Can only move his arms and hands but he is still cooking everday for his father ?! He is cleaning every room, is going to grocery shopping, is doing chores as well and even helped his father with washing his face ? And he is still worried about him being a burden to his family ? This man is doing something that majority of people nowadays *wouldn't even do for themselves* like cleaning and cooking everyday, let alone taking care and respecting the older ones. This man is truly a role model !
I'm both disappointed and disgusted with his relative, leaving him alone with his father when they both just needed helps, I mean, what if he fell down or worst, how could those relative just abandoned them like that
@@gambler942 easier said than done. You're not in their shoes so you don't know what they're going through, at least they (the relatives) took care of them for some time, maybe life was just so hard that they can only take care of themselves. I'm sure most people would be "selfish" if they're going through tough time
I think it's ok to be upset about things but just do what you can to help the situation as complaining I find doesn't improve or solve anything. Seeing this video, I think the son given his condition and his care for his father is amazing ♥️
Here in the free west we complain alot, its in our blood as its our right. But that said.. the rights is only to protect us, it doesnt mean its the "right" thing to do..
"I can't be selfish." He's a true example of resilience. Wishing Zhang and his father all the best they desire. In this messed up world, it's refreshing to see some people hearts are pure gold.
It's legitimately sad that he delt like he was hurting/being a burden to his relatives. AND at the end of the video he talked about wanting to take care of them as well
@ Phonky Cereal No one was “implying” anything. You said your friend died, then followed it up with laughing emojis. How tacky are you? I feel bad your friend associated with someone like you. >.>
I hope surgery is an option for him. He struggles, yet he gets it all done. So glad to see volunteers are coming in and hope they keep helping the both of them. You never give up because of your parents.
He is more useful as a disabled than half of the able-bodied people I know. Also, he's got a huge heart. Love will really make us do the impossible for those we care about. I hope father and son are living better.
Right? All these able bodied people going around saying they can’t work and this guy with ALS is taking care of his hemiplegic father and doing all the chores! It just is so inspirational and should make lazy people feel ashamed smh
There are parents who are much better off than this father yet abandon their child with less disabilities than this son. There are children who are much able than this son and yet abandon their parents. This duo are heaven's blessings for each other. I hope they remain healthy and safe.
They aren't real parents just selfish rotten human beings,you never abandon your child for disability reasons just never. This man can't walk talk or even use anything other than his arms and hands and he still does more for his paralyzed father than most spoiled children in america would do for their ageing parents,they rather just ditch them in a somber old people home where they often get abused aswell.
As a med student, I just learned about ankylosing spondylitis. The interesting thing is that as I'm learning about these diseases, I never fully appreciate the importance of the information since there's so much to learn in a very short time. Videos like this help put things into perspective and humble me. I never knew the condition could be so debilitating. All I knew was that it can be caused by some sort of breakdown in the gut microbiome layer, that then causes IL-17 and and other cytokines to inflame the spine, resulting in a "bamboo" like spine, and leading to back pain, pain at tendon insertion sites, etc. No where did I take time to actually step back and think about patients with this condition until now- just the text book definitions of how this condition may present. Thank you for your video and for inspiring me to step beyond the books more. Your incredible strength and mental determination also inspires me beyond medicine and for this I'm grateful.
You're absolutely right. I'm an optometrist and we learnt about ankylosing spondylitis and the other HLAB27+ diseases which because they're heavily associated with anterior uveitis. So we always have to rule out those diseases when a patient has uveitis. But I had no idea it can be so debilitating to the point of being wheelchair bound.
This is very humbling. Makes me think of how shallow and petty my "problems" are. What an incredible display of love, sacrifice and the strength of the human spirit.
I feel the same way Maria. I think a lot of people reflect when they see stuff like this. It humbles us and hopefully afterward we make some sort of change in our life to help ppeople. Some people see this and , it doesn't phase them at all.
Everyone is different and i recommend to take care of yourself and then others. How can you help others if you do not care for yourself first? Your problems are not petty, everyone deals with different problems everyday. Please take care of yourself!!
@@justinwinn01 she/he isn't invalidating her/his problems. She's/he's only reflecting about the situation showed in this video (the guy which is an super hero ❤️) what helps anyone to be more humble and grateful about even the minor things in life. Some of our problems are insignificant and we tend to complain about everything, this kind of reflection help us to be a better person, with more integrity. It's a healthy process so stop projecting acceptance of a miserable state (built in ungrateful behavior) and work for a new positive perspective.
Most times I dislike social media, but this kind of stuff makes me thankful for it! Words cannot describe how much respect I have for the son. Just wow.
I agree, I know someone who can do so much, but uses her mental illness as an excuse to even learning cooking (when she can work and doesnt have any physical disabilities). Spent almost million on hospitalizations, only to stop meds, and literally waving her illness even tho no one ask if she has one
So much respect to the son despite his disability he taking care of his father. I know how hard taking care of his father because when my dad still alive I was the one who took care until he died. I never regret that's how I love my father.
I'm so touched and ready to cry.I never see a loving son to his paralyzed dad.For me he is the most abled man that shows so much responsibilties.I would love to share this video.
Being disabled doesn’t mean helpless. This son is using his abilities to help his more disabled father. What a blessing he is! We have a similar situation in our home.
Even with his condition, he only thinks about others (his goal is to take care of his father, uncle and aunt). He was raised well. Such a selfless man. I hope life gets better for all of them...
@@NickoGibson Excuse you? Even if everyone was "disabled," the world would just need to think harder. What would you think if you were disabled and you saw this? Being born disabled or having it is something no one can prevent, so it's not their fault if they were born or have a trait that makes them "disabled."
I guess the dad when he was healthy also take care the son very well. So now the son can take care the father very well too. Huge respect I hope they get more help
It's already hard taking care of someone paralyzed, but you yourself having a disability makes it harder but you're still staying strong through the challenges! Stay strong and hope you can get the surgery soon! You deserve it!
What breaks my heart is that the man is the epitome of filial piety. At first, I was annoyed wondering why the relatives were in an economic bind and was too stressed out to help. But then when it was explained said relatives were his elderly aunt and uncle who were childless, I immediately took my assumptions back (I thought there might be cousins dodging responsibility). I do hope he gets the surgery to fix his medical condition but I'm still sad with an able body, he would look after 3 people instead of one. It makes perfect sense for him to look after his aunt and uncle, but he has to make sure he gives himself enough post operative recovery period or else he can stress his body and cause further medical downtime. 😓
I will never take life for granted. Also never complain about nothing. You can see the love this young man has for his father. I hope he can get the surgery, he's definitely in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 ❤ .
Ya Allah....i have no words to describe the son.helping his father although being disabled himself....so much courage... inspiration....May Allah bless them and ease their suffering. Aameen ❣️
@@smileandsaycheese44 Fr, so what? You saying people cant send their prayers in their own way? I dont mind if you are anti-muslim or smth but like chill, just let that dude send his prayers in his style
Amazing. Not only him, his dad too doesn't show an ounce of giving up. They way he took the spoon and feed himself. This man must've feel all kinds of feeling when being diagnosed, leaving their relative's house, every morning even...yet so strong willed.
I'm glad there are people who are willing to help him and his father even though they get nothing in return. I hope everyone lives long and gets blessed.
I have never seen anything so selfless in all of my life. We whine and complain, but this man takes it (life) like a champ. What a wonderful human being.
A lot of able bodied ppl take so much for granted. We can do so much but let little things be our obstacle. I am so glad that this son has a can-do attitude. Living is for the living.
His father raised him right. This is probably the first time I ever saw a disabled son take care of his father like that. Too many kids take parents for granted but the son is extremely amazing. He is disabled himself but that does not stop him from taking care of his father and he refuses to be a burden to other people. Huge respect to the son.
This is touching yet sad at the same time. Taking care of someone for long term is no easy feat even as an abled person, and this man manages to take care of his dad AND himself while disabled. I'm glad some volunteers are doctors are helping them, but the government should have provided sufficient help to the most vulnerable members of society in the first place.
Why is it that people who try their hardest and deserve to live always have to suffer like this? These guys deserve to live more than I do. I'm embarassed and ashamed of myself as a human being.
I with you, I feel pretty ashamed myself for thinking I have problems, seeing this makes my problems look like sand next to a rock 😵💫😢☹️ MAY THE LORD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIER HEARTS TO KEEP TAKING CARE OF EACH OTHER‼️🙏 what an eye opener 😳😯🤔
Im also ashamed of my "spoilt" life compared to this amazing man, everything at my finger tips and i still complain at times. I wish i could give him my strength and use of legs to better care for himself and his father.
It's part of their culture. They love and respect their elders, whether be their own parents or other older folk in their culture. They were taught not only by saying its the thing to do (love respect and include their elders in their lives) but it was and still is shown in their lives to this day. The family always include the parents/grandparents along with children and in most cases uncle au ts.
This video jst made me realise...how i was being ungrateful to my life....and getting upset over my small problem.....the son is amazing.... hopefully they get well soon...❣️ From India...
This brought me to tears! So unbelievable! this man puts me to shame! His discipline, love and drive to take care of himself and his father is beyond amazing! I am in complete admiration !
What an inspiration this man is. It has really given me a reality check. Caring for himself with a debilitating condition/disability hadn't stopped him caring for his father and sweet rice ball. Total legend! Very sad that he can't afford a carer.....its the least he should be given.
Wow he can do more chores/tasks than able body people. Huge respect for him and doing all he can to take care of himself and his father. I’m brought to tears watching this story. 😢
I'm a caregiver. Even if I wasn't being paid, Id help this family out. Even if it was just once a week out of kindness to ease the burden. This is the sweetest thing I've ever seen
I was crying watching this. He was a very inspiring man, I salute him for showing LOVE & CARE to his father despite the circumstances he’s going through. This video reminds everyone to “never give up in life, keep it going”.
Absolutely heart-warming. The mental fortitude he possesses to keep this going is amazing. No complaining. No self-pity. The truest meaning of filial piety.
Sadly the goverment in china will not support them more,the money they receive is from the local goverment and only because they are not mainland china if they were in Beijing they would get zero support and civilian police would still take their food away. It is thanks to the volunteers coming to help them out that it is a little bit easier on the son. Never expect your goverment to help you out in the end they are not human anymore and do not care We need as a people to help eachother in difficult times,like the great wonderfull people here came to help this unfortunate son and his father.
that guy is real man! he was loyalty family! he doesn’t complain about himself he only care about father more important than himself he just seen okay with it he had my respectfully!!!!
He is one of the most ABLED HUMAN. he truly is the kind of person the world needs compassionate competent inspirational most of us are disabled compared to him.
I will do my best to allways appreciuate my life even more after seeing this, this man in the wheelchair is amazing and has such curage ,amazing love for his father and iron will.
So touching and indeed inspiring. I have this situation where I am physically and emotionally struggling but when i watch this, i was so ashamed of myself because at times I have the tendency to complain of what I am going through. This man is disabled yet you see in him the peace ,patience and love serving his father. I salute you sir.
@RLB when we looks up we’re nobody but when we look down we’re somebody always there more less unfortunate peoples in this world then ourselves. In your struggling moments always remember the peoples that loves you and the things you do have not look at things you don’t have.
Wow, taking care of himself, his father, and a cat, all while disabled. So much respect. He is so caring. Sending lots of prayers… I hope he can get the surgery soon.
My son has ankylosing spondylosis also, its not as bad as this man's yet. He does however lend a lot of support to caring for his autistic brother. He fights to combat the disease every day. Its truly is heartbreaking. Kudos for this man's ability to overcome the obstacles.
Watching this videos does two things. 1. It shows you the love and beauty that exists in people and how strong they can be. 2. Puts your troubles and situation into perspective and makes you realize that the things you're complaining about or the troubles you are hung up on aren't very big at all.
Just the best type of son, a reflection of how his father has raised him. A real man, looking after his own. He doesn't complain, he just does. Admirable to say the least. Well done brother.
As a caregiver myself, I will never complain again. This was very moving. I'm so happy to see people volunteering to help. Sometimes, a little help can make such a huge difference, to make life accessible.
I usually don’t cry, in fact I don’t think I ever cried at a SMCP video, but for this one, i had teared up a bit. Idk what was different, but definitely a very touching video
What an amazing son! Also can we just talk about how he is not only taking care of his dad like a champ but managing a furbaby too? Real devotion and strength! Nothing but respect for him.
I just want to thank this channel for always providing content that allows me to be appreciative for the life I have + to stay humble about it. There are always others that have it worse but it doesn’t mean they give up. I’m really inspired by this father-son duo and I thank you for sharing their story ❤️ p.s. that kitten was soooo cute!!
Same. Staying humble is my motto, but my devil advocate feel the opposite and I can't seem to control it. Ahh.. Why did this man have got married and had a child if he's disabled?
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huge respects to the son taking care of his father while having his own disability's such a caring son
And taking care of that cute little kitten too haha
Yeah
Aaamen bruh.🙏🏻☀️
@@EvingaAngel Amen
@@readmychanneldescription1237 But your channel description automatically makes you identifiable as a troll anyways, so thanks for telling us that
Even the people who are not disabled were not taking care of their parents but this man he's is just amazing..
Can only move his arms and hands but he is still cooking everday for his father ?! He is cleaning every room, is going to grocery shopping, is doing chores as well and even helped his father with washing his face ?
And he is still worried about him being a burden to his family ?
This man is doing something that majority of people nowadays *wouldn't even do for themselves* like cleaning and cooking everyday, let alone taking care and respecting the older ones.
This man is truly a role model !
you are absolutely right
@@readmychanneldescription1237 Don't spread such foolishness nothing about BLM is anti anything let alone Asian
Well, if you got something thats not so obvious, not diagnosed properly, a rare disease, or a mental illness, then society gonna be hard for you.
@@readmychanneldescription1237 BLM is irrelevant with this video. What an idiot u are!
This man went from a completely normal life to severely disabled in 3 months and still takes care of his dad. Bless his heart.
I'm both disappointed and disgusted with his relative, leaving him alone with his father when they both just needed helps, I mean, what if he fell down or worst, how could those relative just abandoned them like that
@@gambler942 easier said than done. You're not in their shoes so you don't know what they're going through, at least they (the relatives) took care of them for some time, maybe life was just so hard that they can only take care of themselves. I'm sure most people would be "selfish" if they're going through tough time
@@AnhNguyen-bp1qk then at least hired a nanny or someone
@@gambler942 Ah yes. Clearly they're a rich family. Yes... Hire a nanny. Are you willing to donate to hire a nanny for this poor chap?
@@murimurimrui I try and do it in a heartbeat, what about you, would you do it, would you donate aswell
This makes me not want to complain about anything ever again. I have a lot of respect for the both of them! Beautiful!!
I think it's ok to be upset about things but just do what you can to help the situation as complaining I find doesn't improve or solve anything. Seeing this video, I think the son given his condition and his care for his father is amazing ♥️
Here in the free west we complain alot, its in our blood as its our right. But that said.. the rights is only to protect us, it doesnt mean its the "right" thing to do..
Un-imaginable. Heart felt respect, and prayers for both.
Indeed 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭😭
being in a wheelchair didn’t make you useless
But not for china
@@milanmisli5051 😊
@@milanmisli5051 racist
The Dad is very lucky to have him as his son..respect 100
Yea, since chinese social network, and authorities dont help
Thank you for this comment through Our Lord Jesus Christ in His Holy Name Amen.
@@gabrielcarlobato3565 Amen
@@milanmisli5051 true, not ideal. But how is any government supposed to help in a situation like this. Give him a maid? Put in a hospital?
@@michaeldengg
Legit question, you got me
"I can't be selfish." He's a true example of resilience. Wishing Zhang and his father all the best they desire. In this messed up world, it's refreshing to see some people hearts are pure gold.
This man is a total boss. The physical and mental strength it must take, I'm blown away. 💜
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His parents did a great job raising a kind, independent and strong son. An absolute inspiration to a lot of us!
yes he did, what a wonderful son and human being, my respect to both.
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I'm crying because of how big his heart is. He is such an inspiration.
Who????
@@DrMOB-kt7tt
Zhang Xiaodong
@@andypandy7769 because at the moment their government is actually evil, just like the usa and brazil, myanmar, afghanistan, and north korea...
Cry yeah I would
@@DrMOB-kt7tt who dumb and dumber thats who
The fact that he even knew that his relatives needed to take a break, so he moved out 😭 and took care of him AND his father! My heart broke.
@DON'T READ MY PROFILE 🤓
It's legitimately sad that he delt like he was hurting/being a burden to his relatives.
AND at the end of the video he talked about wanting to take care of them as well
I'll never complain about my problems ever again after watching this. Massive respect to this man 👏🏻👏🏻
@•I N K Y• what?🗿
@•I N K Y• Someone dying is small?🗿
@•I N K Y• when did that person ever said that
@•I N K Y• rip humanity then
@ Phonky Cereal
No one was “implying” anything. You said your friend died, then followed it up with laughing emojis.
How tacky are you? I feel bad your friend associated with someone like you. >.>
This makes me feel my daily “problems” aren’t problems at all, and to be thankful for everything.
Very true. I feel the same
So true! I’m literally crying thinking about it 😔
❤️
The way he feeds his dad is priceless ❤️
And the way his dad eats from his son is also priceless ❤️
I couldn’t watch without tears !!
Same!
This man is a true hero. Hope I'll remember him when having any "problems".
He literally has his "own" disability, and just finds a way to put it aside for his father's benefit. Huge respect!
Jesus is so proud ♥️✝️👍
@@rosegold799 yep. he will be so rich in rewards in heaven
I hope surgery is an option for him. He struggles, yet he gets it all done. So glad to see volunteers are coming in and hope they keep helping the both of them. You never give up because of your parents.
Spine surgery is very risky operation
They said about joints, not spine.
@@AlfiyaOzhanovaAS affects the spine and sacrum joint mainly, and spinal surgery is always risky.
I would volunteer too, it is blessing, be part of helping make their life easier.
Bless you..❤@@Brancaalice
He is more useful as a disabled than half of the able-bodied people I know. Also, he's got a huge heart. Love will really make us do the impossible for those we care about. I hope father and son are living better.
Right? All these able bodied people going around saying they can’t work and this guy with ALS is taking care of his hemiplegic father and doing all the chores! It just is so inspirational and should make lazy people feel ashamed smh
Amen...that is SOOOO true.
@@chrisdooley6468 💯💯💯
@@chrisdooley6468 the correct abbreviation is AS.
BLM is anti-Asian
There are parents who are much better off than this father yet abandon their child with less disabilities than this son. There are children who are much able than this son and yet abandon their parents. This duo are heaven's blessings for each other. I hope they remain healthy and safe.
Absolutely!
Amen! Amen! AMEN!!
They aren't real parents just selfish rotten human beings,you never abandon your child for disability reasons just never.
This man can't walk talk or even use anything other than his arms and hands and he still does more for his paralyzed father than most spoiled children in america would do for their ageing parents,they rather just ditch them in a somber old people home where they often get abused aswell.
@@KimchiYeo
Your comment is just perfect.
I couldn't agree more with you.
Says those who never look after a disabled person before.
So heart warming. Dad is lucky to have a son like this.
Indeed!
Yeah to of a kind that is nice 👌
Yes😢😢
@@abyss6681 yeah
As a med student, I just learned about ankylosing spondylitis. The interesting thing is that as I'm learning about these diseases, I never fully appreciate the importance of the information since there's so much to learn in a very short time. Videos like this help put things into perspective and humble me. I never knew the condition could be so debilitating. All I knew was that it can be caused by some sort of breakdown in the gut microbiome layer, that then causes IL-17 and and other cytokines to inflame the spine, resulting in a "bamboo" like spine, and leading to back pain, pain at tendon insertion sites, etc. No where did I take time to actually step back and think about patients with this condition until now- just the text book definitions of how this condition may present. Thank you for your video and for inspiring me to step beyond the books more. Your incredible strength and mental determination also inspires me beyond medicine and for this I'm grateful.
You're absolutely right. I'm an optometrist and we learnt about ankylosing spondylitis and the other HLAB27+ diseases which because they're heavily associated with anterior uveitis. So we always have to rule out those diseases when a patient has uveitis. But I had no idea it can be so debilitating to the point of being wheelchair bound.
This is very humbling. Makes me think of how shallow and petty my "problems" are. What an incredible display of love, sacrifice and the strength of the human spirit.
I feel the same way Maria. I think a lot of people reflect when they see stuff like this. It humbles us and hopefully afterward we make some sort of change in our life to help ppeople. Some people see this and , it doesn't phase them at all.
Everyone is different and i recommend to take care of yourself and then others. How can you help others if you do not care for yourself first? Your problems are not petty, everyone deals with different problems everyday. Please take care of yourself!!
Stop invalidating your problems
@@justinwinn01 she/he isn't invalidating her/his problems. She's/he's only reflecting about the situation showed in this video (the guy which is an super hero ❤️) what helps anyone to be more humble and grateful about even the minor things in life. Some of our problems are insignificant and we tend to complain about everything, this kind of reflection help us to be a better person, with more integrity. It's a healthy process so stop projecting acceptance of a miserable state (built in ungrateful behavior) and work for a new positive perspective.
Well Said👏🏾
Nothing but the highest respect to him,the volunteers and the doctors.
and his cat
Most times I dislike social media, but this kind of stuff makes me thankful for it! Words cannot describe how much respect I have for the son. Just wow.
Same last name as me
Me too
@Noogle Noodle Nice way to rub it in
Couldn’t have said it better💯
Now there's no reason for us to have any excuses. This brave man is something else, hope he gets to have a surgery to be able to stand again
@•I N K Y• ayo chill
This takes "Where there is will, there is a way" to a whole new level.
I agree, I know someone who can do so much, but uses her mental illness as an excuse to even learning cooking (when she can work and doesnt have any physical disabilities). Spent almost million on hospitalizations, only to stop meds, and literally waving her illness even tho no one ask if she has one
BLM is anti-Asian
@@readmychanneldescription4406 Ok but why does that matter here
So much respect to the son despite his disability he taking care of his father. I know how hard taking care of his father because when my dad still alive I was the one who took care until he died. I never regret that's how I love my father.
That father raised an incredible man and now that man is returning the favor. There is so much love, devotion, understanding, and respect there.
You really can’t make an excuse after watching this man. If he can do this literally anyone can. Mad props sir.
I'm so touched and ready to cry.I never see a loving son to his paralyzed dad.For me he is the most abled man that shows so much responsibilties.I would love to share this video.
"the most abled man" 💜💜 indeed
@@readmychanneldescription1237 BLM is irrelevant on this platform, smarten up!
Being disabled doesn’t mean helpless. This son is using his abilities to help his more disabled father. What a blessing he is! We have a similar situation in our home.
You do what ya gotta do or you just quit. For most of us, quitting is simply not an option...it's just not in us.
@@lucylulusuperguru3487 Preach!
He is an incredible human being, a true inspiration.
They say superheroes wear capes, but not all of them. Look at this superhero!!!! Wow!!! He should be getting a medal!!!!
Even with his condition, he only thinks about others (his goal is to take care of his father, uncle and aunt). He was raised well. Such a selfless man. I hope life gets better for all of them...
UNBELIEVABLE selflessness and determination. If only everyone in the world were like this, it would be a much better place.
I agree :)
BLM is anti-Asian
I disagree. If everyone were disabled and had kids the world would be a worse place.
This warms my heart ❤️❤️❤️
@@NickoGibson Excuse you? Even if everyone was "disabled," the world would just need to think harder. What would you think if you were disabled and you saw this? Being born disabled or having it is something no one can prevent, so it's not their fault if they were born or have a trait that makes them "disabled."
I guess the dad when he was healthy also take care the son very well. So now the son can take care the father very well too.
Huge respect I hope they get more help
I think so.
This right here is absolute love and respect and going far beyond what sons do for their parents. Amazing
It's already hard taking care of someone paralyzed, but you yourself having a disability makes it harder but you're still staying strong through the challenges! Stay strong and hope you can get the surgery soon! You deserve it!
@KINDLY HELP ME REACH TO 100K SUB And wow, you type rudely in all caps. So in regards to your screen name, no.
What breaks my heart is that the man is the epitome of filial piety. At first, I was annoyed wondering why the relatives were in an economic bind and was too stressed out to help. But then when it was explained said relatives were his elderly aunt and uncle who were childless, I immediately took my assumptions back (I thought there might be cousins dodging responsibility).
I do hope he gets the surgery to fix his medical condition but I'm still sad with an able body, he would look after 3 people instead of one. It makes perfect sense for him to look after his aunt and uncle, but he has to make sure he gives himself enough post operative recovery period or else he can stress his body and cause further medical downtime. 😓
I will never take life for granted. Also never complain about nothing. You can see the love this young man has for his father. I hope he can get the surgery, he's definitely in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 ❤ .
I love u and am so proud of u💜💜💜
:)
I imagined the son is paying his respect back to his father who's taken care of him, probably all his life. This is very honorable.
Ya Allah....i have no words to describe the son.helping his father although being disabled himself....so much courage... inspiration....May Allah bless them and ease their suffering. Aameen ❣️
They aint Muslim .
@@smileandsaycheese44 AND?
@@smileandsaycheese44 Fr, so what? You saying people cant send their prayers in their own way? I dont mind if you are anti-muslim or smth but like chill, just let that dude send his prayers in his style
So they ain’t praying to it.
@@smileandsaycheese44 i know they are not Muslim but they are humans .....
Huge respect to him, especially given how he also has no ill will against his relatives for leaving them. What an amazing person
@@lorena7647 oh that's even more selfless of him... Thanks for the correction
Amazing. Not only him, his dad too doesn't show an ounce of giving up. They way he took the spoon and feed himself. This man must've feel all kinds of feeling when being diagnosed, leaving their relative's house, every morning even...yet so strong willed.
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He could have been just complaining of how unfair his life is, but he took the higher ground. Respect and prayers for them ❤
@MasterZen prayers work but it's not a magic pill
I'm glad there are people who are willing to help him and his father even though they get nothing in return. I hope everyone lives long and gets blessed.
I have never seen anything so selfless in all of my life. We whine and complain, but this man takes it (life) like a champ. What a wonderful human being.
the big spirit that he got 🥺
It's also very wholesome that he remembers the relatives that helped him and includes them in his goals.
Most people would have acted differently.. Like as we were a burden for them, I'm going to show them we do fine without them
The worldcwould be an amazing place to live if more people followed this mans selfless example .
A lot of able bodied ppl take so much for granted. We can do so much but let little things be our obstacle. I am so glad that this son has a can-do attitude. Living is for the living.
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I thought my life was hard but after I watched this, oh man.. nothing compares this dude. All the best for them. He is my inspiration🙏🙏🙏
What a legend, deserves the upmost respect. If anyone knows how I can donate money to money to this amazing individual, please advise.
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Find their social media either tik tok or online for the name and message them..
contact south china morning post through their website...
Wow i'm impressed with this man❤❤❤better than those people with out disabilities!
His father raised him right. This is probably the first time I ever saw a disabled son take care of his father like that. Too many kids take parents for granted but the son is extremely amazing. He is disabled himself but that does not stop him from taking care of his father and he refuses to be a burden to other people. Huge respect to the son.
Highest respect to the son for taking care of his father. Many blessings sent to them both. Where there is a will there is a way.
This is touching yet sad at the same time. Taking care of someone for long term is no easy feat even as an abled person, and this man manages to take care of his dad AND himself while disabled. I'm glad some volunteers are doctors are helping them, but the government should have provided sufficient help to the most vulnerable members of society in the first place.
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Zhang is gold, pure gold ❤
Why is it that people who try their hardest and deserve to live always have to suffer like this?
These guys deserve to live more than I do. I'm embarassed and ashamed of myself as a human being.
Me too
I am ashamed of the many complaints that I make about my very privileged life that I have 😟😫.
Dont worry.... I think all of us feel the same way too.
I with you, I feel pretty ashamed myself for thinking I have problems, seeing this makes my problems look like sand next to a rock 😵💫😢☹️ MAY THE LORD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIER HEARTS TO KEEP TAKING CARE OF EACH OTHER‼️🙏 what an eye opener 😳😯🤔
Im also ashamed of my "spoilt" life compared to this amazing man, everything at my finger tips and i still complain at times. I wish i could give him my strength and use of legs to better care for himself and his father.
Lots of pray for this father-son duo, especially for the son because he really want to stand up again. Hope it will going so well😊
What an inspirational guy! We all can learn from his never give up attitude.
This son had to have been well taken care of by his Dad. Now he is honored to return the care. How courages.🙏🏽
It's part of their culture.
They love and respect their elders, whether be their own parents or other older folk in their culture.
They were taught not only by saying its the thing to do (love respect and include their elders in their lives) but it was and still is shown in their lives to this day.
The family always include the parents/grandparents along with children and in most cases uncle au ts.
This video jst made me realise...how i was being ungrateful to my life....and getting upset over my small problem.....the son is amazing.... hopefully they get well soon...❣️ From India...
This brought me to tears! So unbelievable! this man puts me to shame! His discipline, love and drive to take care of himself and his father is beyond amazing! I am in complete admiration !
The most abled man for me. Hat's off and huge respect to you man!! ❤️
What an inspiration this man is. It has really given me a reality check. Caring for himself with a debilitating condition/disability hadn't stopped him caring for his father and sweet rice ball. Total legend! Very sad that he can't afford a carer.....its the least he should be given.
Wow he can do more chores/tasks than able body people.
Huge respect for him and doing all he can to take care of himself and his father.
I’m brought to tears watching this story. 😢
I'm a caregiver. Even if I wasn't being paid, Id help this family out. Even if it was just once a week out of kindness to ease the burden. This is the sweetest thing I've ever seen
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Thank you for your kindness
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I was crying watching this. He was a very inspiring man, I salute him for showing LOVE & CARE to his father despite the circumstances he’s going through. This video reminds everyone to “never give up in life, keep it going”.
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Man!
This guy restores my faith on humanity!
How can you give up on anything else after seeing what this guy had to do taking care of himself and his father. Huge Respect
Looking at him makes me feel super ungrateful for everything I have…he’s truly an amazing human being and I hope he’s able to get the surgery he needs
Hope that when that time comes (said operation)there will be someone also who could take care of his paralyzed father and understood their situation.
Absolutely heart-warming. The mental fortitude he possesses to keep this going is amazing. No complaining. No self-pity. The truest meaning of filial piety.
I hope to see a update this is an incredible man to be in a wheelchair and still able to take care of himself the household and his father
Tremendous courage, determination and loyalty to succeed. I hope the Gov provide him and his father more supports.
Sadly the goverment in china will not support them more,the money they receive is from the local goverment and only because they are not mainland china if they were in Beijing they would get zero support and civilian police would still take their food away.
It is thanks to the volunteers coming to help them out that it is a little bit easier on the son.
Never expect your goverment to help you out in the end they are not human anymore and do not care
We need as a people to help eachother in difficult times,like the great wonderfull people here came to help this unfortunate son and his father.
ITS NOT YOUR DISABLETY BUT YOUR ABLETY AND CHARECTER THAT DEFINES YOU.
MUCH RESPECT
the father is lucky to have him
that guy is real man! he was loyalty family! he doesn’t complain about himself he only care about father more important than himself he just seen okay with it he had my respectfully!!!!
Thank you to the volunteers and doctor for helping them in any way possible ❤️❤️
He is a real trooper. One of the best in the world. Mad respect for this person!
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Its a pure love not a duty. A person who needs help is helping his Dad. What else world is doing War , hatred , selfishness , bias etc.. 😔😔😔
He is one of the most ABLED HUMAN. he truly is the kind of person the world needs compassionate competent inspirational most of us are disabled compared to him.
I will do my best to allways appreciuate my life even more after seeing this, this man in the wheelchair is amazing and has such curage ,amazing love for his father and iron will.
So touching and indeed inspiring. I have this situation where I am physically and emotionally struggling but when i watch this, i was so ashamed of myself because at times I have the tendency to complain of what I am going through. This man is disabled yet you see in him the peace ,patience and love serving his father. I salute you sir.
@RLB when we looks up we’re nobody but when we look down we’re somebody always there more less unfortunate peoples in this world then ourselves. In your struggling moments always remember the peoples that loves you and the things you do have not look at things you don’t have.
Wow, taking care of himself, his father, and a cat, all while disabled. So much respect. He is so caring. Sending lots of prayers… I hope he can get the surgery soon.
This is the most insane son ever, even if he has disabilities he still has to help his PARALYSED dad.Respect
Великое счастье иметь такого заботливого, мудрого , с сильной, твердой волей сына, человека с большой буквы. Здоровья Вам, всех благ.
This is amazing. Some normal sons don't even take care of their dads, and you still give him all the care in the world.
My son has ankylosing spondylosis also, its not as bad as this man's yet. He does however lend a lot of support to caring for his autistic brother. He fights to combat the disease every day. Its truly is heartbreaking. Kudos for this man's ability to overcome the obstacles.
Watching this videos does two things.
1. It shows you the love and beauty that exists in people and how strong they can be.
2. Puts your troubles and situation into perspective and makes you realize that the things you're complaining about or the troubles you are hung up on aren't very big at all.
Just the best type of son, a reflection of how his father has raised him. A real man, looking after his own.
He doesn't complain, he just does. Admirable to say the least. Well done brother.
As a caregiver myself, I will never complain again. This was very moving. I'm so happy to see people volunteering to help. Sometimes, a little help can make such a huge difference, to make life accessible.
My eyes were full of tears,Huge respect to this courageous,caring son.May all parents have children like him....
I usually don’t cry, in fact I don’t think I ever cried at a SMCP video, but for this one, i had teared up a bit. Idk what was different, but definitely a very touching video
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What an amazing son! Also can we just talk about how he is not only taking care of his dad like a champ but managing a furbaby too? Real devotion and strength! Nothing but respect for him.
Seeing this breaks my heart. We all have to be really thankful for our healths. ❤
I just want to thank this channel for always providing content that allows me to be appreciative for the life I have + to stay humble about it. There are always others that have it worse but it doesn’t mean they give up. I’m really inspired by this father-son duo and I thank you for sharing their story ❤️ p.s. that kitten was soooo cute!!
Agree totally
Well said
So true
Indeed bud. Indeed 🌷
Same.
Staying humble is my motto, but my devil advocate feel the opposite and I can't seem to control it.
Ahh.. Why did this man have got married and had a child if he's disabled?
Just when I wanted to give up after spending 3 months at hospital. Thank you for this video!
Get better.
This completely washed my soul and heart over with love and empathic compassion happiness 💯
I have the highest respect for people who take care of their parents. But this is over and above - incredible! Blessings And love from Canada.
This video humbled me, I have no excuses for my laziness.
All I can say is that I will try to be a better man.
He is an inspiration. I wish all the best for him and his father!!
He is a true inspiration. His life should make it to school books so that children can learn where there is a WILL there is a way.
Where there is love, their is strength and grace. Love is why.