My husband gets so angry whenever I talk about my dad.[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.12.17]
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Hello Counselor EP.392
- Norazo(Jobin&Onehm), Seol Ina, Lee Hyeseong, Giriboy
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The husband tho😭😭 seems like he love everybody dearly
he is a sensitive guy the fact that he hasnt divorced his wife tells me he want to make the marriage work, and the ppl who always yell Divorce , think about the kids im sure the sons want the biological father a step father could abuse them and what not. Father is very important for son as a discipline and role model for daughters a father is a bar in how she chooses her future husband. i.e can she trust men
Yeah he’s a good guy
What a moving episode... It is a powerful example of how the simplest words can hurt someone deeply. It also shows how people who love each other can hurt each other, but as long as they understand that they care for each other and love one another, the issues can be resolved. For the husband, I admire how deep his emotions are and I actually commend his sensitivity to others. While it makes him more vulnerable to getting hurt, it also allows him to open his heart more easily and feel love for the people around him. It's glaringly obvious that he loves everyone dearly. His wife is amazing for having gone through so much just to be with the man she loves and the father handled everything so well. I wish the best for this family and I hope that they can resolve any issues they face quickly and focus on the happier parts of building their family.
Side note: I hope the mother-in-law forgives him after this episode. I got the feeling that she didn't show up because she didn't have good emotions towards her son-in-law. For the happiness of your daughter, support her and her husband. She already has a lot on her plate.
Hyerin Kim- I totally agree with everything you just said but when I heard at first what the husband said I was thinking that the wife maybe should have at least tried to talk to her husband at first because she kept crying most of the time and I understood why but like I felt like the man had a reason to cry I think the person who is at fault is mostly the in laws cause unnoticed that they are both kind hearted so I hope that now everything is better between their family’s 😊
I feel like this is the first time there has been a complete resolution on the show LOL they actually worked it all out
There was also the one where the two brothers didn't speak to each other for 8 years and after the show, they showed them going out and having drinks together. Even got them to give each other cheek kiss lol. That one was my favorite so far.
The husband has been the most reasonable person that I've seen on this show. He didn't just accept unreasonable things from his father-in-law to makeup quickly. He clearly wants real positive relationships with his entire family.
Thats so true
I must say the wife is very lucky to get a husband like him. It's very rare to find a man who respects your parents so much even though they never behaved with him properly.
That guy is keeper.... Kind, compassionate, patient, sensitive, handsome n loves u, Girl treasure him. Comfort him. Love him more....u can't find guy like him easily..
I cried a lot in this episode but I also laughed and smiled a lot. The husband loves everyone so dearly and beautifully that he is hurt by such words by someone he loves so much. He is a very good man. He is sincerely a sweet guy who loves everyone. I'm so glad they worked this all out. The father in law also sees his mistakes and accepts them and makes a huge step of not making them again. He also loves his son in law a lot! I'm so glad they all resolved this
Waaah. The husband is very emotional.😭😭😭 I can really feel that he has a kind and loving heart
The husband was so expressive.
Alot of men can't be as honest as he is~🥺🥺
Same goes with the father..
You barely see men like this. Especially with the in-laws..
사위
맘의 상처가 이해됩니다
그리고 멋지게 풀어내는 모습 진정한 남자네요
The son in law is hurt because he loves him so much. Also he cried because he really think of him as a father. That’s so rare. Most son in laws just go with the flow and they don’t visit often. He wants to do anything for them to like him. This concern is so cute because they kept holding hands and he was crying in happy and sorry tears.
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What a great husband. Most guys in my country wouldn't be so hurt by their father in law saying that. Aww I'm rooting for their family. Beautiful wife, beautiful husband, and 3 boys. They've been through so much. Stay strong family!!
Some ppl got the power to destroy you just with a simple words, why can't you be nice and say good things? Unbelievable, the guy it's his son in law but he treated him as a criminal, you gotta be aware that can't say things in the heat of the moment...It's really hurtful n those ppl act like nothin happens remember that the one who slaps you forget about it, but the one who got slapped won't forget.
Daya Sousa People have a power to destroy you with words only if you let yourself be destroyed. Not defending the dad js lol But it does hurt when someone you really trust breaks it
True it feels even worse when the other person doesn't even remember that he hurts you and you feel like you just over exaggerated
This is what we girls imagine our dream oppa hahaha handsome kind and sensitive, you can see he loves his family a lot, where can I find one jk
Hes such a catch (Jung Woo Sung look alike) being honest about his emotions unlike his father in law who's saving face. It was really messed up that the hosts were microanalyzing the husband's emotions to follow a narrative to support the wife.
This was one of the best episodes on hello counselor!
Also, the husband's face expression 17:07-17:33 😂👏
I have never seen such a sensitive man
As for the youngest son taking longer to talk, some children are like that. Especially boys. My older brother took longer to talk when he was a baby and now he won't shut up. The mom just needs to wait a little longer and I think he will catch up with his speech.
awwwww I love the husband. It's rare to find a husband who's willing to express himself so much and want a great relationship with his father-in-law. I wish the husband and wife happiness forever!
How sweet that they held hands and were able to make up😢.... seems like a lovely family
This was totally the daughters fault. She was messy and created a messy scenario. Nevertheless, I am happy that the men were able to resolve this issue despite her.
Ladydeezieaka KcMisses wtf, she’s completely innocent. You can’t blame her for being depressed.
@@chibiski13 lol right. If the husband was ugly, these people wouldn't be saying this
I don’t think it’s the wife’s fault but I think she should of at least tried to talk to her husband to see the reason why first of that didn’t work then bringing them to the show was a good reason to get them to talk so the wife is not at fault but I think at the time she didn’t completely understand the situation between her husband and father...
@@zoearhin6332 I think what they meant was her not being completely honest from the beginning when she was cheating
@@chibiski13 What.. Innocent..? She cheated someone.. Ofc u have to pay to hurt someone.. It is same for her at that moment.. That silly things almost made her being divorcee
The husband is so nice all he want is bit of love and respect .
the son in law seems like a really good guy,it would such a loss if they let him go
But then again I feel he deserves better although as Long as he is happy...this show (tho I like hello counsellor) literally supported the Wife more and it's the first time to c a Husband who feels bad and admits to faults, some of which even I don't see as a fault on his part and he didn't even use excuses like work stress etc like others
^just couldn't take the criticism against him cos women can be extra weak but men need to strong blah blah blah (just had to rant a little, hope its relatable?)
I like her husband... Man trying not to show their emotion and act manly.. But hurt inside.. I really like his husband to show emotion.. I hope you a happy healthy family.. Fighting💪
I think I am the only person who had issues with the girls father smiling? He just had this evil grin on his face that read manipulator. There's no harm in saying you can't remember, but when you say you didn't say anything like that, honestly wounds will not heal. You make your son in-law look like a liar and that in itself is wrong. Hopefully, the father can stay out of their marriage so that they can both work things out as a couple for their son and the betterment of their future.
This is a serious issue in so many families today. I hope they can work out their differences and for other opposing parents out there, you aren't doing your children any good by silencing their love. Let them love just as you have loved, give your blessings and mind your own marriage.
@쿠키쿠키 Exactly and I felt the hosts favoured him because he is a senior. The father knows what he is doing, period. When they told him to speak to his son in-law, he still didn't show repentance "the part where his daughter kept shaking her head as to correct him". Hopefully, the husband can forgive him but after watching and seeing her fathers character, plus the way he approached the whole situation, forgiveness will be hard. The son in-law will still have lingering grudge. His grudge may become worse, since his father in-law straight up denied saying everything on national and International television.
I think he was sweet and he just didn't think about how his words could hurt someone , I met a lot of people who had the kindest hearts but didn't process their words before saying them but that doesn't mean that they're wicked.
@@darksky1933 i think he want to make it sarcastic somehow, but those that he said really hurts people a lot. Like how he said oh my wife doesnt watch this show. I mean like wow this already can KO everything
V Lee honestly that comment was kind of funny ,and old people tend to be blunt...but I do know how it feels to be hurt by words only for the other person to shrug it off like that
Had that exact feeling ......
Communication is really important. I like the way they resolved things here. Everyone made mistakes but sometimes you need to talk to resolve misunderstanding. Even though it happened before marriage too but the peak of the problem was in Chuseok around 3 months ago. Somehow I am glad that it can be resolved earlier so they still remember the event well. It'll get worst if this misunderstanding cannot be resolved after years. It looks like the father-in-law's choice of words are way too honest without thinking others' feelings too much so it may happen again in the future but now the son-in-law knows more about the father-in-law, I hope in the future he can just understand and talk directly to his father-in-law for words that hurt him so they can resolve any misunderstandings quickly instead of keeping those inside. I also hope the wife gets proper treatment too and their youngest son can talk well soon. Be happy, to this family! All of them actually look kind in nature. They just need to keep communicating to each other.
wait! hold on! did she cheat on her boyfriend? Did I miss something here? She dating 2 men at the same time and she picked him. wow I'm speechless.
I almost feel bad for her.. But it is more like karma for her.. At that moment
Aigoo this is the most beautiful scene ever. I hope the son-in-law stop being too sensitive after this and also I hope the father can speak nicely loll. They're so cute♥
Daddy is so sweet and emotional. There're not many guys like him.
I cry a lot watching this but suddenly the drama again WTH😂😂
이혼하는게 나을듯하다.한 번 마음이 틀어지면 힘들어요.사람 싫은건
아버지 마음으로 다른 아버지 마음을 뭉개버렸으니... / 참, 풀기 어려운 상황인 것 같습니다./ 지금쯤 잘 해결 되셨기를...
Am I the only one who doesn't believe a word the father in law says???
I waited for the father come in, I was waiting for the program to end and comment it.... But even at the start he sounded fake, more fake than a 30$ bill. :V
He sounded as like my dad when someone asked if he really said or did that, he would like half deny half accept saying is something in the line but not that... So tiring...
If you're ordinary, you can't see who's sincere and who's not
Same
Me too.
Im glad that They resolve their conflicts.
The husband is so cute! They are a lovely family.
There is nothing wrong with speech therapy. It only helps the child and the mother wanted to help her child. Why is the father so scared of the stigma and trying to stop her? Plus hurting your wife for something she has no control over (like looking like her father) is really mean and doesn't resolve the issue. It sounds like he didn't handle it maturely.
Truly rooting for this family
his wife is so beautiful. she look like wjsn soobin 😍 and he look like winter sonata 2nd hero late park yong ha
Am i the only one bother by they date when she alr have a bf lol but stay happy now uguys
I want a husband like that
The guy looks like someone from a Korean drama. He is so handsome!
What the father in law said was mean... Man you can't say you don't care about your grandsons or him, you can see how he was mostly hurt by hearing about the kids than him. Also is amazing how the dad takes part of the family, what I have seeing in this program is have shocked and scared me of having a relationship or getting married, after this I have a bit of hope. The re is good man out there too. XD
P.s: the father in law remember my dad of how fake they both sound , they know they said really harsh things instead of accepting and apologize, no they need to like put you in his level, saying that you misunderstood what he said, but you also did wrong and we are even, when you couldn't have said half of what he said cause you where so shocked of hearing that that the rest of the conversation was all silence, akward heavy silence. 7_7
The husband looks a bit like actor Yoon Sang Hyun
the one who should sent this concern is the husband, seriously. He is a perfect husband, respect.
I love how America has Dr Phil , and whatnot stupid shows, that try to be funny by being disrespectful but Korea has 안녕하세요 Counselor, and it is so respectful although there are things that could be improved.
남자집에서 이걸보면 기분나쁠듯
여자가 양다리 걸친거구만
i wish for the husband happiness ,he is really nice.
I know what you also really wanted to say...
HE IS SO CUTE
Why are you here again?
Such a beautiful episode this is. 😭❤
Dear destiny,
Though my heart is already set for BTS, if I were to meet my husband in the future and it's not them, I would want a husband who is as understanding, family-oriented, loving and caring man as he is.
I actually prefer a guy who is charming rather than a pretty face so having both quality is a bonua for me.
Thanks UNIVERSEEEE
So......did you find him?
damn did anyone else cry as hard as i did??
girls this is husband goals
I am crying right now
Omg that's made me Cry 😢so much
that's why u can't be underweight if u want to get pregnant..i get it some ppl can't get fat..but honestly..seeing how korean view on the standard beauty standard...no wonder they r all underweight...jUst look at the idols...girl grp idol some of them didn't even get Their period for a year..due to weighT issue...as for the issue... that's why in my race there's an old and common saying of " if ur in-laWs don't/can't like u, It's bEtter for u to not get married".. because most of them end up divorcing not actually due to their relationship..most of divorced partners happen due to family members intervention.
I thought this was one of the most frustrating, but this is knida emotional, in my opinion. Just from seeing the reaction from rhe husband hearing that the father only cares for his daughter. It's understandable since he's a father with a daughter, but it was kinda hurtful for everyone in the studio even the hosts to hear
huhhh??? Noone's gonna talk about the wife two timing?? What's up with the wife and her father though?????
Wife kindda looks like grown up version of twice's mina 💙
Such concerns , when resolved on the show , makes me happy ...rather than when they make fun of people who need doctor / expert's help
Ps....HC is my fav k variety show
does anyone know the background music they used at 20:08 ? it was so moving I bawled my eyes out while hearing her father talk
마누라가 문제 인듯
so we gonna ingnore the fact that she was two timing before they got married? or am i missing something? they went past that like it was never said. they look like a happy family but i wouldn't trust someone was two timed before. what's keeping her from doing it again? i hope she keeps her past behind a locked door. it would be devastating for this man if she were to do something like that again. you can see how she is soft and kind he is.
Well i believe she get her karma by almost being divorcee.. I mean isnt it idiotic that because of her father's word her relationship would be end.. I took it as her karma
@@tingle2323 i would never marry a woman who was two timing before. the fact that he still stayed with her shows that he is a very good man.
@@aymanm.8462 true.. I won't be able to tolerate that i m somewhat become relationship breaker and i indirectly cause someone depression
Sometimes I don't like watching this show because the panel sides more on who sent the concern rather than listening to the real story. This is what happened here - just because the father in law is a sweet-talker and is old, they tried to blame it on the son-in-law. The son-in-law was hurt more because the father in law lied about everything.
I agree 100%!
the husband is too good for her.
노라조가 칠순잔치에 갔었을까? 긍금하네
아 저땐 코로나가 없었지 ㅠㅠ
장인이 나이만 나보다 많지 말하는거보면 생각은 내가 더많구만.난 저런 장인이 안되어야지.
이거는 풀기힘들다
내가 격어봐서
사랑과전쟁~~~사연같네
노답 울고불고할때 남편이 컴플렉스가 심하구나했구만 ...진짜네 ....남자는 자기를 믿어주는 사람에게 목숨도바치는데 수틀리면 답이없다
That woman who has concern look alike with soobin wjsn😁
i was serious when the wife is about to cry but then suddenly the camera moves to the cider guy --"
Love this topic. :"">
The husband looks so hurt
싫다
진짜답도싫고다싫다
어느집에서 일어날수있는일
It's happen only because of his wife
The husband should be the one with the concern she brought him into the whole mess and was too timing😒
The father in law s really two faced!
Yurim kinda look like gfriend"s yuju
Sorry for ignoring their problems but daaayyymmnn the husband is really good looking and i can tell he really loves his wife and sons, where can i find one?
Ananti Setya ikr😭😂😂
I thought it was the guys as Keith from Voltron on Netflix cuz of the mustache
Lmaoooo.. i was thinking the same!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This was a rollercoaster, I cried for most of it, I laughed when they intertwined fingers and then I clapped at the screen at the end.
I love that the husband admits to being a sensitive person but in the end all he wants is to be loved and appreciated. Most men have problems with addmitting that but he doesn't. His smile at the end just says it all.
This was the most heartwarming concern so far on this show.
I felt the same way. I'm so glad that everything worked out.
Same! I'm so glad I got to watch this episode and see/hear this story. There are some stories they've had that just leave me feeling icky or heartbroken. Here they broke my heart a bit from the sheer sincerity of the family members but then they mended it quite well 😊
@@talk2minie Yeah this is how all these episodes should be like. Not like that one from a few days ago where that father was molesting his son and people just brushed it off like ''it's his son, he owns him so he can do anything he wants with him''.
@@madeinbusanjkjm ugh! ikr! Don't even get me started on that one. I'm still grateful it gets exposed though so they can stop coz otherwise it will continue to happen behind closed doors. I still hate to watch it lol but I'm grateful for those impacted that it was exposed.
@@talk2minie Yeah but I feel like he got validated like he is doing the right thing because ''they're family''. The wife seemed totally desperate, it's like there was nothing she could do even though she feels it's wrong. The western viewers were like ''just divorce his ass and take the kids away from him'' but the marital situations in Korea are always more difficult and complicated than we think. I mean what if he gets rights to visit the kids alone? Than he would be doing this abuse behind closed doors and the wife wouldn't even be there to stop him......
I feel like the grandfather is good natured, but I think he really made a mistake in just denying he said everything. That really invalidates how the husband was feeling and I think over time they'll end up having this problem again because him denying it will just add to the husband's grudges. Instead of "how could i have said that?" it should've been "i didn't mean for it to sound the way it did." that way he can get across he meant something different without completely blowing off what the husband said.
if you watch the whole thing towards the 20 minute mark or so the father in law *did in fact admit* he was wrong to have been so against his son in law for no real reason other than work qualifications
Like said by Yoengja Ma'am; he could've just worded it differently
@@graciechung7001 well they said he denied, the program, who better understand Korean, so yeah~ he denied... Not that he didn't mean it, but he denied it. :)
this just proves that time after time that COMMUNICATION is important in any relationship!
Exactly. The two major reasons for any relationship to go sour are lack of communication and indirect communication
The husband is handsome when he smile hahhaha
Adhul Reo p
Ikr! His smile reminded me a bit of Min Yoongi's smile haha. He looked cute 🤗
@@ninoshkav the wife is cute too, they are perfect for each other, hope they can life happily from now on
• N I N A • K E V • yoongi's smile is gummy not handsome 😂
1993LoveTaehyung1995 tf u mean? Yes it is gummy, but he looks so handsome when he smiles
Her family is the problem . Let her live her life with the husband she choose and give your support dammit.
Anastaciacl18 they don't need their support too!
and honestly, if you talk about your problems with your parents about your significant other, wont that cause problems too and assumptions? they couldve worked it out as a couple & not bring other people in even if its family
imo its her fault. Her family seems supportive.
My mother's family had contempt for my father. It affected them the rest of their lives.
I shed a lot of tears when the son in law cried while hugging the father in law. How sorry and upset was he. I think he loves his in laws so much that was why he got hurt and upset so much. Glad to see they talk to each other again
Yes. It hurts a lot when your parents in law don't see you as family :( It happened to me with two relationships and it hurt alot. It made me not want to marry my partner because I didn't want to marry into a family that doesn't see me as a daughter. :( I'm so happy that they seem so close and you could tell the love between them is very strong :D
So the little lady was TWO timing huh. The problem started from the inception. I hope they move past this, and be better
I’m kinda having mixed feelings. The husbands feelings are just as important as hers but I feel like he was ignored because he male and she’s not. They even said if you had a daughter you’d understand. That makes no sense. I hope they solve the issue they are having because he seems like a loving husband.
He was ignored because he wasn't seeing the argument from her father's perspective. Not only that, but he invalidated her post-partum depression, which is why the father said the things he did.
The fact she was cheating I stopped feeling bad lol
yea how did they skip over that part
same lmao
i mean he have chosen to forgive her and it has nothing to do with the problem btw her father and husband , also it not uncommon especially in America a lot of couples cheat but always forgive i don't know even how XD
anyways i hope i can find a husband like that he is so kind
Kiiana mxmb I mean I feel bad for the guy she cheated on to marry her husband
Same
Whenever the husband started to cry, i already burst out into tears 😭 He seems so lovely. Hope this family bond will keep being stronger day by day!
The husband must be feel so frustrated!
Like what the rapper said, this is a beautiful concern. In my eyes, they really love each other, wife, husband, in-laws too.
But I cannot help myself to cried when father in laws said "Depending on the person's perspective, meaningless word couls hurt each other's feelings. I'm saddened by this whole thing. We've built a wall between us until now, because we didn't talk it out.It's about time.. Let's work things out one by one. Let's put everything behind us now."
I have same problem with my youngest brother too. Hmm
Aigoo. They obviously love each other. Its just the way they expressing themself is the problem. Hoping for the best for the family. Hwaiting !! 🙆
The husband is so handsomee. You can tell that he actually has a good personality and funny
Aww I love the sincerity of the husband,
장인이 입방정이네
딸을 위하는게 아니라 앞길에 걸림돌이네
The wife looks like Mamamoo's Moonbyul, so pretty
Yups i think so
lol when the father in law realizes it was HIS OWN DAUGHTER who went after the guy NOT the son in law "stealing" so to speak his daughter away from the "boyfriend" at the time who worked in "corporate company." hahaha when the father in law heard that *his own daughter* lied saying she was single when she was not all of a sudden the dad realizes he shouldn't be too hard on the man his own daughter chose to marry
Nope, the Korean translation at that moment was "Did you really had to mention that?"
@@bruh7130 Thats your Korean translations fault that it’s wrong so why don’t you work for them instead to fix it
@@dw-oc7uj Aggressive much? I was literally pointing out a misconception
@@bruh7130 i was just stating the obvious what’s your problem? why are you so triggered lol
@@dw-oc7uj who's the one being triggered tho
The husband is just too kind
I really understand the son-in-law. He views them as his family so it must have been hard to hear him say those words. Its like his own parent said that they don't care about him.
What a loving emotional husband. She's very lucky and I hope her family sees that
남편 맘 넘 이해된다
아버지가 무시가 깔려있네...
앞부분만 볼때는 설마설마했는데
뒤에 보니 딱이네