This applies to dating couples too! If the relationship is healthy, the sparks don't go away, you just have to look a little bit more! Thanks for the tips! My boyfriend always gives me a hug while I'm cooking or cleaning :)
No, we women put up with a lot with these guys. Yes, we should look at the positive, but we need to stop doing so much and back off. We need to set some boundaries. I am always grateful for everything he does, but I do feel neglected and that's ok. I won't be mean abou it, but graceful. That was very sweet of your husband, but I doubt he would have done it if he didn't know that you needed it. I also find that a lot of men need actions not just words. So something like, "you know, I love making your lunch for you, but I have been feeling a bit neglected recently and am starting to feel resentment about making your lunch. I will be happy to make your lunch again when I am feeling better.". You are not controlling him, but you. It's up to him if he wants to do better or not and it's up to us take care of our feelings.
Asks me what do you want in breakfast, that he misses me when i m at work, would come with me to walk to bus, will hold my bag, will hug me when I an tired ❤
Okay but why do I have to accept a love language that don’t make me feel loved. My husband cooks, cleans, washes, massages me, etc but I CAN DO THAT MYSELF ! I need him to buy me gifts and surprise me! Maybe I’m ungrateful but IDC! Why tf I gotta sit around and wait for a mf to want to make me feel loved in my way? And appreciating what they already do makes them think that’s all they need to do.
He says, I love you before hanging up, whenever we are out he runs to fill my empty water bottle,he holds my hand always when we are walking. I love him❤
My husband always randomly comes in to the room saying "You know what? I love you" and then walks out 😂
My handsome man always tells me he loves me after every phone call.
Aw that is so important! I always think, life is too short to withold "i love yous" ❤
Ah, love those small gestures. My guy is that low key thoughtful romantic too and always so very appreciated once I shifted my ideas too.
That's the best! Romance doesn't have to look a certain way ❤
great advice. my hubby does a few of the things you mentioned
That's great! 🤍
My man always buys me my favourite chocolate when its my time of the month 🍫❤
Oooohh he's a keeper!
This applies to dating couples too! If the relationship is healthy, the sparks don't go away, you just have to look a little bit more! Thanks for the tips! My boyfriend always gives me a hug while I'm cooking or cleaning :)
Aw that is so beautiful! Thanks for watching this video and I wish you and your boyfriend all the joy in the world ❤️
My husband always cooks for us and brings me my plate EVERY DAY!! ❤
My husband ALWAYS writes me a little love note on the steamy mirror after his shower💜
Aww thats so cute!!!
No, we women put up with a lot with these guys. Yes, we should look at the positive, but we need to stop doing so much and back off. We need to set some boundaries. I am always grateful for everything he does, but I do feel neglected and that's ok. I won't be mean abou it, but graceful. That was very sweet of your husband, but I doubt he would have done it if he didn't know that you needed it. I also find that a lot of men need actions not just words. So something like, "you know, I love making your lunch for you, but I have been feeling a bit neglected recently and am starting to feel resentment about making your lunch. I will be happy to make your lunch again when I am feeling better.". You are not controlling him, but you. It's up to him if he wants to do better or not and it's up to us take care of our feelings.
Asks me what do you want in breakfast, that he misses me when i m at work, would come with me to walk to bus, will hold my bag, will hug me when I an tired ❤
Awww I LOVE those!! He sounds like a sweetheart 🤍
Okay but why do I have to accept a love language that don’t make me feel loved. My husband cooks, cleans, washes, massages me, etc but I CAN DO THAT MYSELF ! I need him to buy me gifts and surprise me! Maybe I’m ungrateful but IDC! Why tf I gotta sit around and wait for a mf to want to make me feel loved in my way?
And appreciating what they already do makes them think that’s all they need to do.
Mine brings me coffee in bed every morning ❤
He sure does! ❤
Well, he pays all the bills 😜
That's nice! Does he work hard to provide without complaining that he is the provider? ❤️
He says, I love you before hanging up, whenever we are out he runs to fill my empty water bottle,he holds my hand always when we are walking. I love him❤
That is beautiful ❤️❤️❤️