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I love how she conducted this session. Perfect amount of humor, references and inspiration. The topic has been spoken about often, but her delivery of the topic was rather convincing and was very relatable.
Most writers are excellent presenters. They understand the need for charisma and energy, and of course all of that is backed up by a solid well written and naturally spoken script
Yes but I think we need to put a little less pressure on how people say things, because even if you say something perfectly with love it still can be misinterpreted and taken negatively. It's just as important for people to work on how they receive things and not just place the burden on the other person.
I’m reading her book Professional Trouble Maker now and she mentions how she tried to talk herself out of this TedTalk but did it anyway. So proud of her!
It’s crazy how everytime we are about to step up there will be a demon inside luring you into how your comfort zone is nice and how it would be a lot of work and why we shouldn’t go for it
“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”. This sentence hits different 💛 feeling knowledgeable by watching these amazing TED talks during quarantine 💛
"When the world expects us to be silent, we choose to yell because getting uncomfortable can only guarantee our comfort." I'm truly inspired, thanks Jones.
-Fight or flight. -Get comfortable w/being uncomfortable. I hear these all the time dealing w/social anxiety. 2018 will be my year. Conquering my fear. "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. :D
I always wanted to be the cowboy hero. That lone voice in the wilderness, fighting corruption and evil wherever I found it, and standing for freedom, truth and justice. And in my heart of hearts I still track the remnants of that dream wherever I go, on my never-ending ride into the setting sun. :D
I struggle with social anxiety myself, I thought I would never get over it. But after pushing myself out of my comfort zone again and again, I am breaking down that wall and have accomplished social things I thought I never could. I believe in you! Push yourself out of that comfort zone and you’ll be amazed at the person you really are capable of being.
wow, this talk is one of the greatest one that I clicked on TH-cam. Her message seems obvious but somehow it hits me deeply because in the past I was kind of speaking the truth even it hurt me terribly. The checkpoint that she mentioned is also very important before we speak out loud 1. Did you really mean it? 2. Can you defend it? 3. Did you say it with love? This can help us to say truthfully without offending others.
This woman is very powerful. She conducts herself in a manner of which many people couldn’t imagine themselves doing. I really love it when she said that she chooses to yell in a world that wants us to whisper. Motivation at its finest. Thank you
I just had a dream about people that I went to school with who are doing great things in the world, and a Ted Talk with Luvie pops up on my phone. I'm so proud of Luvie...my fellow Illini.
An amazing woman indeed . The thing is when people are too quiet ,and the rest too loud , there's no room for unterstanding . I am often both . Those 3 questions I will start use them too ,such a great way to start 2018 . I am so sorry for the racism and discrimination ...beautiful hearts &mind have no color ☺
As someone who's always concerned what other people think, her words were really empowering, I aspire to be her. To be like her is like a paradox, give zero fqs to opinions, but care so much on other's needs
I mean this is about one of the most powerful talk I have ever listened to here on TH-cam and I am glad I did. It takes a lot to be Nigerian and take a stand in a public place. And yes, capricons rock! That thing of always wanting our feet on the ground? So true! Thank you for the inspiration, sis.
Almost 3 years later from when I first discovered this TED talk & I am still moved by Miss Jones. You are so inspiring and I truly admire your honesty and grace. This is so great! 💗💐
I saw myself in some of her speech: what others are thinking in their heads, I'm saying it out loud. I used to be afraid of that but now, I feel great about being my authentic self. Thank you for the strength!
This is a great talk, and I encourage everyone to 'be the domino' as she puts it. I would however also encourage everyone reading this to investigate yourselves. It is very easy for those in a privileged position to not investigate our own beliefs and values, what we advocate, believing we already know it all. I know this from my own experience. I held racist beliefs, yet I didn't see them as racist. I held sexist beliefs, and I did not see these as sexist either. It is difficult to confront your own bigotry, it isn't something immediately clear because it is covered by a veil of "That's just how it is". What ripped me out of this mindset was listening to others. Women, black people, trans people speaking up about the various harmful power dynamics they face.
Hakasedess All of our beliefs are difficult to purge. They make us do all kinds of things we don't want, skipping work or cheating on diets. Racist or sexist non-sequitirs need not be placed in a special category. Instead, the more that we see ourselves as believing any unnecessary nonsense and purging those beliefs, the more we can purge them all.
Indeed. Bigoted views are in a particular spot because the overwhelming majority of us do not want to admit we hold them to begin with. Most racist views are not regarded as such by the people holding them. It's important to be open to the idea that one could be racist, but unaware.
Hakasedess It is useful, even necessary, but need not be the first domino! Just knowing that what we know is probably wrong... As Lao Tsu said, "Darkness within darkness, the gateway to all wisdom." Socrates also said to assume that you know less than you believe you do.
Spoken like a bigot, I'm sorry to say. Someone being honest and true with themselves would, had they truly been enlightened, come from a place of understanding, not condemnation. A truthseeker seeks understanding first, the brave will speak with this understanding to test it. Truth sets you free, not conformity.
@Yang Xiao business casual is clothing you wear to an office with a slightly casual atmosphere. Think button down shirts and khaki trousers. It's not very good for outdoor activities!
I met her several times! We hung out at a conference or two. She is a cool person! This was a great Ted Talk on Fear! Good to see her on this platform!
I cried hearing this. I get so much backlash for my words cuz I speak out. This encourages me to know that just cuz there is backlash, doesn't make what I did wrong.
The synchronicities that parallel my own life listed in this video are amazing. Chemistry was the first class in my whole life where I failed an exam. It is also the reason I switched from a pre-med degree. I am terrified of taking a vacation by myself, putting my writing out there for others to judge, and public speaking. I love sky diving and dolphins! I am also a Capricorn. My take away- the universe wants me to start doing the things that make me uncomfortable! Thank you for this amazing video!
In an often "don't stand out" world and having a drive for justice and truth, I will listen to this consistently for the strength of solidarity. Thank you for your courage to speak. You've helped many more on their paths to do the same, I'm sure of this, because you've done it for me!
She just articulated everything I feel! I’m a Capricorn too! Although when she jumped out of the plane my heart went into my stomach. I’m not there yet.
This is so encouraging! I'm going through a situation where I've had to speak up for myself and make my rights respected. It's been uncomfortable all the way, but I'm not afraid of the consequences!
Watching and listening to someone who faced fear directly and intentionally really makes me feel at ease like there's someone and many out there who are living life up and not just be scared within their comfort zone and actually let themselves free from this boundaries we create ourselves, I think it's beautiful, like it's ok to feel fear and keep going anyway and it'll turn out alright in the end . Thankyou so much.
This is definitely one of my favourite TED talks! She has such a presence I stopped doing what I was doing and immediately gave all my attention to this video. It even made me cry a little. Amazing.
This woman is me, and I am her. Same experiences, and she has done something that I have wanted to do, yet I put it off for 4 year's. I have since decided that this is the year. I love it! Congrats sister! Keep up the phenomenal work! I salute you!
"My silences had not protected me. Your silence will not protect you. But for every real word spoken, for every attempt I had ever made to speak those truths for which I am still seeking, I had made contact with other women while we examined the words to fit a world in which we all believed, bridging our differences." - Audre Lorde
Just watched this on my lunch break and wow...just wow. A short, but very powerful and insightful talk by the magnificent Luvvie. Silence is compliance. Don't just be a voice for yourself; be a voice for others.
I learned that when speaking your truth, speak it with love not out of fear because you need help or support. Understand your own intentions and where you’re operating from (what emotion led you) when you deliver it.
I feel like she took the words right out of my mouth. It's awesome how when you feel something and meditate on it people and circumstances fall right in place like a path. She is inspirational and I am motivated to continue to be me because of beautiful souls like her.
I am inspired. This is me, I was tired of the consequences of being the voice that no one else wants to be. Thank you for the reminder to continue my purpose.
This is beautiful, powerful, and inspiring. "People count on our silence to keep us where we are." I feel like this can be said for many of the companies I have worked for and work at now. Unless you stand up and push for the respect you will be walked all over. Thank you for this TED Talk and I will be purchasing your book in the very near future!
This TED Talks is amazing! I love it when she says "Being yourself can be a revolutionary act" because it's so powerful. My silence serves no one. Thanks Luvvie
I applaud her authenticity and the courage to share it with the world!
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I love this as a Capricorn too, I feel our love for being on the solid ground literally and metaphorically helps us be uncomfortable for the greater good.
To anyone who is reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you're constantly stressing about gets better.May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and doubt exit your mind right now. Clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life!In Jesus Precious Name,Amen
I’ve never related more to a speech. Clapping and yelling yes ma’am as I drive down the road. As someone terrified of change and to speak my truth for so long, I finally woke up one day and decided I needed a change. It’s been terrifying, every day is a challenge, but once you start you can’t go back. Thank you so much for this.
I like the natural atmosphere she created while discussing the fear of becoming the trailblazer-the domino-and why most people would not want to be in that position. In a world where everyone expects you to follow the rules and play your part, sometimes that role isn't well suited for that person, and the rules must be changed not just for you, but also for the benefit of the other players.
I pray for my daughters to love themselves and be so comfortable to speak up about what they are passionate about, and making a difference. This is a message I will not hesitate to share with my girls. You could not have said it any better. This video was inspiring, encouraging, challenging, and helpful. Thank you for not keeping quite, shutting out fear and choosing to make a difference. Blessings to you. - Jovanna Heaston
Enough said, her charisma had me with no words before I played the video. I can't believe I actually had good multiple laughs while watching a TED Talk video. I will try my best to keep coming back to this 'lecture' (if you will) to lighten up my mood as it's lightened up now to avoid too much anxiety, fears and preoccupations in my last year at school. Thank you very much!
Wow! she is Amusing, About positive people, good moral fun, psychological comfort Happiness from the heart of dignity Personality, and interactions with people towards positive
Also you can look up to some amazing talks on TED here its like I would recommend these too yourdailywire.com/11-most-inspiring-ted-talks-youtube-videos/
The courage to be exactly who you are is definitely the key to your freedom. I'm happy to have come upon this talk as I take my own journey of being comfortable in my discomfort.
She stayed on topic the entire time. Made her point very clear, and elaborated on it beautifully. I loved the references she used as well, not to mention the right amount of humor, as a way to make it enjoyable to watch.
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Lol! I'm at freshman at 46 years old! NEVER too late!!
Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.
However being yourself too much is not good.
Amen!
So sovery true!!
R Karlsson wow trueeeee
@@rkarlsson6460 why ?
"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell!" What a beautifully simplistic manifesto.
bad guy billie eilish
sounds kinda obnoxious
Seems like going around yelling would just make you an a-hole. 🧐
@@cxa011500 not yall missing the point, it is a metaphor
@@phole1100 say that to men who yell or act violently when they lose a game
I love how she conducted this session. Perfect amount of humor, references and inspiration. The topic has been spoken about often, but her delivery of the topic was rather convincing and was very relatable.
Exactly. Neither did she go out of topic like many TED talks
Most writers are excellent presenters. They understand the need for charisma and energy, and of course all of that is backed up by a solid well written and naturally spoken script
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Agreed
"When it's time to say these hard things:
1. Did you mean it?
2. Can you defend it?
3. Did you say it with love?"
This part is important. Thx for highlighting it.
Yeah totally important
Dope, love this.
The best part of the talk! Otherwise I felt the talk was a bit fluffy/derivative. Her delivery was nice though.
Yes but I think we need to put a little less pressure on how people say things, because even if you say something perfectly with love it still can be misinterpreted and taken negatively.
It's just as important for people to work on how they receive things and not just place the burden on the other person.
I’m reading her book Professional Trouble Maker now and she mentions how she tried to talk herself out of this TedTalk but did it anyway. So proud of her!
Guess it is beautiful, I'm planning to read it now after hearing this talk
I needed this.
It’s crazy how everytime we are about to step up there will be a demon inside luring you into how your comfort zone is nice and how it would be a lot of work and why we shouldn’t go for it
Important to talk back and be like “just shut up no one cares” to the voice in your head
Oh wonderful. Thanks for sharing that! I am definitely supporting her, as we have so much in common character wise. lol
“Bridges that aren’t based on truth will collapse.”
I love it👑
The Electric Leaf
The Electric Leaf i read that “ fridges that aren’t .............
Love you !
Facts!!! Reminds me of "what's done in the dark will come to light."
So Social Justice is screwed.
1. Do you mean it
2. Can you defend it
3. Did you say it with love
3 questions to always keep in mind when speaking up about something.
Jenny Saint
You saint yaaasss!
Wonderful comment ❤
Jenny Saint #lovelovelove
Preach
Jenny Saint fear is not winning
Jenny Saint God bless You.
I love how she talks. Eloquent and fluent and funny and laced with gold. Bless
“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”. This sentence hits different 💛 feeling knowledgeable by watching these amazing TED talks during quarantine 💛
Did you speak out against quarantines?
@@userman44 why did u assume she's against quarantine
"When the world expects us to be silent, we choose to yell because getting uncomfortable can only guarantee our comfort." I'm truly inspired, thanks Jones.
❤
“Fear has a very concrete power of keeping us from doing and saying the things that are our purpose”
-Fight or flight.
-Get comfortable w/being uncomfortable.
I hear these all the time dealing w/social anxiety.
2018 will be my year. Conquering my fear.
"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."
I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain.
:D
BOO!
I always wanted to be the cowboy hero. That lone voice in the wilderness, fighting corruption and evil wherever I found it, and standing for freedom, truth and justice.
And in my heart of hearts I still track the remnants of that dream wherever I go, on my never-ending ride into the setting sun.
:D
You got this cam 👌🏽
I struggle with social anxiety myself, I thought I would never get over it. But after pushing myself out of my comfort zone again and again, I am breaking down that wall and have accomplished social things I thought I never could. I believe in you! Push yourself out of that comfort zone and you’ll be amazed at the person you really are capable of being.
This exact video is What slowly brought me out of my depression and allowed me to be myself . Love her for sharing this
wow, this talk is one of the greatest one that I clicked on TH-cam.
Her message seems obvious but somehow it hits me deeply because in the past I was kind of speaking the truth even it hurt me terribly.
The checkpoint that she mentioned is also very important before we speak out loud
1. Did you really mean it?
2. Can you defend it?
3. Did you say it with love?
This can help us to say truthfully without offending others.
The outfit, the SHOES, the message, the story, simply AMAZING. Luvvie, you are rocking it!
I got chills during the whole speech. Her energy is overwhelming - and i mean that in the best way. Wow.
This woman is very powerful. She conducts herself in a manner of which many people couldn’t imagine themselves doing. I really love it when she said that she chooses to yell in a world that wants us to whisper. Motivation at its finest. Thank you
"Being yourself is a revolutionary act" wow that truly got me.
‘’People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are.’’ Love it!
When she said "comfort is overrated" felt that wholeheartedly ❤️
I wish I could hit thumbs up a lot more than just once. I needed this. I'm quiet and shy. Not any more. Thank-YOU!
Bless you. I hope you become stronger.
I can tell you are a good person already.
I also need it really because of the same reasons but i thought its only me like this
JBL Creations amen. God bless you
just got destroyed by a mock paper, and came home and saw this. It put a lot in perspective for me, and inspired me to look towards the bigger picture
I just had a dream about people that I went to school with who are doing great things in the world, and a Ted Talk with Luvie pops up on my phone. I'm so proud of Luvie...my fellow Illini.
An amazing woman indeed . The thing is when people are too quiet ,and the rest too loud , there's no room for unterstanding . I am often both . Those 3 questions I will start use them too ,such a great way to start 2018 .
I am so sorry for the racism and discrimination ...beautiful hearts &mind have no color ☺
As someone who's always concerned what other people think, her words were really empowering, I aspire to be her. To be like her is like a paradox, give zero fqs to opinions, but care so much on other's needs
Her speech is so encouraging that I start to try to define myself to the fear.
6:05 -> "I believe in Shea butter as a core value."
This statement alone deserves a 👍🏾
Congrats Luvvie👏🏿👏🏿
She is brilliant. 😀😁
I mean this is about one of the most powerful talk I have ever listened to here on TH-cam and I am glad I did. It takes a lot to be Nigerian and take a stand in a public place. And yes, capricons rock! That thing of always wanting our feet on the ground? So true! Thank you for the inspiration, sis.
Best Ted Talk Ever!
Today onwards, be the domino! be the change!
Yeah, better than expected but hardly the "best" one ever!
ted
Ever?
EVER!
that's quite the hyperbole
Almost 3 years later from when I first discovered this TED talk & I am still moved by Miss Jones. You are so inspiring and I truly admire your honesty and grace. This is so great! 💗💐
I saw myself in some of her speech: what others are thinking in their heads, I'm saying it out loud. I used to be afraid of that but now, I feel great about being my authentic self. Thank you for the strength!
This is a great talk, and I encourage everyone to 'be the domino' as she puts it.
I would however also encourage everyone reading this to investigate yourselves.
It is very easy for those in a privileged position to not investigate our own beliefs and values, what we advocate, believing we already know it all. I know this from my own experience.
I held racist beliefs, yet I didn't see them as racist. I held sexist beliefs, and I did not see these as sexist either.
It is difficult to confront your own bigotry, it isn't something immediately clear because it is covered by a veil of "That's just how it is".
What ripped me out of this mindset was listening to others. Women, black people, trans people speaking up about the various harmful power dynamics they face.
Hakasedess All of our beliefs are difficult to purge. They make us do all kinds of things we don't want, skipping work or cheating on diets. Racist or sexist non-sequitirs need not be placed in a special category. Instead, the more that we see ourselves as believing any unnecessary nonsense and purging those beliefs, the more we can purge them all.
Indeed.
Bigoted views are in a particular spot because the overwhelming majority of us do not want to admit we hold them to begin with.
Most racist views are not regarded as such by the people holding them. It's important to be open to the idea that one could be racist, but unaware.
Hakasedess It is useful, even necessary, but need not be the first domino! Just knowing that what we know is probably wrong... As Lao Tsu said, "Darkness within darkness, the gateway to all wisdom." Socrates also said to assume that you know less than you believe you do.
I disagree. I've always been right about everything, so why should I bother seeking out others' opinions? Seems like a waste of time if you ask me.
Spoken like a bigot, I'm sorry to say. Someone being honest and true with themselves would, had they truly been enlightened, come from a place of understanding, not condemnation. A truthseeker seeks understanding first, the brave will speak with this understanding to test it. Truth sets you free, not conformity.
"And for some reason I was wearing business casual." LOLOLOL! So funny and motivational. Strong ladies put your hands up! 👏👏👏👏
@Yang Xiao business casual is clothing you wear to an office with a slightly casual atmosphere. Think button down shirts and khaki trousers. It's not very good for outdoor activities!
I met her several times! We hung out at a conference or two. She is a cool person! This was a great Ted Talk on Fear! Good to see her on this platform!
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WHO ELSE IS WATCHING THIS IN 2020? This is so timely
For school and this is helping with life damn.
Me tooooooo! I am always changing.
I do watching this @michofalltrades.
Actually found this after searching for my latest video to see where it was in search! Awesome find and great message in this video. Very inspiring.
YES
I cried hearing this. I get so much backlash for my words cuz I speak out. This encourages me to know that just cuz there is backlash, doesn't make what I did wrong.
the BEST TED ever, thank you very much for this ...
1- did you mean it
2- can you defend it
3- did you say it with love.
"Perfect" ...
She had me at "Professional Troublemaker"
Me to loving it a😍♥️🙏
Professional Troublemaker
My mother always said "A closed mouth don't get fed"😁
DANGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
Well said!
Well said! 🔥🔥
Fine mother I will starve my self to death does that seem better for you?
the squeaky wheel gets the oil
The synchronicities that parallel my own life listed in this video are amazing. Chemistry was the first class in my whole life where I failed an exam. It is also the reason I switched from a pre-med degree. I am terrified of taking a vacation by myself, putting my writing out there for others to judge, and public speaking. I love sky diving and dolphins! I am also a Capricorn. My take away- the universe wants me to start doing the things that make me uncomfortable! Thank you for this amazing video!
In an often "don't stand out" world and having a drive for justice and truth, I will listen to this consistently for the strength of solidarity. Thank you for your courage to speak. You've helped many more on their paths to do the same, I'm sure of this, because you've done it for me!
She just articulated everything I feel! I’m a Capricorn too! Although when she jumped out of the plane my heart went into my stomach. I’m not there yet.
Your stand out word being "yet"!! 😏
I'm less scared of jumping out of a plane than I am of confrontation 😅
"Being yourself can be a revolutionary act." Love. It.
This is so encouraging! I'm going through a situation where I've had to speak up for myself and make my rights respected. It's been uncomfortable all the way, but I'm not afraid of the consequences!
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Watching and listening to someone who faced fear directly and intentionally really makes me feel at ease like there's someone and many out there who are living life up and not just be scared within their comfort zone and actually let themselves free from this boundaries we create ourselves, I think it's beautiful, like it's ok to feel fear and keep going anyway and it'll turn out alright in the end . Thankyou so much.
This is definitely one of my favourite TED talks! She has such a presence I stopped doing what I was doing and immediately gave all my attention to this video. It even made me cry a little. Amazing.
This woman is me, and I am her. Same experiences, and she has done something that I have wanted to do, yet I put it off for 4 year's. I have since decided that this is the year. I love it! Congrats sister! Keep up the phenomenal work! I salute you!
Was it the year?
I needed this today! "Comfort is over-rated."
"My silences had not protected me. Your silence will not protect you. But for every real word spoken, for every attempt I had ever made to speak those truths for which I am still seeking, I had made contact with other women while we examined the words to fit a world in which we all believed, bridging our differences." - Audre Lorde
Just watched this on my lunch break and wow...just wow. A short, but very powerful and insightful talk by the magnificent Luvvie. Silence is compliance. Don't just be a voice for yourself; be a voice for others.
I learned that when speaking your truth, speak it with love not out of fear because you need help or support. Understand your own intentions and where you’re operating from (what emotion led you) when you deliver it.
I feel like she took the words right out of my mouth. It's awesome how when you feel something and meditate on it people and circumstances fall right in place like a path. She is inspirational and I am motivated to continue to be me because of beautiful souls like her.
I am inspired. This is me, I was tired of the consequences of being the voice that no one else wants to be. Thank you for the reminder to continue my purpose.
what a smart, witty and funny woman! Thanks for giving me some inspo
“My silence serves no one.”
This is beautiful, powerful, and inspiring. "People count on our silence to keep us where we are." I feel like this can be said for many of the companies I have worked for and work at now. Unless you stand up and push for the respect you will be walked all over. Thank you for this TED Talk and I will be purchasing your book in the very near future!
"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are"
"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell." Girl power!
“In a world that wants us to whisper I choose to yell” ❤️
“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”.❤ This hits hard ... A talk that always resonates.
This TED Talks is amazing! I love it when she says "Being yourself can be a revolutionary act" because it's so powerful. My silence serves no one. Thanks Luvvie
"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly were we are."💯
"...being yourself can be a revolutionary act."💯
Silence keeps us where we are.
Fenekedés
I love her, I have so much fear I take medication and it’s been a mental health issue for my whole life, to choose to feel that blows my mind.
“People in systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are” #powerful
I applaud her authenticity and the courage to share it with the world!
I love this as a Capricorn too, I feel our love for being on the solid ground literally and metaphorically helps us be uncomfortable for the greater good.
Why did it take me soooo long to watch this? ❤️❤️❤️ Yes to all she said!! She’s gorgeous! 😍
I wondered the same today
She's phenomenally strong ♡♡♡
She's beautiful in every sense of the word!!
Right..🤣🤣 This has been recommended to me so many times but i guess i was ready to listen today.
Yes!
To anyone who is reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you're constantly stressing about gets better.May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and doubt exit your mind right now. Clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life!In Jesus Precious Name,Amen
Thank you ❤
Amen in Jesus name! Bless you! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
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Thank you for kindness.
I’ve never related more to a speech. Clapping and yelling yes ma’am as I drive down the road. As someone terrified of change and to speak my truth for so long, I finally woke up one day and decided I needed a change. It’s been terrifying, every day is a challenge, but once you start you can’t go back. Thank you so much for this.
Seeing this right at this moment is everything to me.
I like the natural atmosphere she created while discussing the fear of becoming the trailblazer-the domino-and why most people would not want to be in that position. In a world where everyone expects you to follow the rules and play your part, sometimes that role isn't well suited for that person, and the rules must be changed not just for you, but also for the benefit of the other players.
What an incredible speech. Love it! "Being yourself can be a revolutionary act"
I pray for my daughters to love themselves and be so comfortable to speak up about what they are passionate about, and making a difference. This is a message I will not hesitate to share with my girls. You could not have said it any better. This video was inspiring, encouraging, challenging, and helpful. Thank you for not keeping quite, shutting out fear and choosing to make a difference. Blessings to you. - Jovanna Heaston
2 years later and the first time i've seen this and 1. Your a whole vibe, 2. You are talking to me and 3. Thank you
Love how she gets to the point. Some people just tell a long unnecessary story before they get to the point. Plus she talks very genuine
She is one of my favorite people! She is so inspiring, motivating and real!
Brilliant.. you go girl… her entire speech can turn into bunch of t shirt quotes that the world needs tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️
Enough said, her charisma had me with no words before I played the video. I can't believe I actually had good multiple laughs while watching a TED Talk video. I will try my best to keep coming back to this 'lecture' (if you will) to lighten up my mood as it's lightened up now to avoid too much anxiety, fears and preoccupations in my last year at school. Thank you very much!
why is she literally stunning. the best type of woman; fearless, inspiring, advocating, and bold!!!
I watched this like 2 years ago, but it is only now that I definitely understand the full meaning behind her words. I will not stay silent anymore.
"This world expects you to whisper, but I choose to yell" LOVE IT
Wow! she is Amusing, About positive people, good moral fun, psychological comfort
Happiness from the heart of dignity
Personality, and interactions with people towards positive
Also you can look up to some amazing talks on TED here its like I would recommend these too
yourdailywire.com/11-most-inspiring-ted-talks-youtube-videos/
Yoooo why is she TALKING TO ME?! 😩😩😩 She is beautiful btw 😍🙏🏽
ME 2 SIS..
Hellooo!! She is talking to me as well! and yes she and those cheek bones are everything!!!
SlowClass Kai ISN'T SHE?! I FELL OUT. I FELL OUT. 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️😍😍😍
Yes she is! (to both your question and your statement) Do what you gotta do queen!
Beautiful dark skin sister with a powerful mind.
omg within 5 seconds of this I am squealing 'I love you I love you' - this is one awesome, amazing woman!!
The courage to be exactly who you are is definitely the key to your freedom. I'm happy to have come upon this talk as I take my own journey of being comfortable in my discomfort.
Amazing!! ...at 49yrs old I really needed this Word of Truth, Tears! It's never too late
I’m a professional trouble maker, too. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾 absolutely loved this message. So relatable
“All comfort has done has maintained the status quo.”
damn, she dropped so many "damn" moments. This is why I love ted talks.
She stayed on topic the entire time. Made her point very clear, and elaborated on it beautifully. I loved the references she used as well, not to mention the right amount of humor, as a way to make it enjoyable to watch.
“Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.” 💯😍💯
“And I pressed publish - and I ran away...” ahaha, I felt that. Loved, loved, loved this talk, so powerful, she has such a great energy about her.
This is my favorite TED talk
You can hear early on in her talk it was an anxiety airy breathing pause but then few seconds later it went away …love it ❤
This brought tears to my eyes. She is such an inspiration
I'm a Professional Trouble Maker.
Everybody's Well Being Is Community Business.
Being Yourself Could Be A Revolutionary Act.
I get uncomfortable if I'm TOO comfortable for TOO long haha. Great talk!! In unrelated news, your outfit is killer
WOW! Me too.
This is my favorite all times speech!!! Love it! I am with you Luvvie! Thank you.
watching this when I feel bad or overwhelmed it helps me a lot... she`s the power girl we need
"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are" ... This hit hard!
Lovely presentation 👌