5 Things Men Scan For On First Dates That Will Make Or Break Your Chances With Him

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  • @sunnydayz3577
    @sunnydayz3577 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I got the guide. It's fantastic

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you :)

    • @sunnydayz3577
      @sunnydayz3577 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ElliotScottDating youre my favorite dating coach by far. I feel like I can trust you 1000%

  • @lindseyaliceford
    @lindseyaliceford ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is so true, because as a woman, I’ve been catfished by guys not looking like their photos

  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Love the haircut!

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, I am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @user_abcxyzz
      @user_abcxyzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bots

  • @gertrudesmith9852
    @gertrudesmith9852 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love your honesty. You are a catch yourself! Hope you meet someone amazing who has listened to all your advice.

  • @ImExtraAF
    @ImExtraAF ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The cheeseburger analogy got me cracking up 😂😂

  • @SirKeirStarmtrooper
    @SirKeirStarmtrooper 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This guy gives good advice and he looks like he has a lot of options when it comes to beautiful women , listen to him carefully ladies

  • @Beccadette
    @Beccadette ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I haven't dated in over a year but I am listening. This is great as usual Elliot! Spot on :) It does make sense!

  • @karrynlipsett5187
    @karrynlipsett5187 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lookin sharp Elliot 👍🏻

  • @lauriechan2966
    @lauriechan2966 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damnnn!!! That guide looks BADASS!!!

  • @meeksmiinkboutique1681
    @meeksmiinkboutique1681 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We love you Elliot!!

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A man just approached me in the gym :) I'm feeling good like elliots haircut.

    • @user_abcxyzz
      @user_abcxyzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How did that work out. No pun 😅

  • @kimt8162
    @kimt8162 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watch out for the sports guy. In this case my daughter and the football player. My daughter got really excited about him , and he bolted. I tried to tell her, a senior football player has the whole cheerleader squad trying to get his attention. Then he gets a scholarship to who knows where and he's off to college somewhere, and you think he'll be true to you at the OTHER college????? Just not a good picture. Yes, she has a connection with him;but he is what he is.

    • @cutietae247
      @cutietae247 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      not to be in your business.. but I think a more helpful approach to her dating an athlete wouldnt be pitting her up against cheer leaders and other girls..Just letting her know young relationships usually aren't made on the foundation of longevity. The odds of a young man,popular or not, wanting to be tied down at the peak of life experiences is slim to none. HS sweethearts are rare. Using cheerleaders and his endless roster as the point to their breakup potential and then seeing the relationship actually fail can make her compare herself and deem herself inadequate in comparison and lead to her having an insecurity that will make her an easy target for other guys..The older she gets, the more she will see context clues, but shes really young rn and is probably wondering why she 'wasnt enough'.. I only say this because I myself was a HS senior 5 years ago. She should be excited about the ftball player, the track star, etc-as long as she has the mentality that it is likely going to be short lived , dont get tied up, and dont have expectations. Certainly dont engage in anything with them that will leave her feeling loss when they do decide to move on. Frankly she could be the most popular sought after cheerleader/beauty queen and guys that age would still go for other options 9/10 because theyre young men. Again, not trying to be rude, but as a young girl- hearing that must have been hard on her. I hope shes doing better

    • @liabw05
      @liabw05 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You’re a good parent to tell her the truth. Better she learns young!

  • @mariabond4951
    @mariabond4951 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Elliot you are correct on many issues and very funny, especially your new photo covers on recent segments.
    I wish you got many more views since you give it like it is with sound advice.
    Thank you for your videos and your effort.

  • @cherrylane79
    @cherrylane79 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I see you have some online dating (guide) videos. If you are interested, could you make some new videos about online dating, especially when the other person is far or in another country? (so the connection lies heavily on messaging, etc). Just an idea. Thank you for the quality content.

  • @VLoveTarot
    @VLoveTarot 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    golden nuggets. thanks for sharing your wisdom

  • @charisse234
    @charisse234 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Elliot how come some woman hasn't "hooked" you! I'm curious super curious I'm liking the new haircut! By the way i as a woman look at a man the way you are saying men look for in us.if he doesn't look like his profile or not as tall as he said he is.i would be polite but im gone babyyyyyyyy!!

  • @PhoenixisGolden
    @PhoenixisGolden ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for the Book!

  • @queenie547
    @queenie547 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why does it always have to be dependent of the man?

    • @DandelionSpring96
      @DandelionSpring96 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly bcs men are the ones who will put the ring and pay for most things once married so of course they have to chose the best

    • @tonitv9991
      @tonitv9991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they’ve been catered to and had things handed to them for years. Their mom probably set them to expect everything handed to them on a platter with little to no effort!!

  • @vickirousvanis3945
    @vickirousvanis3945 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would like the book please

  • @zaravr
    @zaravr ปีที่แล้ว

    Agreed if you don’t look like your picture NEXT

  • @siusi
    @siusi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂 all the Cs !

  • @Lara-j3f
    @Lara-j3f ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We like your new haircut .

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are you wearing a cloth mask in your car? People are bizarre 🤣

    • @Lara-j3f
      @Lara-j3f 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jessicahitchens6926 why not ? I like my elegant lace mask I used to wear a round the Covid time . This picture was taken at that time , I will be more civilized than you and won’t be rude 🙂

  • @ohdear2275
    @ohdear2275 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great info

  • @aubergine-y2c
    @aubergine-y2c ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you seem to be more energetic on this video than on every other I saw before.

  • @belleofthecamp6530
    @belleofthecamp6530 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Either u moonlight as a comedian or were one in yr last life 😂 great advice and gives me my laughing quotas for the day 🙏🏽😍

  • @AnitaSingh-lp5wz
    @AnitaSingh-lp5wz ปีที่แล้ว

    I did get hair cut I don't think I look as good as my pic because of that .

  • @lihong9389
    @lihong9389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I miss you

  • @lauriechan2966
    @lauriechan2966 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking FRESSSHHHH 😆

  • @ksref
    @ksref ปีที่แล้ว

    Skip the filters! So many men hate them and appreciate that I don't use them. 😊

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Filters show how insecure you really are... or delusional. Same with piles of make up caked on.

  • @gisellegradvohl7654
    @gisellegradvohl7654 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #3 no.
    Don't be his friend.
    Yeah you can pull jabs but you'll fall into the bro. Category and he won't respect you.
    This is a really tricky scenario.
    Because you could also go too far and be too good at the game and then they resent you for it.

  • @MoonFoxSassy
    @MoonFoxSassy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    daddy

  • @user_abcxyzz
    @user_abcxyzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The guide is not free, Elliot 😂

  • @zaravr
    @zaravr ปีที่แล้ว

    Quick wit is always a winner…. Like if they mention a 3sum i reply I don’t want other people’s hair in my teeth 😂 then they get a visual and can’t respond

  • @IntuitiveSugarSkull
    @IntuitiveSugarSkull ปีที่แล้ว

    😍Elliot🥰🔥💇‍♂️🧔🥵
    11:17😂😂😂

  • @paulinepanarello6912
    @paulinepanarello6912 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes Elliot love all the. C Words you mentioned I would add to your clarity,consistency, closure, commitment, you said COCK you forgot a CIRCUmCISED COCK!
    Now the list is complete ❤

    • @annakarina8417
      @annakarina8417 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg circumcised are the worst. God bless I live in Europe.

    • @pappico
      @pappico ปีที่แล้ว

      circumcised are better cuz they feel more clean without that foreskin 🤮

    • @EchelonPandora
      @EchelonPandora ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@annakarina8417Lol yes

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know its actually a form of barbarism in my opinion. Poor little babies. So unnecessary and very Talmudic 🤡

  • @Heidys_autodetail
    @Heidys_autodetail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guys love all the C’s lol true :))

  • @AChicRevue
    @AChicRevue 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to write a book because white men love me

  • @queenkristine9590
    @queenkristine9590 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    not you comparing a perfectly good human being to a fast food burger. say it ain’t so. 🙄

    • @tonitv9991
      @tonitv9991 ปีที่แล้ว

      that’s why we gotta stop treating men as all-knowing leaders.

  • @patriciaviii
    @patriciaviii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the look! 😍😍 sexy ❤