Super patriarchal husband [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.06.17]

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  • @mee_ep
    @mee_ep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    I'm scared about what he did to his wife when they went home after filming this...

  • @Ari-lq9pl
    @Ari-lq9pl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    This man is abusive both mentally and probably physically behind close doors. I hope she finds the courage to leave. He will not change. His friends are a bunch of abusers also smh.

  • @xoxogarden2452
    @xoxogarden2452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    This was probably one of the worst concerns I ever saw. Even when the concerns can be very problematic, in order to keep the comedy vibe the hosts keep joking around but this time they barely tried to make people laugh because they were so angry and frustrated. Especially, Youngja, she seemed ready to tackle some sense into the guy

    • @alyaadibah9695
      @alyaadibah9695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeah because that man himself is openly angry and pissed at everyone so the vibe turned out very awkward. i've never seen a person so rude in this show

  • @ItsBrittanyLajoyce
    @ItsBrittanyLajoyce 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    this "concern" is literally a concern almost every episode...…...……

    • @MsBiedronaa
      @MsBiedronaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Brittany Blessed and like these concerns sometimes.. ekhem,, like require sth more than a visit on a variety show ;)))

    • @elizabethwalker2033
      @elizabethwalker2033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I know, it's sad. I think it used to come up once in a while on the show starting in 2016(?), but patriarchal husbands have always been a problem wayyyyy before the show even started.

    • @elizabethwalker2033
      @elizabethwalker2033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MsBiedronaa And even after all of that, these husbands most likely don't change...

    • @millie4689
      @millie4689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Probably because they get more extreme each time and the producers think it would make an interesting show

  • @nyckim2949
    @nyckim2949 5 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    ...This man Is not GOING TO CHANGE LMFAOO...He's as traditional as it gets and his sons most likely are to follow in his foot steps. He's gonna be like this till his dying days. Btw I can tell their is gonna be huge fight at home and I'm praying that it's not going to be physical ...👀😬

    • @crsskll11
      @crsskll11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The more I watched the video, the more I worried for the wife. Throughout the whole video the guy striked me as the type who would abuse his wife were she to do something like what she has done.

    • @nyckim2949
      @nyckim2949 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@crsskll11 Exactly I can sense he not only verbally abuse her but also physical behind closed doors.

    • @crsskll11
      @crsskll11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@nyckim2949
      Hopefully she will muster the courage to leave him. He is the definition of a toxic and sexist man.
      Other women have come with similar problems, but he is the first one who openly disrespected the female host and guests and didn't even pretend he was sorry and would try to change.
      I hope her sons open their eyes and start seeing how toxic their father is, because I'm 100% he's raising them to be as misogynistic and abusive as him, and we don't need more men like that.

  • @kamelia7872
    @kamelia7872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    i really try to understand people's situations but i can NOT get why a woman should stay in a toxic relationship like this!

    • @ifmyhusbandisntjinfrombtsi4044
      @ifmyhusbandisntjinfrombtsi4044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      culture wise thats why

    • @mango_mango5456
      @mango_mango5456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      kids

    • @kamelia7872
      @kamelia7872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@mango_mango5456 actually when we think that we should stay in a relation like that because of kids we would be doing a huge mistake..the kids won't be happy and once they grow up and see what kind of person their dad was they will tell their mom that she shouldn't stay with him..all what they can remember from their house once they grow up is the sadness and the stress in it

    • @tiarapratiwi7595
      @tiarapratiwi7595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      some women doesnt want to divorce especially when they already have children

    • @Nothing-iz6hw
      @Nothing-iz6hw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kamelia7872 PREACH!!!

  • @mMU4aCpVq-j
    @mMU4aCpVq-j 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    He will never change. the way he treats women including the wife just proves that he will never change. Just get divorced. Why does the wife want to change him? Just get divorced.

  • @jjpark9147
    @jjpark9147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    This program is great, but defines a lot of things about society. It tells how screwed up the country is... there will be no end to this show...

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Let's hope that this show doesn't actually end. Korea is a "save-face" country, and this show unveils all of that to reveal what type of society we will in now.

    • @ai6028
      @ai6028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@StephJ0seph it's not just korea, the whole of asia is exactly the same. They care more about reputation and how other people view them, it's just sad.

    • @tiarapratiwi7595
      @tiarapratiwi7595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i think that its not just in korea, a lot country have the same problem, its just other country doesnt have this kind show

  • @imanjabrane2072
    @imanjabrane2072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    LADY LEAVE HIM!!!!! HE IS NOT GONNA CHANGE!

  • @shochan1510
    @shochan1510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I can't understand why it only has 161 votes...It deserves a 201 votes for goodness sake.!

    • @farheenalfirdausirozaimiya6466
      @farheenalfirdausirozaimiya6466 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FR LIKE WHO DOESNT VOTE IS SUCH A LOSER 😭

    • @Krishna-ev4zi
      @Krishna-ev4zi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@farheenalfirdausirozaimiya6466 that not a thing sometimes total count of buzzers is not recorded properly because people presses the key multiple times even though they have to press just once.

    • @farheenalfirdausirozaimiya6466
      @farheenalfirdausirozaimiya6466 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Krishna-ev4zi i seee

  • @magicboxofmusic
    @magicboxofmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I’m glad he doesn’t have a daughter

    • @syafiraazzahra5118
      @syafiraazzahra5118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      But he probably gonna influence his sons.

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@syafiraazzahra5118 A bittersweet situation. I'm glad that he doesn't have a daughter too, but from the sound of it he's raising sons that will turn out to be like him..

  • @melissakacin11
    @melissakacin11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    holy shit. being a married woman, I would be absolutely terrified if this was my husband. hopefully by now she’s found peace by leaving him, since there’s no reasoning with this man.

  • @ArcticFalcon
    @ArcticFalcon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This concerns deserved 201 votes

  • @oneshortkat
    @oneshortkat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That woman on the left at 9:42 was right to press the button right then and there. This guy is a HUGE problem. Unfortunately, I think he's never gonna change.

  • @sarahscorpios
    @sarahscorpios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    okay so people REALLY have to stop coming on to shows like this with husbands like these. we all know he probably will not completely change his ways, he wants to go home so he's acting nice for the camera. she needs a lawyer and a better support system to help her get out and stay out of that household with her children because her sisters were not angry enough. get these people some help, not votes.

  • @TatiSimoes4
    @TatiSimoes4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Poor lady... I really hope he changes and can treat his family with respect and love 😔

  • @kanyisalongweni4619
    @kanyisalongweni4619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He won't change trust me. This guy is so rude. I really hated the snorting he kept making every time his wife spoke, it was so belittling like he doesn't care to hear what she has to say.
    I believe for the lady's own peace of mind they should just divorce because this is an unhealthy relationship. Even more so as his patriarchal manners are negatively influencing his sons.

  • @mee_ep
    @mee_ep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She should just divorce him... *I'd like to see him try to get married to a "rich woman"* ...

    • @anarchsnark
      @anarchsnark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He could never keep a rich woman because she'd have more than enough financial resources to dump him whereas his current wife may not.

  • @guppiegupp
    @guppiegupp ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I mean I'm glad he got a little bit humiliated publicly and whatever, but that's not enough action to humble an abuser, it makes them act worse when their victims tell on them, I'm scared of what's happening in the household after this episode :(

  • @prathvishetty4993
    @prathvishetty4993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I really want to tell this to the wife. Sister ,please leave that guy he don't deserve you TBH, when he was rude to women guest and host I really got so angry... Like, if I was there I would have made me taste his own medicine. I seriously think his wife needs more courage and leave that husband because he truly is a like a bully who just wants to be treated like King. I hope she leave and stay with her sister or alone with her children so attest they won't be like him . The thing he's saying that he would leave a better life he would marry a rich women, like dude,the girl would have left you earlier. I wish his child won't be like him.... Please don't be like ur dad when u grow up guys.... I'm telling you again sis it's not too late , till now!!

  • @sage6861
    @sage6861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'd say the easy solution would be to leave him, but knowing how conservative South Korea is it's probably much harder to live as a single mom there.

  • @salve1185
    @salve1185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i hope she did get to divorce him! she can do well without her toxic husband since she has work she can support herself and her two kids

    • @Krishna-ev4zi
      @Krishna-ev4zi ปีที่แล้ว

      Single korean parents and children faces lots of discrimination in their society that's why lots of women don't leave their husband for children's happiness.

  • @noratikah7983
    @noratikah7983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Haiyaa just leave him. You have ur own income

  • @keyg8
    @keyg8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    damn to keep up with this man for 17 years? i would leave my his ass from first meeting if he said anything that belittle women -_-

  • @Moglomlov
    @Moglomlov 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He is unbelievably childish I don’t know how he grew up to think that the way he’s acting is okay at all. I thought he could change but the ending made me think otherwise. She needs to divorce him, she can’t carry on living like that.

  • @en-8669
    @en-8669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He is the most selfish person in the entire world!!!!!!! Hope the wife divorce the husband. She deserves better. No one should be treated like that. 17 years is enough.

  • @Yorstruly
    @Yorstruly ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yea..this guy isn't ever gonna change, it's all for show. i know a lot of guys like this person here
    but i wish he does and change for the better

  • @steponmelisa4540
    @steponmelisa4540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He can't change bcs his ego and pride is bigger than mount Everest. Divorce is best option for her

  • @Zzz-tf5fd
    @Zzz-tf5fd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm shocked...... Husband is not respecting wife ......
    I'm sure he's not going to change.
    He just pretending .

  • @sarahagustine9426
    @sarahagustine9426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    After see this concern when i was meet this husband i want to swear to him

  • @riyabhatoia9357
    @riyabhatoia9357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this the type of man that won't fucking change just get divorced.

  • @mari_7225
    @mari_7225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Geez my dad is the same way but he has calmed down.. Thank god :I

  • @nurhidayu4865
    @nurhidayu4865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    for me this episode is really a serious concern!thats why im afraid to get married.her husband dont change at all...i think he have to said that because they are filmed...and im afraid her son became like his father and all women in this world dont want getting married with a man like him...i hope they divorced and his wife will live in a better place and better environment than before

  • @theacuber4914
    @theacuber4914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She really needs to divorce him.he is just crazy.

  • @Daisy-fs9if
    @Daisy-fs9if 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He won't change....

  • @tiarapratiwi7595
    @tiarapratiwi7595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    if its me, i left forever -_-"' he need maid not wife, go get one then

  • @Nomiey777
    @Nomiey777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This program need jeyoung... that women in pink shirt... she is so real

  • @salve1185
    @salve1185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    why are the hosts and everybody’s like making it some kind of a joke, when clearly, this is a serious concern, and the woman badly needs their help to resolve their concern.. this show could be much better if they hire a real counselor/psychologist who has the professional expertise on how to handle conflicts

  • @user-qb8nq9ce3o
    @user-qb8nq9ce3o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    진짜 못되 쳐 먹게 생긴게 남자인게 벼슬이냐. 맞벌이하고 있는데 왜 지가 혼자 가장이라도 되는듯 행동하는지..개역겨움. 그냥 저런건 이혼을 해줘야함. 평생 지 혼자 살라고 해라

  • @babyzahiandfamily7438
    @babyzahiandfamily7438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just tell your husband that rich woman don't want marry a man like you yobo, I'm the only one who want to marry you..and you are so lucky

    • @afiy9959
      @afiy9959 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right ..why does he needs a rich woman afterall. He needs rich man.

  • @abigailk7900
    @abigailk7900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m sorry why is there soo much cases of this on the show .we know they aren’t going to change and it isnt good for the environment.The last thing left is getting a lawyer to divorce

  • @325391506
    @325391506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She should definitely divorce and this guy should just live by himself forever so that his toxicity does not harm others!

  • @alice-gc6bh
    @alice-gc6bh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He’s misogynistic to a point of no return. I feel like hitting my chest like kdramas as I’m watching him.
    What bullheaded Neanderthal. So unfeeling.
    For your sanity, divorce him

  • @mishaj2603
    @mishaj2603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like this show, but recently I been wondering nd really concerned abt the ppl who appear on this show. My bad or may I am wrong, though I am not a Korean person I have heard people are really narrow minded. Wouldn't it affect the people's daily lives ..?

  • @theunemotionalpisces
    @theunemotionalpisces 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's scaring me most is their starting to act like him in the future....i dont think he is gonna change.

  • @karin5116
    @karin5116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    why do some men

  • @foxfireglo8290
    @foxfireglo8290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonder what happened to this couple.

  • @martine440
    @martine440 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This man is a headache.

  • @rru3734
    @rru3734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    저 아저씨 표정을 보아하니, 방송 끝나고 이혼하겠구만, 눈빛 무섭다

  • @annlisa8079
    @annlisa8079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This guy very selfish. Selfcentre. Should leave him to live alone. Then he will realize how much he need the wife in his life. He even advise the children to married rich woman. Even he regret married the wife because she not rich. Huh!!! I bet no rich woman want this guy and live with him. Pitty the wife too much love to this guy.

  • @miriambile3440
    @miriambile3440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is not going to change he was being soo fake...

  • @tainacstr
    @tainacstr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ugh, she should divorce him already

  • @ChoirunisaPrabawati_
    @ChoirunisaPrabawati_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kyknya ga bakal berubah deh ni suami,, :)

  • @mariad2792
    @mariad2792 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Live

  • @ytgntxntu4054
    @ytgntxntu4054 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    👉❤👈

  • @user-kb4np1xc2p
    @user-kb4np1xc2p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    저따구로할꺼면서 왜방송나왔데요
    가정교육정말못받은거 티내나
    챙피스러운줄알아야지

  • @user-ws4wk2ze1e
    @user-ws4wk2ze1e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    으~ 응 찌질남자네 돈많은 여자가 너랑왜결혼하니... 조폭앞에서 고양이??

  • @gwajadanji
    @gwajadanji ปีที่แล้ว

    표현 잘 못하는거 좋아하네. 분노는 표출 잘하면서. 진짜 표현 못하는게 뭔지 암? 화나도 화를 표출 못하는게 표현 못하는거임.

  • @user-di7ww2bh4d
    @user-di7ww2bh4d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    남편분.진정한 남자로 화목하게 잘 사시길 바랍니다.

  • @millie4689
    @millie4689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There seems to be a trend with these abusive husbands, I'm not trying to be mean but the wife is usually not so lucky with looks, so maybe she feels more restricted to stay with the horrible husband

  • @sky-m1x
    @sky-m1x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    얘기를 더 들을 필요를 못느끼네요!
    왜(?) 결혼생활을 계속 유지하는지.........
    한심할 따름,
    정신 바짝차리고, 사시길 진심걱정.....
    철이 덜 들은듯!!!!!

  • @lumpiangtanga9339
    @lumpiangtanga9339 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    out of the topic, this man looks like dk.

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abhi bahar aaya charchme ghumaaasabko bhi ghumaya auor it bhi khaliya bhid tha esliye nikalaaye ghar chala jaye aaj hi beta wapas jaraha hai use bidai karna hai uske bad milte hai ok

  • @milkeyway7105
    @milkeyway7105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Patriarchal husband.. I'm really bored of these kind of concern! Just divorce your guy already, geez

  • @user-ws4wk2ze1e
    @user-ws4wk2ze1e 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    싸가지가 없네

  • @momomo4534
    @momomo4534 ปีที่แล้ว

    생긴대로 노네요 .

  • @user-ey2hl6cz2d
    @user-ey2hl6cz2d 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    이사가서 집값 많이 올랐겠네 ㅋㅋ

  • @nurfatihahhamsan5343
    @nurfatihahhamsan5343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Imagine this guy meet Jimin of BTS who did ballet, loves being cute and just literally a nuclear of aegyo lmao. His dad even sent him flowers >.< a total opposite of that guy but his son turns out well

  • @shainitagomez7664
    @shainitagomez7664 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t feel bad for the woman because she decided to marry that type of guy