Basically he had a crush on me first, then years later I had a crush on him back. Then for whatever reason, he started a rumour about us dating, and I didn't approve of that. He exposed himself and my heart shattered up and sank when he admitted it. I started to silently cry.
A while back, a friend invited me over for a meeting involving an investment opportunity. There were ten or twelve of us there. I said this investment opportunity sounded like a pyramid scheme. I was thanked for stating this by the demonstrator, who then spent the next 20 minutes explaining how this opportunity was not a pyramid scheme. Still sounded to me like it was. I left the meeting without investing, but I was the only one who didn’t invest. Within a year, my friend and the other investors who joined that night lost everything they had invested. Shut down by the government. It was a pyramid scheme.
It's a good thing you trusted your intuition. It's really easy to fall into the "group think" mentality with things like that and make rash decisions without feeling 100% confident in your decision.
I had a crush in high school who turned out to be a super religious Christian. I'm an atheist but was trying to be open minded about dating people with different beliefs. He invited me to some church thing, and I thought about going, but my mom talked me out of it. It turned out he was trying cure my disability through Jesus.
@Konnor Hermann I understand how you feel, especially if you live in a conservative area of the country, like a small rural town or the South, but I feel less concerned about that now because we as a country have gotten more progressive. This happened in the mid-2000s in Houston, whereas I now live in Denver. Only a couple of people I know actually go to a religious service regularly, and most of my friends are agnostic/atheist; granted, that could be due to how polarized our country is today and how everyone surrounds themselves with people like themselves. However, while only 4% of Americans considered themselves atheists in 2005, I just read a Pew Poll that stated that if current trends continue, nonreligious people will outnumber Christians by 2070. I'm still open to dating a somewhat religious person (maybe someone who's spiritual but doesn't attend church), but there are certain religions that I avoid because I associate them with traditional gender roles and more likelihood of zealousness.
@@dacomplex1Yuhanhan.hanna-Xia I hope you are happy there; just because I wouldn’t be happy there doesn’t mean it’s not right for you. But if it isn’t, just know that when you grow up (I assume you’re in high school?), you will be exposed to many different types of people and will find the right group. My most varied group of friends came from college, which helped me find my place but also helped me relate to people who think differently from me.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
Tuns out she was gay,but we became really good friends because of our mutual love for video games,manga/manwha,and well...women.then like three years later i confessed that i used to like her and she laughed so much she almost died💀💀💀
My first relationship was with a girl in freshmen year of highschool. I was just starting to explore my sexuality and was in that 'first relationship puppy love'. She was a classic stereotypical legbeard weeaboo to the highest percent of cringe. But the one thing above that she was obsessed with was Yu-Gi-Oh. She was way too obsessed with Yu-Gi-Oh, on a unhealthy level beyond being a fangirl. Constantly drew smut of the male characters together. Would randomly blurt out lines from the show. Would challenge random people to duel with her. Wrote fanfiction and would turn it in as homework. Made our nicknames be the names of the two male characters she shipped (we are both female) The final thing that broke me was when for our final exam in theater. We had to make a original character and present a dramatic monologue. She decided that she would do hers as her Yu-Gi-Oh OC, despite our teacher saying we couldn't do something from a show/movie. Came to class in full costume as a Egyptian princess with a card deck on her arm and the pyramid necklace. The monologue she did was about her seeing the forbidden love of her brother and his lover, her otp. The room was dead silent as she went on and on about their hidden lust for each other. I wanted to jump out the window.
My last boyfriend not only made me feel uncomfortable but also trashed talked and mentioned how he was going to rip off his sisters since he was the executor of his parents' estates. The conversation came up after I told him about my Mom's situation with her brothers with their parents' estate, long story short, my mom and her brothers were executors, her brothers wanted to keep everything and leave my mom out, it went to court, and ended up with my Mom as the sole executor since they weren't doing their part. We don't talk to my uncles or their families anymore, due to that and I don't want anyone else to go through the same thing. What he did was a total turn off. Have more respect for your family....
Not necessarily her fault or that she was a bad person. She actually seemed really nice and worked with people with Down Syndrome. I visited the store she worked at and engaged in pleasant conversation every now and then, but walked out to find her kissing a guy. I never saw her at that store again. Wasn't terribly heartbroken (I'd been through worse at that time, plus I barely knew her) but it was still disheartening.
Ooh boy, do I ever have a story on this one! So in my country, we study for a specific profession after high school (it's kind of our equivalent of college). I went for game design, since I've always dreamed of starting my own studio someday (it's definitely a pipe dream, though). So with me being a major geek, I fit in pretty well. No joke, everyone had a handheld console in their bag for if they felt bored during recess. There was this cute guy in my class, and I kind of had a crush on him for a short while. I'm a goth woman, and we were the only two alt-looking people in our class. We didn't get to actually talking to each other until the middle of the year, though, and conversations were somehow always about the basic stuff like complaining about teachers and timetables. I never really got to know him that well: it felt like the crush was mutual to a degree, but he was always keeping me at a distance for some reason. I often found myself wondering what exactly he was hiding, but I decided to just not force things on that one. So one day, we get to talking about our hobbies: he made music, and I'm a character designer and illustrator. So I decide to ask him on his opinion for an art class assignment: we were supposed to draw someone doing something mundane. I had a serious case of art block at the time, so I had just drawn one of my OC's smoking at a dining table and called it a day. I have a bit of an anime-ish art style, so that led to us talking about what genres of anime we like. He had no clue that I was also into the hobby, and you could almost see the relief on his face that I was a fellow otaku. Things kind of seemed like just a normal conversation between two geeks, but then he told me he was into those loli animes out of the blue. Even showed me the background on his laptop: it was of one of the characters he was fanboying over (luckily, it was a SFW image). I was 22 at the time, he was about one year younger than me, and the character legit looked like she was half my age. He was talking about it so casually, and not sure if he used the 'she's a 1000 year old dragon' excuse on me or not, because I was still trying to hide the a state of absolute shock and horror I was in. Needless to say, I instantly lost all interest in him. Moral of the story: Not all neckbeards wear fedoras.
I’m in my mid-twenties and if a girl invited me to a Christmas parade, even if I wasn’t uniquely interested in her, I’d say yes every time. I love Christmas parades so much. My parents used to bring me and my brother to them when we were little and it always felt really special to me to be there with everyone smiling. Haven’t been to one in nearly a decade, I’d jump at the opportunity to go with someone in a heartbeat.
People that are like "get rid of your pet, 'cause I am more important and deserve all of your attention, love and care, not that stupid animal" are one of the saddest kind of individuals in the world...
I had a crush in high school, and I decided to shoot my shot and I told her. We were already friends before, enough to the point where she invited me to play dungeons and dragons with her. During this friends period I learned a lot about her through conversation, including her having Aspergers and never making a connection to anyone including her family. I should have stopped then, but I was a simp and thought," if i show her a good relationship, then all will be well,"but no, that isn't how it worked. She started distancing herself from me after I told her I liked her. That should have been another red flag and a sign to just stop before things get worse. I didn’t, but eventually I started going to the gym and coming to my senses. I was getting board with this, and actually kind of traumatized because I put myself through a lot of stress trying not to mess up with her. My turning point was when I told her I was sick and I got my friend sick and couldn’t go to the dungeons and dragons thing starting in an hour and she just said, “ok”.
I talked to one of her friends at a party and she drunkenly told me that my crush said, “You should talk to him. He’s a really cool gay guy.” I approached my crush about this and she said she mistook me for being gay because I was “too nice and dressed too well.” Being mistaken for gay didn’t hurt my feelings or anything but since she was part of the LGBTQ+ community, you’d think she’d want to fight against stereotypes, not promote them.
Not mine but my brother. He walked in on her getting railed by three guys. She was late for a date and wasn't answering her phone so he went to go check on her. Walked in on them mid act and she apparently had the gull to try and claim that it wasn't what it obviously was.
Told me he liked me, kissed me, then I find out he told everyone that I'd come on to him, even though he had a girlfriend... He never told me he had one.
would you rather know your crush (for good or ill) or remain as oblivious keeping them on rose tinted glasses (always guessing if you've missed potiential)?
He confessed that he already has a girlfriend but I initially didn't know how to react when he messaged me that through Twitter because he responded 2 weeks after I tried asking him out for coffee. My mom helped me think of a meaningful response implying that it would be nice if I could have coffee with him as friends. As time went on, I made the realization that it was actually a favor because I had been single my whole life and that's actually what helped me get through my own character development. I believe having a relationship would have distracted me from how I'd figure out what ive been wanting in life. Regardless if he gets back to me and accepts my offering as a friend, I prefer to keep being single because I actually felt free after I stopped crushing on him. It's honestly wholesome to look back and realized I saw him as a role model because he accomplished his dream job while I did not give up after taking longer to graduate college after switching majors.
I was interested in a guy for a good few months in secondary school. Him and I were pretty good friends and we got along relatively well. Until Summer ended. I told him that my Summer was garbage and he asked why. I told him that I had an emotionally abusive mother, and HE LAUGHED IN MY FACE! I never talked to him again.
Not me, but my brother. He had this crush on one of my coworkers at my old job, even at one point telling her he liked her, but she said she didn't see him like that. Sadly, some crushes don't just die that easily. Even though he didn't say anything after, he would come over, and I could tell in with how he acted around her that he still liked her. Then, one day, he went to have dinner there as she was in the middle of a break. They started chatting about movies, and my brother brought up Star Wars. Little exposition to this: when he was 3 (I was 1, so I can only tell from my parents perspective), he went and saw the Phantom Menace in theatres. And it is said he was absolutely immersed and smiling the entire time. He has all of the movies, watches every show in existence about Star Wars, plays every single Star Wars game he can. So, he brings up Star Wars. And she just flat out says, "I hate Star Wars." I immediately looked at him, and in his eyes, I saw the crush he had on this girl for half a year just die in a single moment. Reasonable so, but it took everything in me to not laugh right then and there at his reaction.
I was dating a rock musician. He was the lead singer and songwriter of his band, he is up-and-coming and semi-famous (I won’t “name drop”, but his band opens for many more famous bands). He seemed like a really awesome guy, he had the charm of all the classic rockstars I grew up listening to and enjoying. Buuuuut, I saw how he treated his fans, his band mates, his crew, and even his friends. I even met a couple of his ex girlfriends who told me what he was _really_ about (he had drunk texted them my photo to “prove I existed”). He even ditched me to go drinking with his entourage when he had promised that the both of us would go on a romantic weekend together (he asked me to go with him). I was left standing there with my suitcase, waiting for him only for him to never call or swing by to pick me up. He wouldn’t answer his phone, but later he drunk texted me asking me why I had “ditched him at the bar”. I called him, he finally picked up, I gave him an earful and dumped him over the phone before hanging up on him and blocking him. I went by his house and got my stuff out of there, dumped off there his stuff that was in my home, left him a nasty note, took photos of all returned items of his, locked the door, and put the key inside the mail slot. TL/DR: Dated a lead vocalist and songwriter of semi-famous rock band, saw what kind of a person he really was when he abused his fans, friends, crew, and band mates. His ex girlfriends told me about him, he even ditched me after inviting me for a weekend romantic get away. I broke up with him, went by his house, returned his stuff in my home, took back my stuff in his house, and returned his key.
I didn't lose interest initially, but someone asked me, "what if she did that to your friend?" All the sudden I hated her. I would never forgive her if she treated my friend like that
She was stunning. Model stunning.Then I found out her mother was dying of lupus and hadn't talked to her in months over some petty disagreement. Never thought she was attractive after that.
Had a crush on this really cute classmate of mine in college. I never got the balls to talk to him but when I did I was a simple hello. One day I got a chance to have a conversation with him and I don’t know why but the moment he started talking to me I just lost interest in him.
She started posting on her story about her ex calling her crazy (while being super unhinged himself by the sound of it). She also cried because she thinks trees are sentient the way humans are and like when humans touch them. The main reason though was that she just doesn’t care about me. That’s a real deal breaker lmao.
Here’s my answer called me a freak and got his five friends to join in on it years later I was on Facebook and saw his name so decided to be polite and say hi well that was a TIFU he was confused as to who I was I told him I was the awkward girl in the back of the class. He suddenly realised/remembered who I was and said “oh you were that creepy girl” I don’t remember much of what happened after that but I remember my mum noticing from the kitchen that I was a bit teary eyed and came over to comfort me and got me to leave the PC. She got pretty mad when she read what had been said and decided to message him and it went something along the lines of “Hello **** this is **** mother here I decided to clear up some confusion about my daughter I believe you are still very proud of what you did to her along with **** and **** I just wanted to make things clear that DESPITE having epilepsy and being socially awkward my daughter is a very kind and clever girl and I don’t think that you realise how wonderful a person she actually is I bet your parents are very proud of you and what you have become harassing a girl is a very “Nobel” thing. She then blocked him shut the laptop, gave the still sniffling me at the time a hug and some chocolate. Some details I neglected above: I have had Epilepsy since the age of four and at the time undiagnosed Asperger’s syndrome (high functioning autism) which made it very hard for me to understand social skills when I was younger and only picked up as a teenager.
Saw a girl and thought she was cute back in middle school. She seemed really nice. It was winter when, during recess, I saw her talking with her friends. As a sort of ploy to get her attention, I ran over near, jumped and flipped on my back and slid across some snow and ice. She and her friends began chanting "loser alert". I was one of the most unpopular kids in school, so fair enough. Funny thing is, she later asked me out in high school but I panicked and told her a flat no before scurrying away.
This happened in 2nd grade. I had a crush, we'll call him G for this story. I liked this certain kind of music, G hated it. So we argued over it, and in the end, he ended up twisting my wrist. He ended up going to the principal's office, and most of us disliked him since that day, including myself. I hate his guts now.
I had a crush on someone, but we were both in relationships at the time. I was alone with my crush, not isolated, people were around, just not in direct eyesight. I mentioned off hand that I was crushing a little. The person then says, "we can make out a little, see how we feel?" Absolutely not, cheating is not ok and especially how casual and whatever how it was asked? It's a no from me. I think a little flirting is healthy, we're only human, but that crossed a line for me.
That girl who pooped in front of that guy naked while he was trying to work the shower fr had no shame 😭 idk if I admire her, or am embarrassed for her???
I'm sure she did it out of anger and humiliation for feeling rejected when she appeared naked in front of the guy and he didn't pick up the "hint". I wouldn't have done the same, but felt the same, for sure.
The guy started to bully me, he started being really mean to me when ever I was sitting with him and talking to him at school. We became friends at a 6th grade field trip a week before. I think one of the things he used to say was something like "you b**ch shut up" I'm not sure it was a long time ago. I think one time I asked to borrow a pencil and he just tried to stab my hand with it. I vaguely remember that. But as soon as nobody else (the other students in class) was around he would be so sweet, and would just hug me and be this amazing person. The rudeness was to big so we stopped being friends, I still see him everyday but don't talk to him, he has a girlfriend now and seems really happy, I'm glad he is.
Man, I've been here. Started talking to this girl, it was going well and she was actually really cute (on the outside anyway) Come first date, she just slanders other women, talks shit about some guys I'm friends with, and gets an extremely expensive order (93 Euros for her food, starters, desserts, fancy main. I paid around 7 Euros for my food since I only got a side since I wasn't that hungry) and then asked me to pay. I paid..... for my fucking side I did.
I had a crush on one of the "popular kids" last year (I'll call him Jake for now). I'm a pretty quiet kid (seriously, I don't talk to anyone unless I have to and usually read a book or stare off into space) so we didn't interact much. But as an outsider looking in, he seemed like a pretty funny, chill guy. Well, we had English class together and were assigned to work on a project with another kid. "Jake" spent the whole class rushing us to finish it with audible huffs and glares in our direction whenever we got stuck on a part. Half the time, he didn't even let me help and only showed the materials needed to work on the project to the other kid in our group. By the time we finally finished, he snatched up the papers, turned them in, and then pulled out his phone. We ended up getting a C on that project and most of the stuff we got wrong were the questions he was rushing us on. Glad I learned where "Jake's" priorities were at.
Story 40 happened to me too. He was getting really angry when losing and blaming everyone. Worst part is - he got so toxic because of me. I was getting really angry when losing, but stopped playing for over a month and when I came back I was chill. It may seem hypocritical, but there was one huge difference which made him hella unattractive to me despite me being really into him at some point. When I was getting angry I was insulting our enemies, but I’ve never said a bad word about my friends we played with. He was blaming us when losing, despite being the reason of it most of the time. 😂
She got mad at ME in school for telling her brother to stop doing something I didn’t like. How stupid is that? She’s was pretty nice, but when her brother was purposefully annoying me, she got all protective over HIM, but didn’t give a rat crap about how I felt. 😤
Guy that used to go to school with me kept texting me over the course of years telling me he loved me. One was when I was in a relationship. One was after said relationship (it was a very bad breakup that left me very depressed for a long while. I'm feeling slightly better but I still have my moments). One he made very transphobic comments towards me. One he tried to insist he didn't like me. And one was after he had admitted he and his friends drove recklessly for fun, which I find repulsive. I've told him I don't like him every time. I want him to leave me alone so bad. I've blocked his number but he still managed to contact me.
Got upset at her 8yr old son, because he was complaining. She looked at me with her son not even two feet away from us and told me not to mind him, because he was being a little b****.
No but when it was talking about an ‘mlm pitch’ I was like EXCUSE ME??? 😭😭 like this person’s just pitching bl (boy’s love - romance genre where the romance is between two guys) at a study session
He stole something from a charity we were both volunteering at in order to seem cool. It wasn't a noticeable or expensive item but it was the last straw for me to lose interest.
He was a friend of mine and i had kinda of a crush on him, we would not really work as boyfriend and girlfriend but he was so nice to spend time with and i thought he was pretty cute too, btw, he was talking about how he would do basically anything to reach his goals, nothing rlly bad, actually i thought this was such a greenflag, until i, joking, said "so if you needed to kill me to reach your goals, would you? Haha" and then he went silent and said, "you will not like my answer to that", and i swear he was mad serious. We didn't rlly have a conversation after that, i just pretended that i didn't care and eventually stopped talking to him.
I was hanging out with a group of friends late at night and some of us lived near each other so we were gonna carpool. He and another friend wanted to walk 1.5 miles at 11:30 at night in the dark, and I told him he shouldn’t because there was the risk of typical things that happen to young people in the dark of night, and I being a young woman didn’t want anything to happen to him. In response he looked me in the face and laughed it off saying “those things just don’t happen, there’s no reason to be so afraid dude.” It’s not a huge deal, but being told things like murder or kidnapping or whatever just won’t and don’t happen killed that crush real quick.
Well that's pretty dumb of him. If something had happened then everyone's response would've been, "why was he walking around so late at night?" Unfortunately some people have to learn the hard way, and you don't want to be there to learn it with them 🤷
For me they were flirting with my best friend then when my best friend rejected them they asked me to help them get close to my best friend and I said no
Can we all just take a moment to appreciate that the channel has been reinstated!! This is the 10th channel in the last two months that I've seen get hit with fraudulent copyright strikes. TH-cam really needs to reverse this "guilty until proven innocent" way of moderating channels. At the very least they should allow creators to keep uploading when under siege like this.
In my case, I had a crush on our school president, he was perfect in my eyes: helpful, intelligent, kind, and authoritative. He was a good leader. We talked occasionally because I was the president of our journalism club, so we do have meetings regarding school events and such. The school year ended, and I moved to another school, but I still think about him. We communicated again after a few months on Messenger, and I still kind of like him, but he already has a girlfriend. I stopped talking to him, but he kept bothering me, and then he tried to offer to take me on a date and do phone sex with me. That turned me off real quick because I know he has a girlfriend. I confronted him about it, and he said he's aware, but he's been like this before; he's a player. I thought he was intelligent and kind after all, but ever since then, I have blocked him. I couldn't tell his girlfriend about it because I didn't want to get involved.
He shamed me for being polyamorous and bisexual, so I dated his best friend instead :) (FYI: his best friend and I broke up since but now he’s my best friend lol)
@@laststand6420 Consensually, yes. He showed me his true colours and I chose not to date him. (Tho I did fail to mention that he became very toxic and controlling, all whilst insulting all my likes and hobbies)
Story #7 - Yea, I feel you on that. I wish I could count the number of times I was picked at, scorned, looked at with the evil eye because I lost my virginity to a woman of another race. I felt like a total pariah WITH MY OWN FAMILY !! Things changed so much, I never felt close to them again. I don't regret what I did but, I certainly didn't expect that reaction. I have a hard time understanding why it is STILL a problem. SMH Story #54 - I had an entire family of relatives that did that. When any of them started eating, it was time to make up an excuse to leave. any excuse I could think of. When you had to listen to a bunch of adults (some of them in their 40's) smack their lips, slurp food and chew like an animal on a farm or zoo, it will make you glad that made it past 5th grade and was toilet trained.
19:13 In the guy's defense, the light JUST turned green. People who honk at others, without giving them time to get going deserve at least a good flipping off.
Well i had a crush in middle school when i was 14 she was a cute blonde tall girl same age as me she was the a very good student with good marks a really normal girl! We became good friends, going out together have many smiles and laughter, going to eachother home for studying! When we were talking one day she mentioned about her previous boyfriend which he always liked her but he had problems with how tall she was and always been called awful names by him which i felt bad for her and comfort her about it saying that guy was a jerk and had many issues which i told her that i never had any problems with her at the first time we met she felt relieved after that day which i was always reminding her every day that i never had any problems with her at all! We both started having feelings for eachother. At the last day of middle school i was going to confess my feelings to her and give her a bouquet of flowers when i saw that guy she was talking kissing her on the haul of the school i was standing there with a shocked face and some tears on my cheeks and i said (wow just wow...i guess our relationship was for nothing...) I left running and tearing she tried to stop me but she was too late. 2 years have passed since that day, i am a second class high school student. I was on my way home going through the cafeterias which i saw the same girl which i had crush on she saw me and recognise me at first sight and came running hugging me tight crying and apologizing. She told me that the guy she mentioned in the past found out that we were hanging out together and he tried to ruin it by doing that in front of me. At first i didn't believe her but i connected the dots and then we got back together because i found out that it was never her fault. I know that it's not a losing someone interest comment but that's how my life gone.😅
I had a crush one time that me and my family lived with because my mom is friends with his mom and we didn't had anywhere to go so it turns out that he was an alcoholic and is very violent disrespects his mom and hits his women and also cheats on them so yeah i'm glad i never gotten with him
A girl I liked entered into a relationship with someone else when she said she was falling in love with me, but was scared to get back into a relationship due to a bad breakup. I discovered it one early morning on Facebook. Absolutely broke my heart, but heartbreak turned to anger a few hours later. Now I feel nothing towards her. I lost all affection for her that day. I haven’t spoken to her since, not even when she tried to reach out. I am currently in a relationship with a different person now.
I'm a female student in middle school. My first crush was a Russian, and I had a Ukrainian friend at the same time and I'm still friends with her. I was in class with him when I heard him tell a joke to his friends going, "Oh you're Ukrainian? Let me pull out my missile." I lost interest on the spot. Of course I confronted him, and that it's not okay to joke about people dying because of someone trying to remove what's not there.
They are at war... And the joke is decently funny. The Ukrainian should have countered with something like "I've got missiles too, and mine are made in America".
Caught her dating a 50y/o man I was 17 she was 18 later that week I caught her with the guys son and in another year she ended up dating his son she went through 3 generations
I just love am I the jerk is like “if you like am I the jerk your will LOVE am I the genius” and am I the genius is like “if you like am I the genius, try am I the jerk”
17:05 boy I wish she knew that the kitty would have been trying to use affection as a tool on her. I know cats, they are mongers for attention, and more people can mean more attention. Also the affection of a cat is something nice to have, like I used to have almost every outdoor cat in the neighborhood come to me because they liked my attention.
When I confessed my feelings to him he said that he badly felt like kissing me, which he proceeded to do shortly after. That was it for me, I felt the crystal fairytale castle I had made him prince of crashing down. I guess I was just not ready to transition from the "in love with the idea of love" phase to the "in love with an actual person" one, just fangirling over someone who happened to be an actual friend of mine instead of a celebrity or a fictional character, but that was the kind of feeling. I was so young and silly, and I hated that first kiss so much that life/my subconscious punished me with 4 subsequent years unkissed before I finally woke up to myself.
My sister was in her first year of college and she met this guy. She liked him I liked him and our mom liked him. I was frequently at her house and so was he so I saw him a lot. One day my sister was having a party. It was on of those typical like rager things. But he ended up being a real jerk to my sister so she ended it off with him and he ended up telling everybody that’s my sister is the reason he’s dropping out of college and etc and the reason he had a 1.4 GPA so yeah definitely was a no go
Things like this remind me the parent and make me Marvel right parent that it takes ages to build up something good and great and honorable, but one wrong move, one tiny little thing, or even a really major thing, can send the whole thing crashing to the ground.
Dude I told her I don't like toxic, I'm too old for that crap 29. I go hang out with my best friend and his family who are visiting from North Carolina. His mom, dad, and sister are only staying for a day or two. Since he's basically a brother to me I decided to take the days off and stay at his place so we can all hang out. I'm texting the chick I was into and explained that I was with my friend and since I didn't think anything of it I told her about my best friend's sister being there. She blows up on me because I shouldn't be hanging out with single women regardless if I'm attracted to them or not. Told her we're not exclusive and even if we were, there was no way I would be okay being told I couldn't hang out with anyone. Haven't talked to her since
Story #46. When I come across this type of person, I ask if an animal that wasn’t mentioned in the Bible, like a platypus or kangaroo exist. Because I can take them to the zoo and prove their existence outside of the Bible.
She was new to the school, i was pretty much infatuated with her after the first time i talked to her after school, talked to her at every opportunity if im being honest, i was gathering my courage to even confess, but allas, she started hanging out with the 2 girls in the whole fucking school that angered me to the fucking core, bitchy little assholes, crows even, needless to say, they were present and vocal every time i talked to her, now i barely interract with her, let alone seriously talk, though i still like her.. somewhat..
If you could crush on your boyfriend, then my answer is that he said he kept boxes of spiders under his bed, and showed me a picture of them as proof. Please never date anyone like this, as he also told my friend after the fact that he wished he could dissect my brain to keep my personality but make me love him.
My nope out Crush, though he had a done deal with me when discovered my crush and approached me with a smug grin on his face. nope. Not. Never. You still have to work at getting me to appreciate more than your looks. That kind of self satisfaction speak of a vanity I am never gonna pander to.
I had a crush on a dude that was very interested in philosophy and psychology like me. But after some time, he pretended to be insane or some joker type of guy at first i didnt mind, but he was a huge know-it-all. He wasnt even at university and pretended to be more knowledgable than professors or something. I realised, its super toxic and i lost interest. Also a friend of mine had a huge crush on a dude for years. Until she was invited to his place once and she realised, he was a huge fifa player. She never talked to him again lol
the thinking drugs were cool one was kinda dumb,,drugs are dumb. i used to take drugs very blatantly it was mainly to scare women away it worked very well for the most part. some people thought i was trying to be cool but it was a push reaction..i hated myself so much i felt like i didn't deserve love threw away the best years of my life amazing what being made to feel worthless as a child can do to a person. nurture really can fuck you up if its done poorly.
It happened this year So I had a crush on this guy and like I didn’t even know why I liked him, I built up an image of him in my head from the limited time I saw him One day my friend came up to me (she didn’t know I liked him) and told me he called me fat and weird/annoying Then I realized how delusional I had been and stopped liking him
In high school, she spread a rumor that my cousin had STDs. Cousin came in during science class and an argument between the two women ensued. Both kept saying the other had STDs and I've lost all interest in her after that shit-show. Didn't want to risk getting an STD from her. She could also get very heated in an argument and I can only imagine what she would do to someone over a spilled coffee. I hope she doesn't have a toxic relationship with her current boyfriend because I'd hate to see both bickering with each other. Also another story from high school as well. I'm not going to get into specifics here, but another girl I had a crush on wanted to record me basically saying I wanted to have her for breakfast (The lingus) and tried encouraging me to say it. Look, I'm all for making myself known and not being afraid to share my kinks, but Good Lord, some things are better discussed in private, not in front of the class. Mind you, the Teacher thankfully saved my ass by discouraging her to record me saying "I tea ssa" and encouraging me not to say it. She was lesbian anyway (which I never knew and despite the fact she had a boyfriend when we were in middle school), but I lost interest after that. Again, I wouldn't have minded if it was okay with my main crush (the woman she wanted to send the recording to), but that's not only inappropriate and weird, it's also sexual harassment and I was already on thin ice with the law, so I wasn't tryna push shit any further than it already was. And that's NOT a good way to let a woman know you're interested in her. I could see if she was interested or turned on by that shit, but HELL NO, that's some shit you discuss when it's just the two of you. Fellas, if you like a female, approach her and tell her, don't rely on another woman to tell her what you can tell her yourself. I'm not sure if she's really into that and cool if she is, but I'm not stupid enough to just blurt out that I'm interested in that kinda stuff where other people can hear me, even if it's just a recording. Keep that shit private, and make sure to keep that shit to yourself until you and your crush are ready for sex if y'all hook up. Another thing, when a female says "No", back the fuck off. "No" is a complete sentence and no human need a legit reason to say "No" when asked out. "No means no" Mofo, so if she say "No" or anything similar to "No" or dating another nigga or another woman, back the fuck off and mind your business. I made the mistake of not taking her refusal seriously and ended up nearly getting arrested and my gramma sued for my stupidity and jealousy and I can't even speak to her, approach her, or see her for God knows how long because I couldn't just take the rejection like a man and move on. I fucked up and it's not her fault. I scared her and to this day I still feel like shit for it. I messed everything up and destroyed our friendship over lust. I wish we someday we could meet and I could apologize for everything I ever did and we'd be friends again, but only God can make that happen and only time will tell. Stay safe fellas!
Have a crush but may be falling out of interest. Its the secret admirer, i “like?” Them but we don’t even talk. Sometimes they piss me off for the smallest and stupidest reasons. I have this friend, just moved and going to our school. They said “ I wish I were back in my hometown” now it’s not wrong to miss your childhood home but a couple days later I noticed my crush had his back turned to my friend as he tried to talk to the group of boys. Honestly I’m disappointed because the kid is like a little bro to me, a bit weird but still really nice. I’m not really sure if a still like my crush. Honestly it hurts to get rid of my crush bc honestly I had so much faith in this kid. I don’t plan on being in a relationship due to some emotional issues.
I had a crush on a uni classmate i had. Im black and she was white. I was talking with my other black friends and we tend to say the N-Word a lot. One day she turned around and said she wasnt comfortable with us saying that. Lost all interest, thats just strange to me idk.
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Basically he had a crush on me first, then years later I had a crush on him back. Then for whatever reason, he started a rumour about us dating, and I didn't approve of that. He exposed himself and my heart shattered up and sank when he admitted it. I started to silently cry.
A while back, a friend invited me over for a meeting involving an investment opportunity. There were ten or twelve of us there. I said this investment opportunity sounded like a pyramid scheme. I was thanked for stating this by the demonstrator, who then spent the next 20 minutes explaining how this opportunity was not a pyramid scheme. Still sounded to me like it was. I left the meeting without investing, but I was the only one who didn’t invest. Within a year, my friend and the other investors who joined that night lost everything they had invested. Shut down by the government. It was a pyramid scheme.
It's a good thing you trusted your intuition. It's really easy to fall into the "group think" mentality with things like that and make rash decisions without feeling 100% confident in your decision.
I had a crush in high school who turned out to be a super religious Christian. I'm an atheist but was trying to be open minded about dating people with different beliefs. He invited me to some church thing, and I thought about going, but my mom talked me out of it. It turned out he was trying cure my disability through Jesus.
@Konnor Hermann I understand how you feel, especially if you live in a conservative area of the country, like a small rural town or the South, but I feel less concerned about that now because we as a country have gotten more progressive. This happened in the mid-2000s in Houston, whereas I now live in Denver. Only a couple of people I know actually go to a religious service regularly, and most of my friends are agnostic/atheist; granted, that could be due to how polarized our country is today and how everyone surrounds themselves with people like themselves. However, while only 4% of Americans considered themselves atheists in 2005, I just read a Pew Poll that stated that if current trends continue, nonreligious people will outnumber Christians by 2070. I'm still open to dating a somewhat religious person (maybe someone who's spiritual but doesn't attend church), but there are certain religions that I avoid because I associate them with traditional gender roles and more likelihood of zealousness.
@@kellyl13 thank you. I needed that since I'm moving to South Carolina and going to a christian school soon. Hope I fit.
@@dacomplex1Yuhanhan.hanna-Xia I hope you are happy there; just because I wouldn’t be happy there doesn’t mean it’s not right for you. But if it isn’t, just know that when you grow up (I assume you’re in high school?), you will be exposed to many different types of people and will find the right group. My most varied group of friends came from college, which helped me find my place but also helped me relate to people who think differently from me.
@@dacomplex1Yuhanhan.hanna-Xiaironically there's probably a lot more atheists in that christian school than your first expect lol
Bullet dodged
My previous crush decided to talk bad things about one of my friends that had autism. That friend got bullied so bad he transferred schools.
Glad you dropped them as a crush!
Hope your friend is doing better these days ❤
@@aries8597 I hope so too, I never got his phone number though.
Buddy, you dodged a nuke dropping her as a crush. Hopefully your friend is on to better things.
I found out later from a friend that she also thought I was fugly and wanted nothing to do with me, so my crush on her was just false hope lol
@@aLittlebbean she sounds like a damaged person
Here’s my answer, they already have a boyfriend/girlfriend. Who’s with me?
You wanted a boyfriend free girl?
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Nah for me it’s if they have a pulse
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Especially if your crush is only dating you to make BF/GF jealous!
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Tuns out she was gay,but we became really good friends because of our mutual love for video games,manga/manwha,and well...women.then like three years later i confessed that i used to like her and she laughed so much she almost died💀💀💀
My first relationship was with a girl in freshmen year of highschool. I was just starting to explore my sexuality and was in that 'first relationship puppy love'.
She was a classic stereotypical legbeard weeaboo to the highest percent of cringe.
But the one thing above that she was obsessed with was Yu-Gi-Oh.
She was way too obsessed with Yu-Gi-Oh, on a unhealthy level beyond being a fangirl.
Constantly drew smut of the male characters together. Would randomly blurt out lines from the show. Would challenge random people to duel with her. Wrote fanfiction and would turn it in as homework. Made our nicknames be the names of the two male characters she shipped (we are both female)
The final thing that broke me was when for our final exam in theater. We had to make a original character and present a dramatic monologue.
She decided that she would do hers as her Yu-Gi-Oh OC, despite our teacher saying we couldn't do something from a show/movie. Came to class in full costume as a Egyptian princess with a card deck on her arm and the pyramid necklace. The monologue she did was about her seeing the forbidden love of her brother and his lover, her otp. The room was dead silent as she went on and on about their hidden lust for each other.
I wanted to jump out the window.
As someone with social anxiety, that thought genuinely scares me. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
That religious guy who thinks dino bones are fake can catch hands with any 4 year old
It goes to prove that God has a weird sense of humor when he created idiots!
I put my money on the 4 year old
Agree
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My last boyfriend not only made me feel uncomfortable but also trashed talked and mentioned how he was going to rip off his sisters since he was the executor of his parents' estates. The conversation came up after I told him about my Mom's situation with her brothers with their parents' estate, long story short, my mom and her brothers were executors, her brothers wanted to keep everything and leave my mom out, it went to court, and ended up with my Mom as the sole executor since they weren't doing their part. We don't talk to my uncles or their families anymore, due to that and I don't want anyone else to go through the same thing.
What he did was a total turn off. Have more respect for your family....
Not necessarily her fault or that she was a bad person. She actually seemed really nice and worked with people with Down Syndrome.
I visited the store she worked at and engaged in pleasant conversation every now and then, but walked out to find her kissing a guy. I never saw her at that store again.
Wasn't terribly heartbroken (I'd been through worse at that time, plus I barely knew her) but it was still disheartening.
Maybe she was just hooking up
Oh dang 💀
I once found out someone I liked was a distant cousin, never back peddled so fast in my life
HOLD UP
Ooh boy, do I ever have a story on this one! So in my country, we study for a specific profession after high school (it's kind of our equivalent of college). I went for game design, since I've always dreamed of starting my own studio someday (it's definitely a pipe dream, though). So with me being a major geek, I fit in pretty well. No joke, everyone had a handheld console in their bag for if they felt bored during recess. There was this cute guy in my class, and I kind of had a crush on him for a short while. I'm a goth woman, and we were the only two alt-looking people in our class. We didn't get to actually talking to each other until the middle of the year, though, and conversations were somehow always about the basic stuff like complaining about teachers and timetables. I never really got to know him that well: it felt like the crush was mutual to a degree, but he was always keeping me at a distance for some reason. I often found myself wondering what exactly he was hiding, but I decided to just not force things on that one. So one day, we get to talking about our hobbies: he made music, and I'm a character designer and illustrator. So I decide to ask him on his opinion for an art class assignment: we were supposed to draw someone doing something mundane. I had a serious case of art block at the time, so I had just drawn one of my OC's smoking at a dining table and called it a day. I have a bit of an anime-ish art style, so that led to us talking about what genres of anime we like. He had no clue that I was also into the hobby, and you could almost see the relief on his face that I was a fellow otaku. Things kind of seemed like just a normal conversation between two geeks, but then he told me he was into those loli animes out of the blue. Even showed me the background on his laptop: it was of one of the characters he was fanboying over (luckily, it was a SFW image). I was 22 at the time, he was about one year younger than me, and the character legit looked like she was half my age. He was talking about it so casually, and not sure if he used the 'she's a 1000 year old dragon' excuse on me or not, because I was still trying to hide the a state of absolute shock and horror I was in. Needless to say, I instantly lost all interest in him. Moral of the story: Not all neckbeards wear fedoras.
bruh that dude is weird
Ew
In my case, my crush didn't feel the same way I felt about him. We're still friends, but I simply accepted it and moved on.
I’m in my mid-twenties and if a girl invited me to a Christmas parade, even if I wasn’t uniquely interested in her, I’d say yes every time. I love Christmas parades so much. My parents used to bring me and my brother to them when we were little and it always felt really special to me to be there with everyone smiling. Haven’t been to one in nearly a decade, I’d jump at the opportunity to go with someone in a heartbeat.
People that are like "get rid of your pet, 'cause I am more important and deserve all of your attention, love and care, not that stupid animal" are one of the saddest kind of individuals in the world...
I had a crush in high school, and I decided to shoot my shot and I told her. We were already friends before, enough to the point where she invited me to play dungeons and dragons with her. During this friends period I learned a lot about her through conversation, including her having Aspergers and never making a connection to anyone including her family. I should have stopped then, but I was a simp and thought," if i
show her a good relationship, then all will be well,"but no, that isn't how it worked. She started distancing herself from me after I told her I liked her. That should have been another red flag and a sign to just stop before things get worse. I didn’t, but eventually I started going to the gym and coming to my senses. I was getting board with this, and actually kind of traumatized because I put myself through a lot of stress trying not to mess up with her. My turning point was when I told her I was sick and I got my friend sick and couldn’t go to the dungeons and dragons thing starting in an hour and she just said, “ok”.
I talked to one of her friends at a party and she drunkenly told me that my crush said, “You should talk to him. He’s a really cool gay guy.” I approached my crush about this and she said she mistook me for being gay because I was “too nice and dressed too well.” Being mistaken for gay didn’t hurt my feelings or anything but since she was part of the LGBTQ+ community, you’d think she’d want to fight against stereotypes, not promote them.
Not mine but my brother. He walked in on her getting railed by three guys. She was late for a date and wasn't answering her phone so he went to go check on her. Walked in on them mid act and she apparently had the gull to try and claim that it wasn't what it obviously was.
Hey she could have been at work.
That’s disgusting. I’m trying not to judge but the fact that she stood him up to have sex!! What the actual f
Told me he liked me, kissed me, then I find out he told everyone that I'd come on to him, even though he had a girlfriend... He never told me he had one.
would you rather know your crush (for good or ill) or remain as oblivious keeping them on rose tinted glasses (always guessing if you've missed potiential)?
I'd much rather know them. I want to know whether or not they're as I think or if they actually suck.
Better to be realistic, have healthy expectations and accept each other as real, actual human beings.
He confessed that he already has a girlfriend but I initially didn't know how to react when he messaged me that through Twitter because he responded 2 weeks after I tried asking him out for coffee. My mom helped me think of a meaningful response implying that it would be nice if I could have coffee with him as friends. As time went on, I made the realization that it was actually a favor because I had been single my whole life and that's actually what helped me get through my own character development. I believe having a relationship would have distracted me from how I'd figure out what ive been wanting in life. Regardless if he gets back to me and accepts my offering as a friend, I prefer to keep being single because I actually felt free after I stopped crushing on him. It's honestly wholesome to look back and realized I saw him as a role model because he accomplished his dream job while I did not give up after taking longer to graduate college after switching majors.
I was interested in a guy for a good few months in secondary school. Him and I were pretty good friends and we got along relatively well. Until Summer ended. I told him that my Summer was garbage and he asked why. I told him that I had an emotionally abusive mother, and HE LAUGHED IN MY FACE! I never talked to him again.
Not me, but my brother. He had this crush on one of my coworkers at my old job, even at one point telling her he liked her, but she said she didn't see him like that. Sadly, some crushes don't just die that easily. Even though he didn't say anything after, he would come over, and I could tell in with how he acted around her that he still liked her. Then, one day, he went to have dinner there as she was in the middle of a break. They started chatting about movies, and my brother brought up Star Wars. Little exposition to this: when he was 3 (I was 1, so I can only tell from my parents perspective), he went and saw the Phantom Menace in theatres. And it is said he was absolutely immersed and smiling the entire time. He has all of the movies, watches every show in existence about Star Wars, plays every single Star Wars game he can.
So, he brings up Star Wars. And she just flat out says, "I hate Star Wars." I immediately looked at him, and in his eyes, I saw the crush he had on this girl for half a year just die in a single moment. Reasonable so, but it took everything in me to not laugh right then and there at his reaction.
I was dating a rock musician. He was the lead singer and songwriter of his band, he is up-and-coming and semi-famous (I won’t “name drop”, but his band opens for many more famous bands).
He seemed like a really awesome guy, he had the charm of all the classic rockstars I grew up listening to and enjoying. Buuuuut, I saw how he treated his fans, his band mates, his crew, and even his friends. I even met a couple of his ex girlfriends who told me what he was _really_ about (he had drunk texted them my photo to “prove I existed”). He even ditched me to go drinking with his entourage when he had promised that the both of us would go on a romantic weekend together (he asked me to go with him). I was left standing there with my suitcase, waiting for him only for him to never call or swing by to pick me up. He wouldn’t answer his phone, but later he drunk texted me asking me why I had “ditched him at the bar”.
I called him, he finally picked up, I gave him an earful and dumped him over the phone before hanging up on him and blocking him. I went by his house and got my stuff out of there, dumped off there his stuff that was in my home, left him a nasty note, took photos of all returned items of his, locked the door, and put the key inside the mail slot.
TL/DR: Dated a lead vocalist and songwriter of semi-famous rock band, saw what kind of a person he really was when he abused his fans, friends, crew, and band mates. His ex girlfriends told me about him, he even ditched me after inviting me for a weekend romantic get away. I broke up with him, went by his house, returned his stuff in my home, took back my stuff in his house, and returned his key.
wats da band name
I didn't lose interest initially, but someone asked me, "what if she did that to your friend?"
All the sudden I hated her. I would never forgive her if she treated my friend like that
She was stunning. Model stunning.Then I found out her mother was dying of lupus and hadn't talked to her in months over some petty disagreement. Never thought she was attractive after that.
I've been told, "Did you really think I would date you?" Needless to say, my self esteem was fragile for a while.
Had a crush on this really cute classmate of mine in college. I never got the balls to talk to him but when I did I was a simple hello. One day I got a chance to have a conversation with him and I don’t know why but the moment he started talking to me I just lost interest in him.
She started posting on her story about her ex calling her crazy (while being super unhinged himself by the sound of it). She also cried because she thinks trees are sentient the way humans are and like when humans touch them. The main reason though was that she just doesn’t care about me. That’s a real deal breaker lmao.
Here’s my answer called me a freak and got his five friends to join in on it years later I was on Facebook and saw his name so decided to be polite and say hi well that was a TIFU he was confused as to who I was I told him I was the awkward girl in the back of the class. He suddenly realised/remembered who I was and said “oh you were that creepy girl” I don’t remember much of what happened after that but I remember my mum noticing from the kitchen that I was a bit teary eyed and came over to comfort me and got me to leave the PC. She got pretty mad when she read what had been said and decided to message him and it went something along the lines of “Hello **** this is **** mother here I decided to clear up some confusion about my daughter I believe you are still very proud of what you did to her along with **** and **** I just wanted to make things clear that DESPITE having epilepsy and being socially awkward my daughter is a very kind and clever girl and I don’t think that you realise how wonderful a person she actually is I bet your parents are very proud of you and what you have become harassing a girl is a very “Nobel” thing. She then blocked him shut the laptop, gave the still sniffling me at the time a hug and some chocolate.
Some details I neglected above: I have had Epilepsy since the age of four and at the time undiagnosed Asperger’s syndrome (high functioning autism) which made it very hard for me to understand social skills when I was younger and only picked up as a teenager.
She told me she hated my identical twin brother because her identical twin died in utero, and she was jealous that I got to "keep my twin".
Saw a girl and thought she was cute back in middle school. She seemed really nice. It was winter when, during recess, I saw her talking with her friends. As a sort of ploy to get her attention, I ran over near, jumped and flipped on my back and slid across some snow and ice. She and her friends began chanting "loser alert". I was one of the most unpopular kids in school, so fair enough.
Funny thing is, she later asked me out in high school but I panicked and told her a flat no before scurrying away.
I'm so happy you account didn't get deleted!
This happened in 2nd grade. I had a crush, we'll call him G for this story. I liked this certain kind of music, G hated it. So we argued over it, and in the end, he ended up twisting my wrist. He ended up going to the principal's office, and most of us disliked him since that day, including myself.
I hate his guts now.
I had a crush on someone, but we were both in relationships at the time. I was alone with my crush, not isolated, people were around, just not in direct eyesight. I mentioned off hand that I was crushing a little. The person then says, "we can make out a little, see how we feel?"
Absolutely not, cheating is not ok and especially how casual and whatever how it was asked? It's a no from me. I think a little flirting is healthy, we're only human, but that crossed a line for me.
This Shows that the outside isn't as revelvent to the inside, society is weird...
That girl who pooped in front of that guy naked while he was trying to work the shower fr had no shame 😭 idk if I admire her, or am embarrassed for her???
I'm sure she did it out of anger and humiliation for feeling rejected when she appeared naked in front of the guy and he didn't pick up the "hint". I wouldn't have done the same, but felt the same, for sure.
The guy started to bully me, he started being really mean to me when ever I was sitting with him and talking to him at school.
We became friends at a 6th grade field trip a week before.
I think one of the things he used to say was something like "you b**ch shut up" I'm not sure it was a long time ago.
I think one time I asked to borrow a pencil and he just tried to stab my hand with it. I vaguely remember that.
But as soon as nobody else (the other students in class) was around he would be so sweet, and would just hug me and be this amazing person.
The rudeness was to big so we stopped being friends, I still see him everyday but don't talk to him, he has a girlfriend now and seems really happy, I'm glad he is.
Man, I've been here. Started talking to this girl, it was going well and she was actually really cute (on the outside anyway) Come first date, she just slanders other women, talks shit about some guys I'm friends with, and gets an extremely expensive order (93 Euros for her food, starters, desserts, fancy main. I paid around 7 Euros for my food since I only got a side since I wasn't that hungry) and then asked me to pay. I paid..... for my fucking side I did.
AHAHA good on you! barely dodged a landmine.
Whoop whoop you got your channel back
I had a crush on one of the "popular kids" last year (I'll call him Jake for now). I'm a pretty quiet kid (seriously, I don't talk to anyone unless I have to and usually read a book or stare off into space) so we didn't interact much. But as an outsider looking in, he seemed like a pretty funny, chill guy. Well, we had English class together and were assigned to work on a project with another kid. "Jake" spent the whole class rushing us to finish it with audible huffs and glares in our direction whenever we got stuck on a part. Half the time, he didn't even let me help and only showed the materials needed to work on the project to the other kid in our group. By the time we finally finished, he snatched up the papers, turned them in, and then pulled out his phone. We ended up getting a C on that project and most of the stuff we got wrong were the questions he was rushing us on.
Glad I learned where "Jake's" priorities were at.
Story 40 happened to me too. He was getting really angry when losing and blaming everyone. Worst part is - he got so toxic because of me. I was getting really angry when losing, but stopped playing for over a month and when I came back I was chill. It may seem hypocritical, but there was one huge difference which made him hella unattractive to me despite me being really into him at some point. When I was getting angry I was insulting our enemies, but I’ve never said a bad word about my friends we played with. He was blaming us when losing, despite being the reason of it most of the time. 😂
She got mad at ME in school for telling her brother to stop doing something I didn’t like. How stupid is that? She’s was pretty nice, but when her brother was purposefully annoying me, she got all protective over HIM, but didn’t give a rat crap about how I felt. 😤
Guy that used to go to school with me kept texting me over the course of years telling me he loved me. One was when I was in a relationship. One was after said relationship (it was a very bad breakup that left me very depressed for a long while. I'm feeling slightly better but I still have my moments). One he made very transphobic comments towards me. One he tried to insist he didn't like me. And one was after he had admitted he and his friends drove recklessly for fun, which I find repulsive.
I've told him I don't like him every time. I want him to leave me alone so bad. I've blocked his number but he still managed to contact me.
Got upset at her 8yr old son, because he was complaining. She looked at me with her son not even two feet away from us and told me not to mind him, because he was being a little b****.
No but when it was talking about an ‘mlm pitch’ I was like EXCUSE ME??? 😭😭 like this person’s just pitching bl (boy’s love - romance genre where the romance is between two guys) at a study session
He stole something from a charity we were both volunteering at in order to seem cool. It wasn't a noticeable or expensive item but it was the last straw for me to lose interest.
He was a friend of mine and i had kinda of a crush on him, we would not really work as boyfriend and girlfriend but he was so nice to spend time with and i thought he was pretty cute too, btw, he was talking about how he would do basically anything to reach his goals, nothing rlly bad, actually i thought this was such a greenflag, until i, joking, said "so if you needed to kill me to reach your goals, would you? Haha" and then he went silent and said, "you will not like my answer to that", and i swear he was mad serious. We didn't rlly have a conversation after that, i just pretended that i didn't care and eventually stopped talking to him.
He said he wished he could clone himself so he could meet somebody who met his standards lmao
That's actually a pretty funny joke... But it better be a joke lol
I was hanging out with a group of friends late at night and some of us lived near each other so we were gonna carpool. He and another friend wanted to walk 1.5 miles at 11:30 at night in the dark, and I told him he shouldn’t because there was the risk of typical things that happen to young people in the dark of night, and I being a young woman didn’t want anything to happen to him. In response he looked me in the face and laughed it off saying “those things just don’t happen, there’s no reason to be so afraid dude.”
It’s not a huge deal, but being told things like murder or kidnapping or whatever just won’t and don’t happen killed that crush real quick.
Well that's pretty dumb of him. If something had happened then everyone's response would've been, "why was he walking around so late at night?" Unfortunately some people have to learn the hard way, and you don't want to be there to learn it with them 🤷
For me they were flirting with my best friend then when my best friend rejected them they asked me to help them get close to my best friend and I said no
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In my case, I had a crush on our school president, he was perfect in my eyes: helpful, intelligent, kind, and authoritative. He was a good leader. We talked occasionally because I was the president of our journalism club, so we do have meetings regarding school events and such. The school year ended, and I moved to another school, but I still think about him. We communicated again after a few months on Messenger, and I still kind of like him, but he already has a girlfriend. I stopped talking to him, but he kept bothering me, and then he tried to offer to take me on a date and do phone sex with me. That turned me off real quick because I know he has a girlfriend. I confronted him about it, and he said he's aware, but he's been like this before; he's a player. I thought he was intelligent and kind after all, but ever since then, I have blocked him. I couldn't tell his girlfriend about it because I didn't want to get involved.
He shamed me for being polyamorous and bisexual, so I dated his best friend instead :)
(FYI: his best friend and I broke up since but now he’s my best friend lol)
Ok
And you're not ashamed of those things? Seriously, you think it's totally great to do whatever with whoever whenever?
@@laststand6420 Consensually, yes.
He showed me his true colours and I chose not to date him.
(Tho I did fail to mention that he became very toxic and controlling, all whilst insulting all my likes and hobbies)
Story #7 - Yea, I feel you on that. I wish I could count the number of times I was picked at, scorned, looked at with the evil eye because I lost my virginity to a woman of another race. I felt like a total pariah WITH MY OWN FAMILY !! Things changed so much, I never felt close to them again.
I don't regret what I did but, I certainly didn't expect that reaction. I have a hard time understanding why it is STILL a problem. SMH
Story #54 - I had an entire family of relatives that did that. When any of them started eating, it was time to make up an excuse to leave. any excuse I could think of. When you had to listen to a bunch of adults (some of them in their 40's) smack their lips, slurp food and chew like an animal on a farm or zoo, it will make you glad that made it past 5th grade and was toilet trained.
Had a crush at a previous job I worked at. She casually suggested that a coworker illegally buy Adderall to help her study
19:13 In the guy's defense, the light JUST turned green. People who honk at others, without giving them time to get going deserve at least a good flipping off.
Well i had a crush in middle school when i was 14 she was a cute blonde tall girl same age as me she was the a very good student with good marks a really normal girl! We became good friends, going out together have many smiles and laughter, going to eachother home for studying! When we were talking one day she mentioned about her previous boyfriend which he always liked her but he had problems with how tall she was and always been called awful names by him which i felt bad for her and comfort her about it saying that guy was a jerk and had many issues which i told her that i never had any problems with her at the first time we met she felt relieved after that day which i was always reminding her every day that i never had any problems with her at all! We both started having feelings for eachother. At the last day of middle school i was going to confess my feelings to her and give her a bouquet of flowers when i saw that guy she was talking kissing her on the haul of the school i was standing there with a shocked face and some tears on my cheeks and i said (wow just wow...i guess our relationship was for nothing...) I left running and tearing she tried to stop me but she was too late.
2 years have passed since that day, i am a second class high school student. I was on my way home going through the cafeterias which i saw the same girl which i had crush on she saw me and recognise me at first sight and came running hugging me tight crying and apologizing. She told me that the guy she mentioned in the past found out that we were hanging out together and he tried to ruin it by doing that in front of me. At first i didn't believe her but i connected the dots and then we got back together because i found out that it was never her fault.
I know that it's not a losing someone interest comment but that's how my life gone.😅
That's actually a cool ending to the story
Bullying my sister
He said the pandemic was "basically over" and got angry that the restaurants weren't open yet... in the Summer of 2020.
I feel your pain. I had a crush in one of my Facebook friends, and in the pandemic he told me he didn't believe in the pandemic too. 🤦🏻
Was he hot? Got his number still?
my crush did nothing actually... its just that i realize that i don't want to drag her into my sad miserable life so i did my best to forget her...
I had a crush one time that me and my family lived with because my mom is friends with his mom and we didn't had anywhere to go so it turns out that he was an alcoholic and is very violent disrespects his mom and hits his women and also cheats on them so yeah i'm glad i never gotten with him
A girl I liked entered into a relationship with someone else when she said she was falling in love with me, but was scared to get back into a relationship due to a bad breakup. I discovered it one early morning on Facebook.
Absolutely broke my heart, but heartbreak turned to anger a few hours later. Now I feel nothing towards her. I lost all affection for her that day. I haven’t spoken to her since, not even when she tried to reach out. I am currently in a relationship with a different person now.
I'm a female student in middle school. My first crush was a Russian, and I had a Ukrainian friend at the same time and I'm still friends with her. I was in class with him when I heard him tell a joke to his friends going, "Oh you're Ukrainian? Let me pull out my missile." I lost interest on the spot. Of course I confronted him, and that it's not okay to joke about people dying because of someone trying to remove what's not there.
They are at war... And the joke is decently funny. The Ukrainian should have countered with something like "I've got missiles too, and mine are made in America".
Russian Humor is dark funny and smart. It’s not for everyone 👀
Oh poor you getting offended for people
16:56 if your partner ever gives you the ultimatum "me or the pets" they're just testing the waters before they move on to your friends and family.
Any ultimatum should see you out the door. That's not love, it's a transaction.
Love the Hogwarts legacy background gameplay
Caught her dating a 50y/o man I was 17 she was 18 later that week I caught her with the guys son and in another year she ended up dating his son she went through 3 generations
Never trust women who date 50+ year old men
I just love am I the jerk is like “if you like am I the jerk your will LOVE am I the genius” and am I the genius is like “if you like am I the genius, try am I the jerk”
17:05 boy I wish she knew that the kitty would have been trying to use affection as a tool on her. I know cats, they are mongers for attention, and more people can mean more attention. Also the affection of a cat is something nice to have, like I used to have almost every outdoor cat in the neighborhood come to me because they liked my attention.
I would've noped out of a relationship if that person didn't like dogs!
When I confessed my feelings to him he said that he badly felt like kissing me, which he proceeded to do shortly after. That was it for me, I felt the crystal fairytale castle I had made him prince of crashing down. I guess I was just not ready to transition from the "in love with the idea of love" phase to the "in love with an actual person" one, just fangirling over someone who happened to be an actual friend of mine instead of a celebrity or a fictional character, but that was the kind of feeling. I was so young and silly, and I hated that first kiss so much that life/my subconscious punished me with 4 subsequent years unkissed before I finally woke up to myself.
My sister was in her first year of college and she met this guy. She liked him I liked him and our mom liked him. I was frequently at her house and so was he so I saw him a lot. One day my sister was having a party. It was on of those typical like rager things. But he ended up being a real jerk to my sister so she ended it off with him and he ended up telling everybody that’s my sister is the reason he’s dropping out of college and etc and the reason he had a 1.4 GPA so yeah definitely was a no go
Things like this remind me the parent and make me Marvel right parent that it takes ages to build up something good and great and honorable, but one wrong move, one tiny little thing, or even a really major thing, can send the whole thing crashing to the ground.
#27 Why would you even get in the car? I can't think of a way to come back from that.
Laughed at me. Told me to **** off. Told me they think of me as a brother. The usual.
Found out he would call one of our mutual friends for sex whenever he wanted it. Killed any feelings towards him.
Dude I told her I don't like toxic, I'm too old for that crap 29. I go hang out with my best friend and his family who are visiting from North Carolina. His mom, dad, and sister are only staying for a day or two. Since he's basically a brother to me I decided to take the days off and stay at his place so we can all hang out. I'm texting the chick I was into and explained that I was with my friend and since I didn't think anything of it I told her about my best friend's sister being there. She blows up on me because I shouldn't be hanging out with single women regardless if I'm attracted to them or not. Told her we're not exclusive and even if we were, there was no way I would be okay being told I couldn't hang out with anyone. Haven't talked to her since
Story #46. When I come across this type of person, I ask if an animal that wasn’t mentioned in the Bible, like a platypus or kangaroo exist. Because I can take them to the zoo and prove their existence outside of the Bible.
She was new to the school, i was pretty much infatuated with her after the first time i talked to her after school, talked to her at every opportunity if im being honest, i was gathering my courage to even confess, but allas, she started hanging out with the 2 girls in the whole fucking school that angered me to the fucking core, bitchy little assholes, crows even, needless to say, they were present and vocal every time i talked to her, now i barely interract with her, let alone seriously talk, though i still like her.. somewhat..
14:00 I believe it’s about the Japanese urban legend the slit mouth woman
If you could crush on your boyfriend, then my answer is that he said he kept boxes of spiders under his bed, and showed me a picture of them as proof. Please never date anyone like this, as he also told my friend after the fact that he wished he could dissect my brain to keep my personality but make me love him.
Happened twice years apart, different people. Turned out that they were religious. Totally creeped out and noped out.
These are WILD. I just realised mine was a little selfish 😅
My nope out Crush, though he had a done deal with me when discovered my crush and approached me with a smug grin on his face. nope. Not. Never. You still have to work at getting me to appreciate more than your looks. That kind of self satisfaction speak of a vanity I am never gonna pander to.
For girls: He breathed, so i lost interest.
I was dating him at the time and he told me that I laughed too much. He’s a better friend than boyfriend
Nothing... I just looked at the mirror and said... WELP, TIME TO GIVE UP 😂😂😂
I had a crush on a dude that was very interested in philosophy and psychology like me. But after some time, he pretended to be insane or some joker type of guy at first i didnt mind, but he was a huge know-it-all. He wasnt even at university and pretended to be more knowledgable than professors or something. I realised, its super toxic and i lost interest.
Also a friend of mine had a huge crush on a dude for years. Until she was invited to his place once and she realised, he was a huge fifa player. She never talked to him again lol
the thinking drugs were cool one was kinda dumb,,drugs are dumb. i used to take drugs very blatantly it was mainly to scare women away it worked very well for the most part. some people thought i was trying to be cool but it was a push reaction..i hated myself so much i felt like i didn't deserve love threw away the best years of my life amazing what being made to feel worthless as a child can do to a person. nurture really can fuck you up if its done poorly.
I thought he was gay. He got a girlfriend, so I lost interest both because he is straight and he has a girlfriend.
Lol the first one just sounds like dude played the uno reverse card.
It happened this year
So I had a crush on this guy and like I didn’t even know why I liked him, I built up an image of him in my head from the limited time I saw him
One day my friend came up to me (she didn’t know I liked him) and told me he called me fat and weird/annoying
Then I realized how delusional I had been and stopped liking him
In high school, she spread a rumor that my cousin had STDs. Cousin came in during science class and an argument between the two women ensued. Both kept saying the other had STDs and I've lost all interest in her after that shit-show. Didn't want to risk getting an STD from her. She could also get very heated in an argument and I can only imagine what she would do to someone over a spilled coffee. I hope she doesn't have a toxic relationship with her current boyfriend because I'd hate to see both bickering with each other.
Also another story from high school as well. I'm not going to get into specifics here, but another girl I had a crush on wanted to record me basically saying I wanted to have her for breakfast (The lingus) and tried encouraging me to say it. Look, I'm all for making myself known and not being afraid to share my kinks, but Good Lord, some things are better discussed in private, not in front of the class. Mind you, the Teacher thankfully saved my ass by discouraging her to record me saying "I tea ssa" and encouraging me not to say it. She was lesbian anyway (which I never knew and despite the fact she had a boyfriend when we were in middle school), but I lost interest after that. Again, I wouldn't have minded if it was okay with my main crush (the woman she wanted to send the recording to), but that's not only inappropriate and weird, it's also sexual harassment and I was already on thin ice with the law, so I wasn't tryna push shit any further than it already was. And that's NOT a good way to let a woman know you're interested in her. I could see if she was interested or turned on by that shit, but HELL NO, that's some shit you discuss when it's just the two of you.
Fellas, if you like a female, approach her and tell her, don't rely on another woman to tell her what you can tell her yourself. I'm not sure if she's really into that and cool if she is, but I'm not stupid enough to just blurt out that I'm interested in that kinda stuff where other people can hear me, even if it's just a recording. Keep that shit private, and make sure to keep that shit to yourself until you and your crush are ready for sex if y'all hook up.
Another thing, when a female says "No", back the fuck off. "No" is a complete sentence and no human need a legit reason to say "No" when asked out. "No means no" Mofo, so if she say "No" or anything similar to "No" or dating another nigga or another woman, back the fuck off and mind your business. I made the mistake of not taking her refusal seriously and ended up nearly getting arrested and my gramma sued for my stupidity and jealousy and I can't even speak to her, approach her, or see her for God knows how long because I couldn't just take the rejection like a man and move on. I fucked up and it's not her fault. I scared her and to this day I still feel like shit for it. I messed everything up and destroyed our friendship over lust. I wish we someday we could meet and I could apologize for everything I ever did and we'd be friends again, but only God can make that happen and only time will tell.
Stay safe fellas!
Have a crush but may be falling out of interest. Its the secret admirer, i “like?” Them but we don’t even talk. Sometimes they piss me off for the smallest and stupidest reasons. I have this friend, just moved and going to our school. They said “ I wish I were back in my hometown” now it’s not wrong to miss your childhood home but a couple days later I noticed my crush had his back turned to my friend as he tried to talk to the group of boys. Honestly I’m disappointed because the kid is like a little bro to me, a bit weird but still really nice.
I’m not really sure if a still like my crush. Honestly it hurts to get rid of my crush bc honestly I had so much faith in this kid. I don’t plan on being in a relationship due to some emotional issues.
I had a crush on a uni classmate i had. Im black and she was white.
I was talking with my other black friends and we tend to say the N-Word a lot.
One day she turned around and said she wasnt comfortable with us saying that.
Lost all interest, thats just strange to me idk.
Story 8 is just crazy
I managed to get in a relationship with her and not even a month later she cheated on me through omegle 💀
... she got married.
Thank you i had a real hard laugh🖤💯❤