My closest neighbor is a mile away and I'm surrounded by designated wilderness on three sides and so not being around people is sort of just part of my life. I stick to a schedule a little too much, but I must do some kind of physical workout every afternoon and so everything revolves around that block of time. That said, I'm a pretty friendly person.... most of the time!!!
I had an interaction the other day when someone asked me about a neighbor and I told them that I didn’t know them. They looked a bit stunned and I explained to them that I keep myself to myself and expect my neighbors to do the same. They didn’t take that well but I couldn’t care less. I’m a retired Peace Officer and I’ve witnessed firsthand what people do to each other, the cruelty and vicious violence committed on one another. Society is in shambles and I have checked out and don’t want anything to do with the crowd. I have no problems with dying alone and have made my peace with it.
A few years ago a guy I was dating arrived at my townhouse to pick me up. He said "I saw your neighbors outside. What's their names?" I told him I didn't know. He said "Oh.. have they recently moved in?" I told him that they had been living next door to me for about 6 years. He looked a bit stunned....lol.
At 65yrs old I have learned that most people talk a good talk but won't do the walk. I have also learned quality is better than quantity. People ask if want to spend the holidays with them when most people don't want to even spend them with their own so called families, so why would I ??? I am married and we have just a few quality friends, but on the other hand contentment goes a long way. My Mother told me MANY times "That You Are Your Own Best Friend". Got your message, Mom! Thank You!
I will be blunt. People disgust me. I am 54 and neither want nor need friends. I have my lovely wife and 3 children and Grandkids. They are all i need. I live in a very rural area on 10 acres and sometimes i will not leave my property for 3 weeks. Sold my business just before Covid and love staying home. I love it!!!!!!!!!!
They want something from you. Point blank. Doesn’t matter the gender or whatever. People are inherently selfish. Personally, I stay tf away from everyone 😊
I’m a hermit, and don’t care. Because most people don’t care, they haven’t for a very long time. Do what is best for you. And also - you are correct, people are absolutely not the same.
I retired from a job (34-years there) at a public library in a town with around 75k residents. After dealing with (tolerating) hundreds of employees and thousands of patrons over the years, it is sweet relief to get some peace and quiet. My wife can't understand my desire for limited people contact and never will.
I can relate. I'm retired. I do love people but after working 35 years in Public Transit in a mid-size US city my cup has runneth over. My patience has run out. I've become a small town guy. Crowds and most big events are strictly avoided. I shop in the morning now. Less traffic and people.
I am sick to death of working in an office with people that are constantly talking about themselves and never ever ask how I am or what I’ve been doing. Self absorbed people are everywhere these days. Can’t wait to retire and never have to see or listen to them again.
In my experience i avoid people,too. People only approach You if they want something from You. Also, if they feel offended by something You have done or said. That is my own view on this issue. People are simply users, case closed. Imo
Me too. Even my " childhood friend " for over 20 plus years, thru thick and thin. He took advantage of me, and my drinking problem, by constantly borrowing money from me and never paying mr back. What do you expect from an ex coections officer, turned used car salesman . His life was around cons, crooks, and his job involves cheating people. No eonder hes divorced, lost his marriage, his business, his home, himself. Sad. Anyway, i avoid prople prople at work, bc theyll stab you in the back to make themsrlves too good, right Jen.
I'm 59, single, retired and happy. I was lucky making close friends in my early 20's. We experienced most of our formative years together. We are still close. They're intelligent, conscious, interesting, fah-king hilarious, considerate and supportive. People tend to take a liking to me so I made a conscious decision not to make anymore close friends about 14 years ago. I have enough love, support and friendship. And as I get older I cherish my solitude.
I agree 100%. I’m in my late 60’s and a widower. I’ve grown to distrust and almost dislike people. I don’t like crowds, I avoid social gatherings. I go camping by myself. I go motorcycling alone. And I prefer it that way
I feel ya Jonesy! All the power to you 🙌 we need each other but we need to know ourselves first. Now more than ever with so much outside influence on our lives.
When I saw Facebook throw up the first "Friends Birthday" of 2024 I decided to bail out of all the obligation to pretend to care about FB "Friends" Birthdays & when it was coming up to mine in September I decided to delete my Birthday from FB to avoid thanking everyone,... I was amazed at the relief & the lifting of load that I felt lol.
@davidyummus6259 I feel the same , but I put a different thing I put a random date as my birthday in Facebook and see only the people who know me best wish me happiness on the correct date . Take care
As you get older you become more picky about who you spend your time with. Hanging with the grandkids on Thanksgiving day was precious. We talked about the different cheeses, crackers, fruits etc on the charcuterie board and how they mingled in your mouth. I didn't know kids that young noticed things like that. So yeah, time is more precious as we age. Spend it wisely.
I'm 62, friends come in go in your life and I'm still in contact with my friend's overseas, but I don't avoid people in general. But my time is short and don't waste it on negative individuals. I'm just getting back into some old hobbies of mine from the 70s and enjoying my youth again.
This is a great topic to explore I have been avoiding people since the Rona but not bc of health, I became aware how enslaved most people are AND totally ok with it and will attack you for bringing it up
I retired at 60 and am financially well set for life. Before I retired, I had to work with and deal with a lot of people, good and bad (no choice, if I wanted to succeed). Guess I ran into too many opportunists, con artists, authority figure ass kissers, cut throats, selfish people, and losers along the way. And the minute I sold my business and retired, I have found myself staying away from other people as much as I possibly can. Sure I have a good woman, a couple great sons, a brother, and a couple first-cousins who I embrace socially, but nobody else really. My life's travels have taught me to stay clear of other people I don't already know.
@brucepeckham6043 I'm glad you have your retirement in good order , there is so many people that feel the same way about just keeping to themselves with only close family for a great life , thanks for your insight
Our society really emphasizes individualism. It’s all about that, not community. So, the mindset, the values of our “community” are about what is best for each individual. It’s every man for himself. 🤷🏼♂️
Im 52, live alone but defenetely not lonely. I have, friends, family, grandchildren and i actually enjoy my job and most of my coworkers. I'm peacefull.
You can't help others long-term if you don't take care of yourself first! Get in shape physically, eat healthy, plenty of protein and water! Stop eating processed junk food! I look like a body builder just from doing the right things and putting in the work every day instead of lounging on the couch! Every house should have a complete gym! Put the TV in front of the treadmill!
In my younger years, I used to be involved in all kinds of church activities. As I got older, I saw cliques, politics, and people being rather ugly to one another. I began to feel that I did not fit in. As years went by, I began to enjoy my own company. Not trying to be conceited, it is just whatI felt. I ammore at ease being with my wife and sons.
Nothing gave me more peace than finally realizing its all playing on people's fears and mortality. Centuries of it playing with invisible myths and unbelievable amounts of cash grifting. All the while causing untold grief of war. You must obey because he loves you....or you're going to hell. Just pathetic.
People are leeches. And I feel like social media has revealed more of the true nature of people, and we are all disgusted with each other knowing the truth of what people really think as they reveal anonymously in the comments.
I'm 69 and widowed for 18 months after 43 wonderful years of marriage. I'll never love again like that, and that's OK. Do I like it? No. But I'm not available. By choice.
59..'friends'...yea, attempt to be a good friend and then they show their true colors. A few 'aquantences' that I can see right through, but they are someone to speak English with once in awhile (I live in Mexico). I just don't trust people anymore or else they annoy me completely, no compassion, loud, only want to get what they can get from you......just me and my two dogs and my gardens. Wish I'd have met a partner along the way, but didn't happen, just users. Too bad.....so many regrets but I try not to think about it so much. Try to focus on the beauty of plants and the love of my pets and the butterflies.
@thereseschab5042 I do love working in the garden also , a few years ago I never worked in the yard but now it's part of my daily life as is our little dog , take care
Wish I could live in a house in the middle of a field with just my husband.....I realy cannot do with all the greedy narsatistic ungrateful people there are in the world....
@@monsterrockstar90 remember the crazy people shopping for toilet paper when the world was going mad , and everyone these days are just in a hurry to get get nowhere
My closest neighbor is a mile away and I'm surrounded by designated wilderness on three sides and so not being around people is sort of just part of my life. I stick to a schedule a little too much, but I must do some kind of physical workout every afternoon and so everything revolves around that block of time. That said, I'm a pretty friendly person.... most of the time!!!
What is hell? People are hell!
Lucky you sounds like heaven 😊
love avoiding people
I had an interaction the other day when someone asked me about a neighbor and I told them that I didn’t know them. They looked a bit stunned and I explained to them that I keep myself to myself and expect my neighbors to do the same. They didn’t take that well but I couldn’t care less. I’m a retired Peace Officer and I’ve witnessed firsthand what people do to each other, the cruelty and vicious violence committed on one another. Society is in shambles and I have checked out and don’t want anything to do with the crowd. I have no problems with dying alone and have made my peace with it.
A few years ago a guy I was dating arrived at my townhouse to pick me up. He said "I saw your neighbors outside. What's their names?" I told him I didn't know. He said "Oh.. have they recently moved in?" I told him that they had been living next door to me for about 6 years. He looked a bit stunned....lol.
This is exactly where I am at!
I love being alone. I'm 60 and don't want to associate with people.
@chewybaddog6061 yes I know that feeling , take care
That’s cuz yer the Lone Ranger 🤠 🤓
@@chewybaddog6061 people suk. They are only out for themselves. Even family members too.
@@effdonahue6595 Lol
At 65yrs old I have learned that most people talk a good talk but won't do the walk. I have also learned quality is better than quantity. People ask if want to spend the holidays with them when most people don't want to even spend them with their own so called families, so why would I ??? I am married and we have just a few quality friends, but on the other hand contentment goes a long way. My Mother told me MANY times "That You Are Your Own Best Friend". Got your message, Mom! Thank You!
@tomhaywood8619 Yes your mother's words were wise 👏 and Thanks for your thought's
I started going to the gym after midnight just to avoid the people. I don't need them to enjoy my life. I enjoy people that are very quiet and wise
Agreed Tabeurnak!
68 here, and I enjoy my slow, simple life by myself...in fact, I've been waiting my whole life for this
I will be blunt. People disgust me. I am 54 and neither want nor need friends. I have my lovely wife and 3 children and Grandkids. They are all i need. I live in a very rural area on 10 acres and sometimes i will not leave my property for 3 weeks. Sold my business just before Covid and love staying home. I love it!!!!!!!!!!
@Puddles-j1q having land sounds great and family is everything my friend , cheers
I'm 56 and I avoid people too. People are way different than they used to be. They're woke and not too friendly either
@@BladeObssession yes times have changed for sure
really is that what you have a problem with??
wow i wish it was like that for me. that would be bearable.
@fuzzjunky No I can think of a lot of other things too but I was just responding to his title
"woke?" Because being aware of social injustice is..bad? Maybe you're the problem.
Turned 51 yesterday.
Have no interest in people.
same same same
People who do not enjoy being alone are missing out.
People get close to you for a REASON usually not good . Like to take / steal money from you .
.....women ? 😂😂😂😂😂. Someone had to say it
They want something from you. Point blank. Doesn’t matter the gender or whatever. People are inherently selfish. Personally,
I stay tf away from everyone 😊
I’m a hermit, and don’t care. Because most people don’t care, they haven’t for a very long time. Do what is best for you. And also - you are correct, people are absolutely not the same.
I retired from a job (34-years there) at a public library in a town with around 75k residents. After dealing with (tolerating) hundreds of employees and thousands of patrons over the years, it is sweet relief to get some peace and quiet. My wife can't understand my desire for limited people contact and never will.
I can relate. I'm retired. I do love people but after working 35 years in Public Transit in a mid-size US city my cup has runneth over. My patience has run out. I've become a small town guy. Crowds and most big events are strictly avoided. I shop in the morning now. Less traffic and people.
I'm one year from retireing .
I can not wait , then I will not have to deal with people at work .
@denisestarr2314 I hear you for sure and I'm sure the year will fly by , cheers
What is hell? People are hell!
Yes just retired no more toxic work place 😅
Me too !cant stand co workers
I am sick to death of working in an office with people that are constantly talking about themselves and never ever ask how I am or what I’ve been doing. Self absorbed people are everywhere these days. Can’t wait to retire and never have to see or listen to them again.
You can always let the good ones into you're life and ignore the idiots.
What is hell? People are hell!
@Itwasme007 some people are, but there are some beautiful and amazing souls on earth that will take you by suprise and make you feel good.
Im 55, just me and my dog now 🐕
What is hell? People are hell!
ok
My best and only friend is my dog...sorry Jesus but I just don't like people and I never asked to be here in this shit hole called earth
People will always be the main core of your problems
I’m getting close to 50 in less than a couple months, and already I love being alone without people. 😊
What is hell? People are hell!
In my experience i avoid people,too. People only approach You if they want something from You. Also, if they feel offended by something You have done or said. That is my own view on this issue. People are simply users, case closed. Imo
Was a great video,thank you for using it as an example.
I'm 70 and have shed a few bludgers of late.
Me too. Even my " childhood friend " for over 20 plus years, thru thick and thin. He took advantage of me, and my drinking problem, by constantly borrowing money from me and never paying mr back. What do you expect from an ex coections officer, turned used car salesman . His life was around cons, crooks, and his job involves cheating people. No eonder hes divorced, lost his marriage, his business, his home, himself. Sad.
Anyway, i avoid prople prople at work, bc theyll stab you in the back to make themsrlves too good, right Jen.
I'm 59, single, retired and happy. I was lucky making close friends in my early 20's. We experienced most of our formative years together. We are still close. They're intelligent, conscious, interesting, fah-king hilarious, considerate and supportive. People tend to take a liking to me so I made a conscious decision not to make anymore close friends about 14 years ago. I have enough love, support and friendship. And as I get older I cherish my solitude.
Thanks for your story mate and it sounds like you have it sorted 👍
I agree 100%. I’m in my late 60’s and a widower. I’ve grown to distrust and almost dislike people. I don’t like crowds, I avoid social gatherings. I go camping by myself. I go motorcycling alone. And I prefer it that way
At 67, l thought l was the only one going thru a period of withdrawal from society. Now l know l'm in the youth of my retirement. Thanks RJ!!
I feel ya Jonesy! All the power to you 🙌 we need each other but we need to know ourselves first. Now more than ever with so much outside influence on our lives.
When I saw Facebook throw up the first "Friends Birthday" of 2024 I decided to bail out of all the obligation to pretend to care about FB "Friends" Birthdays & when it was coming up to mine in September I decided to delete my Birthday from FB to avoid thanking everyone,... I was amazed at the relief & the lifting of load that I felt lol.
@davidyummus6259 I feel the same , but I put a different thing I put a random date as my birthday in Facebook and see only the people who know me best wish me happiness on the correct date . Take care
You might feel even better by totally deleting FB. I did over 10 years ago. Cheers.
As you get older you become more picky about who you spend your time with. Hanging with the grandkids on Thanksgiving day was precious. We talked about the different cheeses, crackers, fruits etc on the charcuterie board and how they mingled in your mouth. I didn't know kids that young noticed things like that. So yeah, time is more precious as we age. Spend it wisely.
@Qwazier3 sounded like a great thanksgiving was had with family, thanks for telling us your story
Im 57 with seven cats. Im completely fine being without people in my life. I love the quiet.
cats are evil.
I loved this video Jonesy! The great thing about TH-cam is that we (us reclusives) can be alone together 😊
Send me an email sometime, I'd gladly be a guest on your channel sometime. :)
@TheLifeofBryanShow will do cheers
I'm 62, friends come in go in your life and I'm still in contact with my friend's overseas, but I don't avoid people in general. But my time is short and don't waste it on negative individuals. I'm just getting back into some old hobbies of mine from the 70s and enjoying my youth again.
@mikefisher2673 sounds good and yes 62 we are in our youthfulness of our retirement years
I’m 52 and that video stuck with me as well.
@Smuggler169 It's great when a conversation awakens our minds to the reality of our situation in life , cheers
This is a great topic to explore
I have been avoiding people since the Rona but not bc of health, I became aware how enslaved most people are AND totally ok with it and will attack you for bringing it up
@@ChrisAthanas thanks Chris and I agree 👍
Totaly agree 😅
I retired at 60 and am financially well set for life. Before I retired, I had to work with and deal with a lot of people, good and bad (no choice, if I wanted to succeed). Guess I ran into too many opportunists, con artists, authority figure ass kissers, cut throats, selfish people, and losers along the way. And the minute I sold my business and retired, I have found myself staying away from other people as much as I possibly can. Sure I have a good woman, a couple great sons, a brother, and a couple first-cousins who I embrace socially, but nobody else really. My life's travels have taught me to stay clear of other people I don't already know.
@brucepeckham6043 I'm glad you have your retirement in good order , there is so many people that feel the same way about just keeping to themselves with only close family for a great life , thanks for your insight
Our society really emphasizes individualism. It’s all about that, not community. So, the mindset, the values of our “community” are about what is best for each individual. It’s every man for himself. 🤷🏼♂️
Im 52, live alone but defenetely not lonely. I have, friends, family, grandchildren and i actually enjoy my job and most of my coworkers. I'm peacefull.
You can't help others long-term if you don't take care of yourself first! Get in shape physically, eat healthy, plenty of protein and water! Stop eating processed junk food! I look like a body builder just from doing the right things and putting in the work every day instead of lounging on the couch! Every house should have a complete gym! Put the TV in front of the treadmill!
"Men only need two real close male friends. The reason they only need two is, if one dies, they have a "back-up."" John Grey, Psychologist.
In my younger years, I used to be involved in all kinds of church activities. As I got older, I saw cliques, politics, and people being rather ugly to one another. I began to feel that I did not fit in. As years went by, I began to enjoy my own company. Not trying to be conceited, it is just whatI felt. I ammore at ease being with my wife and sons.
Thanks for your views and there is a lot of people that feel the same way .
Nothing gave me more peace than finally realizing its all playing on people's fears and mortality. Centuries of it playing with invisible myths and unbelievable amounts of cash grifting. All the while causing untold grief of war. You must obey because he loves you....or you're going to hell. Just pathetic.
yes avoiding people you will live longer and less stress.
I enjoyed this chat
People are leeches. And I feel like social media has revealed more of the true nature of people, and we are all disgusted with each other knowing the truth of what people really think as they reveal anonymously in the comments.
I'm 47 and I love being alone too.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 👍
Thank you. Man, live it fully with peace ✌️ of mind.. God bless you and wish you a long life.😊
We should avoid other people together 🙏 Amen 😎
Love your passion
Love being alone. So peaceful
I'm 69 and widowed for 18 months after 43 wonderful years of marriage. I'll never love again like that, and that's OK. Do I like it? No. But I'm not available. By choice.
I don't even trust any spirits from the other side. At least not right away. So that tells you the damage is done. Out of the matrix I go.
59..'friends'...yea, attempt to be a good friend and then they show their true colors. A few 'aquantences' that I can see right through, but they are someone to speak English with once in awhile (I live in Mexico). I just don't trust people anymore or else they annoy me completely, no compassion, loud, only want to get what they can get from you......just me and my two dogs and my gardens. Wish I'd have met a partner along the way, but didn't happen, just users. Too bad.....so many regrets but I try not to think about it so much. Try to focus on the beauty of plants and the love of my pets and the butterflies.
@thereseschab5042 I do love working in the garden also , a few years ago I never worked in the yard but now it's part of my daily life as is our little dog , take care
I'm 77 and enjoy me, myself and I the best. It's my own board of directors. Thanks pal, enjoyed your video.
Glad you enjoyed it
There's been a shareholders meeting. Clean your bathroom. Lol 😅
Right on brother😅
I enjoy playing music with my friends.
At a glance , only a guess, I don't think you have to avoid people to be alone.
I know what you mean getting blamed for things you didn't do is a drag.
I think I just prefer my time alone so I don't have to focus on anything but what I want.
@Beltloop29 cheers Gary
If you can't fool your brother or friend then who can you fool !
Keep it going.
I am enjoying it too, thanks for the encouragement.
Wish I could live in a house in the middle of a field with just my husband.....I realy cannot do with all the greedy narsatistic ungrateful people there are in the world....
The wrost place to deal with people is at the grocery store
@@monsterrockstar90 remember the crazy people shopping for toilet paper when the world was going mad , and everyone these days are just in a hurry to get get nowhere
wurst
Are we really alone? Knowing you can reach a larger audience with the internet?
8k views!🎉
@@shawneegrows just wow
In real life I’m only comfy with my pet cat Leli and family
I enjoyed the chat also
What part of Tasmania ?... My Brother moved from Sydney to the Central North Coast almost 20 years ago.
I'm in Burnie, my other channel " Radio Jonesy on Tour " has a lot of local content
@RadioJTalk
Yep, down the road from my Brother
There’s always papa John’s for u
Thought it wss just me lol😅
nice thoughts
6:30 yeah its different, BECAUSE MULTICULTURALISM NEVER WORKS.
Ain't tellin' me anything...
It's great ideas mate, yr yt will take off
Keep publishing, you introvert 😂
👍🏼
You love being alone yet you still seek connections on the internet?
And your point of you making this video is what exactly?
Play pickleball
@@peteherrera1502 sounds interesting
hello boomer
Hello
nice hat , now come back to work
Thanks I like the hat too , I'm enjoying not working, but thanks for the concern
Okay Boomer
63 you are not alone but common wireless plays apart.