REACTING TO YOUR *JUICY* RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS | PART 2

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  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    You guys spoke absolute FACTS! And your analogies were on point Chad! Especially the “my wife is a beautiful flower” one! Hahaha.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      hahaha thanks a lot my man! Have you made it to the end?!?

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yayyy Greg congrats

  • @ryushizu17
    @ryushizu17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    1:27 The first year of marriage is the hardest one
    3:03 Your significant other will satisfy all of your needs
    5:06 Your relationship feels stronger after an argument has been resolved
    6:19 Feelings aren’t the most important thing in a relationship
    7:58 Getting married makes problems go away
    8:30 It is okay to not be physically intimate for a long time
    9:52 You get to know the person more and see all their flaws in a marriage
    9:58 Intimacy is not as exciting in marriage
    11:00 You’re annoyed at your partner 50% of the time
    11:53 Only a lucky few have long lasting relationships
    14:15 Fighting doesn’t happen often and they will never hurt your feelings
    15:24 The attraction fades
    16:50 It’s great while you’re dating but it gets miserable in marriage
    19:18 Farting in front of your s.o isn’t normal
    19:53 When dating you should be 100% they’re the one before engagement
    20:14 You agree on almost everything and you pray together
    20:27 You never go to bed mad at eachother
    21:36 First kisses are really cringy
    21:43 Sex is for the pleasure of both spouses every time
    22:13 You always feel comfortable in eachother’s presence
    22:19 Having sex with your spouse is always to try for a baby
    22:35 You won’t have a best friend of the opposite sex
    23:31 You and your spouse are always on the same page about timelines
    23:43 First time you’re intimate you will get pregnant
    23:58 You’ll always know what the other needs love language wise
    24:18 Every relationship is better with Jesus in it
    24:22 Marriage is not only between the couple but also between the two families

  • @taynacarvalho6471
    @taynacarvalho6471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "intimacy mean into me you see" okay, that felt deep to me🥺🔥 thank you guys for all the wisdom you share with us! I learn a lot from you, more than I can put into words. thank you for always pointing to Jesus and encouraging us to grow in Him🔥

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hahah aww we love seeing your name pop up, Tayna!!!

  • @eunicepagaduan
    @eunicepagaduan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Feelings are real but not always reliable. Always be reminded to balance your feelings with Truth.

  • @frankschattner7640
    @frankschattner7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You both have a lot of wisdom at such a young age. I admire how you're both learning through the ups and downs of marriage in order to produce a healthy long term marriage. Interestingly, you both remind me of my wife and I when we were first married 40 years ago! I can say you're both are giving solid and practical advice!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dang I love that! Thanks for the feedback and encouragement!

    • @frankschattner7640
      @frankschattner7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ToriAndChad My wife watches all of your videos and thinks you're both awesome.

  • @ejlopina7165
    @ejlopina7165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Chad looking at Tori explaining: Such focus, then realizes something
    Tori looking at Chad explaining: "Wow, he's my husband" eyes ♥️

    • @jessmin6288
      @jessmin6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought i was the only one who noticed lolol

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I always love to see that 🥰

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      hahahah SUCH FOCUS!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      hahah I definitely listen intently and actively think while she is talking!

  • @jlv61560
    @jlv61560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think the "first year of marriage" assumption is more likely than not. In the military we described the formation of any team as going through three phases: Forming, Storming, and Norming. You "form" your team during the engagement (at least I hope you do!), which is when you get to know each other and begin to explore the strengths that each person brings to the team. And then the first year of marriage is the "storming" phase where you all scrape off some rough edges and modify your behaviors and expectations to create the space everyone needs to function most efficiently. And then after that you settle into a functional routine ("norming") that allows the team to work smoothly together (generally) and succeed. So yes, I think, even having been through a marriage where it really wasn't all the bad our first year, that this would still tend to be my expectation for the first year of most marriages.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Great wisdom here!

    • @jlv61560
      @jlv61560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad Aww, shucks. Thanks. ;-)

  • @Mia-uv8co
    @Mia-uv8co 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love the calmness and peace you have within yourselves that shine from you. It's just so refreshing to see. I just recently found your podcast and listening to multiple episodes every morning. Love listening to you two and the wisdom you share with your viewers/listeners. Wishing you all the best and God bless you! ☀️
    P.S Chad's analogies are the best thing ever. 😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww you are so kind!

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Looool! Speed Round: We need to hear Chad's analogy of being at a restaurant in relation to giving hints in marriage. Something tells me it was going to be good 😁

  • @nusakaucic9533
    @nusakaucic9533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you're like the older siblings/parents everyone always wanted to have. you are so wise! thanks for the video :)

  • @MadisonBailee
    @MadisonBailee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ok i stumbled onto your channel today and i'll be watching every video for the next few days 😂 y'all are so cute and genuine!!! this is advice everyone should hear. thank you for being so open and honest!

  • @yaninabotejue
    @yaninabotejue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for being honest and being the best possible ambassadors for the kingdom! :’) gotta be my fave channel of the year❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww thank you very kindly!!!

  • @carolwilliamsblog
    @carolwilliamsblog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this video, it's an awesome reminder that relationships are partnerships and that communication is key. I'm not gonna lie, I'm a tad excited about the home update video!!!!!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww yay!!! COMING SOON!

  • @moniqueaglibut4840
    @moniqueaglibut4840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ohh we have another talk video. I'm so liking this lol and apparently excited on how you guys would actually answer those juicy questions 🐨🐢

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahah always bring it back to the Talk videos!!!

    • @moniqueaglibut4840
      @moniqueaglibut4840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad hahaha yes, this kind of talks give me a vibe as if you guys are talking to us one on one like catching up. But in much more in depth of topics. Very wise and yaaas welcome back to the seat -in videos with Chad and tori 🐢🐨

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is our goal so thanks for letting us know sweet baby yoda!

  • @byvictoriavalentina
    @byvictoriavalentina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys scare me sometimes!! I literally JUST talked about acknowledging feelings but not staying in them with my therapist, cause it’s something I have to work on, and you guys mentioned it in the third question!! So good 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @famreact
    @famreact 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for these videos, they've helped to decrease my anxiety. Words of wisdom inspired by God to help those struggling, keep it up! God bless you both 🙏 Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We lov eyou! Thanks for being here with us!!

  • @talkelley3
    @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was a great video! Great to hear y'all debunking assumptions about marriage 😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks a ton my man!

  • @AaronShu
    @AaronShu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The amount of joy that fills me when you post a new video...!

  • @shwetav
    @shwetav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this! Your wisdom comes out shining as you show us how real marriage is and how the working within it only gets easier when both are in it and uplift each other. Service at heart always!!
    Thanks a ton for all the valuable pearls of sweetness and realism!! 👏
    Love you both!! ❤

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for being here as always, Shweta! We love you!

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    @ the description, YESSS give all the feedback and advice and long answers!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahah you know we have to

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad hahahah for sure

  • @nekanehuarte
    @nekanehuarte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE this kind of videos. It’s crazy how we assume things in this context that aren’t truth when you’re married. SO helpful, thank you so much!! “Best wishes” from Spain 🇪🇸 !!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMEN!!! Warmest regards hahah

  • @denikasdiary
    @denikasdiary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Did y’all get a new camera?? The quality of this video is sooo good. As always, love this video. Sending my love to you guys!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah we have a "loaner"! Can't wait to show you the camera skills in Tuesday's Video!

  • @gabbielawandi5952
    @gabbielawandi5952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Chad & Tori
    I know this is so random you have no idea who I am (which is totally fine )
    I just felt the need to reach out anyway and tell you that I benefit loads from what our gracious Lord says through you both!.
    Thank you for giving it to us straight! Dare I say even, thank you for bursting my bubbles - aka expectations 😂
    For speaking the truth in Love
    I hope and pray that our gracious Lord continues to bless you and your family, service 💪🏼🙏
    Keen for more 😁😁😁

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awww you guys! I did not see that subscriber of the week coming at all! Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean so so much! And yeah I’m from Aus and it’s just ticked over to 1am here haha but I’ll never miss your vids! Love you both!!!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AWW YOU DID MAKE IT TO THE END! hahah We love you! Thanks for all the support!!

  • @TreasureLovely
    @TreasureLovely 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hate the speed round. I want all the analogies and nuggets of wisdom 🥺🥺🥺🥺 hour long video please?? 🤣 I love y'all ❤

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahaha LETS GOOOO!

  • @meganshank4800
    @meganshank4800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another great video!! Thank you for being real, open, and vulnerable with us in such a humble, kind way!
    College has been keeping me a little crazy in my corner of the world, but I still try to watch every vid! :0 :)

  • @scottishmamalivingingodslight
    @scottishmamalivingingodslight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not even started listening yet! But Gosh, no significant other can meet all of your needs! We have needs that are deep within our hearts that ONLY GOD can fill! If you are expecting everything from your spouse, you are creating an idol and putting them on a pedestal they will never be able to measure up to!

  • @jkkroch
    @jkkroch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every time I listen in to one of your videos, I am blown away. You guys have a wealth of wisdom to share and while I'm not currently pursuing a relationship, I am always encouraged by you and it's definitely healing something in me from negative past experiences. Gods Grace and love is truly what we all need to relate in a healthy way towards others! God bless your most unique and amazing ministry- may others come to accept Him as their Lord and saviour thru you.
    Jess from land down under ✌

  • @sunshineanddaisies_
    @sunshineanddaisies_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chad's description/analogy of attraction 🥺

  • @jaanviveluguleti467
    @jaanviveluguleti467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woww there's always lots of important reminders and wisdom that comes from you guys that makes us pause and introspect. And you do it giving out such warmth, safety, love and very profound thoughts. You guys are simply beautiful Chad & Tori!! I love you guys so so much! Thank you for doing TH-cam🙏 I have been a part of the Masters Fam since a while now and I’m so grateful for you guys🤗. So much love and support always, from India❤🙏 I’m gonna watch the video now☺

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thanks for those kind words! It really does mean a lot..

    • @jaanviveluguleti467
      @jaanviveluguleti467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad Always supporting you guys❤🤗

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We can feel it!

  • @amandaclark6780
    @amandaclark6780 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    New to watching your videos in the past few months and I've binge watched all of them!!! Y'all definitely show Christ in your relationship and individually. What great role models, especially for me being a newlywed. Love y'all and your hearts!

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love these assumptions videos! Can't wait to watch later!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah Let us know what you think!!

  • @kalaaa_
    @kalaaa_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The intimacy definition of Chad just explote my mind!!! 🤯🤯🤯 happy to learn from youu both🤍

  • @sarabjorklund7564
    @sarabjorklund7564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are the the most pure, and down to earth people I never knew I needed. I really appreciate your wise and beautiful words on every video. Thank for such an amazing video. 👏 ♡

  • @dsophie7816
    @dsophie7816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not even in a relationship, not even close to being in one in any way and yet I feel so blessed having watched this Video. Your relationship gives me hope that I can have a functioning relationship one day if only I keep my eyes on Jesus. I used to be so scared of ever getting in a relationship because I didn't feel like I had a good example. Now, even though you are on the other side of the planet, I have had a great example in you for over a year. I have learnt so much from you about realtionships, but also about faith, and I could not be more grateful. I am so much less afraid just because I feel so much more prepared and knowledgeable, just because you chose to share with all of us your experiences and your struggles. I have been so so blessed by you. Thanks so much!!
    God bless you

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww that is so sweet of you to say all of that... seriously thank you! We feel blessed by this comment!

    • @dsophie7816
      @dsophie7816 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad well I'm so glad it blessed you because you've been blessin' me a loong time😂
      Seriously though, you're so welcome. It's just the truth :)

  • @veritygrace1257
    @veritygrace1257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well hello there 👋🏼 so excited for this one!

  • @moniquecatrisse42
    @moniquecatrisse42 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you both for taking the time to respond and truly interact with the community. I can’t begin to explain how much joy these videos have brought me. Stay cool 😎

  • @abbycatherine
    @abbycatherine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PLEASE discuss the "live your truth" topic. I love hearing Christian's discuss it!

  • @neoandlykkecat
    @neoandlykkecat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An awesome video as always. You are amazingly brave to talk about things that most people woulden't dare to talk about. I really love that. Hugs from Norway.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for tuning in!!!

  • @PhoebePedrina
    @PhoebePedrina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hahahah the sigh at the end when Chad didn't have to stop himself from talking was the best

  • @hailey5672
    @hailey5672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the response to not go to bed angry. I feel like there is pressure about that. I am like tori where I wanna feel secure before going to bed but my SO cant process properly if it's late at night. It would make me so frustrated that he wouldn't stay up to talk to me but I've had to learn that he needs that space to cool down and think. Love you guys so much!!

  • @luanagonzalez5441
    @luanagonzalez5441 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys I love this video! and the description is so true we need to live beyond ourselves!

  • @linnea9947
    @linnea9947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh I'm soooo looking forward to watch this video in a little bit🤩 I so need to sit down and relax, just got back from the hospital so this just made my day sooooo much better!! Love you guys!💝💛

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh wow... we hope everything is okay... We love you too!

    • @linnea9947
      @linnea9947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad yes thank you now it's better, I by accident slipped with the kitchen knife while preparing somethings for dinner and got a nasty cut😬 thankfully I didn't get too deep so everything is good now😊

    • @jessmin6288
      @jessmin6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@linnea9947 hope your week gets better soon, Linnea! Praying for your speedy recovery! ❤

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ouch that is no good... :( glad you are okay now!

    • @linnea9947
      @linnea9947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jessmin6288 thank you so much Jess!❤️ Have a lovely week!

  • @KarrenKora
    @KarrenKora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    did you guys get a new camera? or maybe new filter preset? somethings different

  • @eboniekate9910
    @eboniekate9910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Also from Australia and it is 1:16am! Love your videos! Always so encouraging :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah you are a champ!!

  • @lunarose72
    @lunarose72 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the wisdom you guys speak, especially for people who are single like me who are learning to seek God first and let everything else fall into place❤️ Btw I noticed you get your mail in Lakeland, that’s my hometown! It would be so cool to run into y’all one day😂

  • @katelynjoy
    @katelynjoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YAY!!!! Y'all did another one! Thanks so much!! Love y'all so muchhhh

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loveeee this again! So great!

  • @user-kq2gp7vs6t
    @user-kq2gp7vs6t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hellooo guyysss, so excited for this videooo🤩🤩🤩🤩

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yay! We are happy you're here!

  • @Danc3L0v3r5678
    @Danc3L0v3r5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey just wanted to say:
    1. I always love seeing y’all’s videos! Love y’all’s relationship so much💕
    2. I really needed to see that last message at the end of the video cause I had literally just came from somewhere where I thought I was ready and then it just didn’t seem like…anyway, gonna put a plug on that one for now lol but basically, that word of encouragement at the end really was nice to read after the day I had which I’m still blessed to be where I am in life but yeah!! Thank y’all for being so Holy Spirit led and so sweet!❤️💕

  • @alexschrick8114
    @alexschrick8114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i met y’all at the nashville meet up w/ milena & jordan & have been watching ever since! i love so much that i got to meet you before watching your channel it’s pretty special :):) anyways, hope you have the best day 🤍

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thanks for showing up! We are thankful for you! Love that we got to meet you over there!

  • @serenityh.
    @serenityh. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    19:01 Tori just explained the Hallmark Channel
    😂😂😂
    I only watch that channel when Golden Girls comes on but those previews, during the commercials… *CHEEEESSSYYYY*

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so impressed by this video this is sooooo good!

  • @alenaannmathews5323
    @alenaannmathews5323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was such a beautiful video. 💛💛You guys are just amazing. My ultimate role models. 🥺Because of you guys I believe in love and it has helped me much better to understand how christ should be the centre of a relationship. 💛

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww that means so much!!!

  • @celinem.3847
    @celinem.3847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your wisdom and advice on topics such as marriage! Your videos bring me so much joy and peace. I'm looking forward to your next one!
    I love you Chad and Tori, and may God bless you both! ❤️🙏❤️

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yesss. So keen for this

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WOOO! We are glad that you are, my man!

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow I love hearing your insights! I felt like the Lord was so present in this video 🥰🥰

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww that means the world Keeks!

  • @olivianickell3035
    @olivianickell3035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It would be awesome if you all did kind of the opposite of this video where people respond to what they've actually learned in marriage/relationships that they didn't expect. That way others could share their wisdom/experiences and you all could react to those :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wait! That is such a good idea!

  • @gabyduarte8774
    @gabyduarte8774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "intimacy: into-me-you-see" ok! keep your love on! go on with ya bad selves

  • @talkelley3
    @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Also TH-cam in case you're not aware... promote this video, tis 🔥 😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah I don't think they like our channel! ;) lol

    • @talkelley3
      @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad Well if God is for you who can be against you? Not even YT's algorithm last I checked 😂😂

  • @franz5714
    @franz5714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has so much wisdom it’s got me all hyped up!! Yalls were spitting facts every second haha!! 💛🙏🏼

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah why thank you!!!

    • @franz5714
      @franz5714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad now I can’t stop thinking about all the stuff I just learned haha, I think I’m gonna need to rewatch and take a few notes 😜🤣

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So much wisdom👏🏼

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for being here!!

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad always! Praying this video will reach the right people and they will be blessed:)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We sure hope so too!

  • @kayleereinhardt5397
    @kayleereinhardt5397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just LOVE listening to you two so much!! 💕 thank you for your videos and podcast

  • @momoreal50
    @momoreal50 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good! So much more to marriage, so much depth!

  • @hannahjames2906
    @hannahjames2906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The thumbnail is everything😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah that's what Tori was thinking!

  • @tomix2013
    @tomix2013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was expecting the second part a lot... Thank you guys you are wonderful and I enjoy you.. God bless you.. 😀😀.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww happy you made it here!!! God bless you too!

  • @kaydeebeedy1582
    @kaydeebeedy1582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The hardest year of marriage is by far the first year of parents. So hard!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      that is probably so true!

  • @esperancacapelao2424
    @esperancacapelao2424 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do the “do do do do doo do do…” thing at the end too subconsciously, and feel everything Tori does when Chad starts 😹😹

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    FACTS FACTS already 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @SalesforceSamurai
    @SalesforceSamurai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!! Someone gets it concerning best friends of opposite sex. I have learned alot from you guys, Blessings Ahead!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for doing life with us!

  • @Songwritersbehindthecurtain
    @Songwritersbehindthecurtain 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations 🎉🍾🎈🎊 on 87.9k subscribers.

  • @emmam3416
    @emmam3416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so much wisdom and loved watching it!

  • @angelasantiago7797
    @angelasantiago7797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yall are the best love yall so much !

  • @peteysrib
    @peteysrib 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are you guys going to be doing another video about anxiety? I really enjoyed the last one you guys did.😁

  • @brimstoneclub
    @brimstoneclub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "No. No. NO. STOP THAT." - Chad Mode engaged

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahahah CHAD MODE ACTIVATED

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for debunking these assumptions! They're very insiteful for those of us preparing for marriage.
    Also... how do you guys not fart in front of each other? I try not to fart in front of my bf but I literally cannot help it. I have more gas than he does. It's kind of embarrassing 🙈

  • @dakotadupee2176
    @dakotadupee2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so funny! Love y’all! God bless ❤️

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is such good truth and SUCH fireee!!

  • @theauthenticart.
    @theauthenticart. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great advice video fam. Thank you for your words of wisdom 🤍🙌

  • @flurinajost2020
    @flurinajost2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for all your wisdom! love you

  • @rachellynmara
    @rachellynmara 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just got engaged on Monday 🥰 good video to hear at this time!

  • @lindseymitchell9499
    @lindseymitchell9499 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Thankyouthankyou. Always blessed by you two.

  • @chrissuvi
    @chrissuvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lots and lots of wisdom and knowledge!! ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thanks for showing up for us!

  • @crystaldaly9899
    @crystaldaly9899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve only had male best friends, never any female friends and it can work if you’re truly just friends. A lot of people think it’s weird but it’s only weird if you make it that way. My boyfriends and fiancé never had an issue with it…it says that the man trusts you and that’s attractive.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally respect that!

  • @debbiemacias2560
    @debbiemacias2560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May I suggest a "la la la la la laaa la la..." instead of a "Duru du du duuuu du du..." for the song at the end? just for the lols 🤪

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah I could throw people off!

    • @debbiemacias2560
      @debbiemacias2560 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad I just tried it out loud haha, it sounds good. Vocable “bom” also works 🤣

  • @sasscass22
    @sasscass22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love these videos! Thank you ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for tuning in!

  • @emily_espinozaaa
    @emily_espinozaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not me singing the outro with Chad

  • @noratap4341
    @noratap4341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou for sharing the wisdom!! 😊

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for being here with us!!

  • @talkelley3
    @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whattup everyone! Here for all these expectations 😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hahah I'm here for those modeling photos you posted!

    • @talkelley3
      @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad Lol maybe I should be a part-time model? 😂😂😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Part time youtuber, part time pianist, full time at crushing it lol

    • @talkelley3
      @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ToriAndChad Yes! 💪🏼🥳

    • @talkelley3
      @talkelley3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad Also just posted another one lol

  • @erinm6304
    @erinm6304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please go down a rabbit hole about living your truth!

  • @intriguinglyvague7416
    @intriguinglyvague7416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you ever do book recommendations? Bc I would love to see what you guys enjoy!

  • @peteysrib
    @peteysrib 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm headed to piano lessons right now so I'll watch later again.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you have a good time!!!

  • @allisonsegalini4452
    @allisonsegalini4452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    aww Chad looked so sad during the speed round :(

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah the sadness was real

  • @MoriahRichter
    @MoriahRichter 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohhh this was good!!!

  • @jonathansmith3063
    @jonathansmith3063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Apparently Chad can't do a speed round. That's probably a good thing...😏

  • @donaldg2845
    @donaldg2845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marriage is a path to walked by two.

  • @heatherjackson9260
    @heatherjackson9260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How are yall such high-caliber people with great character? Make a video on that process!

  • @H48972
    @H48972 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I took a pause in packing for my honeymoon to watch this ;)

  • @jessmin6288
    @jessmin6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yooooooo early fam where you at?! The fun project is gonna be a blast!!!! :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm here! lol! That makes a few of us!

    • @jessmin6288
      @jessmin6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad early bird gets the worm! (Aka your sweet responses) :)) Ps. Will the fun project be out next year? 👀

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah and the second mouse gets the cheese! one this year and one next year as well!

    • @jessmin6288
      @jessmin6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ToriAndChad wow, we can't wait! The year is just ending so fast, where did this year go?! Yalls will be moving into your new home before we know it! 🤯🤯🤯

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly Tori and I have been talking about that so much lately in terms of how this year seems to be going faster and faster!

  • @Joyfullychelle
    @Joyfullychelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can’t get enough! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for being here with us!