anyone saying the dad should be embarrassed for staying at home and taking care of his family does not truly understand the value of having a family. he sacrificed so much for his son and that also for so long, I am very proud of that man and it would be great if men had even half of what he has. truly one in a million, go super dad! live you life and wish all your dreams will be fulfilled!
im stayed at home dad too taking care of my only child....all by myself!! no wife, no maid, no parents to help... used to have maid but due to covid i avoid risking us ... as for money i have passive income to rely on..so it's all good! just miss female companion sometimes can be lonely when kid is at school....
@@secrets.295 if my daughter and her partner makes such an agreement then why would I be against it if she isn’t harmed or unhappy in any way…and here the couple did say they decided on who earned more and that happened to be the wife. For me the personality and character of the man is more important than the amount that he earns…
Being a stay at home dad is not shameful! Jue Ming's dad, you are a caregiver and you take care of your home so that your wife can work in peace. YOU are working too! Your sacrifice and your work is valuable, please don't think that what you do has no value; it does. Not everyone can do what you do.
Some wives do not think that way. I know of one who never does house cleaning chores , nor contribute any allowance to the household but expects the husband to cook and do all these cleaning. Yet, the husband is also working!
But in his society the men are the providers, so dont dismiss his feeling of being ashamed, yeah what he doing is not shameful but as man in his society it is not normal to be stay at home husband
For me, this is a real man who gave his all to his wife and children. People who go through this on a daily basis will understand this is an ultimate service to the family we all care about.
I am impressed by the sincere eloquence of the 15 yo son expressing his appreciation for his dad - not many teens are able to do that. It shows me that the father's and the entire family's sacrifices have not been in vain. One more thing, how many teenagers are so effectively and confidently bilingual?
Dad is selfless in giving up a part of his identity to help sort things at home, Mummy is out working hard to provide for everyone and Jue Ming's positive energy should be admired. So many things to learn and admire from this family. jiayou!
I am also a full time caregiver dad. Difference is my daughter is low functioning and still mentally 7 even though she is physically 14. The mum was against me staying home and also do not support us. My daughter will probably never able to say those words that Jue Ming said at the end. I would literally cry if she is able to say it one day.
You are great dad. My prayers for you and your child.One who satisfies his heart will be peaceful at soul.You are doing the same.Train your child to be more independent.Let the universe help you both.
Dear fren, do not despair, all ur love n care for ur child will be ur reward in heaven one day, God takes all tis deeds into account, u are given tis child coz God knows u will care for her n He will remember it, all ur sweat n tears are never wasted, keep up ur good work! ❤❤
He is a responsible and capable father. Being a stay-at-home parent is a full time job, and it is not easy. He has done well and in my eyes, he is just as successful as any working father out there
@@datekaname2246 Again no such thing as a deadbeat dad, you NEVER apply that logic to women who also never take care of their children EVEN after getting alimony money🤣 Not to mention it's Women who have the power to kick men out of the family & not allow them to see their kids
@@FineWine-v4.0 deadbeat mothers also exist. If you abandon your children with no intention to care for them and they are of *your* blood then you are a deadbeat.
Obviously, this dad and family has done an excellent job to help Jue Ming grow so well!!!! To this dad, Please take heart tt Jue Ming has grown up so well in spite of his conditions. You and your wife have done all tt is needed for your family!! Salute and bountiful blessings for your family. May you also gain back good health and attain the instructor's qualification! There is much hope for you and your family. Praying for yall! God bless and stay well!!!
4:45 Jue Ming is such a sweet boy. Even when he's most likely in pain after the unsuccessful attempts of injection, still went and console Grandma. His parents definitely taught him well. I'm wishing that Jue Ming grows up well and always surrounded by love. Also, to Dad and Mom, you guys did your best. Dad should not beat over himself for staying home. In fact it's such a great sacrifice. People would be touched when they know your story. Jiayou! ❤
Jue Ming's Dad-- I just want you to know that YOU are a HERO. I am a mom of a adult with autism now 30 years old. The years of sacrifice is worth it. Before my husband passed away-- he was the at-home Dad for 9 years and it was one of the most fulfilling times of his life-- to care for his autistic son. I wish you well, good health and for you to discover inexplicable joy.
Be understanding of people's situation - the pain of this father was not being able to additionally help and provide much more than what he sincerely hoped for (which is to be the additional source of income next to his wife.) He really wants to be a contributor of his household. I genuinely respect that very much.
We have an Autistic son too but my wife and I decided to continue our careers so that we can provide financial security for our son after we pass away. We realized that our son will have employment limitations no matter how much he gets trained so having a sizeable nest egg would ensure that he lives a secure and comfortable life without needing to find employment. I also moved my work to our home when he was five so I was able to spend more time with him and attend most of his special school activities. Giving up one income was just too risky for our retirement and our son's future livelihood. Mentally I'm in the same boat as the guy in the video, I cut myself off from many things as I was too worried and preoccupied with our son. Realistically, I can only have some of my life back as having an Autistic child and adult is lifetime work.
His son has hemophilia, not just autism. If you watch an earlier CNA video where they showed his son's life with hemophilia, you can see that they used to have to do injections, multiple trips to the hospital due to injuries when he was younger, etc.
@@jllouie I get that. We live in HK and we hired a domestic helper to aid us with our Son as he's prone to epileptic seizures. Hiring a domestic helper is also possible in Singapore. Surely they can train a Domestic Helper for injections and accompany the son to school. And the entire point of my comment is this: The biggest worry of Parents with children with Special Needs is not when the Parents are alive. The biggest worry is the Special Needs child outliving the Parents because of their limited earning capabilities. My wife and I not only took care of our son's current needs but also his financial needs after we pass away. Now I'm not saying the parent was wrong giving up his career but for me, I wanted to cover both ends as I know our Son won't earn enough to survive alone and so my wife and I can live comfortably in retirement. The other reason why I didn't give up my career is it would be totally unfair to leave the burden of our son's financial needs to our two daughters as they have their own families to take care of.
@@robocop581 My adult son is autistic, although high functioning he trusts everyone and could easily be led astray or taken advantage of by greedy people. I have no worries now, although my ex husband; his dad left us. My son is physically healthy but I knew of a boy with hemophilia who went to school, it can certainly be done.
Must be a Karen being Karen, who made such horrible comments. I hope he doesn't take seriously Karen's stupid comments. Karen: Mind your own freaking business. He doesn't owe you or anybody an explanation about his life.
A great father. Why not? It makes perfect sense. The son is very well brought up by the family. Good job, papa! God bless the family. Not easy to be a homemaker.
Jue ming speaks so well!!!..and hes full of positive vibes..The family had raised him up very well..Wish the family best of health..And continue to find happiness..
On this Father’s Day, i would like to salute Jue Ming’s dad for being so calm and caring to his family. And Jue Ming despite all that he had been through (always having a Daddy by his side) understands the pains and worries that his Dad had to endure and now is sensible enough to let Daddy pursue his Tai Chi dreams! Kudos for the love & kindness surrounding Jue Ming and family! ❤
I'm so glad that this ended on such a positive note with the father realizing that he needs to take care of his own mental and physical health too. Tai Chi seems like a great way for him to do both, and to also build bonds of friendship he very much needs outside of his family. If it can also provide a source of income, even better! I hope he understands that he DOES work. He is working for his family, as well as being a healthcare provider to his son. He cooks, cleans, tutors, mentors, nurtures, etc. He is not unemployed. His son clearly appreciates and respects him as well. He's obviously done a great job.
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer two months ago. I resigned from my previous job to find a new job that is flexible so that I can accompany my mom with her chemotherapy, checkups, etc. Being a caregiver is really hard. I respect and admire the Jue Ming's Dad for his patience and love. Praying for their family's good health.
I am so impressed and so heartened to see such a committed father. His son speaks well (in Mandarin and Cantonese) and has a sense of humour. Your sacrifice is worth it! Thank you for being such an encouragement.
The value he generates at home is definitely worth more than the amount of money he could earn outside. It’s just in different forms, priceless and rare. Excellent example of an excellent father! By the way, his spoken mandarin quite “excellent” too😂 成功路上并不拥挤，因为坚持的人不多。 你是个成功的爸爸👍🏻
All children need more attention than we working parents can give to them. For this wonderful dad staying home because of his child needs is a great gift for his son. Hats off to this loving and caring father.
you are doing it for your child, you are miles ahead of other fathers, your love for your child is the greatest gift to him, and you showed him what dedication and sacrifice is, i am sure he will grow up to be a well adjusted young man
Very impressed with the Dad. Not an easy task but seeing how well his kid is being brought up, his sacrifices are well worth it. Hoping one day, things will turn out better and they can go on to pursue their interests in life.
Jue Ming you have an awesome dad! He did such an excellent job of taking care of you, and you turned out to be just as awesome in taking care of your own needs. I salute both of you and I pray that blessings overflow into your home. May God provide you with all your needs and fill your hearts with great joy, peace, and love. Thank you for sharing this beautiful love story. ❤
Dear Jue Ming Daddy.. please keep close to heart and remember that YOU ARE ONE AMAZING DAD.. one who loves his child wholeheartedly and is super responsible. People who sadly cannot understand honestly cannot understand will never understand. People forget that 'mummy' role is a full time job without pay, OT, PH and recognition.. You deserve as much love fulfilling a parent role.. Add oil..
Always encouraged to watch Jue Ming and his family. Dear Jue Ming's dad, you've have done an amazing job raising your son (of course with recognition to your wife too). I hope you no longer feel affected by negative comments as your hard work and sacrifice is evident just by looking at how wonderful Jue Ming has grown up to become.
this is so touching! i shed tears while watching this short video. and can i say the dad’s and son’s chinese proficiency are amazing!! the terms they use and the fact that they can express themselves so well in chinese - that’s admirable. 😊
I am a stay-at-home dad by choice. I have 3 young kids and I choose to spend my time bringing them up rather than pursue my career because I love spending time with them and watching them grow into young adults. It is also an important time for proper guidance especially in this fast paced age and to instill good values in them so they become good members of society. I do share the same discrimination that this father does from comments and remarks, sometimes made by people off hand and not properly thought out, that being "jobless" is a lazy lifestyle, or that without a career it is shameful. Actually this is the very kind of thinking I hope my children will never fall into, that they learn that unity in the family is one of the pillars of strong society. There is more to life than the pursuit of wealth, and we can never be satisfied by earning more and more money. A life of content with moderation is the key to internal happiness. Being a parent is a job... it doesn't pay with a salary, but it imparts dividends over and over until the end of our lives. It is the best job in the world.
Your selflessness and sacrifice is inspiring. Jue Ming is lucky to have you as his dad! Social norm is not as important as your purpose to take care of your family!
Salute and highest respect to the home staying, caregiving and truly loving Father. Sacrificing one's career path for the sake of one truly loved child of his is truly admirable. May such like-minded fathers like you grow in numbers. Happy Father's Day!
Much respect to this family for their love and support for each other. Happy Father's Day to Mr Lee - Jue Ming's bright and joyful personality is a testament to your dedication and care. Wishing you all health and happiness!
Daddy, your sacrifice is totally worth it. See how much your son loves you! You've built a loving family and your son is fully benefitting from your efforts, that's most important. More power to you!
A normal job 8am-6pm mon-fri. A full time stay home mom/dad is 24/7...even on weekends and PH. No MC , no benefits and no bonus. Salute and jia you! Happy Father's Day~
Jue Ming's Dad, you are more of a man than most men out there! Your dedication to your family is truly inspiring! Please don't ever feel embarrassed for choosing this path.
I was a stay at home mom while my kids were young. Cos my younger one was sick. N needed me to b there. Now that they r adults they told me my achievements r yours n I can b what I can b cos of yr being there for us when we needed u most. Jue Ming dad u have done super well . Being a stay at home parent is not doing nothing it’s a full time job only we get paid by love . 你做得很好。你是个很棒的爸爸
Being a full-time carer is much more difficult than having a normal 9-5 job. This is in addition to all the household chores such as cooking, cleaning, shopping for food, laundry etc. There is nothing shameful because it's a very important role. No one can look after a child better than his Mum or Dad.
If you work the pay taxes you still have to go back home, do house chores and deal with your kids. Your life is even harder then and you lay flat at the end of the day. Stop making excuses for lazy bum.
Looking at Jue Ming been such a sweet teenage, Jue Ming Daddy's hardwork and sacrifice paid off. This is your achievement and you should be proud of it as you are a inspiration to all the Daddy in the World including me! Thanks for showing us Daddy's love is equally important! 🙏
This entire family is an inspiration.....the love they have for one another and their stoicism and strength of character shine through the screen. Thank you for featuring them ❤
YOU ARE AMAZING - DAD AND MOM !!! YOUR WORK IS THE HARDEST, AND YOU HAVE MORE DIGNITY THAN OTHER PARENTS !!! YOUR CHILDREN ARE NUMBER #1!!! YOU ARE #1 PARENTS!
So much respect for the dad! Being a stay at home parent is way harder than go to work. Hope you achieve your dreams and start living your own life!!! Enjoy it! Sendings lotsa support and love from the netherlands!
Sir, you are a wonderful father. And Jue Ming I hope you will always love and care for your parents no matter what will become of them one day. Trust me the day will come when you will have to be the one to care for them and I hope you will willingly do so to reciprocate their efforts.
What a lovely video showing the real life heroes in our society deeply Sickened by patriarchy. Loved the father and son bond and how they are smiling all through despite all the hardships. Inspiring❤
U are a great dad, your family should be proud n appreciative of your sacrifice, not every man will be willing to do that, Happy Father's Day, wish you good health to enjoy your latter days, all the best to u & family!
Your family raised a positive attitude and mentally strong son. He was able to console his grandma when she cried slipping in a joke in Cantonese. I think that boy will go a long way in his life despite his condition. He will be fine. On the other hand take care of yourself dear Dad. Your mental health is important to keep you going for the family.
my father was a stay at home dad as well. it wasn't easy most of all because just like this uncle my dad too was battling self-esteem issues. he wasn't stay at home on his own will. but I wish my dad knew and could embrace his role as it meant so much to me.
I also have the same blood condition as jue ming- hemophilia B. While im already 39 and with 2 kids, it is my wife who is earning for the family. I learned to inject on my own during my college years. Each one of us has our own problems what’s important is to keep on moving and not take life too seriously!
As a father of 4 grown children, I must say that you are a fantastic super hero father! 加油伟大的爸爸！！！！You are right that you need to start taking care of your personal well being, so that you have the strength to journey on.....
Wow this is great! The dad is so wonderful and the son is so cheery here too and it's wonderful that they have a very loving relationship. The son, perhaps as a result of his high functioning autism, is also able to express his feelings to his family so directly. Really wonderful to see and hope it all works out for the family, including for the dad and he can also continue his taiji instructor passion!
What an admirable and lovely family! Breaks my heart when Grandma cries and Jueming comforted her so cheekily and bravely. And Mr Lee, you went against social norms and provided the best you have to for your family. Kudos to you.
You are an amazing father, and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in staying at home. Your contributions to the family are invaluable. Thanks to your efforts, your son has grown to be independent and well-taught. Please continue your great work and remember to take care of your own health as well. I wish your family health and happiness, and hope you find opportunities to fulfill your own dreams someday!
What an AMAZING DAD. HE protects, teaches and helps his son with everyday life. This is an inspirational true story of love and patience. I pray he’ll understand fully what a HERO he is to this son. Thank you for sharing this beautiful family. 🤍🤍🤍 N. California
Such selfless love of a father for his son , wife and family. May you keep fighting and there is hope, life at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing your life of courage with us.
His unconditional love to his son and his willingness to take care his family this way is unbelievable! You have my utmost respect, sir! You are truly a great father!
Theres a chinese drama showcase of this type of stay-home dad who took care of everything featuring actor Chen Hanwei. His character is what we called penguin father. Theres no shame for a father doing this kind of duty even though he might lost touch with work industry for between 10-30 years for some i came across with. Family always comes first and we must appreciate their sacrifice. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Despite his conditions, I find Jue Ming to be a very sensible, brave and independent kid, more so than other "normal kids" I've come across tbh. This is testament of the parents' effort and upbringing. So keep your chin up Dad! 你的付出孩子都感受得到！
There is nothing shameful to be a stay at home parent. Jue ming is well brought up and your sacrifice is worth it. I hope more recognition can be given to any stay at home parent and help them get back into the workforce. 14 years especially is a long and difficult journey. Your courage is commendable Sir.
As a father myself, I really respect you for giving up your job and be a full time dad to take care of your son with medical issues. My daughter is now going 2 years old, I myself experience staying home to take care of my daughter and I really couldn’t take it. I would rather work, because it’s easier. I truly truly respect and love my wife because she can do it full time as she enjoys it and I really can’t. Full time care giver for your children is 100 times harder than working outside. Respect to you, salute.
I am also the breadwinner for the house, and yet I also take care of the household myself. My husband just settle his own stuff. So I really admire dads who step up in their own way and have the tentacity to take care of the family
I have a lot of respect for you. You love your son very much to make this sacrifice. No men or fathers will do that for their kids and you did it because you want the best for your kids. Salute to you. 😊
anyone saying the dad should be embarrassed for staying at home and taking care of his family does not truly understand the value of having a family. he sacrificed so much for his son and that also for so long, I am very proud of that man and it would be great if men had even half of what he has. truly one in a million, go super dad! live you life and wish all your dreams will be fulfilled!
I can’t think of a reason why this should be embarrassing. Such a noble act.
im stayed at home dad too taking care of my only child....all by myself!! no wife, no maid, no parents to help... used to have maid but due to covid i avoid risking us ... as for money i have passive income to rely on..so it's all good! just miss female companion sometimes can be lonely when kid is at school....
He should get a job. A real paying job. How many of you guys out here will actually be ok if their daughter's husband don't work?
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@@secrets.295 if my daughter and her partner makes such an agreement then why would I be against it if she isn’t harmed or unhappy in any way…and here the couple did say they decided on who earned more and that happened to be the wife. For me the personality and character of the man is more important than the amount that he earns…
Being a stay at home dad is not shameful! Jue Ming's dad, you are a caregiver and you take care of your home so that your wife can work in peace. YOU are working too!
Your sacrifice and your work is valuable, please don't think that what you do has no value; it does. Not everyone can do what you do.
Toxic masculinity at work.
Some wives do not think that way. I know of one who never does house cleaning chores , nor contribute any allowance to the household but expects the husband to cook and do all these cleaning. Yet, the husband is also working!
But in his society the men are the providers, so dont dismiss his feeling of being ashamed, yeah what he doing is not shameful but as man in his society it is not normal to be stay at home husband
Agree @@Devilishlybenevolent
Thanks bro. Ur words means lot to me. I’ll continue do my Brest for June Ming
For me, this is a real man who gave his all to his wife and children. People who go through this on a daily basis will understand this is an ultimate service to the family we all care about.
I am impressed by the sincere eloquence of the 15 yo son expressing his appreciation for his dad - not many teens are able to do that. It shows me that the father's and the entire family's sacrifices have not been in vain.
One more thing, how many teenagers are so effectively and confidently bilingual?
Trilingual because I also hear him speak Cantonese to grandma, maybe even 4 languages if he also speaks Malaysian.
He speaks cantonese to ah ma
Dad is selfless in giving up a part of his identity to help sort things at home, Mummy is out working hard to provide for everyone and Jue Ming's positive energy should be admired.
So many things to learn and admire from this family. jiayou!
I am also a full time caregiver dad. Difference is my daughter is low functioning and still mentally 7 even though she is physically 14. The mum was against me staying home and also do not support us. My daughter will probably never able to say those words that Jue Ming said at the end. I would literally cry if she is able to say it one day.
jiayou! You're a great dad! Your daughter may not verbalise it but she definitely can feel it and show you through other means. God bless!
Jia you!!! Eventhough she couldnt expressed out verbally, but inside her heart she will thank you for being her greatest HERO.
You are great dad. My prayers for you and your child.One who satisfies his heart will be peaceful at soul.You are doing the same.Train your child to be more independent.Let the universe help you both.
Dear fren, do not despair, all ur love n care for ur child will be ur reward in heaven one day, God takes all tis deeds into account, u are given tis child coz God knows u will care for her n He will remember it, all ur sweat n tears are never wasted, keep up ur good work! ❤❤
Thank you for loving your child, its the ulitmate scarcifice. May you be blessed with favor 🙏🏻
He is a responsible and capable father. Being a stay-at-home parent is a full time job, and it is not easy. He has done well and in my eyes, he is just as successful as any working father out there
This gentleman put many men to shame. Kudos in demonstrating unconditional love.
There's nothing wrong with being a stay home dad who cooks and cleans. There are working fathers out there who are deadbeats.
FOR REAL!! many working dads giving reason of “ working hard to get money for wife and kids. “ but treating them so badly at home!
No such thing as deadbeat dads
@@FineWine-v4.0 deadbeat logic
@@datekaname2246 Again no such thing as a deadbeat dad,
you NEVER apply that logic to women who also never take care of their children EVEN after getting alimony money🤣
Not to mention it's Women who have the power to kick men out of the family & not allow them to see their kids
@@FineWine-v4.0 deadbeat mothers also exist. If you abandon your children with no intention to care for them and they are of *your* blood then you are a deadbeat.
Obviously, this dad and family has done an excellent job to help Jue Ming grow so well!!!!
To this dad,
Please take heart tt Jue Ming has grown up so well in spite of his conditions. You and your wife have done all tt is needed for your family!! Salute and bountiful blessings for your family. May you also gain back good health and attain the instructor's qualification! There is much hope for you and your family. Praying for yall! God bless and stay well!!!
4:45 Jue Ming is such a sweet boy. Even when he's most likely in pain after the unsuccessful attempts of injection, still went and console Grandma. His parents definitely taught him well. I'm wishing that Jue Ming grows up well and always surrounded by love. Also, to Dad and Mom, you guys did your best. Dad should not beat over himself for staying home. In fact it's such a great sacrifice. People would be touched when they know your story. Jiayou! ❤
Jue Ming's Dad-- I just want you to know that YOU are a HERO. I am a mom of a adult with autism now 30 years old. The years of sacrifice is worth it. Before my husband passed away-- he was the at-home Dad for 9 years and it was one of the most fulfilling times of his life-- to care for his autistic son. I wish you well, good health and for you to discover inexplicable joy.
请不要觉得shameful,你是个非常非常优秀伟大又了不起的爸爸！
Be understanding of people's situation - the pain of this father was not being able to additionally help and provide much more than what he sincerely hoped for (which is to be the additional source of income next to his wife.) He really wants to be a contributor of his household. I genuinely respect that very much.
We have an Autistic son too but my wife and I decided to continue our careers so that we can provide financial security for our son after we pass away. We realized that our son will have employment limitations no matter how much he gets trained so having a sizeable nest egg would ensure that he lives a secure and comfortable life without needing to find employment. I also moved my work to our home when he was five so I was able to spend more time with him and attend most of his special school activities. Giving up one income was just too risky for our retirement and our son's future livelihood. Mentally I'm in the same boat as the guy in the video, I cut myself off from many things as I was too worried and preoccupied with our son. Realistically, I can only have some of my life back as having an Autistic child and adult is lifetime work.
All the best to you n yr family.....thanks for sharing ❤
His son has hemophilia, not just autism. If you watch an earlier CNA video where they showed his son's life with hemophilia, you can see that they used to have to do injections, multiple trips to the hospital due to injuries when he was younger, etc.
@@jllouie I get that. We live in HK and we hired a domestic helper to aid us with our Son as he's prone to epileptic seizures. Hiring a domestic helper is also possible in Singapore. Surely they can train a Domestic Helper for injections and accompany the son to school.
And the entire point of my comment is this: The biggest worry of Parents with children with Special Needs is not when the Parents are alive. The biggest worry is the Special Needs child outliving the Parents because of their limited earning capabilities. My wife and I not only took care of our son's current needs but also his financial needs after we pass away. Now I'm not saying the parent was wrong giving up his career but for me, I wanted to cover both ends as I know our Son won't earn enough to survive alone and so my wife and I can live comfortably in retirement. The other reason why I didn't give up my career is it would be totally unfair to leave the burden of our son's financial needs to our two daughters as they have their own families to take care of.
@@robocop581 My adult son is autistic, although high functioning he trusts everyone and could easily be led astray or taken advantage of by greedy people. I have no worries now, although my ex husband; his dad left us. My son is physically healthy but I knew of a boy with hemophilia who went to school, it can certainly be done.
Why are netizens shaming the dad? Such a weird thing to do. And the boy lloks like he's growing up nicely. Good job dad.. ❤
Must be a Karen being Karen, who made such horrible comments. I hope he doesn't take seriously Karen's stupid comments.
Karen: Mind your own freaking business. He doesn't owe you or anybody an explanation about his life.
A great father. Why not? It makes perfect sense. The son is very well brought up by the family. Good job, papa! God bless the family. Not easy to be a homemaker.
Jue ming speaks so well!!!..and hes full of positive vibes..The family had raised him up very well..Wish the family best of health..And continue to find happiness..
Jue Ming Dad, you can be proud that your son displays so much understanding and emotional maturity. He will become your legacy.
On this Father’s Day, i would like to salute Jue Ming’s dad for being so calm and caring to his family. And Jue Ming despite all that he had been through (always having a Daddy by his side) understands the pains and worries that his Dad had to endure and now is sensible enough to let Daddy pursue his Tai Chi dreams! Kudos for the love & kindness surrounding Jue Ming and family! ❤
I'm so glad that this ended on such a positive note with the father realizing that he needs to take care of his own mental and physical health too. Tai Chi seems like a great way for him to do both, and to also build bonds of friendship he very much needs outside of his family. If it can also provide a source of income, even better! I hope he understands that he DOES work. He is working for his family, as well as being a healthcare provider to his son. He cooks, cleans, tutors, mentors, nurtures, etc. He is not unemployed. His son clearly appreciates and respects him as well. He's obviously done a great job.
This is a good Dad putting his own life on hold for the love of his son. I wish this family all the best. God bless them.
Don’t bother about others! You are an awesome dad with a lovely son! Good health to both of you!
My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer two months ago. I resigned from my previous job to find a new job that is flexible so that I can accompany my mom with her chemotherapy, checkups, etc. Being a caregiver is really hard. I respect and admire the Jue Ming's Dad for his patience and love. Praying for their family's good health.
I am so impressed and so heartened to see such a committed father. His son speaks well (in Mandarin and Cantonese) and has a sense of humour. Your sacrifice is worth it! Thank you for being such an encouragement.
He’s a great dad & the son is blessed to have a dad who sacrifice so much for him
The value he generates at home is definitely worth more than the amount of money he could earn outside. It’s just in different forms, priceless and rare. Excellent example of an excellent father! By the way, his spoken mandarin quite “excellent” too😂 成功路上并不拥挤，因为坚持的人不多。 你是个成功的爸爸👍🏻
You are the most important for home...we honor you and put family first...dun give up
I am a Dad but to do what he does, and the sacrifices he and his wife make, is very inspiring and something not many can do.
Without the total devotion of the care of Dad, the outcome of Jue Ming could have been very different. Jue Ming's dad, you have done right !!!!
Jue ming is a sweet boy with very good manners and most importantly he is a happy child...His dad did an amazing job!!
All children need more attention than we working parents can give to them. For this wonderful dad staying home because of his child needs is a great gift for his son.
Hats off to this loving and caring father.
This is one great father !
Such a sweet family.
you are doing it for your child, you are miles ahead of other fathers, your love for your child is the greatest gift to him, and you showed him what dedication and sacrifice is, i am sure he will grow up to be a well adjusted young man
Very impressed with the Dad. Not an easy task but seeing how well his kid is being brought up, his sacrifices are well worth it. Hoping one day, things will turn out better and they can go on to pursue their interests in life.
Jue Ming you have an awesome dad! He did such an excellent job of taking care of you, and you turned out to be just as awesome in taking care of your own needs. I salute both of you and I pray that blessings overflow into your home. May God provide you with all your needs and fill your hearts with great joy, peace, and love. Thank you for sharing this beautiful love story. ❤
Dear Jue Ming Daddy.. please keep close to heart and remember that YOU ARE ONE AMAZING DAD.. one who loves his child wholeheartedly and is super responsible. People who sadly cannot understand honestly cannot understand will never understand. People forget that 'mummy' role is a full time job without pay, OT, PH and recognition.. You deserve as much love fulfilling a parent role.. Add oil..
Always encouraged to watch Jue Ming and his family. Dear Jue Ming's dad, you've have done an amazing job raising your son (of course with recognition to your wife too). I hope you no longer feel affected by negative comments as your hard work and sacrifice is evident just by looking at how wonderful Jue Ming has grown up to become.
this is so touching! i shed tears while watching this short video. and can i say the dad’s and son’s chinese proficiency are amazing!! the terms they use and the fact that they can express themselves so well in chinese - that’s admirable. 😊
Can see they try to speak purely in one language and not mix English and Chinese together. That is my philosophy as well.
I am a stay-at-home dad by choice. I have 3 young kids and I choose to spend my time bringing them up rather than pursue my career because I love spending time with them and watching them grow into young adults. It is also an important time for proper guidance especially in this fast paced age and to instill good values in them so they become good members of society.
I do share the same discrimination that this father does from comments and remarks, sometimes made by people off hand and not properly thought out, that being "jobless" is a lazy lifestyle, or that without a career it is shameful. Actually this is the very kind of thinking I hope my children will never fall into, that they learn that unity in the family is one of the pillars of strong society. There is more to life than the pursuit of wealth, and we can never be satisfied by earning more and more money. A life of content with moderation is the key to internal happiness. Being a parent is a job... it doesn't pay with a salary, but it imparts dividends over and over until the end of our lives. It is the best job in the world.
Do what works for you.... I don't judge....But some of us are old fashioned and we'll stick to the old ways...😊
Your selflessness and sacrifice is inspiring. Jue Ming is lucky to have you as his dad! Social norm is not as important as your purpose to take care of your family!
I wouldn't say selfless - it is more of a paternal instinct to care for his progeny so they would survive and pass on his genes.
@@extremepsyche3135 Absolutely.
Salute and highest respect to the home staying, caregiving and truly loving Father. Sacrificing one's career path for the sake of one truly loved child of his is truly admirable. May such like-minded fathers like you grow in numbers. Happy Father's Day!
Much respect to this family for their love and support for each other. Happy Father's Day to Mr Lee - Jue Ming's bright and joyful personality is a testament to your dedication and care. Wishing you all health and happiness!
Daddy, your sacrifice is totally worth it. See how much your son loves you! You've built a loving family and your son is fully benefitting from your efforts, that's most important. More power to you!
I cried with the grandmother. The jab hurts on the skin of the grandchild but definitely the heart of his grandma 😢
A normal job 8am-6pm mon-fri.
A full time stay home mom/dad is 24/7...even on weekends and PH. No MC , no benefits and no bonus.
Salute and jia you! Happy Father's Day~
Jue Ming's Dad, you are more of a man than most men out there! Your dedication to your family is truly inspiring! Please don't ever feel embarrassed for choosing this path.
I spent 20 yrs taking care of my son and daughter. I am not embarrassed but proud Dad for what they’ve become.
I was a stay at home mom while my kids were young. Cos my younger one was sick. N needed me to b there. Now that they r adults they told me my achievements r yours n I can b what I can b cos of yr being there for us when we needed u most. Jue Ming dad u have done super well . Being a stay at home parent is not doing nothing it’s a full time job only we get paid by love . 你做得很好。你是个很棒的爸爸
Being a full-time carer is much more difficult than having a normal 9-5 job. This is in addition to all the household chores such as cooking, cleaning, shopping for food, laundry etc. There is nothing shameful because it's a very important role. No one can look after a child better than his Mum or Dad.
If you work the pay taxes you still have to go back home, do house chores and deal with your kids. Your life is even harder then and you lay flat at the end of the day. Stop making excuses for lazy bum.
True, many children were maltreated by caregivers
Looking at Jue Ming been such a sweet teenage, Jue Ming Daddy's hardwork and sacrifice paid off. This is your achievement and you should be proud of it as you are a inspiration to all the Daddy in the World including me! Thanks for showing us Daddy's love is equally important! 🙏
Thank you Jue Ming's dad - you are a role model. I love Jue Ming's personality
You can see how proud the boy is for his dad! Kudos to this super dad, Sir you are real hero.
你是一名伟大和值得大家赞赏的好爸爸！
Super dad❤ His son’s self independence will be the greatest achievement more than wealth and reputation. 😊
This entire family is an inspiration.....the love they have for one another and their stoicism and strength of character shine through the screen. Thank you for featuring them ❤
YOU ARE AMAZING - DAD AND MOM !!! YOUR WORK IS THE HARDEST, AND YOU HAVE MORE DIGNITY THAN OTHER PARENTS !!! YOUR CHILDREN ARE NUMBER #1!!! YOU ARE #1 PARENTS!
Both dad and mum sacrifice a lot for their children. Respect!
So much respect for the dad! Being a stay at home parent is way harder than go to work. Hope you achieve your dreams and start living your own life!!! Enjoy it! Sendings lotsa support and love from the netherlands!
Sir, you are a wonderful father. And Jue Ming I hope you will always love and care for your parents no matter what will become of them one day. Trust me the day will come when you will have to be the one to care for them and I hope you will willingly do so to reciprocate their efforts.
What a lovely video showing the real life heroes in our society deeply Sickened by patriarchy. Loved the father and son bond and how they are smiling all through despite all the hardships. Inspiring❤
A great father. Responsibility is the most important. Happy Father’s Day ❤
U are a great dad, your family should be proud n appreciative of your sacrifice, not every man will be willing to do that, Happy Father's Day, wish you good health to enjoy your latter days, all the best to u & family!
beatifull father & son bond...its priceless, totally worth the sacrifice
Your family raised a positive attitude and mentally strong son. He was able to console his grandma when she cried slipping in a joke in Cantonese. I think that boy will go a long way in his life despite his condition. He will be fine.
On the other hand take care of yourself dear Dad. Your mental health is important to keep you going for the family.
this man is an angel, so does the son
Good job to the parents. Look how well the boy grew up. Nothing to be shameful, yes it hurt his dignity but the result is so worth it.
my father was a stay at home dad as well. it wasn't easy most of all because just like this uncle my dad too was battling self-esteem issues. he wasn't stay at home on his own will. but I wish my dad knew and could embrace his role as it meant so much to me.
What an amazing dad! He made huge sacrifices for his family.
He is the most fortunate child. Blessings 🙏🏽🧧🧧🧧
Lovely family. Great warmth and love, thats the most important thing. You guys rock
I also have the same blood condition as jue ming- hemophilia B. While im already 39 and with 2 kids, it is my wife who is earning for the family. I learned to inject on my own during my college years. Each one of us has our own problems what’s important is to keep on moving and not take life too seriously!
Jue Ming is so loveable and kind! Best wish to him and his family.
I remember Jue Ming! He was in some channel 8 show, such a sweet boy. Grown so well, humorous boy haha
i may be a stranger but i am so proud of him and his resilience and sacrifice for his family. it is not easy to do this. jue ming’s dad, keep it up! ❤
Brave father and lovely son. He speaks well. God bless!
Wonderful father, a role model to all. Your family bliss is the greatest blessing, not career, not money and not anything else.
Dad's are always overlooked. Nothing but love for this great dad and other dads alike.
As a father of 4 grown children, I must say that you are a fantastic super hero father! 加油伟大的爸爸！！！！You are right that you need to start taking care of your personal well being, so that you have the strength to journey on.....
Wow this is great! The dad is so wonderful and the son is so cheery here too and it's wonderful that they have a very loving relationship. The son, perhaps as a result of his high functioning autism, is also able to express his feelings to his family so directly. Really wonderful to see and hope it all works out for the family, including for the dad and he can also continue his taiji instructor passion!
What an admirable and lovely family! Breaks my heart when Grandma cries and Jueming comforted her so cheekily and bravely. And Mr Lee, you went against social norms and provided the best you have to for your family. Kudos to you.
You are an amazing father, and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in staying at home. Your contributions to the family are invaluable. Thanks to your efforts, your son has grown to be independent and well-taught. Please continue your great work and remember to take care of your own health as well. I wish your family health and happiness, and hope you find opportunities to fulfill your own dreams someday!
What an AMAZING DAD. HE protects, teaches and helps his son with everyday life. This is an inspirational true story of love and patience. I pray he’ll understand fully what a HERO he is to this son. Thank you for sharing this beautiful family. 🤍🤍🤍 N. California
Proud father, proud son, good wife, bright and happy family, I envy 💝
No dad, your dignity is intact! You are to be praised for taking good care of your family. 🎉🎉🎉
Amazing family! Great parents and sweet son. Blessings to you all.
Such selfless love of a father for his son , wife and family. May you keep fighting and there is hope, life at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for sharing your life of courage with us.
His unconditional love to his son and his willingness to take care his family this way is unbelievable! You have my utmost respect, sir! You are truly a great father!
Your sacrifice is worth it as Jue Ming is so matured, understanding and articulate! 你真是一位伟大的爸爸！同时也觉得你的太太也一样伟大，因为她默默的为这个家付出！👍👍👍
This is a good reason for stay at home dad. He takes care of the son, cooks, and does chores.
Theres a chinese drama showcase of this type of stay-home dad who took care of everything featuring actor Chen Hanwei. His character is what we called penguin father.
Theres no shame for a father doing this kind of duty even though he might lost touch with work industry for between 10-30 years for some i came across with. Family always comes first and we must appreciate their sacrifice.
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you.
You’re an amazing father, I hope to be half as good as you are when raising my own son. Hold your head high , it’s an unbelievable achievement
Despite his conditions, I find Jue Ming to be a very sensible, brave and independent kid, more so than other "normal kids" I've come across tbh. This is testament of the parents' effort and upbringing. So keep your chin up Dad! 你的付出孩子都感受得到！
So cute ending...huge respect to the Dad, mum and the son, keep it up and ignore any negative comments in life...
There is nothing shameful to be a stay at home parent. Jue ming is well brought up and your sacrifice is worth it.
I hope more recognition can be given to any stay at home parent and help them get back into the workforce. 14 years especially is a long and difficult journey. Your courage is commendable Sir.
As a father myself, I really respect you for giving up your job and be a full time dad to take care of your son with medical issues. My daughter is now going 2 years old, I myself experience staying home to take care of my daughter and I really couldn’t take it. I would rather work, because it’s easier. I truly truly respect and love my wife because she can do it full time as she enjoys it and I really can’t. Full time care giver for your children is 100 times harder than working outside. Respect to you, salute.
I am also the breadwinner for the house, and yet I also take care of the household myself.
My husband just settle his own stuff. So I really admire dads who step up in their own way and have the tentacity to take care of the family
I have a lot of respect for you. You love your son very much to make this sacrifice. No men or fathers will do that for their kids and you did it because you want the best for your kids. Salute to you. 😊