My husband doesn't move an inch when he gets home[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.11.19]

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    Hello Counselor EP.388
    - Park Junhyeong, Kim Jihye, Hanhae, TWICE's Mina & Jihyo
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ความคิดเห็น • 67

  • @straightforwardperson5222
    @straightforwardperson5222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I like this show a lot because they help families to come together I wish this kind of show was in all countries.

  • @lisaoppa5784
    @lisaoppa5784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Sometimes when i look at him i feel so bad for him when they asked about his teeth and talk about his obesity. I mean like everyone has insecurities i think he must have felt really insecure too. But i do agree it’s bad of him to not do anything.

    • @jinthehanakji2864
      @jinthehanakji2864 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. I feel bad for him too honestly. While I do agree he needs to help around the house, he barely gets any sleep. I do hope they both become happy together. In this scenario, I blame no one.

  • @Iamwall
    @Iamwall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    This guy is the epitome of procrastination at its finest.

    • @-maquia-
      @-maquia- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is this a parody account for Justin Y

  • @여자그냥
    @여자그냥 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    His sleeping and not helping while making his family do errands for him is a problem but the fact that he doesn't even know his daughter's age is even worse

  • @tashieschimchim6791
    @tashieschimchim6791 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I think he needs to be rescreened by a different doctor, because he is definitely showing signs of narcoleptic episodes. Also, they need serious counseling

    • @Truecrimeresearcher224
      @Truecrimeresearcher224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe after the show they did. I think this show has resources ready in case. But since we rarely see a follow up with guests we will never know.

  • @margarita2go
    @margarita2go 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    The husband may have a sleeping order. He should let a doctor check him.

    • @nobody-bx3pq
      @nobody-bx3pq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He said he was tested for it in another show, but he doesnt have nacrolepsy.

  • @eunicelim9112
    @eunicelim9112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My dad is somewhat like this dad.
    My dad is obese
    My dad had a tough job
    My dad can fall asleep within one min
    But My dad cook for us sometimes.
    My mum and dad would quarrel bc of money. He’s gone now, this year. He died from sudden heart attack, we didn’t get to see him before that. and we didn’t know ANYTHING. and my mum keep cryin & sayin “why didnt I take care of him well” and we, the siblings felt rlly bad, we regret not takin care of him.
    sometimes we chose to judge and hate someone without understanding what’s happening in the person mind.

  • @yuyumishi
    @yuyumishi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    The husband can actually fall asleep in 45 seconds! Even slept through the wife's complaint, then wakes up after his daughter wakes him up😂😂😂 Also sleeps for 2 days and wakes up for food, he should enter a sleeping competition or something 😂

  • @peachyyjoon6397
    @peachyyjoon6397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    *my mom works a total of 16 hours a day but she manages to get up and feed her children. 10 hours is alot, but he should get more rest each night or day so he can save energy!*

  • @densilhmay8262
    @densilhmay8262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Maybe a 10 hour work day is simply too much for his body. Everyone's limits are different, just because some people can do it and still have energy left over doesn't mean everyone can. Also sleeping for two days straight without waking up doesn't sound like laziness to me. When you are asleep you can hardly make the decision to be lazy.....that is a sign to me that his body was so completely depleted of energy that is simply could't keep going. Almost like a coma. I would go again to a doctor and maybe let his sleep be monitored for longer, maybe he has sleep apnoe or something else that disrupts his sleep and lessens his sleep quality. Because with sleep not only the quantity but also the quality is important. When I look at his schedule objectively I am surprised that they weren't more shocked about it? He said he wakes up at 4:00 o'clock and goes to work at 4:30 o'clock and only comes back at around 20:00 o'clock or 21:00 o'clock. Maybe the translations are off on this? Because if this is true he is 16 hours out of 24 in a day occupied with work or going to work. That is simply insane. Even if he would go to bed immediately he would only get 8 hours or sleep. And that would be if he really just opens the door and walks through the apartment straight to his bed to sleep. 7-8 hours of sleep is often said to be the recommended amount of sleep and although that varies per person I think it is highly likely - considering that he still has to eat and get ready for bed - that he get's maybe 5 hours of sleep per day. If you sleep less than 5 hours for a prolonged period of time you are actually damaging your brain. It can lead to all kinds of serious issues, so please take sleep seriously.

  • @smileyhope4901
    @smileyhope4901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm so speechless. Its not that he should try to change its he must change. I feel so bad for his wife and daughters. Your children dosent grow on their own. They need attention and love from both parents . Your family happiness should be a priority.

  • @HoneySoifon
    @HoneySoifon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I like it how very often on this show couples have problems but they still stick together and still love each other.

    • @Longsotoad
      @Longsotoad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agree. but westerners in the comments always scream just get a divorce. Its sad to see. Not even a thought of trying before going to that extreme.

    • @amazeedayzee
      @amazeedayzee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      some problems can be resolved but others are more than enough grounds for divorce. the stigma against divorce, single parents, and abortion in east asia combined with traditional gender expectations results in an overwhelming pattern of trapping women especially in unhappy marriages. many of the spouses who appear on this show are only doing so because it's their last resort before separating. i fully support divorce if it will improve their lives

    • @Truecrimeresearcher224
      @Truecrimeresearcher224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Rene S they might not be on the show but if it's serious enough or a danger they probably have resources on hand. Like there was a concern where a girl ate nothing but ramen and they sent her to a doctor. If they do have people it's probably more private depending cause of stigma attached

  • @emilylhirsch
    @emilylhirsch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    this dude is a snorlax no hate at all

  • @Pinkygirl2606
    @Pinkygirl2606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    is it just me or do i feel like the husband has hints of depression problem?

    • @soniahardani
      @soniahardani 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I feel that he has diabetes symptoms, which is easily get sleepy

  • @honeybadger_
    @honeybadger_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He might have some sleeping disorder, but you don't need to talk about his teeth or obesity. You can see that he was quite sad and when he smiled he tried covering his teeth.

  • @mischun
    @mischun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So only one acknowledged that He worked at construction site from 4:30 - 8 pm?

  • @cookiekyung4635
    @cookiekyung4635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    *Mina doesnt like couches. She sticks with her bed.* Haha. But I understand her, she always has a hard day at work, so busy as an idol, is an introvert and likes playing games than going outside.

  • @icdm
    @icdm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    OOT but I'm feeling so sad just for watching him 😥

  • @meganwilliams7129
    @meganwilliams7129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel so bad for this family. He might have some kind of sleep disorder. Lets hope this family can fix this before its too late.

  • @kimyongsun76
    @kimyongsun76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    이거 통으로 봤는데, 남편분도 쌓인게 많아 보이 던데... 몇몇은 기질로 보이던데 가족들이 이해 못하는 것도 보이고, 하튼 대화로 풀어야 겠죠

  • @Fukuro_1406
    @Fukuro_1406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know how tired is working at construction stuff....since i worked at it, i getting tired so much, and my weight got +10kg from 50kg to 60kg for a year....getting lazy as i come to my dorm...always sleepy and almost get depressed coz everyone complain how i was getting fat and become lazy...but lately i do some work out to get away this bad habit, and i getting better now...he need a routine exrecise!

  • @polarisstar4719
    @polarisstar4719 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If he dont have sleeping disorder, than he should check his sugar blood. He could have diabetes

  • @AsseelAlnuaimi
    @AsseelAlnuaimi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds like my dad. I’m studying upstairs and he calls me to make him tea, sit downstairs, give him his medicine and more

  • @wayangwong763
    @wayangwong763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    that guy is the same with my husband. I feel so angry with him. and hate him already.

  • @Glaciusess
    @Glaciusess 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her husband sounds like Korean Homer Simpsons XD

  • @lyalyakim9898
    @lyalyakim9898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel really bad for him.
    He is working hard to provide his family.
    If I had to wake up 4 a.m. and come back home at 8 p.m. I would also fall asleep in a second everywhere and any time

  • @graceshen
    @graceshen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    istg all these guys are construction workers

  • @kenampheiree6536
    @kenampheiree6536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    dad?! I found you😳

  • @denali2412
    @denali2412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I get he may be lacking or whatever but the most irritating thing is to be woken out of your sleep to do something for someone. That’s irritating.

  • @joanolgakeine6971
    @joanolgakeine6971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This man is a real life sloth lmfao haha

  • @letsalltakeawalk6906
    @letsalltakeawalk6906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The daughters are beautiful. The youngest in particular has a unique look.

  • @Rochelle_Ballah
    @Rochelle_Ballah 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    엄마: 오빠 사랑해
    딸들: 🤭😮😲
    난: ㅋㅋㅋ 🤣

  • @victorkim190
    @victorkim190 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    새벽 4시에 나가서 저녁 8시에 오는 사람한테 일시키고 싶냐? 그것도 밖에서 힘든일인데..남편이 불쌍하다.
    왜 다들 남편을 탓하냐.

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sawdhannajar hati dughatana ghati saidnahi bas aise hi ab aayega khel ka maja puri wald ko khel sikhata hoo aajaye medan me humto bolte hai jise bolna samne bole jawab denge ak pade likhe ki bat sunata hoo faisanmodal ke jamane me pade hai dekho thoda gurur ki humpade likhehai sunate hai ok

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abak sun lo ab humunse koi nata nahi na unka bat sunna hai na bolna hai bas ok

  • @LK-ip4ej
    @LK-ip4ej 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    아줌마 하루라도 일 따라가서 하면 완전 이해할텐데.....하루종일 힘든 일 하면 아무것도 안 하고 싶음.. 그냥 만원 이만원 주면 전등도 갈아주고 하는 서비스 동네마다 있음. 그거 이용하세요.

  • @yoshiwenkai586
    @yoshiwenkai586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yoooooo I was zoning out because I just ate some raveolies however you spell it, AND THEN! I saw of what looked like a queen. I re-winded and boom....It was Jihyo lolllll I looked towards the right and boom again...Mina lookin like she owns the place bc she does, she owns my heart too.

  • @marshae.theteacher
    @marshae.theteacher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow when she came in she looked so drained

  • @yunatuna198
    @yunatuna198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hanhae is so cute

  • @pandaonsteroids5154
    @pandaonsteroids5154 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ..People who show sympathy to this guy are like sympathizers of the South during the Civil War. I just don't like this guy. It seems like at home he just ignores everything he doesn't want to do and throws fits and acts selfish when he can't get something he wants. People saying divorce is bad.. Hey, maybe. It's better for children to live with both parents, BUT not if they're growing up in a toxic environment worried when's the next time their parents'll fight or if one of them will get hurt or leave one night suddenly unannounced. When you're with a person that is trash, sometimes.. it's best to leave them. It might be better for your children too. There's something called joint-custody man.

    • @pandaonsteroids5154
      @pandaonsteroids5154 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just watched the ending though and I see he is going to try to change. I cheer on everyone and wish the best for everyone. But anyone can say they'll change. You gotta see if he'll change first. Only he can prove he can change cuz up to now he hasn't been doing nothing like that. Just saying. Goodluck though.

  • @jorezzaantonio5765
    @jorezzaantonio5765 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The husband is probqbly suffering from hypersomnolence.

  • @dearsns3982
    @dearsns3982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are like my parents😂😂😂

  • @MadixieNormous
    @MadixieNormous 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    9 th and first comment

  • @tiffanylee4849
    @tiffanylee4849 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t live with him omg

  • @김민정-b1e4o
    @김민정-b1e4o 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    솔직히 한심하다. 저건 병아닌가

  • @김대윤-k2u
    @김대윤-k2u 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    옷정리 오년 만에ᆢ우리집도

  • @MM-pz2rt
    @MM-pz2rt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm early!!!

  • @sierra-x
    @sierra-x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everything she expected her husband to do (move the furniture, tighten some screws, etc.) can all be done by a woman. I understand that it’s frustrating that he doesn’t do it, but she could have done it herself instead of letting things go for weeks. If something needs done, I get it done myself.
    Also, random, but the couple in the audience (with the guy in the black turtleneck) is so cute! The expressions they give each other when they’re surprised are so funny.

    • @Doggiemix1
      @Doggiemix1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes these chores can be done all by herself, or even by some hired help. That's not the point though. They are in a married relationship where spouses are supposed to help each other. He just keeps saying he will do things until they don't get done or she gets frustrated and do them herself. That's not a partnership. He's just being lazy. It's unfair to the wife and kids to shoulder all the burden.

    • @sierra-x
      @sierra-x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Doggiemix1 I agree, I wouldn’t put up with it and I don’t think it’s fair to them. I just also wouldn’t sit around and wait so long, I’d lose the ability to rely on him.

  • @choohah5604
    @choohah5604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He even lazy to take care of his own teeth.. jjamna tsk

    • @lisaoppa5784
      @lisaoppa5784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Krystal Chi it’s not that he doesn’t take care of it. He got into an accident that’s why his front tooth are gone

  • @88ひびき
    @88ひびき 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    dude how tf did he get her as a wife???