Lisa Joyner Shares Her Tips for Finding Your Birth Parents

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  • Lisa Joyner, host of Long Lost Family, shares her tips for finding your birth parents.
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  • @searphhoney
    @searphhoney 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I found my biologic mothers side of the family last year. I just found my biological fathers side of the family recently.
    With every new relitve that I meat a sadness grows inside of me.
    I still can't locate my birth mother. She was the only person that I ever thought about growing up. So much so that it never dawned on me that I had an entire bilogical family.
    I know I 'm very fortunate to even know some of my bilogical relatives. Yet, the sadness within me continues to grow.

    • @teresacalladine9237
      @teresacalladine9237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How did you find them.
      Did it cost

    • @2.125Official
      @2.125Official 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please share how you found them. Thanks

  • @ospreymoonstone7092
    @ospreymoonstone7092 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Searching now. This video speaks of today's experience I did not expect: anxiety and sadness. This is tough but I need to know.

  • @out.of.sync1
    @out.of.sync1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was adopted in 2010 right after I was born from a 19 year old

  • @SuperFarfel
    @SuperFarfel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm 48 years old and just found out I was adopted. My adoptive parents are both deceased & I'm coming to terms that many of my questions will never be answered. Apparently my Aunt & Uncle knew but were told never to tell me. When my parents passed they all assumed I would have been told by now. Neither f my Aunt or Uncle know where I came from. I'm beginning my search & uncertain what I may find.

    • @The_Nero_Show
      @The_Nero_Show 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So I sooo understand you I am also a late discovery adoptee!! I hope you find more answers

    • @teresacalladine9237
      @teresacalladine9237 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you start
      Did it cost

    • @ShootingwithAngel
      @ShootingwithAngel ปีที่แล้ว

      What did you find out?

    • @baddecisions5915
      @baddecisions5915 ปีที่แล้ว

      This just happened to me last month

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg ปีที่แล้ว

      I know those genetics tests with saliva are pretty good and finding a member or two of your siblings. You could try it...
      Wish you many blessings to come.

  • @LALAandSKY
    @LALAandSKY 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was adopted over 28 years ago from India. There are no records of my birth parents. I hated it when people used to tell me I'm not looking hard enough. In middle school I decided to just tell people that they were dead. I wish I knew them or just know something about them. So no mater how hard you try to find them if there no records your still screwed.

    • @cheesiecheetos7430
      @cheesiecheetos7430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bluespilledpaint how you doing in 2020 have you found them

    • @teresacalladine9237
      @teresacalladine9237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I can't find mine

    • @m_artroom
      @m_artroom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah :/
      I only know around where I was found. But it’s on the other side of the world and I can’t speak the language. I wouldn’t even know how to talk to them if I met them.

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg ปีที่แล้ว

      There is saliva test you can buy online and if anyone of your siblings also did the test, I surely would try.
      Also if you come from India, it may not be known in villages there. I would do this: contact the media, let your story be known and pray because God knows where they are.
      I hope you find them

  • @morganpenaluna2424
    @morganpenaluna2424 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This helped me

  • @dabigdikdangler
    @dabigdikdangler 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Never looked before because it would upset my mother, it would be like saying she's not good enough. However I need to find out for myself, I'm going thru life lost without knowing how it started or the ending to my world's biggest cliff hanger. It's as annoying and unsatisfying as the last episode of The Sopranos x 1,000.

    • @bvtt3rfly_gvtz
      @bvtt3rfly_gvtz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel that

    • @yourshyness32
      @yourshyness32 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never wanted to for same reason, but I lost my mother now 2 years ago and I would like to know now.

    • @bigdaddyafterlifeqc9004
      @bigdaddyafterlifeqc9004 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel ya .. I found my mother while doing stuff I'm not proud of ... it was weird but when I told my adoptive parents I had it just went all wrong ... I have somewhat of some hate towards my adoptive parents... for lying..

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg ปีที่แล้ว

      I think that the heart has enough love for your bio mother and your parents.
      Your parents who raised you are your parents and no one can ever take their place, you can tell them it is a matter of identity and to know more about where you come from.
      Pray about their heart and their hurt and tell them. I am sure they understand.
      Of course it will bring feelings but if they knew you were waiting because of them they would not want that either

  • @user-jg3ik4mm3u
    @user-jg3ik4mm3u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i was adopted bcz my mom was 19 when she had me

  • @3CQuinn
    @3CQuinn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please help my mother find her parents.. they are named on her birth certificate

  • @mikefundis
    @mikefundis 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was adopted and I never met my brother my wife was born my name is Jacob Michael I was born in Spartanburg South Carolina I was born 1979

  • @StevenC32
    @StevenC32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lisa Joyner isn't black but she could be half Asian or half Hispanic. She definitely doesn't look pure white.

    • @freekorpsroman1071
      @freekorpsroman1071 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A hematologist can identify ethnicities through a testing of your blood cells. in my case i was correctly identified as being of white European origin. It could similarly work for Lisa as well.

    • @claraluz2479
      @claraluz2479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She looks half Asian/white

  • @michaelburkholder1270
    @michaelburkholder1270 ปีที่แล้ว

    i am triying to find my brith parents

  • @redleader-qm2od
    @redleader-qm2od 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i came here for tip on HOW TO FIND them, not to "check my emotions". utter bullshit

  • @taliacoletta8776
    @taliacoletta8776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That is a really good idea because I am adopted and the reason I want to know more about it because I have a learning disability and I don’t know immigrant grow out of bed or stay like this so that’s why I’m in trying to find out my birth parents because they may know something that I don’t

  • @mikefundis
    @mikefundis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi

  • @MIsabel65
    @MIsabel65 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hola lisa tengo un familiar que fue dado en adopción al nacer el esta en México y aquie en Estados Unidos el nació podrian ayudarlo

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg ปีที่แล้ว

      A parent or a child? In what state was this?

  • @earlrattus1737
    @earlrattus1737 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey

  • @mikefundis
    @mikefundis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All the doctor and I'm trying to search my birthday Emily and I never met my birth mother rap I was born I was born in South Carolina and my birth record with sword away and was trying to find out why she had me down South Carolina

  • @attilamccann2569
    @attilamccann2569 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lisa hi there my friend needs help to fine only one parent it's been more than 35yr this year we will give up before May2023.Thanks anyway.

  • @seanettecoaxum3269
    @seanettecoaxum3269 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my name is Shanette coaxum I was born in Fordham Hospital in New York in the Bronx in 1971 January 18th they changed my name they change my social security number and I need to know who I really am feel like I am on wit's end I need help I don't know what else to do and I've been trying it might start by myself for a long time and I'm now 46 please help I send my information to long lost family maybe about 5 months or 4 or 5 months ago if anybody on here knows any type of information or what I can do my adoption was private and only thing I know that my mother was 16 years old and her already had a daughter and her mother didn't want her to come home with another child I was given up from the Bronx New York Fordham Hospital in 1971 January 18th please help me if anybody can I need to know who I am and health reasons as well

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you tried the saliva test online, you can purchase them online and send it back. They will tell you some siblings if any of them are on their data base.

  • @khismet
    @khismet 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    she is obviously mixed..I'm just curious ..what is her mix? hmm.

    • @freekorpsroman1071
      @freekorpsroman1071 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She most likely is mixed, but she very closely resembles a lady of Anglophile heritage that i almost married. I think she is HOT in a very wholesome way. She is still the type of lady i (in another lifetime) would marry in a heartbeat!

  • @user-qp3og4od4x
    @user-qp3og4od4x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    J

  • @thugluimx6155
    @thugluimx6155 ปีที่แล้ว

    Came for tips not for emotions omg waste of time

  • @sly3335
    @sly3335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so sad that people have to dig their own research when the government could easily help so sad . Remind me again why we all stay?
    Lol i couldn't help but laugh when you said people would come up to you and ask omg what are you Hispanic? white? mixed? Idk y but The first thing that popped in my mind as a reply was:
    Omg what are you?
    Me: im beautiful is what i am lol 🤣

  • @morganpenaluna2424
    @morganpenaluna2424 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And I'm 4 th

  • @sophiexx1066
    @sophiexx1066 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2nd.. I know noone cares.

  • @lilzimo8290
    @lilzimo8290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amos:fifajunior10

  • @NYCRhythm
    @NYCRhythm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This did not help me at all. Stop being a know it all. You married a millionaire, so you have a lot of entitlements. Get over yourself. You’re not an expert.

  • @sheenajanson8045
    @sheenajanson8045 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5th

  • @zoelynnesings7320
    @zoelynnesings7320 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First to comment

  • @midas3094
    @midas3094 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Useless

  • @earlrattus1737
    @earlrattus1737 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3rd