Please help me be free from house chores and childrearing.[Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.01.21]
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- Please help me be free from house chores and childrearing.[Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.01.21]
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Hello Counselor EP.396
- Guests : Choi Jungwon, Yewon, GFRIEND's Yuju & Umji, Han Taeung.
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친정엄마가 계시다는거 자체가 얼마나 감사한일인지...
저 여자는 언제쯤알게될까요
그냥 세분다 경계선지적지능인듯
모친도 이상하리만큼 착하기만한게..
살기 힘드시겠다 다들 ㅠ
엄마는 아이들이 할일을 대신 해 주는 것이 아니라 아이들이 무언갈 할수있도록 알려주고 기회를 줘야합니다.. 그리고 현실을 인정하는 자세도 필요합니다...
I don't know why I always come back here.... I always end up being so angry
it's just not good for my health ya know
Same😂You know the concern with the girl who hates & drags down her younger sister? My blood pressure got so high that I never watched it again
결혼은 골인이 아니예요. 인간적으로 성숙한 사람이 , 아니 최소한 성숙해지려는 각오를 가지고 있는 사람이 아니면 서로를 불행하게 하고, 주위를 힘들게 하는 것 같아요.
따님은 병원에 도움이 필요한분 같은데 결혼을 시키셨으니...
진짜 어머니 삶이 안쓰러워요.. 안됐어요.. 그런데 딸이 저런 상태인데 쉽게 생각하고 시집을 보낸건 큰 잘못인것 같아요... 엄마가 저러면 아이는 무슨 죄에요..
데려간 남편은요?
@@가시꽃-d7h 솔직히 그분도 나이도 많고 결혼은 하고싶으니 데려간거 아닐까요? 생각보다 더 힘들고 이지경까지인가 싶을것같아요
아들 딸 둘다 지능이 7-8살 정도로 보입니다. 자존감은 진짜 바닥중에 바닥인듯하네요.. 회초리 맞은게 상처라고 몇십년이 지난 지금까지 말하고 다니니 원..
동생이 욕하고 때렸는데 엄마가 자기 뺨을 쳤으니 그렇죠.
그리고 자기용돈 자기가썼는데 맞고.
억울하죠
그당시 천원이면 학용품세트 작은것
지능이..7-8살..ㅜㅜ 너무 행…
동감 👍🏻
벌어진입하고 튀어나온 앞니 불편함
@@전효린-i9n 너 초딩이지
I almost cried at the end, the mother seemed so sad and tired, and the daughter seemed so unhappy. Hope they changed their life a little after the show, besides everything bad and sad that happened, they seemed to care about each other.
If she, the daughter, has a problem with how her mother is feeding/raising her child them she should do it herself.
You were grown enough to marry and have a baby so it's your responsibility to care for the child.
I agree
Omg im getting sick watching this 😭😭😭😭 poor mom
That is not true. Her mother convinced her to get married.
딸이 안됫네요ㅠㅠ 어디 불편한거 같아요 정신적으로......
애들이지능경계인데?
엄마가14살많은남자한테,딸을시집보낸거부터가..문제다
딸이 좀어딘가 모자르게보이네요 ㅠ
this is very complicated, there are so many things wrong
아들은 그냥좀 모자란건데 딸은 4가지도 조온나없고 조온나 모자람
since the beginning I knew the root of the problem was the husband. I mean they clearly don't have a good marriage if he's sleeping in a dorm that's only 30-40 minutes away from the house and she's taking her issues out on her mom. Not going to comment on the son as he just seems like a brat. Tbh I still don't get Korean society on the whole marriage thing. Is it better to be depressed and miserable in a loveless marriage than being alone but value yourself and be happier?
This all start with the father. How come they didn't even talk about the father not fulfill his duty as the head of the family?
Sadly yes, especially in Asian countries which still hold tradition and old perspective that woman will be perfect after she got married and have children (doesn't matter how high her education or how good her career).
Well u dont know if ur marriage is going to be depressed or hopeless.. But here they are wrong from start thinking marriage would cure her depression and also that marrying her with someone 24 years older.. It becomes messy in many ways
@@tingle2323 *14 years
I think both the daughter and son are intellectually challenged.
I think the mother wanted her daughter to get married so that she'll have someone to lean on in the future. And since it seems like both son and daughter are lacking intellectually, they'll have a hard time succeeding in South Korean society. I think that's why the mom married her daughter off.
It seems like the mother taught that she'll rest easier as the years go by knowing that one of her kids will be okay. (The married daughter)
딸이 정신이 오락가락하내 정신병원에 입원치료좀 받아야겟다.어머니 죄송합니다. 딸이 좀 모질라내.어머니가 걱정됩니다. 고민175표 박수치는게 왜 가슴아프지?
얼굴자체가 짜증짜증
사람이 웃고밝게살으려해야 복도들어오지
저얼굴봐요 나라도 10분거리살아도 따로살고싶어지겠다
자식 둘이 지적 장애인 같은데.. 결혼 하면 안될 것 같은데...
Childhood problems always show up in adulthood with issues. She also may struggle with depression worse than she realizes. Depression makes everything feel overwhelming. It's also way too easy to take your frustrations out on those who love you, since you know they will love you no matter what. Everyone has done that at some point.they need to go to therapy individually and together. The jealousy of her daughter probably comes from the fear that her daughter won't love her like she assumes her mom and husband don't. I think that's why she wants another kid (even though that would be disastrous. She just craves love, but has massive resentment.
어머니가 예전부터 고생 많으셨네요
어휴... 눈물 나올거 같다...
This is so many problems. First of all she needs to kick her 35 year old son out he just seems incredibly immature. The daughter seems immature and also rude but i can see that she needs her husband to help her to raise the children and to come home. I imagine her husband is also immature because he lives only 30/40 minutes away but wont come home. Also she claims he nags her and is 14 years older so he probably is a bit bossy and rude to her. Their poor mom has to help all these people. What a mess
the daughter and son are so selfish, the daughter is jealous because her mom and husband loves her child which does not makes sense at all and the son is jealous because her mom is taking care of his sister more than him. Another problem is that the couple can't stand to live together and now they are planning to have another child, I have no idea what they were thinking. Lastly, the daughter and son is so spoiled, they should've known that their mom works day and night to support and raise them alone but they don't think about that and are so selfish.
It's more than that. There seems to be some kind of disability on the mental side for the daughter. I wish people wouldn't try to judge things so superficially.
She looks ill.. Idk what has happened with them in their childhood..
I was raised in a saying that never ever make your parents be heartbroken, someday when you become a parent, you may experience the same fate and it will be very painful. I hope the mom will get the much needed rest she needs.
I feel so mad at the husband, they should've bought him to make him understand how his absence is shattering his entire family. The baby should be his top priority. The daughter is clearly suffering from some sort of depression. The son should stfu and take care of himself, he is 35 for god's sake.
Her mom thought a MARRIAGE would help her w depression? A MARRIAGE?? ...I-
exactly!
You're not the only speechless one here
자녀들이 둘다 경계성 지능장애가 의심 되네요...
딱보니깐 둘다 정상이 아님
아니 장애있는사람갖다가 뭐하냐??? 정신적으로 아픈거같은데 ㄹㅇ
이혼한 남편도 저능아인듯
holy heck FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T HAVE ANOTHER CHILD UNDER THESE CIRCUMSTANCESSSSSSSSSSSSSS
딱봐도 둘다 정상 지능이아닌데
엄마는 모르시는듯
그러게 말입니다.
엄마가 정말 모르시는 걸까요..? 안타깝네요
엄마는 모를수 있을것같아요 옛날분들 너무 모른게 많아요 제 큰애도 ADHD 진단받고 설명을 해도 도저히 이해 못하시는 친정댁과 시댁들 ㅜㅜ 아이크면서 교류하는곳에서 같이 행동을 조심해야하고 교육적행동을 해주셔야하는데(병원에서 어떻게 키워야하는지 양육태도에대해 가르쳐줍니다) 전혀 이해도 못하시니 소리만지르시고 한동안 왕래를 안했네요
여자가 기본적으로 뭔가 부족해 보이는데…
경도 지적장애가 있는듯요…
그리고 정신병인거 같은데……
this got me really emotional because it reminded of my grandmother(maternal) who was treated really badly by her two daughter-in-laws. She was a major part of my childhood and i was really close to her, when she passed away i was just in my teenage years and didnt know what to do because i knew what really degraded her health. Things have not been so good in my mother's house and now my grandfather is also in a critical state but no one cares. If only my fam had not moved out of the place, we would have taken care of them better. I miss my grandma :( She had so many years left to enjoy her life :(
모르죠 저분도.
암을 갖고있는데 건강검진 안한건지
Yujus face is so expressive lol. Want to know how Yuju feels? Look at her face.
zolo ikr 😂😂
I love her 🤧🐶
I don't think they highlighted the important points here. I feel the daughter is deeply scared, her mother even mentioned about depression and what did she do? set her daughter up with an older man! Marrying is not the solution to psychological conditions, they didn't even try to talk about that. I could see the sad, angry and deeply hurt face of the daughter it felt like she had lots to say and the fact that she remembers so many events from her childhood with the date and year says that it deeply hurt her and has contributed to her depression and irritable behavior. About the mum, yes fine she's old and everything but I guess my grandmother or anybody wouldn't complain about taking care of me and my mum, she would voluntarily come and do stuff, well emotions and everything vary with people but yes I feel there has been something really important that has been missed.
The fact that she mentioned her mother didn't love her the way she loves her granddaughter that's sad, that shows she needs love and care these small things from your childhood matters, parenting matters.
이게 정답
결국 결핍이 원인
어머니 14살이나 많은 남자를 왜 애초에 딸한테 소개해줬어요....
친구가 적인거지
우울하게있다고 친구가 남자소개하면괜찮을걸?했다자나요
두마리 토끼를 잡을 수는 없는것 같아요
이영자님 말이 참 와 닫네요
어머님이 먼저 바뀌셔야 해결됫듯,,,,
단호하게 끊을것은 끊어야 이문제가 해결될듯 합니다.
본인 이 판 무덤.....
...why would she think marriage would help with her depression??? ESPECIALLY TO SOME RANDOM DUDE WHO IS 14 YEARS OLDERRRRRRRRR?!!!!!!!!! UGHHH, SMH
제작진 ㅡㅡ 딱 봐도 온전치 못한 분들인데 왜 방송 내보냄?
I am crying god what happened
This is most touching no one in this family are really happy
the daughter def has behavioral problems trauma too i hope they received at least some sort of treatment idk man they rlly need a psychologist in this show
The daughter looks so uncomfortable. She just wants to get out of there. I think fault is on everyone. Not just one person. There is a lot of resentment that has been building up. It’s hard to talk about. Until something tips them over the edge.
산후우울증인데 정신과상담도좋을텐데 부끄러운게아니구.. 부부상담도받으시구..
한부모가정은 자격지심에
절대 지딸 정신과못보냄
자기탓이라할까봐
딸에 대해서 어머니가 제일 잘 아셨을텐데 나이차이가 많은사람에게 결혼을 시키실때 무슨생각이셨는지
If I were that lady I'd kick the son out and only offer to watch the granddaughter twice a week and only allow here daughter to spend one weekend a month over.
All I can see is that, this woman need to feels love, support and a positive motivation from her mother when she was a child. She might’ve been through lot of trauma experience from her childhood which is alerting her not wanting to raise her own daughter like her mother raising her. (I wonder if her dad is around, they didn’t mention dad.) This woman, her Husband who’s need to be there for her wife and daughter. (Again not showing love and affection)
Mum who’s need to say NO and let her old grownup children doing thing on their own independently to overcome their own problems.. All they need is affection and gratitude.
@24:48 sometimes you just want someone to hold your hand 😭😭😭😭 i melted
아들딸...지적능력이 좀 모자른듯...
우리나라 무모님들은 자식한들한테 질질 끌려다니는 경우가 많다!
끊어야 할땐 확실히 끊어내야 하는데 그렇지 못하니까 이런 현상이 나타나는 것이다!!!!
KBC 에게 경고합니다
이런거 올리지마세요. 나라망신입니다. 저게 아들과 따님이 병원을가야할 정도인데 뭐하는겁니까? 수많은 외국인들이 보고있습니다. 이건 나라망신이예요.
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
저 집은 아들 딸이 모자르네.. 지능검사를 먼저 받아봐야 할 듯.
부모가 먹고살기 힘들어 열심히 사신건 맞지만 아이들을 먹고살기 힘든다는 말로써 자신의 힘듬만 위로받으려 하시고 아이들에게 무지함을 인정하지 않는다면 서로 갈등만 생기겠죠
멋짐
어쩌냐ㅜ 지능이 모자라네ㅜ
남편이란 사람은 도대체 가정을 꾸릴 생각이 있나 궁금합니다 저 딸의 맘의병은 남편인듯 보이네요 여자로서 사랑받지 못하는 맘이 소개시킨 엄마에게로 화를 표출하는 것 같아 안타깝네요
30후반나이 먹고뭔.....상처가 있으면 부모님 볼생각하질말지 핑계로 밖에 안들린다 정신에 문제있으신거 같은데 정신과 한번 가보셨으면
The daughter needs professional help and Mom needs to learn to say NO! To her kids and son in law or they will never change!
omoo yuju and umji are so cute omggg😭😭😭
이야... 이건 진짜 1년 후에도 답이 뭔지 모르겠군,,, 근데,,, 유주언니랑 무지언니 울면 저도 울게 되자나요 ㅠㅠ
보면서 저 남매 지능이 낮아 보이는데 저 엄마분 어깨에 짐이 무거우시네요.답답하네요.
아주머니..너무 좋으신분이세요.
그런데 자녀가 많이 부족하군요.
끝까지 안고가시든 내쳐서 혼자사시든지 선택하세요..자녀는 변할수없는 태생입니다
저어미가 선택에 책임지기 싫어하네요
선택에 용기가필요해요
자기가선택한거에 자기가책임져야지
여기나온건 지살고싶어나온건데
엠씨가 따로살아라해도걱정되서어쩌지못힐다고
딸을 결혼시켜서 치울려다 독박쓴거네,,
헉
정말 미안한 얘긴데......저 아들하고 딸.....
정신연령이 초등생 수준인거 같습니다. 부모한테 혼나고 서운하지 않은 사람 없지요.
준건 기억못하고 서운하게 해준것만 기억하니....
트라우마
@@감기.장염걸리지마 아들러 심리학에서는 트라우마를 "그냥 하기 싫어서 대는 핑계"로 치부하고 있습니다.
@@감기.장염걸리지마 트라우마는 사지가 잘린다거나 하는 등의 너무 끔찍한 범죄나 사고를 당한 사람이 겪는 증상이고.
@@gwajadanji 옳으신 말씀.....그정도는 되어야 트라우마죠. 거의 죽을뻔한....
@@gwajadanji 아니그든ㅋ 왕따 등의 스몰트라우마가 쌓이면 전쟁같은 빅트라우마보다 무서운거임
They seem to have some problem in the past and it keeps on building until they feel frustrated with each other. They should open up to each other and forgive.
And the children is old enough to be independent, they should be more thoughtful to the mother
I think that girl are emotional unstable when she got depression her mother set up a marriage with an old man that she’s unhappy with it and being so stressed .
hoping both of them are happy and at peace, now! Maa, I am rooting for you, please take care of yourself and do the things you want to do !!!
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남편사랑
the daughter is suffering from post partum depression. why are their poeple who is very independent to their mother. the mother should live away from her son and daughter they are adults to take care of themselves. my goodness!!!!
The kids need professional help seriously this isn’t something this show can help
딸 인상 자체가 항상 짜증이 있네. 왜이렇게 인상 찌뿌리고 있어. 행동도 이상하고.. 딸 얼굴 행동 보는거만으로도 짜증난다..
기질자체가 예민한데
받은용돈으로 학용품산건데 맞고
동생이 욕하고 때린건데 자기가 뺨맞으니
우울증왔는데
그걸 못고치고 결혼했는데 남편도 소리만질러서
그런거같아요
생긴것도 복나게 생겻지만 대가리에 든것도없고 모자라보이잖아요
저런 얼굴로 표정까지저러니 들어올복도 달아날듯
parenting is so hard i swear i won't even trust myself as a good mother since i always give in to my brother's child and i feel bad scolding them god i wanna blame the mom for not raising her kids right but idek if i can do a good job
I feel pity towards the mother. Her life has been so hard from the start. How could her husband doesnt give her expenses. It's the husband job to fulfill life expenses of his family. And yet her children doesnt give her any appreciation of her mom's hardwork. At that old age, and still have a dozen work to do and her daughter nagged her so much. It should be the daughter to give her mother's life expenses now. Take it for a gratitude to her mother for the one who has raised her until now.
교육ㅡ미성숙한인간을 성숙하게만드는것
And that’s what pisses me off, people don’t give their parents enough credits. Their parents try so hard to raise them
and all they do is sit there complaining how tough their life is for them. Nothing is harder than being a parent, if you think that being hit and punished as kid is worst then parenting then I believe that’s a concern! Btw I came here for GFRIEND ❤️
Her children seem like they depended on their mother for everything while growing up and even now that their older they still do, the daughter shouldn’t have had a child if she couldn’t raise it on her own or w/ the help of her husband the mother deserves time to do the things she would like without having to be there for her children almost 24/7 hopefully the daughter gives her a break
Why am I even watching this? Ijust watched this on TV a while ago.
Yvy0
나만 딸보다 아들이 훨씬 더 무섭냐??.. 눈이 불쾌한 골짜기같음
First.. yes it is really true..its her mom fault when they still a kid. Eventhough u mad at her, it is still wrong to treat her like that. She a single mom n raise u guys by herself is really hard. I can see her mom is tired of everything. She wish that she can get out from this pressure n why u make ur mom take care of ur daughter when u want ur baby girl grow up as the way u want. I pity of her mom. Stuck in the meddle n no one give her a hands. How could them😡
from one point, the whole family needs to see a counsellor or maybe psychologist including the husband. even now, you can see and sense the depression of the daughter.
All I can say is, “What a mess...”
하....총체적인 난국이다
딸은 정신과부터 가야될듯~
지능도 부족하고 피해의식에
자존감 바닥에 온갖 부정적 생각들ᆢ
얼굴에 불평 불만이 가득하고 남편도
저런 아내를 좋아하겠는가??
외모 얘기는 좀 그렇지만ᆢ토끼 이빨도
보기 좀 불편하다
Trouble kids!!!!!!! Just leave them alone mom 😡😡😡
This is why i dont want any children even if i do get married😌😌
😔😔
Opposite emoji 😏🤙🤙
It's a common way of growing up in Asia..i experience it too.. the daughter just won't gRow up that's whY..shE tries to resent her parents w/o thinking of why her mom is being like that...i always apologize to my mom after such episode..mY mom would hug me n explain to me..why she did that..she doesn't hate me..she did it out of love so that i learn to respect and be a good nurture human. In Asia we value our parents very much..they r like the second thing we have after God. Elderly too, so even when u r mad at the Elderly u may never Raise ur voice or speak rudely to them. Unlike Westerners I usually saw how most of them r quite rude to their elderly..like they always talk back n speak rudely to their elders n even their parents....yeah..and me and my bro..we fight..hit..scReam at each other even until now.. he's 3 years older than me..n im 24 as of now..but we r cool..we nvr really apologize..cause we don't really need to...we get back alright evEn after few minutes... it's like nothing ever happened..all Things aside..she did wrong..i did too.. Everything's alright..🤷
Omg for the first time i'm a little bit early:D
어머니,두 남매 데리고 병원 가서 정신 연령 감정 받아 보세요
진단이 시급합니다
지적장애로 보입니다
I teared up anybody else??
I refuse to believe people can continue to blame their parents for their personality/behavior in the present bar the trauma wasn't caused by something illegal. If you know you have a problem with someone talk to a therapist to find ways to change it. This passing the blame onto the parents just to justify bad behavior is getting old. Take responsibility for your own freaking life.
This family is so broken those kids are so selfish and rude, I feel sorry for the mom, but she has to be strong and reject the things her kids ask for. Also it was a mistake set her daughter up with that man, she looks mortify and upset, I bet they got married cause she got pregnant, people in korea need to stop thinking marriage is somehow a solution ...
Daughter and son-in-law clearly trying to fix their marriage with babies even though they already can't stand each other to the point where they don't live together. If you're resentful of one child for monopolising your husband's attention, just imagine how bad it's going to be when you have two. Plus she'll have to do all the work, or the grandmother will, and the husband gets to be the ~fun~ absentee parent who only sees them twice a week to give them hugs and presents and is never there for the important stuff.
14.10.'21..2 yrs past and hope she/they can be more grateful and respectful to their mother. If this goes on and the baby hears and sees how she treats her mother(grandmother), she will do the same on her 1 day. Beware.. from the looks of it, i understand the husband not wanting home.
The daughter resents her mother for the choice of husband but at the same time, she could have said she didn't want to get married to him. She also needs to set aside her differences with her husband. No marriage is perfect and no marriage is easy. It takes two to tango and it also takes two for a marriage to work. I feel the daughter and her husband need their own session to discuss their own problems. I feel that's the one way they can relive her mother of this huge burden they have bestowed on her.
They both need to let their mother go and live her life. She has done so much and enough for you, that at her old age, she should be resting and not running around taking care of over grown babies. They need to move out of the apartment complex and stay on their own. People fail to realize that the more you trouble someone, the more they resent you and get tired of you. Her daughter is a bully and the son is a whole different case, sigh. Don't let your mother drown in sorrow at her age. Let her live so that she can live longer for you. Treat her well as you let her live, so that you don't regret your actions at the end of the day or you begin to wish you had done things differently.
I am happy the mother came on the show. So many things are wrong in their family. I just pray she can summon up courage to tell her daughter and son NO. She's one human being and can't divide herself to be there for two people at the same time. She needs to pull her sons ears and let him know that he can't live with her forever.
.........she has something on her tooth, lmao...........AGHHHH, IT'S BOTHERING ME X"D
a message to ALL young adults....think! really seriously think b4 starting a family!! i damn hate to see tis problem happens everyday!!!!
How can they treat they mom like that..just wacth n hear tge story make me cry...
when she said why was she so ''hurt as a child'' made me roll my eyes so hard that i could see my brain cells leaving my brain
i used to get beaten even when i didn't do anything wrong and i honestly wouldn't change anything about that and she's over here complaining about a single slap on her cheek, wow, amazing
if anything, her mom should've beat her more
she's so spoiled it's disgusting
관상 표정 자체가 부족한 사람처럼 보이네
I couldn't even finish this video I had to stop at the part 16:16 coz I swear somebody has to hold me back or else I will have to SMACK THE RESPECT BACK INTO HER
엄마가 고구마네 휴 답답
I really enjoy this😊
딸이 우울해해서 결혼시켰다잖아요ㅡㅡ
우울해서=우울증
우울증증상=부정적
오냐오냐 키운것도 문제였지만,남매가 심한의존적인 성향이네요 스스로 할수있는게 없다는것도 문제고
딸이 남편에게 의지를 많이하고 싶었던거 맞고!!!! 남편이랑도 문제가 있어보여요 엄마한테 하는 행동을 남편한테도 하는게 문제여서 주말부부로 지내는듯 하네요 그래서 엄마에게 의지를 더한거 같네요 동생도 문제임 저나이에 스스로 할수있는게 없다는 적당한 독립적인 성향이 좋아요 동생이 결혼해도 의존적인 성향을 많이보일꺼 같네요 경계성 지능인거 같기도 하고 성격이 독특하기도 하고 신경질적이여서 짜증도 많이내고
님 들어보세요
애미가 애들 아빠없는게 불쌍해서 시키질않았대요
갑자기 35년간 배운게없는데 독립해라?
The problem starts from their childhood. She wasn't there. She was working the whole time. I mean, she had no other option, but as kids you don't really understand that. They might've felt neglected, but at the same time she would spoil them. I'm pretty sure the mom would nag about: I wasted my life on you guys, I didn't live my life. SHE is the one who also wanted kids. Imma leave the husband outta this, cuz what a trashy person. But when you do have kids, it is a lot of responsibility. You can't start nagging after cooking for them. Or getting them stuff they never wanted, but still appreciate and then nag afterwards. A lot of parents take care of their children, as if that's not what parents are supposed to do.
Both the son and the daughter are immature for their age. They seem to have the mentality of a 20 year old. That complicates things. But it is even worse that she ruined the daughter's life and matched her up. She should have just left her by herself. She needed therapy, not a nagging man boy.
어미도 저능아니 정신치료 대신 남편한테 떠넘기려다 봉변당함
@돔비 yeah, everyone is contributing to the situation in their own way, and not in a good way. If they could take some time away from each other, that would kind of help.