MY ISSUE WITH ARIELLE SCARCELLA ( TRANS GUY REACTS TO TERF) | NOAHFINNCE
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i love that danny devito is just chilling in the corner
I didn't even notice him awoejjeijdj
ihaveno lifeleft can I- **snort** can I offer you an egg in this trying time
Danny Devito says trans rights
There is still one man we can call.....danny devito
my guy just vibin' there
Well said! I started following Arielle because I thought she was an advocate for LBGT rights. I soon realized she was so transphobic. I am a cis straight 54yo mom of 4 trying to understand about LGBT issues after my daughter came out. Her videos are so hateful. I worry that other older people will fall for her "fake" advocacy.
This is a bit unrelated but thank you for being such a cool parent. i think all of us wish we had a mum like you :)
You are breathtaking
Thanks so much for being such a great ally and learning about our community! I really appreciate it a lot and so do many others ❤️
Honestly, u sound like the best mum
@@Bee-cq4hi with everything she said about someone because she is not agreeing with them.....i would argue that she is not being the best at anything.
"advocate for lgbt+ community " does she know what the T stands for or....
stands for transphobe... right?
She also posted a tweet where she wanted the T to be excluded from LGBT... So that's how transphobic she is
Maybe she thinks it stands for tangerine idk
She must think it means Transphobic Lesbians 💔
@@incontrovertible1872 No
Arielle calls you sexist but is now befriending republicans and anti feminists 😶
so unsurprising
Lol whats wrong with that? Modern feminists are sexist🤷🏼♀️the definition of sexism is believing one sex is dominate over the other. She actually does advocate for women’s right whether you believe so or not. I feel like youre completely disregarding what shes really saying
@@Sp33dgum Modern feminists? do you just talk about these random twitter accounts? educate yourself away from the internet!
You wish. I don't use twitter or any type of social media. Its stupid and a waste of time. I learned about feminism and modern feminism at college in sociology, philosophy, modern history, aging & gynecology, and political science classes. I researched from reputable sources such as peer review articles, and textbooks. All of it was also taught in my lectures in detail. I’m sure it will help you understand more if you were mature enough to educate yourself outside of social media.
@@Sp33dgum yes some are sexist, but most aren't. Feminists support equality, not the opposite of that. I should know, I'm one of them. Pls do not think that of us. If you are anti-feminist, then keep that to yourself, we don't like being called sexist, WHEN WE LITERALLY JUST WANT EQUALITY
"I don't identify as a terf. please stop calling me one."
I don't identify as a girl. please stop calling me one.
edit: im not going to engage in any more arguments about this so if that’s your intention don’t even bother replying
She isn’t calling you that tho
Platinum Shores I think you might’ve missed the point
nickythehickey How so?
Platinum Shores the point is to show that her exact words can be turned around and used to explain why her misgendering trans people is a bad thing; if she doesn’t want to be called something she doesn’t identify as why would she do the same thing to other people? It’s hypocritical
Platinum Shores also venting frustration with people around me through a meme that’s actually relevant to the person discussed but that’s the main point
Me and my boyfriend, both pre-transition trans guys: **existing**
People: I see l e s b i a n
Damn I felt that
I am in a Schrödingers Gay relationship. Because my girlfriend is transgender and I am a girl. People (including my dad sadly) hate us because we are lesbians but at the same time tell my girlfriend that she is a dude. Which would say we are a straight couple. It’s funny to watch how they argue about which way they should try to invalidate us.
When I read “I see l e s b i a n” my vocal reaction was literally, “Yes gay, but wrong kind of gay.”
MOOD
My wife is gender-dysphoric and would like to transition, but hasn't for fear of side-effects/not passing/etc. Are we technically a gay couple then? She's presently very feminine, which I am attracted to. If she does transition, I would not be attracted to her/him in the same way. Does that make me a transphobe?
arielle gives off jk rowling vibes
LOL
@Master of misogyny yikes
I was looking for this comment!
@Master of misogyny that’s rlly gross🤮 and the fact you are a proud misogynist 🤢
@Master of misogyny are you a troll
I'm rewatching this after storm Ryan apologized for associating with her ✌🏼
Dude your comments are everywhere 😂👁️👄👁️
@@Ainator_ this hasn't been the 1st time someone has said that lol
@@vampireshark5850 actually I think I said that to you in another comment 😂
@@Ainator_ Lol 😂
Just waiting for him to denounce kalvin😳
sayinf u don't identify as a terf is literally like saying u don't identify as a racist
It's also like saying "I don't identify as a thief. I just took your wallet without your permission". Like we don't really give a hoot about what you think you are or are not... if your actions are harming people we will tell you they are harming people.
YES EXACTLY
“I don’t identify as a murderer, the dead body with 27 stab wounds is no proof!”
The people that say it too to defend shit they have said are usually a lil bit racist or are terfs
terf = trans exclusive radical feminist
terf =/= transphobe
I used to watch Arielle's videos back when she posted, like, normal LGBT content. But then she became obsessed with hating on trans people, so I unfollowed her.
They started the hate to be honest
@@SuperSymbiote1 No.
@@MercenaryPine9 Yea, why not
you mean when she started to disagree with you....
These aren't the best replies, yikes for the transphobia in here.
Noah:
"We're getting into terf territory."
My brain:
"We're getting into terf turf."
oh fuck yeah I'm finding a u$€ för the term terf turf, turd (I'm not calling you a turd sir I am doing a spelling thing)
I’m kinda upset that we don’t hear “terf turf” in the trans community more often.
him saying “i don’t think she’s transphobic i just think she’s a bit.... silly” killed me omg he came so close to swearing
Why is a CIS woman talking about TRANS experiences?
Because she gets attacked constantly by them and she defends her viewpoints.
@@SuperSymbiote1 well seems like it is time for her to stop being devensive and start listening to trans people.
If even your former trans friends distance themselves from you, you have chosen the wrong hill to die on.
Jordan Z I don’t want to get involved, but what are the trans communities problem with her?
@@SuperSymbiote1 you commented this under a Video called "my issue with arielle scarcella".... c'mon.
She has shown transphobic behaviour and opinions for years now. And when trans people tried to educate her she puposefully misinterprets their argumentes.
Jordan Z Well give me an example of what she did that’s transphobic
"I dont identify as a TERF" I DIED
"non-Binary ppl are a joke"
...Mr.Stark I don't feel so good..-
You saying a trans person doesn't have to start transitioning to know they're trans the same way she doesn't have to have sex with a woman before knowing she's a lesbian makes so much sense to me thanks for that
"not to be an activist, but I am not okay with that" needs to be on a t shirt
omg yesssss!!!!!!!!
and let's let forget when she uploaded a video titled "i still won't apologize for being transphobic" with the thumbnail being her with her middle fingers up....
She’s so remorseful /s 🙄
She's lesbian right? She's pretty much saying "as a member of an oppressed minority, I'm going to oppress another minority."
I saw a friend say this regarding a similar topic and I feel like it fits Arielle pretty well.
Lmao “oppress”
It happens with a lot of minorities. Like back when there was slavery and stuff in the US, some lighter skinned black people would turn against the darker skinned
Lmaoooo about 1 month ago she posted “Why you should vote Trump 2020”...... she rlly gone downhill 😂
Yes I am non binary, Yes I an a joke.
But I am not a joke because I am non binary
@Milena Shvedova thank you such
@@Dadyes you're amazing and valid af
@@themikaylashow1987 thank you bestie
@@Dadyes no probs. I'm one of the nicest,and bubbly girls you could ever meet
This!!!
I should start saying this the way I say “yes I’m broken but not because I’m aroace”
i am cis, and i have trans friends, and honestly i have no idea of how noah managed to make this entire video without swearing or like, actually insulting her. like im not even the target of her hate and it makes my blood boil, im so sorry for you trans people, you deserve so much better (and our entire community deserves better representatives and activists)
You deserve your friends way more than Arielle deserves hers. You sound like an excellent friend! I hope you have a wonderful day!
When you were saying “turf is a slur” I just had peter griffin in my head “bird is the word” 😂
arielle: i dont identify as a terf dont call me one
me: (pre physical transition trans men: i dont identify as a woman dont call me a woman
arielle youre doing exactly that to trans people so maybe dont be a hypocrite
Exactly transphobes are often hypocritical.
If my identity is a joke, it's hella funny
I really don't know why Arielle is so obsessed with trans people
Yeah. She also tries to educate people but she doesn't know what she's talking about.
And then she calls you sexist 💀
wait till she finds out that she also has pro-nouns
As a transsexual man, myself, my feelings about the relationship between a trans person's individuality and how their physical communities perceive them are far more complex and nuanced than a video could do justice to. In simplest terms, I don't think Areola Scaremonger is 100% _wrong_ about _how society sees_ a pre-(medical)transition trans person (in or out of relationships), but my bigger issue is that *it's just insulting* that she apparently thinks that trans people need to be told this. Like, trans people live in a state of being regularly reminded of how other people see us, both as a community and as individuals. Shit, I can barely do a load of laundry without one of my neighbours' friends, a delivery driver, or whatever, doing a double - take and _saying out loud_ "what the... Is that... Some kinda white boy?" (literally a quote from two days ago) and I've even been on HRT almost fifteen years, and I've had all the surgeries.
I'm at a point where confused comments from people I don't know are something I'm more entertained than insulted by, but there's no faster way to insult me than to talk to me like I'm stupid, and that's basically how AS talks to/about trans people.
noah: * calls out Arielle*
all her trans friends: your right
Not exactly
Is that a cardboard cutout of danny devito or am I crazy and seeing things?
i know, it's not really the part of the video i should be paying attention to, but i enjoy it when your hair jiggles as you get real expressive
So she doesn't identify as a terf and feels that that is reason enough to not be called a terf... but when a trans person identifies as a gender different to the gender they were born as, Arielle's not here for it?
Let's be at least a little fair, she didn't misgender him here at least. The problem is that she's trying to shame Trans people which is still TERF behavior.
Transphobes like Arielle are often hypocritical. Ever notice how the strongest opinions are held by the least educated.
Arielle gives off "I'm not racist bc I have a black friend" vibes
but for even more depth; "I'm not racist even though I've said many hurtful and very obviously racist things because I have a black 'friend' who I most likely constantly disrespect and judge"
I'm in love with this comment, you put it PERFECTLY
Straight facts!
I feel bad for all the closeted trans people in relationships with transphobes. There was a lovely asmrtist in the community a few years back who was in a toxic relationship with a lesbian woman, and they came out as Non-binary this year. Their girlfriend had managed to get them to go to anti-enby rallies, and it took forever for them to build up the courage to break up with her.
I feel the pain
I think the girlfriend dodged a bullet
💔
I am so glad you posted this video. So many people are very uninformed when it comes to the "T" side of the LGBTQA+ community. I, a 100% lesbian actually unsubscribed to Arielle many years ago because of her hate towards trans people. She definitely needs to open her eyes to the fact that she is hurting so many people who are a part of our community.
People transition to help themselves, not to appeal to anyone else. The fact that Arielle is convinced her opinion, as a cis woman, about who is/isn't trans is really that relevant to trans people is mind boggling.
Yeah exactly, it’s mind boggling.
Honestly, you are one of the people that i really admire like, your ability to talk about issues and be respectful and promote equality and the “right thing” is amazing and i hope i can be like you one day. 20/10 love your content, keep being awesome.
I remember when I was in middle School trying to dress like a guy and my mom told me I looked like a lesbian and I started crying
Edit: I am trans btw
I love how no matter who he is reacting/talking about, he always tells us to never send hate. Honestly so sweet. ;)
uhhh lol as a man who hasn't started testosterone i was dumbstruck at how stupid that was
You’re valid, don’t listen to the Terfielle Scarella.
Okay so I’m straight so maybe I just don’t get it since I’m not actively in the lgbtq community. But personally I never understood why members of the lgbtqq community are being hateful towards other members of the lgbtq community. Like since she’s lesbian, (sadly) surely she made experiences with receiving hate for her sexuality, so why should she do that to trans people? Like... idk I just don’t understand... Honestly if somebody could educate me here, please do
honestly none of us know either. you would think she would understand the struggles
I'm really glad I came across your channel. I just subscribed. I stumbled on some of her videos last night that put me in a deep depression you're words helped so much. I'm a trans woman.
Don't forget the time she cited stixx hex and hammer as a source. WHO IS A HOLOCAUST DENIER
Why are so many terfs(like Arielle and Joanne) holocaust deniers?
"Being a lesbian doesn't qualify you to speak on trans issues"
THATS- YES EXACTLY. WHAT IS SO HARD ABOUT THIS?
I love how well you explain the problem with this person's content. I also really appreciate how much you stress the need for people to not bully this person. Thanks for your positive, compassionate, and important content!!
19:35 "Wish you well, Corry"
lmao "I'll pray for you" headass
I am learning so much from you about a topic I knew little about. Thank you.
its so satisfying to see you, Jaime, and Corry calling her shit out and not sugar coating it.
Who’s Cory?
@@andrewhaywood3853Noah's boyfriend, one of his tweets responding to arielle were in the video
I wanted to say Arielle has some serious Kaitlin Bennett energy...And that is a slur... 😅
She reacted to this video and skipped almost all of it lol
I am a cis woman in a straight relationship who is trying to educate herself recently and be open to everything and everyone, looking at different communities. I stumble across your and Jamie's videos more often and I like you both so much!
I also try to understand the whole TERF problem, especially because of "you know who" .. I am completely with you, most of the comments are stupid and uninformed and it is just rude to say that someone else's feelings are not "real enough" , so that you don't address them correctly, use correct pronouns, do not welcome them while gossiping in the ladies' toilet. I would do all of these things in a heartbeat because firstly it doesn't harm anyone and secondly it is good for the person and makes them feel good. Very simple thing!
For me it is more difficult, and maybe the nice people here can help me with my point of view, if it restrict areas which cis women have fought for, as for example in professional sports. I know, super special example and it keeps coming up, actually unnecessary, but when I see memes with athletes with a transgender background and sentences like "Men are the better women" under it, it is probably not only me who vomit, but the women on the pictures too.
But there is a point. People with y chromosome who produced testosterone during puberty are usually taller and build muscle more easily. That's why the women's and men's leagues were introduced. My opinion is that this is an outdated concept and athletes should be classified according to other criteria in order to ensure a fair competition (maybe according to hormone levels? Maybe according to physique / muscle structure? I don't know). Also, especially in recent years, PMS and menstrual issues have been increasingly recognized by society. I try to get used to talk about "people" on these topics, too, to not discriminate anyone, but I find it difficult, because one sex has to deal with these topics and the other just doesn't. Additionally, there are no different words for sex and gender in the German language, what makes it even more difficult. So if you want to fight for rights at your workplace, for example, it is difficult to involve everyone because not everyone has to face the same hurdles. In order to convince stubborn old men, what most bosses are, if we're honest, you have to bring clear examples and instructions and I have to admit that I am probably the least inclusive in these places, although it would probably be easy if my opponent would be somewhat insightful..I'm sorry, but i find it difficult to speak for others in these situations, but I would support anyone who does!
Another controversial opinion: I can understand that especially in cases where people have become criminals or a crime has happend, special attention is paid to the matter and it is not enough that someone claims to be a woman to be put in a women's prison. In my opinion, no medical intervention as evidence has to have taken place in this case, but rather a conversation with the treating psychologist, maybe a diagnosed genderdysphoria. To make it clear again: Nobody has to bring me any proof, but if you did something, you just have to make sure that you get into the prison you belong to. The same applies to women's shelters in my opinion. Of course, trans women should also be welcome there, as you said, protection for them is just as necessary. Nevertheless, security must be guaranteed for everyone so that no cis man gets access just because he claims to be a woman. If additional checks on the person lead to more security, they should be able to be done, even if people may find it unfair.
Now, am I a TERF because I think these things? I don't think so. I am a feminist and I also believe that the topic is not over yet. But the problem is certainly not trans-people, but stereotypes that we all impose on each other. Women to each other, men to each other, men to women, women to men, straight to queer, queer to straight, trans to cis, cis to trans. It would be a lot easier if we all would just stop that.
I think you are doing a great job and my education-trip is certainly not over yet. Greetings from Germany
i rewatch noah’s videos when i’m sad because he makes me safe and happy.
Like saying “you don’t have diabetes because you don’t take medication”
I'm really glad you emphasize that people can change over time.
If she doesn't approve of trans people, then she should keep it to herself, not make us strain our eyes by reading her post. I'm glad you are making a video about this, hopefully she gets all the things you said through her thick skull.
I hate when people try to define feminism as anything but how you just explained it 🥺👏🏼
00:00 📢 Noah expresses concerns about Arielle Scarcella's behavior regarding trans issues.
02:21 🌈 Arielle predominantly focuses on trans-related content on her channel and social media platforms.
03:03 🗣️ Noah highlights Arielle's comments about genital preferences and emphasizes the importance of respectful discussion.
04:12 👩👧👦 Arielle's self-identification as a women's rights and LGBT activist is questioned due to her exclusionary views.
07:11 🔄 Arielle's misunderstanding of transgender individuals' experiences and her focus on physical appearance is criticized.
11:23 🌟 Arielle attempts to define non-binary identities for others, demonstrating a lack of understanding.
13:53 🏳️⚧️ Noah discusses Arielle's alignment with Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist (TERF) views and her questioning of the term 'TERF.'
16:00 🐦 Arielle's use of a TERF website as a source in a discussion involving trans individuals is criticized.
17:24 🗣️ Noah points out examples of Arielle Scarcella discussing trans issues without proper understanding, urging her to stop contributing to transphobic conversations.
18:07 🚫 Despite numerous attempts to educate Arielle, she has blocked those trying to explain her wrongdoings, indicating an unwillingness to listen and learn.
19:17 🧱 Arielle's responses to criticism are dismissive, showing a lack of acknowledgment or understanding of the issues being raised.
20:00 🔄 Noah criticizes trans individuals who support Arielle despite her continuous disrespect towards the trans community, highlighting the need for greater awareness.
21:13 📢 Arielle appears to use trans individuals to validate her views, using them as examples to suggest her behavior is acceptable, a manipulative tactic.
22:22 🧐 Noah expresses bewilderment at trans and cis individuals supporting Arielle, emphasizing the importance of doing basic research on her behavior and views.
22:48 🚫 Noah condemns associating with someone who promotes hate towards a minority group, highlighting the need for better judgment and standards.
HELLO YOU BEAUTIFUL MAN YOU MAKE MY LIFE SO MUCH BETTER WITH EVERY POST-
I'm not trans but I get a lot of "I don't agree with you but I tolerate you, you're the intolerant one". Of course what they really mean is "I absolutely despise you and want to banish everything about you to another planet but you're the intolerant one for insisting on your right to exist."
Your video helped me come up with this saying, "If it's not who you are, you have no say." "If you're not a pregnant woman, you have no say about abortion." "If you're not a Mexican (or other race), you have no say about what is or is not offensive to the Mexicans (or other race)" "If you're not an atheist, you have no say in diagnosing the mental health of atheists." "If you're not disabled, you have no say questioning whether we are faking it or not." "If you are not trans, you have no say in defining who is and who isn't trans."
I'm an atheist with cerebral palsy and I'm gay. I want to unite all of us together to promote inclusion.
Ohhh my gosh I’m so late but HIII!! fellow gay atheist with cerebral palsy!! That’s so wild, small world :3
As a cis woman and a feminist, I find her embarrassing. Feminism is about human rights for all women. Human rights. That she should use it as a stick against anyone is revolting.
Right before the video started I got a pro life ad...😬😬
I used to watch her videos when I was just starting to question my sexuality. I kinda liked her, but somethibg always seemed off abt her... now a few years later (I haven't been following her content) I realized that my feeling was right urgh I'm embarrassed that I used to like Arielle...
It's important that as many people as possible raise awareness on such delicate topics and let transphobes know that they won't get trough with their shit anymore. You go Noah!!!
Awesome Video. Keep your good work for the community up :)
Hey Noah! I love these little bits of the videos you do where you talk to your rats who drinks water too loudly😂😂😂
Oh well, calling a butch lesbian a transguy is gonna offend them the same way as calling a transguy a butch woman. They're different things
noah defending nonbinary people is giving me life.
idk what to say just I agree with you :3 and no-one else has replied to this yet
@@ponfi0275 helloo
@@melanieluver2385 bye
Tem que defender
Same, I am non binary, and I just started smiling when they, (I don't know Noah's pronouns) started defending non binary people.
I know this was posted 2 years ago but dam, comparing trans guys to butch lesbians because they both mascilen is like comparing lesbians to straight guys since they both like woman
Not even to mention the fact that trans men don’t all like women, they continently forget that trans men can be gay, bi, ace, aro, pan etc. not just “lesbians” that are now straight trans men.
The ‘misgendering is good akshually’ tweet absolutely is transphobic. If she wasn’t being intentionally dismissive of trans people’s pain I will eat something large and unpleasant; Arielle’s ego, perhaps.
Trans women are women and valid, trans men are men and valid in my eyes and always will be
"You're not a lesbian if you haven't had sex with a woman." That was insanely perfect!!!
I used to watch Arielle when I was 12, and at first it was really affirming for me because I was questioning my sexuality and I didn't really know anyone in the LGBTQIA+ Community...That is, until I watched a video from her about trans people--- at the time I didn't know the word for it, but I was struggling to come to terms with being gender fluid, and what she said left me feeling so invalidated and sad that I tried to force myself to be "normal" and dress like a girl... I started watching her new videos a few days ago, and I couldn't believe how hateful they are...Also, her response video to you was ridiculous, and I'm really glad I found your channel! Liked and subscribed!! 🤗
The seal sounds 😭😭😭
conflict is not abuse; disagreements≠hatred
For someone who claims to not spread transphobic ideas, she half does have a transphobic audience.
I watched her as a naive and desperate 15 year old trans kid and got some really fucked feelings and Internalised transphobia that I’m still not entirely over. I’ve probably said some awful things because of ideas similar to hers. Yikes
Oh, same. I don't remember everything I said back then, but it was pretty hateful, and worst of all, it was hate directed at myself. :/
I'm nonbinery lol I exist... I promise
Are you sure you exist? /j
@@nordicgodofbakedbean8501 oh F**K, lol
Hmmmm idk you might not
Arielle: Tell me what I'm doing wrong so I can do better!
Trans people: Okay, here's what you're doing wrong-
Arielle: BLOCKEDT
That’s not the reason why she blocked them lol
I’m a lesbian, and I just wanted to say...
WE DON’T CLAIM HER
As another lesbian,
YOU’RE COMPLETELY RIGHT, WE DON’T.
Noah you’re literally the cutest
"Better luck trying to reason with a brick wall" I had to put my PHONE DOWN Jamie you LEGEND 🙏
"the rat was drinking"
my brain : o3o 🍺🐀
Lol I thought that too
I remember watching Arielle way back in the day and she seemed super pro LGBTQ+ and had trans people come on to educate, etc. so this was pretty unexpected
I don't think I'd seriously date a person with severe dysphoria. It would make physical intimacy impossible.
Congrats? Dunno why you felt the need to comment this, as it has nothing to do with the video.
me already pissed
11:05 Noah: Let's see heer opinions on nonbinary people
Me, a lesbian enby; OH HELL NAh
@Rain Cloud what? a lesbian enby just means an enby who is only attracted to girls.
@Rain Cloud ok then, what do you call enbys who are only attracted to women? there isn't really a better word.
@Rain Cloud what? non-binary people are real.
@Rain Cloud nonbinary people are real cause there are scientific papers about it. stop being transphobic.
@Rain Cloud blocked, transphobe
He was giv8gn us the facts and telling us to not hate this man is the best we don’t deserve you
Hnnng even if the circumstances are bad, I always enjoy seeing Jamie.
Also as an NB person thank you!!! I've been struggling with feelings of invalidation and this really helped.
Your excessive ramblings are amusing. I'm always entertained.😋 Keep fighting the good fight.🤛🏻🤜🏻
Me: *Was going to send hate*
Noah: DON’T SEND HATE PLEASE
Me: woops
Gen zed summed up "not to be an AcTiVisT- BUT... I'm not okay with it"😂
I don't understand how people have the energy to hate other people. Like WHY?
When I was first questioning my gender, she was the first LGBTQ+ TH-camr I saw and it royally messed me up for a long time. I'm a trans guy. After watching her videos, and not knowing a lot of trans people myself, I spent a long time attempting to "be" a butch lesbian, because I believed that I could never really be a guy even if I transitioned, and I would never be satisfied with who I could be. It wasn't good enough anymore. I let things get to the point where it became life and death and I wasn't able to survive the way I was anymore. It's five years after I first watched her videos and I'm beginning to socially transition and I'm starting T soon. Would've saved me years of pain and therapy if I'd gotten the right information sooner.
anyways this video is old and it’s probably weird to comment now.😭 love your content btw.❤️ i’ve been enjoying it so much.
Hi soooo I just came out as bi and I haven’t told my family because I live in a religious homophobic family sooo my life has been hard but these videos have made me feel soo much better so thank you so much!!☺️☺️
Top surgery is free where I live yassssss three more yearsssss
I am a lesbian and I find Scarcella's behavior unacceptable and disguesting
One of my friends is trans and at our school there’s this guy (and his group of roadman friends 🥲) who always bullies them; dead naming, using the wrong pronouns on purpose, using slurs etc. But then when teachers notice this happening they just split everyone up and gives the guy a detention. But even though this has happened so many times and the detentions have done nothing, they still use the same punishments. It’s so frustrating because my friend has gone through a lot and they don’t deserve it, they’re a really nice person. In fact I don’t think anyone deserves transphobia. I’m not sure what this comment was meant to achieve but I was wondering if anyone has advice?
Maybe you and your friend and other people who are supportive could go to the teacher and explain to them the situation and how uncomfortable it is is making your friend. Maybe the teachers would better understand the problem if you compared it to racism. I hope this helps.
@@thengspjo4716 thank you for your advice!! :)
@@lauren1724 You're welcome
damn I just found ur channel today and now I’m invested
7:21 the second she said "chromosome" i lost my shit
Even though I’m not trans thank u making this effort of making a video you didn’t even want to make but made anyway to help trans people, like u always do ☺️ I know how transphobia is sadly still common and I assure u the world is a better place w people like u in it ❤️❤️
When Noah is angry he talks faster than he normally does and that’s scarey
It is man. It’s scary.
He has the right to get angry.
i honestly love this type of videos from him cause when he talks serious its like. idk really appealing
I J dude I can't tell if you're joking but if you are, try to learn how setups and punchlines work. Extremely dry shit here.
There’s nothing scary about a little gay boy