There's so many well bodied mothers out there that are absolute DEVILS to their kids, hurting and abusing them. Yet, you have this mother that despite a physical disability, she does her best to love and care for her son. Also, her son will definitely learn to be empathic towards people with disabilities as he sees that they are people too and not like many others who view them as unsightly or a burden.
@Macy Actually evil fathers are talked about a lot more than evil mothers, way more women are criminals out there than we think. It just takes a bit of thinking to understand all that, but I guess people like you with no brain inside exist in mass quantity out there in society which is why we think the way we think rn. All in all, do not talk about something that you don't even know about, and women get away with crimes much more easily than men because people like you think that women can't be criminals which is also why this is a cursed timeline. I just hope you can go out there in the real world and learn the reality of it, and not just stay inside your own little bubble which you mistake for "reality". Because if you did, then you wouldn't have written this comment, men being criminals doesn't take away from the fact that women can be criminals too and vice versa.
I dont think it should be phrase this way. It's her right to feel sorry or not because it is her choice. She feels sorry because she feels guilty or bad that she is in this situation and couldnt do more. The correct way of rephrasing it is that, she dont have to feel sorry or bad because she has given her all despite her disabilities. That's the power of mother's love.
girl shut up what do you mean for now?and what's with the attitude?your only acting like this since their disabled but all that matters is that their both able to take care of child,he's fed cleaned and happy and has a roof over his head and a family that loves him and that's all that matters stop being ableist and get a life,they'll always strive and work harder to take care of their son.
As a teacher of persons with disabilities, I've learned that their only limitation is the people around them. Give them a chance and watch them shine. 20 years of falling in love every moment. You should see them through my eyes, it's amazing. They are just differently abled ❤❤
Thank you. I too have taken care of many children with physical and emotional challenges. When I look into their eyes I see a beautful soul . The most important thing is love and I see alot of love in this family however challenging it may be.
Despite having Celebral Palsy she does all the things that other physically able people do. She is truly a warrior, an amazing wife and a wonderful mother. I’m rooting for them❤
The boy that struck me most. At such a young age, he has learned, practiced and understood humanity more than adults. When he grows up, he he will be a “ HUMAN GEM “.
@Loriann Richardson That may have been your experience, and that is totally valid, but that doesn’t mean the same is true for this little boy. This was a very short video solely about the topic of this little boy helping his mother. Of course that is going to be all the video shows and focus on, but that doesn’t in anyway mean this is a 24/7 representation of his life. When I was this little boy’s age, I always was helping my mother do daily chores like sweeping and vacuuming, helping fold laundry, etc. While my mother was not disabled, I do not see that as being any different than this. Most young children love to help out with daily tasks and chores, and that is actually something that is extremely beneficial to a child’s development. Children, especially when young, want to feel like they are contributing to the family unit, and want to feel that their role in that unit is important and desired. Many behavioral issues can actually be helped by involving children more in daily tasks and giving them little “jobs” to be responsible for around the house. Everyone wants to feel needed and that they have a purpose, and children are no different. Additionally, when I was the ages of 7 to 9 years old, I assisted my mother in caring for my terminally ill aunt. I helped do nearly all care tasks, far more than this child is doing. Sure, during that time I could have been out playing, but that experience taught me things that forever shaped me, things I wasn’t going to experience/learn by play alone. I wanted to help because I loved her and I willingly chose to do so. I couldn’t control her illness, but I could control the role I played in her life and the help and support I could offer. I felt wanted, needed and loved, and like I had a purpose. Never in a million years would I choose to have done things differently or choose to have had a more “innocent” or “normal” childhood at that time of my life. And when I myself became fully disabled at the age of 17 due to my own progressive disease, that transition was less harsh because of what I all experienced with my aunt. The fact is, we all will have times in life where we become ill or disabled in some capacity. For some it happens earlier than others, for some it’s lifelong, and for some it only happens in old age, but it is just a fact of life. Familiarizing children with this fact in a healthy way, and including them in helping loved ones in need is not a bad thing. What this little boy is experiencing in life is a blessing. He is learning what selfless love looks like, and what it looks like to care for your loved ones when they need help. He is learning compassion, grace, support, and understanding. Those aren’t just concepts taught to him verbally, they are being integrated and interwoven into his very being through deliberate actions. He is learning lifelong skills that will shape him into a wonderful, kind and loving person, willing to help anyone in need. He is in a happy and loving home, with two parents who love and care for him, who he loves enough to care for them in return in the best ways he knows how. He also has two sets of loving grandparents who also spend time with him and show him love, care and affection. The things he is doing for his mother are not things that are necessarily making her life easier in a monumental way, they are simple tasks that this little boy is eager to “help” with because he loves his mom. Getting shoes, holding a cup of water, and holding hands are not things that are going to destroy his childhood. This mother was able to live her life independently prior to having her son. From what little we did see, she is MORE than capable of finding ways to do all of these things herself, but her son, who loves and cares about her because of how much he knows she loves and cares about him, wants to “help.” Just like when I “helped” my mother vacuum at a young age, she didn’t really need the help, and it likely would have been done quicker and more efficiently without my “help,” but she allowed me to help her with things because she understood that it was teaching me lessons far beyond how to vacuum, and understood that it helped me to feel involved. Likewise, this sweet little boy wants to feel like he plays a role in his family, and he has enough compassion to recognize that these little tasks are something he is able to do for his mom, just like his mom cares for him in return. That is a child who is well balanced, emotionally intelligent, selfless, kind, caring, considerate, giving, compassionate and empathetic. What more could you ask for as a parent to know that you are raising a wonderful human being? Those are things not all children are taught by their parents, but this little boy was blessed with a loving family who did teach him the value of those things, most likely from his parents own actions and displays of love and care. That is not a bad thing. The incorporation of playtime is important for development as well, but it shouldn’t be the only thing a child experiences. Teaching them responsibility and helpfulness from as early of an age as possible is just as important to their overall development, and it teaches them things playtime never will. A child can still be a child and enjoy childhood while also having responsibilities. Responsibility and helping out those you love, whether that’s helping with household chores or helping a disabled parent with small daily tasks, is a skill and concept that a child will carry with them into adulthood. That is invaluable. This little boy’s joyful and loving demeanor is indicative of him having a wonderful upbringing, with parents and grandparents who show him a constant display of mutual love, mutual care and mutual affection towards him and between all members of the family. That is a childhood many children in loveless homes/families could only dream of. His upbringing may be different than most, but that doesn’t mean he has any less of a childhood. He will grow up and make this world a better place BECAUSE of his family and upbringing, not in spite of it.
Their love is so apparent when she puts on the boys shoes for him. It looks like every day is a daunting challenge for them but they may also be the most blessed family in the world.
They checked that their illness wasn't genetic so they can't be called selfish by any means. From what I see here, they're giving their son more love and care than many non-disable parents do.
Man I’m crying. I hope they make it. Truly do. They’re apparently better at making a relationship work through all these crisis than most of the generic internet influencers.
This kid can be sure of one thing, his parents will always be there for him. Although they may not be able to help him much, their very presence is a huge emotional support. The fortunate thing is they are not bed-ridden. So, he just needs to help out a little here and there and he is super cute.
"and I don't question why I am disabled", these words moved me. She has no self-pity instead she has gratitude on what she have like a hard-working husband, lovely little boy and supporting parents & parents-in-law. She just goes on with her life being happy. while many of us able-bodied people are never satisfied in life
Oh no believe me when I say even when we are disabled we will continue to find things to complain about. More actually except it’s not for little things. For example I start complaining that I can’t walk, dress myself, date etc but then I humble myself by reminding myself “it’s ok, at least I can breathe on my own and am not on a ventilator anymore!”
He's the definition of *"built different"* the way he is soo young but cares for his mother is crazy and beautiful ❤😢 I know teens and grown men who still expect their mothers to do their washing
He has very loving and sensible parents too who try their best to care for him and raise him well 😊 It's really impressing how sweet and caring the boy already is at such small age! He for aure is bery anntentive and a clever boy!
As a young boy I used to be taken care of by my old grandmother who was not rich and worked from home for a living. I often went on errands for my grandmother and helped around the house. I was like 5 years old. I loved my grandmother dearly. Helping her taught me compassion and respect for elders. The boy is fine he has people who love him. They help each other out.
It’s a great environment to raise a kid in. Love? Support? Patience? Compassion? A warm bed, clean clothes, food, and they are teaching him to take care of his space and how to grow food! Seems like exactly the right environment for a child.
I love this. I worked with disabled children and teens in China for 3.5 years. Many of them had cerebral palsy and unfortunately many of them had been abandoned by their parents at birth and were living in orphanages or group homes. Some of these kids were so smart, but because of their physical disabilities, weren't allowed to go to school. It was so sad. These parents are so lucky to have found each other, to have such an amazing son, and to have been raised by their own parents and not to have been abandoned.
@@darlinspaces huh no. Asia is comprised of more than 40 countries right. Even the middle east aka Central/West Asia is considered Asian too. Nevermind South Asia which I guess doesn't exist for many. Y'all like to think that only East Asia aka China, Japan and Korea are the only ones to exist. Asia is full of diverse looking people as well as names. Not everyone looks and sounds like the people from those three countries only. Elith Luxe is not my real name. My actual first name is Russian but it is also common amongst South Asians. My last name is Arabic but it is also South Asian because my family is from a Muslim country there. Elith is like an Arabic nickname my friends gave me. Most of the Asian cultures share similar cultures meaning that many of them are conservative, traditional and care a lot of reputation and such. There is less of acceptance of people who are deemed abnormal like those born with defects. Kids aren't taught to respect the disabled from a young age and bullying in some countries gets really bad even if you are not handicapped. Many schools don't have the resources to deal with the disabled and neither do many parents have the patience to teach their kids why that person is like that or feel comfortable with them being around their kids. There are not many separate institutions and certainly not in third world Asian countries.
Its so wholesome ❤ Not only the mother gave her best for the kids despite her struggles. But the father also give them love they deserve. Im impressed by the family. They complete each other.
I don’t believe it’s cruel or selfish. At some point everyone has considered being a parent. Not all want to be but she has support to help her raise her son! Let this woman live her life and enjoy her time with her husband and son!
@@ruthiebella they're just going to be the same person. Not going to be more troublesome. Many babies got CP because of suffocation during birth process.
This little boy will be so empathetic and capable of caring for others, so no, these parents are not selfish, they have gifted the world with a humanitarian extraordinaire 💙
Anyone who called them selfish is not seeing what most people see, and they ought to be ashamed of themselves. The young boy is learning from his parents how to cope with what life throws at you, and also learning what empathy means. He is well cared for and loved. I bow with respect.
@@babaruuts both parents still look capable of doing things so the little boy is not being the parent in this situation. At that age, your mom is your world so you like helping her
« Where there is a life, there is a way »… I really felt her. She gave me goosebumps, such a brave soul 💪🏾. Her son is awesome, I am amazed. I am not disabled and I am not able to do with my son half of the work she is doing with hers. Wish this beautiful family the best❤️. They are truly inspiring.
Disabled people are people too. That line is so powerful and sooo true. Really made me tear up. She’s an amazing women, wife, and mother and wish her and her family long lasting happiness. Those people who says she is selfish are prejudice and definitely people I wouldn’t want to ever meet.
Okay, I am going to admit. At first I was judging. After I heard her say "we are people too. Where there is life there is a way" I understood her message. Indeed, she raises her baby better than some other healthy parents. Wish you the best of luck in further life! Stay strong!!! 🌸
@@ayakopudding5483 It does not matter. It is only natural for a human to judge but it is up to her/him to either stay ignorant or to accept and learn something new. I chose to go with the second one. 🙂
A lot of non-disabled parents can’t even compete with this family. I’ve seen moms just screaming at their kids to sit down and be quiet, while they spend hours on their phones. Some of them are single mothers and are bringing home random men every night. Or some have alcoholic fathers who aren’t even present in the home. That’s what terrible parenting looks like.
@Amany Meriam its human but also cowardly judging a book by its cover, but each to their own. I think it's sad you have to teach people to be decent. You would have stayed ignorant if she never said what she said is what i get from this.
Love for your children matters a lot. Missing functioning parts or muscles isn't as big of a necessity as people think. As long as they are providing for the child, which they are, they are better parents than those that arent disabled and abandon their kids for different reasons.
I’m positive the parents aren’t expecting their child to support them, they have pride and are able to do what normal ppl can albeit a bit differently. They are fully capable of taking care of themselves and the child. The little boy is just being sweet and caring to his mother. Clean house, full meals, attentive and financially stable parents, what more does a child need?
Im sure at age of 2 years old is his decision .....are you insane ???he us 2 years old baby !!!!dont you see that rather mom is training him like monkey to be her personal care giver ! No way that any toddler at age of 2 should be burden already with so many house chores !!!
I disagree. People, disable or not, have right to choose their own life but when having kids it is not only effecting them. Like people bring gun to shoot, that choice effecting lives. Some choices effect society and another innocent person. The baby did not have a voice to be born. Disabled person that could make baby with same condition should not having kid(s) to reduce suffering. For her case, look like she is responsible and checked genetic information. So for her, I did not say she is wrong. Not sure if her son will agree with that when he get older.
@@annat6249 if you go by that logic then anyone who has ever had children is selfish because "the kid did not have a voice to be born". Anyone, abled or disabled, can give birth to a child with disabilities. It would be scummy to go around exclusively judging/policing disabled people on their choices to have a kid. But also that would come from the mindset that being disabled is the most undesirable thing in the world, just pure and unending "suffering" when it really isnt?? as a disabled person (both physically and mentally), the pain caused by my disabilities is *nothing* compared to the pain caused by lack of social and medical support, the stigma, and the discrimination i get from just being disabled. If those things went away, then living in this world as a disabled person wouldnt nearly be such a tough thing. Also anyone can become disabled in their lifetime, after all.
I don’t think she’s in any pain. It looks like they are a wonderful, loving family and are enjoying every day and support one another. There’s this misunderstanding that disabled people are all miserable, stuck inside and dependent on the charity of others. It’s simply not true for a lot of people with disabilities. We work, pay our taxes, get married, raise children, buy homes, and travel the world. Some things are harder, of course, but humans are nothing but adaptable, and we find ways to get it done. This couple is a perfect example of that.
@@tigerli7964 Thank you for your kind words. I’ve lived with my disability for most of my life, and I can honestly say I’ve got a great life. But I do understand that it may seem difficult or depressing to be disabled to someone who hasn’t spent time with any people with disabilities. But like I said, we typically find ways to do what we need to do on our own. There’s a lot of satisfaction in figuring out ways to be independent - at least for me. Although I’ll admit to blaming my disability to get out of the chore of cleaning the cat litter boxes at my house. My husband has been doing that job ever since I was pregnant years ago, and I’ve never even considered taking it back now or ever.
@@pinkmonkeybird2644, I know some people who have a disability and I am grateful to know people like them. I wish you the best in your life for you and your family
Lovely family. People who judge seem to impose their ideas of right and wrong. And I can only surmise they have not yet developed emotional maturity. Easy to throw words at others and feel superior. I can only surmise that these people need to heal. And their ideas of being right reflects the relationship they have with themselves. The simple people who want to live and love is humbling to see. I thank you for sharing your life with us. And you will only get love and compassion from me. Something that I learned over time that brings me peace. Thank you again. Much love
I love that she said disabled people ARE people too. We deserve the same chances to be loved and to give love. We have plenty to offer because we have survived so much. I believe in lifting people up and not squashing them. Being disabled taught me the importance of this. I adore this woman and her little family and I bet her son grows up with a deep ability for empathy and respect.
How sweet! I just see another normal family trying to strive for a better life like the rest of us. What incredible parents who are raising an incredible lil man. Love this.
This boy is so sweet, you can tell he receives a lot of love from his parents. That's all that matters to children. No parent is perfect but a parent who truly cares and loves you makes the difference
When yar think yar got it bad in life, always remember there's someone that's got it harder. She's a very lucky woman who has a lovely family. Many able-bodied people have it all, but still never happy. Take care, everyone.
I don’t see this being selfish at all. It’s teaching their son decision making for the future as well as observation and taking care of others. I hope this family lives on with happiness in their lives for a long time.
Honestly their child might do better than most because he’s learning to be independent and responsible very early on. His parents being so hardworking and happy and kind is also an advantage the child will have-having such role models for him. He’ll definitely never be able to say, I can’t do it. 😂 His parents are proving that he’s capable, as long as he’s willing to work hard.
There is not 1 iota of selfishness in you two. You are a lovely compassionate family who are raising one heck of a loving, considerate and caring son. He is a credit to you both. Best of luck and luv'n'hugs to you ❤
Why would people be so rude to call them selfish ... look at the child he is so happy with them... and i feel proud how much hard work they put into being parents although they have to go throw so much struggle... May Allah make their life easier and happier Ameen!
I wouldn’t call them selfish. I blame the Chinese government for this but I do understand why those people are upset. Making a toddler care for a parent can cause mental illness. It’s called parentification
This child can do basic things in such a young age is enough of a miracle. The ability of this child to understand the pain her mother is going through and helping her with her chores is absolutely amazing!!
he did not just suddenly learnt it yall forgot the part that said "the 2 yr old has been following his father in taking care of his mother" 0:45 ! Kids do what they see. what a incredible family of role models. kuddos to the mother and father!!!!!
This is NOT selfish this is love and caring and teaching the young to have compassion 🥰❤️. What a great family. Wish I had that kind of love from my family.
Life is hard, especially for some people. Yet, it is amazing that some of them can still find happiness despite being dealt the worst cards in life. Kudos to them. I pray for their family, I hope they can find more happiness in life.
The problem lies in the title. Firstly, she is a mother with a disability, not a disabled mother - put the person first - not the disability. Second, the boy helps his mother, he doesn't care for her. Care refers to providing what is necessary for the health, welfare, maintenance, and protection of someone - this is being provided by the parents of the boy. If you know a struggling family, it is better to ask if you could help than criticise.
It disgusts me that people have the Audacity and selfishness to tell a disabled person that they have no right to parent a child. Who are they to judge, those Self Righteous, selfish, humans?
Not everyone deserves to be parents, BUT you guys aren’t one of them. your disabilities doesn’t disqualify you from being parents. you love, you teach and you take care of your little one in the best way you can. be proud of the strength you have.
People telling the parents that they're selfish for raising a child are on some eugenics shi. Plainly wrong from how well adjusted the boy already is ❤
both the parents and the son are such beautiful, amazing people. I can tell that the parents are raising their son well, and the son is improving their lives so much.
It's videos like these that make me cry because they have sweet moments that most people would frown upon. I think it's very sweet that these parents have such a happy helpful little boy.
They are a family. They work hard, they don't let their disability limit them. They seem to love and care for their child just fine. There are so many neglectful parents out there who don't have cerebral palsy. I wish them all the best.
Mothers like her are strong and brave in this cruel world. As a mom myself, I want to say to all these women : I love you and respect you❤️Never stop fighting
There's so many well bodied mothers out there that are absolute DEVILS to their kids, hurting and abusing them. Yet, you have this mother that despite a physical disability, she does her best to love and care for her son. Also, her son will definitely learn to be empathic towards people with disabilities as he sees that they are people too and not like many others who view them as unsightly or a burden.
Truly said😊
@Macy Actually evil fathers are talked about a lot more than evil mothers, way more women are criminals out there than we think. It just takes a bit of thinking to understand all that, but I guess people like you with no brain inside exist in mass quantity out there in society which is why we think the way we think rn. All in all, do not talk about something that you don't even know about, and women get away with crimes much more easily than men because people like you think that women can't be criminals which is also why this is a cursed timeline. I just hope you can go out there in the real world and learn the reality of it, and not just stay inside your own little bubble which you mistake for "reality". Because if you did, then you wouldn't have written this comment, men being criminals doesn't take away from the fact that women can be criminals too and vice versa.
100% spot on!
Yes
Aye.
I remember reading overworked mothers killed their autistic sons. All have different methods. It's sad.
I'm sure their child will have a higher degree of empathy and compassion than a normal child. The world certainly could use more of that.
So true ❤
Indeed we see what the 'highly' educated has left Us.
Most children are empathetic and innocent until they start getting older and society starts to tell them what to do and expectations.
could use more of that? why we use them instead of us the able-bodied helping?
this child is more understanding and useful than a child who is twice his age who sits at home playing video games every moment
She has no right to say she's sorry. She raised a kid right despite her disability. That's a mother that gave her all. ❤️
I dont think it should be phrase this way. It's her right to feel sorry or not because it is her choice. She feels sorry because she feels guilty or bad that she is in this situation and couldnt do more. The correct way of rephrasing it is that, she dont have to feel sorry or bad because she has given her all despite her disabilities. That's the power of mother's love.
I agree!🥰
@@aimer3042 i think maybe what he means is "she has no need to say sorry" 😆
@@Yan-Zhan you are right!
2 year old literally being made into a care giver to a parent/ parents who always have had a physical & mental challenge is totally unfair .
The kid seems to be genuinely happy and loved. that's all that matters. he'll definitely grow up to be a responsible young man.
Yeah for now…😒💔
girl shut up what do you mean for now?and what's with the attitude?your only acting like this since their disabled but all that matters is that their both able to take care of child,he's fed cleaned and happy and has a roof over his head and a family that loves him and that's all that matters stop being ableist and get a life,they'll always strive and work harder to take care of their son.
Wonderful family
This boy is the Buddha.
As a teacher of persons with disabilities, I've learned that their only limitation is the people around them. Give them a chance and watch them shine. 20 years of falling in love every moment. You should see them through my eyes, it's amazing. They are just differently abled ❤❤
Thank you. I too have taken care of many children with physical and emotional challenges. When I look into their eyes I see a beautful soul . The most important thing is love and I see alot of love in this family however challenging it may be.
You worded this with perfect eloquence. 👌
Despite having Celebral Palsy she does all the things that other physically able people do. She is truly a warrior, an amazing wife and a wonderful mother. I’m rooting for them❤
Actually, she does
More. I know able bodied people that do less.
@@yeahyeahyeah2935 indeed 💯
The boy that struck me most. At such a young age, he has learned, practiced and understood humanity more than adults. When he grows up, he he will be a “ HUMAN GEM “.
The child that is a leader. So beautiful.
The issue I have with this is he's not really having a childhood. I experienced something similar to this when I was a child.
And today, he is a human gem!
@Loriann Richardson That may have been your experience, and that is totally valid, but that doesn’t mean the same is true for this little boy. This was a very short video solely about the topic of this little boy helping his mother. Of course that is going to be all the video shows and focus on, but that doesn’t in anyway mean this is a 24/7 representation of his life.
When I was this little boy’s age, I always was helping my mother do daily chores like sweeping and vacuuming, helping fold laundry, etc. While my mother was not disabled, I do not see that as being any different than this.
Most young children love to help out with daily tasks and chores, and that is actually something that is extremely beneficial to a child’s development. Children, especially when young, want to feel like they are contributing to the family unit, and want to feel that their role in that unit is important and desired. Many behavioral issues can actually be helped by involving children more in daily tasks and giving them little “jobs” to be responsible for around the house. Everyone wants to feel needed and that they have a purpose, and children are no different.
Additionally, when I was the ages of 7 to 9 years old, I assisted my mother in caring for my terminally ill aunt. I helped do nearly all care tasks, far more than this child is doing. Sure, during that time I could have been out playing, but that experience taught me things that forever shaped me, things I wasn’t going to experience/learn by play alone.
I wanted to help because I loved her and I willingly chose to do so. I couldn’t control her illness, but I could control the role I played in her life and the help and support I could offer. I felt wanted, needed and loved, and like I had a purpose. Never in a million years would I choose to have done things differently or choose to have had a more “innocent” or “normal” childhood at that time of my life. And when I myself became fully disabled at the age of 17 due to my own progressive disease, that transition was less harsh because of what I all experienced with my aunt.
The fact is, we all will have times in life where we become ill or disabled in some capacity. For some it happens earlier than others, for some it’s lifelong, and for some it only happens in old age, but it is just a fact of life. Familiarizing children with this fact in a healthy way, and including them in helping loved ones in need is not a bad thing.
What this little boy is experiencing in life is a blessing. He is learning what selfless love looks like, and what it looks like to care for your loved ones when they need help. He is learning compassion, grace, support, and understanding. Those aren’t just concepts taught to him verbally, they are being integrated and interwoven into his very being through deliberate actions. He is learning lifelong skills that will shape him into a wonderful, kind and loving person, willing to help anyone in need. He is in a happy and loving home, with two parents who love and care for him, who he loves enough to care for them in return in the best ways he knows how. He also has two sets of loving grandparents who also spend time with him and show him love, care and affection.
The things he is doing for his mother are not things that are necessarily making her life easier in a monumental way, they are simple tasks that this little boy is eager to “help” with because he loves his mom. Getting shoes, holding a cup of water, and holding hands are not things that are going to destroy his childhood.
This mother was able to live her life independently prior to having her son. From what little we did see, she is MORE than capable of finding ways to do all of these things herself, but her son, who loves and cares about her because of how much he knows she loves and cares about him, wants to “help.”
Just like when I “helped” my mother vacuum at a young age, she didn’t really need the help, and it likely would have been done quicker and more efficiently without my “help,” but she allowed me to help her with things because she understood that it was teaching me lessons far beyond how to vacuum, and understood that it helped me to feel involved.
Likewise, this sweet little boy wants to feel like he plays a role in his family, and he has enough compassion to recognize that these little tasks are something he is able to do for his mom, just like his mom cares for him in return. That is a child who is well balanced, emotionally intelligent, selfless, kind, caring, considerate, giving, compassionate and empathetic. What more could you ask for as a parent to know that you are raising a wonderful human being?
Those are things not all children are taught by their parents, but this little boy was blessed with a loving family who did teach him the value of those things, most likely from his parents own actions and displays of love and care. That is not a bad thing.
The incorporation of playtime is important for development as well, but it shouldn’t be the only thing a child experiences. Teaching them responsibility and helpfulness from as early of an age as possible is just as important to their overall development, and it teaches them things playtime never will.
A child can still be a child and enjoy childhood while also having responsibilities. Responsibility and helping out those you love, whether that’s helping with household chores or helping a disabled parent with small daily tasks, is a skill and concept that a child will carry with them into adulthood. That is invaluable.
This little boy’s joyful and loving demeanor is indicative of him having a wonderful upbringing, with parents and grandparents who show him a constant display of mutual love, mutual care and mutual affection towards him and between all members of the family.
That is a childhood many children in loveless homes/families could only dream of. His upbringing may be different than most, but that doesn’t mean he has any less of a childhood.
He will grow up and make this world a better place BECAUSE of his family and upbringing, not in spite of it.
Beautifully said. ❤
Their love is so apparent when she puts on the boys shoes for him. It looks like every day is a daunting challenge for them but they may also be the most blessed family in the world.
Yes
so touching
盼望主的憐憫和看顧this boy will grow up caring and passion
Be strong and brave boy
Can not get in touch but pray for your family
A 2 year old takes better care of their mother than most teenager ever will
So when they call you a toddler, you know what they be actually saying 😂
sure, but a child/teenager shouldn't have to take care of their parents in the first place.
that is BECAUSE he is not a teenager yet 😂
@@IlmurOsp sadly its what happened to me, but even though... i rather take care of them, Then to be on the loose on my own
@@IlmurOsptrue but if they really need the help than we should help them
This is truly amazing. She doesn’t let her disability define her and is living a life full of love and support! What a wonderful family
They checked that their illness wasn't genetic so they can't be called selfish by any means. From what I see here, they're giving their son more love and care than many non-disable parents do.
I guess the apple fell far from the tree or more like Walked from the tree😂
Exactly, they are wonderful parents
There is more love and happiness in this little family than in many financially well-off and physically perfect families.
Yeah I agree
I agree with u the kids even more lucky than me who had normal parent but has crazy life and traumatic effect for me
Man I’m crying. I hope they make it. Truly do. They’re apparently better at making a relationship work through all these crisis than most of the generic internet influencers.
Give that China boy a balloon! Bravo! 🎈
@@jovimathews Much better than those people from Europe
Me too bruh, 😭
This kid can be sure of one thing, his parents will always be there for him. Although they may not be able to help him much, their very presence is a huge emotional support. The fortunate thing is they are not bed-ridden. So, he just needs to help out a little here and there and he is super cute.
I am crying, too, bro.
"and I don't question why I am disabled", these words moved me. She has no self-pity instead she has gratitude on what she have like a hard-working husband, lovely little boy and supporting parents & parents-in-law. She just goes on with her life being happy. while many of us able-bodied people are never satisfied in life
Humbling words indeed 😔
Oh no believe me when I say even when we are disabled we will continue to find things to complain about. More actually except it’s not for little things. For example I start complaining that I can’t walk, dress myself, date etc but then I humble myself by reminding myself “it’s ok, at least I can breathe on my own and am not on a ventilator anymore!”
@@susangarza3203 yep. Always count our blessing. Life is a bit*h, does not mean we let her beat us up.
Toxic positivity who?
The people who call the parents "selfish" have no heart. Every person has a right to live a normal and productive life. More power to the family.
He's the definition of *"built different"* the way he is soo young but cares for his mother is crazy and beautiful ❤😢 I know teens and grown men who still expect their mothers to do their washing
He has very loving and sensible parents too who try their best to care for him and raise him well 😊 It's really impressing how sweet and caring the boy already is at such small age! He for aure is bery anntentive and a clever boy!
Mom raising a gentleman. ❤️
A gentleman raising the MOM.
Indeed
@@karna8658 😂
@@karna8658 she's been raised. Has CP, not a child
@@nikodemus6315 he didn’t mean in wrong way
More like taking care of her in his childhood
As a young boy I used to be taken care of by my old grandmother who was not rich and worked from home for a living. I often went on errands for my grandmother and helped around the house. I was like 5 years old. I loved my grandmother dearly. Helping her taught me compassion and respect for elders. The boy is fine he has people who love him. They help each other out.
Agreed 💯😊❤
What a great story,thanks for sharing!!!
❤️
He is kind, selfless, and considers bravo mom!
Thank you for your words. Love to you
Their ‘environment’ seems to be full of love and acceptance. I see a happy family who support each other ❤
It’s a great environment to raise a kid in. Love? Support? Patience? Compassion? A warm bed, clean clothes, food, and they are teaching him to take care of his space and how to grow food! Seems like exactly the right environment for a child.
Given my relationship with my parents, this video broke me. Made this grown man in his 30s cry twice.
What a truly beautiful and inspiring family!
She’s a fantastic mother, who has more fight in her than most. She & her family deserve nothing but respect. Incredibly wholesome, made my heart melt.
I love this. I worked with disabled children and teens in China for 3.5 years. Many of them had cerebral palsy and unfortunately many of them had been abandoned by their parents at birth and were living in orphanages or group homes. Some of these kids were so smart, but because of their physical disabilities, weren't allowed to go to school. It was so sad. These parents are so lucky to have found each other, to have such an amazing son, and to have been raised by their own parents and not to have been abandoned.
Makes me think of Steve Hawkins ❤️
Why don’t they change the law? I’m Canada that would never happen. We have these learners in everyday classes!
@@darlinspaces Asia is more discriminatory towards the disabled. The bullying and teasing gets bad
@@elithluxe7568 So you moved away? Most Asians won't use your name btw
@@darlinspaces huh no. Asia is comprised of more than 40 countries right. Even the middle east aka Central/West Asia is considered Asian too. Nevermind South Asia which I guess doesn't exist for many. Y'all like to think that only East Asia aka China, Japan and Korea are the only ones to exist. Asia is full of diverse looking people as well as names. Not everyone looks and sounds like the people from those three countries only. Elith Luxe is not my real name. My actual first name is Russian but it is also common amongst South Asians. My last name is Arabic but it is also South Asian because my family is from a Muslim country there. Elith is like an Arabic nickname my friends gave me. Most of the Asian cultures share similar cultures meaning that many of them are conservative, traditional and care a lot of reputation and such. There is less of acceptance of people who are deemed abnormal like those born with defects. Kids aren't taught to respect the disabled from a young age and bullying in some countries gets really bad even if you are not handicapped. Many schools don't have the resources to deal with the disabled and neither do many parents have the patience to teach their kids why that person is like that or feel comfortable with them being around their kids. There are not many separate institutions and certainly not in third world Asian countries.
This is the exact opposite of being selfish!
Made me cry at how much strength and love this family has. True blessings!
The fact that he’s already this kind and helpful she’s she’s doing a better job than most healthy able bodied parents
Its so wholesome ❤
Not only the mother gave her best for the kids despite her struggles. But the father also give them love they deserve. Im impressed by the family. They complete each other.
I don’t believe it’s cruel or selfish. At some point everyone has considered being a parent. Not all want to be but she has support to help her raise her son! Let this woman live her life and enjoy her time with her husband and son!
Cerebral palsy is very debilitating when older. I hope they are saving money, they will need a personal caregiver later in life.
@@ruthiebella
Not it’s not… do you even know what Cerebral Palsy is?
@@ruthiebella they're just going to be the same person. Not going to be more troublesome. Many babies got CP because of suffocation during birth process.
@@creativesparks2164 yes it is. Both my cousin and my sister had it and they needed foul time caregivers
@@thekaren1111 if you don't want to get mom shamed don't post your kids on the internet constantly
Kudos to her caring husband and her kind son. She is raising a gem.
They look more happy and loving than many families.
Best wishes to them!🙏
Man… I feel so useless😢 STAN these parents. “I am confident I can raise my son…” WoW🙌🏽
She's actually better than majority of mother and parents that doesn't deserve their kids
This little boy will be so empathetic and capable of caring for others, so no, these parents are not selfish, they have gifted the world with a humanitarian extraordinaire 💙
Anyone who called them selfish is not seeing what most people see, and they ought to be ashamed of themselves. The young boy is learning from his parents how to cope with what life throws at you, and also learning what empathy means. He is well cared for and loved. I bow with respect.
He's no learning anything and most people are blind to the fact that a child shouldn't be taking care of an adult regardless of situation
So he's gonna have to take care of them for the rest of his life. Born in slavery!
@@babaruuts He;s not really taking care of her... she can do everything she needs to do. He just helps her.
@@babaruuts he is not taking care of her. He assists her mother in which everyone should.
@@babaruuts both parents still look capable of doing things so the little boy is not being the parent in this situation. At that age, your mom is your world so you like helping her
« Where there is a life, there is a way »… I really felt her. She gave me goosebumps, such a brave soul 💪🏾. Her son is awesome, I am amazed. I am not disabled and I am not able to do with my son half of the work she is doing with hers.
Wish this beautiful family the best❤️. They are truly inspiring.
Much kudos to the husband too for the true love and unending support. The son learnt from the father how to help the mother. He is a real man.
I wonder if she meant where there is a will there is a way haha. Either way, the mom is very inspiring.
She is truly blessed. Has a loving, supporting husband, son and parents/in laws. They are raising an amazing son
Poor little Pomelo....born to help his parents
2:56 "Where there's life, there's a way" Kudos to her.. More power to the family.
Disabled people are people too. That line is so powerful and sooo true. Really made me tear up. She’s an amazing women, wife, and mother and wish her and her family long lasting happiness. Those people who says she is selfish are prejudice and definitely people I wouldn’t want to ever meet.
I couldn't have said this better myself 😊
Okay, I am going to admit. At first I was judging. After I heard her say "we are people too. Where there is life there is a way" I understood her message. Indeed, she raises her baby better than some other healthy parents. Wish you the best of luck in further life! Stay strong!!! 🌸
What were you judging her for? I want to know.
@@ayakopudding5483
It does not matter. It is only natural for a human to judge but it is up to her/him to either stay ignorant or to accept and learn something new. I chose to go with the second one. 🙂
A lot of non-disabled parents can’t even compete with this family. I’ve seen moms just screaming at their kids to sit down and be quiet, while they spend hours on their phones. Some of them are single mothers and are bringing home random men every night. Or some have alcoholic fathers who aren’t even present in the home. That’s what terrible parenting looks like.
@@zack2804 💯
@Amany Meriam its human but also cowardly judging a book by its cover, but each to their own. I think it's sad you have to teach people to be decent. You would have stayed ignorant if she never said what she said is what i get from this.
この２歳の男の子が健気に頑張る姿に、恥ずかしながら号泣しました．．．
この家族が幸せに暮らしていけるよう心から願っています。
Love for your children matters a lot. Missing functioning parts or muscles isn't as big of a necessity as people think. As long as they are providing for the child, which they are, they are better parents than those that arent disabled and abandon their kids for different reasons.
I’m positive the parents aren’t expecting their child to support them, they have pride and are able to do what normal ppl can albeit a bit differently. They are fully capable of taking care of themselves and the child. The little boy is just being sweet and caring to his mother. Clean house, full meals, attentive and financially stable parents, what more does a child need?
Im sure at age of 2 years old is his decision .....are you insane ???he us 2 years old baby !!!!dont you see that rather mom is training him like monkey to be her personal care giver ! No way that any toddler at age of 2 should be burden already with so many house chores !!!
I agree with her, disabled ppl have every right to live their lives the way they want to!! 👍🥰❤️✌️
I disagree. People, disable or not, have right to choose their own life but when having kids it is not only effecting them. Like people bring gun to shoot, that choice effecting lives. Some choices effect society and another innocent person. The baby did not have a voice to be born. Disabled person that could make baby with same condition should not having kid(s) to reduce suffering.
For her case, look like she is responsible and checked genetic information. So for her, I did not say she is wrong. Not sure if her son will agree with that when he get older.
@@annat6249 if you go by that logic then anyone who has ever had children is selfish because "the kid did not have a voice to be born". Anyone, abled or disabled, can give birth to a child with disabilities. It would be scummy to go around exclusively judging/policing disabled people on their choices to have a kid. But also that would come from the mindset that being disabled is the most undesirable thing in the world, just pure and unending "suffering" when it really isnt?? as a disabled person (both physically and mentally), the pain caused by my disabilities is *nothing* compared to the pain caused by lack of social and medical support, the stigma, and the discrimination i get from just being disabled. If those things went away, then living in this world as a disabled person wouldnt nearly be such a tough thing. Also anyone can become disabled in their lifetime, after all.
Wow. As parents with disabilities, raising your son through your pain is amazing to watch. May your years be filled with happiness
I don’t think she’s in any pain. It looks like they are a wonderful, loving family and are enjoying every day and support one another. There’s this misunderstanding that disabled people are all miserable, stuck inside and dependent on the charity of others. It’s simply not true for a lot of people with disabilities. We work, pay our taxes, get married, raise children, buy homes, and travel the world. Some things are harder, of course, but humans are nothing but adaptable, and we find ways to get it done. This couple is a perfect example of that.
@@pinkmonkeybird2644 thank you for the reminder we need often
@@tigerli7964 Thank you for your kind words. I’ve lived with my disability for most of my life, and I can honestly say I’ve got a great life.
But I do understand that it may seem difficult or depressing to be disabled to someone who hasn’t spent time with any people with disabilities. But like I said, we typically find ways to do what we need to do on our own. There’s a lot of satisfaction in figuring out ways to be independent - at least for me. Although I’ll admit to blaming my disability to get out of the chore of cleaning the cat litter boxes at my house. My husband has been doing that job ever since I was pregnant years ago, and I’ve never even considered taking it back now or ever.
@@pinkmonkeybird2644, I know some people who have a disability and I am grateful to know people like them. I wish you the best in your life for you and your family
This is despicable. That poor child.
How dare anyone judge these parents,they are amazing!!
Lovely family. People who judge seem to impose their ideas of right and wrong. And I can only surmise they have not yet developed emotional maturity. Easy to throw words at others and feel superior. I can only surmise that these people need to heal. And their ideas of being right reflects the relationship they have with themselves. The simple people who want to live and love is humbling to see. I thank you for sharing your life with us. And you will only get love and compassion from me. Something that I learned over time that brings me peace. Thank you again. Much love
This is a heartwarming story. She is strong both mentally and physically. I was so glad to see she had a husband that loves and supports her.
I love that she said disabled people ARE people too. We deserve the same chances to be loved and to give love. We have plenty to offer because we have survived so much. I believe in lifting people up and not squashing them. Being disabled taught me the importance of this.
I adore this woman and her little family and I bet her son grows up with a deep ability for empathy and respect.
He is more of a man than many grown men out there. The love amongst them is so beautiful. I wish I had that kind of love in my family ✝️💙🙏
This is so heartwarming to watch! The little boy really is his mother's guardian angel! 🥰
MY EXACT SENTIMENTS 😊
Amazing beyond words!
There is no such thing as a perfect family. But this family is very close to being perfect. Humanity at its best!
How sweet! I just see another normal family trying to strive for a better life like the rest of us. What incredible parents who are raising an incredible lil man. Love this.
She's definitely the best inspiration for all mothers out there. The world doesn't pity you, but only have admiration.
really!!!abusing this barely walking toddler and training him into her personal care giver.....
@@annadagmarapl do both parents have cerebral palsy or just the mother
@@annadagmarapl how is this abuse? They treat him well and aren't forcing him to do anything...
She’s selfish and shouldn’t be able to breed, disabled people shouldn’t be parents…if that makes me ableist so be it. 😒
the grit and determination of the parents, especially the mother, is commendable...children are more intelligent and capable then we assume them to be
This boy is so sweet, you can tell he receives a lot of love from his parents. That's all that matters to children. No parent is perfect but a parent who truly cares and loves you makes the difference
Agreed
When yar think yar got it bad in life, always remember there's someone that's got it harder. She's a very lucky woman who has a lovely family.
Many able-bodied people have it all, but still never happy.
Take care, everyone.
What a loving family and a wholesome video! ❤
I don’t see this being selfish at all. It’s teaching their son decision making for the future as well as observation and taking care of others. I hope this family lives on with happiness in their lives for a long time.
Honestly their child might do better than most because he’s learning to be independent and responsible very early on. His parents being so hardworking and happy and kind is also an advantage the child will have-having such role models for him.
He’ll definitely never be able to say, I can’t do it. 😂 His parents are proving that he’s capable, as long as he’s willing to work hard.
There is not 1 iota of selfishness in you two. You are a lovely compassionate family who are raising one heck of a loving, considerate and caring son. He is a credit to you both. Best of luck and luv'n'hugs to you ❤
Where there's a life, there's a way 🥺❤ beautiful family
Why would people be so rude to call them selfish ... look at the child he is so happy with them... and i feel proud how much hard work they put into being parents although they have to go throw so much struggle... May Allah make their life easier and happier Ameen!
😊😮😮
Ameen
I wouldn’t call them selfish. I blame the Chinese government for this but I do understand why those people are upset. Making a toddler care for a parent can cause mental illness. It’s called parentification
This child can do basic things in such a young age is enough of a miracle. The ability of this child to understand the pain her mother is going through and helping her with her chores is absolutely amazing!!
Seriously, I bet he's gonna be sooooo smart when he's older
he did not just suddenly learnt it yall forgot the part that said "the 2 yr old has been following his father in taking care of his mother" 0:45 ! Kids do what they see. what a incredible family of role models. kuddos to the mother and father!!!!!
Wonderful child. There is nothing wrong with raising children to be helpful as long as it is done in a spirit of love.
That sweet little angle
This is NOT selfish this is love and caring and teaching the young to have compassion 🥰❤️. What a great family. Wish I had that kind of love from my family.
I cried when I watched this, this is complete, abundant , unconditional love....and its the way every son should treat his mum! 😢
Life is hard, especially for some people. Yet, it is amazing that some of them can still find happiness despite being dealt the worst cards in life. Kudos to them. I pray for their family, I hope they can find more happiness in life.
Like she said “ where there’s life there is a way “ well said . Blessings the family.
this video made my heart melt. this is love.
This boy helps his mother because his life is full of joy and love!!! He gets attention from eveyone..his father is amazing too.
What a loving, supportive family unit which many non disabled people don’t have so they shouldn’t judge. Best of luck to them ❤
The problem lies in the title. Firstly, she is a mother with a disability, not a disabled mother - put the person first - not the disability. Second, the boy helps his mother, he doesn't care for her. Care refers to providing what is necessary for the health, welfare, maintenance, and protection of someone - this is being provided by the parents of the boy. If you know a struggling family, it is better to ask if you could help than criticise.
Thank you
everyone deserves the right to love and happiness like these three.
These women are blessed with happiness❤
THis boy has a heart of gold. His parent taught him well even despite their disabilities.
She is living her life to the fullest. This warms my heart. I wish the boy grows up being proud of his parents.
yeah at expense of this toddler...looks like he will be personal tired care giver with no childhood
It disgusts me that people have the Audacity and selfishness to tell a disabled person that they have no right to parent a child. Who are they to judge, those Self Righteous, selfish, humans?
Not everyone deserves to be parents, BUT you guys aren’t one of them. your disabilities doesn’t disqualify you from being parents. you love, you teach and you take care of your little one in the best way you can. be proud of the strength you have.
People telling the parents that they're selfish for raising a child are on some eugenics shi. Plainly wrong from how well adjusted the boy already is ❤
The kid is so kind, helping his mother, he so sweet 🥰🥰
Wow!! What an amazing mother, son, husband, family!! ALL LOVE and RESPECT!!
This boy will be an actual super man when he gets older
Love is a special language and can over look so many deficits.
What a lovely kind clever little boy bless 👍🤗🙏💖🇬🇧
Not just the little one is a hero. Both of his hardworking parents are as well 😍🙏🏾
They are a team
This bought tears to my eyes, this shows that there is genuine true love in this world.
A child raised with the of two parents is a fortunate child.
You are wonderful parents ❤️
both the parents and the son are such beautiful, amazing people. I can tell that the parents are raising their son well, and the son is improving their lives so much.
Lucky her giving birth to an angel heaven and earth i sincerely beg you to protect them
Love u little boy. Beautiful family❤❤
It's videos like these that make me cry because they have sweet moments that most people would frown upon.
I think it's very sweet that these parents have such a happy helpful little boy.
Hello, how are you Elizabeth?
They are loving and nurturing their child mentally, physically, and emotionally. I would say they are doing an amazing job!
I knew I would cry and I did...
Such a beautiful little boy. He loves his mommy ❤️
"Where there is life, there is a way "
Touched my soul 🥺
This is the best thing that I've seen today 😭😭✋️❤️
They are a family. They work hard, they don't let their disability limit them. They seem to love and care for their child just fine. There are so many neglectful parents out there who don't have cerebral palsy. I wish them all the best.
Like always, the father/husband will never claim. He is the 'guardian angel' for both 😊
No one has a right to question these beautiful parents . Child under this parents will grow with love .
Mothers like her are strong and brave in this cruel world. As a mom myself, I want to say to all these women : I love you and respect you❤️Never stop fighting
Okay ur right but what about the kid and her husband first of all society have to remove these WOMENS DAY and replace it with HUMANS DAY 🧡
@@firefixten4794 My comment has nothing to do with women's day or whatever. You are forced to celebrate these days. Wrong video
Dios bendiga a este niño, que sea un hombre de bien, para cuidar a su madre cuando ya esté grande. Dios lo bendiga.