PREGNANCY Q&A - 4TH TRIMESTER | labor story, postpartum, newborn life

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  • @nicolemerci220
    @nicolemerci220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for being so real & transparent with your post partum journey. Makes me feel more confident about not caring about post - body image & knowing routines can be set. 💕

    • @KennedyStidham
      @KennedyStidham  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for watching & supporting!! 🥹🥰🤍

  • @jena839
    @jena839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To anyone who is worried about gaining weight and how you will look after delivery that’s totally normal and in no way means you’re not ready to have a baby and be a mom… everyone is different and everyone’s weight gain is different during pregnancy and everyone is different after pregnancy and not everyone “bounces back” as quick. I was chubby my whole life, I was tired of being fat and lost 50lbs and never wanted to look how I did before ever again. I was afraid to gain weight. I was in the best shape of my entire life when I finally got pregnant again after 8 years of trying and lost 2 babies. I was so fucking excited. But let me tell you gaining weight as beautiful as it was growing a human and how happy and excited I was for the next chapter gaining weight was hard for me. I had a very traumatic delivery and pp anxiety and I wasn’t able to work out as soon as I would of liked and 8months later I’m still working on losing the baby weight and yes it is difficult mentally but that has ZERO affect on my ability or readiness to be a great mom. Our bodies do amazing things and growing another human life isn’t easy! Everyone is clearly entitled to their own opinions! So agree to disagree! But it does get easier and when you’re ready to diet and exercise and get back to feeling and looking like you did before pregnancy you can do it!

    • @KennedyStidham
      @KennedyStidham  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      everyone is entitled to their opinion and that was mine!

    • @jena839
      @jena839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course. Agree to disagree 🤍

    • @KennedyStidham
      @KennedyStidham  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jena839 and never meant it to come across as affecting your "ability and readiness" to be a mother. i simply just stated that i personally did not worry about it because i was just so focused and grateful for the life i was growing that "gaining weight" was not my focus

    • @jena839
      @jena839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KennedyStidham like you said as well I do miss my bump. I miss the movement and kicks in there and during it was not my main focus I didn’t think about it constantlyyyy the weight gain, I was so grateful to be pregnant finally and excited for this next chapter of being mom! But it was at the back of my mind and didn’t fully hit me till a couple weeks after he came out, just my journey with weight and eating I just wanted to say that some women do think about it and have a hard time with it that’s all! Your initial answer came off super harsh to me so it was just a trigger like woa I was ready I am ready lol that’s I guess where my response came from. I started following you on here after I watched I think your first trimester video it was and I stayed subscribed because I liked how real you seemed and how honest you were and there aren’t many videos like yours pregnancy related that I have found at least, it was just that answer that hit me.

    • @KennedyStidham
      @KennedyStidham  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jena839 im sorry it came off to you like that & glad you could bring it to my attention so i can know for future to explain better 🫶🏼

  • @kennadyoliver1398
    @kennadyoliver1398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m obsessed with her name, your message about body image, and the whole aesthetic. So glad you had a mostly positive and healthy birth story!🤍

  • @elizabethflagler431
    @elizabethflagler431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg I 10000 percent agree, if you are focused on baby weight instead of thinking of what a wonderful thing you are doing, growing a human and doing everything you can to nourish it, then you deff aren't ready to be pregnant! loved this video!! God bless

  • @emilybryant7671
    @emilybryant7671 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! I’m a postpartum nurse so I gotta correct you and say - your postpartum nurses would absolutely know what to do in that situation. We are all trained for hemorrhage emergencies! Just wanted to give anyone watching that clarification, because it can happen regardless of where you are in your recovery. 💛

  • @bethanytwiddy4862
    @bethanytwiddy4862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It is awesome that breastfeeding went so smoothly and that she’s sleeping through the night already. But for anyone else who is struggling with either, please know that, that is very rare. Don’t beat yourself up if you’re not having the same experience as her! 🤍

  • @taylormosley4751
    @taylormosley4751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not pregnant, or plan to be for a while unless God chooses differently, but love love these videos and how real you are! Love a supportive group on YT even if we aren’t all in the same stage of life 🥹🥹

  • @mayanaconnor4973
    @mayanaconnor4973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so crazy I was born at Newton Wellesley 22 years ago!! Congratulations on your beautiful daughter

  • @jessicaslater9735
    @jessicaslater9735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kennedy, my postpartum story is/was so similar. Elle had Jaundice too. No one really talks about recovery or how hard it really is. Thanks for sharing your story girl. Killing it❤️

  • @user-ub8ty2yz6n
    @user-ub8ty2yz6n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations and thank you for sharing! Would love a favourite makeup products video, your makeup is always on point!!

  • @jillhogan9639
    @jillhogan9639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was born at newton wellsley hospital in 1994!!So happy you had an amazing experience there 🤍

  • @shan_in_texas
    @shan_in_texas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story with us! So happy you and baby girl are doing well 😊❤️ congratulations again !!!

  • @allisonslittleworld
    @allisonslittleworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not even close to finishing the video but I love the transparency. Preach it!! Can’t wait to have the Stidhams in Vegas 🤍 whoop whoop

  • @t.g5223
    @t.g5223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First of all, you look amazing as always. Truly the most beautiful momma 💖 in every one of your videos I feel like I’m listening to a friend. I’m so happy for you guys. Little Lennon Love is so LOVED!🥰

  • @savannaharmstrong9298
    @savannaharmstrong9298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bio oil is 100% why I didn’t get stretch marks either. All over my stomach back and butt!!!! Every day!!

  • @jolandaplieger
    @jolandaplieger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're looking great, just glowing.

  • @audreyannalise8485
    @audreyannalise8485 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My daughters name is Lennon too ❤️❤️❤️she’s 8 months old!

  • @davabandrade
    @davabandrade 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you use the pink or the blue spectra?

  • @HannaZahara
    @HannaZahara 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why didn’t your mom name her 3rd daughter’s middle name love?

    • @HannaZahara
      @HannaZahara 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like addison or chloe

    • @KennedyStidham
      @KennedyStidham  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HannaZahara nikki is the 3rd, chloe is last and her middle name is Grace because she wanted it to be! and i actually said why in the vlog- but also my mom's grandma had passed away at the time she was born so she used her name instead for her!

  • @சிங்மதன்
    @சிங்மதன் 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Singh. .hai.. Tamil. Tamil. Singh

  • @Kylierenee.e
    @Kylierenee.e 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this video so much 🤍 I’ve always been terrified of child birth & this honestly helped ease my anxiety so much

  • @tayleroseblock
    @tayleroseblock 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. Love watching your journey!! Best wishes for you and your fam!🤍