise advice.
It just feels like this is me telling my story as it is...I tried breaking up but couldn't stop going back coz somehow he did manipulate me...just that recently he double dated an i was saved ❤️ whatever happens, happens for good ❤️
It filled ur heart more wound if u were engaged in serious relationship longer god saved u much happiness to u ahead 😊
Moral of the story : Like charges repel. Opposite charges attract !
Same thing happening with me since last 13 years of arrange marriage, I have so much mental stress ..... My life is like hell,he has two faces ,two personality not only he but his whole family is involved .
U are so pure hearted that u are bearing up all this for 13 years god bless u and try to be happy 🙂👍
I was in LDR we were good friends...but even before coming into relationship he was being possessive like I felt in intuition...when we were in relationship he started to show his real self..like not introduced me to his friends, telling me I'm busy in work, but more snap stories with his friends enjoying themselves, not little bit opening up to me where as he's open in sextalk and indirectly forcing me to do..but I never agreed with him..which used to cause arguments...when I asked him aren't we too early to fall in relationship..he said I don't even treat you like one which literally made me to feel like to punch him...I calmed myself and asked but still don't you think? Bc person is aware of his partner's whole triats and is at ease...he then told me I've never been in love with you which made me more pissed and i told him to f off and dumped him..he called me a cheater bc he thought I already have someone in mind and playing with words..where I was completely honest with him in everything..n he was the one who changed 360° when we came into relationship...then I told him..yep the one who see others like this is the one himself and block him from all the platforms
One more thing when that guy is over friendly towards you and always crosses the limits then 1st sign of narcissism/red flag and you feel the intuition then pls DON'T ignore this...your body is so much more capable that it has ability to sense any kind of danger even when you are in deep sleep...don't challenge the subconscious mind...
Never trust another men be it male or female. The guy/girl you date should chase you for 5 years, never just get lost into anybody's charm so easily and fast. Single life is best. Honeymoon phase of love is best phase which lasts only couple of years or months. Be with a person only till that phase lasts after that it gets ugly in all relationships. After that it's tears, fights and unnecessary stress.
Standing up for yourself is showing love towards yourself.
Thank you from the bottom my heart .. I feel like your sharing my own story.. I wish and pray u get all the healing and blessing in coming days🥰
U are out from that hell life or still in that ?
You are speaking my words. I could not be vocal about the abuse I have gone through.
It took me years to get out of the relationship.
I was in a similar relationship two years back
Finally I decided to go on without it and it was very difficult to do it
But trust me living alone is better than living with someone who don't deserve you 💯
More peace to yew
Proud of you dear sister,i hope Your story help them whoever going through this critical situation
*जब मैं पूरी तरह से टूट गई थी तो उसदिन मैं बहुत मुस्कुराई क्योंकि "गुरुजी" ने कहा था कि जब तुम्हारी मुश्किलें शुरू हो जाएं समझ लेना कामयाबी निकट है इसीलिए उसी दिन से मेरे अंदर पढ़ाई की भावना जाग गई और मैंने पढ़ाई शुरू कर दी👌🙈*
Went through something similar.If only my mother wouldn't have supported me during this period, I don't think I would have been alive today. Took therapy and now I am doing good. 🙏 more power to you and all the other women out there who went through something like this and stood up for themselves.
Love is enlightening and empowering...it should actually make you happier, stronger and overall a better person....nowadays most people don't know what love is....and never let go of your individuality because of someone
Appreciate you sharing your story.
Abusers strive in silence. This is the best thing you did to speak up about it and accept it as is.
Also, take your own time in healing there is no failure in healing.
God Bless Prakriti !
I m happy your at peace now 💯
Absolutely that's what matter 😊 Thank you so much
Just gone through exact same situation hard at the initial phase but will not regret it ever in my life ❣️ today proud of myself that I spoke up for myself
That’s great u also deserve happiness a woman is not a thing she has also emotions and heart that feels all what someone gives to her happy for u 🙂
Ohhh my god that's exact my story exact word to word I had 5 year of relationship but thanks to my parents who tried to show me his real face and m happily got out from that... You said it sooo right to hide their abusive identity they try to care very extra like more than a normal person but it's a trap...
Yeap being nice to someone doesn’t mean someone is so into u 🙂
@@rajbhardwaj2180 its more than nice they treat you like a queen for a moment and in another moment not even human so you got confused in this personality once you recognize this game it will be easier to get out from them.
@@universebaby2411 but u know what becz of these people u won’t be able to reconcile ur trust and for me a nice girl is who uplifted me in my study or career and understanding .
By saying love u or someone forces u to get married and be domineering and be call it insecure bf gf then it’s not good better choose a mature person who is not love u all the while but well known the love deeply
It take time but I have learnt my lesson I can't give his punishment to a person who's coming next... I healed alone and I am my partner there are many people who come to my journey as friend as colleague as mentor so basically when you decided you wanna live a better life a better life holds you.. with experience you have to choices to become bitter or better I choose to be better...I don't see that as trauma or anything it all happen for our growth ... Yes lesson learnt...
@@universebaby2411 great and I hope and wish u have a nice memories ahead filled with unspeakable regards and ephemeral joy ❤️😊
Samething happened also with me plz beware of the pschyos, they try to get emotional even if you don't want to be in the relationship he will be after you, plzz save yourself be an independent person.
Mai to sab ko yahi kahna chahugi apne career pe dhyan do aur pyar apne parents se karo bharosa bhagwan pe karo kabhi dukh nahi hoga 🙏
It depends upon, how you have created the boundary in relationship. Never give such freedom which result into trauma
Stay Strong Prakriti! Time and God will heal you. Thanks for sharing OUR story
Strangely all relationships abuses happen in this bracket of 25 to 30 and targets are woman who want to explore their lives for a better purpose. These men are bit older or of your age. And their target are emotionally vulnerable girls. So women get into that trap.
I'm so proud of you, atleast someone who is going through same like your situation may get some ideas..
This is story of her but what inspirational in it
Men doesn't like a women who is strong in all walks of life
You are lucky enough to understand this but sometimes girls donot realise abuse relationship and get married to such monster
yes.... Their life would be like hell
YES.I ACTUALLY DID SO.N THEN REALISED THAT I HAVE BEEN DECEIVED LONG BEFORE.BUT WHAT IS THE WAY OUT
Like I did and now I'm paying for that
My girlfriend is female version of your boyfriend, it is very tough decision for me to leave her , she always humiliated me , but i leave her because she is destroying my life
I can truly relate to you. Just moved out of an abusive relationship. The narcissist is always good in front of others only a life partner knows the truth.
More power to all the people who walked out or want to walk out of such abusive relationships..🙌
people think that abusing,beating is.. The part...of relationship.. ..😥😥
Who thinks 🤔
@@ritzcreations7947 society... Some people
@@arpitarao6641 no dude
It is totally unintentional to do so
No one is in such thoughts that "whenever I get into a relationship I'll just abuse/beat her/him"
😂 Some people strat doing so bcuz they maybe are with wrong person 🙂
Your ex was a Narcissist. And many people go through this.
समय और परिस्थितियां किसी के साथ नहीं चलते।
लेकिन आप अपनी परिस्थितियों को अपने अनुरूप ढाल सकते हो।
आप अपने समय को अपना गुलाम बना सकते हैं।
My bestfriend Nick are also in a that type of relationship few months ago .
But he sortout everything between his and his gf by talking and lot of conversation with each other .
I personally thought that and it was my personal experience that :-
toxic friends , ego , overthinking are the real reason of any bad relationship .
Many of his friends give him advice to broke up with that girl but only few friends and i give advice to have some more conversations with his girlfriend and sortout all the things .
His girlfriend also did this things like your boy friend
But after some conversations and after giving some more time on his relationship he realise that she always care for Nick and Nick realise that some faults are also of Nick .
After some time Nick thanks me alot to give him advice not to break up and give some time to your relationship .
Toxic friends+ ego + overthinking is real reason of flaws in and relationship .
Somethimes we thought our partners are submissive on us and abusive towards us but just think that may be your patner care for you . Instead of instant break up just talk about it and give some time .
Some time we see only patner's fault also think about self actions and behaviour is also very .
Any relationship can't beak from one side some faults of our is also there but may be it can't appear.
If you are in a relationship and your partner nerver appreciates your hard work, your career goals and never supports you to grow, or he/she is jealous of your earnings or always compares you with others or always makes you feel like you are nothing and most importantly never listens to your advice or makes fun of it.. immediately leave that relationship..
ur beggning...is same as like. mines... just coz.. .. i m good to people... i think they r... and... have faced it🙁
How brave she is l'm really proud of you.
This is a typical Narcissist abuse which is the "pandemic" in relationships today. It should be taught in schools. He would have destroyed you immensely to a point you get physical illness like heart problems and stroke. God saved you lovely lady. Live your life fully. Thank you for sharing.
I was in a similar abusive relationship, and it made my life hell, this was narcissistic abuse. I gathered courage to break up after many years of relationship!
Narcissist in any form is toxic
Thank God you saved yourself from him. People never have good intentions only selfish intentions.
More power to u and all the other survivors'. can feel the emotion from each and every situation.
This is a complete narcassitic behaviour. At times, people do things/ go to any extent in order to achieve their goal which means to woo the women- saying things what you want to hear, trying to isolate you from your family members, sulking over doing things that you like..it’s pure control and manipulation - gaslighting
I hear the pain in your voice. You are still going through a lot of sadness. But you Are strong. God bless you with the partner you deserve.
U r very courageous human , i can totally understand what u hv gone through ... ❣️
Bravo my Dear !!! You’re such a brave girl !! These things only get perpetuated with silence . They don’t normally survive the openness of exposure , and the light of Day . Light, Truth and life are essential to thrive. Keep on keeping on 👏👏👏
In this gender is not a problem boy can make mistakes or girl can make mistakes. But understanding is important.
Thank you sister ..I have gone through this type of relationship...and now I have totally stopped contact with that person.. I am more mentally happy now
Omg , my bf was also same. I just left him. Czz it was going sooo toxic. I'm so happy now, it seems some burden just went away.
Only being nice or love u is not enough in a relationship respect understanding and prioritise happiness of partner is needed u did ryt hope now u reconciled ur happiness and better luck next 🙂
We all have same story. At least girl, you have courage to tell everybody he trust unlike us. Proud of you.
Same here but i quit him proud of you sis ❤🙏
I had been in the same situation last year and I was so blind in love that even after ny friends told me he is toxic I did not believe them and stayed with him. He would insult me and also my family. He wanted to prove that he is a man and women are worthless. As women we trust a man and think they are good but not all men are good some are toxic and they show they true colours after few months
Thank you soo much. Most of the girls face this situations and most of them suffer and not share. Thank you for opening our eyes to realise and understand the truth