Unperturbable: Ghosted, But Now She’s Back!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ต.ค. 2024
- The importance of being unperturbable when you get ghosted, but she comes back later.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who met a girl though online dating that totally knocked his socks off. They had 4 great dates, but when she went on a trip out of town she disappeared and left him on read for almost 2 months. Then she reached out at 3 am. She left him hanging again after he responded, almost like she forgot she even reached out the night before. Now he’s thinking about sending an angry message to let her know he didn’t appreciate being ghosted. He asks my opinion.
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In my opinion you should just move on..if she behaves like this at first there is a high chance she will do it again..you deserve to be with someone that treats you with respect and is easy to communicate
True, but Corey is just giving the guy advice to get him what he wants, he's not telling him what he should and shouldn't do. I doubt Corey himself for going for someone who ghosted him.
@@WillHoward2002 I was dating a girl 2 months everything was spot on no indications of any exes or anything, she would text me everyday we would see each other three times a week had a lot of fun lots of chemistry, then I was ghosted, kissed her good night never saw her again, finally 3 weeks later I got a hold of her, wasn't needy or over pursuing, at that point I read the book seven times, she said too soon to start a relationship with somebody new we can be friends, I said no friends no platonic romantic only.. give me a call if you change your mind, she was out of a relationship for 6 months she went back to her ex boyfriend, I never called or text this girl again, I saw her three and a half years later ran into her, I was a little cocky to her not bad but she took me to the curb like the trash plus the ghost thing is no character and coward, talked a little bit and I said bye never heard from her again ran into her just lately, now she just avoids me and distant, everybody said she's probably embarrassed for what she did to you, I don't know but a ghoster is what they are they showed their colors when somebody tells you or shows you who they are believe it
@@WillHoward2002 Ok but I think that if she does it a second time move on because she is so damn toxic and anyway she’s jerking you around
The important teaching of the video, is that it doesnt matter the outcome, you should always behave like a a man. Calm, centered and unperturbed!
Don’t send a Burt hurt text. Do nothing. Drunk texts reveal true feelings. They say alcohol is a great truth serum
The IMPORTANT thing to remember about women who ghost you, is that in most cases, they are shopping around. If a woman comes back, it may be because she was disappointed elsewhere, and needs a temporary base to work from until she gets ready to go shopping again. She's a ghoster BECAUSE she's a shopper.
Brutal truth
😂😂😂😂 Women have taught me to become a bargain shop or pro LOL.
Bu in médium/large cities most women in the dating scene are shopping
Well put!!
I agree with coach. Men shouldn’t act butt hurt in these situations. Its beta and feminine to display scorn. The Red Pill community is toxic in this way. However, I also believe that it is BS that we as men allow women to bounce around like pinballs from one guy to the next, depending on how a particular relationship is going. Be scarce. If she leaves you once, walk away for good, no matter how emotionally anchored you are to her. Don’t allow her to have her cake and eat it too. We have been letting women get away with this behavior for too long. Its a bi-product of the neo-feminist movement. Walk away and never look back. There are countless fish in the sea.
This is a very important point you make.
Why should we give women the power to decide with who to share your life. Two disrespectful behaviors in a short period of time is a big red flag 🚩
Move on and treat her as FWB, she does 100% of the contacting until you found someone worth .
We are the prize as well!
@@locutushh"why should we give women the power to decide with who to share your life"? Well, each woman certainly has the power to determine if a man shares his life with HER. Women do have a choice in THAT matter.
I completely agree with this. A girl ghosted me. So I become perturbed. But I reached out to her on it and was honest. I know it didn’t help my chances at all cause but maybe she can learn something from it. And its time for me to walk and never look back
@@timgibney5590 this completely.
@@arnie1046 ok, I agree with that
Bro you really helped me out through a rough time in my life a few years ago, just wanted to say thanks.
It’s great to have that take it or leave it attitude but at the end of the day it still sucks to be ghosted.
Just be patient. Infinitely patient.
women come and go, they ghost and return, they all do, i adopted a stoic approach, if they are semi cute they have literally dozens and dozens of options, i just don't let it phase me, or take it personally, just keep on doing my thing
You are a 1000% correct. Well said
Hell yeah that’s how it’s gotta be
Women who jerk you around like that are not worth your time.
Find a woman who is consistent.
Agreed. This girl thinks there is NOTHING wrong with doing this to this guy so she'll just keep doing it over and over again. Total waste of time and he'll be left dealing with all the pain from it.
@@Frederick0220 You don't have to and you shouldn't. Trust me, there are nice girls out there who aren't insanely self absorbed like this.
Women and consistency mix like water and oil
Bruh, y’all have no concept of women at all
@@travmarquee3213 ladies have been pretty harsh to ya huh ?
A guy is completely justified in being angry and bitter for this treatment.
BUT those feelings aren't helpful or useful. Heal and walk away.
This woman actually sounds like the type of woman you should ghost. Sucks that your feelings is involved but she playing too many games. Walk away.
i agree. I wouldnt waste anymore if my precious time on a girl who just ghosts n play games.
They ALWAYS come back. The sad part, that makes me feel bad for them, is that- at least in my experience- it's always too late.
Women are only interested in me when I am seeing at least 2-4 other girls.
They only decide that they WANT me, once I have already decided to share my romantic energy exclusively, with someone else.
Never fails. If I could take bets against it like horse-racing, I would be many times wealthier than I already am.
Man this is just so true. One girl I was talking with for only 2 days and we had like 1-2 messages per day so I wasn't rushing it, nor talking about myself/ being too needy, just suddenly ghosted me which was a bit surprising so after waiting for 3 days I just moved onto a next girl and had great sex with her. Literally a day after this ghoster girl pops out of nowhere after 2 weeks of silence. Can't make this stuff up lmao
@@Kaatis0😂
I literally just had this happen to me, went out once ghosted me now she's visiting me 700 miles away
Crazy timing on this video. I just got the "Heyyyy I know it's been two years but..." text 2 days ago. 🤣
What did you say dude?
My last relationship, I got that text multiple times over the course of four years. I hope it works out for you, but I had to give up on this girl. She wanted everybody all at once. Now I’m in a great relationship where this crap isn’t an issue.
Only Reason she comes back after all that time is because her life is in ruins. And you are Just the guy to pick her back up. Boys, what do we say about woman like that?
She belongs to the _____
@@Kirajiren oh hey life is crazy, psycho ex, restraining order, family illness, my cat died, job stuff, sorry about disappearing, all of the typical stuff that may or may not be true. Honestly, if you're going to reappear after two years, don't go to Dollar Tree for your text excuses. We've known each other for 15 years and we hooked up the first time we met, so I'm not some stranger from Match or whatever.
That being said, she's welcome to come over for some dinner and indoor Olympics. I'll go as far as my front door to let her in. I have a feeling that she probably got fat, but that's just a hunch.
Edit: I misread your question. I said hey what's up? Yeah it's been a while. Gotta run because I'm at the hospital with my mom [this was actually true]. Let's catch up.
Its a game they play. Go to one, gets board, go to the other, gets board...etc etc. They hate being alone.
They ALWAYS come back, fellas....
Just don't let them BACK IN, is all.
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Made some green juice this week coach. Trying to get right like you 💪🏾
A woman ghosted me and 8 years later she reached out to me while she was married.
My ex didn't ghost me, but she's married and reached out. She married a guy with my name, and he looked like me. I feel bad for the new husband, cause it's like he's a bootleg copy of me. Can't be satisfying to be in that position
@@caveman357 Damn son.
@@xFlared Bugged me out. She’s a pretty good woman too
@@caveman357 If you impregnate her, the baby would still look enough like the husband that it wouldn't set off any alarms. I wonder if she ever considered that. 🤔
ohh dude this is swag moment
Did my homework for the week. listened to the audio book for the 10th week in a row. I read the book 3 times and then figured I can get the audio book and listen to it through my headphones at work. I listen it at 1.2 speed and get through it in a shift.
When I started my girlfriend was on the verge of dumping me. She was irritable and bitchy all the time. I got her out on a date and I simply kept it light and fun. Made her laugh and feel good and have her associate me with having a good time.
She is in the 9-10 range and has been since I got things turned around. Now is not the time for complacency or to get sloppy. I will continue to listen, learn and apply the little nuggets of gold this work has to offer.
This has taught me so much, it was all there to see and since , as the book says " men haven't taken the time to develop this skill like women have". I have never realized how truly beautiful the feminine energy is when a woman and giving her all to you. Before when I'd come home grumpy and my woman pours her feminine energy all over me I'd push it away causing huge problems in all my relationships, it is so much easier to take 5 or 10 mins a few times a day and talk to her about the things she is feeling, listen and repeat some back, super simple and helps to keep her in the 9-10 range.
Nice job
@@ericjay249 Thanks brother!
Don’t get fired from your job haha but nice work
It is totally cool with the employer. I work in a machine shop and its a set of cans that has bluetooth speakers. what a great way to listen repeatedly. I am not kiddin Cory Wayne's word is gospel. Once you start to understand and apply this stuff it really works. I think of things old girlfriends said to me and aligns with all he says. I litterally had one woman I was over persuing told me once " Let me come to you" another told me " The first time I told you I loved you, I felt so safe" @@MFS6793
I know this a year old but I disagree with Corey when it comes to calling women out in they intentional GAMES. It’s a mental play on a man and it creates resentment. But women just laugh you off knowing you are always there to put up with it(even more disrespect!!)
Fellas KINDLY set your boundaries in the most neutral way possible. If she really wants you she will change behavior, if not, then good riddance…
this. They face no consequences and men are dumbfounded why they do it all the time. FFs men should have some self respect
Why would you be open to seeing someone who ghosted you in the first place?
Is it really “immature” or “beta” to call them out for their behaviour being inappropriate???
No one will ever do something if you don’t allow them. being open to seeing them after getting ghosted would still make you look always available. Unless you are dating multiple people at the same time and having someone to have fun with once in a few months wouldn’t bother you.
I agree completely. This guy is just setting himself up for more and more drama and hurt. This girl sounds like trash and KNOWS he's a nice guy that's easy to jerk around.
100% agree. Being beta is allowing them to come back. Call them out then kick them to the curb, that's all ghosters deserve. Men should have some self respect ffs
@@ineffigeI'm torn on this tbh. I've ghosted women because I got serious with somebody else and didn't feel the need to tell other girls. I have also ghosted when I didn't want a woman anymore and that's disrespectful as fuck. Imma agree with you both on that.
Well the person in video obviously really liked her and wanted to be with her, so I'd imagine for some there's a line that moves, on what you're willing to tolerate depending on how much you like someone
Seeing a 3am text the next morning is hilarious 🤣 Got one from a girl a few months back. Later next day I tried to set date but she didn’t reply to the confirmation. On the day that the date would have been she text saying are we still on? I said since she never confirmed I had plans. She asked me out a week later but I was genuinely too busy. Probably hear from her again but who cares 😂
She's a very consistent creature.
From your work I know if you keep cool remain unemotional then women do come back. Then it's tale it from there and have fun. Depending on what you're after maybe note them as not a serious option and just enjoy it while it lasts.
Exactly. I just would ghost her kindly. I won’t act feminine and scorn her. I’m just not talking or responding. I dislike being used. As a man I have self respect.
Don't accept any terms but yours. Got it coach. 👍🏾
I’m 54, this shit works!! On my second time through the book. 👍🏾
Funny you drop this video. Just last night, I got that "I know you dont want to hear from me, but I hope all is well with you" text. You cant make this shit up! Lmaoooo
Only Reason they come back after all that time is because her life is in ruins. And you just are Just the guy to pick her back up. And boys, what do we say about woman like that?
@@erikquint1989 she belongs to the streets
@@pedroribas1815
Amen brother.
Don’t know if it’s worth it..behaving like this is very immature..and the reason they get back is because it didn’t work out with the other dude..even if you really like her you should consider the fact that she behaved like this and move on
@@gaard7369 Oh her ass got left on read. Real shit lmao
The timing of this video is impeccable. Thank you Coach Wayne!
Exhausting thing. Exes are just for hook up. Don't waste time dating
I'm realizing, if she leaves or steps away, and you react negative it's probably something else causing that feeling. And until you figure out what that reason is, and how to control being triggered its really difficult to not be perturbed.
Fear of being unworthy. If Lizzo stopped texting you and came back weeks later u wouldn't give a fuck cuz she's obese as hell but if Rihanna did you'd go berserk because she's hot and her disappearance signifies you weren't good enough to keep her. All women are the same; looks don't endow a woman with superior worth.
Dude it’s just plain disrespectful is what it is. Once you realise they are the problem with ghosting, just as much as you have things you can improve. You will I longer pedestalize them
Her friends probably didn’t approve of him so she ghosted him.
sometimes its more nefarious. sometimes the treacherous heifers are jealous and influence her to sabotage
I know coach says don’t burn bridges, but I’m going through this same situation. I think men need to call women out for this behavior in a respectful way. Move on and don’t look back to someone who doesn’t communicate effectively.
I know you wrote this a month ago but I feel the same way. Dealing with a similar situation where I'm getting stood up on our plans. Only discovered Corey's work last week but he does mention standing up for yourself and calling women out. So I'm a little confused since this video seems to propose a different approach.
I'm probably gonna objectively state how she's disrespectful, convey an indifferent tone, but also say that I'd be happy to see her again.
@@ParkourEh How did that go?
@@persona7-7-7 She replied back within a couple hours late at night, along the lines of "Sorry I was away! Had to move back home for the month and it was a lot to deal with. Let's get in touch again when I'm back!" (she mentioned moving before so it doesn't seem like a crazy lie). I didn't open it yet, and the day after she double-texted a completely thorough and pretty honest apology for her share of the responsibility between us. (I apologized for being needy/not giving her space in my original message.) Everything Corey generally says about how us guys get too needy and drive girls away was confirmed. She says she'll communicate better in the future.
I replied back thanking her for honest admission and when she's back, she knows how to get in touch. I'm still in the midst of the situation so no idea how this will play out tbh. Still playing the field but it's tough when you maybe fucked it up with one of those "unicorn" women Corey talks about.
why respond in a respectful way? She threw you out like trash and you want to show respect? Give them what they give you.
@@ParkourEhyou apologised lol? Guessing this girl is long gone by now. Yikes.
I don’t know coach. Doesn’t feel good to just be someone’s second option like that. Like hey after you get piped down, I’ll be right here waiting for his sloppy seconds 😕
True....but in reality....everyone is everyone's else's sloppy seconds by the time you get out of your 20's. Single people cruz the dating scene. Especially women.
@@countdowntorevolution9986 I can see that point to for sure. I guess we know it as a concept...but once it's on an individual level....it hits different
Corey, this is a wonderful video because I usually get annoyed hearing from someone who ghosted me in some fashion. But this video is a blueprint to how to handle it in a civilized, imperturbable way.
Glad to have had a teacher like yourself in my life - wish I had read your book earlier and in full detail, would've turned around my life but no regrets, only lessons
Thank you
I've been ghosted about a month ago by a chick where things were going well (or so I thought). She was all hot on me and complimenting me all the time, but she just ghosted me mid-conversation, and found out like 2 days later she was in a relationship with someone else, which explains why she was '' too busy with work '' to see me again (after 3 successful dates with the indoor olympics). I deleted her from everywhere (without blocking her) and deleted all conversations with her.
I mean she ghosted me for another dude, and I saw it. She wasn't bright enough to delete me or mute me on Facebook, so I saw her relationship status pop up in my news feed. So if she comes back, she won't have me back. And I will damn sure explain to her why I don't want to see her again, and make her accountable for her actions, in a calm, relaxed and respectful manner. I just won't give her the chance to do it again. There is plenty of fishes in the sea.
Ghosting someone shows a great lack of emotional maturity, but also empathy, disregarding and dismissing any feelings or emotions for the other person. It's just disrespectful, also somewhat distasteful, and as a man, I don't tolerate that kind of BS behaviour from her, or any woman for that matter. My boundaries are there, and that's a dealbreaker for me. That honestly turned me off. I ate so much shit burgers in my life, I'm done ahah. Plus, I always keep in mind that if she done it once, she's more than likely to do it again. Thanks, but no thanks.
There is a difference between telling the truth about ditching someone, and just plain ghosting someone.
@@Jaguaist You got that right. But I think she noticed I deleted her, so I don't think she will ever have the audacity to reach out again.
Just like that Green Day song '' (Good Riddance) Time Of Your Life ''
You sound butthurt and like you wanted a relationship with her. You shouldn't even care since yall arent exclusive
Your comment reeks of butthurt. Paragraphs of text. So emotional.
Repetition is the mother of all skill
Go hard coach much love from the land down under 😁
I've been ghosted and I can tell from her social media that she found another guy, even after two incredible dates. If she ever gets back in touch, I will invite her over and tell her to bring a bottle of wine. Until then, I'll date others. But it is hard because I hadn't had such a great connection with a girl like that in 2 years and then she ghosted me (left me on delivered and didn't even open my audio message)
Happens to the best of us
She sounds immature
@@finalninja22 why? its two dates, theres nothing wrong with going with another option. If the woman your pursuing is beautiful, be sure there are at least a dozen other guys competing
@@hsamzsd I’m referring to the ghosting part. That’s immature. She coulda just let the guy know she met someone else. Common courtesy instead of leaving him guessing.
@@finalninja22 the rules of engagement have changed. If you've had sex less than 3-5 times, its really rare for a women to be direct and say she aint interested
Awesome lecture Corey, you've helped me a lot in multitude of ways, much love to you brother.
I don't think Corey ever dated a narcissist... 🤷♂️
I think he probably just stayed away from those ones all together once he got to know them enough. Not us though apparently bro, shits a nightmare. still going through the breakup too.
Saludos desde Guadalajara Jalisco Mexico coach corey
When women ghost you listen to coach and take his advice they will come back , they always come back . The thing is dealing with being angry over this behavior that’s the hard part . You got to keep a rotation to not feel anything .
Every men needs Corey Wayne in their life. I’ve been a student since 2014. Almost a decade now, I’ve dated the type of women that most guys would dream of. I’m just a regular dude, read the book 10-15 times. Most importantly practice!
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I agree Corey but where’s the fine line between standing up for yourself and calling her out on her disrespectful behaviour versus letting it slide? Ghosting is for people who can’t communicate
Watch the video again dude
I did, when you have 4 great dates then she disappears for 6 weeks then comes back, you’re basically training her that it’s okay
@@steve1714 agreed..watched and listened carefully myself. Self respect is highly attractive to women, as is having balls walk away from bullshit. Waiting by the door like some old maid while she exhausts her options elsewhere? Invertebrate behaviour.
Yes agreed. I also see Corey's point in not being perturbed especially when you aren't in a relationship...but do you really want to be involved with someone who has shown you they can disappear just like that?
@@steve1714 you don’t have to automatically marry her, maybe you are Only looking for a sexplaymate every now and then. I wouldnt give someone like that anything above casual hook up from time to time. Like coach teaches, always keep the door open, you never know
Just be direct and firm with her. (weed out all the tyre kickers)👊👊👊
Put her on the spot and say " Returning your call, Any reason why you called me at 3am. " ??
After a stupid ass "oh hey" answer, and if she wasnt aware that she buzzed you then shes going to look like an even bigger fool after the fact she bothered you at 3am after ghosting you for a month. Just dont be butt hurt, be firm. Already this girl Ghosted him, ignored him for over 1 month then she called him at 3am (either on purpose or accidentally.) Do not ask her out anymore, All on her to pursue you.
Perfect timing a girl ghosted Me since may now she has a bf and she said we need to talk tonight after she tried to friend zone me and I declined.
Should still tap. Do it for the sport of it👍🏼
"We need to talk" lol we need to do shit. BLOCK
yeah I hear ya but this guy gives women more excuses for their crappy princess behavior than anyone ive heard
In reality, what are you really gonna do to stop them? Lol
He actually got mad at her.. But still wants her. 😢 Man up, you don't even want her..
This girl is playing major games. Either keeping you as a possible backup and keeps reaching out to make sure you’re still there available or cheating on boyfriend with you
"Leverage" - That's an interesting word in conjunction with relationships ; ) K
Downgrade her to fun only and keep looking.
Corey, the BEST thing you can text back is: 'Who is this?!' No games. She ghost, return the favor.
Well.. if someone did bein disrespectful.. it's 100% okay to call it out.. like why sweeping things under the rug? That's one way of saying that "please, take me for granted"..
she is only back back validation. Also do check if she is a Narcissist. do check for more and more signs and patterns.
Ghosters usually are narcissists.. they can't bond with anyone so they jump on other dick for new fresh validation while hurting someones feelings with no remorse.
If they come back, and they’re fun and good looking, invite them over rock their world and then send her back. Do not commit.
Let them earn that position in your life.
i will always make her apologize before i let her back in my life. no exceptions.
Good job coach
Isn’t it important to share your boundries though??
I mean it seems like you’re dismissing this guy’s feelings and moreover encouraging her to continue in acting in the same manner in the future.
If she wants to act that way she will.. You can't control her actions
Yeah kind of a beta video bet he likes being cucked to each their own.
So, the woman i was dating for 12 months ghosted me. It's my fault for initiating marriage talk. 😢
Anyways, started dating again. Got at least 15 phone numbers in 2 weeks. I cant keep up.
Now ghoster is back, like nothing happened. We dating again but now im still dating others. Until she says what the hell. Im not doing lover boy again ever.
Strongly disagree with that one. If she ghosts you, you should kick her out of your life permanently. Behaviour like in the video is just allowing this behaviour to happen more and more. Have some respect for yourself ffs. Ghosting is utter disrepect, would you talk to someone who spits on you? Even after only 4 dates? F them.
I agree with this, delete her details and message history and walk away.
If she comes back state your disapproval and call her out but just not in an angry butthurt type of way. Be cold and nonchalant and say you're not sold on her just yet
Sooooo. You have what you thought was a great date. She messages you for days after. Then you ask her out again. She ghosts you. Then reappears later. Of course it’s gonna bug you. It’s classless behavior. But there is no point in lashing out. When they show you who they are believe them right?? Treat them accordingly
who else read the book of corey with his voice in his mind?
Love your Shirt coach! Another great educational video.
If you date 2 or three girls at once you won’t be butt hurt if she ghost you for awhile. Just Do not answer texts that are sent after 6 PM untill following day. FaceTime is weird. I don’t understand the point of a FaceTime date. You can’t get laid on FaceTime. Your energy would be better spent on a date with a woman who is available in person. Corey Wayne’s books are excellent. I’ve given out at least five copies to young men. I have younger nephews in their teens and 20s and I gave a copy to a young man that’s about 27 years old and his hot girlfriend broke up with him.
Maybe just reply to the 3 AM text with this “ hey naughty girl come on over” ?
Damn right now in this situation what a timing 😵💫
Success with Corey Wayne's content I feel comes from not over complicating things in any way either for yourself or the girl. This man is a legend.
things were going ok I thought with this girl, we got along great, she would say things like i could look at you all day, I gotta go back to the gym to try to keep you, she struggled with mental health issues and was a prior addict, 4 months clean. She sent me a text that said depressed with picture of the ceiling, so I bought her some flowers and dropped them off on her door since she likes plants, just wanted to try and make her day. next day she sends me a text of the floor with no context, I was at gym so didn't reply right away but I opened it. she instantly text back "great your not talking to me now fantastic, guess the flowers were a goodbye". never opened my messages or replied to me again. didn't delete me off any social media either.
You bought her flowers…. Omg. Why are so many men like this.
@thomaspain7 I bought her flowers because she told me she was depressed, I cared about her, and plants/flowers is one of her hobbies, so I bought her a nice petunia plant, not like roses
@@cd-jk4rh you bought her flowers because you’re a simp. You clearly cared more about her than she did about you so you revealed your SMV and she fled because you turned her off.
Huh..dude she sounds like she needs therapy and professional help.
@Blodia1990 she was a ex addict, and she did suffer mental health issues. But when I did a kind act to try snd be supportive/be uplifting, that's what I got. Left me wondering what's so bad about me
I just had the last one ghost me. She can fly like a butterfly in the wind. I am a 3% man another buss comes every 30 minutes
Let me guess, she messaged you otta the blue, didn't she?
Yea plz update
Don't chase em, replace em (Biggie smalls)
I'm sorry, they actually say, 'she's not your first choice?' That's an Eric Foreman line. Do these relationship gurus like to quote Ross Gellar too? 🙂
Wouldn’t acting unperturbed after being ghosted also enable that behavior?
If he really didnt like how dhe acted, just don't respond to her
Damn, I folded and was perturbed. Did the opposite. Live and learn
Good morning coach!
Sup coach!!
I’m seeing a 64 year old. I love it.
Never be secobd fidel to anyone no ifs and or buts , she chise someone else move on dont look back , if they come back just use them for a friends with benefits
Need some feedback.. slept with my ex.. Didn’t call her after for like a week. When I did hit her up.. She took a day to answer and seemed upset. Did I make a mistake by?
I think it's: she left me on "read" in past tense (red)
Corey, would you let a woman back into your life if she dumped you? Your previous videos don't seem to indicate so. Maybe make her wait a couple months?
They went on 4 dates. They weren’t together.
@@CoachCoreyWayne what if she disappeared after 3 years of dating, ghosted for 5 months and then came back?
@@ZhekaTrololo dude have some self respect and kick that bitch to the curb
@@ZhekaTrololo are you crazy? why would you want someone back like that
My question is. What do you even say if she asks you why you weren´t texting her? (because overpursuing and had to back off and go no contact)
I was busy?. You needed space so I gave it to you?. You ignored me so I backed off (?).
I would text her at 2:30 AM on a weekday. "Sweetness, I'm glad you "loved it Big & made it hm safely...G-Nite!"
(Bottom Line) If some BROAD ghosted you MOVE ON. NEVER TAKE HER BACK!! REPEAT NEVER TAKE HER BACK. CASE CLOSED!!
Sorry but no. If someone ghosts me or does something bad to me Im not going to act like nothing happened or like I dont care if I do care. Unless you really dont care, staying true to your feelings is the way to go. We can argue if we should be or not in a place of not caring about something like this. But if I get bullshitted Im gonna point that out to her and move on.
If she never comes back after 6 months, how should i think about it? Is there a point where a guy just needs to forget about it?
Let her go buddy, if she can ghost your for six months, she would do it again.
Corey is to easy with these type of girls, she is just using you men, yeah if you want only sex is ok but if you want a relationship just move on and change the girl, texting you at 3 am is just a bad sign
The word is IMPERTURBABLE. Geez.
I think he did fine. Language is too complicated sometimes
You must be fun at parties
@@ThomasP525
Somebody! Anybody! I've been in no contact with my ex since may. I've had a few girls in rotation since then. She just made a bumble account and liked me on there. So I liked back this morning. She hasn't reached out, but she just extended her time to reach out for another 24 hrs. So now she has 39 hrs to reach out. What do I do? Hold strong? Or break and say something to her?
But you just said in a recent video that you don't think you could get back with a girl if she left you for another guy because he did stuff with her and all that just recently like a week or two ago
I love you man
Guys a girl texted me something basically she rejected me kindly so I didn’t say anything and just reacted with “👍” does this makes it look like I’m butthurt?
Tbh yes. I never use emojis that often. I have burned bridges but usually intentionally. Sometimes not. I sent that recently to a girl I didn't ever want to talk to again. But otherwise just say "ok" or "that's fine". They are not butthurt but minimal effort. They can be seen as butthurt but they are ambiguous enough to be confusing. So I use the 👍 in a response like yours if I never want to talk to them again. Otherwise I say "that's fine". Tbh it's no guarantee either way but the 👍is basically guaranteeing you won't talk to her again.
15:43 is the answer. Walk away
Yo Corey is oG
Nah just mirror her texting energy 1 day = 1 day
1 week = 1 week
Indoor Olympics hahahaha
imperturbable **
Sir I'm going through relationship problems. I met a girl on Instagram and she got very much attracted to me. The. We came in a relation and fell in love.
But now she is acting weird.
She use to love me a lot & now she don't want me anymore for no reason. We never fight, we never argued, I never disrespected her still this happened to me.
Why is says she is not feeling anything in our relationship and wants to move on.
She said she don't feel the same with me as she feels with her friends and now she is ignoring me on social media and don't want to meet or hangout.
I told her to scroll our old pictures and read our text so she could feel something but still she just don't want to.
We both are from different colleges no common friends so have no common friends.
I don't know what should I do now. What's the reason behind this.
I just love her and she gets irritated whenever I try to explain her. She just want to come out of this relation.
Guys i feel miserable this was my first love experience. This was first time I came much closed to a girl. First date, first hug, first kiss and ofcourse first breakup. I don't know what went wrong. I am perfect & I knew it and even she use to say
this.
I use believe that the only thing a girl wants is love, care & support and i gave it all still after few months she said things are not same now i don't have same feelings for you.
I don't feel the same when you hold my hands, huge me, kiss me. She has no sense of commitment and responsibility. Why don't she get that if we do same things again & again then its not same as it was in the very first time.
She is not a bitch like many girls in my college she is a decent and very humble girl and that was the main reason why i came in relation with her.
Please help me & tell me why is this happening and what should I do.
I'll be waiting for you reply🙏🏼
Thank you
Sorry to hear that bro. Your best bet is to give her space, go no contact and read Corey's book. Just by reading through what you wrote, it sounds like you haven't read the book at all. Once you read it enough, you'll realize all the tiny mistakes you made to make your girl lose interest.
@@christianlucas7834 exactly. That book is the blueprint to life. You can't go wrong following it to the letter