I really appreciate these videos. I work with a lot of folks with ASPD and I struggled finding videos that were not loaded with stigma and despair. Thank you.
I just found out today about ASPD. Although in the past years I’ve controlled it well without any therapy. I am just a bit in shock, but determined to work on myself everyday.
Omg you actually know what it is. On a very personal level. My husband has been doctor diagnosed antisocial personality disorder. I wasn’t aware until after. What I would really like to hear now is the type of abuse and tactics used by them. I know my experience. Was violent to say the least. But I think being in a relationship is a special kind of hell not even Lucifer could handle. With that being said my heart breaks for how it is for him. I feel like this is disorder is hopeless.
God I wish I could speak to you by phone about my experience over the past 16yr whom I’m I was in a relationship with my ex who is undiagnosed Antisocial Personality disorder she strong meets all of the traits.
@Mr Cheez it ミスター・チーズ・イット it’s about when they get triggered (very easily happens because of serious childhood abuse), they escape the pain by focusing on hurting someone. When someone is in emotional distress they feel happy and excited. My ex wife was like this but worse. She was a covert sociopath which is a combo of npd and aspd + if it’s covert it’s really dangerous. + when it’s a woman in the west because we don’t really hold bad women accountable. Am now seeing a girl who has only aspd. She constantly in wars. It’s worse for her because she has cptsd and adhd as well so the cptsd makes it that she imagines things happening to her. Last couple days she went on a crazy attack to get some subway worker. She wrote reviews. Passed by twice screaming and threatening. She really enjoys the painful reactions she created and thinks about it. She doesn’t understand she manufactured everything and did emotional damage to loving people
I wonder if someone I know has aspd. They came across a bit narcissistic at first and then I could see they really struggle with having/showing natural emotion and have really only seen them looking extra jolly or awkward, a real sense of not knowing how to respond ?
I don’t know what my problem is. I wouldn’t call it as a disorder per say, but I feel like ppl are noticing me not caring about stuff recently. I’m usually decent at hiding it or pretending but I guess I’m getting tired of it. I feel like I’m just doing my part in society to just try to function as a person. Something recently tragic happened and I’m more surprised that I don’t feel anything about it. Definitely not depressed tho.
Did something/s bad happen in your life as a young child? If so there is a normal reason for why you are how you are. Not everyone is ruled by emotions. If it is new onset, make an appointment with your doctor and get a physical and explain how you feel.
Got diagnosed with ASPD 5 years ago and at first I had that exact reaction, excusing my behavior with the diagnosis and thinking I'll never be able to change at all so whatever. But nowdays I adjust to daily life way more
I think if someone with a diagnosis of ASPD ever wanted to find a way to be motivated to do everything they can to help themselves seek treatment , consistent treatment, would be to watch the sentencing of Darrell Brooks Jr. The whole trial really if you're aware going into it that he was diagnosed with this disorder by 4 different mental health experts.
How often is it you have people who think they have it but you end up telling them they don't? Or how often do you come up with people you tested for it not having it?
I watched your training videos about your Impulsivity Lifestyle Coaching. My boyfriend has ASPD, so I watched it again for him. He was convinced that it was a real assessment! We were both really impressed. If you care that much about the execution of a training video, you clearly care about the people you are helping & want this to work.
@@meganeff There won't be an effective treatment for genuine aspd until neuroscience figures out how and why people with aspd can't be moral and compassionate towards their fellow human beings. Willingly dating someone without known patterns of harm and cruelty and lack of shame and guilt is masochistic. Usually these people partly want to be responsible for "treating" or "curing" sociopaths. It never turns out well.
@@e_i_e_i_bro not all are unable to feel empathy. If they have late-onset, which is what Greg has, you might have had the chance to learn empathy before the trauma that triggered ASPD happened. So he was emotionally maturing, but certain things happened that caused him to regress emotionally and stunted his emotional development. It is also possible for someone with ASPD to develop cognitive empathy. And some learn that being loyal to one person is better for them than the shit life they had before. I'm not saying you're wrong though that can't understand empathy & are actually sadistic. But being sadistic or feeling zero empathy are not requirements for ASPD.
@@meganeff I have never heard of late onset aspd so I'm a bit confused. Aspd isn't diagnosed until adulthood. Conduct disorder is diagnosed in childhood. As of right now it's theorized that you are biologically born with aspd (architectural brain differences) and those genes may also be expressed through neglect and abuse in development (aspd is heredible, one or more parent may also have aspd and abuse/neglect their children, abuse cycle). It's also theorized that genuine aspd sufferers do not learn empathy, they learn consequences (illegal antisocial behaviour reduces as they age, bad behaviours are associated with incarceration and social shunning). That's why they appear to "mellow out" into adulthood. Although criminal activity often reduces into adulthood, interpersonal abuse typically doesn't (domestic violence, financial abuse, cheating, lying, etc). Anyways, the key to understanding people is behavioural patters. If Greg has no history of harming you, then I supposed there isn't a risk. Just be safe. 🙂
Not all APD types allow themselves to be all the negatives everyone hammers on. Being able to step back and choose to be good and moral is how one fits into society. Being able to reverse course instantly as needed is what movies and heroic moments are made of.
I have a somewhat urgent question: Could an ASPD sufferer's substance abuse/dopamine fix materialize as, "un-justified sympathy?" That is, a rush of satisfaction from realizing that a deceitful statement or deception has worked. Thank You for this great content, Dan
Clarification: Imagine a false statement to illicit sympathy as if the ASPD sufferer is a victim of some sort. Then they receive an unjustified "pat on the back", sympathetic comment, or even money (worst case).
Whoever isn't diagnosed with this disorder shouldn't give any opinion on how weed affects different people with or without a disorder and by the way if you have problems with a Controlled substance such as weed that is YOUR problem no one else's.
still important to know PROBABLE dangers in cannabis consumption (may develop depression, anxiety and psychosis, provoke abulia, apathy, passiveness, difficulty to keep attention, panic attacks, fatigue and erectile dysfunction and adversely affect memory)
@FueledByHate i dont use "drugs" but how again is a cancer patient using chemotherapy weak? A coffee drinker weak? Someone who likes a nice bowl of sugar filled icecream weak? Drugs are any substance that changes how the mind or body function, so because you take issue with a specific substance does not mean it is a weakness in others. In fact the weakness i see is more along the line of failure to not judge others choice in medication. Perhaps one could say "opinions like assholes everyone has one, not everyone needs to be one" your choice to critize someone is WEAK!
Nah he's right. I'm diagnosed and smoking weed made my impulsivity and urges extremely strong. They're not wrong mate, in fact this series is one of the best on the subject. Anal beads, suxk a potato dixk
Most professionals, who work with others that have problems, have not experienced real problems themselves. This is why psychological disorders are not treated appropriately a lot of the time.
@@walls116 Yeah, researchers, who are horrible at their jobs, rarely ever admit their faults; in fact, researchers rarely live in reality. People like you, who just follow along with what is written, without reading between the lines, and experience issues for yourself, in the system, will rarely get it either. I seriously doubt you have read research on whether people in the psychology industry actually do their jobs well either.
@@duranduran6415 I was only addressing your statement about professionals not experiencing real problems themselves. Many in the field were drawn to it precisely because they have experienced problems such as mental illness, addiction, childhood and other traumas, etc. Regardless, everyone in the field is aware, just how imperfect it is. I wish there was a simple solution or an obvious place to point the blame but the issues are deep. Just look around at the greater society. We live in systems now, where humanity in general is elusive. I hope you and others can find that little bit of humanity in this terrible system. Take care.
@@walls116 It sounded like you were addressing my entire comment as just wrong, which I found extremely rude and upsetting. That is not something to do with another who has experienced years of abuse and have been shunned and given poor treatment by a majority of the specialists they have seen. In the future, maybe you can ask someone what they have experienced before you just say they are wrong. You sound much more pleasant and open minded with your follow up, which I appreciate, so I will give you that. I can see where you are going with thinking optimistically about psychology specialists. That is a great way to think. I wish I could believe the same. Unfortunately, with my experience, it is hard for me to have the same faith. I have known a lot of counselors personally. I have also seen many counselors. The counselors I knew personally, had never worked any jobs prior. EVERY ONE OF THEM! They were sent through college by their parents. They were extremely careless. Most of the counselors I have seen were careless too, with the same attitudes. I have still yet to find a good one. Great counselors are out there, but they are becoming rare. Their work is not monitored and the sessions are confidential. The research you speak of is skewed / non existent, which was extremely manipulative and rude to bring up. When people like me, who pay EXPENSIVE fees to be shunned with careless care, it is extremely frustrating - especially when others, dismiss issues that have been experienced. It makes us feel disregarded, because we are not doctors... we are just crazy. .. so our thoughts just mean nothing. This is something I feel I need to share, because counseling / mental health care is EXPENSIVE. And the harsh reality is there are too many specialists out there who do not understand mental health issues realistically - maybe academically, which is not enough . In addition, most just do not care - the reason most pursue their position is for the quiet office and the paycheck in the end. Maybe most like the idea of helping others at first, but from my point of view, their hope fades, because of their lack of humility, followed by their priority to maintain their privileged lives. Do not approach another again with manipulative incentive like that again please.
Stumbled upon this disorder when trying to piece together the puzzle that is my ex-girlfriend. She fit the description trait for trait, characteristic by characteristic. Took three years to finally give up on her and the idea of us, and was the best decision I made since meeting her. If anybody suspects they are dealing with someone afflicted with this disorder I offer this bit of advice: RUNNNN!
Like he said it's the worst reaction to treatment but you have to use some logic to counter this shit. You have to say this: "Yes but you have to try to get better no matter if you are diagnosed this behavior is still unnacceptable.".
@@nugget6635 i mean, you don't seriously think they care whether or not their behavior is acceptable, right? Cuz if you think they care about what is acceptable or not, you're very mistaken
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I really appreciate these videos. I work with a lot of folks with ASPD and I struggled finding videos that were not loaded with stigma and despair. Thank you.
Thanks for those kind words.
where can i go for a checkup?
I just found out today about ASPD. Although in the past years I’ve controlled it well without any therapy. I am just a bit in shock, but determined to work on myself everyday.
Omg you actually know what it is. On a very personal level. My husband has been doctor diagnosed antisocial personality disorder. I wasn’t aware until after. What I would really like to hear now is the type of abuse and tactics used by them. I know my experience. Was violent to say the least. But I think being in a relationship is a special kind of hell not even Lucifer could handle. With that being said my heart breaks for how it is for him. I feel like this is disorder is hopeless.
Its The same tactics used by a narcissist.
Goodluck… I was married to a narcissist and they behave in similar ways…
God I wish I could speak to you by phone about my experience over the past 16yr whom I’m I was in a relationship with my ex who is undiagnosed Antisocial Personality disorder she strong meets all of the traits.
@Mr Cheez it ミスター・チーズ・イット it’s about when they get triggered (very easily happens because of serious childhood abuse), they escape the pain by focusing on hurting someone. When someone is in emotional distress they feel happy and excited.
My ex wife was like this but worse. She was a covert sociopath which is a combo of npd and aspd + if it’s covert it’s really dangerous. + when it’s a woman in the west because we don’t really hold bad women accountable.
Am now seeing a girl who has only aspd. She constantly in wars. It’s worse for her because she has cptsd and adhd as well so the cptsd makes it that she imagines things happening to her. Last couple days she went on a crazy attack to get some subway worker. She wrote reviews. Passed by twice screaming and threatening.
She really enjoys the painful reactions she created and thinks about it. She doesn’t understand she manufactured everything and did emotional damage to loving people
I wonder if someone I know has aspd. They came across a bit narcissistic at first and then I could see they really struggle with having/showing natural emotion and have really only seen them looking extra jolly or awkward, a real sense of not knowing how to respond ?
I don’t know what my problem is. I wouldn’t call it as a disorder per say, but I feel like ppl are noticing me not caring about stuff recently. I’m usually decent at hiding it or pretending but I guess I’m getting tired of it. I feel like I’m just doing my part in society to just try to function as a person. Something recently tragic happened and I’m more surprised that I don’t feel anything about it. Definitely not depressed tho.
Did something/s bad happen in your life as a young child? If so there is a normal reason for why you are how you are. Not everyone is ruled by emotions.
If it is new onset, make an appointment with your doctor and get a physical and explain how you feel.
if its a recent change its not a personality disorder. has to be constant
Got diagnosed with ASPD 5 years ago and at first I had that exact reaction, excusing my behavior with the diagnosis and thinking I'll never be able to change at all so whatever. But nowdays I adjust to daily life way more
You ain't fooling me freak
Same.
I think if someone with a diagnosis of ASPD ever wanted to find a way to be motivated to do everything they can to help themselves seek treatment , consistent treatment, would be to watch the sentencing of Darrell Brooks Jr. The whole trial really if you're aware going into it that he was diagnosed with this disorder by 4 different mental health experts.
How are you adjusting your life ?
Drinking and drugs is a form of self-medication. Acknowledging that can be helpful.
Till you have Money for that 🐋
How often is it you have people who think they have it but you end up telling them they don't? Or how often do you come up with people you tested for it not having it?
I watched your training videos about your Impulsivity Lifestyle Coaching. My boyfriend has ASPD, so I watched it again for him. He was convinced that it was a real assessment! We were both really impressed. If you care that much about the execution of a training video, you clearly care about the people you are helping & want this to work.
Girl run.
@@e_i_e_i_bro from what?
@@meganeff There won't be an effective treatment for genuine aspd until neuroscience figures out how and why people with aspd can't be moral and compassionate towards their fellow human beings. Willingly dating someone without known patterns of harm and cruelty and lack of shame and guilt is masochistic. Usually these people partly want to be responsible for "treating" or "curing" sociopaths. It never turns out well.
@@e_i_e_i_bro not all are unable to feel empathy. If they have late-onset, which is what Greg has, you might have had the chance to learn empathy before the trauma that triggered ASPD happened. So he was emotionally maturing, but certain things happened that caused him to regress emotionally and stunted his emotional development. It is also possible for someone with ASPD to develop cognitive empathy. And some learn that being loyal to one person is better for them than the shit life they had before. I'm not saying you're wrong though that can't understand empathy & are actually sadistic. But being sadistic or feeling zero empathy are not requirements for ASPD.
@@meganeff I have never heard of late onset aspd so I'm a bit confused. Aspd isn't diagnosed until adulthood. Conduct disorder is diagnosed in childhood.
As of right now it's theorized that you are biologically born with aspd (architectural brain differences) and those genes may also be expressed through neglect and abuse in development (aspd is heredible, one or more parent may also have aspd and abuse/neglect their children, abuse cycle). It's also theorized that genuine aspd sufferers do not learn empathy, they learn consequences (illegal antisocial behaviour reduces as they age, bad behaviours are associated with incarceration and social shunning). That's why they appear to "mellow out" into adulthood. Although criminal activity often reduces into adulthood, interpersonal abuse typically doesn't (domestic violence, financial abuse, cheating, lying, etc).
Anyways, the key to understanding people is behavioural patters. If Greg has no history of harming you, then I supposed there isn't a risk. Just be safe. 🙂
Not all APD types allow themselves to be all the negatives everyone hammers on. Being able to step back and choose to be good and moral is how one fits into society.
Being able to reverse course instantly as needed is what movies and heroic moments are made of.
I have a somewhat urgent question:
Could an ASPD sufferer's substance abuse/dopamine fix materialize as, "un-justified sympathy?" That is, a rush of satisfaction from realizing that a deceitful statement or deception has worked.
Thank You for this great content,
Dan
Clarification: Imagine a false statement to illicit sympathy as if the ASPD sufferer is a victim of some sort.
Then they receive an unjustified "pat on the back", sympathetic comment, or even money (worst case).
If you close your eyes it's Madds Mickelson's Hannibal Lecter talking.
So I wasn’t the only one thinking this😂😂👍
This is what I was trying to understand more. The addition of a schizoid disorder. I am pretty sure I have both
Whoever isn't diagnosed with this disorder shouldn't give any opinion on how weed affects different people with or without a disorder and by the way if you have problems with a Controlled substance such as weed that is YOUR problem no one else's.
You're a POSER blah blah blah weak this weak that what are you in the 1960s? See ya
still important to know PROBABLE dangers in cannabis consumption (may develop depression, anxiety and psychosis, provoke abulia, apathy, passiveness, difficulty to keep attention, panic attacks, fatigue and erectile dysfunction and adversely affect memory)
@FueledByHate i dont use "drugs" but how again is a cancer patient using chemotherapy weak? A coffee drinker weak? Someone who likes a nice bowl of sugar filled icecream weak? Drugs are any substance that changes how the mind or body function, so because you take issue with a specific substance does not mean it is a weakness in others. In fact the weakness i see is more along the line of failure to not judge others choice in medication. Perhaps one could say "opinions like assholes everyone has one, not everyone needs to be one" your choice to critize someone is WEAK!
Nah he's right. I'm diagnosed and smoking weed made my impulsivity and urges extremely strong. They're not wrong mate, in fact this series is one of the best on the subject. Anal beads, suxk a potato dixk
Most professionals, who work with others that have problems, have not experienced real problems themselves. This is why psychological disorders are not treated appropriately a lot of the time.
That's not accurate at all. Research and real life do not support your statement.
@@walls116 Yeah, researchers, who are horrible at their jobs, rarely ever admit their faults; in fact, researchers rarely live in reality. People like you, who just follow along with what is written, without reading between the lines, and experience issues for yourself, in the system, will rarely get it either. I seriously doubt you have read research on whether people in the psychology industry actually do their jobs well either.
@@duranduran6415 I was only addressing your statement about professionals not experiencing real problems themselves. Many in the field were drawn to it precisely because they have experienced problems such as mental illness, addiction, childhood and other traumas, etc. Regardless, everyone in the field is aware, just how imperfect it is. I wish there was a simple solution or an obvious place to point the blame but the issues are deep. Just look around at the greater society. We live in systems now, where humanity in general is elusive. I hope you and others can find that little bit of humanity in this terrible system. Take care.
@@walls116 It sounded like you were addressing my entire comment as just wrong, which I found extremely rude and upsetting. That is not something to do with another who has experienced years of abuse and have been shunned and given poor treatment by a majority of the specialists they have seen. In the future, maybe you can ask someone what they have experienced before you just say they are wrong. You sound much more pleasant and open minded with your follow up, which I appreciate, so I will give you that. I can see where you are going with thinking optimistically about psychology specialists. That is a great way to think. I wish I could believe the same. Unfortunately, with my experience, it is hard for me to have the same faith. I have known a lot of counselors personally. I have also seen many counselors. The counselors I knew personally, had never worked any jobs prior. EVERY ONE OF THEM! They were sent through college by their parents. They were extremely careless. Most of the counselors I have seen were careless too, with the same attitudes. I have still yet to find a good one. Great counselors are out there, but they are becoming rare. Their work is not monitored and the sessions are confidential. The research you speak of is skewed / non existent, which was extremely manipulative and rude to bring up. When people like me, who pay EXPENSIVE fees to be shunned with careless care, it is extremely frustrating - especially when others, dismiss issues that have been experienced. It makes us feel disregarded, because we are not doctors... we are just crazy. .. so our thoughts just mean nothing. This is something I feel I need to share, because counseling / mental health care is EXPENSIVE. And the harsh reality is there are too many specialists out there who do not understand mental health issues realistically - maybe academically, which is not enough . In addition, most just do not care - the reason most pursue their position is for the quiet office and the paycheck in the end. Maybe most like the idea of helping others at first, but from my point of view, their hope fades, because of their lack of humility, followed by their priority to maintain their privileged lives. Do not approach another again with manipulative incentive like that again please.
Stumbled upon this disorder when trying to piece together the puzzle that is my ex-girlfriend. She fit the description trait for trait, characteristic by characteristic. Took three years to finally give up on her and the idea of us, and was the best decision I made since meeting her. If anybody suspects they are dealing with someone afflicted with this disorder I offer this bit of advice: RUNNNN!
Find the book: walking on eggshells.
His voice sounds like Echart Tolle
The ASPD i know also uses their mental wiring as an excuse
It’s a first step to acknowledge to be hardwired differently.
This person isn't an aspd they're a person.
Like he said it's the worst reaction to treatment but you have to use some logic to counter this shit. You have to say this: "Yes but you have to try to get better no matter if you are diagnosed this behavior is still unnacceptable.".
@@nugget6635 why do you think its the most logical reply to the ASPD?
@@nugget6635 i mean, you don't seriously think they care whether or not their behavior is acceptable, right? Cuz if you think they care about what is acceptable or not, you're very mistaken
I think I'm antisocial.
I wish you good luck finding diagnosis and treatment
Me too but I am not 🥳
YAY she,s Scottish 💛
I smell Danish!
Given that the name is “arhus universitet” i would think that your statement is correct
I love Dennmark 🧞♂️
🎼🎵🎶say some thing I'm giving up on you.
Funny, that I will never know which personality disorder I have 👅
Why would i care about how other people feel that is just plain bull shit if they do not want to talk to me then so be it.
Problem is when you want to talk with them
Could hear it.,., so didn’t watch
These videos are not even slightly interesting..
Does anything "interest" you? That is likely why you're here watching the video...because you're antisocial and suffer from pervasive boredom.
no actual information seems to be transmitted from this video.
it's at best just some redundant statements of the obvious.
CANT UNDERSTANT THE SPEACH OF THE LADY...i MEAN MOUSE. i'D LOVE TO WATCH THIS BUT THE LITTLE SQUEEKY MOUSE
☕️ “it’s not my fault, it’s the disorder.”