How The 16 Personalities Argue

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  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The board being flipped and unreadable, yet totally not mattering because of the content and passion is like the most ENFP thing ever.
    Personal story: my ENFP wife made tshirts for my 30th birthday that were backwards and flipped. Guess what? She owned it and made it fun. I love ENFPs so much! You crack me up.

  • @failedbooli6028
    @failedbooli6028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    And just like that with the information in this video a lot of things make a lot more sense.

    • @TypeMatch
      @TypeMatch  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice! I'm glad it was helpful 👍

  • @silentgrove7670
    @silentgrove7670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Invoke youtube reversal procedure. Switcheroo .. that's what is says when you push the button.
    Love white board, charts and charts and letters with mysterious meaning.

    • @TypeMatch
      @TypeMatch  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you! And, yes, I really should pay more attention to these things

    • @silentgrove7670
      @silentgrove7670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TypeMatch I liked it, opportunity to have fun. ENFPs can find fun in most things. I love you and your channel btw.
      Oh I think this is an ENFP thing btw. I had a terrible week so I find someone to express a lot of happy feelings towards to make myself feel better and believe the world is still a good place.

  • @hfortenberry
    @hfortenberry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That whole thing about arguing between your parent and their trickster is SO TRUE! OMG, my Mom was an INFJ and I am an INTJ which means her parent Fe was always trying to engage with my trickster Fe. She used to COMPLETELY misunderstand me. When I was in college we'd get into conversations and suddenly she'd get that scary "what did you say?" look on her face. LOL And I'd be like uh oh, she is not getting what I'm saying. I'd be like "What? Noooo, that's NOT what I'm saying." For example, I'd be trying to explain that I understood the perspective of why a criminal commits a crime (from a psychology perspective, in an effort to prevent future similar crimes) and she would think I was condoning the crime which of course would freak her out as my mother. And I was like No No No No! That's NOT what I'm saying. And then she'd start using her child Ti to pick apart my reasons and I would feel utterly misunderstood and just give up. It was a mess. This one is a difficult one. I would not want to be in a relationship with an INFJ unless she was very mature AND understood MBTI.

    • @mantecada5660
      @mantecada5660 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry Bro.
      Sometimes we need time to set everything up in our structure. Just be patient, it's not our intention to make you feel misunderstood, but please be patient and understand because we feel guilty about it
      INFJ... maybe... I don't even know LMAO

    • @AmayIia
      @AmayIia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a little bewildering to me. My first priority with people is usually to try and understand them in order to have compassion for them, and when it comes to looking at people who commit crimes, my first thoughts usually move toward what kind of person they were, what kind of state that they were in, their motivations, their background.. I don't condone most crimes, especially ones that result in hurting other people, but I often feel bad for both the victim and the one committing the crime if I feel like they were basically driven into that mindset and lifestyle by forces out of their control. I mostly get into this stalemate with myself where I can't bring myself to condone them nor can I really defend them, and the most I usually end up saying is "That's unfortunate."
      I've always personally gotten along really well with INTJs because even though the things we focus on are different, we usually have a mutual ability to understand each others Ni and perspectives shifting.

  • @AndeAndrea
    @AndeAndrea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes! This is great! "Let me give you ALL of the evidence"

  • @Allthepills
    @Allthepills 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you want to do a full comprehensive analysis you will need to multiply 16x15x14x13x12x11x10x9x8x7x6x5x4x3x2 then divide it by 2 and assign an mbti type to a specific number so you can cover every duo-combination arguing with each other, alternatively you can use a large vortex algorithm to accomplish the same result

  • @Jess-yv7zc
    @Jess-yv7zc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have Se trickster and I literally didn't notice the whiteboard issue til like 7-8 min in lol (I often "notice" things in the physical environment but don't actually "register" them until later (or never, probably haha) . This is very interesting and potentially useful information. Also, I wanted to let you know that I had seen the book Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari and thought it looked something I'd like but I thought I was too busy (reading psychology/typology books lol). After your recommendation, I read it and it was amazing! History made interesting and lots of good Science and very readable. He has some truly interesting and thought-provoking ideas laid out in this book. Thanks, Kate!

    • @Jess-yv7zc
      @Jess-yv7zc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @PrexorAMVs hahahahaha! Yes things are pretty much invisible to me too. Don't worry, I don't really get offended so calling me a bro isn't really an issue lol

  • @blackbird_actual
    @blackbird_actual 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So ready for the app to come out

    • @TypeMatch
      @TypeMatch  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Watch for an announcement VERY soon 😉

  • @anneh851
    @anneh851 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All the terminology is getting in the way of understanding. I like your video, and if the board were flipped around so it's readable, it would be even better.

  • @TheNicMMc
    @TheNicMMc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know I am wrong but I can't help but feel that Fi seems like a privilege to have. Like if you feel that your fi function was deemed normal in your parents' household during the time of your childhood then you were raise into believing that your feelings should be validated and respected. In any other household with any dominant function, doesn't if it's Te or Fe, you either fought for your feelings in a ever losing battle of rebelling , or just give up and hope they go away.

    • @AmayIia
      @AmayIia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No one can control what kind of upbringing they get as a child, but one thing you can control is what you do with it. I've long maintained the stance that you can let your struggles either make you bitter, or make you better, and if you come from a household such as you described, you might value the impression it left on you of really appreciating the feelings of others, and that it was a lesson in compassion on how _not_ to behave towards others.
      All of our experiences help to define the people that we become, the good ones and the bad ones.. it doesn't make the bad ones _right_ or okay, but it does give a sense of value and acceptance that will allow you to move forward in life despite them.

  • @AnonW
    @AnonW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TypeMatch: I'm very proud of my whiteboard today
    Me: It's inverted...

  • @condotiero860
    @condotiero860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    INTP, and I mean, i rarely argue, it's more like banter, this is before i typed myself. Then i realised i was being insensitive and crass, and i'd like to think i've worked on that.
    I still argue, but it's mostly me pleading (with logic and occasional historical anecdote) and it's not conductive to my partner because then she feels trapped.
    I like to be prescient, and that is hugely intimidating to my previous partners i feel, in hindsight. Also intimidating is me being senseless, although less now, just generally being unable to read between the lines.
    So that's where i am right now, winning arguments I think i should, and caving strategically. Not to imply the girls are dumb, on the contrary they totally notice me doing this, soo... yeah.
    I wish there was a 'how to housebreak an INTP boyfriend' book, i'd buy that in a heartbeat.

    • @condotiero860
      @condotiero860 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      As i write this a thought occurs.
      Do you girls and gals like a man who is in control or no?
      Because i thought no, but the evidence is overwhelming. I cant stop myself from being prescient, but i can hold my tounge. At least when i talked back some girls seemed to get a kick out of it.
      Is that a fetish? I let you in my Zen, my logic, my flow, and you guys get a kick out of disrupting my flow?
      Like why? Are you just fucking with me then? That seriously screwed me if true!

  • @MRO-Guy
    @MRO-Guy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stop doing me, you’re doing it wrongly!” Ahh-haha! That’s awesome! 👍 I love it.

  • @kevinplays2539
    @kevinplays2539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    interesting, made me think about all the arguments i've had in recent times and i always place it into an objective timeline. like ''okay lets see what happend'' i check everyones actions and reactions and then ask my self ''were said actions taken understandable/justified'' i will even admit my own faults and flaws and then look at how we're gonna avoid the same issue in the future. what cognitive functions are known for having this kind of behavior?

    • @TypeMatch
      @TypeMatch  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds to me like SeNi and TiFe. So that would be an NFJ or an STP. I'm not sure though.

  • @dualpersona7708
    @dualpersona7708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    (Ok so im basically writing this comment for the second time thx to youtube) Hi Kate 😊 i was wondering if you could make a one-question instagram survey story-post about sexual orientation to see the ratios with the types if you are also interested...its just an idea from an infj though so dont feel obligated to do it unless you feel inspired/curious x) i would much appreciate it though; im also really excited to see the app release btw 😊...waiting for that fancy email 😉
    Edit: i guess its enough if the 2 options to pick from are like "heterosexual" and "other" (in the story if u do decide to make it)

    • @TypeMatch
      @TypeMatch  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's a good idea! thank you!

    • @silentgrove7670
      @silentgrove7670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a good idea. I feel that many HSPs are demisexual which I discovered recently about myself. I suspect this might be highly correlated to the NFs that are sensitive.

  • @mieralunarlunishion
    @mieralunarlunishion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does anyone know what type argues by showing contradictions in what their counterpart has said, as in: using their words against them? Maybe entp or intp? :/

  • @USSJ2Otaku3084
    @USSJ2Otaku3084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't really like arguing. Some people will argue for the sake of it 😕. If there's a topic that needs to be discussed, let's talk about it. If there's a way to constructively improve the situation, to prevent that cycle from repeating, let's chat 🙆🏽. But if one is going to get all bitter, throwing daggers, low blows, getting all bitter...😪...no thanks 🙅🏽😒; no need to go down that rabbit hole; it's a lose-lose situation. I'm all for hearing what bothers you and what is of concern...but if it comes from that place? It won't do us any good. You see a problem, I want to create a solution...so it can be squashed 😐😒.

  • @stormiewutzke4190
    @stormiewutzke4190 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouch. Yup I just got ISTP confirmed again. Also my problem with FJ types.

  • @alexanderbaran4524
    @alexanderbaran4524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, how do I get in touch with you? I want to talk to you about an MBTI project and want your opinion on it ;)

  • @vincent.mazkett187
    @vincent.mazkett187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad I have Mirror in front of me

  • @user-ez5vq9fd2t
    @user-ez5vq9fd2t 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Kate, could you do an insta question for if the types dream often? I have a theory that Ne types (hero or parent) dream the most (or more accurately, remember their dreams more frequently cuz they be dreaming up crazy dreams).

  • @farrex0
    @farrex0 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My brother is an ESFP and I am an ENTP, we have never seen eye to eye on almost anything. It doesn't help at all, that he makes the most unconvincing and flawed arguments ever, while trying to explain it via showing it visually.... My ENTP brain just wants to laugh at it, which of course doesn't help. But it is hard because I am constantly having to compromise just to keep peace. Because every time Ti jumps in, he acts like a victim and I am the worst person ever even tho he started it all.

  • @mattmatthewmatchuu
    @mattmatthewmatchuu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Board is backwards you didnt mirror

    • @TypeMatch
      @TypeMatch  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yep, just realized that. sorry for the poor attention to detail :(

    • @RC--tw7em
      @RC--tw7em 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TypeMatch it's all good. It isn't hard for the human brain to read backwards so... yeah.

    • @mattmatthewmatchuu
      @mattmatthewmatchuu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TypeMatch i understand se demon all to well

  • @mantecada5660
    @mantecada5660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Te doms/auxs: please do not insult ti users when we try to structure everything in our head. We are uncomfortable in that moment, and you make us seem like we're dumb it hurts and makes us less efficient.
    Omg the times I cried in school for having Fe users classmates that wouldn't stop saying I'm useless.
    Also I would only have a Te Dom/aux friend if he/she understands how I'm feeling (fucking guilty and useless)

  • @Luki82
    @Luki82 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These one video is great tool ... thx

  • @mialindvall
    @mialindvall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting, thank you ⭐❤

  • @silentgrove7670
    @silentgrove7670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I rarely argue, what happens is my coping skills become expended and then become really sad and angry followed by crying. ENFP HSP. ENFPs do not argue we feel really upset all round.
    Agree to disagree is best in such moments. However ....
    If you do get an ENFP to argue to much it can become the ENFP b slap and at this point the relationship is in severe jeopardy. No relationship has ever survived if I am pushed to such a level.
    Crossing Fi boundaries of an ENFP is a really bad idea. I would also caution other ENFPs to not use this moment to attack because as well you know we know everyones deepest vulnerability.
    People have been insulting me and crossing boundaries lately. I'm officially prickly.

    • @Heldan
      @Heldan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that happen to me with an ENFP friend. I'm ISTJ. And it's done now despite trying to rekindle our friendship.

  • @RevRideReason
    @RevRideReason 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quite informative thank you

  • @adificut3299
    @adificut3299 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love listening to your voice ... it's soothing to me lol #infj

  • @kyuuketsukikun420
    @kyuuketsukikun420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ironic that the video is about miscommunications caused by not seeing the same perspectives

  • @DénouementdeVous
    @DénouementdeVous 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ISTJ & INTJ relationships??? 🤔🤔🤔

  • @noturbo
    @noturbo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i keep looking at the board and my brain is starting to think its normal, that's weird 🤔

  • @SuCheese
    @SuCheese 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Need a mirror

  • @futuristicorange3895
    @futuristicorange3895 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bars

  • @mariolis
    @mariolis 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    =
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