How To Make Him Feel Like A Moron For Leaving You And Instantly Regret It

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  • @ElliotScottDating
    @ElliotScottDating  ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Get My Guides Here: liinks.co/elliotscott

    • @debbieballantyne7864
      @debbieballantyne7864 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not for me Elliot. I thought you correspond with me sincerely

    • @MissR2504
      @MissR2504 ปีที่แล้ว

      You looking good the haircut suits you

  • @eehyetti
    @eehyetti ปีที่แล้ว +274

    If you’re here… It’s done deal girl. Time will change and heal you and when he finally comes back you won’t even give a sht about him. So if you’re here, it’s already over :(

    • @yeuruuerueeheue
      @yeuruuerueeheue ปีที่แล้ว +47

      this is so true its hilarious. when they come back they are literally a stranger in your eyes, you dont even bother to read the whole text let alone reply. crazy

    • @afrintayeba2981
      @afrintayeba2981 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Really they comeback??

    • @eehyetti
      @eehyetti ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@afrintayeba2981 they almost ALWAYS come back

    • @daniellehobson6439
      @daniellehobson6439 ปีที่แล้ว

      My guy stays out every weekend and come back home like it’s ok saying I’m his bottom girl after 21yrs I’m tired

    • @CorporateQueen
      @CorporateQueen ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Totally agree. I know it's over but I'm still sad about it.

  • @lili-jv9ku
    @lili-jv9ku ปีที่แล้ว +103

    When a guy reject you but still wanna be “friend”, he still don’t want you.

    • @Lala-lw6pi
      @Lala-lw6pi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Obviously. Men dont want friends. They want easy access to insecure girls. Call it a friendship call it whatever. He still wins at his goal

  • @mintamaharaj9552
    @mintamaharaj9552 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Let him know you’re not a spare Tyre that only gets used when one of the 4 gets flat. Never makes him a priority when he only treats u as an option. All or nothing

  • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
    @user-iu6bv8vu8o ปีที่แล้ว +72

    When he pulls away- ladies, you pull harder- I stop all contact, work on myself, do not block- I want him to see me in 6mos- 1 year looking fly, arm & arm with the next guy….😉💯

    • @Sammy-kf2lg
      @Sammy-kf2lg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ya Girl!❤

  • @jeniannicancerian1979
    @jeniannicancerian1979 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    He could even feel like an idiot for losing you, even if he’s talking to somebody else.

  • @TheNisiu
    @TheNisiu ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "Don't worry about whatever the outcome is. Just do your own thing and move on." I think that was the single most validating, stress relieving, & healthy aspects of dating for me in my single years because it always had me focused on what was best for me & helped to avoid having my time wasted. It's the thing I see young women these days able to do the least. Guys can sniff an outcome-dependent women from miles away & they will milk her dry until he loses interest because he already knows she'll do just about anything to keep him around. I've seen men discard women after 10+ yrs after using her simply because SHE was hell-bent on getting a specific outcome that he never even pretended he was going to give her.

  • @MargaretJenkins-ou3qx
    @MargaretJenkins-ou3qx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    If he's unsure about you, he don't like you enough to want to commit.

    • @doglover5519
      @doglover5519 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That hurts so bad to hear that!!
      I won't take him back!!!

  • @Spinnglish
    @Spinnglish ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I was ghosted 3 months ago. I never showed any concern to him, nor asked him . I moved on. It was extremely painful but i did not show it. Even when we bumped into each other i was friendly; we spoke as if nothing happened and moved on. ...

    • @steph6109
      @steph6109 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This only works if he likes you but is responsibility-phobic.

    • @Spinnglish
      @Spinnglish ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@steph6109 well... he never spoke back
      ...so apparently..did not like me as it seemed.

  • @moonstar9101
    @moonstar9101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Damn. I’m always this girl. He likes me… but never quite enough. I’m out. I’m getting very used to being alone. And it’s really okay. But hard not to let it get you down sometimes.

    • @Sammy-kf2lg
      @Sammy-kf2lg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same exactly for me! 😢

  • @tricialouisse
    @tricialouisse ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Perfectly explained. It’s like you’re reading a woman’s mind! Thank you for this! I did remove him from my social media and to be honest i feel so empowered. I can’t handle him lurking around and having that access to me so I removed him. I walked away silently. Didn’t argue or anything! It’s SO HARD TO DO I know my worth as a woman.

    • @pridden76
      @pridden76 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good job!

    • @Chrissy.H
      @Chrissy.H ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So awesome! Do you have any updates now, being you posted this three months ago?

    • @Tatiana-oz2fn
      @Tatiana-oz2fn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did he reach out to you

  • @AnnaGollino
    @AnnaGollino 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You are totally right! Biggest turn off is to be turned down 😊 once they come back is such a comedy show😊

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers ปีที่แล้ว +19

    *True happiness comes from within, and you have the power to create the life you desire.*

  • @aprillowe2890
    @aprillowe2890 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Just leave! 🎉 when u require a value they are not willing to give they go to the one who will give with no required value 💯
    KNOW YOUR VALUE! THATS SEXY FOR THE NEXT

  • @debbieballantyne7864
    @debbieballantyne7864 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You have just described my exact situation. He wants to be friends only now after a 6 month relationship. I withdrew, and now will meet him tomorrow. He wants me as a friends only. I am struggling right now.

    • @flyandshy00
      @flyandshy00 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      No, you accept scraps from him, that shows that you have no options and self respect - block him on everywhere and start dating multiple men untilm you find one who is into you 100%

    • @BetterLoveMovement
      @BetterLoveMovement ปีที่แล้ว +18

      PLEASE leave this guy and ALL men alone that don’t want to give you what YOU want! Simple.

    • @kaybase6967
      @kaybase6967 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If he wanted to be a friend, he would have treated you like one in the first place. What he wants is a friend with benefits. I bet he thinks you will give him that if you agreed to meet with him after all he’s done to you. I hope you didn’t give him the time of day and told him to go kick rocks 😂.

  • @cyrinedevi3599
    @cyrinedevi3599 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This new style of haircut really suits you. Makes you look more masculine, very handsome :)

    • @fernfunk
      @fernfunk ปีที่แล้ว

      but he didn't play with his hair once! 😭

  • @monag1735
    @monag1735 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This is what I needed to hear.. Thank you for breaking it down like this. I appreciate it ,going through it now and this makes me feel better.

  • @Speciallay
    @Speciallay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ..your value is based on your time and who you intimate with.. I love this great advise.. thanks a lot..

  • @atomicgeisha
    @atomicgeisha ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I appreciate your videos. As as much as I love men I will always put my family and pets first because they have proven their love for me. I am ok with being alone because I have a family and pets that love me.

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ok cool it's true this is why it is so important for women to learn about their femininity , once you stop acting masculine around men they weed themselves out really quick that's means not shooting you're shot or pursuing him because if he does pull away and you initiate set up dateswith him you will never know if he is interested. Also of he pulls away seriously don't give a shit and last thing if any man tells me that he wants a women to pursue him I gladly walk away because now I can not stand feminine men or grown ass boys!

    • @pridden76
      @pridden76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Once you stop acting masculine around men they weed themselves out really quick" - wow! That is powerful and very true!

  • @user-cy9in5ry9c
    @user-cy9in5ry9c ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pull back was so savage I think he got whiplash

    • @RM-mx1ui
      @RM-mx1ui 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If someone ghosts you after 1 date - they clearly do not like you.

    • @ceelee126
      @ceelee126 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i wouldn't even consider that ghosting. It was only one date

  • @maklangchombie
    @maklangchombie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never know i applied this for the whole life.. yes they comeback even after 20 years but Sorry, as a pisces, its one time offer.. no more access.. love is gone..

  • @SpiritualVixen_666
    @SpiritualVixen_666 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    These videos are getting better every day! I love that!

  • @fifihmdh
    @fifihmdh ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You know what girls just be yourself. I swear if they want to go back they will if they don't just move on its hard to move on but yeah we try ourbest

  • @akibabe09
    @akibabe09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He got wrapped up in another woman. Amd lying about it. A lot. So i left

  • @Jennifer-di4nl
    @Jennifer-di4nl ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So I told him bye and walked away. No contact for 45 days. Hes back saying how much he misses me. Im willing to give him one more chance but how do I phrase that?

    • @Mrv10h
      @Mrv10h ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Tell how are you gonna make it up to me? He has to work to get you back

    • @literallyjen
      @literallyjen ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Prove it

  • @gigioso241
    @gigioso241 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m not dating, but I have been here before. Thanks Elliot. 👍🏽

  • @karrynlipsett5187
    @karrynlipsett5187 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Love the title 😂 of course he or she or they... are an idiot for leaving & they know it!❤

  • @Teresastace1
    @Teresastace1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    0:59 oh 😞

  • @kathleenkeeton8896
    @kathleenkeeton8896 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Nice hair cut 💇‍♂️ ✂️ 👌

  • @elenap2215
    @elenap2215 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was sad for couple days and after that he was dead to me 💀 now with completely much more better guys !!! Oh well 😚

  • @evaelizabeth6186
    @evaelizabeth6186 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Win win situation when u move on and do ur thing !!😊 peace ✌️

  • @123charleneful
    @123charleneful ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loving the new haircut🙌🏾

  • @flynneart1111
    @flynneart1111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Animals are the purest love without risk

  • @Spinnglish
    @Spinnglish ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent content and hair style

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam3735 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They only come back if you let them

  • @christineabbot6987
    @christineabbot6987 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is absolutely amazing !!

  • @livelife5947
    @livelife5947 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Pause: revenge booty? 👀😂😂😂

  • @taylort726
    @taylort726 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m in this exact situation

  • @hannahhardy7557
    @hannahhardy7557 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on. Thanks.

  • @livelife5947
    @livelife5947 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is why I like being INTJ. I legit give no fuqs about men 😂.

    • @AudaciousErin82Baby
      @AudaciousErin82Baby ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And as an INFJ-I legit give way too many! PLEASE HELP Meeeeee😂😂😂😂

    • @pridden76
      @pridden76 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AudaciousErin82Baby Haha yes, I´m an INFJ too and the F fucks things up lol

    • @AudaciousErin82Baby
      @AudaciousErin82Baby ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pridden76 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! And HEY-maybe that's what the "F" REALLY stands for in InFj🤭😂

  • @TheNyny92
    @TheNyny92 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks again Elliot! Nice haircut btw!

  • @buke8923
    @buke8923 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happens if he is a friend of you and he was acting like he likes you and when you asked him out he friendzoned you? I have to see him anytime we do group activities and since I asked him out he stopped all the contact to me except cheing my insta stories.

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      then you friends lol.

    • @buke8923
      @buke8923 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ElliotScottDating 💀 I just don’t know how to act around him because I haven’t seen him since but I am sure now that he wasn’t the right guy. I definitely don’t need a ghoster after showing so much affection.

  • @Jakilyn
    @Jakilyn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He pursued me then convinced me into a relationship only to drop me for another female friend. Now, wants to shelf me as a friend. Sorry sir, absolutely not. I blocked on all social media. I don't want him having access to any of my energy

  • @MissMariahNicole
    @MissMariahNicole ปีที่แล้ว +5

    lmfaoooooo i love you
    he said revenge booty 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @debbieballantyne7864
    @debbieballantyne7864 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Elliot, I have been following you for a few weeks now. I am in the knowledge now that I was in a relationship with an emotional avoidant man. I'm hurting bad. Can you help me.?

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  ปีที่แล้ว

      If you get a session we can definitely go over everything. You'll feel better for sure elliotscottservices.clickfunnels.com/pricing-page1659523299475

  • @RRthee1
    @RRthee1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!! 👏🏼

  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay, Elliot I see you with the fresh fade

  • @pragyagaur8041
    @pragyagaur8041 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    good work, he wants to marry me now

  • @hannahh5514
    @hannahh5514 ปีที่แล้ว

    haircut looks great!

  • @marlounsly
    @marlounsly ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sooo should I delete him off ig ?

    • @minniethomas6206
      @minniethomas6206 ปีที่แล้ว

      No

    • @Jakilyn
      @Jakilyn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd suggest blocking on ALL social media. If he wants you, and ya'll knew each other well enough, he knows where to find you

  • @dianesiguenza5871
    @dianesiguenza5871 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey 😊...I'm the first one!!!! Great advice

  • @NormaGarcia-el9im
    @NormaGarcia-el9im ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Eliott,
    I'm very lost and I'd love to have your input on my situation:
    I walked away from my situationship with a dissmissive advoidant/ emotionally unavailable guy 5 weeks ago (I'm 28, he's 25). There were signs he did like me but when I confronted him after two months of dating he said he couldn't and wasn't willing to give me more (commitment, exclusivity...). For context: he will move abroad soon and this is his main "reason".
    I asked him not to contact me unless he was willing to give me more. It's been 5 weeks and he hasn't reached out. Is he gone forever? Should I reach out to know where he stands?
    Hope this message gets to you.
    Thank you in advance.

    • @BetterLoveMovement
      @BetterLoveMovement ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Sweetheart, why would you want a man who doesn’t want you?? If he can’t show up for you; if he doesn’t call or text you, LEAVE HIM ALONE! There are 8 billion people on the planet and about half of those people are men. FAR BETTER men. Put all of that love and effort on YOURSELF! Get your self love and self respect back and don’t give him a second thought. Seriously. Do NOT reach out to him. If he never reaches out to you, he doesn’t want to. He may be dismissive avoidant and trust me, if that’s the case you dodged a bullet. These types of men are not capable of meeting your needs. You saved yourself years and years of heartache. You are FAR TOO GOOD for this guy. Trust me on this.💯👌🏽

    • @NormaGarcia-el9im
      @NormaGarcia-el9im ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BetterLoveMovement Thank you, I needed that. It's hard to move on but I know I have to!

    • @joanoroni4462
      @joanoroni4462 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Baby girl you deserve better move on ...they always come back! Just Level up

    • @moonlights9061
      @moonlights9061 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl leave him alone . Please start dating men who are available to you!

    • @TheNisiu
      @TheNisiu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Don't worry about whatever the outcome is. Just do your own thing and move on." I think that was the single most validating, stress relieving, & healthy aspects of dating for me in my single years because it always had me focused on what was best for me & helped to avoid having my time wasted. It's the thing I see young women these days able to do the least. Guys can sniff an outcome-dependent women from miles away & they will milk her dry until he loses interest because he already knows she'll do just about anything to keep him around. I've seen men discard women after 10+ yrs after using her simply because SHE was hell-bent on getting a specific outcome.

  • @yousralahrach3257
    @yousralahrach3257 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can I get a session with you and how much is it?

  • @carlasmith3459
    @carlasmith3459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Elliott should I hide my last seen and display pic on WhatsApp from my ex during no contact ? I feel him lurking around as my other social media is deactivated and WhatsApp is the only media he can look me up on . If he sees my online status and last seen does that give him relief to some extent ?

    • @BetterLoveMovement
      @BetterLoveMovement ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You need to BLOCK him on everything! The fact that your worried about him looking at your social media is sending him way too much energy. Don’t give him your time OR your energy.

    • @carlasmith3459
      @carlasmith3459 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Blocking is not a good idea if you want your ex back . I feel that hiding the last seen is fine

    • @m.s9018
      @m.s9018 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Don’t block, just stay unbothered , if you block its somehow comes across childish

  • @macky0714
    @macky0714 ปีที่แล้ว

    what about spouse (husband)he wants to go away

  • @nunyafawkingbiz
    @nunyafawkingbiz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you’re looking up videos on these subjects he is not interested ! Move on !

  • @Liz-dragon-street.
    @Liz-dragon-street. ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Elliot you are my swearing goeroe 😅
    Love iT! ❤
    Much love from Amsterdam 🌏🌱

  • @sofiaekholm1140
    @sofiaekholm1140 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you have more option to pay for the bundle like PayPal or klarna or something?

  • @zmaf1543
    @zmaf1543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking good Elliot 🤤

  • @marlenehaigler6603
    @marlenehaigler6603 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thx

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder why he's unmarried? Elliot, do u know what soul ties are? Great video by the way.

  • @ms.rashay
    @ms.rashay ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 revenge booty!

  • @bujitea8522
    @bujitea8522 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice haircut

  • @joshirwin8882
    @joshirwin8882 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me guess be with another guy and we simply respond your turn to the guy, be careful it stinks

  • @MoonFoxSassy
    @MoonFoxSassy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love that salt and pepper. Can we call you Daddy?

  • @Metamorphosis2.0
    @Metamorphosis2.0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙄

  • @hushpuppies872
    @hushpuppies872 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Revenge booty. Lol 😂

  • @AudaciousErin82Baby
    @AudaciousErin82Baby ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ........Elliot is looking like a whole snack over here🤗

  • @trendafile6356
    @trendafile6356 ปีที่แล้ว

    If hes talking or dating someone new this doesnt apply. Well in todays world most will speak or date someone new quite fast sooo....😅

  • @alycer.8158
    @alycer.8158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fk yeah...I liked 👍

  • @mintamaharaj9552
    @mintamaharaj9552 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can do without the cuss words. Good otherwise

  • @elainem5703
    @elainem5703 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get a pair. lol

  • @oliviaszeplaki4386
    @oliviaszeplaki4386 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hm💇‍♂️😍

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7:00 i like your advice but would prefer more respectful language without the cursing especially since your audience is ladies. Please speak to us like a gentleman lol

    • @alchemicalsoul
      @alchemicalsoul ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Or recognize that people need freedom to be themselves without your control.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @alchemicalsoul he is speaking to an audience so we get to decide the standards of how we would like to be spoken to. Not cursing is bare minimum of respect and decency when speaking to ladies

    • @alchemicalsoul
      @alchemicalsoul ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@basicinfo2022 It's HIS audience and platform. You have a right not to be on it. Cursing isn't absence of moral code. That's fuckery.

    • @heather5207
      @heather5207 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@basicinfo2022I personally enjoy the added curse words. It adds passion to truth.
      It doesn’t offend me at all.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @alchemicalsoul i am his audience. do you know what constructive criticism or customer feedback is? That's how businesses thrive lol I protect my energy and its bad energy and standard to let men curse at you.

  • @missjae4033
    @missjae4033 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    High value women never marry. Just saying. - Veteran